I can't judge him for quitting, most people might hate this crime but he actually did something about it. He's done more for a good cause than I ever have because this type of work has to leave scars on one's psyche. The saying about the void staring back at you has to be rough but he probably saved hundreds of kids from a lifetime of pain.

@Sneaky_Basket

Жыл бұрын

And what he did actually? U think there no left pedofile at all? Don`t be naive! This is very difficult problem and no one knows how to solve it coz u cant just do like did with "light drugs" or "guns" it`s unexceptable in society So he basically did nothing ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Well actually his probably did things worst coz they for sure no will be much more carefull, so police cant cach them that quickly as it was before Think about it...

@johnytwotimes4072

Жыл бұрын

@@Sneaky_Basket Naive? Okay so he shouldn't have stopped pedophiles because maybe they learned how to avoid getting caught by being caught. You could make that argument for anything. Although there are organizations out there that do a terrible job at this sort of thing but this guy is legit. What have you done to stop pedos? Probably the same thing I have just watched them get taken down by Chris Hansen. I don't leave comments to argue with people so I do hope you have a great day and no one you or I know ever comes into any contact with these sickos.

@nedmartlew5277

Жыл бұрын

Love the name mate

@thebolsta

Жыл бұрын

The sad thing is, the nonces don't get long enough sentences, or don't even get custodial. Most of them will keep offending.

@patrixmatrix7163

Жыл бұрын

Godbless this man in Jesus Christ name and all the victims. 🙏🙌🍀

My brother was abused , I was lucky enough not to have been born at the time , he ended up on heroin at sixteen , in and out of prison , all the way through to his fourties’ until he eventually jumped in front of a train. He had no voice , I admire you guys so much for what you have done. Rest in peace to my bro lenny , and to anyone else who fell through the cracks and didn’t make it ❤

@joegreen8248

Жыл бұрын

Lenny from Guildford? I new lenny

@popsssss

Жыл бұрын

Rest in peace to your brother❤

@bobmiller7502

Жыл бұрын

we can ALL make a difference EVERYDAY even if its just a tiny one, just a smile say hello how are you, so sad what happend to Lenny who knows what he could of become with the right support,, never STOP Loving my brother x

@bbghoul_x

Жыл бұрын

My deepest condolences 🙏

@chelseaboylucas25

Жыл бұрын

@@joegreen8248 yeah Lenny from Guildford , he was my brother

Congratulations to these two men that managed to use their trauma to help others. What a great gift to society.

@taylordavison6849

Жыл бұрын

There are some who only do that for views, though. There's a whole thing about how the guy who started the trend in America had spoken out against the practice because opportunists were coopting it for views. I'm not saying do nothing, but I am saying do anything but what those guys did.

@Madonnalitta1

Жыл бұрын

​@@Brian_fooking_Ferry he skipped over it fast but he was.

its not "vigilantism" its a neighbourhood watch of the internet age. people like this man have the right to try and keep their communities safe.

@guntguardian3771

Жыл бұрын

It really depends on the group involved. From what I have seen they run the gamut from being really professional and doing it for all the right reasons, it just doing it purely for attention and have no care for the wider family and the abuser they are catching. We are much better in the UK than in the US, where a lack of easily used citizens arrest laws makes it difficult to hold them until the authorities arrive, so many of those involved are quite clearly in it for clicks. The ends do not always justify the means here, as they often make the individual phone up their families who are innocent and as a result end up posting these humiliating conversations online.

@trip4923

Жыл бұрын

@@guntguardian3771 That's the thing about consequences, they often affect more than just the receiving ndividual. It's not fair to the family, but they need to know when they are harboring a pedo. The police aren't always there to clean up the mess exactly how you would prefer. Many pedo hunting groups DO act silly and unprofessional. While still doing a great job at what they set out to do. Pedophiles deserve no mercy and deserve every negative thing that comes their way. When it comes to this kind of justice, there is not a right way to go about it. You either get the guy caught or you don't.

