Overcoming Heartbreak, Debt, Depression | Akshat Gupta Podcast | Failure Motivation | Sadhika Sehgal
In this episode of Men’s Locker Room, we are in conversation with Akshat Gupta, an author who is known for his best selling series like The Hidden Hindus, The Naga Warriors. Also a renowned screenwriter and poet, Akshat shares his unique experiences and perspectives on personal relationships along with discussing his forte in mythology, history and spirituality.
Akshat begins by discussing his role as a full time house-husband and explains why he believes we should be known by our mother’s name, emphasizing its importance and cultural significance. Delving into a more personal life with our host Sadhika Sehgal, Akshat talks about dealing with his first failure, his first love, and the subsequent breakup, elaborating on how these experiences shaped his personality. Sharing his life stories, Akshat Gupta also talks about his wife and the second chance he got at both love and life.
Akshat touches on the differences between Hindutva and Hinduism and highlights the significant role of women in ancient times. He shares ancient verses that provide peace during challenging periods and discusses why the Bhagavad Gita holds so much significance in Indian culture. . Akshat offers his theory on why Shri Ram is considered as an ideal man and discusses the ‘Roops of Vishnu’ and the different povs of Ramayan.
We explore why men often feel misunderstood, the reasons behind their emotional unavailability, and different views on Gen Z relationships and explain ‘why people cheat’, the varying expectations in relationships, and the emotional support men need. Akshat Gupta also opens up about him dealing with depression and overcoming hardships.
The conversation continues with a discussion on karma’s role in relationships and if there is a possibility of reversing your karma. We also talk about his views on Neem Karoli Baba, the perseverance of culture, and its importance to the government, as well as the significance of Indian Vedas and astrology.
Akshat also shares his thoughts on why the BJP lost in Faizabad, the importance of religion and caste, and ends the conversation with insights into Bollywood and down-to-earth celebrities like Pankaj Tripathi.
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Instagram: / authorakshatgupta
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction
01:10 - Akshat Gupta is a full-time house-husband
03:14 - Why we should put our mother’s name first
05:50 - Decoding Akshat Gupta as a person
09:30 - Dealing with first failure,love and breakup
18:35 - How to deal with hardships
19:57 - Difference between Hindutva and Hinduism
21:25 - Why ‘Aurat’ is a bad word
22:44 - Bhagavad Gita has the answer to everything!
29:01 - Why is Shri Ram an ideal man? Different povs of Ramayana
39:16 - Do men also feel misunderstood?
41:00 - Why are men considered to be emotionally unavailable?
47:15 - Decoding GenZ and new-age relationships
51:55 - Why do people cheat?
56:38 - Men also need emotional support
1:00:35 - Qualifications to be in a relationship
1:03:39 - Why does Karma play an important role?
1:07:09 - Why do people wear Gemstones?
1:15:19 - The concept of “cheers’ before drinks explained
1:19:18 - Importance of preserving culture
1:22:20 - Real meaning of Sir/Ma’am
1:26:03 - Importance of Bhagwat Geeta and its significance
1:29:39 - Why BJP lost in Ayodhya and Importance of religion and cast
1:38:50 - Entering in Bollywood, meeting Pankaj Tripathi
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@itz_varad
11 күн бұрын
22:30 Please note that the meaning of the word "Aurat" stated by Akshat sir is actually meant in Persian and Arabic language and its meaning in Hindi is Woman. PLEASE NOTE THE MEANING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU CAN SEARCH IT!
I love listening Author Akshat Gupta , He is very knowledgeable and the way he explains everything with the logics love it , also whenever listen him I found a new perspective so yeah I can say this was the best podcast and definitely Sadhika is good podcaster she knows how to ask questions and when to stop and listen so thank you for beautiful podcast 🎉
This man is honest and very intelligent in knowledge
U r a awesome person Akhshat.I have become a big fan of urs.I dont have words to appriciate u in every respect .I want to listen u for long.I have motherly feelings for u , as i am 74 yrs old.I wish every thing for u, whatever u wish for urself.Lord Rama bless u❤
Love from chattisgarh 💙
@ETTERHALFDev750
23 күн бұрын
I'm also Brother
So much practical and helpful advices for life thanks a lot sir ❌ guruji✅
Great podcast..thanku to both of you 😊
Wonderful Podcast Must Watch For Everyone ❤
❤ extremely lovable poadcasts
Like Sadika as podcaster❤admire Akshat Sir
22:30 Please note that the meaning of the word "Aurat" stated by Akshat sir is actually meant in Persian and Arabic language and its meaning in Hindi is Woman. PLEASE NOTE THE MEANING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU CAN SEARCH IT!
