now I know you are the one who sent me Shofar .thank you

Rebetzin Shterna Sara by the way is was the Rebbe Rashab's Rebetzin

knocking at the rebbes door shows respect for the tzaddik. in a similar vein, we open the door for eliyahu hanavi at the prsach seder, and even pour a cup of wine for him. showing kavod for tzaddikim is a mitzvah.

Never surrender!

@tsXGrimReaper but the character of Isa in the koran is not the character of Yeshua ( the Messiah) as said in the Tanach, for example the real messiah was pierced on His hands and His feet ( psalm 22), He is called The Lord our righteousness which i think is in Isaiah or jeremiah, He was bruised for our iniquities and by His strips we are healed ( somewhere in Isaiah) and He died and rose from the grave (psalms) and He is the arm of the Lord read isaiah 52, 55, and 61 i was reading the other day

No. I meant exactly what I wrote. These customs have been practiced for millenia and have basis in Jewish tradition. There are many examples of praying at the gravesides of the tzaddikim from our history.

I hope to go to the one, with my future bride so we can pray for a bracha for our marriage

Look at parshas shelach where it says that calrev went to Hebron, Rashi says so he could daven at the kever of the avos. There is nothing wrong with praying at the kever of a tzaddik.

whats the difference between jews and muslims? im just asking, im not implying anything.

These customs have been practiced by Jews for millenia.

and it really shocks the reader of how real the Messiah is, and how His real Character is, you give Him your ashes He gives you beauty, He gives you the oil of Joy instead of mounring, He gives you the garment of praise instead of a heavy, burdened and failing spirit. you will be absolutely shocked when you read and see the arm of the Lord, the salvation of God Yeshua