OUR GAY WEDDING - A British countryside LGBT wedding | Tobyshome

Here's the highlights from our English countryside wedding 6 months ago. I didn't see much inspiration for gay marriage in the UK when planning our wedding, and so thought this might be helpful for anyone in the process of planning their wedding.
I was nervous about sharing this, as of course it's quite personal and emotional with our speeches and vows, but I really hope you enjoy watching it!
This video was created by our wedding videographer - auroravideo.co.uk
For more information about our wedding, have a read of our recent interview with SheerLuxe, here - sheerluxe.com/life/weddings/m...

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  • @amyelizabethphoto
    @amyelizabethphoto2 жыл бұрын

    I'm not crying, you're crying 🥺 this was so beautiful!!! ❤️

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Ahh Amy, you're so kind and lovely. Thank you so so much for saying so!

  • @Magic_in_York
    @Magic_in_York2 жыл бұрын

    Oh Toby and Mikey, your wedding looked absolutely gorgeous, as did you both. Thank you for sharing. May you both be as happy always as you were on that day.

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh that’s so kind of you to say. Thank you so much for the love and support ❤️

  • @stefan0ni
    @stefan0ni Жыл бұрын

    Your wedding day looked terrific, Toby & Mikey. Well done. I hope you enjoy many happy, joyous years together. 😀

  • @PaulKabera
    @PaulKabera Жыл бұрын

    Hi Mikey & Toby. Thank you for making the brave decision to share your wedding video with the world. Yes, perhaps someone will pick up some pointers about how to plan a wedding in the English countryside. But more importantly, perhaps someone will find inspiration to love another human being in a more profound, more authentic way. Best wishes as you move forward with your life together! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    That means so much Paul - thank you so much for your incredibly kind and thoughtful words. It means a lot! Best wishes to you, too! x

  • @Evgen_inart_OjO
    @Evgen_inart_OjO3 ай бұрын

    I went through a breakup, and it's so nice to see that happiness still triumphs in this world and it gives me the strength to believe in the future!

  • @Stefan-dd5wo
    @Stefan-dd5wo10 ай бұрын

    Greetings from Ireland. Congratulations boys. 🎉🎉❤ You both clearly had a wonderful day. My husband and I have been a couple almost 25 years and the ability to marry (in more recent years) has meant all the world to us both. Enjoy your life together. Stefan x

  • @sallyhurst4273
    @sallyhurst4273 Жыл бұрын

    Just beautiful. I wish you both endless years of happiness. My son and his partner are in the process of planning their wedding, If it is half as wonderfu as your day looked,filled with such love and happiness then this mum will be so happy! Best wishes sent to both of you x

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Ah Sally - that's so kind of you! Thank you so much! I'm sure it'll be spectacular, and you'll all have an incredible day celebrating their relationship!

  • @paulacoombs8817
    @paulacoombs88172 жыл бұрын

    Blubbering into my bubbly 😭.. Such a beautiful video ❤️.. Mikeys speech tho ❤️

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounds like the perfect place to blubber hahah! I know! Soooo good! xx

  • @georgecardinale8955
    @georgecardinale89552 жыл бұрын

    This is such a special video, sharing such an intimate part of your life is not easy, but I promise it will inspire and reassure so many people that you can find true happiness with the person you love no matter what anyone else thinks! Also wedding goals right there!😍 x

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Ah George, thank you. That really means a lot to me. I've definitely struggled in sharing in the past, but feeling so much happier and able to right now! Thank you xx

  • @TheMerryC123
    @TheMerryC1232 жыл бұрын

    Lovely piece. So glad you found each other. Wishing you lots of happiness and laughter! ❤

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ah Mary - you’re so sweet. Thank you so much. ❤️

  • @madoak5597
    @madoak5597 Жыл бұрын

    So moving. A year on - wishing you a very happy and relaxing honeymoon. All best wishes for a lifetime of happiness. x

  • @adrianjimenez5827
    @adrianjimenez58277 ай бұрын

    I'm struggling to type as I'm all teary eyed 😅🙈 It all is just out of the most wonderful dream! What a beautiful wedding! I'm so happy you guys had such a lovely day full of people who love and care about you! Thanks for sharing such precious memories, it brings such joy into the world! May you have a beautiful, long, happy, healthy, bright life together! ❤

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    7 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @bobfritz8705
    @bobfritz8705Ай бұрын

