Omgoodness! I can’t believe this! So I’m not crazy? This is SPOT ON. I have been completely crushed during this whole ordeal. My son is now 35 with four children. This started when he was very young and really got out of control at about age 12. It’s been a heartbreaking experience and I have to figure out a way to find healing. So happy to have stumbled across this video-thank you God! And thank you.

@vadimlevashov3812

5 жыл бұрын

Hope never dies

@nataliamartin6816

4 жыл бұрын

Vivian, I see this comment a year later. There are many parents who have to find a way to heal. There are a few great groups on FB. They helped me a lot and now I am past it. I do try to help others on the group, I contribute some, but I am trying to heal and not relive it every time I post an encouraging comment. Chin up!

This lady is right on. My kids went to their Dad every other weekend and he managed to do this to my children on every other weekend.

@jeremyelwood4369

6 жыл бұрын

Please check out Dr. Childress and his series of KZread videos

Thank you Amy Baker. Very educational and made a lot of sense.

it's good to find experts that actually get this.

My son was asking for all the photos and violin and I had no right to have them, plus the christmas tree ornaments from my sister, and said this was his own words and has nothing to do with his mum, it's how he feels. It went on, year after year after year, insults and berating and belittling, destruction of my property .. and I had to finally send him away, telling him he's welcome here but not while he's treating me badly and disrespectfully .. and the profane and abusive texts, paragraphs long followed. My daughter would cross the road to avoid me when I was out (small village), and would completely dismiss me when I went to see them off at the school bus stop. The doctor was told to not tell me anything about my children, even though there hadn't been a court order (we'd not even finalized divorce yet). I could never take them on holiday because everyone else on their side of the family would take them first, and my kids didn't want to go on any more holidays. My daughter, out of the blue, said, "I'm not coming round anymore" .. it was totally out of the blue. So much went on, I knew what was happening and there was nothing I could do. Then came the missing mortgage payments which affected my credit rating, and I couldn't move on, couldn't get a place of my own. I ended up homeless. And I took 'voluntary' redundancy from school, which gave me enough money to pay off the family debt - thousands of pounds, five figures, over 20 grand. Oh, and "mum's just bad with money" - the finances were, well, you could say it was financial abuse, it was horrific. And my daughter, just a few months ago, said, "you didn't need to shout at us growing up", like I was an aggressive unbalanced person (in fact, their social services friend told them I'd been getting onto my son because of my 'bad' childhood -- we had a very close relationship, I did tell him off over the years .. and sadly popped him on the bum once after warning him (something I wouldn't ever do again, lesson learned)). They're now 24 and 25, and what little bit of 'relationship' we tried to grow back has gone because I laid down a boundary, a disapproval of something they did to me .. and that was that. My mum died Christmas Day evening just gone, I texted my son and told him, he texted back "I know, hope you're ok". There was no Christmas wish that day before we knew, no happy birthday, no happy fathers' day, again. And everybody .. everybody! .. believes the other side and treats you as such. You're even accused of 'stalking' your kids when you're just trying to get a glimpse of them when you're missing them so much. And the new partner starts staring you down - on your own porch, with your children there. You start feeling the loneliest of lonely and there is nothing you can do at this stage except let it all go and keep them updated on your new address.

Family Court in the US exists to serve IT'S OWN BEST INTERESTS, NOT THE BEST INTERESTS OF THE CHILD.

@shazdoryt

5 жыл бұрын

UK is no different. Alienation is not taken seriously.

@kimparke6653

Жыл бұрын

Canada too and every other country I am learning. All about money.

@kimparke6653

Жыл бұрын

Let's start a company for divorcing families without the court.

you are just bang on... thank you for this !!! people need to be educated ...

@kantwinnada

6 жыл бұрын

They do. Judges, mediators, lawyers, child protective, to name a few.

How well just one speech, in less than one hour, sheds light on the reality! Here, in this talk, the whole truth is. Considering all other possibilities as well, like people using PAS to their advantage and how to tell the difference. So bright, clear, and easy to understand. Modern Court systems and DYP have no insight about parental Alienation, and they don't want to have any. How many more parents will continue to suffer from the unjust judgement? Leave alone parents - how many children will continue to suffer? Parental Alienation is a form of child abuse.

