Pakistani Youth is in an Illusion | Ask Ganjiswag#85
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00:54 - Leaving the abuser will cost my son
19:00 - Pakistani Youth is an Illusion
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54:44 - 33 years old Syed Zadi stuck in Family traditions
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I once heard this from someone and it really, really hit me, "Every child deserves parents, but not every parent deserves children."
@fahadshaikh9099
Жыл бұрын
Spot on
@ahmadshahzad4023
Жыл бұрын
@@bharatkapoor4062 use protection then, dum-bass.
@woofmeow382
Жыл бұрын
@@bharatkapoor4062 even if they did some parents or couples don't deserve children mainly because they cannot Raise them properly.
@Love-yl4cx
Жыл бұрын
So true
@MustafaSheikh
Жыл бұрын
kya baat kya baat
I misread, “Pakistani youth is an illusion” and realised how hauntingly true is that!
@aimanization
Жыл бұрын
When i read your comment then i realized 'Mene b to ye hi parha tha'
@ahmadrahimkhan
Жыл бұрын
@@aimanization 😂
@bubbagumpa8951
Жыл бұрын
SAME💀
@ssam7384
11 ай бұрын
Same here
@boltthesayainyt
8 ай бұрын
Wait wtf I misread it
I was feeling quite low and thought about going over to your old videos to feel good but as soon as i open you tube a new video of yours came out. Being grateful. PLZ NEVER STOP MAKING THEM
@Helloworld0072
Жыл бұрын
Jbh
That youth part really hit home. She really explained everything so well. I have also been struggling with similar dilemmas. To my background, I graduated with a Gold Medal in Mechanical Engineering last year from UET, but have been unable to find any job - applied on multiple posts but never even got any call for an interview. I have only had one 4 weeks internship at a major FMCG company in Pakistan with only 4000 Rs/week as a stipend (my travel costed me more than this not to mention the accommodation and food charges). Right now, I'm in the middle of applying for the USA for a MS, and hopefully will settle there afterwards as well, and keep praying for the Pakistan from there. Junaid bhai, you motivated me a lot and helped me to think like a responsible citizen, thank you and pray for me.
@ghufranshahid14
Жыл бұрын
While you're going through the entire process. I recommend you give freelancing a try, whether its providing tutoring or doing projects. Good luck though!
@cookiesandcream3953
Жыл бұрын
better apply to Canada ull have easy pr too
@MohsinExperiments
Жыл бұрын
I am facing the same situation. I graduated in 2020. But I still didn't get even a single call for the interview.
@mandolirian
Жыл бұрын
Allah aapko kamyab karay. I would suggest to apply in multiple countries like canada, australia and Germany as backup plan in case your visa rejected.
@superpakistan1222
Жыл бұрын
@@MohsinExperiments same here Khud par ghuss ayta hi 4 saal kuch karta tu better tha
30:02 Junaidbhai on Modi: Glad you acknowledged his efforts to make India better place. As an Indian I can guarantee you, he was the first PM who spoke about Toilet needs on Independence Speech. When he was launching "Digital India" and opening bank account for poors, people were laughing at him including opposition. But due to his efforts only we were able to get UPI payment, which saved millions of lives during Covid both waves. Modi has shown how foresight a leader could be!
Being a 15 year old these podcasts are very helpful, as I learn from other people's mistakes.
@muhammadbakr2783
Жыл бұрын
Don't go into medicine or engineering and you will be fine
@ACE-mu5qx
Жыл бұрын
@@muhammadbakr2783 Then what should we go for? Computer?
@esteemeddigital8347
Жыл бұрын
@@ACE-mu5qx It's actually the present and the future, but soft skills will also be in demand like being a good manager, or a good artist yes.
@creativecoding6270
Жыл бұрын
@@ACE-mu5qx skill
@creativecoding6270
Жыл бұрын
@@muhammadbakr2783 😂
25:55 I'm 18 from Lahore, from a very modest background. I along with my frnd cleaned the whole school ground during the break. Not everybody is careless. Others joined us as only we two were picking up the garbage. You're speaking about those mummy daddy kids. Yes!.. I've seen there attitudes.huh!
@guccipotato5807
Жыл бұрын
thing is these things our not being taught in our schools like the basic ethics of the life
@zuhairfan2490
Жыл бұрын
@@guccipotato5807 Yes!..the focus should be ethics n morals to groom ourselves and not just education.
@guccipotato5807
Жыл бұрын
@@zuhairfan2490 Yea :( , Sadly our schools are too busy teaching our young GENERATION "RATTA" :(
I'm 17 and couldn't relate more to the 19 yo girl, always thought I was alone with this thought (That the 60% Youth is pure manjan and cope) as all my friends had the same mentality of leaving as soon as possible, which never set right with me as I've always had this weird sense of accountability/responsibility towards the nation and I would feel pathetic if I did nothing and just move somewhere else, my ancestors sacrificed a lot for me to be a part of this nation, I can't just quit. The formation of this very state is a clear example of what the people can achieve if they want to and hell we are the same people... those were our ancestors. What happened? when and how did we lose this drive? I don't know what to do, how to be powerful enough to actually make a change. From what I've planned out, moving out of this country would make more of a positive impact than just staying here. The youth needs to move out and do great thing (not flip burgers in McDonalds or get a job at Tesco or Walmart) but actually study and opt for higher position at already well established places gain experience get rich. Make our own version of systems that have worked around the Globe. This is what the youth can do... the politicians/boomers are not going to do shit for this nation. We have to take matters in our own hands and revive the strive for prosperity that this nation once had or die trying. I mean ffs its so easy we literally have a country like India to follow the example of. If only we could just copy and paste half of their stuff it would do numbers! but again we are Pakistanis we are lazy we would work in a 9 to 5 till we are 45 and can finally buy some plots in DHA or go to UK/Canada and flip burgers our whole life. At the end of the day all a layman can do is try and get others to try and not lose hope :) Pakistan Zindabad!