    Dear Mikey and Toby, thank you for sharing your lovely wedding with both friends/families, but also with the rest of the world. Your wedding was a beautiful gift of the shared love you have for each other. While watching it, I couldn't help but smile to see to men make their commitment to one another not only for the current day, but also when you're both old and grey. But it also took me back to the day when my now husband and I crossed the threshold of our first home 40 years ago, July 1st, 1984. I hope you two have a long, happy, and beautiful marriage. Greetings from the USA. 👨‍❤‍👨❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Ай бұрын

    thank you so much, so glad you enjoyed it xx

  • @lucasweber232
    @lucasweber232 Жыл бұрын

    wow, you two are great idols for me and for many others too. You two radiate this wonderful harmony and love! congratulations on finding each other! ❤️🍸🍀

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow! Thanks so much for saying so! Best of luck 🤞 and thanks for being here x

  • @craigmoir8655

    @craigmoir8655

    Жыл бұрын

    Couldn't agree more

  • @weesandy1250
    @weesandy1250 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely beautiful and so very moving. Thank you for allowing us to share the wonderful memories of your beautiful day🥰

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for saying so! That really means a lot!

  • @josephmillraney1061
    @josephmillraney1061 Жыл бұрын

    I'm so thrilled for the two you. May you both have many, many years of blissful happiness!

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Joseph! Wishing you well too!

  • @sameenai07
    @sameenai072 жыл бұрын

    Oh this is just so beautiful! Ziggy looked absolutely adorable with that bow 🥺

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    hehe - I was so adamant on him wearing one, despite others reservations lol x

  • @natalie3827
    @natalie3827 Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful and magical wedding you obviously had. You two were made for each other and I can’t tell you how happy I am for you both. This brought tears to my eyes 😢 May you both have years of happiness, love and good health together xxxx 🥰🥰🥰

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for watching Natalie - that means the absolute world to me! xxx

  • @natalie3827

    @natalie3827

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Tobyshome 🥰🥰🥰xxx

  • @BlackStarASMR
    @BlackStarASMR2 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations. I am so glad that at least you found happiness in your life. I wish I had so much luck in my life, but after my parents found out that I am gay, I had to escape from my homophobic parents home, my world is collapsing and I might become homeless soon, because I can’t afford the rent for my one room apartment any longer.

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much. And I’m so sorry to hear that you’ve gone through such difficulty and trauma. Of course, if you need someone to talk to, please feel free to reach out - and I’m happy to help find organizations able to offer you more support ❤️

  • @weesandy1250

    @weesandy1250

    Жыл бұрын

    So sorry to hear what you're going through. I'm thinking of you, wishing you all the love and support to follow your dreams to happiness. They say everything happens for a reason in life, although at the time its not always realised until later. This is possibly the time, your time to start being who you want to be. . It may also serve as a time of reflection and realisation to those who you've moved on from. . . Time for them to realise what/ who their priorities are. Whether that is inclusive to you or otherwise is something only they can control, however you, your life, your thoughts, loves and feelings are just that . . . They're yours and yours alone. . .and only you can make those decisions on who you take with you through your wonderful journey of life. Sending you lots of hugs and best wishes. . . Take your first steps on your beautiful journey, always talk, share and remember to always be kind to their struggles too. You got this. . . .this is yours . . Now live life the way you want to love xx

  • @DeborahMoffett

    @DeborahMoffett

    9 ай бұрын

    That's awful sweetheart please go talk to your parents 😞 without drinks 🍷🤗🤗

  • @gardenroom65

    @gardenroom65

    4 ай бұрын

    I’m crying ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jakejeffreys8948
    @jakejeffreys89482 жыл бұрын

    Such a lovely video - Thank you for sharing your day with us!

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ah Jake - thanks so much for saying so! ❤️

  • @bevmatwiejew6741
    @bevmatwiejew67412 жыл бұрын

    Just loved it. Looked such a perfect, happy day x

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ah Bev, thank you - we had the best day ever!

  • @HerCountryHome
    @HerCountryHome7 ай бұрын

    You guys 😭 Mikey’s speech was so beautiful, such a wonderful couple 🤍✨

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    7 ай бұрын

    Ahh thank you ♥️

  • @hannahculley9719
    @hannahculley97192 жыл бұрын

    Gorgeous couple & beautiful wedding ❤️

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Aren't you the sweetest x

  • @xavierlastra7124
    @xavierlastra71248 ай бұрын

    Wherever you are I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST.

  • @elliottreynolds1426
    @elliottreynolds14262 жыл бұрын

    A beautiful video of memories that you’ll treasure always x

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much Elliott - we really will always remember what an incredible day it was!

  • @wawa2
    @wawa2 Жыл бұрын

    Just wonderful, you both are such adorable young men, live happily together forever!

  • @Truman101
    @Truman101 Жыл бұрын

    Aw why am I cryinghhhh ❤❤❤❤ best wishes !

