I love how Anele looks at Lulu while he’s talking about cheating. It’s clear that he’s not one of those people who cheat 🙌🏾

I TAKE INSPIRATION FROM ANELE AND GOD BLESS HIM ABUNDANTLY , FOR ME I WOULD FORGIVE CHEATING , BUT TO TRUST THE PERSON AGAIN , IT WOULD TAKE ME SERIOUS YEARS

I literally just watched that black coffee video before this one! So happy you touched on it Anele! Always learn a lot from your conversations ❤️

I just love you guys and how you are around each other, it's hard to find a genuine relationship

Thank you so much Fam, I just love how you tackle all these kind of problems and the wisdom in Mr Dloto is beyond this world. Stay blessed fam❤

Very educational I have learnt a lot through this talk thanks ❤

My favorites , i love you guys ❤️

Thank you to our lady for owning up and ladies are also human beings sometimes we mess up as well

Thanks I felt it when Anele mentioned that sometimes you dont want to support your partner when he /she changes to their best version we tend to be selfish Especially as guys or a guy let me not be inclusive I have seen that when for example when she would want to put up make up and go to new restuarants you tend to want to be in control to how you want her to be like not being aware shes is also a human and has rights to be different and change and that acceptance can be hard but communication allows it to easy as time goes and wanting to make your person happy thanks guys

Oh My God I just love the chats I always Learn something from you guys Love you guys.

I thought forgiveness means to take him back...... Ndamthatha back after he cheated wamithisa 😭😭😭😢 I could feel ukuba ndihlise my standards to meet him apha ezantsi😢 Ngoku ndiphume kancinci ngathi ndiyochama Bethuna mxolele umntu neh but continuing with the relationship....hai cha

My previous partner cheated on me and that was 3 years ago, I forgave him 2 times, I left the 3rd time he did it then I got into a new relationship after after a year, fast forward to now, I’m in a stable relationship with the most loving partner but I always self sabotage because I’m still carrying past hurt, I’d really make a big thing out of a small situation because it’s coming from a place of hurt. I don’t know how to solve the problem I’m currently facing🥺

@dimphoselepe4542

4 ай бұрын

Askies to hear that. Kindly forgive yourself for dating your previous partner. Forgiveness is for self. Adding to this I would like to recommend a book by the name of " Damaged but not destroyed" - Michael Todd.

@vuyelwagoqwana4587

4 ай бұрын

@@dimphoselepe4542 thank you so much, I’ll get the book definitely

@vuyelwagoqwana4587

4 ай бұрын

@mmakhumolebelo I’ve booked myself an appointment, I’m looking forward to starting and seeing how that goes

@gugushabalala1691

4 ай бұрын

Try to tell yourself that "this man has not given me a reason to doubt him so I have nothing to worry about" whenever you feel like you're overeating 😊

I think we need a story time of what happened for learning purposes but I with that being said I saw ubaba wekhaya ukuba ikhona indawo yongabaweli kuye to go back there so we also respect that if that is the case.

Molweni, I enjoyed this video so much...very insightful Thank you❤❤

Like this this talk about loving abundantly

Nna I'm such a forgiver but I'm grateful of this topic God bless your relationship ❤

Hello fam. Thank you Anele and Lutho for this video. I am in the same situation. I once cheated on my current boyfriend 3 years ago, when it came out it messed uthando lwethu so much. Ima siba right, after that ordeal things were no longer fun. He had to do a lot of work internally ukufika to this point where I think he has really forgiven me, where I feel nam ukuthi when he sees me akaboni that person owamenza kabi. I love him so much, and hope that one day we have a beautiful family like yours🥰😃

Thank you for this video ❤❤❤

Road to 50k🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

whatever you guys said in your prayers, need that for myself

cheating is a very horrible thing to happen to anyone. but brother you are brave. no gent ever heals from that. but why was she laughing like its a light thing ? .

