She thinks of herself as different not better. She explained it well. Great woman

I've noticed women who grew up outside the big cities usually have a "Let men be men" approach toward life. So refreshing.

@AiSongsmith_13

Жыл бұрын

I guess they are not exposed to feminist ideology

@thulimashinini9012

Жыл бұрын

I share the same sentiment but I was raised in JHB . So I think it really doesn’t matter where u grew up. I must say though, Im South African raised by Nigerian father . My mom married a Nigerian man when u about 3 . My biological dad is Xhosa from Eastern Cape . Met him when I eas 21 . My Nigerian dad raised me to value my body and respect men. I’m 30 with no child. But my Nigerian dad have been hounding me to get married it’s literally like Nigerian movie where a girl gets old and they start pushing her to marry 😂😂😂. Can’t just pick a husband from streets 😂😂😂

@thulimashinini9012

Жыл бұрын

At 23 I was already managing my parents business . I didn’t even become an intern or nothing literary jumped to management . We in retail business I deal with so many customers a day. I try to handle every situation as best I can . My parents been grooming me to handle businesses from young. And I’m the black sheep of the family. So it’s truly how u raised and not where u come from. I’ve seen girls firm emakhaya start prostituting because of situations. I’ve seen broken emakhaya girls that stab their husband . So it’s more who raised u .

@thulimashinini9012

Жыл бұрын

Sbahle has been raised by both South African parents and she turned out great because of both parents being mentally ready to raise their kids. Being a parent is not easy u need to be intentional and ready to have kids not mistakes . When u make a mistakes u raise kids and u raise yourself . When u ready u actually raise your kids to be great human beings .

She’s refreshingly natural and easygoing. A woman of virtue. Rare in our generation.

Thank you for tuning in. Rest in Peace to Kiernan "AKA" Forbes and Tebello "Tibz" Motsoane. Please share this video, and share positive energy this Monday morning... blessings 🙏🏽❤️

@thokobanda5991

Жыл бұрын

She's lovely, I wish all ladies cud listen to her

@peterntuli7074

Жыл бұрын

My Minimalist Mlotshwa, You need to buy more clothes bro, lol 😂

@godpenuel

Жыл бұрын

@@peterntuli7074 become a paying member so I can have some money

@sakhamuzi_atuswe

Жыл бұрын

​@Penuel The Black Pen this was very heartwarming for me on many parts. Being from around Northern Natal. I'll research about uBaba kaSbahle and the street that's named after eLokshini because there only Bhekuzulu Location in Vryheid. But great work as always Nkulunkulu wamaPenualist❤️🥹🥹.

Penuel’s fearlessness has given the guests the courage to fully be themselves and not try to sound politically correct.

Hello Penuel and crew. I know you are gonna see this so please consider my suggestion.I am from Zambia, really enjoy the show. Your following across Africa, probably in other parts of the too is growing, so please consider adding subtitles for the parts where your guests use local languages. I feel we are missing out on great insights lost in translation. Thank you.

You can tell Pennuel was a charmer back in his day

@houseoflyrics_2022

Жыл бұрын

I laughed when she said that🤣

@veritya1

Жыл бұрын

Man's got 6 kids with 4 women😂😂

@projectxtechnologies9440

Жыл бұрын

That's the beauty of being smart bruuh

She definitely is creme d la crème and I'm glad she knows it. Confident, intelligent and beautiful

@BlaqpantherMelanistic

Жыл бұрын

Love it...

Bro your podcast is such a breath of fresh air and being from Ladysmith and seeing my neighbors from Newcastle doing something so divine is so refreshing . Big ups to you and all the guests you bring . Sbahle is such a beautiful soul a true reflection of just how beautiful Zulu and South African women are

@User-uq1pj

Жыл бұрын

Awusukume uMnambithi ume nge nyawo! Incredibly pleasing to see our neighbors do divine things as you say. After watching this I felt I could have listened to these two speak for alot longer. If the podcast was 4 hours even I would watch it from start to finish

uSbahle ukhuliseke kahle. Ngiyaluthanda uhambo lakhe. I mean for the fact that ukhulele esithenjini. She is an amazing young woman. And uyambona ukuthi usaya kude empilweni. I like her mindset. When I grow up, I want to merry a woman like her☺️☺️☺️. Thanks God Pen for the great interview🙏🏾🙏🏾

That analogy of the man on the other side of the river, the one that builds and invites you to go to the side of the river, is exactly what I'll tell my daughter..... Profound.