  • @The_Black_Caps
    @The_Black_Caps9 ай бұрын

    U both look amazing together. Truly a match made in heaven lads ❤

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    9 ай бұрын

    Thank you 🙌x

  • @louisejhmurray2729
    @louisejhmurray2729 Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful wedding. Thanks for sharing this. L x

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    You're so welcome Louise - and thank you for saying so!

  • @joanmillar306
    @joanmillar3062 жыл бұрын

    The most perfect day, filled with love ❤️

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    2 жыл бұрын

    It was so magical ❤️ thank you xxx

  • @ciarahealyodriscoll797
    @ciarahealyodriscoll7972 жыл бұрын

    Simply stunning, you could feel the love

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Ah Ciara, thank you so much! That's so sweet of you to say! IT WAS A LOVELY DAY xx

  • @Eduardo_scudder
    @Eduardo_scudder Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely gorgeous couple , beautiful wedding .

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    That's very kind of you! Thank you!

  • @user-ww2bc1np5g
    @user-ww2bc1np5g3 ай бұрын

    Glorious!!!

  • @user-hd4gq2ui7n
    @user-hd4gq2ui7n17 күн бұрын

    So lovely!!! ❤

  • @tomdeininger7379
    @tomdeininger7379 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful. Best of everything guys.

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much Tom!

  • @smoothsilk47
    @smoothsilk47 Жыл бұрын

    In my life I have seen the pendulum swing across to a much better place... "Love & Marriage" with the person you choose to be with, that is the only thing that matters... what a lovely couple who I wish great happiness! Lovely place Painswick I'm from Bath originally.

  • @comeregeway9072
    @comeregeway9072 Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations ❤

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much!

  • @seanjamescameron
    @seanjamescameron Жыл бұрын

    Maybe one day I'll have the same. :-)

  • @annemariestewart8233
    @annemariestewart8233 Жыл бұрын

    beautiful

  • @craigmoir8655
    @craigmoir8655 Жыл бұрын

    A joy to behold 👌👍❤️

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so very much!

  • @Floralie
    @Floralie Жыл бұрын

    YOUVE RUINED MY MAKEUP. SAT HERE CRYING. This is absolutely beautiful🥺

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Ahhh Chess !! xx

  • @ryanstagg5573
    @ryanstagg55732 жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful memory to have have 💚

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Ryan ❤️

  • @clausstimpfig3803
    @clausstimpfig3803 Жыл бұрын

    beautiful couple. all my very best

  • @monalogue
    @monalogue Жыл бұрын

    So beautiful ❤️😭❤️

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Ramona xxx

  • @Robert-bg7bl
    @Robert-bg7blАй бұрын

    2024 Sorry just catching up with your life. I think the two of you should be so proud of your life. Darn it! You made me cry

  • @courtyard1972
    @courtyard19723 ай бұрын

    Simply beautiful. ❤❤

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you! 😊

  • @DeborahMoffett
    @DeborahMoffett9 ай бұрын

    Lovely couple congratulations 🎉 we need to realise the world has changed and for the better never hide who you are good luck to you both ❣️🍾🍾

  • @starlinkapolloradio
    @starlinkapolloradio7 ай бұрын

    very beautiful.

  • @michaelperryman2199
    @michaelperryman21992 жыл бұрын

    Best day ever ❤️

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wasn’t it dear!!

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    2 жыл бұрын

    I didn’t mean wasn’t it expensive btw - I was petnaming you ‘dear’ 😂😂

  • @jamesk8s1
    @jamesk8s1 Жыл бұрын

    Wishing you a most joy filled happily ever after forever! 👨‍❤‍👨🙆🏻‍♀

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much!

  • @brendanagnew9472
    @brendanagnew94726 ай бұрын

    Magnificent

  • @kimhallfeb
    @kimhallfeb Жыл бұрын

    Just beautiful 😍 😊

  • @myandrew1659

    @myandrew1659

    Жыл бұрын

    so cute

  • @fatimayaseen6075
    @fatimayaseen6075 Жыл бұрын

    🙌🏼

  • @jokesdaily6051
    @jokesdaily6051 Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations 👏🏻

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    🥳Thanks!

  • @PurpleUSA
    @PurpleUSA Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations 💜🌈💜

  • @ronsmith2241
    @ronsmith2241Ай бұрын

    Congratulations. I wish you every happiness together. Greetings from Australia.

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you! You too!

