Before you know it, she'll be asking you to borrow the car. Thanks for sharing. Be safe 🌸

Brian, I always look forward to your videos and this one was no exception. Your girl is getting so big! Congratulations to you and your wife.

You take such good care of your car! Interior and exterior still look new.👍👍👍

@ParalyzedLiving

4 жыл бұрын

Jane Doe thanks!! It’s a 2006 too so it’s 14 years old. Granted I swapped the seats a couple years ago. Wheelchair life is rough on the interior of a car. 🙄

@jenniferksmrs

3 жыл бұрын

@@ParalyzedLiving that's why I stayed with a minivan and not get a nice expensive car bc I knew it would just get torn up and my chair also plus the back doors don't open as wide as the fronts do so getting my daughter in and out, taking my apart and putting it back together again would take waaaaaay more time and I have severe spasticity/tone and didn't want to hurt my legs ankles or kick the gas or break pedals. Plus vans have way more room in them for emergency things......you know what I'm talking about lol....

@paullaw6988

2 жыл бұрын

@@ParalyzedLiving Hi Brian, I always look forward to your videos and this ones as no exception. Your daughter is getting so big! Congratulations to you and your wife. You took such good care of your car! Interior and exterior still look new. Kind regards, from, PaulLaw.

Great video man!!! I have cerebral palsy I use a walker and wheelchair, I’m 30, I’m learning how to drive, I want a Tesla! You Inspire me so much!!! I love your videos!!!

Her saying "Dada" at the beginning is just the cutest! What a great Dad you are. You can just tell she adores you.

Sir, you are an inspiration to me. Most people I know complain about their lives. But, you display courage in the face of adversity. Your daughter is fortunate to have you as her Dad. Respect!

Hi there 👋 👋 you are one hard working dad, and your daughter is so cute. 😆😆

As always, excellent to find your most recent post Brian. The little one is growing so fast and I chuckle as I watch her face as she takes the bumpy transfer in stride. Would it interest you to know that I still find your transfer from the chair into the car simply amazing. It's a skill I am now committed to mastering as my weight has been an issue for me in proportion to my strength. Hope you and your family are doing well and I await your next installation.

Thanks man, I’m too tall and awkward to transfer in through any 4 door, B pillers my enemy… So glad to see it’s doable to work a child’s seat in a coupe as I’ve 2🙈 Goodluck on your adventures and thanks for the videos

@ParalyzedLiving

Жыл бұрын

Yep I agree that 4 doors aren’t the easiest given the limited space but it’s still doable…but I’m also only 5’ 10” so I could see how added height would be tricky. I have another video doing a transfer with our 4 door SUV and it’s easier than sedans that I’ve tried. Good luck and holler if I can be any more help!

Aww. Your baby girl is such a cutie! 🌸🐣🌸 You Sir are truly an inspiration.

best father that anyone can ask for, truly inspiring to able dads out there

Man, you are so cool and a great inspiration! Thanks for sharing.

She's SO beautiful. I'm so happy for you guys, and seeing her grow...seeing you happy and well. I'm really glad for you. Thanks, as always, for sharing. I'd recommend considering ring slings for having her on your lap in zoos and parks and such now that she's old enough to sit up on her own and run around. Really nice system to use the long cloth as a seatbelt around your torso to hold her to you...and then she can get in and out herself and you can just tighten up the cloth through the rings. Might not be for you, but it might be a great tool as she gets bigger and bigger.

I am stunned...here I've been complaining to my husband about the lugging and tugging I constantly do with our son (we have the same exact Nuna Lite car seat and exact same 2 door Nissan)!!! You are a HERO and inspiration SIR!

Amazing. What a great dad!

Way to go, nicely done

I know you do everything for your child first moment l saw this video! It's pretty difficult but you got it! A little time and she 'll walk on her own feet if she doesn's sleep! Loved that time in childhood of my son, l love every day in his 19 - year - old life! I whished to have had someone to help me to figure it out when he was so little! But l allways had to do all AGAINST his father, cause he didn't interest of what's goodfor my son but what he wanted! You have s.o.in your back to be at your side and that's so heavenly and important for your future of you three you can't imagine now but later on. Go on, never stop, you are the best for each other who can be and you both are marvelous parents! Be blessed, you all!

Great video!

Best dad ever !

You sir, are a damn boss! Debating on getting a 2011 e92 I’m expecting my first kid and ironically enough am upgrading from a 2003 g35 coupe after seeing this I’m done worrying about the struggle with a car seat. Upmost respect to you🙏🏼

@ParalyzedLiving

3 жыл бұрын

Haha nice! It’s not the easiest thing but still doable with a 2 door. They are only in a baby carrier for a short time anyway. These days my daughter can climb in the car seat herself and I just buckle her in. Enjoy the Bimmer if you go that route! I still love my G 🤘🏼

dude you guys are awesome!!

Hats off you !

Girlfriend DOES NOT care that the ride is bumpy dad, you’re doing great! I’m pregnant and have a 2 door car so I was looking up how to do this and this video was super helpful!

