ocd and me bbc iplayer

Documentary showing the way a mother and daughter cope with their OCD.

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  • @sassiq3637
    @sassiq36376 жыл бұрын

    I feel for Tuesday and her mother. They seem like wonderful, caring people. I hope they can control there OCD more.

  • @IamaproudChristian22

    @IamaproudChristian22

    9 ай бұрын

    Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

  • @elisa7881

    @elisa7881

    2 ай бұрын

    Unless Jesus is a qualified psychologist...@@IamaproudChristian22

  • @braxfan683
    @braxfan6834 жыл бұрын

    I love Lesley + Tuesday. Lesley's comical, loved her on Compulsive cleaners. I hope they have treatment.They're both v. bright, and would be great people to go out and interact 💛💛

  • @rainbowlady1532
    @rainbowlady15322 жыл бұрын

    I'm not going to lie at first I found Leslie and Tuesday annoying, but the more you watch them they're very charismatic intelligent and sweet. I feel really sorry for them both.

  • @IamaproudChristian22

    @IamaproudChristian22

    9 ай бұрын

    Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

  • @david18ireland
    @david18ireland11 ай бұрын

    That bloke hit the nail on the head. I used to think that CBT was patronising BS but then it came to me that every "mental health professional" ive ever seen for CBT just didnt have a clue

  • @IamaproudChristian22

    @IamaproudChristian22

    9 ай бұрын

    Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

  • @steve-gv7yn

    @steve-gv7yn

    3 ай бұрын

    A lot of healthcare professionals have just got basic skills They haven't a clue, especially with such a complex illness as OCD

  • @marteenee88

    @marteenee88

    Ай бұрын

    CBT?

  • @david18ireland

    @david18ireland

    Ай бұрын

    @@marteenee88 cognitive behaviour therapy

  • @Aurora-qn2dx
    @Aurora-qn2dx3 жыл бұрын

    I have had OCD for years and years ..my home Is a mess because i am stressed all the time and i have no Energy.. It drains me...not true that ocd Is about cleaning ..Its about that voice in your head telling you what to do and what not to do...it threats you all the time..it can even not let you clean...It can tell you " you are not allowed to clean that or you will die etc" it is a nightmare when awake...intrusive thoughts can pop into your mind all the time even when nothing really triggers It ..Its like a disk on replay. I hate It. I Hope these people get good treatment and recover.

  • @dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424

    @dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424

    Жыл бұрын

    So what's your type of ocd?

  • @marteenee88
    @marteenee883 жыл бұрын

    The mom and daughter were featured on compulsive cleaners it seemed comical then but very sad now

  • @romancorey6796

    @romancorey6796

    Ай бұрын

    The two said the show made their condition much worse and wrongly portrayed OCD

  • @marteenee88

    @marteenee88

    Ай бұрын

    @@romancorey6796 this show or OCD cleaners?

  • @romancorey6796

    @romancorey6796

    Ай бұрын

    @@marteenee88 OC cleaners

  • @marteenee88

    @marteenee88

    Ай бұрын

    @@romancorey6796 ya I can see that. The show did exposure therapy WITHOUT professionals present or aftercare. 😢 Plus, it kept focus on the "quirky" habit of constantly cleaning

  • @LMCSM
    @LMCSM2 жыл бұрын

    Lesley has made her daughter go through this by passing it on and raising her with this madness. She should have got proper help years ago. I feel so bad for her daughter 😢

  • @dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424

    @dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424

    Жыл бұрын

    You sound like a lunatic. Medication for OCD was only recently put in use.

  • @Richnik1
    @Richnik13 ай бұрын

    We need an update on these people

  • @justmadeit2
    @justmadeit220 күн бұрын

    Ocd takes many different forms including intrusive thoughts. It is truly a horrific condition that drives people in to serious depression

  • @medusa3050
    @medusa30503 жыл бұрын

    I grew up thinking I was the only one.... but its so common. I have some control over it now I'm older, meds help abit. But when I'm super anxious or stressed it comes back tenfold

  • @IamaproudChristian22

    @IamaproudChristian22

    9 ай бұрын

    Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

  • @Zlervo
    @Zlervo Жыл бұрын

    Honestly, I really feel sorry for Leslie and Tuesday. OCD really is a bully.

  • @IamaproudChristian22

    @IamaproudChristian22

    9 ай бұрын

    Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

  • @romancorey6796
    @romancorey67966 жыл бұрын

    I always knew this was a horrible condition, but it’s so much worse than I thought

  • @langleyhomestead7645
    @langleyhomestead76452 жыл бұрын

    I suffer from ocd. I know their pain😥

  • @RandomHippieCreations
    @RandomHippieCreations4 жыл бұрын

    I have OCD also.. my first thought about the whole drawer situation is burn it. Did OCD exist before we became stressed and burned out by life? Like say when we were hunter gatherers? I wonder 🤔 I always said I have embraced my OCD, everything other than the intrusive thoughts.. but now I’m drinking. I’ve never been a drinker..

