13:37 growing up with a narcissistic parent is just like that. You have no idea what you're doing wrong but you're constantly being attacked for it

@TheZagrean

Жыл бұрын

Maybe it both, narcissistic and paranoid…I think my mum’s like that..I haven’t talked with her for the last year, it hurts me but it’s better for my mental health..

I absolutely love this woman. She is very articulate and has such an easy way of helping you understand everything.

99% my mom has this. People view her as crazy. It’s sad to me but I know I can nor fox it so I just do what I can to comfort her. She had a horrible upbringing.

@mariahcox6599

Жыл бұрын

😕

@versag3776

Жыл бұрын

Same way with my mom. She's trippin on about q conspiracies and she's susceptible to things like that. I love her and worry about her I tried to guide her through meditation but she kept trying to talk to me in the middle of it. She also had a rough upbringing.

@versag3776

Жыл бұрын

I think I have it a little bit too but I don't keep tabs on everyone, read into messages or think my spouse is cheating. I do have like a scale of trust and distrust I hold onto a fear people will use what I say against me. I oddly trust my mom to though 😅 I don't forgive people either. But it's not like how she explains like that level of control I don't have that. But I learned how to passively interrogate from my mom's paranoia and can 99% know when someone is lying to me. Through holes in their story. I found the people who broke into my storage unit for the third time in 5 years. They stole everything. It Took me 6 months tracking them. They were incredibly careful never posted anything online. I Dropped out of college to find them. Had to gain rapport with criminals to get info. They were meth dealers living in a roach infested trailer in a junkyard full of stolen cars in Millersburg Missouri. Found out they were also stealing catalytic converters and syphoning gasoline out of U-Hauls. If I'm paranoid I feel like I have a good enough reason. I can only count on one hand the number of people I can trust here. And they probably don't even trust me anymore cause honestly I went a little bit crazy trying to figure out who did this. And the famous quote here is it's better to be safe than sorry. I've been robbed at gunpoint here, had to do CPR to keep someone alive because they had overdosed. There's a serial killer on the loose here. Gang violence, drive-by shootings and a bunch of narcissism no middle class jobs just upper class slumlords and dirt poor workers. Liberal in the winter conservative in the summer. And it always seems to be either around 100° with 90% humidity or winter when the frost hits and it dips below frigid freezing everyone here makes minimum wage lives paycheck to paycheck afflicted paying most of their wages on taxes rent and credit card interest. I wanna move away so bad but don't know any good places to live.

@tangied2694

Жыл бұрын

My mom to but I’m tired I’m drained I have my own issues don’t know what to do anymore !!!

@MichelleLyn84

Жыл бұрын

@@versag3776 my goodness I would definitely move. Well you have the internet at your fingertips id google a town that has the least amount of crime first and foremost and then go from there. Lol

This sounds like someone who has PTSD from dealing with a Narcissist!

@hearme4581

Жыл бұрын

Sure does, I have spells of this. After my relationship with a narcissistic.

@Brisun

Жыл бұрын

yes my dad is a narciss

@IzzyBizzyBooBoo

Жыл бұрын

That's my question also- how to tell them apart? Does PTSD have a better chance at being healed than PPD?

growing up with someone who is a paranoid schizophrenic made me hyper vigilant about my thinking. For a long long time I thought I was quite a paranoid person, but after 40 years of watching every single so called paranoid assessment come true in real life and in practice, I have come to accept that I tend to have good instinct rather than being paranoid. Sometimes one gets a fairly good feeling for fact vs fiction without actual data, and its a good thing to be cautious when you feel this. Most people who are genuinely paranoid, tend to always be on the attack rather than overtly suspicious... well that is what I have seen over the years.

@robertharper9808

Жыл бұрын

Yes I agree I say the same ,especially after living on the streets for 33 of my 47 years of life

@paulh2981

Жыл бұрын

"After 40 years of watching every single so called paranoid assessment come true in real life and in practice..." The problem with that is that if you have PPD, you cannot rely on your own judgement about it. Your PPD will make you forget all the times you were wrong, selectively remember, you'll use confirmation bias, and so forth. Personality disorders radically change your perception of the world around you. Unfortunately, people with PPD may see that as a personal attack, or think the person treating them is trying to harm them by brainwashing them into believing a lie, because THAT IS PPD. That's why it's so resistant to treatment. The options are, you can either live in hell, or you can go towards what *appears to be* a much worse and permanent hell that's actually treatment which will relieve the hell you're living.