@virginiacostello5762

4 жыл бұрын

Yes. It is. Destroys lives.

Thank you so much for shearing this educating video about PA. I was beginning to question and doubt my self. Now i can understand how. Thank you. I am in the middle of the divorce process right now. My soon to be ex turned my 13 years old son completely against m. He started alienating my son the day I told him I was filing for divorce. It has been over 1 1/2 years. It has been so painful and I feel so hopeless. My ex is working really hard on my 8 years old daughter now. I don't know what I will do if i loose my daughter too. Because she is my strength and she is the reason i wake up every morning. I was seeing my son every Wednesday until he started being violence towards me so the Guardian Ad L decided that i will be best for my son and I to not see each other. it has been 4 months and my heart is beyond broken.

I know the video is almost 3 years old but the problem is still relevant and my understanding is that it is progressively getting worse. I want to point out to Amy that I am a mom who not only lost custody of her children, but also have been alienated from my adult children and my grandchildren as well. Haven't seen my grandchildren in almost 3 years. I'm sure I'm not the only mom who is the victim of this and of parental alienation.

@shazdoryt

5 жыл бұрын

In the same situation. It is a vile form of abuse to the child ... and all the child is oblivious.

@vadimlevashov3812

5 жыл бұрын

Very sorry to read this... Parental Alienation is wrong in any form. Even if the parent was abusive and mean, or mentally ill - there is no reason to justify the alienation. A healthy distance, an alternate form of communication, and many other things - but the child NEEDS to feel loved by BOTH parents.

@doreenplischke2169

Жыл бұрын

Indeed. You are not alone. Same here.

@joanndavid3406

9 ай бұрын

This has been going on forever!

I happy to see this video I'm suffering from parental alienation and it's the most painful thing I have to deal with in my life .I am trying so hard to stay strong because I know my ex husband wants me to suffer because he can't have me he would rather let my son and I suffer ,how can you make your son sad ?

@kurtisjohnson

5 жыл бұрын

Ive been erased 3 yrs 10 mo and finally able to get them into court counseling, but after 2 sessions, they have been coached and instilled with fear and brainwash to turn against me.

@doreenplischke7645

5 жыл бұрын

Sheffanessea Brown you are not alone.

@Mszahnclass95

3 жыл бұрын

I completely agree 💯 it is painful everyday

@renchezilinskaite8798

6 ай бұрын

I am in the same boat with you, alienated from my 2 handsome boys... I am 43 , and never experienced that kind of pain and loss. I educate myself a lot about alienation an this horrible pathology and main thing for me is to remain calm, build my confidence, stay positive and happy, because when my boys come back, they will see a safe, happy, and loving Mum. Good luck to you ❤

@renchezilinskaite8798

6 ай бұрын

I noticed its been 5 years since your comment, and I hope your story has changed into happy outcome

Played all of the way out : father won complete parenting time and legal decision making for 3 of our 4 children. He did claim alienation and high conflict parenting. He claimed that our children only shared their stories of his abuse of them due to my coaching. Our children were involved in many hours of therapy and meetings with psychologists during the custody evaluation 3 years ago. After the custody evaluation, I was granted almost complete parenting time and full decision making… 3 years, 3 orders of protection I was granted, 3 years of post divorce domestic abuse / emotional abuse. Our children are almost 8, almost 11, and 14… they continue to be emotionally abused and manipulated..

6 years ago lol is the best the most recent utube has to offer parental alienation man that’s ruff

My children, daughter, age 30, now leading son "Saving my brother from you, I made him realize how terrible a Mom you were..." I cannot overcome these accusations from the father and his spouse (they cheated on two marriages) Blame others to change history of how things really were. All this time I too, took the 'high road' even tried court for judge to help and not followed orders... In 16 months, a complete amputation; I'm blindsided at the rage and impunity/hyperbole of minutiae. I believe they now added a 'diagnosis' that I cannot overcome since they will not speak to me anymore and my frantic trying only enforces this belief... Isolated and desperately alone! Breathtaking how an entire child/parent lifetime of love is non-existent. They are followers.