Mr Dloto I'm learning from you❤❤❤

It's how everytime the other person tells you they're busy then your mind quickly over think that they're cheating. Being cheated or being lied to damages the trust. I can love again guinely after being cheated to but Trusting?? 😢

My favourite family ❤❤

U Mjolo wenu nani too much pressure. Love yaolls vlogs.

Mna ndihleka nisaqala uthetha, yhoooo I love you guys.

I love you guys so much

We are within ❤

Love you guys niyasikhuthaza ebomini ❤❤

For me, I am struggling to forgive myself for settling in sub-par/toxic relationships.

Siyazthanda nendaba 😅❤

My people ❤

Wow I've learnt a lot to this video

Forgive you self in order to be able to forgive someone the is no perfect relationship its only having faith to each other God must continue be you guys ndifunda lukhulu ❤😊

Hi guys,,,,as much as I agree with you Anele about if you start realizing things about a person,there are things you cannot change,,for example,when you realize the person is not smart, how do you change that?and it's a difficult one bcos you always have to think for the person even in simple things that you should not be.

@vuyooglebethunana

4 ай бұрын

I am of the opinion that people have different intellects and its easy to believe that a person is not smart just because they don't share your intellect. It is however a delight when you discover your person's smart and can relax because they have it covered in ways much better than you

@positive49

4 ай бұрын

Thinking a person is not smart whole entire time uwena who is not 😅

@Unknownman2024

4 ай бұрын

I think is more of your mind comparing than the actual reason. Everyone is unique and smart in their own way. Maybe past relationships has impact on thinking that the person is not smart cause my question will be this person is not smart compared to who.

Not Anele saying "thetha sisi, thetha" ingathi ngumzali sana 😭😭😭. This was a beautiful and v important conversation for relationships.

Luv u guys❤

We’re within😍🥳

@TheDlotos

4 ай бұрын

Love it!❤️

My husband cheated on me while I was pregnant but wayesalobola that sasingakashadi yhoo that was the most hurtful thing I ever experienced, he has never cheated ever since than its 5 years ago..I'm almost over it but isihluphile we went to see psychologist sobabini it got better

@BongikaziNatu

2 ай бұрын

Everything pases mna ndiyavuya uva some of the married couples talking like this and showing us that Love still exists as singles ❤😊

New subscriber commenting for the sake of it 😆

@TheDlotos

4 ай бұрын

We welcome you to the family, we love having you around😊❤️

Wahamba wagijima🤣🤣🤣

Siyeza kwi 50K subbies soon

@TheDlotos

4 ай бұрын

And that will happen😊❤️

How did he find out about you cheating

Thetha kalok sisi 🤣🤣🤣yhoo hay u Anele

I love how Lulu takes yonke lento without being defensive

Maybe the cheating was before the marriage but was not clear.

Powerful

I got scared each time Mr looked away while driving...😬😬

😂😂😂Sina how many years ngok? 10..."after U cheat-ile" 😭😫 thetha kalok' Sisi😂😂 ❤this video was so informative ❤

I love you guys

Thank you so much for sharing this my lovely couple. Truth is we all go through these things in relationships it’s not nice when they happen. One just really need to face the reality and take a decision, people always talk you just need to do what’s best for your and your partner.

Sanibonani ninjani kwa Dloto

@TheDlotos

4 ай бұрын

Siyaphila kunjani kuni?

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Niyaphila guys? Kuhamba kanjani ?

Why did you cheat i was looking up to you guys specifically my boyfriend loves your relationship i cant even tell that you cheated ....😅

We want a detailed story time of how you cheated on your husband.. What was your excuse to cheat?

Bengisacela ukubuza kwDloto , do you guys still have parents from both sides ? If so beza nini abazali ukuzobona baby Lombe ?? And to see the new house ??

@SisanaK

4 ай бұрын

We Zama, yindaba uthanda ukungena shiii endabeni zabantu?! Kubaluleke ngani kuwe ukuthi beza nini abazali. Ngithe angiphawule ngoba kwenye i video wathi bazomfihla kuze kube nini umtwana. Ake uzihlole Sisi, iba matasa ngempilo yakho, uzoba umuntu oncono emphakathini

@minentlematyile3513

4 ай бұрын

😂 Thobeka khambuze! Boundaries! Boundaries plz....