@edwardseverinsen5598

Жыл бұрын

"Growing up with someone who is a paranoid schizophrenic made me hyper vigilant about my thinking." It's been hitting me very hard since I was about 22. I am so paranoid about being paranoid I feel like my mental illness is PPD that involves the fear of developing PPD. It's exhausting emotionally. Having watched the result of it happen to my mother and my older brother I'm kind of terrified. They're homeless, on drugs and refuse any and all help. And seeing how everyone treats them makes me really afraid of it. However, at its core, the line of reasoning explained in the video is a deep devaluation of oneself and the villainization of others. In their reality, they're at the bottom of the totem pole, aren't worthy of love, trust, acceptance, etc. And on the other end, everyone else is above them and they themselves are so inconsequential as to just be a pawn in others games. It seems more so about a lack of confidence and a broken belief system about others. Probably stemming from childhood. And obviously some kind of issue with the persons fight or flight system. I think I'm insecure and generally have a negative view of others intentions until I get to know them better. I don't have hallucinations though. And I'm not so _paranoid_ of others to the point of it harming my own life and relationships necessarily. I think if it gets worse over time though, I'd probably say I need to be evaluated for PPD.

@truthowl3265

Жыл бұрын

​@@edwardseverinsen5598 If you've had bad experiences you're bound to feel mistrustful of others. It doesn't mean you have a personality disorder, especially if you're as introspective as you sound. Remember Dr pointed out these people are almost impossible to treat because they wouldn't go to a therapist!

@Natalie-yg5rn

Жыл бұрын

@@truthowl3265 imma very introspective and i have personality disorder

I feel like if you are a sensitive person and you have more than one time where you are afraid or don't feel safe around your family you can easily be paranoid for life

I really appreciate how she provided real-world examples. I think I have BPD and oftentimes feel paranoid about everything. Not sure if it's mental illness, low self-esteem, trauma, or actual life experiences that make me distrustful.

@leahflower9924

Жыл бұрын

I was gonna say the same about me I was thinking I have borderline but am getting more and more paranoid so can I switch over to ppd lol

@johnnyg632

Жыл бұрын

BPD is a mental illness based on low self-esteem and insecurities caused by traumas and a lack of emotional bonding in the early developmental years.

@neelubird

Жыл бұрын

I was wondering about this as well. My brother's ex ticks the boxes for BPD but she also definitely fulfils at least 5 of the 7 criteria for PPD as well. Not sure if she has both, or just one and there's some overlap.

Describes someone I know almost exactly. Hits 6/7 points on the head. It’s so difficult, painful, frustrating, and emotionally draining to be in a relationship with someone like this and I feel deeply affected by everything that happened. Thank you for this video. Makes my experience feel validated and seen.

@anonimuse6553

Жыл бұрын

I'm in the same boat. I feel for you.

@fpdhu

Жыл бұрын

Oh my god, yes, I met a girl in the summer of 2022 and she moved in with me in Oct and left this week and all these things, apart from the one of them was so so accurately describing what I have experiences with her, it's sad but helpful to understand that it wasn't all my fault

I have this and it is very difficult to explain to others. The text thing specifically. My husband gets very frustrated when I am offended by his text. The way people perceive me is frustrating as well. I do behave erratic but for me it makes perfect sense. The lady who filed for divorce probably felt very betrayed and hurt. From her perspective what she perceived happened WAS offensive enough to warrant said behavior. I have never “looked” for a hidden message in a text. What I see is obvious to me. The word for this disorder she used was pervasive and thats how it feels. It is not a choice. It actually is a terribly struggle every day to have to try to explain to your own mind that it is wrong about what it is telling you. The way these people joked about it actually was very hurtful. The put a stigma out on a disorder that 1% of people have. If 1% of people have this than honestly do you know how it feels or understand it thoroughly? Empathy over judgment.

@systemk9488

Жыл бұрын

I don’t have this disorder or know anybody who does (I don’t think) but yeah, even I picked up that it was coming across really judgmental and kind of mocking. Not what you would want from a mental health professional.