I found the part about the father advicing her not to be in a polygamous marriage very interesting, because he would advice the boy child to be in one. So if all the fathers don't want their daughters to be in polygamous marriages, but expect their sons to be polygamists, then which women will these men marry, because already there's a conflict?

@acceptinglife6491

Жыл бұрын

Ya nhe

@nontsikelelolanga5729

Жыл бұрын

The boys will marry girls whose father's told them nothing🤷🏾

@ashleyw9852

Жыл бұрын

Exactly makes no sense

@projectxtechnologies9440

Жыл бұрын

Brooo

@marianengwenani7781

8 ай бұрын

He probably knew that he loved one wife more than others and he didn’t want his daughter be the one that’s not loved more than the other

Refreshing to hear that this narrative of woman still exists👌🏼 wholesome.

I love the way she described her mother, the type of person she is I wonder if there are still women like that out there if my generation will ever find that in women now

She’s everything she thinks she is and more. Loved her. Resonated with her being a traditional woman and made me feel okay with being one.

Sbahle is drop dead gorgeous and very content with her self. She is the gal who thinks she is. Crémé dè lá crémè

This is my favourite video of all time on this channel 😭 I’ve been praying for that polygamy/polyamory topic forever and shorty delivery her brilliance and her captivating energy made me have the best Monday of 2023 👑✅ keep up the brilliant work , I can’t wait to engage with your own take Pen about the dynamics of polyamory and Marriage.

This goes to the list of my fave installments. I love Sibahle's mind. It feels like a warm hug seeing someone you can resonate with. Nowadays, such mentality is like a foreign thing. Thank you team and Sibahle. ♥️♥️

Such a relatable person and so captivating with her words, mind and radiating beauty. A woman in her divine femininity and masculinity. Lovely episode Pen🫶🏾💕

@projectxtechnologies9440

Жыл бұрын

Masculinity? Ifvthats the case then that's a red flag

Sbahle Jobe ka Matshane, Thank you for coming to the Penuel Show, you are a beautiful woman, you are intelligent, self aware and well spoken. It was nice to listen to your story. Thank you God Pen, thank you for bringing another woman to the show, I am here for more female voices on your show. 🙏🏾🎉

@luciossithole5487

Жыл бұрын

Aluta MamJobe economic freedom our Aim

Wow what an epic interview, yazi sometimes we judge people by just seeing them on socials and never think for a sec that there is more to them than what you see. Sbahle dropped some gems here.

Its refreshing to see someone light up when they talk about their childhood upbringing, parents love and all that🥺♥️ Great Episode Pen✍️

She is everything she thinks she is and more. ❤❤

this really changed how i view the world about women thank you sis sbahle

That shelaring analogy might have just changed my entire outlook, very lovely episode man.

Beautiful episode that speaks to the softer and most critical issues around the importance of father figures, familial stability and the family unit as a contributant to social cohesion.

I can't wait for it to end, so I can download it😁 the guest is mouthwatering 👑 with due respect.

Lol the sweater moment was funny, what a nice interview

What a beautiful episode...Thank you Penuel👏...Sbahle is beautiful, intelligent and so refreshing 🎉❤

It's funny how people are only interested in stories that they can relate to and not how other people live or were brought and how that shaped their perspective in life.

This was a great conversation, Penuel and Sbahle. Keep up the amazing work! Respect from Canada.

"A female with a Rich mind is exposed by how they handle a conversation, especially with someone of the opposite sex" - OTMS. she is a rare breed and she is fully aware, and that just makes it more beautiful.

So happy to find myself on this side of KZread, new subscriber here.

Interesting mind from Sbahle, Great questions from from God Pen. Layers on layers. #penuelshow grow!!

Jobe kaMatshana sisonke mntasekhaya👊"go getters"👏what a goddess🔥🙏our Queen👑💃keep shining✨💞

By far the best podcast interview I have seen in a while. Really goes to show that you can immediately have a deep misconception of someone based solely on their looks. Great and Genuine interview.

Pen you are a good conversationalist, thanks for the interview, and thanks to uSbahle this was really amazing 🙏🙏🙏

This lady is the best. Well balanced. Smart. Such refreshing perspectives on issues. Wow... i can only wish her the best in her life. She has it all... beauty, brains and all

I watched this twice! Loved it..

Beautiful woman and beautiful interview. She’s such a wife. Brought up well. Very traditional woman. Very rare to find nowadays. Thank you for the interview, Panuel.

