It's the fact that Jim honestly didn't know what he told her dad because for him was something normal. Awesome.

@Alexadria205

6 ай бұрын

🎵Men - We don't know what we did!🎵

@StrangeSeat

5 ай бұрын

​@@Alexadria205I understand that reference

@nd7

5 ай бұрын

We don't record what we say

@terryjaster4771

3 ай бұрын

You always tell the truth. Then you don't have to remember what you said.

@cheeseburgerinparadise7124

3 ай бұрын

@@Alexadria205 and women whine because they can’t explain any of their behavior, but they like to act like children. Just like you. Enjoy your future as a cat Lady.

"50% marriages end up in divorce, so it was either her parents or my parents" This was funny as as hell!

@cameronsitton501

2 жыл бұрын

And then he immediately was like "I hope she doesn't see this" Perfection

@CedrikTalos

2 жыл бұрын

@@repentandbelieveinjesuschr9647 No thanks, I already blasphemed today. Try again tomorrow.

@DocRunaway

2 жыл бұрын

@@repentandbelieveinjesuschr9647 lol keep children away from churches, Jesus.

@janabanana2884

2 жыл бұрын

​@@repentandbelieveinjesuschr9647 please not here, angela

@RAP-SKULLION

2 жыл бұрын

It's kind of sweet that it was "her parents or my parents" but absolutely not him and Pam themselves.

The unexplained context of Andy getting frustrated in the background is such a funny side joke throughout that episode.

@tigerrider4640

2 жыл бұрын

I forgot that episode what is the context

@Mdxfiend

2 жыл бұрын

Why would you post that comment and not remind us what the context was?

@TheHosh01

2 жыл бұрын

@@tigerrider4640 they were watching a movie anout jack black falling for an older woman

@TheHosh01

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mdxfiend they were watching a movie anout jack black falling for an older woman

@tigerrider4640

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheHosh01 I still don’t understand why Andy got mad at the end tho

“my kids will be right about that” i started crying so much😭

@makavelismith

2 жыл бұрын

but you didnt.

@cerenyavuz4686

2 жыл бұрын

@@makavelismith well if you think about your parents are not soulmates... and how this effects you... yea

@makavelismith

2 жыл бұрын

@@cerenyavuz4686 My point was, all these people type about crying and I bet about 1% of them actually are.

@cerenyavuz4686

2 жыл бұрын

@@makavelismith actually im agree. in my case it just made tears comes to my eyes due to some memories it reminds. But ‘crying so much” seems unconvincing. It might be a result of that exaggerated jargon we see everyday on internet.

@makavelismith

2 жыл бұрын

@@cerenyavuz4686 Ya, I know sometimes people don't mean it but I also think people lie about it and I find that really odd. I could be wrong, maybe other people are just SUPER emotional about everything online :P As for yourself, ya, memories can definitely do that. Good luck

Imagine having a love so pure and potent it makes others step it up in their relationship or leave them alone to find that feeling and partnership themselves.

@ineedakitkat6628

Жыл бұрын

To be honest these days it's getting harder and harder to find. I'm 17 and have never dated and I don't know if I want to. I know that I will never cheat and I'm always honest but society is becoming so much farther than that every day

@peytongomer2305

Жыл бұрын

@@ineedakitkat6628 hunny you still have your whole life ahead of you! youre so young, don't worry about any of that yet, just focus on finding yourself, your passions, your light and connecting with your true self, then when the time comes you'll have the sweetest love story

@ineedakitkat6628

Жыл бұрын

@@peytongomer2305 I appreciate you!

@JA-jx1hk

Жыл бұрын

Don’t base your standards off of a tv show

@tvalla

Жыл бұрын

@@ineedakitkat6628 no rush it, hommie. Keep calm

I like how Pam assumed Jim said something horrible to her father, causing them to divorce. And eventually will say it to her. As if Jim was just eating breakfast and said “Helene is getting pretty old and fat you should leave her”

@Rew123

2 жыл бұрын

Immaturity leading to fake tension that then needs to be resolved

@elizaharrison9405

Жыл бұрын

I mean, I thought he'd said something bad at first. It's a natural assumption, you can't blame Pam for it