If I may add a few more: - frowning all the time - thinking of things that don't seem to satisfy - not being able to see things that make true happines Hope it's not too late for you to enjoy life 🙂

@ViktorSarge

Жыл бұрын

- sighing at jokes

Divorcing because you weren’t seated at table 1 is a good thing for the spouse. If that trivial item caused that much pain there were a lot more garbage going on in that marriage

Wow. This describes the ex I divorced. He lives by "Everyone out to get him so get them first"mantra . Anytime he felt slighted and by things he took out of context.. he'd make up his false assumptions and narratives about that person and proudly proclaims he holds grudges forever..forever hating that person and coercively controlling others around him to feel the same. He projects, blame shifts all of his paranoias, deceit, lies, and what he's guilty of onto others.

i would absolutely love to see the effects of being raised by someone with someone with PPD.

@hasinakhan6054

Жыл бұрын

Makes life a living hell. Example: I saw your mouth blabber who were you speaking to… , something that happens counties away to someone , you’ll get a lecture for that to make sure you don’t become one of them. Constantly having to be in their eye, and will try to know what you talk to friends about. Even if you are 24. Depending on the parent some has it just for the daughters and not the son. Anyways it grows you to become like them so everything that they said would happen if you did this and that gets into your head…. The simple little things like taking a pic with friends would give you anxiety and panic attacks as you start to imagine everything that could go wrong with that pic which mama told you would, even if it’s a decent class photo. Makes you grow into a paranoid person Long story short… you’ll end up one way or the other as a person with PPD , even if you changed your identity and lived far away so you don’t have parent pressure ( usually you’ll see them as toxic people and you’ll think if you lived alone, you’ll be better and won’t have to suffer this ), but once something goes how you suspected, you are doomed for life , mad trust issues and everything mama said was right. Think of it as Rapunzel and her witch mother.

@ashreactive

Жыл бұрын

@@hasinakhan6054 this was trigger-y to read. i get it.

@jfoster1664

Жыл бұрын

Would probably end up with the same disorder or borderline personality disorder.

@darklybright

Жыл бұрын

@@hasinakhan6054 Must have been hell going through all that. I just want to say that what you described is going on for the adult child sounds like CPTSD. I hope you all the best.

@wildestofhoney

Жыл бұрын

I personally don't exhibit signs of PPD but I feel like I actually developed the opposite - I tend to over-explain myself and am sometimes transparent to a fault. I don't keep many secrets. My PPD mom never let me have any privacy, she was very surveillant and mistrustful, so I just didn't grow up with very good boundaries. I have C-PTSD and have worked with a therapist on exercising better boundaries.

This video has helped me in understanding my childhood with a PPD parent. Paranoid patterns seem to be behind much of the aggro, fear and confusion generated online and it helps the public to understand this, thank you.

Trust me, being a “single mom” is def not as you say “an honor”…in most situations it’s a regrettable choice. I know.

@amberbassoN12

Жыл бұрын

And brings forth a good deal of guilt.

really appreciate the content on this channel, it's great to hear from professional therapists/psychiatrists. I've learned so much and gained so much self awareness, thank you for sharing these awesome and informative videos 🙏

My husband has all 7. I have been trying to prove myself to him for our entire relationship.

@eimanelzein9171

Жыл бұрын

have you tried anything that worked with him??

@isobel64

Жыл бұрын

That's unfortunate. Arent you tired?

@tarawallace8672

Жыл бұрын

I have tried. I pray alot. I am exhausted.

@patrickturner3278

Жыл бұрын

gross

@patrickturner3278

Жыл бұрын

divorce you can not fix crazy

Beautifully illustrated like always.

Interesting session Dr. Ramani, keep up the good work at Medcircle kind regards Worrell Robinson

Well, I am not paranoid. #3 was because I was growing up with a narcissist. Once I left, I realized people weren't like them and it was sooo liberating. Ironically the way I beat the narcissist was telling the truth and accepting my flaws. No matter what they say or think, it didn't matter anymore. Strangely I can now spot who is not part of the norm by feeding them truth and seeing what they do with it. I don't trust humans though.

Fascinating. Thank you for posting these.

this just gave me chills!!! i was wondering about someone and thought about periods being in the wrong spot in a text to set them off. i mean, just as Dr. Ramani went to say it. WOW.

OMG, things finally make sense. I have a colleague with many features mentioned in this video. Of course, I´m not going to diagnose her based on a video, but this was very helpful. Thanks, medcircle and Dr. Ramani.

