Partner left. How to deal with the void? || Acharya Prashant, at DTU (2023)

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Video Information: 23.12.22, DTU, Delhi
Context:
~ What is the right way to deal with the void?
~ How to not be hurt?
~ What to do when loved ones leave?
~ How to overcome a heartbreak?
~ How to move on in life?
~ How to not be lonely?
~ What is the right thing to do?
~ Why do we get attracted to the same person?
~ What happened to your high school sweetheart?
~ How to not be attached?
Music Credits: Milind Date
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#acharyaprashant #heartbreak #void #loneliness

Пікірлер: 98

  • @AcharyaPrashant
    @AcharyaPrashant Жыл бұрын

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  • @abheekbansal9744
    @abheekbansal9744 Жыл бұрын

    I liked the way the person asked the question. He was fumbling but still managed to ask what he wanted to without the fear of being judged by others or the urgency of the situation. He took his own time and I learned something from him today.

  • @niharikaagr78

    @niharikaagr78

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes and that was because he really wants to get out of it now, he doesn't want to play a victim anymore, he wants to move ahead and he had trust that this person could be the best to give the right advice

  • @sonalibhattacharya1558
    @sonalibhattacharya1558 Жыл бұрын

    We get attracted to the one with the same level of conciousness as ours. Raise your game to outgrow the one you desire. If there is something you want to stick to, stick to the truth or a greater purpose in life.

  • @achilles_3139

    @achilles_3139

    Жыл бұрын

    Nobody,tells how to raise the level of your consciousness.

  • @vamshiakena

    @vamshiakena

    Жыл бұрын

    @@achilles_3139 he said many times, may be you don't understood!!

  • @NitinYadav-bs2sw

    @NitinYadav-bs2sw

    Жыл бұрын

    @@achilles_3139 gain more and more knowledge by reading good books, travelling

  • @achilles_3139

    @achilles_3139

    Жыл бұрын

    @@vamshiakena what he said though?

  • @meltherecafe2394

    @meltherecafe2394

    Жыл бұрын

    Well said. Sukta.

  • @joyetahazra2864
    @joyetahazra2864 Жыл бұрын

    The purpose of life is elevation of consciousness.

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Жыл бұрын

    Growing out of your partner might be a sign of maturity and it also might be a sign of compassion. Often in the name of love we just impose ourselves on someone who was unfortunate enough to once say yes to us.

  • @gurushanthaiahms2121
    @gurushanthaiahms2121 Жыл бұрын

    We don't get attracted to everyone .We get attracted to similar level consciousness. To forget someone who left you,elevate your consciousness ,then s/he no longer haunts you through memory. Example: We don't get attracted to Hollywood actress we don't even feel jealous Bec we know inside that they are above our range. Similarly we don't get jealous of people who are below our range. Hence increase the level of your game then that person is no longer troublesome to you!!!

  • @kartik-tc6xw

    @kartik-tc6xw

    Жыл бұрын

    How do we increase that though ?

  • @gurushanthaiahms2121

    @gurushanthaiahms2121

    Жыл бұрын

    Elevating your consciousness means : work upon your faultlines,workupon your goal,don't have any free time. Free time is where you are getting knocked out .Be extremely occupied with your aim.Along with that daily listen to acharya ji .Slowly you will heal yourself . Follow wim Hof method if you want it has healing effect on body and mind.

  • @mrsjaneeyree7148

    @mrsjaneeyree7148

    Жыл бұрын

    What are the some examples of we dont get jealous of people below our range like hollywood actress and miss world in above our range?

  • @joyetahazra2864
    @joyetahazra2864 Жыл бұрын

    Best advice ever!!! Literally eye opening... blessed to have you AP 🙏

  • @joyetahazra2864
    @joyetahazra2864 Жыл бұрын

    Gratitude Guruji ❤️🙏

  • @jayantchouhan9981
    @jayantchouhan9981 Жыл бұрын

    We often feel a void and suffering when we break up our relationship with someone, time passes and if you are still lingering on that person only shows that you haven't grown as a person, it may be for a reason that you two guys broke up, in order to grow to pursue your self interests,remembering the past and dwelling on it shows that you are still on the same consciousness level that you were prior.

