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@kgolofelobaloyi4051

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story. Personally I've learn a lot

@gloiraross6740

2 жыл бұрын

Some marriages are NOT worth saving

@nunyabb

8 ай бұрын

Have yalll have a video with Alice and Joe on together ???

@nunyabb

8 ай бұрын

I wanna see more of Alice ❤❤❤❤❤

Soo beautiful... Re-Married After Getting Divorced! Such a testimony to forgiveness, grace, and mercy. Such a testimony to God... Forgiveness, Reconciliation, Resurrection, Blessings. Just Praise God!

Your the true hero of marriage helper Alice! From all the couples and their children you’ve helped, a big THANK YOU sooo much!!!

“I love who I am - I love the person that I am now - I love myself.” 🙌 Alice !!! 💞

Joe is lucky and so blessed to be Mrs Alice Beam’s other half!!

I'm here I know I'll survive this.

Alice Beam is a beautiful lady ❤️

Amen! So not follow, stalk, or peak at the AP on social media. You do you. It doesn’t matter how beautiful/handsome, young, fit, wealthy, seemingly happy the AP is, don’t compare yourself to them. What you see on social media is a well-crafted illusion of a person who is actually broken inside - because people who are truly confident in their skin would high-tail it away from a married person. Again I say - you do you.

I don't agree with taking back a cheater, but I love her advice to love yourself and work on yourself

Thank you Alice. Your experience gives me hope. I still believe my husband is a good person, doing something very bad. He has become someone I don't know anymore.

@kims1912

2 жыл бұрын

Same experience but mine has ptsd, and I'm his target. Mine is a good man who has lost his way and who's walked away from the Lord and faith.

@nilimapo15

2 жыл бұрын

Like my husband,

Alice is a truly inspiring and beautiful lady. She has so much strength and integrity.

Sounds like Joe grew into a better person, spouse and father. The whole experience, while not ask for by all was a growing experience for all, even though it was painful and damaging for all. It was like a trial by fire. Satan attacks God's children, but he loses more than he gains. God wins, we His children win. Stand strong!

The whole Beam family is a blessing to all of us. Thank you!

Alice, thank you for telling your story. You are indeed a strong Christian lady.

This is so awesome! Thank you so much for having her on!!! She is just so awesome! She helps me pull up my boot straps and be the best I can be for my kids.

Alice, your openness is extraordinary and hearing of your experiences in this reunion, and all the myriad of great things that came from your reconciliation is very very touching & moving. You, your husband and you Kimberly are inspirations.

What an absolute interesting surprise! That Kimberly is your daughter. Excellent!

@MsAngklin

2 жыл бұрын

It is isn't it? She does reveal it on a session. I can't remember which one. It was a shock!

This made my day! Alice Beam you are radiant and beautiful. You have have an inner soul glow. Thank you for speaking from your heart to our hearts. It would help greatly to see and hear more from you. 💓

You are such an amazing testimony. My husband asked for a separation on the 27th of September this year, claiming that he wants this for a period of 12 months, to work on himself, and he gave me a whole list of things I needed to change. I moved out on the 2nd of November, a day after my birthday. Last night, he asked me for a divorce, he wants to keep in contact and visit, he loves me and does not want to see 17yrs just be forgotten, etc. He doesn't know that I know of the other woman.

@MarriageHelper

Жыл бұрын

Hey @sarahfields9437, Wow thanks for sharing this story!! We truly hope this video brought you some hope for your situation. Just out of curiosity, have you taken advantage of our free mini course? We know times are tough and want to provide as much as we can to you free of charge. That's why we created this free mini course. It will teach you how to get your spouse back and give you a plan moving forward! You can get access to it directly by following this link: bit.ly/3FAr9Vg Please also considering reaching out to u s directly to speak with a marriage coach who can help give you some guidance!