@guntguardian3771

Жыл бұрын

@@trip4923 Yeah, but that does not mean that the way the family is informed should be used as some sort of spectacle. No one would say they should not be informed, but either that should be done professionally by the team - with a female who takes them to one side and shows them the evidence if they are willing to view it - or via the police. You seem to be saying that it is fine to traumatise innocent people, because people want clicks or cannot be arsed to act in an appropriate manner when telling them their husband, son or dad is a nonce. There is a right way to go about it, making a spectacle of it is clearly just done as a power trip by those involved. They then use the refrain that it is just a nonce to defend their poor behaviour. Seeing them scream "nonce defender" at innocent, and understandably confused and shocked family members because they do not instantly trust what some chavs who have knocked on their door are claiming is nuts. It's actually disgusting. People defending these actions because it's a nonce do not seem to realise that this is in turn harming their own cause - professionalism would make it easier for authorities to work more closely with teams, and in doing so benefiting everyone asides from those who are preying on children.

@seekthetruthfindit6879

Жыл бұрын

I agree. The police is underfunded, and it could be your child they're saving.

@TKUA11

Жыл бұрын

I wish they had these but for thieves. Portland is out of controls thieves are running rampant, without getting their faces smashed in

Proud to call Mike my close friend. Proud to have been part of the Dark Light team. Selfless yet unapologetic and thats rare now-a-days. Growth is so powerful and I hope this new vid helps even 1 person. Props also to LadBible for raising awareness. Mad respect Mike, I am so happy to have seen your growth over the years and looking forward to being by your side watching the rest! The Power Of One 🖤

@muddyguns

Жыл бұрын

Mmm you're yummy

@scootrussell1

Жыл бұрын

You up to much tonight

@OP-rp8ws

Жыл бұрын

Massive respect you 👍🏼

@saida4292

Жыл бұрын

Glad he has good friends because good people need a warm community of friends and loved ones ❤ biggest respect 🙌 ❤ 👏 💙

@adrianalisitza5543

Жыл бұрын

These guys are great. I would be proud to call them friends.

These guys are a real inspiration. Talking about SA is tough for everyone, but it's historically been harder for men. So it's great to see the doors opening for men to talk about their experiences too. The problem of paedophilia can only be tackled once it's brought out into the open.

@kaelabelle4886

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree

@ferninthehouse

Жыл бұрын

people find it emasculating for men to talk about being abused (in any form not just sexual) but the reality is abuse can happen to anyone

@connorj6462

Жыл бұрын

Well said

@DX-d

Жыл бұрын

SAY IT. Sexual assault? Rape? Molestation? Say the words. By censoring these words people become less affected by their meaning.

@ferninthehouse

Жыл бұрын

@@DX-d it’s a KZread comment. People don’t want their comments to get ghosted for having buzzwords

I am a female survivor, I love what Mike and Dan are doing to help men come to terms with what happened to them as boys, children are never to blame for the wicked acts of devious adults. Excellent work guys and using your experiences to help others is commendable.

@Tryste

Жыл бұрын

What is problematic is that these devious adults are more than often molested in tehir childhood, they can on average molest 300 children themselves, so it's exponential humanity problem.

@gabbermensch

Жыл бұрын

Happened to me back in the 1980s...as a male....sorry ladies, but if it happens to you as a boy "stand up...stop crying..be brave"....I got so lost in feeling no emotion anymore...I got so fucking angry I just tried to hammer shit out of everything in my path, then I found drugs, and drugs allowed me to not really feel anything, on cue, on point of payment...easy. Now...I actually forgive them, I'm not carrying their evil on my shoulders, they already stole my childhood, I'm not giving them my adulthood. Fuck them, they get hanged by thyself, I don't need to care about the grave they already already dug, for me, a spade is used for a garden, where things can grow, live and thrive.

@Tryste

Жыл бұрын

@@gabbermensch I'm sorry for you, I do wish you all the best ahead and be liberated of all this

@dudeybagz

Жыл бұрын

@@Tryste I’m not sure where you’re from, but in Australia only 10% of convicted pedophiles have had pedophilia perpetrated upon them. I’m a survivor and I can tell you that other survivors I’ve talked to would never put a kid through the kind of trauma that they themselves have have had inflicted upon them.

