When the little girl saw Zay at the airport and she asked "can I go to him Daddy" it melted my heart

You are the real example of a father. One who gives an identity, a safe place with no condemnation, just a launch pad from which to go into the world. Zay knows he can come back and is accepted and loved because he belongs. The family is together once again and in many ways because you chose to be a father.

@donnamitchell867

2 күн бұрын

Welcome back Zay and blessings/appreciation for such a loving dad! It is wonderful that Zay has the option to return to this loving home as so many others don’t have that option. I am delighted for all of you - even the dogs who clearly were also happy to welcome Zay with their special doggie love. Your new bedroom with new mattress looks very comfortable. As a devoted father you have made it clear that Zay is loved and safe in your home. You are a blessing to your KZread family! Hearts😊❤😊

How can you just throw somebody out at 17, saying you don't want him anymore!😢 Thanks Peter for being there for him and all your children!❤

@LaidOutBare

Күн бұрын

In the UK, most parents throw you out at 16 and you’re on your own because in the UK you’re 16 you’re an adult

@amandamcandrew263

11 сағат бұрын

Most parents? Mine didn't, neither did I.

This is a pivotal time in Zay's life. Being with Peter will give him the boost he needs to be successful!

Sometimes I think older teens and young adults are more in need of parental care and love than younger kids. At that age, they are physically and legally able to navigate the world as adults. But, as those of us who are parents know very well, mentally and emotionally most of them are not ready to be fully on their own. They are more at risk of making bad decisions and suffering the consequences. Bravo to Peter for recognizing this.

@rootelation486

2 күн бұрын

Absolutely! I respect Zay for understanding he isn't ready and being willing to be helped and Peter is the diamond for being there to help be the guide and support system. This is the way it should be.

@akejechinweokwu4701

2 күн бұрын

​@@rootelation486sooo true. He (Zay) was proud to ask for help & Peter with his kids are ever ready to provide it. 😘 to the family. I encourage we the KZread family to continue to support them. Thanks to everybody on this channel.

@toroverde9329

Күн бұрын

I've often said the same. They need guidance in this big world. It's definitely hard becoming an adult with so much to learn.

I appreciate that you let him back in even after he aged out and don't get paid to take care of him. You care about him as a person and not just a job. That means a lot to a person to have a stable family to rely on or stable friends to depend on. When you have lifelong relationships, you have someone there for you when you need them too.

@nanad267

2 күн бұрын

Zay and Peter are bonded as father and son ! And it brings tears to my eyes ! Truly, they are both so blessed !!!

I wasn’t a foster kid but I needed a lot more family time in my 20’s from my chosen family. I adopted several families to be loved and belong in a family home and have those normal experiences. Thank you for helping your kids after age 18. We need it!

@margarethaschenkers7052

3 күн бұрын

Your kids are always your kids.

@wildbill23c

3 күн бұрын

Its so common for kids to turn 18 and leave home, either by choice or by being told to leave, most aren't ready and they struggle, and fail....and there are a lot of parents out there who don't care, they're just happy to get the kid out of the house, and don't want them to come back, so the kid struggles, fails, ends up on the streets, and doesn't have any sort of support from anybody. Once the kid no longer is a means of a tax break for the parent, the parents don't want them anymore....just because they turn 18 and graduate high school doesn't mean they're ready for the world....and that is the parent's fault for not guiding them and helping them along the way to be more prepared. I've helped a lot of kids over the years, a few of them still come by occasionally, some of them come "home" when things go wrong, and they know they're always welcome at my house, and they know I'll always help them....they ain't even my kids, its just their parents don't care enough about them to be there to support them when things aren't going well....the kids know they've got a place to go, and someone who cares about them, that's the biggest thing....sure you encourage them to go out on their own and start their own lives, but you always make sure they know they can come home if things aren't working out.

@myreallife6386

3 күн бұрын

My parents hardly cared about me when I was little. They definitely didn’t want me when I was 20.

@FosterDadFlipper

3 күн бұрын

I was 16 when someone helped me, I really want help more teens

@allyknows6328

3 күн бұрын

I was 16 and lost. My parents divorced and no one really cared to help me get to adulthood. This is such an important time in a young person's life.. it's the lift off stage to adulthood and a decent life. Glad you're there for this young man. He'll remember this his entire life. Just the way you do Peter when you were so young and the help you received. I hope one day we can meet your life changing Angel you speak of often. I hope he's doing well.. 🙏

😢my adopted parents were not there for me once I moved out but were there for my brothers. I saw the betrayal and it hurt . I wish I had had a foster parent like you. I am 73 and it still hurts though I still love them. I needed them and they weren’t there for me. So glad Peter you did not turn your back on Zay and u could have. God bless u Peter for taking your trauma and turning it into something good by continuing to love and help the kids in your care.You embrace them with all the godly love u can give. Thankyou Peter for being that person with a huge heart!!!