  • @rickymanuel4237
    @rickymanuel42379 ай бұрын

    Congratulations

  • @Borahratulvlog4167
    @Borahratulvlog4167 Жыл бұрын

    OMG 🌈❤️ congratulations love from Assam 🤗 Bodoland ❤️🌈 #lgbtq🌈

  • @Gilbert-Blaymires
    @Gilbert-Blaymires6 ай бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @user-mg4ou2qw5y
    @user-mg4ou2qw5y Жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️🍾🥂❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @christinepickard7804
    @christinepickard78046 ай бұрын

    ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉

  • @sumitrautela6175
    @sumitrautela6175 Жыл бұрын

    😘😘

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching!

  • @lizziem
    @lizziem2 ай бұрын

    Just watched this. it's beautiful. Love is beautiful in all forms. Im just sorry that you've had some negative comments from a minority of small-minded, uneducated people. Much love to you both for a lifetime of happiness together.

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    2 ай бұрын

    thanks so much xx

  • @mustafemaxamed3300
    @mustafemaxamed3300 Жыл бұрын

    Me Three

  • @aldisluksteins8055
    @aldisluksteins8055 Жыл бұрын

    👍❤️❤️🌹🥂👍🇦🇹

  • @emmiesevillana459
    @emmiesevillana459 Жыл бұрын

    Im here for one thing comments

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks..

  • @comeregeway9072

    @comeregeway9072

    Жыл бұрын

    And everyone so far is loving and inclusive ❤️🌈🎉

  • @andybray9791
    @andybray9791 Жыл бұрын

    Was it a secular wedding

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    It was lovely, thank you!

  • @CORRADOCAMERONI
    @CORRADOCAMERONI4 ай бұрын

    W Gay Wedding 💞👍🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈♂️

  • @RafiahmedRafi-jn4ng
    @RafiahmedRafi-jn4ng Жыл бұрын

    I need my groom plz

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    They'll be coming!

  • @RafiahmedRafi-jn4ng

    @RafiahmedRafi-jn4ng

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Tobyshome I hope you fulfill my wish

  • @YouYou-fm8mz
    @YouYou-fm8mz Жыл бұрын

    I think your father and Mathers is doing the God thois 🙂

  • @kennethbailey9853
    @kennethbailey9853Күн бұрын

    😢😊😂❤😮😅😊❤😊❤❤❤

  • @Slskkoik
    @Slskkoik Жыл бұрын

    Thank you this solve overpopulation

  • @awaisnaeem4481
    @awaisnaeem4481 Жыл бұрын

    Is there any plate form in uk where we find a same sex partner for marriage. Please serious talk

  • @royalblitz6485
    @royalblitz648511 ай бұрын

    I am not gay so I am gay

  • @royalblitz6485
    @royalblitz648511 ай бұрын

    Crazyyyyy 💀💀💀💀

  • @sergeipetrov_rzn
    @sergeipetrov_rzn4 ай бұрын

    the West is doomed

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    4 ай бұрын

    Like your future 😘

  • @himanshubhushan4791

    @himanshubhushan4791

    12 күн бұрын

    Stupid Russian bot

  • @lightninja4795
    @lightninja47959 ай бұрын

    That’s disgusting. I think I might throw up.

  • @lightninja4795

    @lightninja4795

    9 ай бұрын

    The Bible says homosexuality is a sin.

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    9 ай бұрын

    It also says to be loving and accepting, so looking like you’re going to hell!! 😮‍💨😭

  • @LittleLoz

    @LittleLoz

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@lightninja4795Whose making your decisions? You or your religion? Get your own mind hun

  • @NicolaFossi

    @NicolaFossi

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@lightninja4795You're brainwashed

  • @freddenker9537

    @freddenker9537

    6 ай бұрын

    The Bible says have a Slave ,dont eat Mussel or Pork, dant cut your Hair,kill your arnry Son read the idiotik Text of Leviticus !!! F....the Fabelbook @@lightninja4795

  • @Iggywiggywoo
    @Iggywiggywoo Жыл бұрын

    Same sex marriage just isn’t right! And kids need a mum and dad!

  • @Tobyshome

    @Tobyshome

    Жыл бұрын

    Don’t understand what same sex marriage had to do with having children? Though, you’re incredibly uneducated either way x

  • @azazel166

    @azazel166

    Жыл бұрын

    Stay out of other people's affairs, stranger.

  • @comeregeway9072

    @comeregeway9072

    Жыл бұрын

    Same sex marriage is just equality! And if you don't believe everyone should be treated equally then you are a really shitty person with terrible morals. No amount of religion will change that! God help you, because you need it ❤️

  • @freddenker9537

    @freddenker9537

    6 ай бұрын

    Your IQ ????? same a Hamster or less?>

  • @Iggywiggywoo

    @Iggywiggywoo

    Ай бұрын

    @@azazel166excuse me, but KZread videos are for public viewing and public comments. And everyone is entitled to their opinions and share on KZread no matter how negative they are!