It's nice to see Paris having fun with Carter’s family! 😊

That was so cringe when Carter said let’s compare wedding planning progress. How awkward for Paris. Even his family members seemed to look uncomfortable. 😳

How many times does Paris have to say she is stressed and no one stops to listen to her. It’s infuriating. I really feel for her.

@ecaldwell9

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, but it’s going to continue if she doesn’t nip it in the bud.

@marslander2488

Жыл бұрын

SAME! They just keep gaslighting her into thinking she’s the issue.

I would love to spend the day listening to her. She really deserves to be heard, valued and validated for more than her money and/or family/fame. She is so kind and warm and HUMAN. She doesn’t get the credit she deserves. 😢

@sammytee70

Жыл бұрын

True

Carter holding Paris in the chair like that tf.. like a scene from a horror movie. Free Paris from her mom and these handlers

@tennillevega3442

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you and I thought at first that Carter was good for her but now watching some episodes with the passive-aggressive ness he isn't the one for her also if you look carefully he isn't caring about her in a sensitive considering manner, money isn't everything .

@samanthacartwright3407

2 ай бұрын

@@tennillevega3442Exactly. He’s a sociopath. He is not genuine.

paris looks so upset with carter like he ain’t the one

Why did Carter have to compare wedding preps in front of everyone? The tension there is 😳

@missyannp36

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. It's like comparing apples to oranges with Paris being a celebrity and Carter's cousin not being a celebrity. Totally different kind of wedding. I'm sure Paris felt way more obligated to have this HUGE wedding because of her being Paris Hilton. Carter's cousin lives in small town Michigan and not going to be blasted on every single gossip magazine in the country. Talk about pressure. I feel so horrible for her. Nobody listens to her at all and she doesn't have anyone in her life without an agenda. I just want to hug her and tell her it's ok.

@juliehealingleaf6211

2 жыл бұрын

Totally awkward

@juliehealingleaf6211

2 жыл бұрын

Why holding her down like strapped in a chair yikes

Kathy has no boundaries...that's extremely toxic. Carter is so overbearing, just like Kathy. Paris married her mother

@MrThoughtfox

2 жыл бұрын

we do tend to repeat patterns from unhealed trauma :-( ! And the patterns Paris has developed keeps her dependent on people around her

@jeaninem6868

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrThoughtfox absolutely....I'm not at all blaming Paris, she has a ways to go in her healing process. I have great empathy for Paris

@MrThoughtfox

2 жыл бұрын

@@jeaninem6868 Yep, I know. haha, just adding my take. some people think Paris "deserves" tough love because she remains childish -- well duh she retains infantile moments because of trauma!

@juliehealingleaf6211

2 жыл бұрын

I'd hate someone going in my house if I said not too

@lorimiller4301

2 жыл бұрын

We become one parent and marry the other. It's all in an attempt to heal. Apparently the best relationships are those between two people who look at least 70 % alike. That's why sometimes you see a couple and they look like siblings. 😆🥰👍

He's anxious to get married 🤣🤣🤣 before she dumps him

@samanthacartwright3407

2 ай бұрын

She should have dumped him.

Feel bad for Paris. Carter has put Paris on the spot in front of everyone. Paris is so sweet and kind.

Why do I feel that she’s pressured into doing the wedding, she seems not ready at all.

@blueviolets52

2 жыл бұрын

I agree...I think she might be freaking out because she's 40 and still wants kids. I don't think she seems into it, it feels forced.

@eyalreiss294

2 жыл бұрын

Feels like an arranged marriage. I feel for Paris her mother controls her too much.

Poor Paris I love her and her soft voice she’s been through a lot but still smiles and loves hard .

Carter is scary passive aggressive. And flaunting Paris's wealth and achievements when she's not comfortable with it just make some sound like a user. Red flags!

@chloeharbin3183

2 жыл бұрын

Passive aggressive really he never struck me as the type.

@chloeharbin3183

2 жыл бұрын

@NickyAm What's passive aggressive me lol.

