My wife & I are in our 60's. Thru the years we sort of lost touch a time or two, but your list is as necessary at our age as it is at yours. Gabe, make a very legitimate effort DAILY to take time with no distractions (kids, phone, tv...) for Jess. Just 30 minutes a day and you will never lose touch with her. When you wife knows you care and take a daily interest in her, your marriage will always be buoyant and problems will be so much easier to handle.

1. Have the same beliefs about marriage 2. Constantly practise each other’s love language 3. Have fun together 4. Kiss more 5. Compliment each other daily 6. Pillow talk check-ins 7. Weekly family meetings 8. Common financial goal 9. Have a family mission statement to help you form yourselves as a team 10. Pray for each other and pray together 11. Accountability 🌸🌸🌸

@merelmarr

9 ай бұрын

8. Common financial goal I think and 9. is the mission statement

@alishayahmed1432

9 ай бұрын

Omg thank you so much. I was looking for this comment🤗

I think treating your daughter how you want her future husband to treat her is such a good thing to do a

I’m a new mom and I can definitely say this episode makes me feel like my marriage is actually going through very normal things since we have had our first child. It’s truly about the little things now, like the daily check-ins, kissing, and laughing together. Thank you for this ❤️ being intentional is the biggest thing since it’s so easy to get caught up in the craziness around us

@pettahify

8 ай бұрын

Oh yes. Remember each other, kids are awesome, let the kid(s) keep you together not the other way around. Get the kids to bed EARLY, if it takes to much time to get them to sleep, research how to go get them to go to sleep faster.

Okay this is my favorite episode so far!! I would loveeee to see more episodes like this! The reality of marriage and finances in a marriage!!

Every couple should watch this! This was so helpful! Jess and Gabe are so wholesome ♥

Y'all have me taking notes every other episode because I've never had so much insiteful wholesome information until you guys. We look up to you

Broke up with my fiance, relationship of 7 years, because he's a non believer and our difference in values really shone through during wedding planning. You were my favorite KZreadrs when I was in college. Thoguht of you guys just then. Needed this episode, thank you. God bless your work.

Those 10 pillars… you two are an AMAZING couple! This entire podcast… EVERYTHING that you have shared & continue to share… THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!

This is such a bittersweet one for me. I think this might be the best episode so far and I genuinely had to rewind a few times to really internalize the advice you were giving. I feel like this could have saved my relationship with my now ex boyfriend. We were long distance and after some time and space, I really think we essentially broke up over communication issues and lack of intention in our actions. We‘re still on good terms and I pray that we will find our ways back to eachother some day, I really do believe he is the love of my life and that we could have salvaged our relationship with these action points. Thank you so much for sharing this, Jess & Gabe. It was genuinely so insightful ♥️ My parents were very strict when it came to dating (basically was not allowed to make those experiences), so I never really learned enough about what it takes to be in a committed relationship. I believe this will help me with any future relationship, whether it’s with him or someone else.

I have definitely wanted a family meeting outline from you guys for a while now, so I think it could be cool for you guys to share that. 😊

I am loving these new episodes! This episode was so insightful. Thanks for sharing ❤

People say this is boring? I think they are just young! Keep it up for us parents ❤

@ophiliagrace23

9 ай бұрын

I know right!! Their podcasts are so fun to watch and listen to, I even binge watch!!

I love you guys so much, wholesome and authentic! I’m so happy I’ve come across your KZread channel. This is exactly what the world needs more of ❤

I absolutely loved this podcast! Longform content like this is so refreshing in the “tik tok” age. I’m a year into my marriage and really appreciate hearing from another couple how to maintain true to your core values and keep a great support system of friends to hold you accountable throughout the marriage. Love you guys and your love for one another!

I’m absolutely in love with this episode. You guys match each other’s energy so much 😂 great tips as always

You guys have influenced the way I'm thinking about my daily life routine, my relationship with god, and marriage life Thank you for everything 💝💝 Love you so much ❤❤

Loved this episode so much! I had my notes app open just making notes for my relationship :) I loved hearing your take on topics such as finance discussions etc so thanks for mentioning sources such as Every dollar App tha is super helpful.