@kurteisner67

Жыл бұрын

@@elizaharrison9405 I really don't understand why so many people get mad at Pam here. In my view she handled all of it exceptionally well. To all those pretending that they'd act perfectly stoic when their parents would seemingly random break up apparently over a talk with your own fiancé, I'm not very convinced to say the least. Note also what she said and didn't say to Jim. Yes, she apparently does think he said something bad of sorts, which is a very reasonable assumption. But then what? She does not accuse him of anything concrete without evidence, but confronts him (two very different things). She also listens to him and doesn't entrench herself into an antagonistic position. She then tries to solve the issue herself and is quick to acknowledge that she was in the wrong. Previously, she also doesn't jump to conclusions and claim any ill-intent, because she knows full well that Jim does love her. I don't think any of that is particularly immature really. Frankly, even as an outsider my first assumption was that Jim _accidentally_ mad some kind of maybe off-colour jokes or so that pushed her parents over the edge or something. All things considered, she behaved quite normal.

@user-hb4zz4gh5e

Жыл бұрын

@@kurteisner67 Exactly

@ragnarok283

Жыл бұрын

@@elizaharrison9405 They can find a way to blame Pam for anything. Probably someone blames her for the Holocaust.

She was so good as Pam. Their relationship always felt real, if maybe 1 in a million.

@Cambergain

11 ай бұрын

🤡🤡🤡their relationship died in season 7 after she tried getting with the camera guy🤣

@mracer8

11 ай бұрын

What is Emily going to say about that?

@katie9247

8 ай бұрын

@@Cambergainincel alert

@Meowthezar

8 ай бұрын

really it was, they had feelings for each other but never said anything

@CorriganM08

8 ай бұрын

Weird. Almost as if it was wrote that way...

This is one of my favorites scenes from The Office. Always makes me cry. Jenna's acting.

@markuskalchbrenner3284

2 жыл бұрын

you are not allone 🙂

@downhilltwofour0082

2 жыл бұрын

My first time and I cried too!

@peachesandpoets

2 жыл бұрын

Melts me heart always

@ricksanchez4180

2 жыл бұрын

It made me cry too🥺

@MyChilepepper

Жыл бұрын

Does it to me to 😢

The scene at the end with Andy having no context is hilarious💀

@iidasarkka3926

2 жыл бұрын

Yea it’s cuz they were watching that one pirated movie and Andy thought they were talking abt the movie’s message whole time💀

@morbus5726

Жыл бұрын

@@iidasarkka3926 thought it was about love affairs, since pam brought it up and maybe andy was still a bit sore from that whole dwight thing.

@DocJerky

Жыл бұрын

@@morbus5726 Nah, while they are watching a rom com pirated movie with Andy, Pam and Jim are talking about her parents relationship, but Andy thinks they are deep diving into the movie plot, seeing things he isn't seeing.

@tyleru96

Жыл бұрын

@@DocJerky and it drives him crazy because he had always considered himself to be extremely deep and thoughtful in terms of his ability to analyze hidden themes and tropes in films lol

"About how you feel when I walk into a room" that is lowkey one of the most romantic things they said to each other

@AIKnowYou

4 ай бұрын

How tf is that lowkey, they're directly addressing feelings aka romance

@YeshuaKingMessiah

2 ай бұрын

I used to feel the same explosion when my soulmate walked into a room full of ppl He was just my all 34 yrs soon that I’ve been waiting to see his smiling face again Long long longggggg decades

Just this 2 minutes and 30 seconds could bring tears to my eyes. This shows how powerful the office is!!!

@bobgeorge99

2 жыл бұрын

Ditto!! Couldn’t agree more mate!

@makavelismith

2 жыл бұрын

but it didnt actually bring tears to your eyes.

@tiffanyytn

2 жыл бұрын

@@makavelismith I can tell that you are so not the one who peeped at me through that hole in my ceiling

@makavelismith

2 жыл бұрын

@@tiffanyytn You're correct. I don't hide, where's the fun in that? I get close to people, even make them love me. Once they think that I am their closest friend, once they are truly within the realm of false security, I strike.

@repentandbelieveinjesuschr9647

2 жыл бұрын

Repent to Jesus Christ “And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me.” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭18:3-5‬ ‭NIV‬‬

The writing is absolutely top-notch!

