You know what would fix our toxic and violent relationship? Adopting a child!

@quanbrooklynkid7776

Жыл бұрын

Damn

@deniece0821

7 ай бұрын

Exactly. Why do people always think a baby/child is going to fix a terrible relationship? It never does and the poor child is the collateral damage.

@christiansamaroo

7 ай бұрын

Dear relationship was a sin punishable by death. There will be no rest for the wicked.

Nothing makes you warm & cozy on a cold day like Dr. Grande not diagnosing only speculating.

@nhmooytis7058

Жыл бұрын

😊😊😊

@tomheineman4369

Жыл бұрын

Nothing makes me feel warm and cozy on a cold day like doctor Grande diagnosing everybody in my family and all my friends.

@Giantshredder

Жыл бұрын

Cringe

@JettsMom

Жыл бұрын

Lol I just peaked outside... and I totally agree... making some hot coco and spending the morning with Dr. Grande. Lol

@Georgieastra

Жыл бұрын

Just a theory...his opinion.

I'm totally fine with watching true crime yet the thought of going on a Caribbean cruise while having $100,000 in debt gives me extreme anxiety lol

@jacquelinewilliams5661

Жыл бұрын

😅

@watcher235711

Жыл бұрын

OMG I had the same thought! Just the number of mentions of debt...nervous!

@evelynwaugh4053

Жыл бұрын

From their point of view, what's another 10k or so? They're likely past the point of no return.

@glasshalffull2930

Жыл бұрын

An ex-sister-in-law had run up about $115,000 in credit card debt. She kept the debt secret from my brother and would get new cards and transferred the debt numerous times. She rented a PO Box so that the statements never came to the house. The only good thing was that except for her last fling of about $6aK, all the debt was in her name alone and the credit card companies couldn’t come after my brother. The best we can figure is that she probably had debt she hid when they were married and then kept building it for the 6 years they were married.

@watcher235711

Жыл бұрын

@@glasshalffull2930 What did she spend it on? Oof, glad she's an ex!

So many irresponsible, deceptive, selfish, volatile, and violent people in our world😪

@elbertderf803

Жыл бұрын

the incompetent Judge fits here somewhere too.

@rnempson1

Жыл бұрын

Violent lesbians fact

@stalkerstomper3304

Жыл бұрын

@@rnempson1 Yes. Unfortunately there seems to be some link between the LGBT community with controlling their emotions and making rational decisions. A lifestyle of any kind of deep sin seems to consistently lead to a steep decline in morals and judgement.

The way you sprinkle humor throughout these mostly disturbing accounts is absolutely brilliant.

Wow, that’s a toxic, abusive relationship. 😢 That poor child growing up in the middle of all of that.

@theappraizer

Жыл бұрын

I haven’t watched this yet, but based on the brief info I was able to find out by running a search on her name, it does appear to be a trend with lesbian couples adopting children and it ends horribly. It does appear to be a trend. A statistical police trend.

@aarondavis8943

Жыл бұрын

@@theappraizer What data are you quoting here? The "I watched lots of videos" data set?

@user-xg3uy6hq9g

Жыл бұрын

@@aarondavis8943 probably

@GiftSparks

Жыл бұрын

@@aarondavis8943 No doubt. An endless diet of watching Dateline, 48 Hours, 20/20, Snapped, and Killer Couples.

@xminusone1

Жыл бұрын

@@theappraizer I don't have read anything but I believe you. Adopting or having kids takes alot of time and dedication. I'm convinced some people somehow think they're Adopting a pet. They have troubles to dedicates themselves in a stable relationship, let alone raising a kid. Edit: I've 2 adults kids myself so I know what I'm talking about.

“When anger is combined with impulsivity it can lead to an action that causes everything to be lost.” That’s so true. Actions dominated by anger are almost always destructive. Fantastic review, Dr. Grande.❤ I hope you have an enjoyable weekend.🍂🍃🍁

@KoolT

Жыл бұрын

And alcoholic. They were drinkers too.

@kevinrex7414

Жыл бұрын

@@KoolT Good fact. Anger and impulsivity are demons alcohol can unleash.

@user-xg3uy6hq9g

Жыл бұрын

I have to agree . anger can be at times motivation for positive change but coupling the anger with impulsivity is destructive.

Some counties don't allow charges to be dropped anymore on domestic violence cases. Thank goodness.

How do people make it that far in life with such poor coping skills?

Special recognition to the adoption agency for an excellent job and to the three juries who couldn't see the obvious.

