Over Here Chasing Boys | Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari

Time for an update on my dating life! My bestie Justin Anderson and I bring everyone up to speed on where things stand with Hot Man from Raya. Plus we discuss why passive aggressiveness is a buzzkill, ignoring every red flag, the pros and cons of dating outside of where you live, the conversation that made me feel like I couldn't breathe, why everyone should be the star of their show, and how I started talking to Justin's perfect guy for me.
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  • @SamanthaMTL
    @SamanthaMTL7 ай бұрын

    OBSESSED when Justin’s on the pod!!! Give the people what they want … MAKE HIM PERMANENT CO-HOST🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💗💗💗 the magic the chemistry 💥💥💥

  • @teresatennis

    @teresatennis

    7 ай бұрын

    Yes!!!!

  • @ArielCunningham127

    @ArielCunningham127

    7 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @jlo2474

    @jlo2474

    7 ай бұрын

    Cheers to this!🥂

  • @kschoeck

    @kschoeck

    7 ай бұрын

    He needs to be a regular

  • @MidnightSunJJaz

    @MidnightSunJJaz

    7 ай бұрын

    Amen to this

  • @LisaPizza713
    @LisaPizza7137 ай бұрын

    I'm having such a sad couple days, and hearing Justin yell, "He's here right now... come on out!" gave me my first true laugh in a few days .. that hit me just right 🤣

  • @jennifervanderhoof6001

    @jennifervanderhoof6001

    3 ай бұрын

    Justin is my antidepressants ❤

  • @cpt_sushi
    @cpt_sushi7 ай бұрын

    I wouldn’t be mad if every episode was just the two of them. They are hilarious together

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart7 ай бұрын

    “He’s here right now, COME ON OUT!” 🤣 Justin is so funny 💀😂 I can’t with him

  • @ananyaGuhab
    @ananyaGuhab7 ай бұрын

    I fucking lost it at the part of the curling iron…when the guy said it’s not mine….guyssss!!!!!💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

  • @BriannaFox
    @BriannaFox7 ай бұрын

    “He’s here right now come on out” I am DYING 💀😂

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart

    @jesusiskingofmyheart

    7 ай бұрын

    I DIED at that part 🤣💀

  • @i3londi87
    @i3londi877 ай бұрын

    Honestly my day was shit before watching this. This podcast is going in my journal under “what went well today” because this podcast made me laugh and smile on a bad day. Thank you for your honesty and being yourself. Kristin and Justin’s chemistry is electric.

  • @jlo2474
    @jlo24747 ай бұрын

    You may not be ready… but you’ll know when you are. When he “checks all the boxes” and you don’t feel like you’re suffocating when he mentions committing, that’s when you’ll know. ❤

  • @jshendrickson
    @jshendrickson7 ай бұрын

    I have always admired Kristin for her confidence and self worth. It’s a good reminder for me to not settle or chase, and also very funny episode. 😊

  • @Sayithowitis15

    @Sayithowitis15

    6 ай бұрын

    I totally understand what you're saying but settling and chasing isn't always bad in every situation. Settling with a guy that treats you terribly is one thing, But I hear too many women say they are settling when they're actually with a guy that treats them amazing. They're just "bored" and crave a toxic relationship and that's on them if they don't get treated right. Nothing wrong with chasing a guy that actually will treat you amazingly.

  • @tiff_marie88
    @tiff_marie887 ай бұрын

    Justin’s laugh is the best - “c’mon out” 😂😂😂

  • @natashagarrison3996
    @natashagarrison39967 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂I died when Justin says he's here " come on out" ❤😂 omg... tears from laughing! Love Justin and your chemistry is everything

  • @user-jenniferhelene
    @user-jenniferhelene7 ай бұрын

    I could listen to this all day. It’s the only podcast that has my attention. But even more so with Justin. Keep him coming back

  • @jjanddawnjacques4640

    @jjanddawnjacques4640

    3 ай бұрын

    Totally agree. I could listen to these two all day.