@Aaron-th7xx

2 жыл бұрын

It makes for a nice moment, but all her worry could've been avoided if Jim just said what he said to her dad originally.

@Incrediblya

2 жыл бұрын

@@Aaron-th7xx I guess he had no idea that *those* words made such an impact :)

@KaiserBruh

2 жыл бұрын

was*

@hd-xc2lz

2 жыл бұрын

@@Incrediblya But being that he and Pam were married, doesn't ring true that he wouldn't recall for her all that he said. Instead the writers entreat us to another trite Jim-and-Pam-really-really-truly-love-each-other scene. Should have kept the two unmarried until the show was threatened with cancellation.

@FranciscoHOS

2 жыл бұрын

@@hd-xc2lz Not true, it’s about context. Jim was confused about the situation because he didn’t say anything negative to Pam’s father like “Yeah you should get a divorce” or something like that where he’s actively trying to get Pam’s father to divorce, he only talked to him about how much he loved Pam. So there was that disconnect as to why that conversation somehow lead to Pam’s parent’s divorcing. And plenty of couples don’t mention every single detail in their conversations.

Forget the teapot. Forget the note. Forget everything before and after. This. This is the most Jam you wanna have in your life. The short moment Jim thinks he is loosing Pam. Pam questioning Jim for a few hours. The realization for both of what has happened. It's pure gold.

@CaraDiCuffa

Ай бұрын

agree

@billgallaher339

Күн бұрын

This and Jim's toast.

What a bittersweet way to find out how much you're loved and how special you are to the most important person in your life

@Musicienne-DAB1995

Жыл бұрын

Pam's dad must have told her that she had a good one.

“It was her parents or my parents 😄……….😶” 🤣

@k.l9468

2 жыл бұрын

Wtf is so funny?

@moneyball7908

2 жыл бұрын

@@k.l9468 Joe Pesci?

@k.l9468

2 жыл бұрын

@@moneyball7908 goodfellas😅

@moneyball7908

2 жыл бұрын

@@k.l9468 😄😂😂🤙👌

The line "When you're a kid you assume your parents are soulmates, my kids are gonna be right about that." has stuck with me ever since I heard it as a middle schooler. That's all I've ever wanted.

Divorce goes back several generations for both myself and my wife's family. Thus far we've got 18 years under our belt and still going. She's my best friend. Oh we have nights where we fight, where we don't like each other, but we always come back to the commitment we made to one another. Marriage takes work people, can't always rely on feelings. As Ruth Graham once said...(paraphrasing) a good marriage is the union of two good forgivers. It's totally worth the work. As a consequence my kids grow up with a mom and dad who love each other, even on the bad days.

@deyaganguly6552

2 жыл бұрын

This is actually beautiful

@TheSaintFrenzy

2 жыл бұрын

We fought today about how we're going to pick up a new (to us) kitchen table. I text her later and said " I wouldn't want to fight with anyone else."

@patrickmckeegan5345

2 жыл бұрын

My wife and I came from families that had very few divorces and lots of long marriages. We got married when I was in the Army and had to attend mandatory counseling sessions with the base Chaplain. Met weekly for 6-8 weeks and discussed topics like communication, how to fight fairly, etc. Biggest one was to not go to bed mad, resolve any issues even if you had to stay up all night. And no hanging on to old grievances to big back up in future arguments. This year will be 52 years together.

@ppumpkin3282

2 жыл бұрын

@@patrickmckeegan5345 According to Dr. Laura 90% of divorces are a women's fault. You can't always control when a woman decides she wants more.

@KaiserBruh

2 жыл бұрын

according to j peterson, the proper thing to do is to be willing to argue but its important to make up after. as a married man, is this true?

I’ve never been a fan of The Office. But every time I see Pam in a clip she’s so naturally beautiful. Looks exactly like the coworker a guy falls for.

@vyli1

2 жыл бұрын

naturally beautiful with lots of makeup ;o)

@helenastarlight2108

2 жыл бұрын

@@vyli1 Even without makeup she looks stunning

@Aalpine001

2 жыл бұрын

She is an actress. She deceived you as she supposed to.