@blueviolets52

2 жыл бұрын

Definitely! Paris seems really uncomfortable. He's not very sensitive.

@christophercoles175

2 жыл бұрын

I blurted out, “what a f-Ing loser!” This is so weak. She deserves better than this!

@TaylorSwiftsScarf

2 жыл бұрын

I agree! Why is he trying to control Paris this much? It’s like they never communicate

Paris if you’re not happy, don’t be with carter.

I don't like Paris' husband. He seems like a controlling, manipulative groupie.

Idk but something about Carter rubs me the wrong way. I can’t put my finger on it but something about him is not right. Time will tell the truth about him but I don’t think he is genuine about who he truly is. I wish her the best but something is way off with this guy.

@professionalcommenter

2 жыл бұрын

You think he's gay?

@69Fabulosity

2 жыл бұрын

I think he wants to be in the Hilton circle.

@lunanegra6253

2 жыл бұрын

@@professionalcommenter no i don’t think he is gay. I really can’t put my finger on it but I feel like h knows exactly what to say to get what he wants. Kind of like manipulation but with kindness. He just has this energy that rubs me the wrong way. She’s super sweet and doesn’t want to disappoint anyone so I think he knows how to use that to his advantage. I’m not saying he is a bad person but his vibe is off to me.

@lunanegra6253

2 жыл бұрын

@@69Fabulosity yes and he knows she doesn’t want or need his money, that’s why he’s so pushy about the wedding. He has his own empire but he doesn’t want a woman that will take from him. He defiantly has money on his mind and marrying her puts him in a better position. I just hope he doesn’t try to control or brainwash her. I wish them the best in love and life but she needs to watch for red flags with him. He is gonna put a baby in her real quick to seal the deal.

@missyannp36

2 жыл бұрын

Same here Luna. It's like he is trying too hard. Maybe this is all for the reality tv show to make people tune in. I hope so for her sake.

"Your not a little girl NOMORE " Paris: yes I am lol she's so funny

@sha1085

Жыл бұрын

My mom says the same to me and I respond the exact way 😅😂

Something with Carter I don’t like …besides his voice lol

I love it when Paris talks with her real voice like she is doing in the storage room which is a lot lower than the little girl voice she spoke with prior to going into the storage room. When she talks with her real voice you view her as a grown up woman and respect her for that but when she speaks with the little girl voice you see her as a little girl who is fake and acting like a little girl ,,,she admits she falls back into that little girl voice because she did it years ago and now she thinks thats what we want to hear but shes wrong....we have all grown up now and speak with adult voices,...... so she should too!.....

@dustin628

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I agree. Absolutely love Paris but absolutely hate the baby voice. Like nails on a chalkboard. She said she was going to stop but she never did. I'm guessing it's her coping mechanism from childhood. Whenever she's nervous or scared or upset she automatically falls into it to either soothe herself or make herself appear more docile and submissive. Even so it's super annoying and I wish she would just stop already. Literally no one likes it or thinks it's cute. I mean she's gonna be 40 talking like a baby.... 😬🤦‍♂️

@pineapplebanana11

2 жыл бұрын

its a trauma response she is more grown, mature and brave than all these phoneys around her

Kathy is a monster. She got outed for sending her daughter away to a sketchy camp to be abused by grown men because Paris was just being a teenager. You would think if she would feel intense guilt and back away….

Hey, Paris your good no worries, don't let anyone tell u what is best for you.

@TheEyeSeesAll

2 жыл бұрын

*you’re

I never knew that she really thinks she is a child. Reason she does a baby voice. Unresolved childhood issues. She needs to work on healing this for her marriage to work. 🙏🏼❤️⭐️✨

@user-zh8gd3gd6u

Жыл бұрын

Are you a psychologist? Or just holier than thou

@selenenevarez8383

Жыл бұрын

Mi family tells me to stop being a big kid. Im a kid at heart

@Neeluv22

4 ай бұрын

I think she has BPD!