@shaheeralikhan9561
Жыл бұрын
Good to know but sadly I only have a sense of responsibility for my race not my country
@ridatashfin268
Жыл бұрын
Im 18, and i entirely agree with whatever that 19 year old girl said. And all the things you mentioned about the responsibility towards our nation and taking care of it, are all the things I agree with, I too want to do something extraordinary for Pakistan and help it gain a good reputation in the world. But, unfortunately we don't have much opportunities to do so in the country, so the only solution is to go out for studies, get educated and then come back to Pakistan with all the skills and information that you required, and try doing something here with your abroad degree.
@basheerwayne69
Жыл бұрын
Bro thanks for saying that 🙏
@prometheusn0ir
Жыл бұрын
I agree with her and you brudda, I'm 19 next month and always had this sense of responsibility/accountability to my country.Always thought if we abandon this nation then who's gonna think for it,what even was the purpose of creating a place like this other than having a place to pray (we all know how much people prioritize Ibadat),other than as Junaid Bhai put it "1000 Bacha bhagao yhan se".We only good at trafficking youth out and not using them here for our benefit.
@actionhub9740
Жыл бұрын
Lekin bhai mai yeh sochta hu k agr yaha youth nay mehnat ki ayr phir bhi yeh country change nhi hui toh iska mtlb toh yeh hua na k hum nay apni life waste kr di ek Pakistani k naam pr. bro tbh in this situation I'm hopeless i don't think k yeh mulk/nation thk ho gaa toh apny apko force naa kro k tum Pakistani ho toh tum yaha hi maro gay feel free to leave this country if this country don't give a f*ck about youth then why do we. Thank you🤝🏻❤️
38:50 This what Indian Start up CEOs did . The first wave of entrepreneurs worked in US tech firms and now own Billion dollar Companies and are giving back to the country. I believe our Indian student working/studying abroad are getting global exposure and are being polished and eventually when the countries environment (both social and economical) will become according to their expectation they will eventually come back and will enrich the atmosphere with their experience. As a country of a Billion we cannot provide dream job for everyone So people will leave but those handful minds when they will return will do miracles. Same thing can be done in Pakistan (But time is limited)
@elixirsquad1644
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Modi.G
@ashitmallick6199
Жыл бұрын
@@bharatkapoor4062 they will which other country will provide such opportunities to scale ?
@ashitmallick6199
Жыл бұрын
@@elixirsquad1644 Thank you Modi ji for positioning right people at the right job .
@Sobanhassan1761
Жыл бұрын
O maaf kr bhai Indian CEOs !
@YTworld-69
Жыл бұрын
@@Sobanhassan1761 maafi toh maangte rho humse, Kashmir Kashmir krte krte poora pak ghaas khaa rha hai
The boy who feels attracted to men. It's not a sin to be attracted. Please do remember that having homosexual encounters are haraam and must be avoided. Marrying is definitely not out of question but if you already are sure then you shouldn't hide this from the female. Given the society we live in there are always people who would fit perfectly with you regardless of the fact that you're attracted to men. Women here are unfortunately not in the best of conditions and companionship matters more than sex any ways. I hope you find someone who will fulfill your emotional needs and you'll fulfill theirs without considering haram. May Allah help you.
I'm also 19. Will be done with Alevels next month. I have decided to move abroad even if I have to take a loan. Yahan Kuch Nahi milnay waala.
@user-mw1of1qm4p
Жыл бұрын
@@bharatkapoor4062 abhi Lena hai loan aur meeting Karni hai bank say mujhay Nahi pata 😭🤌
@user-mw1of1qm4p
Жыл бұрын
@@bharatkapoor4062 Acha kya. Idhr Zindagi kharab honi thi reh Kar.
@isi6402
Жыл бұрын
Nice Same, Agree as Looking What markets demand and what our country Giving opportunities are like Salt in a Flour.
@akiraofa
Жыл бұрын
💯
@prateek2645
Жыл бұрын
Bina graduation ke naukri kaise milegi?
The going outside part of video was quite motivational for me and I much needed it. Thank you ♥And junaid bhai please ask your editors to add title to older videos as well. I want to watch all of them but can't due to lack of topics in text
These podcasts make me smarter in life, no cap!
@faizan5549
Жыл бұрын
And provides me valid arguments and points so that I could convince my parents to send me abroad for studies😅
@ahmednomanqureshi4754
Жыл бұрын
only if u r not bald, otherwise u need a cap
@cookiesandcream3953
Жыл бұрын
@@faizan5549 my parents are sending me abroad but im convincing them to send me to pakistan for medschool haye
@RN-jo8zt
Жыл бұрын
smarter , are you dumb he just said , we don't need toilet, but we need cloud data😃😄😀24:30
@tunderkick549
Жыл бұрын
Ikr!
cant thank you enough.. for taking the time and making these videos.
Hats off yaar i have been watching u for 2-3 years and you repeatedly talk about the same issues, sometime I get depressed idk how u handle all this stuff. It hurts tbh, but huge respect
I m a syed and we marry outside too. Hamara koi kamaal nahi syed hone mein na syed ka matlab yeh hai k acche hi honge. Our family focus on people's education and good family that's it. Secondly Islam mein aesa kuch nahi k syed ho tau syed mein hi shadi karain.
@farwanqv
Жыл бұрын
Behen you are lucky but there are many women suffering due to this.
24:40 hello Junaid sir as of now almost 99% of indians have toilets It got improved very much in last 10 years Pakistanis and other people make fun of us because we have considered it as a problem by making movies and through other awareness programs while they also suffer from this problem But never the less we are doing well in sanitisation and atleast considering it
@Mayeraamir878
Жыл бұрын
I completely agree and appreciate the way you people considered the problems and get it resolved via making movies or other platforms. That's why Junaid Akram was also encouraging.
@krishna-de2jb
Жыл бұрын
Unke paas aur koi kaam nhi toh majak hi udayenge. Unko ye baat pe dhyan dena chahiye ki unke Pakistan mai kitne logo ke pass sanitation facilities nhi h. Jaake reports search kare. Pakistan ke ek do cities chord ke Balochistan and Sindh dekhoge toh aisa lagega konsi Sadi mai aa gye ham . Development ke naam pe kuch hai hi nhi.