@zetterburger

2 жыл бұрын

She’s a Scranton 7

@K4R3N

Жыл бұрын

She's a 6

Pam has some of the best emotional moments in the show ☺️

@jerilane4420

Жыл бұрын

Pam is a very underrated core member of this show!

I always forget how good this scene was both written and acted.

"My kids are gonna be right about that" not gonna lie, this still makes me tear up 😍😭

Incredibly happy that both Jenna Fischer and John Krasinski told the writers specifically that they would not do the story line where Jim kisses Cathy. It would have broken my heart and made me furious if they introduced that story arc.

@dreamcanvas5321

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, that would've felt like such a betrayal of their characters. I don't even mean just the emotions, like it just doesn't feel like something Jim would do.

@EATSLEEPDRIVE2002

2 жыл бұрын

I didn’t even know that the writers had planned that… But yeah, that would’ve been a total “Fk this show” moment. i’m glad that John and Jenna realized that that would break all of our hearts

@berkay277

2 жыл бұрын

i mean they ruined andy, glad they didnt messed up jim and pam

@stonem0013

2 жыл бұрын

Kathy was so frikken cute tho...and Pam was putting on weight like nobody's business

@abirugna3773

2 жыл бұрын

@@stonem0013 such a horrible thing to say bro

I love it when Andy thinks pam and jim are reviewing the movie they were watching and Andy just thinks that they are thinking of stuff way over his head.

Jim and Pam is the kind of love that we all long for. To find your soulmate. 😊

Interesting thing about the divorce statistic: Yes 50% end in divorce, but that figure is skewed by people who're on their second and third marriages. People who marry for the first time are less likely to get a divorce (something like 20%? I don't recall). But after your first marriage, you're way more likely to get divorced in followup marriages. Sad, but for first time marriages it gives a little hope.

@pork_nachos

2 жыл бұрын

Very nice point if true.

@Phantom-ux7gz

2 жыл бұрын

Its 41 percent for first time I think

@peeonthe3rdrail414

2 жыл бұрын

An 80% chance of success is only a little hope? I'd take those odds any day.

@BuGGyBoBerl

2 жыл бұрын

true. also important to realize. your life isnt a statistic. its your life. your one shot.

@CSHummer

Жыл бұрын

But 69% of all statistics are made up so checkmate

"what did he tell my dad and at what point is he going to tell that to me?" What she wasn't considering is that she isn't her dad and the same thing can mean different things to different people.

@Musicienne-DAB1995

Жыл бұрын

I think it's perfectly realistic that she freaked out.

I'll never get how people can hate on Pammy! She precious 😭😭 sure there were flaws but c'mon, pobodys nerfect

@meenaksi1082

2 жыл бұрын

I don't understand the Pam hate. I feel like a lot of it comes from emotionally immature men who think Jim should be praised for simply not cheating

@colsonskur6714

2 жыл бұрын

Pobody’s nerfect

@FredrickTheMoose2007

2 жыл бұрын

@@colsonskur6714 Nice stroke

@Trainer319

2 жыл бұрын

Is that a thing? I wasn't aware.

@trouty42

2 жыл бұрын

If there are people that hate Pam they're watching the show wrong.

I haven't ever actually watched the office. Will eventually, but haven't yet. One thing I will say that I love about the show is how they actually want it to look like a real reality tv show (which is super weird to wrap my brain around). They don't just film the emotional scenes like they would normally. They have it so the cameramen are hiding, so it gives the illusion that we are watching a real conversation, not one meant for the camera. It's really neat. One of my favorite shows, modern family, tries to do this. They have the scenes where they are sitting down talking to the audience. And they have scenes where they glance at the camera. They just don't go the extra mile. In modern family, it almost feels like they are just breaking the 4th wall. In the office, they clearly set out to make it feel like the camera is a part of the show. A character of its own. It's super meta, and it works so unbelievably well. It does a great job at making these characters feel real, and have lives outside the show. And are not just actors playing a role.

@amangakhal1674

2 жыл бұрын

the whole point of the office is that someone is making a documentry at dunder mifflin so the way they did it was perfect. i personally think they do it in a much better way than modern family as they address that the camera is there in ordinary scenes whilst modern family only uses it in the interviews.

@ragnarok283

Жыл бұрын

I hope you started it. By far the funniest show for me. I’m watching it for the third time now and wouldn’t stop watching it till my last breath.