They say the worst ways to go thru life is when you have paranoid personality disorder and people really ARE out to get you

@leahflower9924

Жыл бұрын

As a scapegoat I feel like chronic paranoia is part of the game

@AJ22-80

Жыл бұрын

@@leahflower9924 paranoia is an unrealistic and unfounded distrust. Suspicion is when you have been given good reason not to trust. As a scapegoat, your fears are neither unrealistic nor unfounded. You have come by your fears for very good reason

@ibabechanel

Жыл бұрын

@@leahflower9924 THIS.

Knowledge is power. Understanding is wisdom. This is an educational video. Its an exciting learning tool, which is teaching learning skills that are saving lives both literally and figuratively

In this chaotic sick society today it seems normal to me to be paranoid about the government and bank systems.

@cbryce9243

Жыл бұрын

I'm not sure "paranoid" is the right word for what is happening in gov't.

@voice2skull.

Жыл бұрын

I'm more concerned about this creepy cringe lady with those GIANT eyes 👀 and her incessant need to MEDICATE the world, just for feeling a little off.

@raystanczak4277

Жыл бұрын

It does seem overwhelming to deal with these huge, faceless entities. I dealt with the banks by kicking their asses to the curb and joining a credit union a couple of decades ago. That alone removed all their nonsense from my life instantly. It’s easy, because the CU will usually cancel the bank account for you! They’re member-owned, and that makes a big difference. The government-not so easy to deal with (can’t kick them to the curb.) The best method I’ve found is to stay informed, but I make sure to focus not only on the bad, but equally on the good that comes from having a government. Social Security, for instance-in 80 years, they’ve never missed a check or run out of funds. I think of the hundreds of millions of people who have felt relief and gratitude when the check arrives, because many have no other source of income. Regarding the “bad” things that governments do, all we can do is deal with it as it comes, and try to vote for people who think like us and will represent us properly. To me, those are people who fund their campaigns mainly with small donations from us. I’ve been around for 72 years-these are things that work pretty well for me. They don’t seem so overwhelming when I break them down some, and deal with the parts rather than the whole. That has required enough reading and listening to identify what the parts are. That’s the down side, that you have to study the thing that feels threatening in order to make it less threatening. But mainly, take care of yourself-millions of us understand what you’re feeling here. It’s that kind of time in our country and our lives. Peace.

@AJ22-80

Жыл бұрын

That's the difference between paranoia and suspicion

@TopperPenquin

9 ай бұрын

Doc, I don't wish to alarm you with Paranoia but your Brain is Swelling due to Anxiety Water Retention. 😳

I had a college roommate back in the early 90’s who I believe had PPD. I lived with her for one semester. She was always accusing people of stealing from her. She accused me of stealing her calculator. She was always suing people in small claims court, too. She filed a suit against me for stealing something, I don’t remember the details now. She filed 3 other lawsuits at the same time. When the first one got thrown out by the judge, she dropped the rest. That was the last I ever heard of her. I don’t think I was ever happier to get a person out of my life.

That is shocking but the person actually got released from an awful relationship. What a liberation!

OMG. Mum was described as being paranoid schizophrenic by some family members and just plain bad by others. I questioned whether she might be autistic. My only sibling showed no interest on shedding light on things preferring instead to focus on minimalising the significance of the situation at hand and then proceeding to lay claim to the idea that they had provided 'managerial' input, which they clearly had'nt. So I researched everything I could find independantly in the area of personality disorder in general before during and after 'the job' just to try and make sense of what I had experienced in the family and out in the world. Evidently missed this one. I settled on a label of narcissism. Either way I became aware that she's had a rotten life up to the point she became ill and apart from recognising that being around her at this time was an opportunity to perhaps get to the bottom of things it never for one moment occurred to me to abandon her(not that you could have convinced her of that)..As for my motivation I thought to myself you'd hate to be wrong. What if there were a perfectly logical explanation for their behaviour? You would'nt have abandoned someone who was autistic or judged them in the same way. Do you need to have the answer at your fingertips at the time? I think not and anyway I'm not a trained psychologist. This PPD looks a closer match though I recognise there can be overlap between these categories. She was very paranoid, secretive, mistrustful and hypersensitive though bless her and was an unforgiving hoarder of grudges....we can all learn from that.But this ticks a lot of other boxes too, perfectionism in relation to communication that turned things like letter-writing, when you were required to do it under her supervision...and that was always the case...into a nightmare, being one practical example. In her last days I used to wake up in the night to the sound of her screaming "LEAVE ME ALONE!!!" so god knows what that was about or who did what to her and when. There are so many things it could've been. Or perhaps it was simply an expression of the underlying belief that 'everyone is out to get me' as defined in the vid. Would be interesting to know where that first originated. R.I.P Mum. Hope the spelling and punctuation was correct LOL Thankyou for another very interesting vid to ponder.

