Opting out when trust isn’t found

When we seek a partner who is trustworthy and safe, it can safeguard against childhood abuse triggers. It is important to not date someone just because he likes you, recognizing his perverse speech, wandering eye or continuous meeting of new people who keep you on guard is enough evidence to put yourself first and wait for a partner who only has eyes for you. IFS Therapy helps you realize that parts within want connection that doesn’t come at a cost or threat to the relationship because that narrative from your younger years is exhausting and unhealthy for your recovery. PastoralTrauamTherapyIFS

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  • @philipbryan7352
    @philipbryan735228 күн бұрын

    Chosen ones go especially those who are attractive both men and women go through rejection, friendzoned, ghosted, taken for granted, or begin code switchin aka chameleon. Because at some point somewhere in their lives between childhood and middle school age they got either bullied, insulted, laughed at, sheltered, or maybe a parent, teacher, or an authority figure told them they'll never get a significant other/spouse. Let put it like this: some say if someone was rich like grew up wealthy/famous they wouldn't be blastin off their mouths, postin online their high end jewelry or designer shoes, dozens of their luxury expensive cars etc. If they need to go to school, church or any place of worship depending on the individuals religion, or even on a date via social events to vibeout with their friends the parents would ask their personal chauffeur to drop them off at the exact vacinity. Not to near and not to far from the locations entrance. Meaning they'll avoid wide open areas=quite sections in the middle of the environment. If they need to go on vaca the would send them on a private jet, charter plane, or helicopter at a book hotel, or even take the bus and pay or take train but they wouldn't tell the world on the on the internet, social media, or word to mouth cause the others will be wall-in n frontin out. The loudest one's in the room are the weak talk is cheap. But the quietest ones in the room are the strong. If someone woke up "with a thought that'll fix their situation" thinking if they could get rich they could have beautiful attractive people surrounding them with charm spotlight, big house on the hill, lots of Swiss Meaning cash etc. But some attractive people will tell you they never spent any money on a date, don't get asked out much because they find them intimidating. Desolation speaking the reason why people get rejected via shame n pain comes down to these: they were popular in school but not outside of school they'll asked to vibeout they'll be sayin "I'm busy or I got business I need to take care of" being in da Nile as a defense mechanism used for an excuse to not be seen outside of school with you. The ones who rejected you or met from childhood would come, go and show up later in life but during your friendship they'll reject you or ask them a question they'll be like I don't wanna talk about a few days or weeks. Yet they'll let you tell them what you what you got going on or what you do. Being the chosen one means you're going have people hatin on you from time to time in your lifetime, trauma trials n tribulations. But the you come to a realization unknowingly there's a much larger ship out there. That ship is church point which is Jesus. It'll be a long journey but it becomes easy with friends beside you. Don't be surprised or wonder why God puts strangers in your life. Support doesn't always come from familiar faces in unknown destinations. Dozens of acquaintances who you thought were your friends caused you to feel embarrassing exasperation in a toxic environment. One nightstands=lifetime of pain. Might be fun sometime later you'll start to gettin n-sane in the membrane. Crashes to Smashes is no game. Even if it was just one time after the first date. No means no. Refuse to be used to go with the flow. Toxic insignificant users are no different than abusers. If there isn't healthy relationship reciprocation. Then it has to be deserted by decapitation. No lie you know the vibe.

  • @philipbryan7352
    @philipbryan735215 күн бұрын

    Btw can you do this on friends of the opposite sex including family. By saying their name tagging them in the video. N reach out to them? Because you should have a podcast cast/IFS Therapist influencer

  • @angieandrewseyesight222

    @angieandrewseyesight222

    9 күн бұрын

    Thank you, pray for me, I am looking into it