Your notifications brighten up my day 🥹 thank you guys

These episodes are so great! You two would be INCREDIBLE mentors to young couples (I know you guys are young but even newlyweds, etc) because of how much you've learned during your relationship thus far. But then I was thinking, this podcast IS a mentorship! I learn so much from your relationship, advice, and how you do things and am implementing it into my life/future plans. So thank you for making a free, easily accessible mentoring space. You guys are really the best and I'm so glad you're able to bless others with what God has blessed you with♥

You two are so great 🤗 I remember both of you mentioning weekly family meetings a while ago and immediately started doing it with my fiance lol. It’s so helpful! We get stuck in a cycle of saying we need to touch base or talk about something but then life gets busy and we forget we never talked! I can’t wait to have children and be able to incorporate them into our family meetings 🥰 Now I want to create family pillars/fundamentals, so cute and wholesome to have as a family :)🤍

I love this episode so much! I think it would be so beneficial to us as an audience to be able to see how you conduct your family meetings from a technical stand point, I know for sure my partner and I would love that :)

Love how real and raw you guys are! The definition of a Christ centered marriage ❤

Appreciate your wisdom about marriage and how you want to be a great example for your kids ❤️ I can totally relate! Xx

16:45 this reminds me of a quote i heard once that goes something like this: "tell your daughter you love her or else a bad guy will and she'll believe him"

This was so so sweet and filled with amazing advise 💗 It’s easy to know this is working because you two have an incredible marriage and it shows. Thanks for sharing!! Would love to hear more from you all about highs and lows in your faith life and how you handled it. Shout out fellow Nashville resident 💗 my fam and I also moved from south Florida.

I’m not even a girlfriend but the way Jess & Gabe lead each other with so much wisdom gives me hope. I’ll definitely be coming back to this video and implementing it into my life when the time comes 😇

Colonel Conte’s 11 secret spices (to a successful marriage) 🍗 but seriousness, we’ve followed you guys with Family Team Meetings and been doing that in our first year of marriage (ours is monthly though and on a notepad). It’s a game changer! Gonna try the system you guys are implementing for our future FTMs, including family values☺️

I love your podcast ! I’m not married or even dating right now, but the more you know !

Great podcasts! Always awesome to listen to, it's interesting. Well done guys.😊

Bless you both for sharing

The best podcast episode so far! Really enjoyed listening to your guys. Please don't be afraid to go deep❤

You guys are amazing, a truly great source of inspiration for so many❤ I will keep all those in mind for the time I get married

Thanks for sharing. I think 7 years nowadays is a long time! Specially for people that get married younger. You two have done so well, specially being public people. . I appreciate all the advise you two share, specially being in the same age group and in similar seasons of life. You can always always learn something from others.

Absolutely love this stuff! Please talk more on marriage and how to work in a godly way together! Love u guys ❤

Love the vlogs and podcast. I been a fan since first started dating and doing long distance. Wishing you all the best❤😊

amazing tips, you guys are awesome! thank you for this video 💛

34:56 the best advice I heard was “Always own 100% of your 1%” meaning that even if you are right, genuinely evaluate your heart behind the argument and express it through asking for forgiveness no matter what

been loving this type of content 🥰

Awesome conversation!! Really enjoyed this episode ❤

Would definitely be interested in a download of an outline of your family meetings! Loving this podcast! ❤️

@madeleinelist4772

9 ай бұрын

I’ve always wanted it too for so long

@Jmj821

9 ай бұрын

Same!!! Please make this!!! 😍

@ophiliagrace23

9 ай бұрын

Ah same!!

love this guys, thanks for sharing so candidly and being so cute together :D

This is the content we want, thank you 🙏😍😍

Love this and definitely going to use some of this secrets for my marriage! 😊

God bless you both ❤ keep being a source of light in this dark age🙏 haters gonna hate and potatoes will potate🤷‍♀️

Very insightful, thank you for sharing!😍

Jess can you go over your haircare!?looks so healthy mine is struggling 🥲

The just pick one joke had me dying Jess hahaha

Love these episodes ❤

I love this episode so much!

Awesome podcast! You both shared some wonderful tips that are helpful to know. Married 23 years and I still learned a lot from this podcast. I wish I knew and did some of these things from the start. It would have solved a lot of our problems. Keep it up guys. More context like this please.

yess please share an outline for family meetings

Excited to watch 🫶🏻

I’d love to download the google sheet template you spoke about for weekly family meetings!

You guys are so cute. Thank you for this content.💌

i love love love the family vision! i want to do that even as a single person!

Such a good video 💛

That intro is so chaotic 😂

Wow this is amazing!!! ❤️

Love your channel 💕

I totally forgot that I have subscribed to you guys

Actually sex is a part of a "physical touch" love language so Gabe ain't wrong 😂

Dudes, we made it 15 years together, and seven years of marraige and life broke in between broke us... there was no God interaction with each other, a lot of trauma, and a whole lot of isolation. I hope this episode goes the way I believe it will. Being of the same page, communication, and practice in healing hurts.

Good podcast ❤❤

I loved this podcast!!

❤❤❤ i love listening to their pod so much

Brightening up by their loves ever

Would love a guide for the weekly meeting!!!

I would love if you'd share your family meeting outline!