This is ME. People truly just can't be trusted and eveytime I did, they always messed up. I'm pisces, so before I give up on people, you know it's been a rather long road. Now, I'm locked in this paranoia prison of mistrust and it's quite lonely. Was the scapegoat and a truth seer and I think I'm on the spectrum (undiagnosed). Can't trust or confide in anyone bcos they'll take advantage of you. Guaranteed. I've become angry, bitter and full of hate and rage at how awful and evil people can be. Feel like my soul is burnt. Pls, I need help. I want to be free and happy again Help me.

@looweegee252

Жыл бұрын

Your sign doesn't dictate your personality, that's just another excuse for bad behavior like bad boundaries and giving too many chances You don't need help as much as you just need to take responsibility at all times

The table placement reminds me of how Harry has been moved down many tiers due to the troublesome new spouse.

Excellent videos, very educational. Won't there be a bump in cases as the surveillance state ramps up?

Try being the daughter of one. My dad was finally diagnosed in his 50’s. Growing up with him made me always feel guilty for not communicating and sharing everything, because in his mind, even his own child, an innocent young child, was someone of suspicion. I felt inherently bad inside myself because my dad was looking for anything about me as if I was inherently bad and I had to prove I was good. Having my own children, I can’t imagine looking at them as out to get me, even when they were small. Or that they’re not inherently good and have to prove themselves to be good. One time my 2yr old threw a tantrum in the grocery store when I was visiting my dad and he was convinced she did it to make him look bad in front of others. He’d think certain “bad” people from his past were calling him when it was just telemarketers. It made such a mess of my life for so many years (I was an ideal partner for easily jealous guys) until it made sense when my dad was diagnosed.

I've seen how horrible things can get as a result of "wedding guest placement" and learned early on just how significant it is. We went to a wedding where the bride and groom had their reception at a very nice place with a big "offshoot" room(?) where they placed the waitstaff and chefs and some of the guests... AND where the band was playing. There were folks who took it very personally, however, I realized the best thing to do was NOT to allow this unsettling experience to get the better of ANYONE. So as not to give any "satisfaction" to the mean bride AND to prevent anyone from enjoying our dismay? I danced, showing off my lovely new dress ALL night to a rather amazing band! This DID, in fact, take the attention off of the unfortunate seating arrangement!! That's what I call... getting even and enjoying it. All's well that ends well.

Not someone you want to come across to! If on top they suffer TOC... Omg! Don't let them talk to you about a "relationship". Do run away!

Thanks so much for the good summary! I still have to deal with a former colleague, who I think might have PPD... my former bosses and me seem to be on his hitlist :-(

Amazing article 🙏✝️

I love these videos. I just have one suggestion. Whilst so very informative, I think it would also be beneficial to talk about the underlying pathophysiology if it is known about these disorders too. Because when talking only about the traits, we almost forget that this isn’t a choice. It’s not something the individual has control over. And these individuals need help and support.

@wolfgangk1

Жыл бұрын

Speaking as a therapist, paranoid personalities are extremely difficult to treat. Now, speaking as a brother. I have a sister who has a paranoid personality, and as you said, she did not choose it she was odd as a child. I've tried to address it through the backdoor and the only breakthrough that I detect is that she'll say, "I know what you're going to say." when she makes an irrational, unfounded suspicious claim.

I'd never met someone like this either, until my last boyfriend. "Drama In the Frozen Food Aisle" every other freaking day. He hits 6 out of the 7 characteristics. What a nightmare.

I've gleaning a personality profile from listening to Kyle's comments-and he's HIGH MAINTENANCE. For instance: He admitted to CONFRONTING a person for using "sure" when responding." Does he have any idea what that CONFRONTATION conveys to others? I'm a guy, some folks aren't chatty--I get and RESPECT that.

i’m saddddd because i can kind of relate to this and it drives me crazyyy

thank you for your videos

I understand the reaction of #6 personally. Just because I jsut met YOUR friend doesnt mean you need to tell them MY business, if I want to tell them Im a mother, or barren or whatever thats up to me, not for you to share imo.

