OurTime.com's Dr. Gail Saltz Vlog: Top 5 "Myths & Truths" about Online Dating for 50-Plus Singles

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  • @ronschueler909
    @ronschueler9093 жыл бұрын

    Online dating is full of scammers or finding someone who will be honest.

  • @polite154
    @polite1544 жыл бұрын

    I have found with a paid subscription men with their own agendas were not honest, 3 out of 5 are looking for someone to send them money.

  • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz

    @MuhammadImran-ln4fz

    3 жыл бұрын

    😍😍❤❤❤❤

  • @ronicahaynes1265
    @ronicahaynes12654 жыл бұрын

    My husband's aunt was financially taken advantage of up till her death this Saturday by a member of this dating site. They have yet to respond to our concerns regarding the issue, when we really just want them to try to keep it from happening to someone else.

  • @SirCavemaninthewest

    @SirCavemaninthewest

    4 жыл бұрын

    Foreal. A person to person conversation cost nothing.

  • @blahblah2344

    @blahblah2344

    3 жыл бұрын

    How the heck is a dating site responsible for your aunt's dumb financial choices?

  • @ImranKhan-tj3dr

    @ImranKhan-tj3dr

    Жыл бұрын

    I m single ❤❤👧👧

  • @bufnyfan1
    @bufnyfan18 жыл бұрын

    A very good friend of mine (whose both a psychiatrist and a marriage councilor) has told me from his experiences with patients that women marry the first time for "love" but the second time for security---there is NO WAY I want anyone looking for someone to support them when they're over 50 and fearful of being destitute-not unless there is an "ironclad" pre-nuptual in place before hand

  • @tsmi5807

    @tsmi5807

    5 жыл бұрын

    There is NO SUCH THING AS AN IRONCLAD PRE NUP, there is a whole industry in lawyers, busting pre nups,, DO NOT MARRY ANYONE, AND DONT LIVE WITH ANYONE, THATS AT LEAST A PARTIAL SOLUTION, be careful, in your state, even taking those steps, may not work for you, see a lawyer in your area that is expert in family court stuff before you take any chances.

  • @faithwhittington1272

    @faithwhittington1272

    Жыл бұрын

    Yup, as a mature woman I have no desire to be a "Nurse or a Purse". So, weed those out who aren't after what I'm after and have their own autonomy.

  • @froilangarcia6284
    @froilangarcia62843 жыл бұрын

    I don't know how to get signed up

  • @raylocke282
    @raylocke2825 жыл бұрын

    You have to be the" firstest with the mostest "as Nathan Bedford Forrest said. To get the one up,dont just be s cheapskate and meet for coffee.I say "Im tired of eating my own cooking",you want to meet at Olive Garden?I have never been refused.Once there if things go well I ask if they are free for the evening.If they say yes,ok. If no then your out 50 bucks ,big deal.Women figure that you value them off the bat instead of just the price of a coffee.They say there are more men than women online so you got to offer more than the average cheap schmuck who couldnt get arrested let alone meet a nice woman

  • @deejaye2647

    @deejaye2647

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hey Ray, good advice! thank you!

  • @alicesanchez213

    @alicesanchez213

    4 жыл бұрын

    Am alice sincere, fun-loving person who is hoping to meet a sincere, fun-loving man. I love to laugh and make the people around me do the same; a sense of humor is so important and I would want anyone I meet to possess this quality. My ideal match would be a loving, honest individual who has a joyous heart and likes to laugh Am old fashioned can we chat on hangout or text to know more about one another E mail : alicesanc04 at gm ail com to text me on 4076333845 alice

  • @HeloNova
    @HeloNova5 жыл бұрын

    LMAO ... The reactions and comments here, though. The singles stats have it all: common marriages, open relationships, pluralists, swingers, BDSM AND monogamous, good relationship materials singles like me... Thank you for sharing your valued opinion!

  • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz

    @MuhammadImran-ln4fz

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love u I like u do u relationship withe i am single 💑💑💑😍😍😍❤❤🌷🌷🌷🌷

  • @PaschalTaylor

    @PaschalTaylor

    2 ай бұрын

    How are you Nova, sorry don't know if that's your name. Actually your comment is funny😂, then I looked even closer to see your profile, I'd want to tell you that you're really a pretty lady and I'd really appreciate getting to know you.