Alternative title: A Step by Step Guide to Commit Homicide. With so many homicidal staircases, you’d think they’d cease to be built. The murder rate would decrease. Anyway, Happy Weekend, Dr. G! 🍻

Good morning Dr Grande . What a toxic relationship. That little girl shouldn't have been raised in that situation. I believe Kara allegedly killed her wife. My sympathy goes too the little girl who will probably lose both parents. Thank you Dr Grande. Brilliant analysis, tragic outcome and informative topic.

@paganpines

Жыл бұрын

What is wild to me is that she is currently living with her parents and daughter while awaiting trial. I would be really uncomfortable living with someone who very likely killed someone.

@cottontails9003

Жыл бұрын

@@paganpines Thank you Kelly . I agree the little girl should be with someone safe and neutral, not involved with the current situation.

@dws84

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, gay couples shouldn’t be allowed to have children.

@christiansamaroo

7 ай бұрын

@@cottontails9003 at the trial the little girl was crying for her mother’s release. So apparently your feelings and other people feelings are two different feelings. Because she clearly believes she was innocent.

I looked up the word "Redundant" in the dictionary. The definition referred me to the FOUR trials for this crime.

I'd say they needed accounting classes and AA. Wow. Only Italian mother's are allowed to hit you with the spatula.

@trentbrownstone1481

6 ай бұрын

Ayoh! Ma! AnnaMarie fell downtchra stairs! Oh!

It was wrong of the judge to threaten to take their daughter away if they needed the court system again. Wonder if they had lawyers there.....

@jenniferlane9000

Жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing, because they would inflict a lot on each other and felt they couldn't call police.

Is it me, or were there several (many) warning signs along the way to this tragedy?

Thank you as always Dr. Grande! I really appreciate how your jokes are always funny never disrespecting the victims. (I noticed this a lot with your latest Delphi vid too). Request: please cover the case of Priscilla Phillips (book by Nancy Wright, "A Mother's Trial"). Thank you for all you do!

@ToyInsanity

Жыл бұрын

Just don't say "you wanna bet?" to a gambling addict. This really irks Dr G

You remind me of Bob Ross. Oddly soothing and calming. But your voice is actually helping me focus on a project I’ve been working on for the past couple of weeks.

Homicide suspects can leave the state? Sounds like two unstable women. She definitely is guilty I feel. Great analysis & quips again🧺. Thanks Dr G😊🧡🧡

@cottontails9003

Жыл бұрын

Hello my friend , will be back in Australia on Monday. Hope you and your mum are good. Have missed you 😜😘❤💙💙💙✉☕🌷🌸🌹🍀Also good with medical software on computer, need too know how to highlight etc. 😂😢😜

Is there a test people can take before entering into a relationship to assist them in deciding if it’s the right move? It seems being single and alone has a certain amount of power.

@aarondavis8943

Жыл бұрын

Yes there is! It's called the "Don't Go out with Fuckwits Minnesota Protocol". The problem here isn't detecting bad people. The problem is knowing someone is bad and going out with them anyway. In any case, the judge was correct: Both women were idiots who didn't care enough about their daughter to do the right thing. She could have spent money on a lawyer and finding a new house; instead she went on a Caribbean cruise with her abuser. Nuff said.

@mariagabrielle6383

Жыл бұрын

@@erikparent1065 No hotdogs in this relationship.

@tinawindham6958

Жыл бұрын

Haha no hotdogs…..hahaha .

@xminusone1

Жыл бұрын

If you're not happy alone, you can't have a relationship. It's my opinion. If someone is not happy alone, a relationship will temporarily fix the situation but will end up way worse over time.

@xminusone1

Жыл бұрын

@@erikparent1065 You can do a hot dog party with a random person. No need to be in a relationship for this. You can have some tacos for your extra meat any time.

I think this is great. When women marry other women they see up close what men go through 😅

Looks like another good one. Thanks Doc! Also, when I submitted my little list of people that might be worth a video, I forgot you had already done Christine Chubbuck. Sorry about that. Bud Dwyer might be good, too. Great joke at 8:13. Also, "gravity-assisted journey down the stairs" was great, too.

When I think I spend too much money, I hear things like this, people with WILD spending issues. This is why I don't have credit cards at all.

Great catch on this case, Grande! :-) At first blush, very compelling. I had never heard of it. Usually, I do like to watch a brief summary of the case before I hear your take on it, but you’ve got an exclusive here my friend! There’s a few snippets from the news, but it’s definitely not one of those cases that appears on every true crime channel on KZread, that’s for sure. I could not find one summary of this case, except yours. That’s not the first time either! :-) I appreciate the Extra effort to find new material! I don’t think the Internet needs another Jeffrey Dahmer video. ;-) greatly appreciate your work and insight! Thank you! 👍

Poor Brianna. When the only adult in the house is a child, it's not good. Separate, Murder which sounds more sane? I wish my head wld fall off too!