  • @achilles_3139

    @achilles_3139

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks.

  • @shubhamkundu9969
    @shubhamkundu9969 Жыл бұрын

    One of the best listening sessions for teenagers and youth who are having same problem of sticking with memories related to break up or being incapable of wiping out someone from memory. Indeed helpful . Gratitude Achariya ji.

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Жыл бұрын

    If you really have love for someone, you make the sky available to them, you let them fly free. Is that not an expression of love? ❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes I feel so overwhelmed and grateful that I have an access of this level of wisdom. I am grateful for this grace....🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 And I feel pity on who doesn't understand this.

  • @NitinYadav-bs2sw

    @NitinYadav-bs2sw

    Жыл бұрын

    Haha same. They don't even want to understand

  • @achilles_3139

    @achilles_3139

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey can you please tell how we actually elevate consciousness?

  • @abhigyan3476

    @abhigyan3476

    Жыл бұрын

    But how do we elevate consciousness?

  • @nehaatwal1462

    @nehaatwal1462

    Жыл бұрын

    @@achilles_3139 Reading Good books, scriptures, by working upon yourself, not indulge yourself in people, acts that decline your conscious level.

  • @achilles_3139

    @achilles_3139

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nehaatwal1462 basically removing unwanted parts of yours,right ? Thanks for helping.

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Жыл бұрын

    The ones you like at one level of maturity in life are just not the ones you will like at another level of maturity in life and that's an auspicious sign. That simply means that you are outgrowing the world.

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Жыл бұрын

    This man is sharing this great wisdom to the youth. People will not get benefit from it, rather than they will start fighting on whether the word Acharya is appropriate for him or not. I find it a bit ridiculous sometimes. I didn't even care that he uses acharya in his videos, when I found his videos. I felt sad that why I was so late to find him. That's it.

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, thank you so much sir for this wonderful wisdom you delivered to us... And I apologize if ever I have shown this kind of foolishness to anybody.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Gratitude ❤️

  • @krapeshgawle
    @krapeshgawle Жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir for bringing this deep knowledge of Vedant to our lives so we can get solutions to our problems 🙏

  • @daraiusdubash
    @daraiusdubash Жыл бұрын

    You get attracted to someone who is almost at the same level of consciousness as you are. We all have a particular mental range. The one you feel attracted towards has to lie towards that range. If that fellow is far below your station, you will not feel attracted. If that fellow is far above that station, you will not feel attracted. If someone is far superior to you, you don't even feel envious. Do you see this? As long as that person is within your range of acceptability, you will keep cultivating the hope that one day you will have that person for yourself. I'm not talking of pulling the other person down, I'm talking of putting the other one up. The one's you like at one level of maturity in life are just not the ones you will like in another level of maturity in life. And that's an auspicious sign. That simply means that you are outgrowing the world. Often in the name of love, we just impose ourselves on someone who was unfortunate enough to say yes to us. If you really have love for someone, you make the sky available for them. If you have to stick, stick to greatness, stick to the Truth, stick to a wonderful purpose. Don't stick to a mere girl. Set her free.

  • @vaibhavajoshi2588

    @vaibhavajoshi2588

    10 күн бұрын

    thank you for your notes!

  • @priyasingh31
    @priyasingh315 ай бұрын

    Never seen such a scientific explanation nd very damn truth sir❤

  • @rupaliart4185
    @rupaliart4185 Жыл бұрын

    Purpose of life should be achieve something great and doing your own responsibility in a perfect way, not by running after love. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

  • @kunalroy232
    @kunalroy232 Жыл бұрын

    Acharya ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 you are magical . Can't hear anything about love having such innocent expression from anybody in this world except you .. We are indebted to you and your Love Sir 🙏🙏

  • @neversettledown5171
    @neversettledown5171 Жыл бұрын

    Wow...Just Crystal Clear.Very lucky to have Acharyaji.