@susandaller8433

2 күн бұрын

I too know the feeling It will never go away

The kids' faces light up when talking about Zay 🥰 So special

@ladydove5895

2 күн бұрын

I love how excited they all are for him to come back. It speaks volume.

@BloodFrostChe

Күн бұрын

And so sad Maddie isn't coming too! They're all so sweet 🥹

Welcome back, Zay!! Peter, it's really nice of you to open your home and allow Zay to come back to get his footing. I'm sure Zay will miss Maggie, but for now he should focus on getting a job, saving his money, and possibly either going to a community college or a trade school. You truly act like a parent who loves him.

@Simbaress247

3 күн бұрын

He is a treasure and he will have mentoring from Peter.

@Beth-mi2hf

3 күн бұрын

Maddie not Maggie

@dankarubarth7678

3 күн бұрын

Yes, I also hope, that Zay would go to a College, as he self also sayed one time. Also for Maddi. It is for the long term better, than just to pic up jobs for a fast feeling of freedom. But then later on to struggle a life long with less payed smaller jobs, or?

Thank you for being there for Zay so he doesn't end up on the streets. You can help him into adulthood. You're a male role model for him too. 😁

The sheer joy on the little ones’ faces at the mention of Zay coming back! And how sweet of Zay to allow Maddie space to reconnect with her little sibling! Peter thank you for always being there, even for your just-turned-adult children. Home is home. Always

The kids wanting to help carry Zay's bags was hilarious because the bags were bigger than the lil kids!🤣 Can't wait for Maddie to come too! She has been a good big sis!🙂

Its great that Zay felt comfortable to move back into your home and share his next step with you. ❤😊

My father always said that you can come back home (and we did). Your children are always you children no matter how hold they are. Welcome back home Zay ❤❤❤

This brought tears to my eyes, the way he loves his siblings, then the way the dogs recognized him and remembered him

Peter: "You're tempted to buy things because they put them in your face." 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

@shereneleong1402

3 күн бұрын

That line caught my attention too 🙌🏻😂

@brendaperry1313

3 күн бұрын

Yes, that was funny! 😆

@Hanne_mink

2 күн бұрын

two seconds after he put his face on a pillow on sale🤣

@jeannetteashlin1725

2 күн бұрын

This is how they get customers to spend more in the store. Discovering something that they didn't know they needed and buying it. 😂🤣

The kids light up when you say he's coming to stay so you know they love each other 😊

Bella is interactive with the family goings on. She is growing up.

Did anyone else have "tears of Zay"?!! We're so happy we get to see more of his journey!!! Look at the liblings!!! (Little siblings!) My heart is so full! Peter, it's pretty awesome to see full circle but the reality is, YOU HAVE BEEN THERE and chose to take your trauma and create a blessing for someone else! I know that they say " Only look back to see how far you have come!" But I am guessing you relive those moments every time you help another and THAT is something that speaks volumes to who you are as a DAD! Complete selflessness and total love for your kids!!❤🙏

Peter, it is so good to know that people like you still exist in the world. may God bless you for an eternity you’ve taken him back in because literally You are the only family that ever showed him some kind of stability

I’m so happy that Zay is back home staying with you until he’s able to get a job and place of his own with Maddie👍 Peter, you’re a true blessing to Zay and all your children, it means the world to children and young adults to know that no matter what they have someone who’s capable of helping them, in times of need, there and able at a moments notice🙏God bless you all🥰 I’m being selfish in saying I wish Zay would just stay permanently with you bc the littles adore him and I know that you and Anthony do as well. Enjoy your time together making new family memories🙏♥️💫✨👼🏻✨💫♥️🙏

I was so happy to hear Zay is coming back. Whenever he leaves, my heart sinks, and then I say a silent prayer that he will return

The LOVE in this family is off the charts, absolutely beautiful. And when I say "family" I'm including the beautiful doggies ❤

I can't wait the adoption of Bella.

@libbylib1819

3 күн бұрын

Me too!! She's too cute 🥰 Wish more foster parents were like Peter ❤❤

@aiishacali7425

3 күн бұрын

@@libbylib1819me too.

@wildheartflame6456

3 күн бұрын

@libbylib1819 yeah! All I wish for her is to have a permanent home so that she won't be taken away anytime.