  • @kaylacollier8314
    @kaylacollier83147 ай бұрын

    Obsessed when Justin's on the pod also!!! I love when you guys do an episode together ❤️

  • @Jgerber22
    @Jgerber227 ай бұрын

    💯💯💯 Love when you are solo but LOVE when Justin is on! Y’all need to have a once a week together for all of us!! Or something where we can expect to hear from Justin! Y’all’s chemistry is undeniable in your friendship! Love it!!

  • @tiffanyjenkins6829
    @tiffanyjenkins68297 ай бұрын

    I’m obsessed with the 2 of you!! I feel like I’m in the room just hangin with my good friends!! Love this podcast!! I hope this actor is Bradley Cooper!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @jordynvandervort3083

    @jordynvandervort3083

    7 ай бұрын

    I heard cooper is dating Gigi hadid

  • @Almo0220
    @Almo02207 ай бұрын

    THIS!! Such a great video! Please do more of these Chasing Boys check ins with Justin! Love the banter and chemistry between you two!😂❤

  • @corporategirlprobs
    @corporategirlprobs7 ай бұрын

    ugh i LOVE your podcast SO much. I get so excited about your solos with Justin especially. you're so real, so honest, and because you're being just real about your life and your experiences, I relate to you so much. Thanks for doing this pod and in the style that you are- it is EVERYTHING

  • @LC_7_87
    @LC_7_877 ай бұрын

    This story is interesting and I'm excited to listen to your dating stories! But JUSTIN is soooo great! He's super supportive, fun, funny, and thoughtful all at the same time! Truly love the friendship you have with Justin!

  • @YvonneCova
    @YvonneCova4 ай бұрын

    Justin is hilarious!! The way I laughed when he said "come on out"

  • @taylerrenee9710
    @taylerrenee97107 ай бұрын

    Never have I ever been more excited to see you BOTH, please make this a regular theme (I’m not demanding, I’m just giving a suggestion) I don’t want that to sound like I’m being demanding, I apologize if it does!

  • @livm387
    @livm3877 ай бұрын

    OBSESSED when Justin is on the pod!!! Love you guys and thanks for being honest! 🙌

  • @l7weenie273
    @l7weenie2737 ай бұрын

    Felt secondhand anxiety listening to this on my run today 😩 I am single and will be for a LONG time. Dating is so stressful. Best of luck to you Kristin ❤

  • @user-tq8rm4do1r

    @user-tq8rm4do1r

    6 ай бұрын

    Lol that's hilarious. Second hand anxiety

  • @Angosu
    @Angosu7 ай бұрын

    Hot guy sounds like a freakin tool! You both have such a wonderful friendship and when Justin said “no shit short hair” I lost it! Classic podcast!

  • @diamondjim222
    @diamondjim2227 ай бұрын

    Hey Kristin! Been a fan of your podcast from the very beginning and it's been very entertaining listening to the banter on my dog walks. I caught what you said about your audience being mostly women at the end of this particular episode, but I'm here representing the 49 yr old married husbands! Always adored you since your Laguna Hills show. I bought my wife a nice little Uncommon James necklace as a stocking stuffer today. Happy holidays to you, Justin, hot guy from Raya, and potential future actor boyfriend. 😂

  • @heatheralvarez3194
    @heatheralvarez31947 ай бұрын

    omggg I love you both SO much. Thank you for these deep and meaningful conversations!

  • @indmat4
    @indmat47 ай бұрын

    I love love love you and Justin together. This episode and ‘My Real Life Bachelorette’ are my favourite episodes so far. So fun and relatable xx

  • @amyt5356
    @amyt53567 ай бұрын

    I have been having such a good time listening to your podcast! You need to have Justin on with you every episode. You guys make me laugh so much every time you’re together. Love it!!!

  • @claudiaaznarmonsalve
    @claudiaaznarmonsalve7 ай бұрын

    My favs! Girl this podcast should be you two and re-brand it🤣

  • @amerisscano2380

    @amerisscano2380

    7 ай бұрын

    I agree!!!

  • @cpt_sushi

    @cpt_sushi

    7 ай бұрын

    Yes!!