Great sir have a huge respect for you 💯 real gentleman you are ❤❤❤
Host ki voice and vibe😍❤️
This was one of the best podcast of Akshat sir...❤ Thankyou for sharing ✌️
@mensxp
Ай бұрын
Glad you liked it!
best ep till date now.
It's 12:36 Am , I don't know how it is going on it, but love Akshay Sir to see the podcast
@tanmaydahiya17
Ай бұрын
12:34 am
@Rajasthan.bittu07
Ай бұрын
12:38
This person is very easy to interview. You just ask small question. He will start answering. This means he has lot of experience to tell.not bounded by context. His answers are open ended. 👍👍
There is a great chemistry between the two.
@ks77157
Ай бұрын
Huh ???. 😮
One of the best podcasts, I have listened in a while, the knowledge Akshat Gupta has on every aspect of life is deep...hats off Sadhika for bringing this man on the show
Bahut badhiya 🙏🙏
When the cames topic of Neem karori baba ji i have literally goosbombs.... jai baba Neem karori Maharaj ji 🕉️
Dharm ke upar desh rakho ❌️ Dharm ke saath/barabar desh rakho ✅️ Desh ke upar Religion kabhi nahi hoga likh ke deta hun. Haan Dharm hamesha desh ke saath barabar hoga
@38:08 : That was deep.
Nice podcast ❤ love from gujarat
Nice video❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉
1:32:50 Great👍
You are awesome ÀKSHAT. 🎉❤ Hope the follow's The way you say. I am a big fan of you. Hat's off to you.
Because he is saying about own feeling due to loss of soltemate but he really saying to now generatin truth 😢😢
Mam apki voice ❤❤
bestest mensxp episode
आजकल लड़के बहुत सैक्रीफाइज करने लगे हैं हमारे भारत में तलाक लेना लड़को के लिए बहुत मुश्किल है, मै ज्यादातर लड़को इस चक्रव्यूह में फंसा देख रही हूं उनका कैरियर बिल्कुल खराब हो जाता है लेकिन आजकल के लड़के अपने बच्चों को बहुत प्यार करते हैं और बच्चों की खातिर नरक जैसी जिंदगी जीते है रोज मरते हैं और जीते है पत्निया पति को मारती है और लड़के डर की वजह से चुप हो जाते हैं कि अगर पति हाथ उठा देता है तो पत्नी पुलिस को फोन कर देती है और लड़के की बात फिर पुलिस नही सुनती है सिर्फ लड़की की सुनती है और पुलिस लड़के को अरेस्ट कर लेगी, इसी वजह से लड़के चुप रह जाते हैं।
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I think because in history there are multiple wives of a man so to identify the child the father was the same but the mother may be different so they used to be identified by their mother's name.❤
@Abc11251
22 күн бұрын
Not in middle class families, only kings used to marry multiple women for strategic reasons also. So doesn't fit .
Nice❤
@mensxp
Ай бұрын
😊
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hell yeah
Very nice 💯 podcast
@mensxp
Ай бұрын
Much appreciated
1:00:09 very cute expression of sadika😍😍
Thanks for explaining how our invaders added the word Aurat to our vocabulary
1:29:49 is she smiling after the question ?
Why so less views for such grounded podcast?
@krrishsarker2667
29 күн бұрын
cos its kali yuga
i lov yuor podcast so muchhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
@akhilyogik9155
Ай бұрын
Ladki dekhi nahi aur shuru kardiyeh harkate kamino wali
@Rockyrockslost
Ай бұрын
Inka kuch nahi ho sakta. Islie desh barbaad ho chuka hai aur laws inke taraf chale gaye hai.@@akhilyogik9155
sir cg se h kya
"Mere Hindu dharm me likha hai ki agar aap meri beti ki izzat bhare chowk me bhi lutate ho aur fridge me uske tukde rakhte ho aur mere bete ya baap ka sar tan se juda bhi karte ho to mujhe as a Hindu koi problem nahi hogi kyunki main sahishnu Hindu hun"
I never loved someone and would never
@Abc11251
22 күн бұрын
Then you can't evolve. To evolve you have to go through storm. The most important thing is companionship. Mutual respect is important in any relationship.