This makes us sound like we are vicious, I am not vicious, I am trying to heal with therapy and owning up to my C-PTSD. Not all PPD's are this vindictive, manipulative, clueless, or resentful. From someone with PPD and severe C-PTSD, if you want a tip, we just want someone to be curious about what we experience instead of shame, being ignored, rejected and gaslit. It all comes from trauma and lack of love and attention, so blaming and shaming, laughing at our nightmare, and ignoring will only make it worse. It's really not funny. I am a very kind person so maybe this video i sin regard to PPD's who have done zero work.

@fgfgfg4

Жыл бұрын

I agree.

i don't envy the people who have to study the DSM for years, and THEN have to deal with the big med/pharma insurance crap.

Amazing ! From what I have learned, it is better to release them into the wild blue!

My brother's ex definitely fulfils at least 5 of these 7 criteria. She always assumed my brother was cheating in the marriage even though he wasn't and then told the same lies to the kids which affected his relationship with them. Also there was one time we went with relatives to see their first babies and a guest asked where do the babies sleep? They happened to sleep downstairs in a cot in the dining room so my mum said they slept downstairs and my brother's (then) wife really took offence like how dare she say my babies sleep downstairs when they actually sleep downstairs. She had a very irrational grudge against mum in particular which spread to resentment towards all of us that came from nowhere. Perceived insults were a huge thing- EVERYTHING offended her and none of it made sense. When she finally filed for divorce my brother was devastated and my parents were upset but I was relieved cos it was obvious things couldn't continue like that.

@CABeck-pn6mi

Жыл бұрын

This gives me hope, No children involved. Praying for my son to get free from his PPD wife!

Please if you could do a segment on trauma based Full Body memories. There is nothing on this except stating that it’s false memories in reports. Someone I know in their 40s started having these and I & their immediate family & a counselor witnessed these memories . They lasted consistently for several months & still happens every now & then 10 yrs later. Traumatic, events such as sexual abuse by several people, drugging & sadistic things. Nothing was extremely vivid though, so some people do not believe it happened. This happened when they were around 4-7 yrs old & they mention who but not a full blown visual. They are aware of themselves when in the body memory. Thank you

@nataliaalfonso2662

Жыл бұрын

There’s a lot about this. Tons of somatic psychotherapy. Read “the body keeps the score.”

It seems that the accusation of paranoid personality disorder could be an ideal weapon for people with narcissistic personality disorder when they use gaslighting, especially when the person with the disorder works as a psychologist, psychotherapist or psychiatrist.

My ex sister in law seemed like one of the paranoid personality disorder and was always thinking my brother was cheating on her, suspected everything, always questioning him, and I always thought she was paranoid, but it actually turned out to be true and not bc she was questioning him. It had been going on for a long time. He would have fooled me too, I thought he was completely honorable, and I thought he would never do something like that to his marriage. I thought he would be the type to get out of the marriage first.

I wish I could sit down with the doc and see what she says about me 💯

Can brain damage from drugs cause some level of this in a narcissist? My ex is a textbook covert narc but his levels of paranoia are off the charts! He’s been a regular cocaine abuser for 20 years so I know he has a lot of brain damage (possible mini strokes and all that, he cannot sit still and twitches constantly, his hands move nonstop in odd ways, looks like Parkinson’s sometimes) and in the last five years he has gotten so paranoid he is obsessed with Qanon and every conspiracy out there and convinced everyone is out to get him - it’s an intense change to happen in just five years. I feel like the drugs might’ve just rotted enough of his brain to let it out fully and it would be sad if he wasn’t evil

@hearme4581

Жыл бұрын

I would think so!

I live with this person unfortunately 😕 there is no drama on the frozen food aisle, more like murder on the frozen food aisle and my time is not mine, its theirs, and everyone is a threat and everyone attacks them and is out to get them. I am sneaky and always hiding everything even though they have all my passwords and pincodes. My mental health is starting to struggle living in this environment. I have to triple think before I speak, I have to constantly reassure this person, things my friends say are misinterpreted so much so that my friends have disappeared from my life, male family members are a threat.

@KimberlyJemi

Жыл бұрын

I hope you’re able to get your own place for you mental health sake.

@evacope1718

Жыл бұрын

My ex was the same, gave me insane anxiety. I lost my friends too. My world became so small. If they wont get help, leave.