@ParalyzedLiving

3 жыл бұрын

That’s awesome!! So glad it helped. She’s big enough to climb right in the days. The baby car seat was short lived.

What a good baby!

Salute to you sir

Thanks mate! I am a quadriplegic and cant wait to have a baby with my wife!

I'm also a paraplegic. T8t9 complete since I was 19 back in 2001. Your doing an ABSOLUTELY AWESOME JOB doing things on your own. We have to come up with new tricks all the time as our own things/our kids growing with age, AD, heating/cooling ourselves around non paralyzed individuals. I starting driving again with a side fold out ramp so I stayed with it. I question how come you didn't get 3 ramp minivan after you an your wife/gf/fiancé? I used a bodybaby carrier when she was ababy an couldn't walk yet.when she started walking good she walked up rhe ramp and I lifted her up into the car seat and helped her turn around unless I used a boppy pillow with a clip on the strap that went around me. She would just sit on that when at home mostly quite a lot while I did house work when she couldn't walk good yet. As she grew ( she will be 4 in a month an a half ) I had to constantly come up with new ways to care for and get her to do more on her own or do things to help me. She loves helping with small tasks but hates picking up her toys lol 😂. Even though my sci is lower than yours I feel like you do better than me by watching you do things. I have very little balance and a fall forward doing things so I do things leaning to the sides against my arm rests to do chores because I can't do them by leaning forward, it's hard for me to push myself back to my backrest. Do you put your pants on in bed also? Do you use a toilet or shower commode? Do you cath or have an indwelling catheter?

It's great how u do everything and can take ur daughter for a drive

Wow, you are one strong man. Your upper body must be buff a little bit to do all that lifting your daughter like that. They need to call you the real strong man or super dad. Thanks for sharing and you + your family stay safe. Have a blessed weekend.👍🙂🚗🚘

@ParalyzedLiving

4 жыл бұрын

Brenda Short thanks!! This vid was taken pre-quarantine but we are surviving! Our poor kiddo is bored to pieces though. Lol dads been teaching her a lot though!

@williamwilson2489

3 жыл бұрын

Paralyzed Living My bro， I am a Chinese boy ，Like U 、I cant walk，Your video is so nice、Sorry my English is poor .

@paullaw6988

2 жыл бұрын

@@ParalyzedLiving Hi Brian, you are a one strong man. Your upper body must be buff a little bit to do all that lifting your daughter like that. They need to call you the real strong man or super dad. Thank you for sharing your wonderful thoughts and your ideas on your videos. Hope you and your family stay safe. Have a very bless full weekend. Kind regards, from, PaulLaw.

Your videos are very informative. 👍 I used to play some wheelchair sports and my chair was cambered. My last chair didnt have as much as i liked. In a different video you mentioned you prefer 2 degrees but showed example of 4 degree camber. Does camber go in 2 degree increments? I am ordering a new chair soon and wondering if i can get 3 degrees? I dont know as much as you. Also..i always get 2" front casters. Are 4" inch better now that i dont play sports? And lastly...i have the forked caster mount. The chairs i am choosing between have just one caster mounting bracket. I think the chair u showed in an older video had just one. Are they as durable? Id appreciate a quick response cause i only have a few days to order. Thanks a lot. I hope life is ok. I saw this was your most recent video and wanted to touch base with u. Thanks 😉👍

um hope this message finds you. ive been looking all over for tips on how to fix my boyfriends TI Wheelchair wheels for him for his birthday. i have no idea on the size.. i know he has a white wheel... and one is like a chunk is taken out of it....i dont know if you know or know of anyone who could help me.. ps. congrats on baby you give me hope now im subscribed to learn and watch your adventures ty:)

It is much easier to fold wheelchair when fast seatbelt before it. My back isn't strong too. Cheers

Not to rain on your parade but unless you've secured them, the wheels are potential projectiles in the event of a collision.

I have so many question. I have a grand baby that I love dearly. I just found your channel I ms progressing MS and I know where it is headed. I hope to God I can find the strength you have and the mind to be able to deal with it. Depression is hell and I fight every day. I don't win everyday but I try to hope for the best. I am try to prepair my mind for the changes but I guess it really impossible to prepare for. Your videos have me wanting to strive to do better and get up everyday to do something. Your awesome

@Andy_Holmes

3 жыл бұрын

Please give inclined bed therapy a try. I started this month by lifting the head of my bed about 8-9 inches, it makes such a difference! Body fluids require gravity to circulate, due to the density changes caused by de/salinization. You can check out Andrew Fletcher for more. Or if you reply, I'll fetch a link.

Super dad.

Thank you so much for sharing these videos. My husband and I are expecting our first child in October and we have been trying to figure out ways that he will be able to be hands on. We just got back from an appointment where we were trying to figure out how he would get our baby into the car. Your suggestions in this video were so helpful. Do you have suggestions for a four door sedan? My husband felt like it was a huge reach the way we were doing it. TIA

@ParalyzedLiving

3 жыл бұрын

Glad it helped!! He can definitely be more hands on than he may imagine. The trick is practice. Prior to our baby being born, I put a 10 pound weight in our carrier and practiced different methods. Unfortunately, it just takes trial and error to see what works best for him. I’ve transferred her into our 4 door SUV and typically backed my chair up against the open door. It’s tight but doable. Good luck! Enjoy your new blessing!

