Thovqhuas koj tus me niam tsev koj tsis tso tus txiv neej liam2li no los tsim koj ntxiv lawm zoo heev tus neeg liam av tsis lim ces tsis hloov lub cuj pwm liam mog es ua ib siab txhob tu siab mog

Ua raug siab heev.pam xwb os.koj ua yog lawm

Kuv nyiam koj cov lus hais rau koj niam pom kawg li hais ko zoo2 kawg li nawj

Yay! So proud of you sister! Made the right choice and stood to your ground!

My mother in law is evil too. My husband understands and sees all that she does and stands by me.

Every time I listen to Hmong story, there always old culture related and very stubborn idea. Hmong people wake up and forget about old idea ok.

@autumnlossij-muas1490

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree! It's time to adapt to the 21st century

@nhialongxiong7870

3 жыл бұрын

Can you change your last name to Walthou Smith please?

@kayherrs9876

3 жыл бұрын

Yep, bc time changed long ago. I feel ppl now hold on to old culture just to control others. Just like this lady said, she was always wrong but her daughters were always right. In just sad it took her this long to realize he didn't care about her anymore.

@khouamoua4348

3 жыл бұрын

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@bchang227

3 жыл бұрын

@@nhialongxiong7870 What does last names have anything to do with this?

Don't stick your head into his troubles. Txhob mus lav 2 nawb tus txiv zoo li na. Koj mus lav ces koj muab koj txoj sia mus theej txhoj nawb.

Damn. If I were you, I would left from the beginning when he brought home his mistress. Anyways, from my experience, these men who cheat on their wives will always cheat on the next one. They don't care if she's beautiful or not, they want to think with their genitals. A tiger cannot change its stripe. As for the mother in-law, karma really smacked her hard across the face when she saw that her son's mistress whom she loved so much wasn't what she ought to be! Serves her right!

Lady I am on ur side u did the right thing. I agree with you all the way to the star 💫 and back, tseem niam pog Foom koj li nws yeej tsis npam koj kiag .

Cov dev zoo li no nyuam qhuav ntxim cia tus neeg nws hlub tua nws thiaj li

I would of left when he took her home. There’s no point of marrying someone like that

@gnavlove

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

@lillianli29

3 жыл бұрын

Angie Lee es rov mus ces niam txiv tsi yuav lawm ne , yuav ua Cas no . Tej niam txiv ib txwm cem thiab yuam rov qab mus yuav xwb es hmoob ces yeej phem li no xwb . Tsi zoo yug los ua ntxhais hmoon li os lawv.

@TracyLovee

3 жыл бұрын

Yee H Vang what era you living in? 1975? Dumb!

@Zeb1245

3 жыл бұрын

Yee H Vang geez, I hope you don’t think like that when it happens to your daughter.

Koj ua yog lawm os tus sister. Kuv mas ntxub cov niam pog uas zoo li ko kawg tiag.

Glad you finally found the strength to leave but you should have left a long time ago.

Ua cas niam pog ho. Tsis mus lees tias lub sij hawm ntawv tu tub tseem nrog niam pog pw no ne

@missysmart8620

3 жыл бұрын

lol 😂! Right!

Might as well jus stay til the end. You stayed all this time and already and endure the hurt why leave now? Because you finally had the courage to leave someone so worthless since day 1 of you going to marry him? Must be pretty desperate not to leave him before the wedding. And even after you know he was like that you kept bringing innocent children into this world with him! You match him perfectly, when he comes back asking you back just go back cus you know you need/want him no matter what. Stop using children as a excuse to not leave your husband. You were already living in the 21st century. Yes you did it to yourself.

@ThePlantedtank

3 жыл бұрын

Well said! Hard to have empathy for this lady, smh....

Yog Koj tseem mus dag cov txiav txim thiab Mas xyov yuav npam Koj li Cas os viv ncaus aw. Koj ua Yog lawm os.