So brave and courageous! You are an inspiration! ❤ Thank you for your honesty and transparency 💚

Thank you for sharing your honest experiances, it surely has given me the much needed hope. Also will I listen again to this clip, but this time together with my still husband, so he can realise that I did not put an act on, but a) this is how an abandoned women feels after an act of infidility and b) this is how it could affect our children. I have all the respect for you, what you've gone through and for sharing so many positive thought with us!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

The story your mom is telling and all the detail is absolutely perfect! Someone in my family is about to go through this same journey for the same reasons and I told the wife that even after divorce remarriage with your husband is a definite possibility. We also discussed the areas that need to be worked on and the growth that needs to occur on both sides that can be done while apart for the most successful chance of the relationship in the future. This story and all the details are more helpful than you can imagine

You are a lovely lady. Joe is lucky to have you.

A bigger screen would be great to see both of you Ms. Alice & Ms. Kimberly ! We love to see you both wholly !

Thank you for this interview!

Thanks so much, Alice; you are Wonderful! And you’ve definitely been very helpful and hopeful for me today! ❤️

Thanks so much for this ! I’ve been feeling so conflicted about how my 18 marriage would ever reconcile, I understand now that everything feeling is completely normal. Thanks so much

@MarriageHelper

2 жыл бұрын

So sorry Rachel! We are here for you if you need us. We'd love to talk with you through your situation and guide you to any resources we have that might be beneficial to you. Let us know if you want to talk. ❤️

You are a beautiful person! Thank you for sharing your experience, that give us hope and teach us what to do and don’t do during this painful experience. You just describe your fillings as they are mine now, I feel devastated, with a deep pain and fear.

Nice seeing you Mrs Beam.I was eagerly waiting to see you on this platform.I have learnt alot from you.Through you many marraiges are saved

This is so helpful. God bless your mum and her story. I real eye opener.

Out of all your professional videos.. this one has helped me the most. ❤️❤️

I love your organization. You are the best I have ever seen here in youtube. A living testimony for broken people that made it.

What a pleasure to hear from you Mrs. Beam. Thank you!

Thank you Alice for sharing your story. I have hope, real hope!!! Thank you Kimberly. God bless you all!

There are so many similarities in the breakdown of my marriage and my wife having an affair to what Alice went through with Joe a part from my wife is the betrayer. Our wedding anniversary is the 7th of june 😔 But this also gives me hope. Alice is an amazing lady!

I’m crying 😭 this is beautiful

Hello Mrs. Beam, you are the rockstar of the show!

Thanks so much for the inspiration!

Thank you for sharing your story...

What a wonderful and inspiring story.

I was married 28 years when my ex walked out on me. He told me over text he wanted a divorce. I take responsibility for my part that harmed our marriage but it was his choice and his actions to step outside of our marriage vows. I intimately know what Alice went through in regards to having her heart torn apart through the act of betrayal and abandonment.

I love your story of overcoming a troubled marriage! Please pray forme. I want a successful story too! 🥰🥰🥰

Thanks you guys 🙏your videos are awesome they are soooooo halptfull for me may our big God bless all of you 🙏 😊 ❤

Thank you for everything! I have hope!

Thank you for giving me hope. To God be the glory!

I love it!!! 🙏🏼

Thank you for sharing this truly amazing life story🙏🏼We are exactly alike as well as the situation except my three daughters are grown 24, 21 & 18. We’ll see where my life will be three years from now, but I’m not going to have my hopes up❤️

Thank you so much for your heartfelt honesty - I am in the same boat as you were ... what a painful place to be in 😢

💞This women is divine! 💞

Alice, you really inspire me

Thank you for sharing your story. When Alice talked about deciding to trust Joe again until he gives her a reason not to, a light bulb went on in my head. Trusting him again has been the hardest struggle for me. I’m not going to police him or interrogate him but I don’t want to get hurt again either. I also wonder if that love i had for my husband before he confessed to an affair will ever return? I love him because he is my kids father and because he was my friend and we’ve been together for years but the affair extinguished the deep, passionate feelings I had for him. We are trying to work it out but I worry I’ve lost that loving feeling and wonder if it will ever come back?