@jenniferdonnelly4949

5 жыл бұрын

Oh, it's been my life for 15 years. I attempted suicide. I haven't been able to work for a decade. Thank you for your story. It I mine too. Do you know of any PAS Activist groups?

I relate to all this as a targeted grandparent who raised my grandaughter for much of the time. And I have no legal anyway. But as soon as I got them to a certain place with dad back, they reinvented me. And it was overnight. Everything you said about a kid exibititing is what my granddaughter is exibititing. And I was the best GiGi ever

@katiehav1209

Жыл бұрын

We got all eight

@katiehav1209

Жыл бұрын

And it all was like overnight She was just up and snugling with me to keep warm at the Easter Vigil. Now I'm horrible.

When my 9 year old daughter, after a day of doing fun things said to me. "Thanks for spending money on me". That was the first indication her Mother had been saying negative things about me. AU$25,000 later and the Mother still had full parental control. I'm a gentle soul, there was never any abuse on my part, and my criminal history consisted of a few parking tickets and a few low level speeding fines. My children begged me to stay with me, and not their Mum. Australia is almost 100% biased toward the Mother, or toward the Parent who is not working, and can be with the children 24/7.

Wow... Very Informative. I'm the Targeted Parent and this provided great insight. ✌

I appreciate this being talked about, but I have a few corrections: 1. “Campaign of denigration” is actually a “campaign to force child to adopt victim role.” The denigration is secondary. The alienating parent needs the child to consider the other parent a threat in order to turn off instinctual bonding. This is important: children who have been given assigned responses, not necessarily hate. Kids can easily say, if coached “I still love him/her, I just want him/her to stop doing “the behaviors the alienating parent has convinced me are abusive/happening.” They can also be creative, especially if there are further fears and conditioned responses. A wise alienator can cause the child to make very “gray area” statements that seem to disprove alienation. All the easier if they study up. Thanks!

Thank you so much

i need help....this is so spot on.my kids ar so alienated against me.i am a single mom, divorced to a narc father!i am on the verge of losing custody due to my emotional outbreaks.ofcourse I'm emotional, I'm not a cold monster!!!!!

@highpeaks765

4 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry you have to go through this. I have sole legal and phisical custody of my kids, mom sees them every other weekend and she still manage to brainwash them. Its disgusting what's coming out of them but I know it's all mom. Now I'm being accused of parental alienation on completely fabricated allegations. 2 years later, 150k in legal fees and back in court again.

@highpeaks765

4 жыл бұрын

@Leslie yes kids are in weekly therapy, I don't badmouth mom or inflict negative thoughts in to kids about mom. Abuse and neglect was happening long before the divorce, everything was taking place while I was at work. So the fact that the kids don't want/refuse to go on visitations didn't happen right after divorce. Now how do I defend myself from the accusations? pretty much on a monthly basis we are in court for issues that are fabricated. Custody was over 2 years ago and courts allow her to file all those motions...seems like system is creating more conflict then the abuser...

Brilliant. I left marriage due to alienating behaviors of father and his father (grandfather) to our children. They succeeded and it has been 10 years of hell.

I am now convinced after no response 5 yrs now an my son has so much hate towards me .I became alienated when my son was 15 now he's 21 yrs old now doesn't even care I am alive.i did that waved the court order in my son's face an he did not want to care