Hare Krishna please Aap Dr. Keshvanad prabhu ko bhi apne podcast mein bulaiyen ek baar taki logo ko bhakti bhagwan aur bhagwat geeta ka divine knowledge sb tk pochoch payen unka podcast KC talks hindi mein bhi hai humlog chatey hai Aap bhi unko apne podcast mein baulayen Hare Krishna 🙏🏽
Akshat sir ki ek bhi vedio nhi chortii🎉🎉🎉
Allow me to take podcast
43:43
1:08:35 😮 1000% correct. Every fkin time
Mic ko thoda niche hona chahiye sir ka baki sab mast hai good content ❤
@SATYAMx47
Ай бұрын
Ha bhai 😁
Rony abhi bhi Mylta me hain uska bhi podcast lo
Honestly...😴
Ramayan and Mahabharat is just a story.....real to sirf ..." Bhagat singh , DR. ambedkar, sir BN rao , mahatma fule , sardar patel , pandit nehru , dadoba tarkhadkar , shivaji Maharaj and many more......." These are real Heroes of INDIA ✅
@a_b_c_x
27 күн бұрын
Get well soon . First read about from where these people drew inspiration .
@sam007samgameryt3
27 күн бұрын
@@a_b_c_x 😂😂😂😂
@Abc11251
22 күн бұрын
You can comment because sanatan allows and you can't talk about others as you are a hypocrite.
He is Chhattisgarhiya .
Aap dharm ke upar desh ko rakhte jaiye aur wo desh ke upar Religion ke rakhte jaayenge
Bure wakt me family bhi saath chhod deti hai , depend karta hai
21:59 kiissii naa search kiya kyya
@thehaydra4988
Ай бұрын
The word from we searched he is belong to nu** words 😞
@chandra_himanshu
Ай бұрын
Go and search etymological origin of word aurat. It comes from arabic word awrah or awrat ...which means hell lot different negative words along with reproductive organ..😂😂😂
Divorcey n talk about love respect to women
@Abc11251
22 күн бұрын
Only he can tell the cost of relationship. By the way his wife married his best friend. Judging a person without knowing is foolishness.
@AB-qg9ji
16 күн бұрын
@@Abc11251 lol name change kor ke apne khud tarif koru..good pr
38:12 I'm dead. Peacefools dur rahe
Random Literate Hindu : "Mere dharm me kuch kamiyan hai isiliye usse discuss karne keliye main open hun" ab yahi baat mujhe kisi religion wale ne nahi boli bas dharm wale hi bolte hai. Tum kamiyaan nikaalte baitho koi aur aayega wahi baat pakdega aur ussi baat lekar dusra religion accept karega aur wo religion hume ussi baat keliye aajtak aur aage bhi kosta hai.
@Abc11251
22 күн бұрын
Discussion and open Ness is fundamental characteristics of sanatan. It is not a cult where one can't question and argue. It is a strength but cult uses it to convert.
1:47:55
Its 14 years of vanvas n not 12
लेकिन एक मां तो अपने बच्चे के लिए प्रार्थना कर सकती है।
Bhai itni Hindi humne bhi padhi hai...you are an author using words like satyata....God knows where that word came from...surprising you are a best selling author....
@Shani.514
15 күн бұрын
Pehle toh tu god ke 14 bhgwan bol 😂 fir mein aage sunu
Sadhika is a host on menxp but doesn't make any effort to understand men. She always put forward what females want and justifies that even if a women doing some bullshit she is somewhere right.. Akshat has told her something new and factual in this podcast. (Women dont know what they want)
Dhan ke devta kuder nahi hi,, 🤔🇮🇳
Aurat ka meaning google pe dekh mugje dukh hua akshat jiii😢😮
Too many ads
Dhan ka debta hai na "kuber dev"
@himanshujha807
Ай бұрын
Bhai woh ek yaksh hai devta nahi aur woh cashier ke equivalent hai mata Lakshmi ke.