Where do I find these people who will give me a credit card and wait eight hrs at a store to purchase a product for me? Oh wait, I have a sense of shame, so I wouldn't be able to make use of the sad sacks even if I knew any.

Another dysfunctional relationship or relationships. I’m so glad I am so uncomplicated and interestingly I’ve always picked up on people that are flaky and avoid them like the plague. There are a lot of nutty people out there - if you can avoid them like the plague lest you end up on Dr Grande

A video on the Lacy Fletcher case would be good

This is my favorite part of the weekend! Thank you Dr. Grande! 🙏🏼❤

Happy weekend, Dr. Grande🥰

Hello Dr. Grande, I am amazed how you educated yourself in such a short time from one video to the next with clear details. And you even manage to throw in some humor in the videos. Exceptional. Thank you for your hard work. Best Regards

My mom attacked my sister with a spatula! My sister's cries sounded painful as my mom chased her around the house! It sounds silly, it's just a spatula, however, the wielder can be super vicious and beat the living he'll out of you because there are less marks made by a spatula, it's kind of like being hit by a fly swater, more psychologically damaging than serious injury.

They loved the drama they created and that poor child suffered because of their never ending stupidity and co dependency on each other Co dependency isn't love Its need

"This time they went semi-gloss!" LOL! Is it bad that I watch your videos for your humor? This doesn't make me a psychopath does it?

Hello Dr grande! Thank you for covering this story. I live in spfld ma and am very familiar with the case ,and I hope that Karla gets art lessons in prison!

@LadyOfMaine

Жыл бұрын

I do too! Greetings from Forest Park!

@kathycincotta3657

Жыл бұрын

I'm in westfield now but a very good friend worked beside the victim for 4 years at Baystate hospital offices.had nothing but sweet things to say about her : (

@Cat-qo3ht

10 ай бұрын

I do, too😮

"This time they went semi-gloss" 🤣 That is the easiest to clean 🤷‍♀️

"Keep laughing it up Dr -- it's all fun and games til the primer is down" -- Springfield Painter, probably

“I think it would’ve been more accurate to say she was the only suspect” Omg I had a keep playing that l. Was just the way you said it. You manage to turn the most gruesome of incidents into Comedy Central Dr Grande! 😂 “An uncontrolled gravity-assisted journey” Sorry everyone for keep repeating Dr Grande’s one liners but they are just so funny! At least it’s something to keep my humour up on the way to work on a dark morning.

"...because so and so dropped the charges." Whenever you hear that, bad things are going to happen. And the only "strange power" at work here was the ability to spot a chump. Who would give this woman their own credit card with thousands of dollars of accessible credit? A chump.

Thank you Dr. Grande! Very astute analysis and no glossing over the details. Gratefully, Dennis

Thanks, Dr. Grande!

Waiting for Grande. Let’s do this! Thanks, Grande.

Good morning Dr. Grande!

Thanks again for the great analysis, Dr. Grande!

Always appreciated the educational material thanks Dr 😊

Good morning, Doctor Grande !!! 😀 I can't wait to see this video ---Thank you !!! 👍

Thank you for a great summary and analysis.

You are a delight to watch:) Clever& seeing the truth.

Good morning Dr Grande😊you’ve got a great sense of humor. I look forward to your reviews of these cases.

Good morning Dr Grande, once again an excellent analysis of a crime. Love the Serial killer joke.

As far as the paint that applies pink, and dries white, within one hour: that would depend on the moisture, material, humidity, and temperature. It’s possible that if the paint were poured onto a liquid (blood), or mixed with the liquid (water, cleaning chemicals), it could take several hours to dry, possibly even much longer. Also, if you applied moisture to the Drying paint, it may return to pink, because it’s been remoisturized. Thus, go from white back to pink, if it were not already entirely dry. Obviously, I have no idea how pouring such paint onto cloth or clothing or wet surfaces, such as a clothed body, and various amounts of blood, would effect the properties of the paint that is supposed to go from pink to white. But it is not reasonable to estimate the time of estimated “dry time” of one hour as relevant to a bloody body, or wet / moist surface. Paint that is supposed to turn from pink to white within approximately one hour, and using that presence or absence of pink color as some sort of a measurement of time, is completely obliterated by the fact that it’s poured onto a wet / moist surface, and also a cloth surface, moist with blood, water, cleaning supplies. The one hour could be utterly irrelevant. In fact, maybe when she returned and saw the paint was still pink she panicked, expecting it should have turned white, dried, but it was still wet? I can see how the jury is not convinced. The one hour issue itself is obviously error ridden.