@zamandlovu702

4 ай бұрын

Hawu 😳...ngokubuza nje sengonile njalo, ngoba ukuzibuzela nje qha ...angithi they're sharing their lives with us ngonephi ke mina ngalokhu usungahlulela nje 😆 😄 weh Thobeka ....noma akufanele sibuze masinembuzo ??? Kuyisono ukubuza la ekhaya mhlampe mina ongazi ... uma bengathandi ukuphendula sengicela ukuzwa ngabo abanini bayo lento yabo ....

@zamandlovu702

4 ай бұрын

@@SisanaK hawu ngaze ngasukelwa emini ilanga libalele ...sengithanda indaba zabantu njalo ...angithi ibona who are sharing they're personal life with us, kade esho manje umama Dloto ethi let's comment , let's ask Questions uhlezi esho manje mina sengonile ke ngokubuza nje sekufe umuntu weh Thobeka

@SisanaK

4 ай бұрын

​@@zamandlovu702ubuzela safuthi nawe oe, yehlisa. You were extremely disrespectful in the other video.Iba ileti toe❤

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I love the conversation, Its possible to forgive your partner...Do unto others as u want it 2 be done to you, If u want 2 b forgiven u jus forgive. Make a conscious decision 2 love your partner every minute. God bless u both and keep on loving each other always❤

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Eyam boyfrend ufuna ndenze yonke into kodwa akakanditshati so mna im very stubborn like Ironing his clothes i dont hav too he can go and cheat

@winnieginya

4 ай бұрын

I am married and I don't iron for my husband. He does it for himself, we share duties.

@notoriousmxinwa3706

4 ай бұрын

@@winnieginya Did he knew you guys were gonna share house chores before he married you or that's something he finds out after he married you?

@notoriousmxinwa3706

4 ай бұрын

@Kuhle How long have you guys been dating?

@kuhlebukani2996

4 ай бұрын

@@notoriousmxinwa3706 4years now

@kuhlebukani2996

4 ай бұрын

@@notoriousmxinwa3706 we not married klk it's wen I visit

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Andikamameli kemna kodwa ndiyayaz ndizoyithanda

Love you too bantase

I found out that my baby daddy is cheating the day I came back from home after maternity leave, I'm still recovering my son is only 4 months old ,there was no remorse what so ever in fact I'm being blamed for taking away without saying I'm going to after I confronted him and he was rude got angry I walked out,so I got blamed why did I left the house what if something had happened to me he was going to be blamed lol so I'm hurt I was recovering from c section that was terrible haven't healed that much and to find out he was just cheating ,hectic

@Xiomarazitha

3 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry ❤sending love and light

@lindelanimadilonga9902

3 ай бұрын

Thank you, sesi. I'm seeing a psychologist, and im getting better, though I get triggers, but it will get better

Recently discovered this channel and I love it here😂😂😂

@TheDlotos

4 ай бұрын

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Vulani amawindi uyajuluka baba ka Lombe emotweni 😂😂

Uphi sisi Melo no Bhuti Lombe ?????

@TheDlotos

4 ай бұрын

Bakhona but in this conversation, they were not needed doll.😊

Why did you cheat on your husband?

@hopesobazile1784

4 ай бұрын

It all in the past now

@notoriousmxinwa3706

4 ай бұрын

@@hopesobazile1784 Okay cool. The question still stands though.

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Lutho and the twanging... YOH

Urgh 🥹 This was such a difficult conversation for Mr Dloto, thank you both for your vulnerability and wisdom.

Thotho's SKIN🤌🏾 Crème de la crème sana, it's giving ❤️🥰 What an insightful conversation, thank you guys.

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Why did you cheat on your husband?

@zamandlovu702

4 ай бұрын

Hawu babazani angisazike lo bhuti uthini manje ????

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