This guy may have money but has no swagger. Someone confident enough to let Paris be Paris. I remember a scene where he walked in through the door before her...Call me old fashioned, but a man with dignity and respect for his love would not do that. I really loved seeing the vulnerable side of her in this series. She seems so lovable. Not sure what it is that doesn't sit right with me...maybe it is a false confidence in him that I see....

@BackUpKarito

7 ай бұрын

He's after her money. He doesn't care about her, he seems desperate ans she's not in love. It's very obvious.

I cannot believe that Paris continues to endure her mother, just as she did when she was a child - with Nicky still snitching on her... Carter is just as controlling as her mother.

Paris was CLUTCHING her purse 😭💀😭

Traverse City is absolutely gorgeous. I hope her children will be going there. They deserve the chance to do normal stuff.

@debbiec6216

Жыл бұрын

If I had to guess, Paris will not feel comfortable visiting in Michigan. She's used to L.A. and the Hamptons, where the Rich lives. No sugar coating anything, just the truth. You only feel comfortable in your own territory!!

@steve19811

Жыл бұрын

​@@debbiec6216 The culture around Michigan and the Mid-West is built around social trust and bringing people together. It's vey different than Malibu and Hamptons which is based on non stop competition, very little social trust etc. There is still innocence and in person community in many parts of the midwest without tons of social hierarchy. Where Paris is from life is about constant competition, flexing and status. I kind of feel like it makes kids bitter because they're not allowed to just exist and enjoy life without having to constantly prove themselves. Culturally it attracts different people for sure. I find way more community events and people invest in towns/events more. I find the northeast to be more lonely and isolating. I find midwesterners have a genuineness and make eye contact which I find scary but truly awesome. The fact that she called it "the simple life" there is a patronizing attitude. I agree that in America it's good to have plenty of money but people always should come first and money rules the coasts.... I'd love for people to discuss this further as I find regional differences/personalities fascinating. I think everyone lives in their own bubble so no place is more of a bubble than others. Carter however is probably more grounded having no come from money and then become a mulitmillion/billioinaire? So he wants to experience a more middle class life. Not true for Paris. THey're going to have cultural clashes with the way their children are raised. I don't see how it's a bad compromise to spend 3 months a year in the wealthiest part of Michigan and the rest wherever Paris wants. Obviously Carter wants his kids to have a very nice lifestyle but growing up with $$$ doesn't make you immune from problems, just a bit condescending of people from different income classes. People in the midwest also don't have huge egos which is nice as their a bit more humble and don't like to show off. Though plenty of people have big $$$ there....

I really enjoyed watching this entire video 😊👍📺.

The editing of this clip doesn’t give this marriage a promising future…

When she wakes up from the fantasy she's going to hate him! I wish I could help her. Just listen to her feelings. I feel like no one really listens.

It's them Michigan boys ❣️❣️❣️ can't never go wrong there

Your Kids will love that stuff you keep that child like spirit!

Look at TC making it on E with Paris!✅😄

I live in Michigan....Traverse City is really nice. Cherryfest is always fun....It isn't fun during Winter,but...It's really nice up there...It's the 'resort town ' in Michigan. Cool..

I have not understood Paris until now Thanks Paris you have courage. YOU ARE STRONG 💛

Paris so sweet & accomplished yet so down to earth & relatable she's so genuine love her

well if she's already feeling nervous about the wedding :/..Whatever you do Paris, just sign a prenup

Je vois Carter derrière Paris et ressens beaucoup d’amour, de respect, de douceur, il la traite délicatement, comme une plume. Carter et Paris sont beaux individuellement et ensemble, l’alchimie est évidente ; je leur souhaite du fond du cœur un très bel amour durable et une vie heureuse. 🌸🌸🌸💫

@juliehealingleaf6211

2 жыл бұрын

Idk more like con artist they all look like gamers

I feel bad for Paris. It’s like she was robbed from her childhood because of the boarding school.

something is weird about Carter...