@dr.cooper5909
Жыл бұрын
Your fellow Indian here. Yes the govt has done alot in the last 8 years to encourage safe sanitation and building toilets. But a tiny fraction of our rural population still has remnants of cultural hindrances in having a toilet in their home. So yeah the govt might have made sure they have built toilets covering 99% of population, but many of those families didn't use them cause of the above reason. Hopefully, the problem will go away with some time.
@muhammadrazashahhash
Жыл бұрын
Its just light humour
@princehamza890
Жыл бұрын
@@krishna-de2jb 50% seriously 😀😀
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Aoa Junaid bhai I am your follower since years .. have seen your growth in all these years mA you are my inspiration ( today I was very down for recieving so much hate on my insta blog ) and this videos last part has helped me so much 😊 what you said about haters :) sending duas your way always 😊
Literally very open minded person in pak huge kudos to u ❤️ from India 👑💥🔥
10000 bacha bhaga lo🤣Sir you are just soo amazing.....hit me so hard I am 19 year old and just eagerly wanted to go abroad....❤
@faizan5549
Жыл бұрын
Same
@ImranAhmed-qu8sj
Жыл бұрын
@@faizan5549 brother majority of the youth which is rich and has dreams want to go abroad for the lifestyle, for better job opportunities and better life
Thank you for sharing knowledge and wisdom. I learn more from you always.
More Ask Ganjiswag please!
Building my emotional quotient by watching your channel
As an overseas Pakistani who has spent life abroad in Middle East for 11 years and has been longing to see his homeland prosper, this disheartens me a lot. Often times I have been the only Pakistani in the circle, I felt proud “representing” my country. I used to fight that Pakistan has a positive future and direction after 2018, but that has all changed now. I, too, don’t see a future for the country.
Good things were said. Keep hitting hard brother! 👍🏻
Proud of this guy for resisting his desires.. May Allah help you!
@t.narendra6549
Жыл бұрын
I don't know why this is wrong. Just if it's wierd doesnot mean wrong. This happens even in animals too.
You're saving our generation. Thank you so much ❤️
@saadmuneer1712
Жыл бұрын
misguiding*
@samanasir6441
Жыл бұрын
Its Totally untrue. Its a Reverse of it.
@shahzadahmed6748
Жыл бұрын
@@samanasir6441 Kitna jhoot bolo gai
Conversion therapy is illegal in western counties mostly due to political and social ideologies than actual science. In these same countries hormone therapy and gender conversion surgeries are legal for MINORS and in some cases without parental consent. Jordan Peterson and Deborah Soh have talked about this many times,look into it. With that said,everything has pros and cons,so your research,find out what the treatment should be like and maybe look for some reputable psychiatrist in the GCC if there aren’t any in Pakistan. May Allah make it easy for that person.
@CreepyCurry777
Жыл бұрын
You sound really stupid you can’t differentiate between gender dysphoria and sexual orientation. Gender dysphoria is something way way bigger ones whole identity is false . I personally know many they don’t even want sex in life or partner they just want their true identity?
@pascalwager4544
Жыл бұрын
Conversion therapy is bullocks! There are no proven track record that's why it's illegal. What goes on in these sessions also most of the time is torturous and inhumane. These are mostly run/ headed by people who claim to have been cured themselves or those who claim that they never had that but in fact are closeted (e.g. Markus Bachmann)... and there are hidden networks of abuse there where they prey on vulnerable youth.
@khurramaziz2430
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely, it is because of pressure from LGBTQ. Here is a complete video about the studies that show there is no evidence for Gay gene & successful ethical conversion therapy. kzread.info/dash/bejne/iqWMtsayfcaZf7g.html
Great podcast! Keep up the good work. You’re doing a marvellous job. Can you please share your book collections and encourage youth to read books.
If she lives in UK, and she has evidence of abuse, she likely will get courts help as the mother. Worth hiring a probono lawyer to work this through
Mr. Junaid Akram, When you have power, use it responsibly.. talk what you know of.. Don’t put your thought process on the young youth. Give your thoughts and ask them to explore other thoughts as well .. then call yourself a sensible person..
I moved to the UK for my master's i now understand what you mean by simple pleasures in life and what to expect from life and my rights especially because i am from Karachi
Maa shah Allah Amazing videos and great answers keep it up Junaid bhai ❤
I can so relate to her all my friends are leaving the country too 2 days ago a friend of mine left pakistan to study and live in turkey and all my other friends in group will also be leaving in about 6 months .. 19 here too
Ganji bhai hamesha genuine baat krte ho! That’s why we love your content Love from india❤
I observed today that your camera was shaking vertically quite often. Anyways, it was a great learning experience once again. Thanks for the efforts ganji bhai 🙌🙌
@fromthe73
Жыл бұрын
@@imdesithor 😂
@syedwaqar1119
Жыл бұрын
I never seen a single video of him in all 85 podcast , because Podcasts are mean to be Listen not watch.
Junaid bhai #1 issue in our society is that, why are women themselves are not getting empowered. A lot of women do get very good education, but then become bahus and housewives. And because they are financially dependent on husbands, that's why they get abused. Obviously being vulnerable can lead you to being exploitation. The main issue is that a lot of girls themselves do not want to work (NOT ALL women), they'd rather face abuse than work. Pakistani women, you need to step up, and be independent. Stop being victims.
I cant thank you more Junaid Bhai for this kinda stuff. I literally swept down ur comedy sketches and clips(pardon me) because i want this Junaid who deconstruct the complex life analogies like this Youth Question part into understandable segments. Will sent you the question and my pov in this regard soon too.