Sadhika sadhika sadhika ❤️🍫🍰🎁👌🫰
Aurat is a word which means "woman" in many Asian languages including Arabic, Urdu, Persian, Punjabi, and Sorani Kurdish. It occurs in Azerbaijani as "arvad" and Ottoman Turkish as "avret". Aurat (word) - Wikipedia Wikipedia
@chandra_himanshu
Ай бұрын
Go and see the etymological origin of word Aurat... from Wikipedia itself for your convenience.. Otherwise there are better source for the arabic term. It comes from word awrah or awrat in arabic. Now, go and find its meaning...😂😂😂 all sorts of negative meaning...😂😂😂
@abhishekmeshram8565
Ай бұрын
@@chandra_himanshu as you said the Urdu word is awrah and not aurat... aurat meaning is lady only ....don't mix word... words can come from any languages and can have diffrent meaning in diffrent languages. It's absurd to say that we should stop using it just because it has some vulgar meaning in another language.
@Suiiii12_7
Ай бұрын
@@abhishekmeshram8565not only that the aurat we use is from Hindi even tho it's again took from Persian and arabic and Kurdish still means women these are dumb logics they use to justify this us vs them
1:44💀
Ma'am aap apne podcast mein HEMANT CHAUDHARY BHARWAL JI ko invite Karo maja ajayega💯
akshat ji everyone is following & Loving you... but on every channel and prodcast you telling same family stories. repeat repeat public get bore
57:13 boys secret revealed
1:32:04 Hinduo aapko dharm ke upar desh rakhna chahiye aur wo desh ke upar religion rakhte hai. 👏🏿👏🏿 Kab galtiyan sudharenge ye padhe likhe aur unpadh Hindus. (man me to gaaliyan aa rahi thi ye comment karte wakt ki wahi ek galti 1000 saalo se Hindus karte aa rahe hai aur unko ye pata bhi nahi hota)
1:31:20 bhai aap politics me naa baat kare please bohot log aapko ideal maante hai, aap jo ghar banane ki baat kar rahe ho wo logo se baat kare ek baar vaha jaake
Comment me Kushi nhi mil rahahai na chodo Comments podcast enjoy Karo
😂😂😂😂😂
25:43
आप जा के मिलो बेटेसे
आपको बेटे से मिलनेसे कोई रोक रहा है
His not comfortable in this podcast, 🙂
@ks77157
Ай бұрын
Hmmm
54:11 Acha jv ladka attention nhi deta to ladki cheat krti h what a joke😂😂 jv uski jda care kro, jda time do to v jati h km kro to prblm jda kro to prblm usse acha kch mtt kro!
Motivationa chal raha hai en ladkiya kabhi मेकअप main he hamesha dubi rahati hai motivation sune ya eske chudel jese bal dekhe ham . Es liye ladako ke motivation dekhne main or sune mai.maja ata hai .
Jo man me aaya bhak do.
@ankitgoyal6969
17 күн бұрын
Vaampanthi teri jali na..m
औरत का पूरा अर्थ क्या है? महिला (स्त्री, औरत या नारी) मानव के मादा स्वरूप को कहते हैं, जो स्त्रीलिंग है। महिला शब्द मुख्यत: वयस्क स्त्रियों के लिए इस्तेमाल किया जाता है। किन्तु कई संदर्भो में यह शब्द संपूर्ण स्त्री वर्ग को दर्शाने के लिए भी प्रयोग मे लाया जाता है, जैसे: नारी-अधिकार। Btao kya galat matlab aya aurat sabdh m y Person jo is podcast m hai kuch bhi bola ja Raha hai
@mrritik8745
Ай бұрын
Abe bebkuf tameez se to bol
Galt channel pe aagae sir 👇
@ks77157
Ай бұрын
Yeah she's very dumb for him.
Isnt it absurd to just stop using word because the word from which the word originated in some other language denotes some vulgur aspect . The point is in your language it dose not mean that.
@himanshujha807
Ай бұрын
Its isn't absurd sir...... The origin of that word has a negative connotation attach to it.... And if we know about its negative origin why not just stop its usage.... As our language has far better words to serve the purpose. Using mahila or stree instead of aurat is not so difficult...is it??