@stanleyhape8427

Жыл бұрын

that's odd , you enjoy watching clips of a show but can't take the time to watch the actual show.

@elbowcuts2316

Жыл бұрын

@@stanleyhape8427it’s not available on a lot of platforms id understand if they never got around to watching it.

@candidesque6470

Жыл бұрын

One of my absolute favorite moments is when Pam talks to camera about suspecting Dwight and Angela and later we see a camera man excitedly running up to Pam and trying to catch her eyes with the camera because he isn't supposed to talk, and she notices and they have a lil moment of plotting and joy together when they see its true.

i’m going through a breakup right now and this just hit different. my ex never felt this way about me the way jim loves pam, and if i’m being honest with myself i don’t think i did either

@polinas9658

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like an important thing to know about your relationship. But to be honest I feel like people love differently. Some can get together for ever at 20 I have such friends and they are pure souls. I can't imagine this for myself, I cannot promise endless love, but these feelings are also valid.

I would love to have this. Someday, hopefully.

@thejimbruce4004

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you do too. It's a lovely scene and I hope you get even better.

@jackschenk9516

2 жыл бұрын

Keep pushing. Patience is bitter, but it’s fruit is sweet.

@kensacavitch8889

2 жыл бұрын

When you find it and have it. It’s great. Trust me

@toiyababegum9647

2 жыл бұрын

Manifesting

He felt this way even when he was her best friend

"my kids will be right about that" i'm sobbing.

@joshitheyoshi2533

Жыл бұрын

Do you need someone to hold your boobies steady as you cry?

I remember watching this when it aired. When Jim said 50% of marriages end in divorce, so it was hers or mine, I literally fell outta my chair and almost passed out laughing.

@Musicienne-DAB1995

Жыл бұрын

So funny! Classic Jim!

What an actress! Brilliant.

Andy in the background is a classic!!

@japonjapon6242

2 жыл бұрын

加藤純一

"my kids are going to be right about that. They almost weren't, because the writers were looking for ways to force tension into the show towards the end, but fortunately they got over that phase"

@Musicienne-DAB1995

Жыл бұрын

Haha

One the most realistic relationship in such kind of tv show.

"Are you ok?" "Yeah" ❤

Enough to make a grown man cry

Love isn't something that just happens. It takes effort and is built over the years.

@elainagilbert7663

10 ай бұрын

It's not hard to love people, it's hard to stay in love with them.

Andy getting mad at the end without context is🤣

Jim's comment about Pam's parents divorce is easily my favourite Jim quote.

@Musicienne-DAB1995

Жыл бұрын

Classic Jim quote.

i think this is one of my favorite tv moments ever

Pam was so often waiting to be disappointed by Jim.

"my kids are gonna be right about that" That hit hard

Best moment ever between Jim and Pam. Of the many great moments.

Jim and Pam is probably my favorite love story in anything I’ve ever watched. It’s so beautiful and real, hard to imagine it’s just acting. ❤❤❤

This scene always makes me cry

how is kinda underatedly one of the best written episodes

I haven't seen the complete show and I saw this scene for the first time, literal goosebumps when I heard what Jim said to Pam's Dad

WOW, that is touching. Kudos to the actors.

"It was going to be her parents or my parents" Jim crazy 🤣🤣

"was it my fault?.... yeah"... slays me for all the right reasons

Very touching scene

Wow... this is really good scene. Anyone who met that special person in his/her life and can then compare with other relationships or feelings he/her had, will do appreciate it. You sometimes think that you love or loved someone and then suddenly you meet someone who makes you - sometimes even without trying, just by existing - to feel all those things 10 times stronger.

I love Jim and Pam's love story and how the office portrayed marriage, Jim and Pam's in a positive light.

Does not get any better than this.

This was sooo beautiful and i just cant get over those lines!!!!!!❤

This is fascinating. My wife and I use the sort of logic to compare our marriages to other peoples. Not to judge them necessarily but to be thankful for what we do have. Marriage isn’t easy and it’s not supposed to be.

This show will literally never get old to me my kids will absolutely watch this show

the documentary-style storytelling in The Office & Parks & Recreation were so unique and insightful.

Jenna is such a great actress

That smile.

Such beautiful writing. The Office is the best!!