  • @user-jenniferhelene

    @user-jenniferhelene

    7 ай бұрын

    Facts ❤

  • @danathompson4677
    @danathompson46774 ай бұрын

    I search for all the videos of when Justin is on! Love both of you and your energy together is just so fun to watch/listen to 🥰

  • @EricaUrr
    @EricaUrr7 ай бұрын

    Lol you ghosted him, I love that😂. I love your podcast, it's like listening to a friend

  • @dawnkanouse745
    @dawnkanouse7457 ай бұрын

    OMG, you two are the best. I love how you two bring out such great sides of each other's personalities.

  • @katieerickson1088
    @katieerickson10887 ай бұрын

    OMG.. Love the Kristin Bachelorette episodes with Justin!!! I NEED more Justin and you!!!

  • @Scorpiogirl24
    @Scorpiogirl247 ай бұрын

    Love you Kristin and Justin!!! Love these updates !! Keep them coming 👏🏼👏🏼😂

  • @teresatennis
    @teresatennis7 ай бұрын

    I'm so so so here for this! I just love kristin and Justin! They're chemistry is amazing! I'm praying for you Kristin you deserve a great man!🎉 p.s! Pls don't stop the podcast!!! I get so amped when there's a new one!

  • @timgrant1274
    @timgrant12747 ай бұрын

    6:03 10:49 18:05 48:12

  • @dannilynn921
    @dannilynn9217 ай бұрын

    I'm obsessed with the two of u!!!! Keep doing these together!!! Love love love it

  • @bryynana
    @bryynana7 ай бұрын

    Where do I find myself a friend like Justin, he’s an angel! 🥹

  • @Pioneer221
    @Pioneer2216 ай бұрын

    Justin you’re a sweetheart, and you and Kristen are so blessed to have each other. Continue to be her conscious. Every woman needs that type of love in their lives. I am sure you’re both wonderful friends to each other, but something about a man who can be there for a woman the way you are for Kristen. It is a beautiful thing! Keep enjoying life together ❤

  • @christinestetser5734
    @christinestetser57347 ай бұрын

    I went to sit around and laugh with you guys, I love the conversation! And can relate!😂😂

  • @martinanita3675
    @martinanita36757 ай бұрын

    We all need a Justin!! Honestly K. A man will be where he wants to be. Especially at this age. There’s no guessing . No frustration.

  • @meganplante3293
    @meganplante32936 ай бұрын

    Love this! Feels like I’m hanging out with some friends laughing about shit dating stories ❤

  • @rebeccacarlson868
    @rebeccacarlson8687 ай бұрын

    Eek! I can’t get enough!!! I gotta know more!!! I hope the actor is the 1! Omg! Next episode is gonna be great!!! I’m SUPER excited to get more info on narcissist!!! I have a fear I’ve been living with one 😭

  • @kristinaboozer4534
    @kristinaboozer45347 ай бұрын

    Love this fun dating era for you KC!!! 🙂

  • @Knic797
    @Knic7977 ай бұрын

    Justin adds so much to this podcast! Love it!

  • @andreahrynyk2200
    @andreahrynyk22007 ай бұрын

    Could watch you 2 talk for hours ❤

  • @cheyennebolmer3271
    @cheyennebolmer32717 ай бұрын

    Could listen to you guys all day ! Love the vibes

  • @clevermissfox
    @clevermissfox4 ай бұрын

    Damn Justin’s been hiding those guns !! 😂

  • @tiffanyirene1242
    @tiffanyirene12427 ай бұрын

    I love that mike was so honest and open though

  • @blaynemarie6611
    @blaynemarie66117 ай бұрын

    This…. This is real life. Love the Podcast. Love you Kristen and Justin

  • @kitcatcali
    @kitcatcali7 ай бұрын

    No shit buzz cut 😭 Love everything about this podcast!

  • @RainbowwRach
    @RainbowwRach7 ай бұрын

    Freedom is HUGE for me. Communicate that with him that it’s such a priority for you and you can absolutely be free in a relationship. I’ve been married 7 years and my hubs honors my need to be free and I’m often like we’re dating, you’ve gotta date me and that helps me feel free when I’m “tied down” lol

  • @BeautyXXBrittany
    @BeautyXXBrittany7 ай бұрын

    EVERY GIRL NEEDS A JUSTIN ANDERSON AS THEIR BFF!!!!! FR!!!!