Love your sense of humor

Afternoon Dr. G, love the way you entwine an analytical analysis of an awful tragedy with subtle humor sprinkled around: “…the Springfield painter struck again, this time they went semi-gloss,” as a local paper purported. Thank you for your keen synopsis of criminal misfortune. And that soothing cadence of reason.

Great analysis Dr.Grande. What a horrible way for a child to be raised. I hope that little girl gets a loving home.

I think that codependency seems to have been the root cause that triggered all of their problems. The couple also seems to have had problems with enmeshment and lack of boundaries and self-discipline - as is evidenced by how much debt they accumulated.

Hi, Dr. Grande. Love your content. Can you please analyze the case of Julius & Ethel Rosenberg?

@hallievanoutryve3109

Жыл бұрын

Sad, Ethel was likely innocent. Yet she faced death

Brilliant, thanks!

Wow, sometimes a chain of events is mind blowing.

Anyone else think of Mulholland Drive when they heard about pouring the pink paint?

@greatamericandreamrealtyli6583

Жыл бұрын

What is that in reference to?

@isaacgreen3876

Жыл бұрын

@@greatamericandreamrealtyli6583 In Mulholland Drive, Justin Theroux gets angry at the woman he loves and dips her jewelry in pink paint in anguish. It's a David Lynch movie, really good and unsettling.

You have a great sense of humor.

Thanks doc!

Those spatula attacks are tedious. But gravity assisted journey down steps will get ya every time!

“I wish my head would fall off”. Whaaat?!

Dr. Grande, your voice is so soothing it makes me sleepy.

I am wondering how theses two were able to adopt a child so soon after their marriage. Most couples wait for years and come under great scrutiny when adopting through an agency. Possible this adoption was through a private arrangement that short-cut that process. If this ill-advised adoption had not happened the murder would probably not have taken place. They would have simply divorced.

@mariagabrielle6383

Жыл бұрын

They probably got special treatment because they're gay. Nevermind that lesbian couples have a higher incidence of violence than they're heterosexual counterparts.

@jimcronin2043

Жыл бұрын

@@mariagabrielle6383 The possibility occurred to me. I hope not. I hope that we haven't descended to the point that we're handing out infants (aka human beings) to people as a reward for being woke.

@NotChefCook

Жыл бұрын

WOKE ?? 🙄 Try most abusers are theocratic rw freaks . You know , here in factcheckable reality ?

@jimcronin2043

Жыл бұрын

@@NotChefCook You have misstated my comment. I was specifically referring to the two subjects of this case who were married lesbians. I think that qualifies as woke. There was no comment one way or the other on statistical status of 'abusers' in general.

If someone outright stole $50k from me at gunpoint...versus someone covertly racking it up on my credit cards while saying they love me and sleeping with other people at the same time....I think I'd prefer the former.

One of my OCD is not spending money on unnecessary Stuff. Always interesting. Thank you Peace 💕🇺🇲

Court TV just showed a clip of your analysis on this case!

Spatula attacks , lol

As always your content was very interesting and informative. Appreciate all the countless hours of your storyline. Tina Bonrud

Thanks!

What's with all of the constant racking up of credit card debt? That's insane

Hi, Dr. Grande! I like your videos and your dry wit! Could you do an analysis of stalker Jacob Yerkes please? Thanks!

Brother Todd thank you for everything! Please cover the TakeOff homicide case. RIP TAKEOFF

What a convoluted mess! Cara did it but so far she is like a cat with nine lives.

Love u grande!!

Hi, Dr! I would LOVE to hear your analysis of Dr. Patrick Gerald Henry's case. 2 movies were made about how he terrorized his wife, while snapping pictures to enjoy. Very eerie man.

Hello Dr.Grand🧩e! I have yet to view your video post . I just wanted to say hello😃. So always good to see you.🙂. Thanks Doc🧩!

Now that this has come up again on CourtTV, I saw a couple clips of Dr. Grande talking about this murder. I live in Springfield, Massachusetts and Granby is only ten minutes from me. I've gone by that house hundreds of times. A good example that women absolutely can, and often are, the perpetrators of intimate partner violence. I feel for the daughter. I hope she's being well-loved and cared for.

Mistrials. Unreal.

You crack me up!

