Mire. Ima write this in English. Cause it’s easier for me to explain love. I’m on the autistic and Latina. And I feel for you. 1. Because doctors and the internet only focus on the negative sides of autism. But forget the amazing positives that come with it!💕 for examples are. We see the world different! For example if he isn’t saying the abcs doesn’t mean he isn’t visually taking it all in. There’s many nonverbal kids who’s parent thought they didn’t understand letters or numbers or the books they read about those things too. But many found they’d DRAW the images in the books about those topics from memory and perfectly. 2. We tend not to pretend play. But are more fascinated by the way those toys work! Like the wheels on the toys like you were talking about💕 he’s a natural born engineer!☺️ 3. Tantrums. Many people on the spectrum like myself have hyper sensory issues. Meaning we see feel and hear things most people don’t even notice. Like the fans sounds of lights, the type of light (warm or cold lights) etc. in places with a lot of noise or family gathering. Where lots going on. Not very calm or quite. May I suggest getting noise canceling head phones if he’ll wear them.. there are meant things you can do for situations like that to help him feel better. Some of us on the spectrum need space in those moment others need forms of compression. But he might be to young for any compression blanket or vest. But good to keep in mind for the future. Sensory swings are also good for the home when he’s feeling a lot. 4. Regression in areas like speech or eye contact can change daily. So just like you said take it day by day💕 5. Educating herself from people who actually have autism will be more effective then those who aren’t Nero diverse. Compared to those who are. Nero diverse is anyone with autism, adhd, add, dyslexia etc. and I can share some great creators if you’d like. Both moms of with kids on the spectrum and of those on the spectrum themselves. And let me tell ya. When you take information from us who are on the spectrum and who understand it from literally feeling it and living with it. It won’t fee so scary💕 if anything will give you a different way of see the world☺️ and so many of us on different ends of the spectrum are capable of sooooo much. I mean I own a house a car and Two dogs. Have a happy partner of 3 years and a amazing career doing things I enjoy. And you’ll find most of use adults. Expecually those educating the community of autism. Will show you that and more. From successful painters to botanists, engineers of all kinds etc. 6?(i think this is point 6) so many famous people are on the spectrum. Albert Einstein (scientist mathematician), Tim burton (film production), Emily Dickinson(writer), Charles Darwin(biologist, nature geologist), bill gates founder of Microsoft, Barbara McClintock (cytogenetic), nikola Tesla (inventor of Tesla) and Elon musk (entrepreneur) the list goes on and on💕 I really hope this helps… not knowing about something expecually when it involves your kids can be scary. But knowledge is wisdom and more so peace of mind. Keep up the amazing work by educating yourself. And always here to help if you need the perspective of a Nerodiverse adult. We all want to help💕 also let me know if you want those recommendations on people who have autism and have platforms sharing information and helpful tools. More then willing to pass that information on.
@RosaIreneULFcygHILAbndRW14d
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for showing me the positive side of autism. You’re comment made me feel so relieved. And yes I would love to watch people on the spectrum talk about their perspective. 💗
@emiliarodriguez7809
2 жыл бұрын
I am a mother of an autistic child, it was so difficult for me the first 3 years after the diagnosis because l felt lost and didn’t know how the future will be. I cried almost every night feeling hopeless and thinking what my baby is gonna be when l am not here in this planet anymore. I prayed and worked hard to find help. She started with therapy at age 2 because l kind force the pediatrician to refer her. She thought l was over reacting and my daughter wasn’t in the spectrum, but my heart knew she was different (at the same time l was hoping to be wrong) at age 3 we got the diagnosis and to me was heartbreaking. I had a second child who was 2 weeks old when l got the autism diagnosis. I didn’t cry in front of the doctor but at the parking lot l cried so much holding one kid with one hand and holding my newborn baby with my other arm. It was so sad, l remember paying attention to every single detail about her. But after praying, reading, and watching videos about adults in the spectrum l finally came out of that negative feeling. At age 4 she called me mom for the first time that day l felt touching the sky, it felt like a dream came true. She started asking me for things using more than one word at the time. She was progressing slowly and at age 7 during the pandemic we stayed home for three months and we didn’t go anywhere just to the backyard. It was the best three months in many years. She started to have conversations with me, she told me what she likes, what she likes to eat and why, she woke me up every day with a kiss. To my was like no reality. She still have so many things to learn like every other single human in this world. She and her sister have the best relationship they play, fight, share, argue, complain, etc. the diagnosis helped me to find the help she needs in school, but in my heart she is just another person. My goal is she becomes independent, happy and enjoy this world. Tu hijo fue hecho especialmente para ti, Dios te escogió para que tu y tu esposo fueran sus ángeles que lo guiaran en esta tierra. Con el tiempo todo eso va ser un recuerdo y una experiencia para ayudar a otras madres que vienen atrás de ti. Porque solo una madre con un hijo o que tenga autismo te va entender. Y a mi me encanta oír experiencia de madres y también adultos que tienen autismo porque eso me motiva y me llena de alegría mi corazón… bendiciones
@peachesworld1768
Жыл бұрын
@@emiliarodriguez7809 se que este mensaje tiene ya un tiempo pero de verdad que agradezco tanto tu testimonio. Soy mamá de una niña autista de 21 meses y estoy debastada, deprimida, mis días son fatales y leer testimonios como el tuyo me animan demasiado. Gracias.