@Tryste

Жыл бұрын

@@dudeybagz depending on the data, here in Europe some studies went up to 30%. But what is scary is that the average perprators age is younger and younger and the porn culture is suspected to be the cause for that.

This man deserve some kind of medal. Mad respect from Denmark.

@derekstynes9631

Жыл бұрын

Yes He Deserves that and Perhaps King Charles Might Agree with You ?

@ffffffffffff691

Жыл бұрын

one in five children have been molested in australia and 70% go on to be molesterers,heres an important question,would you kill your child if they are a petofile?because in todays world theres a good chance they will be,we need to get to the base of the problem and i have the solutions but people are wont learn them because they are to busy covering thier own tracks,have you ever heard the saing though dust protest to much,if you want the solutions to petofilia and how to break the cycle i have them but they will open the whole worlds insecurities,so will we fix this or do i have to give you the medal for covering up your own insecurities

@larrymullins3853

Жыл бұрын

@@derekstynes9631 with the kings links to known pedo Jimmy saval? And his brother Andrew?

@JB-gq1od

Жыл бұрын

@@derekstynes9631 Charles is a nonce 😂

@theun4giv3n

Жыл бұрын

King Charles defends paedophiles like Andrew and other rich Elites.

From a fellow child abuse survivor, thank you for the work you did and the new work you are doing now. I also work in the human services field and I always say my goal is to be the person I wish I had during my darkest times. Keep up the great work ❤️

@quotidian5077

Жыл бұрын

You keep up the great work as well.

@brownskinbeauty.

Жыл бұрын

I second what the first comment said 🕊

@Mattlawton-ft6ew

Жыл бұрын

😢🤗

I feel that a lot. I was an EMT for 7 years and the stress and emotion of everything I saw got to me one day and I also attempted to un alive myself. Seeing kids ripped apart in car accidents from a drunk driver, who is completely untouched, it just really got to me. 911 calls of child abuse, sexual abuse I really hated those calls. This planet is such a beautiful place but it can have very very dark spots

@chickenlittle5095

Жыл бұрын

Former RN here. I echo your sentiments. We see the absolute worst/best in people but more often than not, the worst is more often what sticks with you.

@Mothman308

Жыл бұрын

Reminds me of 'Nam

@ThyAmREmo

Жыл бұрын

I feel you there mate. Here's hoping it doesn't weigh down on you so much these days because yeah it's definitely a struggle to deal with at times.

@everybodylovesraven

Жыл бұрын

Im now 37 and still comming to terms with my trauma is the only way to put it BUT people like you make the world liveable THANKYOU from every part of my heart from Oxford 🇬🇧

@JimiBegbaaji

Жыл бұрын

@The Chad. Thank you. You made a difference. You are still making a difference. 👏🏾

This guy is a hero. I cannot imagine the amount of lives he has saved.

@Lee-wg7en

Жыл бұрын

he has probably saved his own as well. big up him and good on him.

Shocking numbers he's quoting for the quantity of stings. 500. And the predator's are going after 8 year olds. Holy Christ. These two heroes. Unbelievably strong & kind hearted men. It must be far too emotionally heavy to do this work for too long. I send all my love. And I'll warn all the friends I know who have children nearing the age of social media. Blessings. x Edit: LADbible you guys are doing incredible work making our world clearer and more understandable. Thank-you.

@BUDbizWIZ

Жыл бұрын

They go after much younger than 8. It’s horrific!

@anthonyhowrard526

Жыл бұрын

dont think i could do it. respect to them.

What a terrific guy. I've seen him in an interview with mainstream media and he comes across in both as a genuine caring individual. He really deserves total respect.

As a survivor of childhood abuse? Thank you. A million times thank you. I have my own child now, 6 years old, and I hope there's more heros like you out there fighting for his safety.