If my daughter had not been the victim of parental alienation she would still be alive today. When she died I was not even notified. She was my only child. I was a good mother. I always put her first. She was told that I was crazy all her life. I raised her by myself from 5 to 15 years old. No men in my life. She was my whole focus. I was an understanding parent who always gave her unconditional love. The courts failed us when they let her go live with father and told her that she could see me if she wanted to. Her father was a high ranking member of a world known motorcycle club. Her step mother introduced her to crystal meth shortly after the courts allowed her to live with her father. They moved out of the city and I didnt know where she was. I didnt talk to her or see her for 3 1/2 years. It broke my heart. When she did come back at 18. She was so messed up. I helped her rebuild her self esteem. She got a good job .Straightened out but we always had blow ups and periods where she would not speak to me. She withheld my grandson from me after I had built a deep bond with him for no reason but spite. So much pain and hurt could have been spared. Her father abused me. He used the courts to abuse. By parental alienation he abused her. You mentioned that you never met a woman who lost custody due to false claims in the court. Sad to say but it happened to me. He told her that he won in court because I tried to attack the judge. He smiled at me in court. I broke my red pen on the table . I stood up and said your honor this man has abused me. He is using this court to abuse. I will kill myself and it will be on this courts head.. The bailiffs took me to the basement of the courthouse Police took me to hospital. I talked to a psychiatrist and he said no reason to keep me. That I was just so upset over the situation but I was not a harm to myself. I remember the nurse cutting off my hospital bracelet and saying to me. " You go back and fight". The court said what happened would be struck from the record. But I believe it wasn't. judge said she could live with her father and see me when she wanted. But he lied to her about me and she didnt want to. Child alienation is the worst form of child abuse and it carries on into adulthood. In my daughters case it carried on until she died at 30 years old . September 17 2018. I sleep with her urn and I dress her urn in pretty little baby dresses. When I die I will be cremated and our urns will be buried together where she can hate me for eternity.

@cherylklyne4869

4 жыл бұрын

I almost never got her urn because her ex tried to claim her body as commonlaw after I had made arrangements for her cremation. I had to go to court of queens bench to get a court order stating I was her next of kin until she could be cremated because funeral home wanted to avoid a potential lawsuit from him if they cremated her. My daughter had to be in a fridge at the funeral home for almost 2 months. Her half siblings tried to keep her death from me and helped her ex by going to another funeral home with him and lied with him to say he was her commonlaw. They had a celebration of life for her with all her friends that noone told me about. They tried to erase me as her mother when she died. Her deceased fathers family and her friends were so cold and rude to me and noone came to her funeral that I had for her except my family. I was treated by her half family and her friends like I was nothing to her.. They told me that she hated me and I was a horrible mother. Her half siblings are all younger than her. She never met them until she was 12 years old. Then the parental alienation became much worse.. Even though her father and her have both died,I'm still the targeted parent.

@cherylklyne4869

4 жыл бұрын

@Leslie sadly enough I have been labled as mentally unstable and abusive to children. The only thing I can hope for is supervised visits. Which I will be doing in the spring. My daughters children have not seen each since before she died. The older grandsons father has been ignoring the child welfare worker who has been trying to arrange visits between my grandsons. It might just be up to me to arrange supervised visits with both of them at the same time.

@cherylklyne4869

4 жыл бұрын

@Leslie Well god is sure teaching my grandsons and me a powerful lesson. I'm sorry but thank you for your thoughts. It's a government bureaucracy issue. My only child was murdered with fentanyl and her ex cleaned out her bank account and took everything of hers in this world. Her half sister lied and backed him up as her commonlaw. He phoned 2 people while she was dying and laid with her body for 4 to 6 hrs before he called for help for her. Him and her halfsister tell police that I'm crazy and we were estranged. They both said he was her common law. So I wasnt notified of her death. They tried to claim her body after I did. Because of that she had to lay in a fridge until I could get a court order to have her cremated. He was in jail twice for assaulting when she was pregnant but police overlook that . They told me he was her common and told me face it Cheryl your daughter experimented with drugs. My daughter also a had a life insurance policy that named him beneficiary but she stopped paying for it long long before she died. He kept asking the funeral home for funeral statement of death certificates in his name until they told him he would have to take me to court to get anything in his name. That's why she overdosed and died and noone told me. Commonlaws dont pay child support and tell you to shove court papers up your ass.. Police dont care just a fentanyl overdose to them. They prefer to believe the easier story and lable me as crazy.

@cherylklyne4869

4 жыл бұрын

Her ex took advantage of our parental alienation to kill her. Cops used it to not have to properly investigate her death. I'm the worst mother in the world and I'm still fighting for justice for my daughter that I was told that I abused her. I'm abusive to children and im crazy. Her ex and family that tried to keep her death and body from me counted on me going crazy. Well saying I'm crazy doesnt make it so. Calgary police in alberta Canada is the only police force with authority to diagnose mental illness. That's crazy in itself. Most officers have stressful jobs and mental illness as well.