Hey I’m a t3 Spinal cord injury love your video’s, but I think I would of did that Different♿️

Will you explain the process and how you drive a car. We need a handicap van/car we both can drive. My husband is a bilateral amputee above the knee. Thanks Valerie

@ParalyzedLiving

3 жыл бұрын

Sure! Here’s a video showing my hand controls that I use for driving. There are many types of hand controls and it’s really not a difficult process. The pedals still work normally so any able bodied person can drive it as well. I also use portable hand controls for my other vehicles and rentals. Just check out my other vids. kzread.info/dash/bejne/fmesm7yflZWzgJc.html

What kind of chair is that?

I love your videos! Please keep uploading! Do you think your wife will ever speak on her perspective? I believe in the past you've said she was a behind the camera kind of person. Just wondering if that has changed... God bless you and your beautiful family 💚

@ParalyzedLiving

4 жыл бұрын

Victoria Marie yes she is a little camera shy but I’m going to ask her again because I think it would make for a great video!! I just have to really prep her for it so she doesn’t feel like she’s put on the spot with questions. Great idea!!

@vsecretxo

4 жыл бұрын

@@ParalyzedLiving It absolutely would! Even if you guys did a video together explaining daily life as an interabled couple so it wasn't all eyes on her.

@Wavewolfaroha

4 жыл бұрын

@@vsecretxo Great idea!

@paullaw6988

2 жыл бұрын

@@ParalyzedLiving Hi Brian, I love your videos! Please keep uploading! God bless you and your beautiful family. Hope you are well. Kind regards, from, PaulLaw.

Is his car a manual

Great method what are you going to to when she has outgrown?

@ParalyzedLiving

4 жыл бұрын

ilovebrean I guess I’ll figure out a new method as I always do. COVID has kept us at home for now.

@ilovebrean

4 жыл бұрын

Paralyzed Living i was wondering if a 360 swivel carseat would be the way forward ? Only trouble is they need isofix which alot of cars in the front dont have but if she was in the back youd notbeabke to reach over and strap her in

👍👍❤❤😘😘😘😘

Hi mate just a quick question.did ciprofloxine cause you tendonnitis symptoms or muscle stiffness and pain.or brain fog dizziness or confusion.its hit me hard

@ParalyzedLiving

4 жыл бұрын

abid shiek I have not had those symptoms but Cipro did cause about 6 months of insomnia for me. It threw off the chemicals in my brain and I literally couldn’t get more than a couple hours of sleep. It was horrible. I’ll never take it again.

I m also a paraplegic ..but I m on bed ...I have no idea how to manage urine n motion ...when ever I have to go outside for 6-7 hour.....pls help me...give me any idea to manage my problem...is there any new thing..I use cathater...but now after many years uses it not work well....it leaks urine...n now I have no any idea ...pls help me...bro

Is Ellie two years now?

Saya mau kalau ada kursi roda yg bekas seperti ini.

Hi🌹

Why are you obsessed with sunglasses?

@ParalyzedLiving

3 жыл бұрын

Because the sun is shining. I don’t wear them to bed or anything. Lol 😆

What about her seatbelt?!

@ilovebrean

4 жыл бұрын

101dunerider you don’t need to use a seatbelt with a isofix base

@amyhull754

4 жыл бұрын

She's already strapped in (Brian mentions this when he sets her into the front seat) with the 5-point harness on the car seat itself. The base in the back seat is already seatbelted into the car tightly. The car seat is made to click into a strong latch in the base so that the car seat secures the baby, the base secures the car seat, and the seat belt secures the base.

Good bro. But if is it real baby definitely he will cry during transfer. 😁😁😁

@ParalyzedLiving

4 жыл бұрын

Jeet Sahu lol she’s not a fake baby. She’s just used to dad at this point.

@AImotivations2.0

4 жыл бұрын

What it's look like baby dol.

@ParalyzedLiving

4 жыл бұрын

Jeet Sahu watch it again. She even says “dada” at the beginning.

@amyhull754

4 жыл бұрын

@@AImotivations2.0 She's super chill, isn't she? This Good Girl definitely knows this is how things go. :-)

Lord have mercy that has got to be difficult

@ParalyzedLiving

4 жыл бұрын

Jonathan Wilson haha it’s not easy but she’s worth it.

@jonathanwilson4276

4 жыл бұрын

@@ParalyzedLiving Lord have mercy I have Spinabifida and I have never walked a day in my life

@keithmerrill4058

4 жыл бұрын

@@jonathanwilson4276 same here I have spinabifida and I don't walk

@Wavewolfaroha

4 жыл бұрын

@@ParalyzedLiving "Not easy" is an understatement!! ABs complain about how hard it is to place a child in a carrier--they should watch this video and be thankful. You are a great dad, and she is just lovely. Blessings to you and your wife and daughter--keep safe!