Txhob tso cov txiv neej siab phem nrog niam pog koom siab ñtxub yus cia nws nyob nws nram nkuaj thiab li zoo rau niam pog txoj kev siab phem nrog nws tus tub

Hmong woman just don't know when to let go and move on...

@pajtshiabtsheej1984

Жыл бұрын

It's too painful to let him go than move on. So she would rather enabling his cheating behavior.

Tim koj os sister aw!! You know from the beginning tias nws twb tsis hlub koj na! Koj ruam lawm los? Cas koj thiaj yuav ib tus neeg ua koj yeej paub zoo tias twb tsis hlub koj thaum pib?? Tim koj xwb nawb. Kon rov ua rau koj tus kheej.

Haha..you reap what you sow.

Good u didn’t bail him out..serve him right..him or his darn family doesn’t deserve you and ur kindness..props for you sister.

Tus viv ncaus aw yeej yog li koj hais, tu siab tshaj mus ua nyab tau tsev neeg phem tsis hlub yus lawv hlub lawv tus tub xwb.

Qub neeg qub siab qub dev qub ntxhiab xwb pab tsis tau.

I think some of our Hmong women are very nice, but not strong. She should have left a long time ago. Also you live in this country, don't use your children as excuse to stay with an abusive husband or wife. You should be smart enough to choose your next partner.

Good for you sister. proud of you. he or she (the mom) didn't deserve you. u did the right thing. don't fall into their family and relative's trap. it is a deadly trap. blessings

@rafaelismael7928

2 жыл бұрын

instaBlaster.

Cas kv nim rau kiag tu niam tsev ntawv ko nkaum khaus os😭😭😭😭

Wow neb cov maj zoo kawg!

Cuag li muaj 1 rab qau xwb yom

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔

Vim txiv tag lawm. Ua cas tsis rov qab thaum pib nawb. Saib yus tus kheej tsis muaj nqi ces thiaj raug tsim vim yus yeej txaus 2 siab rau txoj kev no. Yog tsis txaus siab nyob lub neej nyuaj siab ces yeej tsis ntshaw tus txiv no thaum pib lawm hos. luag twb tsis xav mus ua tshoob tsis xav hu plig, twb yuav niam yau thaum ub thaum i lawm los koj yeej tsis muaj siab ntsws li. Ntshaw 2 tus txiv quav dev ces thiaj ntsib Kev nyuam siab. Pab tsis tau yog yus twb tsis pab yus tus kheej lawm. You don't love you and no one can help.

Viv ncaus aw nrog koj tus siab txog koj lub neej kawg li. Vim koj nyiam koj tus txiv dhau lawm ua cas koj tsis rauj koj tus txiv taum lub neej peb tag kis nawj . Kuv yog koj ces kuv tus rauj taum lub neej peb tag kis lawm

Ntuj aw.. tseem yuav teem tshoob ua dabtsi na tsis yuav lawm xwb os

nyob zoo os phooj ywg thov pab Kuv thiab os

zoo kaug laum mog ua li koj ua mam yog neeg ntse kuv los yeej ua ib yam li koj thiab thaum yus tus txiv tsis hlub yus laum ces yus tsis txhob hlub nuw. laum thiab

Smart woman!

Niam pog phem ua lauj li

@TracyLovee

3 жыл бұрын

Niam pog phem, tub ruam, ntxhais stay knowing all this red flag in 21st century, equal, they all dumb at the end, next!

Ya 👏🏻👍🏻 good job

Oh yo thaum 3 tag kis xwb lawv twb mus yuav niam yau lawm es tseem nyob thiab cia muaj me nyuam ntxiv thiab na

Good morning fr Cali!!