Can you make the slides available to follow along?

What about patterns that are close to alienation but more subtile?

Wow that's such a revelation,

Does this apply to older adult children as well ? I can relate to all of this even though I divorced my ex once my last one went to college … however , my youngest ended up living with my ex while commuting to college ( which was not the plan when I left) and now he has managed to alienate me from my son

Pls help who knows which Lawyer im Toronto can exactly can help me with that ?

MY daughter has alienated me since my divorce from her father, I am 70 and she is 43, with two teenage children, who are now exhibiting mental health disorders. My grandson hears voices, but it is my families fault. I spend Christmas on my own, and have done for several years.

@hansjoseph__

2 жыл бұрын

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Divorce statistics, personality disorders, laws, parental alienation are all subjects affecting a huge part of society, but these topics are not included in our education system anywhere. You learn about it after it occurs to you. Then you wonder why.

Dr. Baker…it does happen, that mothers loose custody when being plainly accused. It does.

ALIENATED PARENTS NEED TO MOBILIZE NATIONALLY AND INTERNATIONALLY. THIS PARENTAL ALIENATION CHILD ABUSE NEEDS TO BE STOPPED. DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS ON HOW WE CAN MOBILIZE NATIONALLY? ARE THERE ANY GROUPS THAT ARE ALREADY WORKING ON MOBILIZING NATIONALLY?

They didnt cut my sister's family out, or my mum and her husband. But I didnt have a relationship with my sister or mum.

My kids have all 8 behaviors. imagine that. And I have to add; aside from sex abuse and physical abuse, there is NEVER a legitamate reason for a child to reject a parent.

@jeremyelwood4369

6 жыл бұрын

Dr. Gardner was the pioneer of Parental Alienation, gave the pathology a name, but after 30 years Dr. Childress has taken the flawed Gardnerian PAS model and has proposed an Attachment Based model of "Parental Alienation" that uses established constructs and principles of professional psychology to fully describe the psychological and interpersonal processes that create the symptom features of "Parental Alienation"

I havent seen my child since she was three, (So 11 years total) I was granted access and guardianship but at the time he the ex had m.c.f.d. involved and I was on welfare, I didnt have the money to fight or the mental where-with-all of having to be dealing with both at the same time, due to being married to a narcissist. I thought my ex left B C with our child and I didnt know where to look or how to access the courts. Three years ago he came under the eye of mcfd and claimed that they sent him to me for information on our child prenatal wise, What have learned is that he was reported for going off on her at aged 9 during the night while he was pissed drunk, but also that they had in fact been living only 8 minutes away from me the whole time. (Since then she has tried suicide, this I learned last year). m.c.f.d. does not know I have guardianship so they wont speak to me yet, but at this time their goal is to medicate my child. My question is. Since this child has not seen me since she was three, then how does she know what she think she does and who told her?, I was told she wont see me she is 15 now. I only recently learned about P.A.S but made the mistake of telling him I starting legal action. I just received a letter from minister of justice who want to talk about child maintenance without the courts. So how likely is it that I can get the court hearing to happen on the maintenance matter to be able to ask the judge to postpone that case until the other cae go through first, because access and maintenance are two separate issues so therefore only one can be dealt with at a time. Well why should I pay for a child I havent seen and may never see?, and how do I even know he actually has custody still due to age and health issues?. What if he has created a way to have me line his pocket while he is now free of parental obligation? Or even the likely hood that id be paying child support to someone whom I have conceived no child with?? I would certainly like to know how the * behaviraol manifestations of parental alienation syndrome can be looked at with a child who could not possible even have her own memories of me the targeted one?. Could really use some advise.