Michigan 🙌🏼

He Talks for her.....this is nuts..... anxiety overdrive.....🥀🥀🥀🥀😎😎😎😎

Kathy HAS NEVER been likable to me. Something suss about that lady. This highlights even more how much of her persona on RHOBH is an act.

At her old age Paris seems to be scared of her mother. Boarding school really did a number on her. Kathy should just back off, unless this show is scripted and she is playing the villain.

@Peresphone

2 жыл бұрын

Even though all TV is scripted, they still let the toxic irl parts leak. “Boarding school” is a sick nickname for what really happened to her but clearly abuse. I like how you can see how toxic Kathy is

@blueviolets52

2 жыл бұрын

right!? I always notice Paris seems terrified of her mom, and her mom has no boundaries. she treats Paris like a child still...it's weird.

@genesisguzman9883

2 жыл бұрын

@@Peresphone : Do you think it's like reprogramming? Drew Barrymore went threw the same thing! she talked about it on her show with paris! and acted like it was nothing! Have yall seen on Netflix the movie " Paradise Hills " reminds me of what really goes down

@addicted367

2 жыл бұрын

She's not old

@debbiec6216

Жыл бұрын

I always guessed that Kathy was the quiet time of mother. not that I know her. *Most Of These Shows Are Scripted*

I know a lot of people don’t like Carter but I think he does what he does/says because he’s always trying to make sure Paris is happy/okay. Not saying it’s always right but I think his intentions are somewhat good

Groomzilla! LOL Love it.

She should have had a charity instead of a gift registry, she obviously doesn't need.

i hope that paris & carter are really happy now but this is a super-stressful video!!

I felt bad when her Mom said she had to grow up she wasn’t a little girl anymore cause she had some cute bags...I am 35 & would legit wear that Minnie Mouse backpack out...it seems like everyone in her life is so damn pushy...

@juliehealingleaf6211

2 жыл бұрын

Her kids will love it and Bible talks about childlike spirit! 🖐️✨🌼✨

It's really weird how the groom is so insistent on her planning the wedding. I would see that as a red flag no man is such a rush to get married. I think he wants to be in the Hilton circle..However I'm aware they are already married.

Notice when he has his hand around her shoulder its passive aggressive control behaviour, it activates the trauma in her body. Shes an empath, so sad to see her go through all this…Not heard, not felt. defaults to self reflection and putting others emotions over hers.

@juliehealingleaf6211

2 жыл бұрын

I didn't like it neither did she she just can't allow herself to believe her feelings...I know exactly how she feels ..

@lorimiller4301

2 жыл бұрын

That's exactly what's going on here. I pray she wakes up in time.

Paris ..you are beauty and love animal..just like me...and KEEP YHE FAITH sweety..

If I was Paris I would feel so thrown under the bus infront of his family. I like the fact that the ladies keep saying Paris is not here. Yeah, mom!

💜

Something is off with the guy she’s marrying

Why do people be hating on Carter? Like hes definitely not in it for the money its obvious! He is wealthy himself not just paris. I mean of course shes worth alot more but I dont think hes there for her money...thats just my opinion he may be alittle pushy but I think hes just excited to marry her and have the wedding! Theres nothing wrong with that lol just saying 🤷‍♀️

You've been doing so good, at meeting all your goals! Don't stop now 😊 I am now officially 43! I cannot sleep. And I have an early morning to start off my official birthday celebration. With my kids and my mom. We actually had a celebration and supper last week. But my mom is set on taking us out. So that's fine. Because there are community events going on this weekend. So it will be so fun. I am Thankful. And hoping I can fall asleep ❤

Reum is cool he loves her.

I think people like Paris have different approaches to life-----planning a wedding is stressful on everyone usually----Paris and Carter have strong personalities---Let's see where they are in 5 years----Any guesses?

@TheRose087

8 ай бұрын

Divorced for sure

I love Kathy she won’t ever back off those are her kids even as adults but seriously hoarders needs to do a show on her jeeze.