  • @jazzyg530
    @jazzyg5307 ай бұрын

    "No shit, short cut". Lol. Exactly what I would say. The beauty of getting older is getting wiser and noticing the red flags of insecurity and immaturity. The downside... frustration of realizing so many guys in their 30's and 40's are still immature and insecure.

  • @amerisscano2380
    @amerisscano23807 ай бұрын

    I loveee episodes with Justin!

  • @kaitmacinnis6521
    @kaitmacinnis65217 ай бұрын

    These two kill me. Love, love, love!

  • @teachcaffeinaterepeat9192
    @teachcaffeinaterepeat91927 ай бұрын

    I would literally watch/listen to any podcast with the two of you!

  • @CoggieCarol
    @CoggieCarol4 ай бұрын

    I feel like Kristin was my guardian angel/mentor/teacher in a previous life. It's easy to feel good around her, even from this far away as a virtual fan. All good things...

  • @alexandriamendez9773
    @alexandriamendez97737 ай бұрын

    I’m 😂😂 this whole pod cast show , love it

  • @Our_family_home
    @Our_family_home7 ай бұрын

    Love these chats , reminds me of me and my friends ❤

  • @amandablondie7892
    @amandablondie78927 ай бұрын

    You guys are the best duo ever!!!! Make Justin permanent!!!! Your both hilarious loved this episode

  • @jessicalanni8533
    @jessicalanni85337 ай бұрын

    "It's weird Kristin, it's just weird" hahahahahahahahhaha

  • @rickynunez3109
    @rickynunez31094 ай бұрын

    kristin cacallari you still look 21 to me but you act like a grade schooler your really funny and a good story teller

  • @T.Hang11
    @T.Hang113 ай бұрын

    WOW, I’m listening to this podcast from present day backwards 🤣 so one of the first episode I listened to was Kristin and Montana..so now I am here..I always tell my friends life is fluid and your views on something can change any day!!! I love that Kristin is happy now with Montana..a couple months earlier she didn’t want to be with anyone..right person and right time is a real thing..AND the most important thing is she talks to her kids about her life and the men she dates. Love that!!! Girl do what makes you happy!!! Life is fluid and can change at any moment 🩷

  • @juliahall4359
    @juliahall43597 ай бұрын

    I love this entire podcast, but the episodes with Justin kill me lol

  • @LV-vj7pw
    @LV-vj7pw7 ай бұрын

    I already need the new updates. The world is falling apart but these two make everything seem ok.

  • @dannymoore2534
    @dannymoore25347 ай бұрын

    hey kristin have a wonderful xmas and a wonderful new year

  • @aimeekelly1172
    @aimeekelly11727 ай бұрын

    I need a best friend like Justin!!!!! Love this!!!

  • @hfm16
    @hfm167 ай бұрын

    Come on Justin. You gotta be a real friend and tell Kristin when she has arm pit sweat stains on camera. Lol. Girls need to know this stuff! 😂

  • @ell4875

    @ell4875

    7 ай бұрын

    He should have told her! We all saw that he noticed!!!!

  • @Nklloa
    @Nklloa7 ай бұрын

    There’s something that confuses me about Kristin .. her actions and words don’t entirely match up. It feels like she protects her ego a lot, it’s nice that Justin is on, otherwise the stories might be skewed.

  • @Camden-z3m
    @Camden-z3mАй бұрын

    I would also be down for a Justin and Kristin recap of very cavallari! Breaking down the episodes

  • @alyssad7019
    @alyssad70197 ай бұрын

    love when justin is on!!!

  • @brittanyrowland6408
    @brittanyrowland64087 ай бұрын

    Kristin is so confident

  • @roxanne3047
    @roxanne30477 ай бұрын

    Such solid advice for men, hopefully they’re listening 👂

  • @kimjones6177
    @kimjones61777 ай бұрын

    I live in Pittsburgh, well, a suburb 20 mins south of the ‘Burgh. I was just in your neck of the woods in November. My husband and I stayed in Leipe’s Fork. We love Franklin and Leiper’s soo much. I could live there 🩷love the podcast and especially with you and Justin

  • @livinglifewithlaura2256
    @livinglifewithlaura22567 ай бұрын

    Justin- you need a podcast for sure!