Pam looks so beautiful in this episode!!!!

In my opinion, this is one of the best romances in TV history...

I love Andy in the background this whole episode trying to relate Jim and Pam’s statements to the movie they saw. 😂😂😂

jenna fischer really was amazing as Pam

Andy is a mood 💀😂

Dude Andy freaking killed me at the end of the episode 💀🤣🤣

God, this is the one of my favorite moment of Pam and Jim🥲

Esta escena es naturalmente hermosa, la conexión que existe en ambos refleja un amor tan bonito, que grandes actores ❤ me hicieron llorar 😅 con fe y encuentro un amor asi de bonito 😊

This and Up are the 2 things that will make me cry 100% of the time in under 3 minutes

I wish i could feel that again...

arguably the best series ever.

This perfectly shows how guys react in relationship

Pam’s dad is a tool. He says he never felt strong love for his wife but then goes straight to dating a woman his daughter’s age!

I'm not crying. Just washing my eyes from the inside, out.

They were a TV couple you really wished were real life. What a wonderful touching scene --both acting and script.

This episode is great and I like the story about Jim and Pam, but every fricking scene with andy about there whole movie analysing/parent drama misunderstanding is so funny too me. The ending with him in the background, I can't 😂😂

That feeling is one of the hardest things to let go of. It leaves you almost love drunk when it's gone wanting to chase after that feeling just to bask in the glow once more. I never really got why people would do certain things out of love or how any movie or show would idealize love until I felt it for the first time. I'm sad we didn't work out, but I am so glad that I know what I am looking for now and I know I am going to find that feeling again one day.

She truly is a fine actress.

Best TV couple ever written

Beautiful!

I love this girl just like that. Even though we split up in 2017, I still think of her every single day and it has never been the same with anyone. I pray that God will give me peace about it because I truly think she was my soul mate. I love you Teri and I hope you are happy and doing well!

@candlerosemint

8 ай бұрын

Did you ever think of cheating? Ik some males do it even tho they love a girl

Wish my parents had gotten divorced when I was little instead of putting us through all the trauma.

@Musicienne-DAB1995

Жыл бұрын

Divorce also causes trauma or children and has been linked to poorer life outcomes later as well. Don't assume the grass is always greener on the other side. And I was raised in an extremely toxic and violent married household.

One of the best form "The Office"

That is such a gorgeous vignette!

I love this so much

Such a powerful scene and one of my favorite Jim-Pam moments.

So heartfelt for someone who will be swooning over a cameraman later.

I wish there was more.

One scenario where life should imitate art... Pam & Jim

That she could think Jim would say something to make her father separate from her mother is absurd. And to not put the onus of what happened on the person who made the choice.

@Wendyficent1

Жыл бұрын

@@elizaharrison9405 of course I can. Of course I can.

@Wendyficent1

Жыл бұрын

@@elizaharrison9405 I don't care to put myself in her shoes. She was being (written as) ridiculous. She THOUGHT Jim said something to make her father leave her mother. It was stupid. Not the episode but her irrational reaction to what her father told her. You don't have to agree with me. I don't try and police people's thoughts. My initial comment is my perception. YOU are here presenting as if my perception is wrong. So stop.

@AlexandeRSciswoR

Жыл бұрын

@@Wendyficent1 lol, she deleted her comments

@deeg9498

Жыл бұрын

I liked this scene but I also thought her reaction was odd, given she kind of begged Jim to talk to her father in the first place.

@stanleyhape8427

Жыл бұрын

i think Pam's reaction is pretty realistic. She asked Jim to talk to her dad and he decided to leave her mom after the conversation. Of course she wants to know what Jim said that had such a huge impact. Also Jim's reaction of not knowing what he said has a more natural feel to it then " Well Pam , i told your dad how you are ( insert cheezy prose here)".

Man! That was heavy!!

@wadehaws8613

Жыл бұрын

Yep.

Never seen this show at all, but this vignette is sweet. ❤

That was beautiful. Their relationship is truly the only thing i care about on this show.

She is adorable

This is one of my favorite episodes bc this scene almost makes you tear up then here comes Michael off the elevator and just starts roasting everyone 🤣🤣

Theirs is among the top-5 love affair on TV since 2000.