@AlainnCorcaigh

3 күн бұрын

wow shame on you for not wanting her to return to her biological family

@wildheartflame6456

3 күн бұрын

@AlainnCorcaigh what?! The 2 adoptive children are her biological siblings. The thing in here is her safety. Yes, who don't want to be united with their biological parents if they are capable in looking after them. Shame on you also for not thinking the right way.

So nice to see the welcome Zay received from the dogs. Awesome!

@t-and-p

2 күн бұрын

I think that says so much. Dogs don't lie about their emotions, so to be that excited to see him, it shows what an awesome young man Zay must be 💕👍

You can see how close the middle ones are to Peter, all of them but the little airport dance was so sweet. It’s nice that Peter cares about his kids, even the ones he hasn’t adopted. He was made to parent other peoples children, 😊

So glad Zay is back with you again. You are his family.

I love that little Bella is talking more! Little pudding ❤❤❤ Welcome home sweet Zay! Hope Maddie can join you soon. God bless you all ❤

This is testament to what kind of father you are. You truly are known for your compassion. God will make you a father in a land you were not born in, just like Abraham. You really are Father of all. I wish you more grace to change the lives of many that you are opportune to take under your wings. God bless you Sir

You truely are amazing Peter. May GOD bless you greatly.

Wow!!! Simba and Rafiki are SOOOO excited to see Zay!!! (Those doggies can love all your pain away, I'm sure!!!) 🥰🥰🥰🥰

That’s how you teach them to be responsible! Let them help with the bills? When they finally leave they know that they need jobs and have to pay their way in life! That’s how my parents taught us children and we never failed! Right out of high school we got jobs and helped with the bills at home! That was our training for life’s responsibilities ‘!!

@stormfaith

3 күн бұрын

Allow young adults, to save their money. Perhaps, have an adult child to pay the internet bill.

@bethenecampbell6463

3 күн бұрын

You definitely want to help them learn those basic life skills. In this case Zay needs to save some money as well, so maybe have him pay for his phone and once he has a job have him chip in a bit for groceries and utilities. Then when he's ready to get his own place he'll have a little credit history and can show that he can be responsible.

@charlieann456

2 күн бұрын

​@stormfaith He could pay "rent" each month. This money could be set aside by the parent until the child is ready to move out. The money could be used as a deposit on his new place or used for furniture.

I love that you are always there for your children, no matter their age.

It's a pitty it didn't work out living with his mom and siblings and i'm so glad you and his family embrached his return. He adores you all and feels save with you. You're the right family for Zay to live in and guide him into a happy adulthood. Thank you all so much...❤

the zay lifted his little brother and sister it melted my heart.. what a nice family

Zay is always good with the kids and interacts so well with them! He seems like he has good leadership..Welcome back Zay, your family is excited you are back home! ❤ including the dogs!

Oh man that little Luke/Kole is such a character. I just love watching him and all the kids!! Welcome back Xavier ❤

I can remember your kids and you Peter been really upset when he left to see his bio family and now the difference, Zay is meant to be with you and eventually with Maddie too in North Carolina, you are such a good Dad, welcome home Zay

What a blessing it is to truly know you are loved unconditionally. Thank you for being a reflection of God’s love for these children. Peter, I pray God strengthen you, guide you, and continue to give you the wisdom and love from Him to raise these children. You have built a beautiful family 💛

Oh I’m so happy that Zay has come home. The loving support that goes both ways. Makes me so happy this video

What I find remarkable in your family interactions and dynamics, is the exemplary behaviour of the adult young men towards women. In particular the PDA of Zay and his girlfriend. But also the sweet gestures and affection shown to the young sisters! Protective and soothing. Keep hugging each other 🫂

OMG I'm sooo glad Zay is back, it's been like a missing piece of the puzzle.

I enjoyed seeing the joy & love welcoming Zay home. He knew he had a Father in you ❤

Peter, you ate the best dad ever. Truly giving unconditional love to children. You are making a difference in this world.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Welcome home, Zay. You are raising beautiful humans, Peter. Thank you for opening your heart and home❤. Zay, you are a wonderful young man. I hope you find everything you are looking for.

I love this! I got custody of my nephew when he was 13. I agree it only takes one person to give kids a second chance. He's 18 years old now and is a great young man! I'm so proud of who he's becoming! As long as he needs a home he will have one. I can relate with so many of your videos. He's still doesn't want to see his real mom yet. But I told him if he does, I will help him. He had a pretty bad first 13 years. Kids just need love and stability and shown they can do anything! Great job Peter!