Bohot kuch hy kehny ko but phir comments me ik or podcast ban jai gi ,,, but 100% agreed with all your points,, Every person with 1% skill or have intention to do good for his family or for poor people, sab bahir ja rhy hain....... Pakistan Zindabaad ki bijaye ab youth ka new slogan agya hy "Pakistan se Zinda bhaag" ,...... No offence to my homeland but land onwers ne kaam kharab kia hy to wohi theek karin gy ........ Ik individual kabhi bhi 25 crore abadi ka future plan nhi de skta, So make your own fortune!!! ........May Allah bless every Hustler (either a girl or a boy)
For the homosexual case, I'm so proud of you for resisting your strong desires! I might never know how hard it is for you, but Allah will surely reward you in the Akhirah. I hope you get through this and find a way to get the life you want! I'll keep you in my prayers.
@sewaligoswami781
Жыл бұрын
Being homosexual is Haram and punishable by death in Islam. But then everything happens with Allah's will. So that's that. Contradictions.
@aleezae
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@@sewaligoswami781 This world is a test, full of trials. Some have it easier, some have it hard. The bigger trials you're faced with, the bigger the reward in the afterlife. Having homosexual thoughts are not sinful but acting on those urges is. Someone who is a kleptomaniac, it doesn't justify him stealing things and he is sinful if he does. Someone who is born with psychopathic tendencies does not justify him murdering someone.
@sewaligoswami781
Жыл бұрын
@@aleezae but his having gay thoughts or actually realising that he's gay are all happening under Allah's will right!
@imzrox
Жыл бұрын
@@sewaligoswami781 Indeed it is with the will of Allah but I think you’re here for an argument because If you were genuinely curious, Aliza explained quite well how our religion has boundaries for self not only for homosexuals but also for hetrosexuals. We call it halal and haram and do not question the commands of Allah believing there is greater wisdom in it than our understanding of it. As someone who isnt Muslim, you are free to believe and live however you want. We respect that because for you is your religion and for us is ours. I hope this doesnot offend you.
@vinamrasinghai2339
Жыл бұрын
Hope you will also do the same being heterosexual.
My سید friend married into another cast and she know from the very beginning how to survive and survived and happily married here in Sydney with 3 kids. We lived in gujranwala at that time in 2009. And the سید girl and her boyfriend are from gujranwala and now settled in Sydney Alhamdulilah
The in-the-passing comment that you made about vehicles not requiring "puncture" , got me thinking. I have been owning and driving 2 vehicles since 2010 and had not had a puncture in the past 12 years. Neither do I see mechanic shops repairing punctures.
Paradigm Shift for The Homosexual Case: Hi, Junaid please forward this to the guy or if you are reading this, it is for you. Let me put you in another angle which might help you in solving your issue. It's not always black and white, or Hetro or Homo. It could be a grey zone i.e., Bi-Sexuality. One of my friends, was Bi-sexual and he had a hard time realizing and accepting this fact because of the nature of the environment he was brought up in Pakistan, he didn't have access to the opposite gender and according to him his personal affinity was towards both (more towards men according to him because of the easy access), Yes, he had those urges toward the same sex, but he considered it as an exam for himself in this world and utilized his half-orientation towards his wife and living happily with 3 kids Alhamdullilah. Your words, which say you kept yourself away from Zina smell like you still believe in the power of Islamic values and let me tell you Islam is the solution in this way as well that when it says get nikkahfied. I am not denying the fact that same-sex attraction doesn't exist, but let's digest this fact as well most guys are far away from the opposite gender and they develop feelings towards the same gender due to our toxic society which makes Zina easier than the nikkah. The point I am trying to make here is not to jump to a conclusion if you have feelings towards the same sex, give it a chance and explore it in another way. This could be a middle ground and after all, it's all about genetics and the DNA. Your soul is the best litmus test for you, and it's whispered into your body upon Allah's will inside your mother's womb years ago. Trust the process. I wish that you'll have a good life ahead, free of confusion.
@ElBadriano
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Also i would like to add to your point that finding another person of the same sex as physically attractive doesnt mean by any way that the person is a homsexual. Appreciating something as good looking is natural and doesnt mean the person is gay. All of us have some urges that are haram and as long as we dont act them out we shouldn't put labels on ourselves.
@a_teez8913
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Bhai but in this case he was definitely gay cuz he can't get himself to look at women in that way... this ain't bi
@Sidd68
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@@a_teez8913 That is the whole point, may be due to the unavailability or the reach. Whatever the reasons, he found his interest towards men. It's all in our DNA. Your choices make you, as you make your choices, Always.
@Sidd68
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@@ElBadriano That is another issue, but if there is aleady a red flag from the religion. One must consider it as a redline as in one of the hadith; it says to protect our eyes in order to stop it way before the actual deep feeling towards any1.
@ElBadriano
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@@a_teez8913 that's utter nonsense. How come gay men become fashion designers and makeup stylists for women? If they cant identify an attractive woman then how can they beautify one?
Happy moments; working on laptop and 🎧 ask ganjiswag :)
Thank you for sharing with us
I'm 28 years old and i was working as a security guard in bahrain since 2020 but i was came back in pakistan last month because i knew that there were no future now I'm trying to go Europe but unfortunately our passport is also worst and very difficult to get European visa, I'm very disappointed because of pakistan our people's make population and always says Allah dene wala hai Allah ne diya hai to Allah hi bara kr day ga how we can change our country with this mindset
@mujahidhussain6264
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This is happening due to illiteracy and ignorance of our Pakistani public. Concentrate on yourself and learn new skill to earn money for your family please keep in mind foreign countries give visas for those whom are highly educated or any good professionals
@syedzohaib3021
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Why u did not apply Europe visa while u were in bahrain.. its very difficult to get visa frm pakistan anyways best of luck
19:09 I relate to the girl soo much. It literally pains me to see this country go to shit. The worst part is not the corrupt politicians, rather first, the people who refuse to accept their corruption and second, every single Pakistani who normalises not standing up against them. We have forgotten the power we possess. Nobody is willing to really fight for their country. Political jalsay jitney chahiye karwa lou lol. I don't know what the future holds for us but I can tell you, it's certainly not a bright one.