  • @fgherb7697
    @fgherb76974 жыл бұрын

    Too manny dead old profiles not being used and several fake profiles.

  • @TheTinydancer235
    @TheTinydancer2354 жыл бұрын

    Great advice

  • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz

    @MuhammadImran-ln4fz

    4 жыл бұрын

    I love u forever 💋👄💏😚😙😘 I like you really ❤❤😍😍💑💑🌷🌷 i am proud Single well you merry me 💞💕💕🙋🙋

  • @PaschalTaylor

    @PaschalTaylor

    2 ай бұрын

    Hello pretty, I came across your profile and your beauty caught my attention while I was trying to make a comment about ourtime dating site.

  • @rickos1915
    @rickos19158 жыл бұрын

    What kind of doctor are you ?

  • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
    @ImranKhan-tj3dr Жыл бұрын

    I m single !!! Looking true love ❤❤ Real good happy loveing relationship💑💑😍😍🌷🌷 Love is sweet but Real and true

  • @phonesmartlock9565
    @phonesmartlock95654 жыл бұрын

    Why isn’t anybody telling the truth about our time the site is full of scammers

  • @joanhebert73

    @joanhebert73

    2 жыл бұрын

    yikes sorry to hear this.

  • @phonesmartlock9565

    @phonesmartlock9565

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@joanhebert73 I don’t know how are you in good faith could promote senior people meat is just full of scammers everywhere and don’t tell me you don’t know it

  • @robertschutz9165
    @robertschutz91655 жыл бұрын

    I’m Robert Elvis, I have been Single all my life. Never got Married in my life. I have no kids,

  • @ImranKhan-tj3dr

    @ImranKhan-tj3dr

    Жыл бұрын

    Merry me I m intrested 👧👧❤😍🌷🌷

  • @ozarkprepper1718
    @ozarkprepper17186 жыл бұрын

    Yeah,dating sites are like bars these days.A big sword fight.. Ha ha ha ha! See what I did there!

  • @gatesmw50
    @gatesmw507 жыл бұрын

    Justin Martyr SAID " I ONLY WANT Referrals from Oregon!!! I Typed that IN!!! BUT I Just GET Referrals from Every Where". Yes this is a problem I also had with Ourtime. I received a message and request to chat from a woman in ......drum roll please....American Samoa. I live in New Jersey ! That is across the international date line on the other side of the planet!!! This site casts too wide a net.

  • @joanhebert73

    @joanhebert73

    2 жыл бұрын

    well, not always bad to cast that wide net FORPEOPLE WHO WANT THAT but when you ask for Oregon only that seems to say this is not a company for me.

  • @lizpugh6440

    @lizpugh6440

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m from the uk England, so not sure why I’m even looking for a relationship.

  • @keithmoriyama5421
    @keithmoriyama54218 жыл бұрын

    This reminds me of Cosmopolitan-- They pick a woman to talk about what men think.

  • @sethcorrea5137
    @sethcorrea51374 жыл бұрын

    I'm looking for love now,

  • @tsmi5807
    @tsmi58075 жыл бұрын

    Beware this Our Time thing guys, I signed up for it, but am not a paying member, I am in the sixties area, they are wasting my time sending me info on women who are seventy five and up, wtf?

  • @tjl5419
    @tjl54192 жыл бұрын

    Online dating is a big scam

  • @johnreiter3227
    @johnreiter32273 жыл бұрын

    Imsinglelookingforsomeonespecial

  • @grooviegirle
    @grooviegirle9 жыл бұрын

    Someone hacked my account. I am Gloria not evelyn. I doubt if Evelyn is even female. Whoever this is sent over 100 emails with that same note in it to many men. I have over 150 emails now from men who think they are sending emails to me that I sent to them. which I did not. I am sorry but I am a member until Dec not like she or he said. sorry I have no way of connacting this site to get it resolved and I am a paid member till Dec they have no phone number or email to help correct this . This is a problem.