Well she does end up walking down the aisle. I was pretty happy for her cause yeah she's been engaged multiple times and never did the walk or said I do.

What about the kid you already have sir

Do not give a key to someone who does not respect your house

Paris mother maybe very nice BUT …. The dynamic between them is the way I see it is ….. I am your mother you are the girl And….. I know best ! It had to be Mother - Adult Paris - adult, and the mother has to open the space to allow this to be Just a thought !🤗🌸

I want something!

Carter seems veeery dark… “groomzilla” is not what he did to her at that table. That was abusive

Carter is so gross, not just that nasty voice, but his attempt to publicly humiliate Paris to his family. He KNOWS what she hasn’t done and is comparing to shame her. He’s a disgusting red flag, and his daughter he pretends not to have is better off without him. Cannot believe this is the person Paris waited 40 years for….

@dannav18

2 жыл бұрын

He has a daughter??? 😲 Wow!

@soph5669

2 жыл бұрын

Well said

@blueviolets52

2 жыл бұрын

what?! he has a daughter???

@dionneappuhamyge25

2 жыл бұрын

Ikr, it was so shady and disgusting of him to compare Paris with the wedding arrangements in front of his family. Absolutely not done.

@dustin628

2 жыл бұрын

Publicly humiliate is a STRETCH. She's surrounded by family not the public. And family playfully teases each other... its not that serious. Also, maybe Paris needs a little Kickstart to get her moving on all the stuff she needs to get done and this way gets results. Weddings are super stressful to plan, especially ones like this that are extremely big, expensive, and televised. And that's another thing... they're making a TV show. He's gotta kinda Amp it up and do things for the camera to get a reaction out of her and the viewers. It's obviously worked based on your comment and all the replies to you.

YOU CAN DO BETTER PARIS !!!

Her mom telling her to grow up lmao

@DoubleSaltedEggYolkShark

Жыл бұрын

And her mom is the cause of “ not growing up”. Actually Paris is more grown up that her mom. Look at how she listens and teats people with respect. She is capable too. She has ventured in many businesses her mother has t into.

🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀i feel bad for her....hope she finds some happiness 😞😞😊😊😊😢😢🌺🌺🌺

She has a storage the size of Costco you guys 😭🥺

I don’t know much but I do not even have a clue what she sees in Carter (effeminate). And it seems to me that she can revert to ‘cutesieness’ Because that is safe and non-confrontational. If she decides to Voice opinions and make decisions she is judged by the likes of Kathy.

My gosh Paris you don't need all that "stuff" ....Clear the clutter & use what you have ! That's what the majority of us do. I'm happy you found a life partner. Comparing yourself with others is simply a lose-lose. I hope you can accept Carter with the pros/cons. I can clearly see why you'd have issues with your mom. You're an adult & she needs to smother you. Time to stand your ground.

@addicted367

2 жыл бұрын

People with past trauma often end up with hoarding tendencies.

@malkaringel7864

2 жыл бұрын

@@addicted367 I don't know. Paris has too much of everything. Most of us have what we need. It's like a car... you can only drive one at a time!

@addicted367

2 жыл бұрын

@@malkaringel7864 yeah I'm sure she doesn't need all those things but her mom is annoying and controlling. She shouldn't bring people into Paris's house without her permission.

@malkaringel7864

2 жыл бұрын

@@addicted367 why worry about Paris or Kathy???? They have an abundance of everything & are accustomed to the upper echelon lifestyle, designer food, designer clothes, sunglasses, shoes, etc, etc who cares??? Paris is not grown up yet & now married ..but it's her issues, not ours!! Thank god for that

They all treat her like a little girl and the more they do, the more she gets into that role and Paris subconsciously hates it

@DoubleSaltedEggYolkShark

Жыл бұрын

Yea. They treat her like that as if she’s not capable of anything. As a matter of fact she’s better than them.

She shouldn’t have made her marriage public lol her in laws are prolly like bruh

I hope I'm wrong but I really don't feel this guy!