@vadimlevashov3812

5 жыл бұрын

My dear, do not look at your support payments as current, neither consider your letters, if you write any, as present ones. This is all for the future. Hope never dies. One day you will meet your child and one day your child will realize that you always loved her. If you want, I would recommend to you a great movie called "Over the top", with young Sylvester Stallone playing a truck driver, who was alienated from his son by his son's grandfather. One day they meet, and the father tells the son that he kept writing him all these years. By some accident - and who knows, it might happen to your child - his son finds all those letters and reads them. A very touchy movie. Remember - hope never dies

Sometimes it's important to shelter your child from being in harm's way.,even if that means keeping them safe away from one parent. Every case is different. Wish you had time to discuss the salient issue called personality disorders,and how sending a child into their arms is abusive on your part.So again,We must shelter our children in a healthy,protective way,by alienating them from harm...

@vadimlevashov3812

5 жыл бұрын

She did discuss the personality disorder of the alienating parent and how abusive that one could be. Unfortunately, it is usually those with such disorders who alienate kids. But Alienation is wrong, even against the one with disorder. A healthy distance, rather. But never turn a child towards hating another parent, for that's wrong.

@anthonydixon69

3 жыл бұрын

You sound stupid

one parent (who wants to hurt the other parent) manipulates the children, and the children can decide for themselves where they want to live ... and they decide not to live with the targeted parent ... and our court systems condone this ... and the PA continues....

@kimparke6653

Жыл бұрын

Exactly what happened to me. Parents who confide emotional with theur children is emotional abuse.

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I'm there (:

Yeah Kathy was that so that’s probably why she got caught up in it too. I ask once I googled her that wouldn’t that be a conflict with my religions beliefs and be in the figure she was

She's nailed it the targeted parent is me when I try to discipline my child when their misbehaved they say I don't care about their children when I do I've taken on extra responsibilities their medical appointments their father still isn't taking them to them I find my son is acting out he beats me up and his sister I document their behavior in a journal while their asleep I don't say anything about their father or his family there is abuse their father towards our son he has the kids keeping secrets my son has been telling me and my mother. My sister has told me about different things that the kids have said the other parent tells them their mother didn't pay for the daycare why they aren't allowed in the daycare this was in the beginning of the school yr. His tactics are bullying and intimidation tactics towards myself and the children he's gone as far to threaten me and the children I managed to get a restraining order, but I find the kids are still victims of abuse he's gotten them to steal from me. When he lived here they are afraid of him taking them to the movies every week I say nothing giving soft drinks 7 cavities I have medical documents proving I'm taking care of my kids poor kids I feel so bad their stuck in the middle because he placed them there this bothers me I'm going to fight for full custody plus no child support has been given over 2 yrs possibly longer. He hasn't brain washed them yet ,but my son hurts me and beats me up when he doesn't get his way and this is what I deserve he says It's very upsetting. I say nothing about this in front of them. I'm not allowed to say anything I listen to what they say also my old phone I used to record their father for over a yr the phone went missing like 2 yrs ago it's still missing their father stole it with other belongings no proof he's very manipulative he lied in court and to the social worker and told the kids I hit them and hurt them when he's been the one were the victim of conjugal abuse the court system is horrible in Montreal how much more damage before the alienated parent gets the parents rights removed.

I sent a box of photographs and memories to my Dad. 468 specific beautiful memories. NO RESPONSE!

@sophisticat7673

7 жыл бұрын

I am sorry for your experience. I hope it gets better, if you can, keep trying. i know it's hard. I know.

@vadimlevashov3812

5 жыл бұрын

Are you sure he's still alive? Or sure he got the pictures? Maybe try contacting him by other means, like a phone? After all, people are all different.

It's no joke to turn a cat against another person. I lived with a covert narcissist and he is constantly alienating my children from me. But in the past she has done this even with a cat. Because I had to catch the cat, put him in a cage and take him to the veterinarian, and the cat thus developed negative emotions towards me.

It's so sad.

Hitting on dad very hard, PAS being mostly a mom thing stats show. Easy to understand as they have costidy mostly.

My granddaughter is being brain washed against her father and all our family.

@JasonManners

3 жыл бұрын

If you get this message can you respond, I know a similar story and I was just wondering how it turned out

Yep yep yep yep

She does not think O have pleasing thoughts by her.