Not many people can bare the worlds pain, suffering and horror to this degree, let alone a victim/survivor of said horror. It must take such a strong stomach, heart, mind and soul to endure this... but not a broken soul, and this man, God bless him, is a broken soul. You can hear it in his voice, see it in his eyes, his posture, his apathy - he is haunted, this is PTSD. His pursuit of truth and justice, though highly honourable, is akin to self harm in his case, ripping open that wound daily. This man deserves a medal, a reward and the best aftercare money can buy, he's a guardian angel among mere mortals and cowards. As for the "higher up police" being against good, brave men like Michael, men doing Gods work - well, we all know why... crooked, complicit, GUILTY.

@steevo211

Жыл бұрын

I do not believe he is broken. He is angry. He needs respite. We Need A Legion Of Them. 🖤

@kokoskokso

Ай бұрын

Who wouldn't be haunted, of course he is. However I think what he's doing is a form of exposure therapy, which is the only thing that works for phobias. You slowly face your demons and you learn you have nothing to fear, that you're stronger than them. Also he mentioned looking for answers, lots of people who had dysfunctional relationships as children seek to re-enact them in adulthood in order to change the pattern and resolve the conflict in a better way.

I spent near on 30 years working with kids in secure units (some abused some not) and such, this man is a legend IMO.

@rosannavitale9922

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your work. Joy and serenity to you.

Absolute hats off to these two guys, a shining example of turning yourself around and passing on the help, wish them both all the best of luck.

I feel weird about liking this video because of how horrible the subject matter is. But we've got to protect our children by raising awareness. God bless these men and everyone who is combatting this horrible horrible crime.

What a trio of heros! The two fellas who sacrificed their mental well-being to try to help children to not go through what they and a lot of us went through, but the host as well for giving them a platform.

Mike is one of the most genuine guys I’ve had the pleasure of knowing and working with big up 🙏🏻💪

I teared up when he talked about the girl he helped prosecute her abuser. I hope she lives a happy healthy life with her baby, that's such great news and I totally understand why he would be proud of that, he should be

Very emotional hearing these two men speak. I work in mental health and honestly will take this video with me through my career. The second gent especially, you are so articulate and speak so honestly and clearly about your experiences and feelings throughout your life. Abuse grows within silence. We need to give people from a young age the vocabulary and the space to speak.

“they say you can’t polish a turd, but we’re gleaming” HAHA I LOVE HIM

@gavin6284

Жыл бұрын

He's right. You can't polish a turd, but you can glitter it!

I'm a psychologist in the USA, and it is so heartening to witness this powerful conversation between such courageous men. I have such respect and admiration for you. I work with combat Veterans, and when they are recovering, they are some of the most wise, compassionate, brilliant and kind human beings on earth. I have worked with some of the professionals you speak of, that lack curiosity and inquisitiveness. I think that, on the other side of trauma is incredible depth and empathy. Gentlemen, you are changing the world and creating an enduring legacy of healing. Thank you for being who you are in the world!

Nobility walks among us in those that fight against abuse. Thank you, for all you've done to protect the innocent.

These guys are incredibly inspiring, and this interviewer is so good. He asks great questions and also knows when to let his interviewees steer the conversation. Great stuff

As a survivor, thanks for all you did.

@Financialguide2023

Жыл бұрын

@BCo what are you on about?

@Jamiearge

Жыл бұрын

@@Financialguide2023NightTimeLounge admitted to finding children attractive and then edited the comment to look supportive. Shame

@gabriel8578

Жыл бұрын

Woah, how’d you survive him hunting you???

I walked away from catching predators as well. Felt like I did my part, but now it’s time for me to fully focus on my family.

@teresaspensley5640

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for doing it in the first instance💙🙏🌟

@starsigngirl9789

Жыл бұрын

Thankyou for your service ❤

34:17 these are the words I needed. I never can explain to people why I am scared of emotional intimacy. This is exactly why. When I gave emotional intimacy a final chance, I was abused and discarded. How am I supposed to ever allow someone close again? I am petrified

@ShogunateDaimyo

Жыл бұрын

Love yourself first. Be kind to yourself even if you made a mistake. Betrayal says volumes about them and nothing about you. You had the courage to open up which is a huge milestone for yourself. Next time vet your partner longer before opening up. Match their level of intimacy and loyalty, but only at YOUR comfort level. Look up reparenting to help yourself through your negative inner voices you inherited from past trauma. Research narcissism so you can identify and separate genuine people from those that are toxic with self-serving behavior. It will help you identify what may have conditioned you growing up too which can contribute to being naive about the nature of some people. Also research and truly contemplate your own boundaries and don't budge for no one. Create boundaries and know how to enforce them. People will love you with your boundaries and all. People that challenge your boundaries do not have your best interests in mind.