Thanks for your story

Nyiam qhuav ntxim os cov niag niag pog zoolino na

Tsis tau ua koj li tshoob lawv twb coj niam yau los lawm yog koj tseem nyob ces yog koj ntshaw txiv thiab ntshaw tsev hmoob no dhau. Lwm tus ces lawv twb qiv kauv txhais lawm os lolz

Gd morning. Can not wait 2 ur stories

Lub hmoob hais tias qub neeg qub siab, yog koj xwb os, yog kuv ces ntshe kuv twb tsi nrog niag in law ntawm mus saib nws li os.

Tus txiv siab phem li koj txhob quaj os hlub Koj tus kheej os

I’m glad you finally left him. He’s not worth it. It’s their punishment for treating you wrong. I would have left him the first day when I know my mother in law was like that. It’s his loss for losing you. He deserve it.

When you marry a weak boy, that is what you get. If you want him to stand up to his parents to defend you like a man , you better marry a man. Pls do not bail this man out. He deserves it. He only lies so that he can get out of jail. This is a disfunction messed up family.

Tus vivncaus nrog koj zoo siab uas koj twb tawm tau hauv lub neej lwj siab tu siab mus lawm mog. Peb ua neej nyob ces nws tsuas yog muaj li plaub yam uas nyob rau hauv peb lub neej xwb os mog. 1.ces yog niam pog thiab txiv yawg nrog rau yus tus txiv nrog rau cov kwvtij nkauj mua sawvdaws nyiam thiab hlub yus xwb. 2. Ces yog niam pog thiab txiv yawg kwvtij nkauj muam ntxub yus ces lawv yuav txw lawv tus tub mus ua hluas ces thaum kawg ces kawg yuav niam yau xwb os mog. 3. Ces yog niam pog thiab txiv yawg kwvtij nkauj muam sawvdaws tsis nyiam yus thiab tsis hlub yus ces yog yus tus txiv hlub yus ces yeej zoo xwb vim nws coj yus tawm hauv niam pog thiab txiv yawg lawv lub neej mus lawm ces thiaj tsis ntsib qhov kev nyuaj siab xwb os 4. Ces yog vim qhov uas peb tsis nrauj vim yog peb hlub peb cov menyuam xwb peb tsis xav kom menyuam tu siab xwb mog thiab tsis xav kom lub neej puas vim los ua ib zaug tibneeg nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no xwb vim xav ua kom lub neej zoo xwb yeej tsi xav ua kom lub neej puas li os leej twg los yeej ntshaw lub neej kaj siab tsi muaj leej twg xav tau lub neej nyuaj siab li os

High-five!! 🤚👏

Cas koj tsis mus thaum tsis tau ua tshoob es niam pog twb tsi hu koj plig. Luag twb hais yus ua ntej tias luag tsis hlub, tsis nyiam koj cas nyob ua sab tsi. Tsis mus thaum hluas thiaj tau neej zoo ntev.

Good for you. You are a good person

Cov txiv uas phem nrog niam pog ib qag mas dhuav siab tshaj plaws. Yuav tau hloov thiab lau cov poj Hmoob siab phem.

Vuag cas lub ntiaj teb no g hais leej twg yeej tau niam pog g nyiam u li cov phem tshaj los muaj cov thas mas das los muaj. G yog lub ntuj no g muaj niam pog zoo ler lo

tus siab her li os zoo no muag ib huj tw e nw ma noo yus xw

To koj tsaug kev tsim txom li ko lawm vim yog tim ko thiab thaum peb tag kis xwb koj tus txiv tub coj niam yaus ua los cas koj tseem yuav nws ua cas koj tseem tsi khiav tsov qab.

Should've left before the wedding! You were well warned...A sissy husband is not a real man!

@LM-755

3 жыл бұрын

Seriously right? She's so dump and stupid. I would had left. There are plenty of fishes in the sea. I can't listen to it anymore. LoL

@nouvang7469

3 жыл бұрын

@@LM-755 cc

@gnavlove

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@leejmuam1

3 жыл бұрын

He is the only man available on Earth at that time 😂. She didn't want to leave when she still young, no kids, and still looks good. I cannot defend woman like her. She too head over heels for him.