@medcircle what’s the difference between BPD vs. PPD?

I have zero medical or help. But I do so much self help work. Well well well, I definitely have this issue to. BPD & paranoid personality and much more. So much more😱😥

I am in love and living with someone who has all 7 of these signs of PPD. I am desperate to figure out how to tell them that they have this and how to help them over come the thought patterns that define this disorder.

I never learned about this and am shocked.

my ex had this and they can definitely be delusional, and they do not think they are paranoid so it is hard for them to get help.

I heard the word "client" and not patient. For those with mental, emotional health issues, is either word acceptable and do we use the term "client" for a particular reason? Thanks.

I have just watched your video on ppd. I have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder, ptsd, anxiety and depression and after watching this have realised that I may have been misdiagnosed. What would you suggest I do next? Thanks 🙏

@Natalie-yg5rn

Жыл бұрын

Go to different therapist

I’m curious, if someone with PPD can file for divorce for being seated at the wrong table, how would they have gotten married in the first place? Someone like that is just not possible to get close to

So there's Borderline Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Histrionic Personality Disorder, and now......Paranoid Personality Disorder. How about........Excessive Labelling Disorder? Or Weird Personality Disorder? Seriously, I don't believe you can fit a whole personality into one category, into one 'disorder'. Everyone's got a bit of every so-called disorder in them if you look closely enough at the definitions, just to different degrees. I think the whole mental health profession is obsessed with labels, something to hook on someone to convince them they need therapy.

Yes about the respect thing..I haven't met a lot but there's a couple of folks.. it's not good

Can vulnerable/covert NPD overlap with PPD?

DSM V was a giveaway to pharmaceutical companies which is a large reason why insurance companies reject it. The fact that 99% of the book is completely subjective does not do it any favors but psychology/psychiatry is nearly completely subjective and lacks diagnostic validity.

oh shit. maybe my ex had this, not narcissism. maybe both. i just feel bad for him at this point. he was always trying to accuse me of cheating, so he went out and cheated and claimed he just wanted to beat me to it cause i would eventually cheat? what amazing logic. he'd also get really mad if i didn't answer my phone when i was away and i would be sleeping. i had a drug problem and constantly thought i was on drugs when i was actually not, but i can't blame him for that one, but he was a pot-head, so he was also an addict. i think pot may have contributed to his paranoia. anyway god bless. i hope people with these afflictions can heal because it's no way to live.

Oh wow so interesting, must be so exhausting being around someone like this

What’s the difference between borderline personality disorder and paranoid personality disorder?and there’sskizotypal too How do they even figure out what you have?

It's only notice why doc. Shaking her legs it must be very difficult work to deal with so much stressful situations but I'm really thankful to ur videos n work you do for people. Just few days ago found chanel n truly so eye opening to me.

I think what the situation with people who are misdiagnosed with Schizophrenias or Schizo-Effective Disorder, the Covert Narcissist who the patient is dealing with is definitely giving them the same type of crazymaking, so it important to know the symptoms are just a natural reaction. To be misdiagnosed, it is furthering the trauma the Narcissist inflicts directly to them and the medication causes a lot of hallucinations, plus they switch them from medication to medication as there is no change at all, still Schizophrenia type symptoms.

@NothingCompares2U

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Then the Narcissist always has the misdiagnosis to use, like with the family of Narcissist they use the diagnosis to demean and be hurtful.

@patrickturner3278

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that just sounds like the pharmaceutical industry

Dr. Ramani is so pretty and intelligent

I can seek other help, you seem to be the expert. I chose to leave him. I still reside in the home, but have an upstairs apartment converted home. Excalaction has accured. How do I tone it done to make this liveable?

Is it possible for someone to meet the criteria for codependency, narcissism, and paranoid personality all at the same time?

I started dating a guy and walked in and his entire computer was torn apart. I figured he was just overly diligent at cleaning. Then noticed he had masking tape On all screw holes in garage. He thought they were cameras? Ya....