There is a better way. Parental custody of children is actually a very simple matter to solve given the true desire of “What is best for the child”. We first need to separate and discard marriage from family law as they no longer seem to be connected. We must develop protocols that confer (over time) equal parental rights and responsibilities,…..once parentage is proven. Children’s natural maturation process has 3 essential stages of need. A.The unconditional love of the mother from birth until about 7 years of age. The mother to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance. B.The conditional love of the father, who takes his children out into the world, gives security and teaches social boundaries from 7 until about 13 years of age. The father to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance. C.The friendship and respect of peers from 13 until 18 years of age. The child to have “thefinalsay”. If these 3 stages are not are not gone through in order, maturation is unlikely to be satisfactorily achieved and mental resilience reduced. This has now become generational. Such a regime of equal parenting rights (over time) would bind parents into a co-operative relationship, because (over time) each will hold the power of “thefinalsay” sequentially when they are best favoured to use it. Such family protocols would be the default position, but could in exceptional cases be varied by the court. Buckminster Fuller said:- “You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete”. To alleviate suffering is worthy. To prevent it is divine, but thankless.

Only Abusive Men Seem Sole Custody From Loving Mothers. Parental Alienation is Child Abuse.

Dear Amy Baker, Children do not reject parents. Not even when there is mistreatment AND distortions and delusions of abuse is ALWAYS the narrative brought forth by a pathogenic parent. The way the children align and enmesh with that abuse narrative makes it appear, even to well experience care givers, as being legitimate. In other words, when a child is rejecting a parent it is ALWAYS parental alienation.

@hiaslayer

3 жыл бұрын

Were is the study for this?

5 years ago, 11 years ago lol 3 years man doent inspire much Omg Omg OMG

Very good talk but to say that men alienate just as much as woman ruins your credibility on subject

@robertburgess5616

5 жыл бұрын

Mz London actually I have first hand real experience not just hypothetical theory

@annharrison4774

5 жыл бұрын

Men do it too! My ex-husband did it to my daughter to get at me, and now my grandchildren, He sees them at christmas, while I'm left on my own Christmas day.

@vadimlevashov3812

5 жыл бұрын

No it doesn't ruin author's credibility! Men do alienate. Is it true that most of the abusers are men? Well, the judges and other "experts" look at the statistics. What kind? Police reports! DUH! Men simply do not complain to the police. What man wants to be labeled as "He called police on his wife HA-HA"? And most men actually do believe that slapping, throwing dishes, calling names, slamming doors is OK for a woman and it is not abuse. No, it is abuse! So here goes the statistics. And because of this stupid statistics - yes, stupid! - judges automatically assign children to mother's care and automatically label men as abusers. Trust me, been there done that! Similar thing with men-women alienators. We all should stop looking at the gender and start looking at the person!

@cherylklyne4869

4 жыл бұрын

It's a sign of the times. It's what manipulative narcissistic partners do when you leave them . They use the kids as weapons. They take what you love the most in the world and use the children to hurt you. They have no regrets about the damage of alienating a daughter against her mother. Its quiet different to carry a child and go through child birth than it is to get a woman pregnant. Most women are the primary caregivers of the children during a relationship. They also pay child support too. Men are genetically programmed to impregnate as many women as they can. Women are genetically programmed to nurture their children that they have. My ex had 7 other children. The oldest was born before I left him. He had enough children in his family. He lied in court to take my only child from me and turned her against me just to spite me . Children are gifts. They are not property or pawns. He stole my gift and damaged both mine and her lives . Alienation makes children hate themselves too . Because they are brainwashed that the other parent didn't care enough them. It destroys a childs self esteem. . My daughter died alienated from me. If not for alienation she would have taken my advice . Her father used her and exploited her right up till he died. Even after his death the damage was irrepairable. I tried and she still pushed me aside.

ALIENATED PARENTS NEED TO MOBILIZE NATIONALLY AND INTERNATIONALLY. THIS PARENTAL ALIENATION CHILD ABUSE NEEDS TO BE STOPPED. DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS ON HOW WE CAN MOBILIZE NATIONALLY? ARE THERE ANY GROUPS THAT ARE ALREADY WORKING ON MOBILIZING NATIONALLY?

@timetothink01

5 жыл бұрын

There is an organisation in the UK which country are you in ?