  • @komalmourya5260
    @komalmourya52602 ай бұрын

    Thankyou so much sir for this wonderful and great knowledge 🙏🏻 Thankyou so much for showing us the right direction and taking us to enlightenment ❤

  • @anilsahu3725
    @anilsahu3725 Жыл бұрын

    Gratitude Master ✨🙌🙏

  • @paraprem
    @paraprem Жыл бұрын

    Gratitude Acharya ji🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😇

  • @Vivechyanityam01
    @Vivechyanityam01 Жыл бұрын

    You are making it easier for the younger brothers and sisters...lovely sir🙏🏻

  • @Anurodh_80
    @Anurodh_80 Жыл бұрын

    Acharya ji you are a saviour 🙇🏻‍♂️🙏🏻

  • @AbhishekKumar-nd4tp
    @AbhishekKumar-nd4tp Жыл бұрын

    Mai pahale avharya ji ko hindi me sunta tha but ab mujhe apna spoken english improve krna h interview ke liye isliye ab mai acharya ji ko english me sunta hun😊

  • @sedhakiran8790
    @sedhakiran8790 Жыл бұрын

    🙏🏻🙏🏻 bht bht pranaam acharya ji

  • @suvoranjanbanerjee4808
    @suvoranjanbanerjee4808 Жыл бұрын

    This video totally changed my perspective in this. Shwetabh bhaai ne sahi kaha tha, you're truly amazing sir..❤️🙏

  • @sujatasrangan258
    @sujatasrangan258 Жыл бұрын

    Wow So beautifully said Thank you sir 🙏

  • @vijaytagupta1353
    @vijaytagupta1353 Жыл бұрын

    As always hitting the bull's eye. Thanku so much aacharya ji...

  • @SikhaSingh98
    @SikhaSingh98 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks sir 😌

  • @NitinYadav-bs2sw
    @NitinYadav-bs2sw Жыл бұрын

    Thank you acharya ji❤️

  • @asr1736
    @asr173611 ай бұрын

    Great advice. Thank you Acharya ji 🙏

  • @sanjaypimoli9233
    @sanjaypimoli9233 Жыл бұрын

    Same problem.. thank you acharya ji

  • @divyadsahney8498
    @divyadsahney8498 Жыл бұрын

    Acharya Sir you are simply amazing 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @RichaChauhandreams
    @RichaChauhandreams Жыл бұрын

    Wow , another brilliant explanation to the mundane problems of the world 🙏❤️

  • @CharuttaDasture
    @CharuttaDasture10 ай бұрын

    Resonated so much

  • @ayushsharma5640
    @ayushsharma5640 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Acharya ji

  • @arjavjain25
    @arjavjain25 Жыл бұрын

    needed this

  • @arpittiwari7471
    @arpittiwari7471 Жыл бұрын

    very nice

  • @gurushanthaiahms2121
    @gurushanthaiahms2121 Жыл бұрын

    Waav!

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Жыл бұрын

    10:30, The one who appears attractive to you today, why do you take it as a mandate to be with him even 10 years later. What is the need to be so sticky to each other. Or are you welded?

  • @salonishukla6180
    @salonishukla6180 Жыл бұрын

    ☺👌👌Thanks for this awesome lesson sir

  • @sourabh3584

    @sourabh3584

    8 ай бұрын

    hey I've seen you somewhere!

  • @soniaarora2851
    @soniaarora2851 Жыл бұрын

    Start doing Gurbani it fills all void

  • @shaxpx
    @shaxpx Жыл бұрын

    this is epic

  • @varindersingh6860
    @varindersingh6860 Жыл бұрын

    Stick to truth..👏👌

  • @thedebapriyakar
    @thedebapriyakar Жыл бұрын

    Quick comment, it hurts to see AP Sir standing while answerring questions.