@muhammadrazashahhash
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Dude honestly just focus on yourself and doing something great here so you can make that 0.000001% difference in pakistan. I convinced my parents to let me move back to pak so I can start a business and when I came here I saw so much opportunity and potential. But every kid I spoke to wanted to go abroad as they thought there is nothing in pakistan. IDK what to say i kept arguing with my friends that pakistan is a good place to do business and now i don't have any friends lol. But my point is just focus on yourself be selfish and do something great and you will be indirectly helping the country and its people
@ayesha647
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@@muhammadrazashahhash Not everyone is as privileged as you to set up a business. Majority of the people have to work a 9-5 job, and lets be honest the salary is meagre when compared to the ever rising inflation. There’s literally no relief for the common people. If thats not enough, there’s corruption left, right and centre. Neeche se upar tak log corrupt hain. This affects your standard of living and your mental peace/health. Just today I read the news of Maryam Nawaz and Zardari being acquitted. Like ffs, how am I supposed to be happy living in a country with zero accountability? I don’t blame your friends lmao. Also, how long have you been in Pakistan for?
@Nutella7721
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@@ayesha647 Pakistan is a good place for business though. It's in a strategic location, the US just gave 60 million in aid. Pakistani Americans are in the government of the USA, TV Shows, they are artists, pop singers, Chairmen, business owners, a large percentage of UK & US's DOCTORS, millionaires. A Pakistani man owns the Jaguar NFL Football Team. A Pakistani WOMAN became a mayor, two years ago, of a town in the USA 10 minutes away from me. How an individual Pakistani can jump back from poverty, is something you shouldn't doubt. But as a group? Imagine the power. The tourism, I've seen so many Americans go to Pakistan recently. They are making MONEY from their videos of going to Pakistan through TikTok & KZread. This place has A lot of worth. But the people in charge clearly cannot organize the country and lead the masses. We need a leader that gathers everyone, for the better. Sadly, the military's interference is undeniable. It's bittersweet, the Military gives us power but it also puts us backwards & behind. As well as the corruption, it calls for a revolution. But hopefully, a diplomatic one, because at the end of the day, if you combine all the Pakistani in the diaspora that still visit Pakistan constantly, the ones living there, there are MORE citizens than the army. How can you just give up and want to go to the West? In the UK they've announced South Asian Muslims as second class citizens. The US & Canada is okay for Pakistani people honestly, there's a lot that are successful here, but it's never going to be where you came from. It's never going to be the land of your ancestors, the birth of your culture, and where so much history took place. I think Pakistani people along the period of colonization, lost a huge sense of community. We were taught by the British divide and conquer, incorporated that into our homes, land, and even committed genocide for it. Along with that, pollution, disease, malaria, and general sickness, terrorism, so many things have scarred the nation. The intelligence services of the country, are one of the most dangerous in the world for a reason along with the CIA, MI6, and others. They're good at controlling society. At this point though, I don't think they work for the benefit of Pakistan at all but are a greater evil.
@mianmaaz5568
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Politics is not only the reason for downfall of our country some how we are also the reason.
@Nutella7721
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@@mianmaaz5568 easy to say, but the country is only running on small businesses and families who are also deeply connected to india, be it their family in law, grandparents, cousins, who love indian culture & bollywood to this day. once upon a time a person could be hindu & muslim without being judged in this great region, and if there are still Pakistani people who agree that theres nothing wrong with appreciating both religions, or other religions, then it is not us and our prejudice, but politics itself in my opinion. and most pakistani people grew up on bwood songs/movies. go look at US indian and pakistani diaspora. they live in peace and have restaurants right next to each other. indians and bangladeshi eat at pakistani restuarants and pakistani eat at indian and bangaldeshi restaurants. and we all our shared by our love for afghani food so idk man the average person seems to not be the issue. it's really politics lmao
Junaid bhai i suggest you to be a Psychiatrist because how you respond to these E-mails is just outstanding and i love the way you answer Good job 😍😍 big fan👍👍
@mianmaaz5568
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The way he responds to second mail was not good . He was sharing his own opinions rather then telling him solution. The solution was to be a man not to become gay or anything else .
Nice one ganji
a note to that 19-year-old and everyone with the same concerns: AoA hope you all are doing great, being 22 years old I have been through this problem as well and to my understanding, you shouldn't feel for your friends because the problem is not people leaving Pakistan, the problem is people living in Pakistan and hating every bit of it. it's like living in a toxic relationship and it's bad for both parties. I mean how can you be a productive member of a society when you have no sense of belonging there, where you feel like a failure every day, how can you give your 100% when you don't believe in it, so people leaving Pakistan is actually good unless they still hate it afterward. Now coming back to us(people who feel guilty about it) see, it's not your responsibility to fix what you did not break perhaps you can choose to fix it. So make sure that you should have a firm belief in Pakistan before making your final decision because losing in the last moment can not only hurt you but can make you hate Pakistan and if you are running out of reasons to believe it, remembers it just took Prophet (P.B.U.H) 23 years to transform a fascist, fool societies into a superpower who took charge of the world in just 60 years or so, we might not be close any sahaba but teaching a younger generation would be easier than teach people above 40 year old. So, yes go abroad study hard, work hard remember Pakistan in your heart, Stay strong and come back if possible and Inshallah we get through this 💞. PS: would highly recomend reading Surah Al-Ankaboot(in urdu)
@vinamrasinghai2339
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before oil, it was Indian Muslims who used to send money to Arabs as zakat? what are you smoking? What superpower are you talking about? Tell me one thing that is used for every human being that was developed by Muhammed still.
@gosliglitzho
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@@vinamrasinghai2339 Let him be in a bliss of his own imaginary small world my friend. Don't you know why Pakistan ranks better in happiness index than India? because ignorance is a bliss.
@hussainmir2280
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@@vinamrasinghai2339 sir, I guess you have a hard time reading and remembering things, firstly where did I say that he(P.B.U.H) build a thing (read my comment again)perhaps he(P.B.U.H) enlighten the people and teach them how to live effectively by the will and command of Allah and then those people concerned the byzantine and the roman empire. to this date we still regard our Prophet (P.B.U.H) as a teacher, secondly, if you haven't books in your school that teach history other than India I recommend buying some from the store or reading online as per your approach.