Omg , what is she doing with this guy 😣 he seems really possessive and narcissistic. I feel for her

Money💰can't buy you love. Um.. can it?

My birthday 11/28/78

Dont like when people say things like Malibu and the Hamptons is not real life it is as real a life if your living your best life people do make or have money unless its on a set of a tv show best believe its real and fortunate , the kids can have both experiences and be the most open appreciative and grounded kind non envious non judging joys to the world.

It might not have been a good idea to schedule the wedding so close to fashion week, and Carter's brothers wedding. Then to top it off Kathy is pushing to declutter her house right in the middle of it. Seriously that can wait. I feel like if Kathy doesn't back off she is going to cause a rift between Paris and Carter. Pushy mother in laws are the worst.

No paris no stay were you are

@exoticdubb2353

2 жыл бұрын

I'm much nearer today yes I had a very nice time at every one of those places I like what you did thanks

Sorry but they wont last

You are in you're head babygirl It's OK

So many people in the comments doing realize this is a show. It’s not reality. While we always have known how Kathy is carter is playing it up so is paris it’s how you make good tv. You think she doesn’t know who he is and what her role is? She didn’t get where she is being boring and making bad tv. I do think she is scared to be all one and wants kids and he’s the best option I know she hates being with someone who is overly into her. All air signs know this. It makes you want to pull away when someone is overly gagged. And he’s just annoying and competitive but it’s mostly TV and editing and Playing a role.

@DoubleSaltedEggYolkShark

Жыл бұрын

Are you sure it’s all role playing? But I’m role playing, a person’s individuality and emotions do surface. A role is a role but many times you will “read” the person’s innermost real struggles b

carter i think might be controlling and it's not gonna last!

Aww he's like a totally normal guy from a completely normal family. I hope she can handle normal... it'd be really good for her and the second chapter of her life to be surrounded by everyday average people who couldn't care less about money, status, fame, or what you could do for them. Just real people.

@MegaMoflis

2 жыл бұрын

he doesn't look normal to me, there is something weird about him

@debbiec6216

Жыл бұрын

I have noticed that myself . Paris normal will be totally different from Carter .

Kathy you need to respect you’re daughter and allow her to make her own decisions in Her Home.Just a thought because this is Paris’s first marriage let her dream,let her be a little girl at heart please?This world is a dark cold place already.Let her be!!!!Trust me Kathy she will resent you n push you away n I’m sure you want her around in your golden years.

Paris you better argue with him. You need to work on a project together, see and be with each other through an illness and find out what he's really like deep down. Without some serious stress you're not going to know. Trust me not fighting is not right. Everyone gets mad. Or they're hiding it. Get to really know the person you're with. Don't let it come as a surprise when some disaster befalls you. Let him see you ugly cry.

Why is she marrying him

Paris see throat chakra specialist!!

Carter gives off creepy af vibes Paris needs to run the other way...

This is classic narcissistic behaviour on Paris's mothers part. A Narc will always set out to destroy your boundaries because it is ultimately about control. You tell her," don't go top my house without me," you can be sure to find her there. Im happy Paris want a relationship with her mother but it will ultimately end in her being used and her boundaries disrespected.

Carters voice is annoying looool

Carter’s a little controlling…

poor paris, she’s still being heavily controlled by her mother…I think the trauma from her childhood has made her dependent on other people. she still see’s herself as a little girl, just listen at 1:30.

Pay attention to the photoshop skin filters used on the NECK of Paris. No visable lines no neck discoloration it's actually really creepy.

@glowflower1

Жыл бұрын

Ficking weird

Come over and clean my closet! jajaj I have the GF

Her junk is worth more than my car!! 😂🤣

I wish Paris’s mom valued and accepted her for who she is and not who she wishes she was. The whole you’re not a little girl anymore, grow up thing made me sad.

@tahousto

7 ай бұрын

She never was a little girl. That is the problem. She will have to heal herself, mom is completely unaware covert narcissist. Everyone is walking on egg shells to keep mom happy.

Goind to spend time with G