  • @divinejudgement17
    @divinejudgement17 Жыл бұрын

    10:30-10:40 bcz its love sir ....

  • @sagardc4
    @sagardc4 Жыл бұрын

    I had exactly the same problem....

  • @princekumaryadav1932
    @princekumaryadav1932 Жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @kkomalgurnaani6257
    @kkomalgurnaani6257 Жыл бұрын

    Meditation will certainly help… bcoz then you understand your power .. your divine self .. N it will remind you "Tat tvam asi"

  • @sulavregmi1963
    @sulavregmi1963 Жыл бұрын

    👌

  • @Motojacku77
    @Motojacku77 Жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @VedantRajdeep
    @VedantRajdeep Жыл бұрын

    The more you realize the fact of your slavery, the more you'll fight for your freedom. ~ AP Ji

  • @saloni1sood
    @saloni1sood Жыл бұрын

    "ideally you should be outgrowing your likes and desires very rapidly"

  • @RupaKumari-zz4ji
    @RupaKumari-zz4ji Жыл бұрын

    🙏

  • @Pooja77797
    @Pooja777979 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @DEEPAKCHAUHAN-zc5eo
    @DEEPAKCHAUHAN-zc5eo Жыл бұрын

    ❤️🙏❤️

  • @mollysinha
    @mollysinha Жыл бұрын

    👌👍🙏🇮🇳

  • @gautamsanatani4620
    @gautamsanatani4620 Жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kendra3577
    @kendra3577 Жыл бұрын

    I have mixed feelings about this. While I do agree to some extent, I dream of finding a partner I can spend my life with and build a family with. I want to find someone to commit to growing together with. The way this is spoken about makes it seem like that is not possible or realistic which is sad to me. This seems like a very cynical view on marriage

  • @saraswatishukla2719
    @saraswatishukla2719 Жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏💐💐

  • @gautamsanatani4620
    @gautamsanatani4620 Жыл бұрын

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @saurav_advait
    @saurav_advait Жыл бұрын

    🔆You don't get attracted to everyone. You get attracted to someone who is almost at the same level of consciousness as you are. 🔆Often in the name of love, we just impose ourselves on someone who was unfortunate enough to once say 'yes' to us. 🔆If you really have love for someone, you make the sky available to them, you let them fly free. Is that not the expression of love? Or is clinginess an expression of love? 🔆If you have to stick, stick to greatness, stick to truth, stick to a wonderful purpose.

  • @abhigyan3476

    @abhigyan3476

    Жыл бұрын

    But How do we increase it ?

  • @rakeshupadhyay4746
    @rakeshupadhyay4746 Жыл бұрын

    🙏🌷🙏🌷🙏

  • @sachinpandey8929
    @sachinpandey8929 Жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Жыл бұрын

    12:30, she was internally drunk. Probably yes😛😛

  • @SwapnilshelkeInfinety
    @SwapnilshelkeInfinety Жыл бұрын

    01/03/23

  • @robertleto9356
    @robertleto9356 Жыл бұрын

    I feel attracted toward above my range like some hollywood actress or miss world but not think about relationship or dating bcoz its impossible but often attracted toward below my range like some uneducated,doesnt know anything but good looking beautiful girls can someone explain why?

  • @divinejudgement17
    @divinejudgement17 Жыл бұрын

    Just accept the fact bro and move on

  • @divinejudgement17
    @divinejudgement17 Жыл бұрын

    It was love not attraction , from my side

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Жыл бұрын

    11:35, leave her alone, she has a life to live....

  • @kishantiwari2555
    @kishantiwari2555 Жыл бұрын

    ❤️🪔🙏🙇🏻

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Жыл бұрын

    The purpose of life is elevation of consciousness.

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