@mianmaaz5568
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@@vinamrasinghai2339 search about hazrat Usman ghani . He was the Muslim who have still have billion of money in his bank . He was rich before oil . He was companion of prophet Muhammad S.A.W . And then go search about Mansi Musa who was the most richest person in the whole world .
39:24 to 39:33 🧐 duniya ki ham kya madad kr skte hai, kuch bhi nhi, "phatne phatne ke alawa"= Tu samjha nhi nhi tu nhi samjha 😅 Please don't be offend to my comment, just trying to chilling the environment of comment box witch i think i very dipressed ♥️🤝
@shivvanshchouhan8406
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😂😂😂😂😂
@acrobat6217
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Aur India waale sirf hate speech de sakte hain😂
First question: you have two years to get PR, use these two to make a escape plan. Start with getting financially independent, try to find some kind of work and start saving. I don't have any knowledge about the social services there, but confide in someone and seek advice on what to do n how to do it.
Thanks GanjiSwag I learned new things May Allah blessed You
I am working as consultant in pharma in hyderabad india and everyday there is discussion about what we should do as their is lot of competition now.
Its very sad, I am working as computer networks and network security specialist in a highly reputed indian IT company in GCC... the company and the people are very nice but as a Pakistani I feel so embarrassed that why there is no Pakistani tech company working at least in the GCC region... its sad we are just a garison state and people look at us only as securiry guards...
@Nagin505
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Which company ? And how ? Country ? Because I thought Indians would never hire Pakistani.
@tsmkcs12
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brother the problem is that pakistan became a garrison state and it never developed like for example in 1970 to 1986 pakistan was the best economy in the sub asian continent jsut cause we were american favourite and they needed us. but becuase of artifically pumping our economy we never got the chance to fully develop. and this formula works here to which is peace produces stability, stability produces good economy just look at india for example or china. stabality is the requirment or a pillar to make a country rise. india in this case as it is our closest example rosed because even thou they had internal strive basically internal problems. it never was as destabalized as pakistan. due to their congress creating a good political structure. unfortunately we didnt had both.
@Nagin505
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@@bharatkapoor4062 why would anyone lie about working in an Indian tech company ? And that too a Pakistani.
@rohitgajwani
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@@Nagin505 didi humlogo ke soch tumhare jeetne choti nhi hai 😀😀😀
Coming here after listening to youth club's response to your video. I think everyone should listen to that.
32:17 He is talking about Palki Sharma Upadhyay, one of the best journalist in global news field. She was in WION channel but recently she resigned and joined First post 👍 Just search her name and enjoy true journalism.
Being a SYED ZAADI I can totally understand her story. But in my case ALHAMDULILLAH my mother was super supportive .. Took 3 years Abba ko manane me (he was anti love marriage and all about syed cast mentality). Going to marry the love of my life (he's Mughal Punjabi) in few months wo b parents ki razamandi se ALHAMDULILLAH ALHAMDULILLAH ⚫⚫⚫ Allah paak sabhi bossy parents ko aql e saleem de. Or olaado ko bhi himmat de k wo apne parents ko confidence me le sakyn. Aameen.
@KanishQQuotes
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Start by stopping cousin marriages
Please check the response of Raja Zia ul Haq over homosexual issue. He made a response video and I think that guy should watch it.
These new askganjiswag episodes aren't being uploaded on apple podcasts my morning are pretty dull, please update!
Amazing Junaid sab what an intellectual mind you have I've been following you a long time ago but today I want to admire you hats off brother and may you have many more 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
There are Syeds in Sunnis too. I am one. There arent any Shias in my extended family, all are Syeds. Asli hain kay nahin yeh Allah behtar janta hay. I dont take any pride in this title, never knew that it was supposed to be something to be proud of, until i went to Pakistan and interacted with people, specially blue collar class and lower middle class people, and this was in Karachi, chotay shehroon main to bahut hee ziada hota hay. In previous generation there was this strict preference of "Syed-[ethnicity]" matches for marriage. That was also for mostly cultural reasons, since the first generation in Pakistan had specific distinct culture, which was different from others, even from the people of same ethnic background, so alot people thought it would be a good match from same group, and now people have become either educated or toxic that some of my relatives explicitly wanted to marry out of caste. Mera to sar ghoom jata hay jab Pakistan main Boomer relatives say milta hon. Most of them are closet toxics, as 90% of them including my own parents have really aboxious beliefs.
that guy from the homo case should contact youth club team , i believe they will guide them in the perfect manner, also if that person is reading this you can contact me for other leads
@Serious9185
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What’s a youth club ?
@fahadsaifkhan1222
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@@Serious9185 chuuth club moral police......they will tell you how u should live ur life according to them and well off course islam
@mustafahabibian
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@Ali Raza this is a psychological problem, the cure is surely changing the mindset. Contact youth club team, they will surely help out also you can watch one of their podcast related to this. Dirty love by tuaha ibn jalil
@mustafahabibian
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@@fahadsaifkhan1222 yes your reply cleary reflects your upbringing
@hasaantariq1953
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Agreeed, Instead of asking junaid he should definitely contact them
"Pakistani youth is an illusion " , you don't know how much you have helped me by addressing this , I was confused about the same thing , every time I would feel guilty about wishing to leave pakistan one day but ig not anymore thank you so much .
I get to learn with every episode. Respect You Sir.
For first question yes you can book cargo directly from karachi port to be available anywhere in USA. Cash payments accepted in pakistan via vendors (furniture markets etc) then you book cargo containers via a company which will take care of everything. Personal experience of seeing cousin booking 4 Million Rs worth of furniture cargo from Lahore to Detroit.
@batsy941
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@@bharatkapoor4062 no london uk why?