@hamali8126

Жыл бұрын

((Virtual huggs))

This really hit my emotions hard, absolutely nothing but utmost respect for both of these men for speaking up and giving a message to the world !

I'm very grateful especially for the second part of the program. This happened to me aged 9 to 12, no one intervened and it has its consequences to this day. I am 59.

@Linda72.

Жыл бұрын

Your not on your own xx

@iamnothungry

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry for that. Glad that your here, you’re strong! You can’t change things around you but you can change your perspective. Life life to its fullest and don’t let bad ‘people’ tell you how to feel or live. Being here, breathing, having legs and eyes is precious, use it to do what u love! Stay healthy and blessed🙏🏼

Thank you Ladbible for giving these guys a platform to promote their positive message and increase awareness about male sexual abuse victims and toxic masculinity. These 2 guys are very inspirational, I have so much respect for what they're doing now - well done lads👏🏻👏🏻

My biggest worry in this country. There's so many and it goes all the way up to the top. Why are so many people this way? I see them not even getting prison so many times. Makes you question judges etc

@redtrevcollects

Жыл бұрын

@@centaurus2309 wtf you need checking

@vallifunk2695

Жыл бұрын

I wonder the same thing. People like me and you can't even fathom it. I really don't know how so many people can become twisted like this.

@charlottedanby2405

Жыл бұрын

@@centaurus2309 you shouldn't be walking the earth, back to hell you go!

@Livelovelaugh4201

Жыл бұрын

@@centaurus2309tf?! That tells me all I need to know about you. You’re very sick and need serious help. I can only pray you haven’t acted on your beliefs. If you have I hope you get caught and get what you deserve in prison for the rest of your life! I hope any child you’ve hurt can heal and have a normal happy life. I hope your *ick turns green and falls off!

@Tor010

Жыл бұрын

Peados run the world

Sadly how ever many sickos there are times it by 10, they are very hidden, crafty and above all abhorrent!!! More should be done to stop them, especially those lurking amongst friends and family- which are harder to trap 🙏

@Skylark123

Жыл бұрын

But WHY are there so many sickos?! No one is talking about WHY these evil disgusting bastards exist let alone deem it okay to hurt children? WTH is wrong with them? Why so many of them?! I can’t wrap my head around it 😢

From a survivor I want to say thank you for what you've done. You've saved so many people from horrific trauma

I cant imagine the psychological trauma doing this kind of thing must leave, I had to stop watching the sting videos because of how it affected me mentally, I actually saw people I grew up with and went to school with and called friends at one time or another on those stings, I think its the realisation of just how many of these horrible people there are out there, its terrifying as a father

My daughter was nearly groomed at 8 years old on an online child platform game called Roblox.. we became aware something was a bit off with her behaviour! If we hadn't been as vigilant God knows where it could have lead? I personally would love to become a hunter, they do a fantastic job the ones that follow the law and build up the case. We'll done to this guy for his service to protecting children. 👏

@jennifertucker2581

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for making me aware on this!

I'm absolutely loving these podcast episodes. It's so nice to hear from these people and catch up with what's going on with them. This one was particularly great and I'm so happy for these two for being able to work through their trauma.

I've never been through any kind of trauma like this, but as a man in my mid 40s who has pretty severe mental health issues, hearing these guys speak was huge for me "Your vulnerability is the sharpest tool you have" That's huge. Thank you guys so much for this.