@martacm5451 Жыл бұрын
Eres muy valiente 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻gracias por contarlo, puedes ayudar a muchas personas que estén en tu misma situación. Max es hermoso ❤️
@RosaIreneULFcygHILAbndRW14d
Жыл бұрын
Muchas Gracias 😊💗 Bendiciones 🫶🏼
@mariavalencia17922 жыл бұрын
Mi hermana tiene a su niña con autismo moderado es una niña muy pero muy inteligente se lo que debes sentir mi hermana llora pero sabes una cosa Dios tiene el control Dios te lleve de la mano te comparto un versículo de la biblia dice así Todo lo puedo en Cristo que me fortalece Filipenses 4:13
@martacm5451 Жыл бұрын
Gracias por este vídeo ❤️estoy a la espera de un diagnóstico de mi hijo y me ayudaste mucho! Eres muy fuerte y una mama excelente👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@camilariveira27612 жыл бұрын
Hola soy una persona autista y soy mamá entiendo por lo que estás pasando y que puede ser duro pero hay cosas que mejor aclarar tal vez te hagan mejor el autismo es autismo ya que es una variante tan grande no va de más autista a menos autista ya que no se mide de manera lineal si no como un prisma de colores (ningún autista es igual a ptro) lo que si existe son niveles de apoyo que son 1,2 y 3 esos niveles hablan sobre el apoyo o acomodaciones que vamos a tener pero eso puede ir variando a lo largo de la vida o situación puede que en algunos rasgos tenga un nivel 3 de apoyo y y en otro un nivel 1. Por otro lado la comunicación que el niño no sea verbal no significa que no se comunique por lo que contas el se comunica perfectamente y se hace entender. Claro es un niño pequeño y a medida que crezca va comunicarse mejor como cualquier niño. Y decirte que entiendo la mirada de las otras personas a mi también me miran raro pero son personas que no entienden y lo mejor es que poco a poco trates de que no te importen por que a medida que crezca tu hijo lo va agradecer. Las personas autista (no con autismo, ya que es algo con lo que neceemos y no se puede quitar) las personas autistas somos como cualquier otra persona solamente que para llegar al mismo objetivo recorramos otro camino. Estás haciendo las cosas fantástico informándote, informando a las personas y siendo la mejor mamá que podes ser, las mamás sabemos que es lo que nuestros hijos necesitan confía en tu instinto, te mando un abrazo virtual gigante tienes un niño hermoso Pd: los pictogramas ayudan muchísimo a la comunicación, beso
@RosaIreneULFcygHILAbndRW14d
2 жыл бұрын
Muchísimas gracias por tus palabras me an dado un gran alivio y me han echo ver el autismo de otra forma. Cuídate mucho yo apoyaré a mi hijo en todo lo que puedo.💙
@arelymendiola67982 жыл бұрын
💙💙💙
@kellyescobar14632 жыл бұрын
Eres una guerrera
@RosaIreneULFcygHILAbndRW14d
Жыл бұрын
❤❤
@mariavalencia17922 жыл бұрын
Ora ora por tus hijos
@yudithrivas30602 жыл бұрын
Holaaa yo igual tengo un niño con autismo soy de el salvador y aún no me han dado un diagnóstico estoy en eso y el ya tiene 8 años se cómo te sientes, por qué hay veces hasta los familiares habla del comportamiento de ellos pero bien eso pasa. Dios nos ayuda a salir adelante con ellos
@RosaIreneULFcygHILAbndRW14d
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@samanthaceja15282 жыл бұрын
Hi my brother also has autism. You should talk to my mom for help or need anything becuse she also know what it is like
@yudithrivas30602 жыл бұрын
No sé se te has dado cuenta de una dieta, que hay sin gluten y sin caseína dicen que les ayuda mucho.