@s.a.776
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@@bharatkapoor4062 😂😂😂
@batsy941
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@@bharatkapoor4062 kahan lar rahe itne peace mein rehte apki soch hai. My own friends are all Indians. I stay away from pakistani toxic society people
@batsy941
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@@bharatkapoor4062 yes 3 saal se very professional and goal oriented. But there are some nasty ones here. Had some terrible exp with india sardar jee landlord who was evading taxes and harassing us. So har jagah ache bure log hote
@batsy941
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@@bharatkapoor4062 no it was among pakistanis politicians stuff
Pakistani youth: Alhamdullilah hume musalmaan hone ka garv hai mashallah, baaki kuch nahi aata. Education, development, infrastructure, Healthcare mile na mile Kashmir milna chahiye Allah hu Akbar😂
@mianmaaz5568
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Same to lindus . Ram ka daina hai Baki 100 aur dain gai . Vikram Aditya empire is bast empire and blalalala . Kuch Hindus we will make akhand Bharat by the help of keyboard and Whatsapp university. Rather then judging us judge your own people still we both country have slums and inflation . Apna apna Dekho Tum AUR ham bhi apna dekhai gai no one asked your opinion.
You will get what have been written but it’s the path that you choose. Whether it’s right or wrong and this path will decide your fate
Did u reuploaded this video? Because I have seen this thumbline few hours ago..I guess its just deja vu shhhh😳
@MrMohsin57
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Same, I think, he reuploaded may be
pakistan will collapse soon as it is ONLY import economy... pakistan got good geography but Pakistanis made it worst.... pakistan neighbours: Iran is one of the most sanctioned economy, Afghanistan has no economy, pakistan wants no trade with India and Pakistan is in free trade agreement with World factory China 😂.... pakistan needs good economy advisor irrespective of its religion...
@mianmaaz5568
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Religion is first for you guys too don't act double minded I also know that tu khud nakam hai abhi khud kuch kar phir apni hazri lagao
Toilets have increased drastically in India...India 2047 main developed bhi ho gaya phir bhi log kuck na kuch bakwas karenge.....
Please never stop Making these videos
Anyone who can leave Pakistan should not delay. There is no future in Pakistan. I left 12 years ago and since than living my life happily.
@antares3518
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How did you leave? How much did it cost? Where did you migrate to?
Man after hearing these episodes day by day, I have known not a single place in Pakistan is not fucked in terms of religious, cultural and parental, and women issues!
@vinamrasinghai2339
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Maybe, but Pakistan was created for those kind of people only.
@ElBadriano
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You'll find such problems everywhere in the world Einstein. Even in America.
@falcononpc9845
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@@ElBadriano never to the extent they are in Pakistan. This country is several years behind in cultural and social development compared to the West.
@ElBadriano
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@@falcononpc9845 america has existed as a country since 18th century. Pakistan hasn't even crossed one century. Pakistan is even a developing country so comparing it to the west is a waste of time and extremely stupid. But bad things still happen there too. America is a shithole with a worse law and order situation internally. With their power and infinite financial resources they shouldn't have that much also. It's quite common to hear about a mass shooting or child abuse or gangster violence in america. Considering the beggar, bankrupt, corrupt Pakistan, still holding up somehow is nothing short of a miracle. Yes, things are bad and we should improve them. But only complaining by using superlatives and not doing any constructive work is not the answer. All these so called youtube channels are just trying to get views and make money. None of them, especially this Junaid guy, is here to improve Pakistan. Hes just trying to earn money from the channel by using techniques he deems profitable. As a businessman, he's doing a good job and I wish him all the success.
habits kabhi bhi change nahi hoti, i have seen ppl suffering so much cz of their bad habits, so they temporarily come out of their bad habits but once they r ok, they will go back to their oldself. So, i would never believe that ppl change, they really don't, specially in today's era, wen moraility is at its lowest ebb.
Super amazing person I really like ur video Every video having full of knowledge. You're discussed the facts.
Love you Junaid Bhai from London. Revenue generation from ads would be good after watching this video from London :)
junaid bhai y dont u say Haram is Haram rest its ur decision ? u r glorifying the emotions n all i heard ur answer thrice before commenting ..Allah ki limits py plz be black n white because people listen n follow you ..i was waiting ky aap bolain gy Dude its Haram baki apki choice hy 🤷♀️🤦♀️
Listening this Podcast while Traveling Makkah to Madina on Umrah.
@Curexmy
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rather better to recite/listen Quran.
@hammadhasan7555
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aisy logo sey bachna chaheye nojawan nasal ka demag kharab kar rahy hai ye loag . apna haal hi dekh lo umry per jaty hoy bhi Allah yaad aany ky bajay ye yaad aarahy hai aap ko
@Curexmy
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@@hammadhasan7555 exactly Junaid mostly in video disintegrate Islam from Muslims life seems Islam is formality rather being complete code of life.
@Mayeraamir878
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@@Curexmy This is the mentality of our people against which Junaid Akram always talk about, they reach everywhere to preach the Islam except own selves. As far as Quran and Zikr is concerned, the traveling takes 6 hours by road and I didn't need to tell you about all these things.
@Mayeraamir878
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@@hammadhasan7555 Doosro ko bachne ka Keh rahe aur khud sun b rahe Junaid ko.
I am gonna watch this 2 - 3 times again specially the Pakistani Youth is an Illusion part.
I Learn from every Episode you make , Big Respect for you sir
Yep me a 18 year old who know 100's of people who want to as soon as possible
7:20 Jub larkay ya larki ka deen dekhne ke bijaye un ka status, khubsurti aur paisa dekha jaye phir bohat se cases mein result isi tarah ka hota hai.
How can we ask questions from you, I mean through which platform?
@JunaidAkram Don't ever stop saying anything by someone's fear.
I do not agree with junaid bhai on a lot of things but that "bade bolte hai inn dono ko apas mai x karna chahiye" was 🔥🔥🔥 😂😂😂😂
So disappointed by you . Mene socha tha ap thore sensible Hain lekin apne itne ki koi giri hoi baat ki hai . Promoting and supporting homosexualty or reference bhi bollywood Ka wah shabash. Apko phir se is bare mein sochana cahiye ap kon hai . Or Kahan se talq hai apka plz phely khud ko sahi karlen or phir kisi ko answer karein. It's not a small things you are rejecting Qur'an or Allah ki disobedience Ka kah rahe hain
We all are on the verge of literally any disaster. Pakistani youth should do something we are our future builders.