  • @shawnjoe4505

    @shawnjoe4505

    6 жыл бұрын

    Hello gloria

  • @Justin.Martyr
    @Justin.Martyr8 жыл бұрын

    I ONLY WANT Referrals from Oregon!!! I Typed that IN!!! BUT I Just GET Referrals from Every Where, BUT NOT from Oregon!!!!

  • @burlbridge6190
    @burlbridge61903 жыл бұрын

    You have to excuse me this first time so I don't know what I'm actually doing

  • @indiaswann4956

    @indiaswann4956

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Burl

  • @philiprose2552
    @philiprose25528 жыл бұрын

    Being a decent looking man, well mannered & personable counts for just about nothing on OURTIME. Men outnumber women so, ladies are unrealistic in their expectations. A man may write carefully written messages, be a gentleman, & in good shape. You might think this should equal success on such a site. Not at all. I am leaving this site after spending time, energy, & some $. It has been a waste of time. Never again on this site. As for the ladies: You have it made. You just sit back & let the messages & compliments roll in. Then when you are good & ready, you might respond to one of the many men reaching out to you , that is if they are very tall and appear to have a strong sense of alpha success.

  • @susanb2015

    @susanb2015

    5 жыл бұрын

    FUCK YOU. I hope you never meet anyone.

  • @tlv6666

    @tlv6666

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly rite. The women dont need a man in the end as they get more attention from these sites than they would get in real life. Most of the attention is from sleazy married men but its attention non the less and it fills a void. One message I had. I'm sorry but I'm not responding to any more messages as I'm having man management issues at the minute. I'll keep your message and get back to you if need be. It wasn't like this 25 years ago LOL smiley face xx

  • @holiday-td6hx

    @holiday-td6hx

    3 жыл бұрын

    Really? Philip Rose, maybe there's a reason why you're single. Expecting someone to NOT LIE, NOT SMOKE and NOT DRINK, isn't too much to ask if your a woman over 50 and want to date. Sorry, but if I meet someone for the first time, it's Dutch treat. In other words, I pay for my own meal.

  • @artparejaakahoyomaravillac1002
    @artparejaakahoyomaravillac10023 жыл бұрын

    I'm 66 . healthy thank God. . but I don't think there's any women out there

  • @birdandthe
    @birdandthe5 жыл бұрын

    IF YOU KNOW WHERE THIS SCAMMER LIVES PHONE THE POLICE.

  • @janewest8260
    @janewest82604 жыл бұрын

    I'm jane looking for a single decent mature guy

  • @ImranKhan-tj3dr

    @ImranKhan-tj3dr

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi 👧👧❤❤😍😍🌷🌷🌷

  • @aviyahbatyah2680
    @aviyahbatyah26809 жыл бұрын

    I see your Jewish, Shalom to you! :)

  • @ednerdelva7002
    @ednerdelva70022 жыл бұрын

    Hello I’m Eddie looking for a female companion

  • @rogerbeaird5742
    @rogerbeaird57423 жыл бұрын

    Rrrrrrrrr🤔

  • @BIFC216
    @BIFC2163 жыл бұрын

    Fix y'all's garbage app always crashing

  • @ronmendoza4916
    @ronmendoza49164 жыл бұрын

    Why would a guy in his 50's date a woman in her 50's? 😝😝😝 No way I would date a woman in her 50's. I'm 56 currently dating a 37 year old super babe and I'm super happy.😎😎😎

  • @reverendbluejeans1748

    @reverendbluejeans1748

    2 жыл бұрын

    I once dated and older lady of 37

  • @paulwood9043
    @paulwood90437 жыл бұрын

    Ourtime dateing club sucks and is a money grab,I am from Canada.

  • @debbieharriman7415
    @debbieharriman74156 жыл бұрын

    women in their 50s and 60s are going to have trouble . because everyone wants a younger person . so time to get some cats .

  • @NabichtStudios

    @NabichtStudios

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @bibsann861

    @bibsann861

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have had a full life of men and now at 73 I much prefer my two Chihuahuas and gal pals.

  • @rogerbeaird5742

    @rogerbeaird5742

    3 жыл бұрын

    No I'm 64 and live in wisconsin 😃

  • @dr.julianataylor4312
    @dr.julianataylor43122 жыл бұрын

    once u get on u cant get off- rip off!