Koj tshuav lawv nqi, rau siab them kom tag, Lwm tiam you will be free......

Es koj nyiam nws npaum cas g tau puv peb tag kis twb ua phem es tseem rov mus nyob thiab los cas mloog tau mob hlwb ua luaj

Wow roojteb no es tseem tshuav ib cov niam pog txiv yawg phim nyuj vais cob tub cob ntxhais li ko thiab los, niam cob tub cob ntxhais li ko ces lub neej yeej mus tsis txog qhovtwg kiag li mas txog qhov kawg ces ntshe tsis tub nyab ntxhais vauv nqa nws lub taub hau rau qhov ntxa od hahaha

Wow ntshe koj nyiam koj tus txiv heev dhau lawm tiag yom la2vvtwbbtsis hu nplig coj kiag ib tug los los koj tseem nyob.

love this kind of story, Niam Ntsuab Teev

👍👍👍👍

All I have to say is, please don’t ever take him back when he gets out of prison. He is a very sick man.

Yus yog ib tug poj niam los txhob muab yus tus kheej tso qis qis mog .ua li koj ua ces yog kawg lawm ua kom taus thiab nws thiaj paub tias yus muaj nuj nqis ..thov qhuas koj yog tus muaj peev xwm.

What I can’t wrap my head around is the beginning. Did you fall madly in love with him and that’s why you stayed and held on for so long? It is such a turn off when the parents are like this and the son does not stand by you. I don’t think I can stand to be with someone like this unless I am beyond blinded by love……or money?! Lol

Tsev loj tswj tsis yog tsev loj cuj. What do you think

Koj niam pog lawv saib koj Tsi muaj nqis os lawv siv koj mus Tso lawv tus tub xwb, muaj haiv neeg ua ces yuav muaj haiv neeg tsim ces yog li ko ntag

Sorry, but you put yourself in that situation. If I were you, I'd left long gone from the time when his mom didn't like you. You already know what will happen in your future.

@visachannel1428

3 жыл бұрын

P

I just don't understand why this lady did NOT leave him at the beginning when he brought home that other wife. That's the start of wasting her life.

Koj rov qab mus TSO Nws Rau Niam pog Rov qab cob xwb os Viv ncaus aw txhob TSO CIA Nws Nyob Nws os, cas koj tsis hais tus Thaum mus nrog Nws tus poj niam nkauj nrab mus lav nws Tom nws COV neej tsa tshiab mas los😭😭😭😭

Tu me niam tsev you had all the red flags and you ignored it. You proclaimed your love for him but he didn’t love you. You lived here in America and got married in 1998 that means you grew up here but still has a mindset of 1975. Either you were ignorant or you love and liked your spouse more than he did. You choose to bring these children into this world with all the wrong signs. I’m glad to see all the sisters here making more sound and smarter choices. Good luck!

@yl7495

3 жыл бұрын

Well said! I don’t understand why young people still have that Laos mindset.

Peb hmoob aw ua cas kuv twb yog ib tug niam tsev hmoob yuav txiv muaj 31 xyoo no lawm. kuv xav tias peb hmoob tuaj nyob U S A lawm thov kom peb hmoob pauv mus rau lub neej tiam tshiab thiab. es tso txoj kev cob tub cob ntxhais tseg thiab lau. es kom peb thiaj muaj lub chaw tuag thiab peb yuav nco qab ntsoov tias peb yug tau peb tus tub los yuav kom tau ib tug poj niam los hlub lawv es yus tsuas txhawb lawv xwb txhob los muab lawv cob kom phem li ub li no yus yug tau los ua tub ki xwb yus yuav tsis tau yus tus me nyuam yus nrog tsis taus lawv pw. peb cov txiv tsev hmoob txhob ruam 22li no yuav tus poj niam nyiam nej ntau es thiaj fwm nej nej tsis paub tias daim av U S A no poj niam muaj power lawm pim ib yam pim xwb zoo 22 ces neej yeej tsis puas ib zaug.peb cov niam pog los pog niam no yuav tau txawj ua laus pog los yog pog laus tiag 2 peb yog niam kom txawj ua niam. tej nyab thiaj fwm yus tus ua niam mog.ua cas kuv hnov mas tib cov uas ntxim22 ntxhub xwb.peb hmoob aw cas thaum kuv tseem hnov li no mas qhia tias hmoob tseem ua neej poob qab heev. Txhob tu siab mog tsoom niam tsev thaum nej ntsib ib tug txiv ruam 2 npaum no lawm tso tau los tso mus mog txiv me nyuam yaus li no xwb ua neej tsis txog twg lawm.