@camilariveira2761
2 жыл бұрын
Las dietas no ayudan al autismo, excepto que la persona tenga un problema real intestinal o alergia
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Mire. Ima write this in English. Cause it’s easier for me to explain love. I’m on the autistic and Latina. And I feel for you. 1. Because doctors and the internet only focus on the negative sides of autism. But forget the amazing positives that come with it!💕 for examples are. We see the world different! For example if he isn’t saying the abcs doesn’t mean he isn’t visually taking it all in. There’s many nonverbal kids who’s parent thought they didn’t understand letters or numbers or the books they read about those things too. But many found they’d DRAW the images in the books about those topics from memory and perfectly. 2. We tend not to pretend play. But are more fascinated by the way those toys work! Like the wheels on the toys like you were talking about💕 he’s a natural born engineer!☺️ 3. Tantrums. Many people on the spectrum like myself have hyper sensory issues. Meaning we see feel and hear things most people don’t even notice. Like the fans sounds of lights, the type of light (warm or cold lights) etc. in places with a lot of noise or family gathering. Where lots going on. Not very calm or quite. May I suggest getting noise canceling head phones if he’ll wear them.. there are meant things you can do for situations like that to help him feel better. Some of us on the spectrum need space in those moment others need forms of compression. But he might be to young for any compression blanket or vest. But good to keep in mind for the future. Sensory swings are also good for the home when he’s feeling a lot. 4. Regression in areas like speech or eye contact can change daily. So just like you said take it day by day💕 5. Educating herself from people who actually have autism will be more effective then those who aren’t Nero diverse. Compared to those who are. Nero diverse is anyone with autism, adhd, add, dyslexia etc. and I can share some great creators if you’d like. Both moms of with kids on the spectrum and of those on the spectrum themselves. And let me tell ya. When you take information from us who are on the spectrum and who understand it from literally feeling it and living with it. It won’t fee so scary💕 if anything will give you a different way of see the world☺️ and so many of us on different ends of the spectrum are capable of sooooo much. I mean I own a house a car and Two dogs. Have a happy partner of 3 years and a amazing career doing things I enjoy. And you’ll find most of use adults. Expecually those educating the community of autism. Will show you that and more. From successful painters to botanists, engineers of all kinds etc. 6?(i think this is point 6) so many famous people are on the spectrum. Albert Einstein (scientist mathematician), Tim burton (film production), Emily Dickinson(writer), Charles Darwin(biologist, nature geologist), bill gates founder of Microsoft, Barbara McClintock (cytogenetic), nikola Tesla (inventor of Tesla) and Elon musk (entrepreneur) the list goes on and on💕 I really hope this helps… not knowing about something expecually when it involves your kids can be scary. But knowledge is wisdom and more so peace of mind. Keep up the amazing work by educating yourself. And always here to help if you need the perspective of a Nerodiverse adult. We all want to help💕 also let me know if you want those recommendations on people who have autism and have platforms sharing information and helpful tools. More then willing to pass that information on.
@RosaIreneULFcygHILAbndRW14d
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for showing me the positive side of autism. You’re comment made me feel so relieved. And yes I would love to watch people on the spectrum talk about their perspective. 💗
@emiliarodriguez7809
2 жыл бұрын
I am a mother of an autistic child, it was so difficult for me the first 3 years after the diagnosis because l felt lost and didn’t know how the future will be. I cried almost every night feeling hopeless and thinking what my baby is gonna be when l am not here in this planet anymore. I prayed and worked hard to find help. She started with therapy at age 2 because l kind force the pediatrician to refer her. She thought l was over reacting and my daughter wasn’t in the spectrum, but my heart knew she was different (at the same time l was hoping to be wrong) at age 3 we got the diagnosis and to me was heartbreaking. I had a second child who was 2 weeks old when l got the autism diagnosis. I didn’t cry in front of the doctor but at the parking lot l cried so much holding one kid with one hand and holding my newborn baby with my other arm. It was so sad, l remember paying attention to every single detail about her. But after praying, reading, and watching videos about adults in the spectrum l finally came out of that negative feeling. At age 4 she called me mom for the first time that day l felt touching the sky, it felt like a dream came true. She started asking me for things using more than one word at the time. She was progressing slowly and at age 7 during the pandemic we stayed home for three months and we didn’t go anywhere just to the backyard. It was the best three months in many years. She started to have conversations with me, she told me what she likes, what she likes to eat and why, she woke me up every day with a kiss. To my was like no reality. She still have so many things to learn like every other single human in this world. She and her sister have the best relationship they play, fight, share, argue, complain, etc. the diagnosis helped me to find the help she needs in school, but in my heart she is just another person. My goal is she becomes independent, happy and enjoy this world. Tu hijo fue hecho especialmente para ti, Dios te escogió para que tu y tu esposo fueran sus ángeles que lo guiaran en esta tierra. Con el tiempo todo eso va ser un recuerdo y una experiencia para ayudar a otras madres que vienen atrás de ti. Porque solo una madre con un hijo o que tenga autismo te va entender. Y a mi me encanta oír experiencia de madres y también adultos que tienen autismo porque eso me motiva y me llena de alegría mi corazón… bendiciones
@peachesworld1768
Жыл бұрын
@@emiliarodriguez7809 se que este mensaje tiene ya un tiempo pero de verdad que agradezco tanto tu testimonio. Soy mamá de una niña autista de 21 meses y estoy debastada, deprimida, mis días son fatales y leer testimonios como el tuyo me animan demasiado. Gracias.