Maybe they were arguing about what color to paint the basement 🤔.

Stay single, and stay free!

"spatula attacks" 😄

the spring field painter struck again! this time they went semi-gloss. lolol

On an unrelated topic: did you upcycle the drawer behind you? Is it 'cocoa' -named paint colour?

Something that few people realize, is that that lesbian relationships have the highest incidence of domestic violence, compared to all other groups

@liv0003

Жыл бұрын

Not true at all but quite the opposite actually . Lesbians relationship are so far less abusive than heterosexual relationship. So don't make up sh*t that doesn't exist please

@davel7014

Жыл бұрын

@@liv0003 Research says otherwise: Lesbian Partner Violence Fact Sheet Suzana Rose, Ph.D. National Violence Against Women Prevention Research Center University of Missouri at St. Louis What is lesbian partner violence? Partner violence in lesbian (and gay) relationships recently has been identified as an important social problem. Partner or domestic violence among lesbians has been defined as including physical, sexual and psychological abuse, although researchers have most often studied physical violence. How common is lesbian partner violence? About 17-45% of lesbians report having been the victim of a least one act of physical violence perpetrated by a lesbian partner (1,5,6,13). Types of physical abuse named by more than 10% of participants in one study included: Disrupting other�s eating or sleeping habits Pushing or shoving, driving recklessly to punish, and slapping, kicking, hitting, or biting (11). Sexual abuse by a woman partner has been reported by up to 50% of lesbians (12). Psychological abuse has been reported as occurring at least one time by 24% to 90% of lesbians (1,5,6,11,14).

@liv0003

Жыл бұрын

@@davel7014 what a clown you are 😂. First of all i haven't read the study and i don't even know how many people participated and how this study was conducted, anyway according to this study it doesn't state AT ALL that lesbian relationships are more violent than heterosexual relationships, this is only a WRONG assumption made up completely by you without any proof . With this "research" you have done nothing but affirm that what you support is FALSE and that you are a 🤡

@liv0003

Жыл бұрын

@@davel7014 I don't deny that violence also occur in homosexual relationship obviously it does, I deny your stupid claim that lesbian relationship are the most abusive one because no research has ever stated what you claim, so it's completely made up by you without any serious research backing up what you said

@davel7014

Жыл бұрын

@@liv0003 Believe what you want. I sent you two studies that confirms my post. Calling me names doesn't change that.

"The Springfield Painter struck again.This time they went with a semi-gloss." Love your creativity with giving murderers their 'names' for the news media! 😅

Uncontrolled, gravity assisted… brother, you catch me off guard sometimes. Lol

The poor kid in the middle of this. The people in this story had horrible decision making skills.

the Judge should be kicked off the Bench. he didn't do his job saying he would file criminal charges against them if he saw them again and that he would take their child thus denying any help they might need. there are no criminal charges for seeking help.

Happy Saturday Dr. Grande & audiences! Ty kindly for all of your dedicated efforts to make these cases understandable! 🕊️🤍🕊️

@jacquelinewilliams5661

Жыл бұрын

And very humorous. Just love your humour Dr. 😀 Grande. You always make me chuckle

Really horrible story. But that didn't stop me from enjoying the best phrase in the narrative, "gravity-assisted journey down the stairs."

She did it.

Yes, what damage to a young mind and heart.

Dr. Grande, please analyze the judge who treated these women as bad siblings rather than the situation as a serious domestic violence situation. He had the chance to derail the escalation of emotional toxicity and danger here but instead left them to handle it themselves with the threat of losing their daughter. Imagine if he had dealt with this case properly.

Dr. Grande, I would love to see you make a video on Joan Crawford. After watching Mommie Dearest, I would find it fascinating to hear your opinion of her. Thank You, Kathleen.

@greatamericandreamrealtyli6583

Жыл бұрын

Me too!

@natekeyes2297

Жыл бұрын

Speaking of hitting people with spatulas and other household implements.

@vicvega3614

Жыл бұрын

@@natekeyes2297 "NOOOO WIRE HANGERS"!!!!

AnnaMarie sounds like a sociopath : manipulative charming, compelling and without conscience (running up that debt which probably ruined her friend’s as well as Cara’s credit). I’ll bet the mistrials were really caused by jurors who felt like AnnaMarie “needed” killing. Cara may have pushed Anna, but Anna pushed Cara over the edge well before that.

Dr Grande please cover the case of Cindy James. The Greatest mystery ever. I would love to know your opinion (request #31)

Only thing I can figure is that the victim was more unlikable than the perp. No idea how she wasn't convicted first time out the gate. Crazy.