  • @KristenDeegan
    @KristenDeegan3 ай бұрын

    "No shit buzz cut" OMG Justin kills me lol🤣

  • @MarieSanDiego09
    @MarieSanDiego095 ай бұрын

    Love this friendship !!

  • @user-jenniferhelene
    @user-jenniferhelene7 ай бұрын

    Can we have Justin on all the time ❤

  • @nataliaramirez3712
    @nataliaramirez37127 ай бұрын

    Why is there a poor guy on raya? I thought it was for famous, rich people😂😂😂

  • @jessicalanni8533

    @jessicalanni8533

    7 ай бұрын

    LMAO

  • @AP-ic3kp
    @AP-ic3kp7 ай бұрын

    My fave podcast 😍😍

  • @KKOhNoYouDidnt
    @KKOhNoYouDidnt7 ай бұрын

    Love the Justin episodes! Not sure why, but Im thinking new hot actor guy is James Marsden❣

  • @lmkk9118

    @lmkk9118

    7 ай бұрын

    He's 50, so I don't think so. Kristin would have commented on his age if it was him

  • @urarevolution

    @urarevolution

    6 ай бұрын

    Ooo that’s a good guess.

  • @HelloPete1
    @HelloPete14 ай бұрын

    I want someone in the same phase as life as me. Two weeks later dating a 24 yr old...

  • @jenniferlynncordle
    @jenniferlynncordle7 ай бұрын

    Here for Justin!!!

  • @SumanSridhar1023
    @SumanSridhar10237 ай бұрын

    Kristin should look for men with their own kids already who ideally don't want anymore (they'd potentially be getting 3 stepkids anyway). Then people don't have to worry about getting invested and breaking up over this issue.

  • @kathleenunger1219
    @kathleenunger12197 ай бұрын

    “No sh*t short hair” had me ROTFL … hope the actor is Jessse Metcalfe 🔥🔥🔥

  • @LV-vj7pw

    @LV-vj7pw

    7 ай бұрын

    Sadly… looks like Jesse is dating someone else. 😢

  • @tenillabeez
    @tenillabeez5 ай бұрын

    As a single mama I can totally relate lol when I don’t have my kid I’m outsideeee 🎉🎉🎉🎉 😝

  • @guiian83
    @guiian836 ай бұрын

    This made my day. ....

  • @ebstudio9525
    @ebstudio95257 ай бұрын

    Livin life to the fullest 🎉 you go girl ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤

  • @GillianBerry
    @GillianBerry7 ай бұрын

    love you guys

  • @Marlo_xo
    @Marlo_xo6 ай бұрын

    I wish these were my best friendsssss! I’m from Pittsburgh btw. 🤘🤘

  • @ElisabethOberndorfer
    @ElisabethOberndorfer7 ай бұрын

    "It's not mine!", like him using a curling iron would be the problem here 🤣

  • @BrittneyyDee
    @BrittneyyDee7 ай бұрын

    "No shit buzz cut" SENT. ME. 😂

  • @sheba1307
    @sheba13074 ай бұрын

    We love Justin ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @jenn_81
    @jenn_817 ай бұрын

    Any normal circumstance, yeah he should’ve texted sooner. But if he felt she left early bc she didn’t want to see him, then it’s understandable. Ball was in her court at that point.

  • @edgarmillan927
    @edgarmillan9277 ай бұрын

    I think hot man from raya is the type of man that can’t take no for an answer. Big red flag

  • @andinrn725
    @andinrn7257 ай бұрын

    Hahahaha “no shit short hair”😂

  • @ashleybrodkorb7703
    @ashleybrodkorb77037 ай бұрын

    you’re my spirit animal Kristen.

  • @ValerieL456
    @ValerieL4566 ай бұрын

    Aww that story was so so sad. I feel like if you shut him down abrasively, you need to be warm with him and you thank HIM for the weekend. I feel like that left him with nothing to say at all. he was probably so sad.

  • @dragonmcea
    @dragonmcea6 ай бұрын

    please have Justin on more often...... 😀

  • @17witabullet
    @17witabullet7 ай бұрын

    I ❤ Kristins personality ♑️♑️♑️