Family is the one who you feel close to and you have a amazing family. This is great for all of you.

ZAY I AM GLAD YOUR RETURNING! I AM SAD YOU HAVE TO LEAVE MADDIE YOU ARE SO SELFLESS! YOUR LEAVING HER BECAUSE YOU WANT HER TO SPEND TIME WITH HER BROTHER. I HOPE ASP YOU WILL BE REUNITED! ZAY IS SO MUCH A PART OF THE FAMILY.

@melanytodd2929

2 күн бұрын

❤❤❤

@angelasobmer7026

2 күн бұрын

😢🎉

@ericaaubie860

2 күн бұрын

@@angelasobmer7026 Angela are you crying cause Zay is coming back. It is exciting! People always turn back to their roots, and where they know they are loved! I hope him, and Maddie see each other asp, and she moves there too. Then they live happily ever after. They make a great couple.

@angelasobmer7026

2 күн бұрын

@ericaaubie860 I am really celebrating his return 🎉🤩 , sad emoji was an accident ... ❤️💙 my yt nephews and nieces

Welcome back Zay.. The young ones are certainly enjoying him. You really are a special papa, Peter. Sending love to aaaaall of you🐨🐨🐨🐨🐨🐨

Zay, the next chapter in your life....Enjoy being with your family.

So precious and glad to have Zay back. Your younger ones look like they absolutely adore their big brother and Maddie 🥰🙏✨Anthony looks super stoked too 😄

Sir,you are so understanding of the idea that just because kids turn 18 doesn’t necessarily mean they are ready to just be cut loose. Family is so important and to let them know you are still there to guide them and love them. Forever family,right!? You want them to know you will be there for them when they get married and or have children.

Wow this is good news Zay is so adorable it's good to see him back with Peter and Mutabazi family. Zay is such a humble person. God bless you Peter

Peter, your sweet little ones love Zay so much and you clearly create a stable, loving life for every one of your kids. They are all so lucky to have you and they will carry this love with them always ❤

Great, Zay has matured and you can see the love and need for his father

Family love in abundance! Love how the little ones flock to Zay for his sweetness and warmth. And then with Anthony, they're like happy to see each other but did a shy bro hug. They easily bonded when Zay brought out the game console though.😂 Hope we see a cooking video again with the kids! That's always fun😊 Really good of you, Peter, to help Zay become more stable. Praying he does finish college, find work, save up, and then find his place with darling Maddie. We believe in you, Zay! You have all the support you need in reaching your dreams. You have surpassed many tests in life, just remain strong as you have always been and you will go as far as your perseverance and effort takes you!

I love that you are there for your kids, no matter their age and wag at foster care says

The kids are so lucky to have you, Peter! They all are sweet kids! Also, you are such a great dad!

I wish I had u as my family I have never had supportive family like this.

Welcome back Zay I hope you stay with Peter for a long time or until you finish college.❤

What a special Dad❤️🙏🏻

He'll be a Good Help for All😊

Welcome back Zay! Those of us here missed you and Maddie as well. This so wonderful that all of them get to experience what it is like for older kids to grow up, move away and come back for awhile. It fives them a continuance of family even as adults.

Zay, I think it's wonderful that you've come home. And you're willing to work, save up ,and get a job to support your girl! ❤❤❤ Peter you're such a wonderful parent and a great role model.

You are so right about age and emotional age! When I was 20 I felt like such a baby and was scared of life because I aged out of the system that was abusive. I was emotionally 16 at 20. When I had my son at age 23, I finally matured enough to be on my own. I love that Zay is home!❤

I love your family, Peter. Zay and Anthony are so good and patient with the little kids. The 20’s are the time to explore different hobbies and jobs to see what you like. I hope Zay and Maddy can do post secondary studies too. Anyway, good to see Zay! ❤️🇨🇦🙏

Aww zay looks sad I hope his emotionally doing well, I hope his spirits lift now that his back home ❤❤❤

I love how open your heart is, plus you’re giving all of us a perspective on fostering.

That special smile on Bella’s and Luke’s faces says it all!❤

It shows you who is really in it for love! Kids are not adult at 18! (Even with parents) Although they think they are! They need family to negotiate the transition into adulthood!

@amyeli33

2 күн бұрын

I agree. I lived with my dad until I turned 22 and was grateful that he helped me.

I've got a 10 & 13 year old coming to live with us tomorrow! Watching your videos helped me reach this decision to foster them. We might get to adopt them, also! I'm excited!