Now, India lounched CDBC(concept of digital banking currency) , means all physical currency converted into digital currency. Transaction through mobile in offline and online both . Indian government is not printing physical note now.
Great Podcast junaid Sir.. Always Motivating and Encourage me.. Bhagwan Apko khush rakhe. Love From Puna.👍
@ala7515
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It's not Puna, it's Pune!
@gosliglitzho
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@bharat kapoor Its Pune in all languages. Whoever prefers to call it poona must love their colonial masters very much. Because language does not change name, You are Bharat Kapoor in all languages or do they call you Bharat in Hindi and Bharati in English?
@Ar-ok1rg
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Mat dekho ye bhai. Ye sirf Allah Allah karte rehte hai kuch bhi baat pe
i left pakistan in 1986 after matric i am in america i have good life here i dont think i can survive one day in pakistan
@ibrahimlodhi19
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Went to UK at a young age too, no chance of living in Pakistan on a full time basis. It's good for holiday but over there its a dog eat dog world, everyone is trying to scam you some way or another.
@hkvlogs1051
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U can enjoy good life here too if u have money
@ibrahimlodhi19
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@@hkvlogs1051 definitely true but at the same time, let's say you're a tax payer, where do you see your tax spent on when you live in private gated communities, send your kids to private schools and God forbid if there is an emergency, private hospitals will absolutely scam you. I could go on and on of many things, there is no value for money in pk.
@hkvlogs1051
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@@ibrahimlodhi19 great quality of life can only be enjoyed in good societies or good housing authorities , i myself live in DHA Lahore and quality of life is excellent over here all facilities are so good!
@ibrahimlodhi19
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@@hkvlogs1051 sir g you need to have money for that! Whereas in abroad, a person working at a supermarket can still have a decent lifestyle - that is not possible in pk for a person working in a supermarket.
Not only in dubai! Mahindra in india is making cars with ADAS level 1, Which can drive itself on good roads.
My father gave my brother in Law check as my sister moved to Dubai after marriage but he didn't cash it.
Running from country is your right but staying in this country and taking part in struggle to make it a better place must also be encouraged.
@Serious9185
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Soban, I used to feel the same way until I got an Australian PR letter in my hands. Just having the option to be able to cross the immigration counter on the airport while a crowd watches you behind the glass window is a feeling that I could never forget. That was around 10 years ago and I absolutely thanked myself for the struggle that lead to that PR. I would never ever want to go back to Pakistan , ever again.
@Sobanhassan1761
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@@Serious9185 Good for you then. My point was that those of us who are living in this country and attending political rallies are not mindless mob running behind politicians as Junaid is trying to portray. We are trying to make this country a better place. And I have nothing against those who leave. As I said, it is their right.
@Serious9185
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@@Sobanhassan1761 Fair enough and good luck.
@guccipotato5807
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this country is a sinking ship now buddy
@Sobanhassan1761
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@@guccipotato5807 As a student of history, if we look at things in perspective, I don't think we are that badly placed. Pakistan have all the ingredients to turn it around. There is a silver lining here.
The 33 year old syed girl situation is a challenging one but nevertheless uncommon. However, it’s unfair to generalize men who choose younger/attractive women over her are doing this solely out of a desire to control someone. I think it’s time to stop shaming men for having standards. She places great emphasis on education and wants someone who is her equal in all aspects. What makes her think that such guys who SHE deems to be on her level are interested in her as well?. Men and women have different preferences and there’s nothing wrong with that, as long as both understand what the price for their preference is. I agree with the syed thing being her parents fault but she could’ve started protesting against it a while ago . Instead she waited till her market value drops significantly at the age of 33. Lastly, I think it’s naive to think she’s an absolute victim in this scenario. I’ve known plenty of girls in her situation. Most of them ignored suitable prospects when they were in their prime years due to excuses such as “education” or “personality differences”. Accountability for your choices and actions are necessary. Not everyone gets everything in this life, you have to do your best with where you are and what you are given.
@fatimaasif3622
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Citing personality difference isn't an excuse. A couple must have compatibility as marriage is a lifelong serious commitment. Seems like someone got too many rejections based on his own lack of education and personality.
@zeeshanshaikh4508
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@@fatimaasif3622 I agree, personality differences isn’t an excuse. However, being overly critical about it leads to the inability to pick a spouse. Axiomatically, how are you planning to know exactly how someone truly is, and will remain throughout your entire lifespan with them?. Again, I’m not saying you should exclude compatibility from the equation; however, make sure you aren’t being overly critical of it due to your own neuroticism or perfectionism. On another note, i admire your attempts on criticizing my “education” or “personality” and being rejected in the marriage market. It’s rather cute :)
@MeemBaay111
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It's weird how you are arguing that men shouldn't be shamed for having 'standards' but are busy in the same comment shaming a woman for having standards of her own!!! No double standards in that at all!!! Men can reject as many women as they like just on looks nothing else and call it standards but are having a go at a doctor who doesn't want to marry a man with no education. Shocking, the world is leaving Pakistani men behind.
Pakistani problem hum bare hain to hum sahi hain. Har mard ki yehi problem idhar. Had to escape this toxic culture as a sunni muslim male in pakistan after suffering physically and mentality here. My exact thoughts 1:02:45
As an overseas child, born & raised in Dubai, I'm very sad for my freshly teen self, for thinking ill have a better life back in Pakistan.
For homosexual case, bro ! If you happen to see this comment, Based on my experience you can get through the feelings. Don’t think you are a bad person, just because you feel differently. You should go to a therapist, there is a difference between psychiatrist, psychologist and a therapist. I assume this problem must have started somewhere in your life. There will definitely be a First moment , or you might have suffered a trauma. Unravel your life, find self love and self awareness. You will get out of these complex feelings.
@vinamrasinghai2339
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Is being heterosexual also a problem?