@jerryanddiannedennison5644

Жыл бұрын

Yes, you can get it back through the forgiveness you have in your heart (that will grow into love). That is the gift to yourself! That's why God is so full of Love! He has forgiveness for all mankind. Forgiveness breeds love.

@msdee2905

Жыл бұрын

Yes so much hurt and pain, distrust and disrespect now. So much has changed between us now. I still love him but it is different now. I am not even the same sweet trusting happy naive person I was before. I’ve lost so much including myself. I’m so broken now.

@watitduful

Жыл бұрын

Also, forgiveness does not mean reconciliation. Setting boundaries with people is not sinful nor holding a grudge.

Live - 09.03.23 - Beautiful! I always, thought this ministry was, would be Better, with your Insight.

Did Joanna ever come on and do a video? It really would help to see her perspective also. This video is so healing for me. It really made me realize that I had forgotten to forgive some people, and I was tricked into believing God did this to me also. Thanks so much Alice.

Und Gott stellt sich zu der Entscheidung eine Ehe wieder herzustellen und gibt viel Segen dazu🙏🕊😊 Hab es selber ,nur anders erlebt in meiner Ehe.Mein Mann wurde Christ das größte Wunder in allem❣️ Vielen Dank für dieses wundervolles Zeugnis.

Encore je vous remercie beaucoup encore une fois de ce que vous me montrez oui merci

Alice you worked on your pies !! I have goosebumps.

@jerryanddiannedennison5644

Жыл бұрын

Before they ever called PIES.

What if I was the one that had the affair and desperately want my marriage to still work..?

This is my therapy

INSPIRATIONAL WOMAN!! Alice Beam is so beautiful inside and out! x

Please pray for my marriage restoration 😢 😭

Je trouve ça superbe que Dieu soient toujours loué pour vous avec beaucoup de prospérité

Sally sue is probably a better nickname than tool of Satan.🤷‍♀️

Please take great care in engaging with this program -- there are biases and one-size-fits-all, does not fit all. Make sure the people you work with are trained, trauma-informed and authentically open to feedback. (I was a participant. )

@MarriageHelper

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Jan, we are sorry to hear that you feel this way. Did you attend one of our in-person or online workshops recently? I would be happy to connect you with a Client Representative if you would like to talk with us. We make a strong effort to avoid telling anyone what to do. Our workshops and online programs are designed to educate and equip you with the tools to save your marriage, but only if you choose to do so. While it is our goal to help people save their marriage, it is always your choice. What we teach is also empirically-based research combined with decades of experience. Every marriage situation is unique in it's own way. We simply teach about the underlying issues that often contribute to a marriage failing or succeeding, and what you can do about them. Please don't hesitate to reach out to us if we can be of any help to you. 1 866 903 0990 Blessings, Marriage Helper

@watitduful

Жыл бұрын

I agree. People have to be very careful with stuff like this. Often times, people are projecting their own convictions and as you noted, one size does not fit all.

Vraiment Dieu est grand avec beaucoup de sensation sincérité honnêtes et loyauté merci

Mmmmhmmm…. Thank you for sharing this. Great if ice for marriages

How long were you and Joe married the first time? How long was he in an affair before you found out? How did you find out?

I love you I will come with testimony with my husband

What if there's a child from the affair partner, your husband wants to stay in the marriage, but how to cope with that situation??

@jerryanddiannedennison5644

Жыл бұрын

So sorry for such pain. Keep the faith, don't let Satan win.

@amyteurlife9408

Жыл бұрын

Bob and Audrey Meisner has similar story of overcoming when pregnancy happened.

@watitduful

Жыл бұрын

What does that mean Jerry?