Peter, you are absolutely the best dad for your children and can see how happy you are to welcome Zay back into your lives and you are always there for you children when they need you..Absolutely so much love and respect in you beautiful family❤❤❤❤

So cool for him to move back home with his family. Hope everyone has a good summer together or as long as he’s in the house with everyone & had fun too!! Keep up the good work with your kids & other foster children as well. God bless you always!

You got him! Zay!!!!!! What a great comfort for Zay to go home for a bit. Nothing wrong with that! Smart, Zay! ❤

Currently this world is extremely expensive for anyone to afford. Im happy to see Zay and his girl agree to do whats best for each of them. God is with ya'll ❤❤

Happy dance! Chest bump. High fives! Welcome Home!

@FosterDadFlipper

3 күн бұрын

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That is nice he is moving back

Welcome home Zay! Peter so good of you to allow him to stay with you.

I hope he continues with college. He could go for a trade, like electricity. Higher education is so valuable now

Oh, yay! Zay is such a beautiful soul! ❤

I love Zay! He is a true gentleman! Peter is the best!

Yay! We'll get to see Zay more and his sweet interactions with the kids who just adore him. What a great big brother he is! 🤗 He's really good with the littles. Also I totally relate to needing support even as you're learning to leave the nest and establishing your new nest! It's so important, so I'm glad you have each other, Peter and Zay!

your channel just gives so much positivity in this messed out sad world...thank you for taking care of all. Love to you all from a kenyan living in Doha

You’re the best dad ever Zay needs you and you’re there for him. I’m excited to see what is next. Amazing dad and family ❤

Welcome home Zay. So happy you are back

Even the doggies are happy their Brother Zay , home again. So good to see you back. God bless you , Peter and your brothers and sisters. ❤️

Zay is lucky to have someone help him get on his feet he's showing he's growing up making good choices it's wonderful Zay has a bond with you and you're there for him having someone to help you build a life for yourself is priceless in truth you won't to live near your family when you get ready to settle down in life and thankfully you are a family now that's a very special bond

Father of 5 way to go ♥️♥️♥️

No matter what your kids are always welcome to come home.

Teenage years are very, very important years ! So many things to figure out and without listening and offering help and advice How is a child supposed to know what they are going to supposed to do? Zay is so blessed, to have you as his DAD Peter ! The label of “foster child “ In Zay’s case is only a legal term . He’s your son ! And I know he’s so proud to be your son ! Maybe not legally But looking into your heart -Zay belong to you and you belong to him ! ❤ Thank you so much for being there for the kids !!!

We missed you too Zay! Welcome home to your beautiful family ❤🎉

So glad he has a safe place and a family to help him back on his feet. Think it's a great move.

This is just evident that u did something right and a good human is being groomed to go into the world. I am super happy for him! Weldone Peter

Oh wow!!!!! so wonderful that Zay knows he always has a home with you, Anthony and the kids. You are truly a blessing to all of them!!! Welcome back, Zay!!!

Awww. Little Bella got to help, too. How nice

This is such happy news!!! Welcome back Zay!!! 🎉😊🎉 such an exciting journey ahead! ❤❤❤

Welcome back Zay! Wishing you and Maddie many wonderful adventures in your new journey.

@FosterDadFlipper

3 күн бұрын

thank you -Zay

You’re a wonderful man and you have a wonderful family. I wish I knew somebody liked you when I was younger because you are an example of a fine man.

It seems to me that Zay can "handle" kids really well, and the kids adore him. "Handle", this sounds horrible, I mean: how he interacts with children is really cool, so natural, witty, caring, funny, and letting them do things, he has good ideas, is so spontaneous. But comforting, like a "rock", as well. - Who knows, maybe he will work with kids one day, directly or indirectly. Or get a qualification into that direction. I am convinced that he is intelligent, and maybe he would even like to study something. Anyway, he is impressing. - Interesting (and not astonishing): that Anthony, of course, too, is very good at "handling" the kids. And deeply kind and thoughtful Isabella, and the slightly younger, so bright and sparkling brother, and even the little one (wanting to help, so cute). - There seems really to be a specially "caring mood" (combined with a high sense of humour, so important, the laughter) in your little community i.e. family. (I grew up in a patchwork family, without a mom, I was raised from 5 ys on by my dad (and lots of other people ("it takes a village"), I had so many different temporary siblings), this was so unusal at the time (in Germany), fifty years ago, and those skills (caring for each other without being tied together by biological bonds)) are so great in your later life. If you have good people around, like you, Peter. Intelligent, caring, good at heart, determined, funny, witty, so modest a.s.o. You're one of a kind. Great. - Hugs from Switzerland. Su