Niag niam pog siab phem tsis tshaj tus niam pog no li lawm os, niam qhuav ntxim xwb los mas. Me sister aw koj ua yog lawm os, txhua leej txhua tus yuav ua niam pog thiab yuav tsum txhob ua li tus niag niam pog no ib zaug li nawb, lub neej twb tsis yog yus lub es ua cas ho yuav siab phem ua luaj li, niag tsov tom niag niam pog siab phem.

Sister good you did not bail him out. His mom should bail him out. You should not put yourself into messy. His family just used you for clean the messy.

Sister Koj twb paub thaum beginning Tsi tau mus ua tshoob koj tseem qi muag nti yuav thiab ne thiaj tau kev txom nyem.....

@dayxio7314

3 жыл бұрын

Yog kawg,luag twb ua rau yus pom ua ntej mus xaus tshoob ruam thiaj li rov los. Tej zaum tseem tshuas lawv nqi rau tiam no.

Ua cas nws niam tsis ho mus dag rau police tias nws thiab nws tus tub sib tsoob ua ke saum txaj thaum tus lawv foob tias nws deev tus ntxhais tshiab nas?

Cov niam pog zoo li koj tus ces nyuam qhuav phim xwb os..

Niag dev Liam luag xav tsoob yus lub niag pim xwb luag twb tsis xav hlub koj thaum niam qhuav yuav koj thawj tuag kis xwb es koj twb tiv los txog hnub no ntuj os poj hmoob aw hnub no es luag muab koj ua mob laug tas pim tawg tag es koj tseem tias koj tsis tos lawm tos tsis tos los koj twb tshuav nkag qhov av lawm xwb es leej twg thiaj kom koj tos nawj luag yeej tsis hlub koj thaum pib kiag los lawm txawm koj tos tsis tos los luag yeej tsis care koj li sav hnub no ces lig rau koj dhau lawm os poj hmoob ruam qhov zoo ces nyob es tuag los ua nws Dab hos ciaj los ua nws neeg xwb tiag yus lub pim piam tag rau nws yus los ua nws tsev neeg qhev mob laug tag txhob mus mog koj mus ces koj yog tus phem nawj ua dev tiv qws kom txog hnub tuag nawj thiaj tsim nyog txoj kev hlub nws nawj

Good for you. Don’t bails his pervert a$$. Let him rotten in prison and his mom got what she been begging for.

Tus niam tsev koj kuj hais rau koj niam pog tias kom nws yeej meem foom vim nws ncauj foom ces nws ntswg sau xwb tus npam ces twb yog lawv lawm...

Too late fool!!

Hate to say this, but your bad at seeing all red flags. There was plenty before the wedding yet you still continued so partly its your fault for continuing a relationship after he brought another lady home too.