Alice, i so wish i would have watched this video before i looked up the other woman’s facebook and seen what she looks like. It really is hard knowing what she looks like :-(

@MarriageHelper

Жыл бұрын

So sorry friend. It's always a bad idea to play the comparison game. Remember that your competition is NOT the other woman. You are in competition with yourself! Work on your PIES and become the best version of yourself for YOU. Keep using SMART Contact to neutralize all negative interactions with your spouse! And consider getting a Marriage Helper coach or signing up for our Save My Marriage Membership to learn what you can do to help save your marriage and prevent divorce! We are here for you my friend! Reconciliation is still possible regardless of what has happened!

Oui je parvient à comprendre un peut un peut vraiment j'aime bien oui

Did Joe live with sally Sue when he moved out ? Why did he stop seeing her?

@fitbe3

Жыл бұрын

I think Sally Sue left him.

@kimberlybarry8357

9 ай бұрын

That's why he came back to her. She's needs to stop.

@whitefantom

8 ай бұрын

​@@kimberlybarry8357 There's more to their story that they don't go into detail about on KZread, but they do in the workshop (I haven't participated in the workshop, but this has been mentioned in a number of other MH videos). He didn't go back to Alice because Sally Sue left him - in fact, he continued down a very dark road, being involved with other women, living a life that was completely counter to his values and getting into things he would have never imagined himself doing before, and he lived that way for quite a while before he started to come out of the fog and came back to Alice. He took a long, dark path before he found his way back to the light again.

❤

She seem to blame herself for contributing to his affair. No wife is perfect but the husband made a poor choice in having an adulterous affair. The painful memories still hurt decades later when she talks about it today.

@jerryanddiannedennison5644

Жыл бұрын

They have Victory over Satan! WHAT A REWARD! HALLELUJAH

@watitduful

Жыл бұрын

Just sounds to me like she’s using that as a coping mechanism to justify staying with him. Under this thought process, she’s actually trying to control the outcome as if her changing further will ensure he doesn’t behave the way he did. That opens the doors for a rude awakening because she has no control over what he chooses to do. People have free will and choose what they want, right or wrong. I feel for this woman but she’s also bringing this on herself for not using common some sense.

@watitduful

Жыл бұрын

I’m willing to bet there’s some sense of emotional and financial dependency on her part. I’ve seen it a million times. It has more to do with those things rather than “being they bigger person” and moving in faith. Also, I’m cases like this the women will stay because they don’t want the embarrassing of being left given that much of women’s worth is measured by whether she can keep a man. I think that this messaging is negative because it doesn’t get to the real issues and just glosses over it and it’s stamped with Jesus’ Name on it to officiate it. That’s fake and misleading.

@lucylucy2171

Жыл бұрын

I don't think she blames her self. She says she's not at fault for his choice to step out, she just knows she herself wasn't perfect, just as he wasn't so she decided to focus on making herself a better person, forgive him, love him again and give it another chance. She's practicing what Jesus said. Not everyone is able to do it but she knew he was broken and wanted to give him a chance to redeem himself and he did. There's nothing wrong with that. It doesn't mean she has to hold a grudge or making excuses. Every situation is different. Some may forgive and let go, some may never forgive and some may forgive and try again. Nothing wrong with that. We can't keep punishing peolle for being human. If your heart is open for reconciliation, why not?

@kimberlybarry8357

9 ай бұрын

​@@watitdufulyour right, she's doing a lot of sugar coating. I still haven't heard the real issues yet. This isn't helpful at all.

You would have liked in the beginning. I mean you're human. It's what we do. It takes realizing and I do see that you would've stopped. I have a very hard time believing you wouldn't look on social media at all.

💞💞💞

It's pointless to stay together after cheating. When my ex cheated on me I told her that she had to earn my loyalty as well as my trust and that's when you find out how much of a hypocrite you're dealing with

Alice, you are such a beautiful person and listening to you have been such an inspiration. Thank you so much for this.