Eres muy valiente 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻gracias por contarlo, puedes ayudar a muchas personas que estén en tu misma situación. Max es hermoso ❤️
@RosaIreneULFcygHILAbndRW14d
Жыл бұрын
Muchas Gracias 😊💗 Bendiciones 🫶🏼
Mi hermana tiene a su niña con autismo moderado es una niña muy pero muy inteligente se lo que debes sentir mi hermana llora pero sabes una cosa Dios tiene el control Dios te lleve de la mano te comparto un versículo de la biblia dice así Todo lo puedo en Cristo que me fortalece Filipenses 4:13
Gracias por este vídeo ❤️estoy a la espera de un diagnóstico de mi hijo y me ayudaste mucho! Eres muy fuerte y una mama excelente👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Hola soy una persona autista y soy mamá entiendo por lo que estás pasando y que puede ser duro pero hay cosas que mejor aclarar tal vez te hagan mejor el autismo es autismo ya que es una variante tan grande no va de más autista a menos autista ya que no se mide de manera lineal si no como un prisma de colores (ningún autista es igual a ptro) lo que si existe son niveles de apoyo que son 1,2 y 3 esos niveles hablan sobre el apoyo o acomodaciones que vamos a tener pero eso puede ir variando a lo largo de la vida o situación puede que en algunos rasgos tenga un nivel 3 de apoyo y y en otro un nivel 1. Por otro lado la comunicación que el niño no sea verbal no significa que no se comunique por lo que contas el se comunica perfectamente y se hace entender. Claro es un niño pequeño y a medida que crezca va comunicarse mejor como cualquier niño. Y decirte que entiendo la mirada de las otras personas a mi también me miran raro pero son personas que no entienden y lo mejor es que poco a poco trates de que no te importen por que a medida que crezca tu hijo lo va agradecer. Las personas autista (no con autismo, ya que es algo con lo que neceemos y no se puede quitar) las personas autistas somos como cualquier otra persona solamente que para llegar al mismo objetivo recorramos otro camino. Estás haciendo las cosas fantástico informándote, informando a las personas y siendo la mejor mamá que podes ser, las mamás sabemos que es lo que nuestros hijos necesitan confía en tu instinto, te mando un abrazo virtual gigante tienes un niño hermoso Pd: los pictogramas ayudan muchísimo a la comunicación, beso
@RosaIreneULFcygHILAbndRW14d
2 жыл бұрын
Muchísimas gracias por tus palabras me an dado un gran alivio y me han echo ver el autismo de otra forma. Cuídate mucho yo apoyaré a mi hijo en todo lo que puedo.💙
💙💙💙
Eres una guerrera
@RosaIreneULFcygHILAbndRW14d
Жыл бұрын
❤❤
Ora ora por tus hijos
Holaaa yo igual tengo un niño con autismo soy de el salvador y aún no me han dado un diagnóstico estoy en eso y el ya tiene 8 años se cómo te sientes, por qué hay veces hasta los familiares habla del comportamiento de ellos pero bien eso pasa. Dios nos ayuda a salir adelante con ellos
@RosaIreneULFcygHILAbndRW14d
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
Hi my brother also has autism. You should talk to my mom for help or need anything becuse she also know what it is like
No sé se te has dado cuenta de una dieta, que hay sin gluten y sin caseína dicen que les ayuda mucho.
@camilariveira2761
2 жыл бұрын
Las dietas no ayudan al autismo, excepto que la persona tenga un problema real intestinal o alergia