A beautiful conversation with a phenomenal queen. We share the same sentiments, the booty issue does a number on us. I used to hide my body in cargo pants and wore black clothes so Look thinner. A few years back I started to embrace myself and I am exploring colorful clothes and it feels so good. May we never bully one another and live in our light, together we are uniquely beautiful.

This is the second female entrepreneur coming out of Newcastle.. first it was Nonhlanhla from kushinda caterers who I know personally is a brilliant entrepreneur in the catering space, now im introduce to Sibahle in construction.Big up Newcastle and thanks Pen for bringing people from Newcastle giving them a platform.

Amazing woman!!! My version of a virtuous woman. Amazing interview Pen

I am laughing at how he is trying to avoid talking about the “hotness” in the beginning 😂😂 I was at Rhodes between 2003 and 2007, and the girls were crazy about him!! I have no idea if that was reciprocated though. We did not know each other, but I knew of him. It’s great to see him do well on this platform.

I love you Sbahle, ngyaqala ukukbona and I'm glad I came across this conversation now I know I'm not crazy with how I feel about relationships because we share the same sentiment. Let the man lead bakithi❤❤❤

Some woman wont love this convo, big up Sbahle you're a good woman.

This podcast is my 2nd favorite after podcast n chill

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 respect to you Sbahle. Another excellent interview Pen👌🏾

Wow! What a beautiful and a great woman! Very informative and very intelligent warm and amazing 👏

I find myself smiling all the way, I love her stories it really sounds like a movie🎥💜💜

Awesome lady, sure would love to meet her!.

This was a good conversation.I hope you bring her back.This was also educational, for some of us who want to be polygamists.

@Anaana-jl5kg

Жыл бұрын

🤔??? “Want to be a polygamist.” I guess you’re a man?! If not I have many questions.

Beauty with brains, very attractive attributes. Beautiful interview, loved the topic

Oh I love the story of her dad thought her about different types of men. I think I'll steal that for my future kids 😅

Sbahle :) always a pleasure hearing and learning from her

Love how she speaks about her father 💗

Interviewing this beauty was a masterstroke. Well done Penuel

It’s so good to see people from NN doing great this. I felt connected to this .. I might be biased 😅. I just loved how she is expressing herself. You can’t help but admire. The way she spoke highly about her parents ( That’s was gold) Keep up the great work … I would personally like to be involved with any project to give back to NN community

Mine dad passed in 2020/04. That year was a bad one. She's a beautiful young woman and brains too. I love her. ❤️

Penuel brought my crush on his show and now I can't even go back to studying

She’s refreshing. Beautiful and smart. Love her !❤

Loved this episode with Sbhahle, made me understand her even more ❤️

Why are people from Newcastle so good looking.

Out here catching feelings, she's really the hottest girl in newcastle

Enjoyed this one too as always, keep it up bro, sibhekile siyafunda!!

The black P in the building...great interview likewise

Just subscribed to this channel. Great content

You are really good at this, Ta God.🙏

Lovely lady, siyabonga Penuel ngokusilethela abantu esingabazi....

The Penuel Show with Sbhahle Sithole 00:00 - Intro 00:05 - Show begins 02:45 - Biography 06:55 - My parents 13:35 - Upbringing 19:00 - High school 22:15 - THAT high school friend 30:05 - Tertiary 32:40 - Polygamy 42:05 - Relationships 44:55 - A father's lessons 47:30 - My understanding of polygamy 49:05 - Father's passing 53:30 - Penuel's thoughts 1:00:00 - Standards set by my father 1:06:25 - How I make money 1:13:35 - Perceptions I've experienced 1:21:15 - My online brand 1:27:45 - Closing comments 1:34:22 - ENDS

@katlegomolepo6830

Жыл бұрын

The comment I was looking for 😅

@lehlogonolopapo3119

Жыл бұрын

Star

@headhonchotheone9041

Жыл бұрын

Thanks

@toxicteezy8310

Жыл бұрын

❤❤thanks

@thecomicsmediahouse

Жыл бұрын

You are a blessing

Such a beautiful conversation, I expected some slay queen esc convo but to my surprise I was blown away.

Very informative. I liked it.. down to earth africain lady.