1:26:44 I totally disagree. Ye Granth Hindu ke hi the aur hai. Jab koi bhi dusra religion nahi tha tab Hindu hi tha na to wo kitaabe Hindus keliye hi hui na? Aur hum Hindus ko pride nahi hota aur naa hi hoga iss baat se ki hamare dharm ke granth kisi country ya alag religion ke logon ne padha aur apnaya kyunki wo granth sirf hum Hindus keliye hi the aur ye jo saari human race keliye thi aise bol rahe ho na agar aaj Hindu Granth dusre religion ke logon ko dogo to naali fenki milegi aur jalate hue video post honge. Hum Hindus ko nahi chahiye ki koi hume validation de ki hamare granth human race keliye achhe hai jab ki dusri taraf Quraan jaise granth dusre religion ya dharm ko sirf mitana hi pehli duty maante hai aur unka yahi core principal hai. Haan sirf dikhaave ya phir formality keliye unko hamare granth gift do lekin doge to itni khabardari rakhna ki dusre din uss granth ke jalaate hue videos aur uspe laath pair rakhe videos na aaye. [ Manusmruti jaise granth ko ek aadmi (Dr B.R.Ambedkar) aata hai jisko Sanksrit ka kuch pata nahi hota aur Sanksrit nahi aati thi aur wo aake bol deta hai ki ye kitaab human race ke khilaaf hai aur uske iss behuda bayaan ko sach maan kar usse apna baap banakar hamare Granth ko jala diya jaata to hume nahi chahiye ki hamare granth dusre le apmaan karne keliye] Ambedkar ko khud Sanksrit nahi aati thi kisi aur ke kitaab translation ya phir anuvaad padhke hamare grantho ko wo jala deta hai to hume nahi chahiye.
1:13:27 sir said aurat himself 😂😅
@himanshujha807
Ай бұрын
Bhai turant correct karke mahila bhi bola na😂😂
@pratyushbagga2994
Ай бұрын
@@himanshujha807 contradictory 👽😂
Hamesha Hindu dharm ki kamiyon ko hi kyun discuss kiya jaata hai? Baaki sare religion perfect hai to saare Hindus convert kyun nahi hote phir?
@siddharthmohanty5341
25 күн бұрын
Bhai mensxp is a feminist woke channel what do you expect
1000 saalo se chalti aa rahi galatfaimi (and I mean literally) ki desh ko dharm se upar rakho jab ki koi religion ,Religion ke upar desh ko nahi rakhta.
King Of Pseudoscience
@SaffronPhoenix-qb1kj
Ай бұрын
Are you trying to say that sanatan dharma is pseudoscience as he is an author related to sanatan dharma
@LILDragon2006
Ай бұрын
Allah ☪️hand tod skta hai Par sanatan dharm me science nhi ho skta Liberals logic 🤡
@suryavanshipiyushmaurya5213
Ай бұрын
Tumhare logic ke hisab se phle tum apne naam ke aage se chaube htao tb bolo
@Vinaykumar-ix1cj
Ай бұрын
Being a Hindu..... I can confirm.. He is king pseudoscience. He don't know anything about history of India, different schools of Indian dharmas,...... Fekta ye modi ji bhi jyada hai
@HenneCindie
Ай бұрын
Context please
Malik apko dekh ke edhar ayya… bus ek dono ka fasla- sitting arrangements is wrong 😑 may be organisers are 🦋 any way
@ddv91
Ай бұрын
AC please
Not up to the mark. Because whatever he is talking about his experience. Not complete knowledge. Mixing santana dharma, feminism and politics. He may be a good author but here he messed up.
@himanshujha807
Ай бұрын
I do agree .... Hotch poch hogaya pura podcast
@diwakarchaube9051
Ай бұрын
Agree
@me-jc2sf
Ай бұрын
This is called being practical. We r on 2024. We can't just sit in the cave and talk about Sanatan. In this modern world u can be spiritual, Sanatan whatever at the same time u r working in the office, u r husband, wife living normal life. In fact I praise person who is normal life with family and spiritual. Not the one who is in the cave who run away from problem and claiming spiritual guru.
@vinaykambli
Ай бұрын
@@me-jc2sf Man. You are so confused and talking so much. We are in 2024 but 2024 doesn't mean talk about anything. One clarity I am giving for you. He is talking about nastik. Nastik matlab Indian philosophy main jo Indian religion Vedas main nahi mante. Jaise ki buddhism, Jainism etc. these are nastik philosophy. Ab iske bare main is bande ko clarity nahi hai aur tum modernization ki baat kar rahe ho. Aise bahut jagah isne messed up Kiya hai. Jo common sense hai wo common sense hi rahega Bhai. Use aap modernization bolke kuch bhi nahi bol sakte hai.
Bakbasss
Bhai Dekh lena jara , kahi uske pas koi , Jaadu to nahi 😮