Koj tus husband ua tsis tau txiv mus mloog niam lus ua phem rau koj

@ka6363

3 жыл бұрын

Nyiam niam pim xwb mas cov txiv zoo li no

Ua cas es nej cov txiv neej hmoob mes kas tsuas haus niam yau li niam yau xwb lam nyob teb chaws vam Meej xwb nawb nej tseem yuav niam yau tshaj Tim qub teb chaws thiab es thov tsum thiab laub.. Tus niam tsev cas koj tsis ntxov khiav os koj niam pog mas yog neeg phem tshaj koj yeej tsis khaum li nawb tej no tsis yog koj txhaum tso siab nawb kav tsij nrhiav dua neej tshiab mog thov kom koj mus tau tus hlub koj mog

@roseanimetor8157

3 жыл бұрын

Cov yuav Niam Yau ces yog cov thaub laus tuaj tim nplog tuaj xwv os. Cov me myuam hmoob tsis yuav niam yau os. Lawv yuav hlub thaibxyuav tus twb ces tus ntawv xwb.

I love it.... karma is a bitch. Sister, you are a strong and smart woman.

Tsam no ces pog laus tus tub dev yuav mag khej dub muab xa qhov quality lau, pab tsis tau...

Nej cov pojniam cas ruam li no. Thaum pib tsis tau hais tshoob, twb paub thiab pom tias yus tus txiv thiab niam pog tsis hlub yus. Ua cas tseem nyob thiab txhob ntshaw txiv Txhob tu tu siab. Yus ruam yus xwb. Neeg ruam li no tsis txhob paub tu siab vim yus yeej paub thaum pib los lawm. Kuv ntxhub cov neeg ruam li no. Koj tsis yog neeg los ua cas pheej nyob nrog tus neeg tsis hlub yus

Nyuam qhuav ntxim txoj kev siab phem! No sympathy for your husband or mil at all.

You seem to be stubborn too. You set yourself up for a fail marriage from the beginning. You should have left from day 3, especially when he brought another girl home.

Koj twb nyob amekas teb no thiab ua li cas koj ruam ua luaj li? Txhob nrhaw nrhaw tej niag txiv coj li ko thiab maj tus me viv ncaws aw. Ntxov tso ntxov zoo xwb os me niam hluas aw.

Nope, people like ur husband and your mil. They only use you. I won't even go see him in jail, or communicate with the mil. They will never do the same for you .

How pathetic is this woman? He brought home wife #2 just days after you and you still insisted to stay? Tsis yog koj txhom nws yuav xwb lod? Nkim qhov koj tuaj nyob miskas. Mus nyob tim nplog, mus ua niam loj tiv es pauv lwm tus ntse zog tuaj nyob miskas lau. Tso duab kom peb pom seb koj niag txiv nim haib npaum cas, seb koj ho dabtuag thiab npwb npaum cas es koj thiaj nqhis nws npaum ntawd diam os.

Cas zaj no koj koj twb hais tas

Ladies, quit being desperate and forgiving to these dumb@$$. They are not worth you switching their place sitting in jail. Leave them on the side of the road and let justice system run it course. I would've divorced him the minute he left the house, pull child support, change the locks, close the door, and no need to look back.

Girl I was in the same boat! I wish I had the courage like you when I was your age....kudos to you!!!🤩

1998.....thaum ntawv hmoob tseem txom nyem thiab tab sis hmoob twb tsis ruam lawm. Ua cas koj yuav uv taus taj yam li no nas? I married in 97, WOULD NEVER HAVE PUT UP WITH THIS SHIT!

Mommy wants the son to herself... Gross!!!! And the daddy dont say sh!t....should not waste your time with those peoples...haha that's what your ex families deserve....be happy, stress free, n live a happy life!!!!!

Tus niam tsev e! Cas koj yuav uv tag los uv thiab es cas ho tsis mus yuav txiv nawj? Koj txhob ruam ruam ua luaj....cas yuav ntshaw tus dev limhiam no ua luaj.......tus dev no tsis yog koj tus txiv nawv mog.

Sorry not sorry Bc it was a disaster from the beginning. Should have left in first place.

May....Nej nyob..Oklahoma puas xis nyob thiab os av ua teb noj puas zoo li nyob Minnesota

@suesanchang7082

3 жыл бұрын

May nyob St.Paul sav los yog nws move lawm na.