I can’t imagine the negativity of the world from the view of these teams, but for me, the fact that there are these teams shows the positivity. Thank you to everyone involved in child protection and safeguarding vulnerable people xxx

True definition of hero. So grateful for people like this who dedicate their time to save children’s lives. Respect.

i watch a few hunting groups and my daughter is a decoy and i have often thought how do you listen to what some monsters have done to our children, and see photographs confront them and then go home to your own kids, i hope the hunters get to talk about it and get it out of your head with a bit of therapy because you couldnt do this day in and day out walk away from it and live a "normal" life i hope they get help.well done lads and thanks for helping our kids, i am a survivor but not healed yet and i am 66 now and never got justice xxxxx

Phenomenal podcast. Very interesting to hear you both talk about your experience. I hope that this podcast will act as a useful resource for someone who may be in a similar headspace or had similar experiences

As the mum of a nearly 3 year old boy, and another one on the way, I couldn't help but get emotional watching this. Seeing two adult males talking so candidly about the abuse they faced has me in awe of their strength. I feel so sad they weren't protected as they should have been, they deserved so much more. I just can't get my head around how anyone can abuse children, it really does keep me up at night.

Mike you are an incredible man. Thank you for all the work you have done for paedophile victims. I'm so sorry to hear that you yourself have been a victim. You are an eloquent speaker and your calm demeanor helps people to hear your message. Please take care of yourself and your own health. You are a special and worthy person. Best wishes to both you and Daniel with your new venture, it's long overdue. It would be wonderful to see you guys travel the world and share your message, knowledge and ideas but be careful that it's not at the expence of your families and loved one's. God bless you both.

“Vulnerability is the sharpest tool in your box.” Brilliant 👌🏼

Outstanding talk! These lads are above the bar with what they are doing! God bless you two and the trauma groups your bring to light! I’m a child trauma survivor and seeking help now. Thank you for coming across my channel because this comforted me knowing we can turn this around and get out of the cycle! Amen brothers thank you so much! ✌🏾❤️🔥🍻🙏🏾

I have a little daughter and every time I see interviews and documentary about that topic I feel so sorry for all Those little kids. I watch my daughter sleep , knowing she is safe and loved and a happy child...and burst out in tears how someone could do anything to a child. I can't comprehend and it makes me feel paralyzed. Seeing people like Mike and Dan actually do something gives me a little bit of hope. Thank you.

after going through shit like that its crazy that you have the balls to go through it again again mad respect

I have so much respect for these guys and their ability to articulate what their journey has been like. Their courage is self-evident, but they use that courage to help others and that takes something very, very special and very rare. They're making society better and we're all in their debt.

Massive thank you for all your work and to all the other teams who carry out this voluntary work. Protecting the most vulnerable.

I met Mike and Danny - Lads Like Us at a Resolve Conference in London earlier this year. Their lived experience is so sad. But, how far they have come today comes down to that one person who managed to turn something on which changed their whole compass of life. Its a key we all hold for someone else struggling, just don't stop trying your key in people. One day it will fit on someone. Mike and Danny's true potential got unlocked by someone who just listened and didn't give up trying. Being trauma informed and as he said The Power of One, can achieve one man's true potential.

Protecting our children from predators! These people should be given a salary and more resources. Well done you hero’s.

you guys are heroes because you're setting a great example by sharing your experience and lending your perspective to professionals. more power to you both

This is probably the single greatest thing ladbible has done. I gotta respect your clickbait "journalism" company for producing this.

Thank you gentlemen, for being so open and vulnerable with all of us. 💙

There is always something so powerful about people and especially men, talking openly about their own stories. Not just about the abuse, but their life and conquering.

These guys are legends to the truest word. Every ounce of respect for people like this. Well done guys 👏🏼

Also a survivor and so grateful that you gentlemen found your voice. You became heroes when you decided to share your vulnerability! What you have actively done to bring predators to justice is awe inspiring. Thank you for marching boldly into the dark to save children! God bless you!

LADbible TV thank you for talking about the hard topics in the world that people need to hear. And thank you to the guests that participate.

Not all hero’s wear capes! This man has saved so many children!! Thank you!!

So much love and respect for these guys. Thank you so much 💓

Really good interview. Too many things hushed up and kids labelled as problems rather than looking deeper into why. Much respect and love to Mike and Dan for their hard work in helping others.

These guys are awesome. They remind me that I can do something with my negative childhood experiences. They encourage me to pursue trauma care, to help people, and to educate others on what survivors really need.