I love how she was raised with traditional principles...im seriously considering isthembu🙌

@Vv-fl2rm

Жыл бұрын

It’s your money and financial / leadership that should dictate whether you should have isithembu. We have way to many broke, average and below average dusties thinking they can attempt isithembu and it’s hilarious. The most important aspect of polygamy is money: which will then allow you to conduct isithembu in a comfortable way whilst you protect/ lead and provide

Such a breath of fresh air…. Shamoya yomntwana

Hi there Beautiful interview. Sibz Jolie is misunderstood.

Sibz Jolie. What a Beauty!!!

She made made blush 😊 throughout the interview, we need such women who understand hard work and look as beautiful ngathi akaboshi... Thanks for the lessons

@projectxtechnologies9440

Жыл бұрын

Don't be a simp dude

Sbahle’s dad didn’t do all this with a salary 😂😂. Look at her facial expressions when asked about dads money.

@projectxtechnologies9440

Жыл бұрын

I noticed too but i let it go. Glad you mentioned it, my thoughts have been validated lol

@anathingalo3238

Жыл бұрын

😂Cant be Salary..

@itbelikethat914

6 ай бұрын

Guluva level🤘🏾👀

Thanks for not editing any of the things happened in the background, we feel you are not hiding anything from us💯💌👌🏿

I like her mindset ❤and she’s a hottie 🔥🔥

Thanks guys for this episode..there is much impact on a father role or contribution to their kids

Prolly one of the best episides Ive seen

I dont think it get better than me.what a line...

@Vv-fl2rm

Жыл бұрын

The beautiful words of a confident woman raised and affirmed by a loving father and family, secure and confident in herself and not worried about what the next person may say about that❤. Society needs more of this.

Finally watched it quite refreshing 🖤... Keep going Sbahle hope to meet you one day.

Truly speaking, I just want to know where she bought her shoes !

This was one of the wonderful shows. Siyabonga Bhut’ Pen and the team🎉🎉❤

What a refreshing episode.

06:15 “Akukho ndlovu yasindwa ngumboko wayo” ✔️

Muhle losisi yoh! Umlilo 🔥🔥🔥

Penuel, you are asking the WRONG people the wrong questions. I don't understand why MEN do this. There are traditional women out here, go seek them. However, if you're trying to make a point abut modern women, start deconstructing CAPITALISM. CAPITALISM enables "choice" driven economy because people are able to practice individual freedoms in a free market place. If you don't want women like this then CREATE a country for the traditional women to thrive like Dubai.

@mzwakhemsimango4459

Жыл бұрын

🤔

@suzygirl1843

Жыл бұрын

@@mzwakhemsimango4459 Something to ponder? Likewise, Africans in traditional clothing filled the Moses Mabida stadium for the coronation of the Zulu King. There are people who want the traditional life but are African men providing that? It's really up to you since women do not build.

I appreciate her honesty at the very least. Other than most other women who try to put on a facade of purity.

Wow! I love how your crew are so honest with the jersey. it shows that they are learning honesty and love from you. i hope this will be your most liked video, Penuel. 😄

Very educational experience 🎉 she is smart woman

I hate how our minds have been subjected to the standards yokuthi if a chick is that beautiful automatically they not that smart, Thought I was just gonna listen for 5 mins and carry on browsing, coz I'm like what's Penuel doing manje, only to find myself listening to the whole interview amazed at how beautiful, intelligent and smart Sbahle is and how humble she is, Big up to that🙏 I found myself so proud of being I ndoda yom Zulu in this country, and how we where brought and just our customs

Wow Sibahle, banqabile osisi abafana nawe. You are amazing

"Aggression Properly Channeled Becomes a lot of Flaws" being raise tough removes all those Flaws it's like peeling of a fruit first before eating it😎🙏🏻

Great Insight.

Such a wonderful conversation, I love how beautifully Sbahle speaks about love. I just wish she could voice her thoughts and truth more confidently and forget about being politically correct. Overall really enjoyed the episode, thank you for sharing 🎉

@Vv-fl2rm

Жыл бұрын

She did voice her thoughts truthfully ( her truth), you think she was worried about being politically correct because she wasn’t speaking from a point of negativity, bitterness, pain and controversy. Which is what society thrives on. Fortunately that’s not her story. ♥️

@happym3585

Жыл бұрын

@@Vv-fl2rm funny how you immediately thought my comment was based off a lack a negativity, bitterness and pain from the conversation, says A LOT about you nvm society as a whole. Check yourself 🌻

I hope Mseleku comes into the show someday🥺❤️.

@hulisanisiphugu3327

Жыл бұрын

@The penuel show

Sbahle is 🔥. Damnit!!!