Bye Sharon! 😂😂😂 you guys are great. I can only pray to have such an intelligent and Christ centered marriage one day😊

Do you think the team meeting would work/really be necessary for a couple who are just a couple and not basically business partners?

They're so in love omg

Is that the outfit gabe for you in target?? 😂😂

I definitely don’t agree with Gabe about Ahsoka… BUT, ANDOR was amazing. I wish more of the newer Star-wars series were made like that. 😎 I’m disappointed because Ahsoka is one of my favorite characters of all time, but hopefully they’ll make other series that are stronger in the future, to each their own 😂 Jess, if you see this, please give the original trilogies a chance, I promise you’ll love it😊❤️ My husband and I are Star Wars fans, and it’s honestly so nice being able to bond over the movies :) talk about some good “quality time”😂

can you guys please share your spreadsheet template? I want to start doing it but have no idea how to start.

and I have been here since the wedding video lol

I feel like I’m so much like Jess and my husband is so much like gabe😂

7 years! That’s a long time wow😮

Do you guys think it would be a good idea to do family team meetings that include your child when they get older maybe not finances unless they want to learn 🤷🏽‍♀️

Beautiful family values

Hey Jess and Gabe

I think you're the only person I've heard that actually likes the Ashoka show, Gabe 😂

How can I become a member club?

“Generational wealth” ahhh you listen to Dave Ramsey!!!!!

@marycuellar8265

9 ай бұрын

Every Dollar App!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

What was the book that Jess mentioned she liked?

I want to read that study 38:36 where can i find it?

i think a podcast on jess and gabe's testimony would be amazing to hear yk and like what its been like being a Christian in the social media industry

What are your MBTIs and do you feel it helped you to know about them in your marriage to understand how your minds work?

I think very happy

the way y’all had and did lil hand gestures to remember the 10 goals was the cutest and best thing I’ve ever seen 😭🥹 they’re so creative

Can someone type out all 11 points they made?

How did Gabe find that friendship of guys? It is rare and my husband really desires that

Early gang ❤

In Philippines we pronounce z as zee not zed 😅

Can get timestamps for podcast videos please?❤

I adore you guys! Although I have noticed that Jess has been making more fun of Gabriel and for some reason it rubs me the wrong way lol! It doesn’t feel sweet but more on the side of demeaning. Just my perception of it

- Gabriel, as a Star Wars fan, I highly recommend the Clone Wars animated series. (And Rebels lol) Once you get passed the first two seasons it’s really good. The first two szn are important for context tho btw.

Hey Jess and Gabe!! So sorry for all the unnecessary hate that has been put against you guys by all these people who truly do not understand or see your sincere heart in all that you do. People who have genuinely watched you from the start or even new followers, many are so aware of how kind, generous and God fearing you two are. & above all, you are only human, humans make mistakes, and also you have every right to stand on what you believe. In the midst of raising a baby, you keep being present for us, the last thing you deserve is this evil hate. But, all of that does not define you, and many of us are still cheering on you guys and obviously laughing our asses off because of the epic podcasts and videos you post. So, continue being you, Kind, God fearing and friggin' hilarious!!!! 😄😄❤❤

@helinille

9 ай бұрын

@soumyarabhi so just out of curiosity, why don't people also expect influencers (who support palestine) to give condolences to the lost lives of israeli civilians and babies? both sides are hurting, it's not just one.

@ophiliagrace23

9 ай бұрын

@@helinille Exactly! Exactly!

@helinille

9 ай бұрын

@soumyarabhi I guess i just find it gross that it's socially acceptable these days (as an example) for people to spam Palestine messages on an Israeli celebrity's instagram post, like her own people don't matter. People seem to be very vocal about one side (Palestine) and don't mention the other (Israel innocents), but go after people who do the opposite (support Israel and don't mention Palestine innocents).

So happy to see them post again, i hope their comments haven’t brought them down too terribly much. Influencers are allowed to be humans and make mistakes.

@LillyBrowtteworste

9 ай бұрын

@@JonasBrotherLuver122 Jess and Gabe posted something along the lines of showing support to Israel during the on going war, and I believe they may have even donated some money. Not sure of all the details because I didn’t see any of the posts, just the comments on their posts. But a lot of their following was upset with them for not being well educated on Israel’s history in violence towards Palestine and were upset that they(j&g) never spoke up for Palestine over the years. A lot of comments were coming at them for not posting a public apology, making fun of Gabe’s homeschooling and lack of work status - insinuating that he should have free time to educate himself. But the sad reality, which it isn’t an excuse, is that most influencers and people in American aren’t aware of other countries oppressions and wars unless it’s publicized by American media. I feel like it’s truly just a human error but people have put J&G so high up on a pedestal that as soon as they make a human mistake, people are so ready to attack. It’s a double edged sword.

well you support israel