I'm so grateful to the both of them and I'm 100% sure that this will help victims and survivors of any background speak out/get support. Sending love and hugs to those who have gone through this

I was so scared that I would be traumatizing myself by watching this. What a loving ending and so much hope for the future 💗

@gisela1122

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for writing this. I’m emotionally very weak so this comment is encouraging me to watch the whole thing.

@LD-ky8bo

Жыл бұрын

@@gisela1122 no problem ☺

@WhitneyCutthroat

Жыл бұрын

Big Hugs for you both! ❤🫂❤

Thank you for sharing your path to helping so many. It's men like you both, that are truly what is needed throughout the world.

This interview was so gripping. What these guys have been through and are now achieving is immense on so many levels. Something that I was really hoping to hear discussed are funding issues, budget cuts, socioeconomic issues and systemic fracturing of social welfare in the UK and how this attributes to the way people speak out. Or potentially even the way in which social workers tackle cases/case loads.

I'm in Salford and like one of the guests said would love to be involved in this. Unfortunately I'm now a vunerable adult I suffer with cptsd, parasomia and borderline. All brought on by my childhood abuse and toxic environment. Thank you gents for speaking up for the many. I worked in the sra survivors community to help for many years. But was also not healed. I'm getting there now. Watching these guests is like a breath of fresh air for me and many others. Thank you would love to connect

What an amazing guy. He’s made such a massive difference in so many victims or potential victims lives. I hope he finds mental peace in the future

What an amazing gentleman. So real, honest and down to earth. This is so raw, so frightening for many reasons. The problem is bigger and terrifying.

The world needs so much of this, having been through a lot of trauma as a child i was lucky and used my demons to better myself and those around me who had also been through trauma ,, much love to you guys and keep up the good work.

Two hugely inspirational gents!! I’m not overly religious but it feels right to say .. amen for you both 🙏💎

Two incredibly brave men who are and have changed lives, by having the courage to share their stories. All ‘behaviour’ is a form of communication and in particular, we must listen to children through our eyes. This way, as a community, we can start to shine a torch on the significant lifelong negative impacts that are experienced by millions of ppl across the globe, from the trauma of sexual assault. If you want to really understand others beyond words, listen with your eyes and soon you may become a person who has empathy, compassion and deep love for those we simply don’t understand. There will never be any comparison, but it will help you decide what shoes to put on when you begin to walk a mile in their shoes

I have personally done the training with Lads Like Us and will attest to its power. Amazing to hear the pain and see the recovery first hand, the lads are truly incredible and I'm very thankful they wear their hearts on their sleeves to demand change in the systems. Thanks guys ❤

As a fellow Manc, the second lad is one of the most articulate I've heard speak about these issues, power to you mate.

Hats off to these guys and the programme makers. Fascinating and brilliant.

Really sad he worked hard to keep families together and ended up almost losing his own.

Great to see two men who have experienced terrible things finding a way through. So articulate. This is a great example of why we need more mental health support.

This is the best video I have seen on KZread, so far this year. It is heartwarming to see & hear two working class men speak with such encouraging clarity. They both obviously have their emotional energies in the right gear, driving themselves towards even brighter futures whilst offering lifts to any other men who want to go in a positive direction too

Brilliant podcast! My heart goes out to the two guys. Their braveness has resulted in a powerful forum which thankfully authorities etc are recognising! God bless you both! Respect!

This really speaks to me, after I'd been sexually assaulted I hit rock bottom. I became dependant on alcohol, I was acting out on dating apps with absolute idiots, and it took a really evil fight with my parents to wake me up and ask for help. I'm doing things that I enjoy now, and I'm possibly on my way to having a real proper romantic relationship with someone I suppose Rue should get a mention too, sitting there and seeing those graphic depictions of withdrawal made realize that shit, I don't want to end up like her.

This is brilliant. I'm not a survivor, either, I'm working on recovering and living. I relate to males who have experienced CSA and childhood abuse more than women despite being female myself. I just learnt to shut down like men and boys are expected to do. This is a powerful video. Thank you.