Crazy thing is you really can’t trust the world …but i bet it is definitely a tough diagnoses to have , but I’m sure it a reason why people have ppd , something traumatic had to happen to them… also I think it’s a lot of hypersensitivity as well

There are people and many that are right about their feelings with regards to people being deceiving, as there are so many deceiving people in the world today, I work in a company of thousands of people for over 25 years and see them all. I see narcissists, I see many who can't be trusted (with proof of their behavior with many people) I see all kinds. On the other hand, a person who has been abused by a narcissist or more than one narcissist (as there are many out there), may appear sensitive this way, due to the way they were treated. I'm sure you are only talking about the extreme cases where it takes over almost every aspect of their being, and I see people like this too. The thing is, if it's really happening and I've seen cases, where people are really treating them this way, and that could very well happen when others gossip about that person and other people instigating and manipulate others to treat that person that way. Many people follow the crowd, and don't use their own judgement, they listen to gossip. In many cases, I say these people if they don't trust should go with their gut, but I get what you're saying about extreme cases, but before we say they are paranoid, we really need to investigate, every aspect of this due to reasons I have explained, as we may not know the whole story behind it.

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Definitely, a tough illness to have. Ironically, something definitely had to happen to make their brains that way

I've been diagnosed with PTSD, Bipolar, BPD, ADHD, Generalized Anxiety, Depression. I've been paranoid and and will every so year quit taking my meds because of agoraphobia. What should I do. I have been thorough CBT, DBT, and many treatments. Also paranoid of Wars, Global Economy, and who or what to trust. Distraction techniques are the only thing that seems to work.

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Sending you positive thoughts

How can a patient of PPD ever make way to therapy? If it were for her dad and my dad, my mother would have become homeless long time ago. Unfortunately, because she was able to stay at the house my dad bought, she has the ability to lock herself out from all possibilities of treatments.

I’m paranoid: due to stalkers….

My Grandma had this.

I'm shocked...I have all these signs I never was like this...this behavior or lifestyle started in my early 30s.. I knew sumthing wasn't right...after watching this video it clearly explains everything...but the ??? i need to know is how or what causes pipol to be like this

ok so if someone shows the signs of paranoid personality disorder BUT they have legitimately been in situations that would cause a reasonable person to show those signs-like say maybe someone who legitimately did have a stalker that would do all sorts of crazy stuff to them-is the person showing paranoid signs someone with PPD or are they distrustful as any reasonable person would be? What is the treatment for someone with PPD? Would anti-depressants help or make it worse?

Please how can I make my loved one convince him that I love him so much and would never do any thing to hurt him how I can do that please and what the diagnosis for some one is paranoid because paranoia is a symptom not sickness please if u can tell me what’s the sickness called ?

My son tells me that his right has been taken from him and I m doing some thing against him and behind him by stealing his right some thing to do with health care and I don’t know what he means by that and he never turn the lights on when he is in his room or showering he hates lights he thinks there is camera in my house I am very very sad to see my very smart son turning to this person can u tell me what kind of paranoia is this ? He doesn’t think he needs help at all please if there is some thing I can help him with please I cry every day when I see or hear doctors talk a bout this subject Thank u

If someone have paranoid personality disorder does that mean that person have schizofrenia? Does paranoid personality disorder can be just separate disorder and that someone just have paranoid personality disorder without beeing diagnosed with schizofrenia?

It’s so similar to NPD is it possible there’s an overlap?

Throwing away parts of life is a regular practice for some.

Dr. Ramani is getting younger & younger & younger & younger ...

I mean not make excuses for these people but life is undoubtedly hard lol.

When you are trying to protect yourself from narcissistic abuse, you can get framed on this right?

How do you tell someone , you believe they have this?

My mom!!! This is what it is?!? I swear! Example: I mentioned how I needed to put on shoes before walking outside, because the stones in the driveway hurt my bare feet. Soooo, she started with this pissing growl voice saying how everyone's driveways are made the same way, with an angry face. What the heck do you do to prevent that from happening? 😮‍💨 I never know what's going to make her explode. It's like they are bombs, but when you send a person to disarm the bomb, they can cut the correct color wire and it still explodes.

Great! Now I’m not sure if I have this or I’m married to a covert narcissist… 😳 🤯

How is this different from paranoid schizophrenia?

I want to know what they don't have treatments for

I think my ex-boyfriend had this. I thought he did 2 years ago when we were just friends

Like to know the stats for their childhood, any abuses, let downs etc. extreme unable to trust all human beings.

You know we have to look at what a paranoia disorder is again

It sounds like they love projection

Having moderate intellectual disability with autism I am polar opposite of this. I have met paranoid people. Seems more common than npd, hpd. Another terrible disorder.