So much respect to you. Watching you really moved me. Not sure why you have stopped. I'll carry on your work, if you show me ropes.

Biggest respect 🙌 🙏 👏 thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤ I wish you peace and happiness. We need more people like you!!!

It takes courage to explain how you have worked through your trauma, and reached a part of your journey where you have moved on from hunting and taken the next courageous step on your path.

Thank you so much for spreading awareness, I am so grateful people are actually trying to save victims

The down fall of these teams were the ones that popped up just for attention the ones that would turn up making jokes taking the piss out of the way people look and creating dumb games out of it like nonce bingo while making unnecessary comments about things that were irrelevant to what they claimed they was there for, those people I won't name any names but we know who they are and what teams they belonged to are the reason why these legit teams and hunters got a bad response from the police and some members of the public I'm all down for turning up and exposing/filming these people and then uploading it to youtube after the police have done their side of things, but Turing up to their homes with multiple people blasting them and their family live all over the internet screaming your heads off about the way they smell or look whole drawing in unwanted attention from the public before they have been charged with anything is just fked up in its own way

Fuck man, I watch this interview and it's both comforting and conflicting. It's comforting to know that there a lot of people who have gone through what i've been through. But in my community i can't find anyone to talk to. I'm afraid that if i open about it, it will hugely impact the image of my family. I don't have enough cash to afford a decent therapy as well. But like these guys found their ways to cope with it without taking their lives, i hope time and years will give me and answer or a partner.

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best of luck brother from another person who’s gone through it aswell, don’t be afraid to talk to a help line.

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You sir should have no fear… many warm wished to you. I hope u find the support you deserve. This is so common yet each mam thinks he’s alone. That’s so much tragedy …I wish u peace and warmth and recovery and love

This great soul should have been supported to continue his work. He deserves a medal for god’s sake!

Thank you guys. Been wonderful listening to you. xx

I’m a healthcare provider. Professional curiosity will go forward with me even more than before. Thank you both.

The worst thing about all of this is it takes these citizens to take it upon themselves to go out and catch these animals. Wheres the funding for the police to do this work properly? If these groups can do it in their spare time why is it such a stretch for the authorities to take this on? These guys are incredible, can't blame them for having to stop, its a lot for anyone to take on, let alone people who have been victims themselves. Top bloke, thank you for everything you've done!

"4 or 500" wow, i want to make an impact like him. not doing his same line of work cause thats super heavy, but i want to impact as many peoples lives as he did. thats a huge accomplishment

Had no idea that this video was an hour long - it flew by. So deeply interesting these guys are so inspiring. I wish them nothing but good health and happiness

ABsolute mad respect for these two quality guys. I know it's nowhere near the same (and I'm not equating by any means for a second). But what he said towards the end about trauma was very moving. I lost my twin brother when I was 12, I haven't spoken to anyone about it (not even family, as I had to be that strong character) because I feel like I haven't gotten the voice for it. I'm 23 now, and these two lads have just got me off my arse to go and seek help about and confront this. What an amazing pair of guys, and an exceptional interviewer.

"It's Societies Responsibility!" ... Truth. I pray that all who experiance trauma, find their own peace and break free from its shackles. Everyone involved in this type of work are Heroes. Thank You for simply being -- we all need your strength and courage.

What an absolute pair of hero's Dan and Mike are. I cannot. express enough admiration for the increadible and valuable work they have done and are doing.

Thank you for making a difference using your passion ❤️‍🔥 Big love to you guys 🙏🙏🙏

Well done. This podcast is without doubt, an inspirational legend. Those two guys are fantastic. Their determination, their erudite and truthful explanations are breathtaking. I’m so glad that agencies up and down the country have honed in on their vital skills. When they start thinking about dishing out knighthoods and the like; these are the true worthy recipients. I worked in Housing for many years and I saw how the job easily entwined with other vital services to safeguard vulnerable people. What annoys me is it has to take two fundamentally “normal” blokes to shake up and wake up professional services. Government need to notice these two and pay attention. Oh, and they’re both Mancs; like me ( no bias, honestly) Well done boys. You’re both UTTER LEGENDS.