  • @thamimahmed6108
    @thamimahmed6108 Жыл бұрын

    May almighty creator heal all of us mentally, physically etc .

  • @IamaproudChristian22

    @IamaproudChristian22

    9 ай бұрын

    Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

  • @jaymccarthy766
    @jaymccarthy7666 ай бұрын

    This is so heart-breaking :( there is a bit of asmr in this with the soft spoken voices

  • @susanburgess820
    @susanburgess8203 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir. Ocd sucks big time. I know only too well.😠😠😠

  • @susanemo9811
    @susanemo98113 жыл бұрын

    Yes he s correct it's a false saving mental health was cut back on years ago. I once applied gp gave me a card with email told 4 month wait . I was feeling so ill with depression. Not only that filling in a on line survey when your mind is all over the place is really hard. There over stretched and it's costing lives. Mental illness is very much misunderstood.

  • @chickenfeetfordinner5804
    @chickenfeetfordinner58043 жыл бұрын

    The meds are not working for mum or daughter obviously

  • @andreiandrei2989
    @andreiandrei2989 Жыл бұрын

    brave people, luv you

  • @Georgiaandfriends906
    @Georgiaandfriends906Ай бұрын

    tuesday and her mother sound like some one i could be frends with

  • @ryanevs
    @ryanevs2 жыл бұрын

    This woman comes into my work all the time, she would have a mare if she saw the state of the kitchen :/

  • @louis2033
    @louis20332 жыл бұрын

    Venlafaxine really helped my ocd

  • @bryanyeo1745
    @bryanyeo17456 ай бұрын

    It so sad to see them like that i did not it was that bad i fill so sorry for them😢

  • @AK-bk8rt
    @AK-bk8rtАй бұрын

    How do they eat?

  • @Zyxwvutsrqponmlkjih
    @Zyxwvutsrqponmlkjih3 ай бұрын

    I have the same ocd and severity of Tuesday and her mom and it really is torture

  • @DallasCityGurl
    @DallasCityGurl3 жыл бұрын

    I was wondering how leslie and Tuesday are coping with cleaning since Corona virus came around. Their OCD might protect then from acquiring the corona.

  • @markwilson8078

    @markwilson8078

    3 жыл бұрын

    but having ocd that bad is worse than the risk of contracting coronavirus.

  • @romancorey6796

    @romancorey6796

    3 жыл бұрын

    Apparently, they’ve gotten much worse. Tuesday is doing so badly she can’t even get outside at all. Her mother has to get out to collect their medication. Lesley too is doing worse.

  • @markwilson8078

    @markwilson8078

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@romancorey6796 that's a great shame, ERP therapy helps massively and is the best treatment however the two issues that as far as I can see that would really stop them from recovering is firstly that they live together (It's a tough one I know but personally having lived away from another person who also has ocd for a while it's not a good dynamic if recovery is a goal) and secondly lack of access to a decent therapist, It requires hard work and help from a professional. it's difficult but recovery is absolutely possible.

  • @reidecember5372

    @reidecember5372

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@romancorey6796 💔😥

  • @gurtek08
    @gurtek086 жыл бұрын

    So how do they get it on with their partner when they have OCD? Is it okay for them to touch their loved ones.

  • @msergio0293

    @msergio0293

    5 жыл бұрын

    I don't think they have any partners at all

  • @ellensugden5609

    @ellensugden5609

    5 жыл бұрын

    msergio0293 we don’t all abstain from sex, there are so many types of ocd and most don’t affect touching others

  • @susanmargaretwills6432

    @susanmargaretwills6432

    3 жыл бұрын

    ... but Tuesday's bed looks like it's seen some action

  • @sarahcooper6507
    @sarahcooper65072 ай бұрын

    Love Tuesday and her mum get them back on the tv

  • @zalexie
    @zalexie2 жыл бұрын

    Was this filmed after or before OCC?

  • @braxfan683

    @braxfan683

    2 жыл бұрын

    Before. I imagine coronavirus made it a million times worse

  • @Aurora-qn2dx

    @Aurora-qn2dx

    Жыл бұрын

    No after.. apparently the show made Lesley and Tuesday worse.

  • @susanburgess820
    @susanburgess8203 жыл бұрын

    I have stupid rituals too😠😠😠

  • @MorriganSlayde
    @MorriganSlayde3 жыл бұрын

    *looks awkwardly at sleeve-ordered closet it own room* :O HEY IT'S SUPER HANDY

  • @marystuart9503
    @marystuart95033 жыл бұрын

    Does the mother and daughter work?

  • @zalexie

    @zalexie

    2 жыл бұрын

    The daughter does

  • @heatherzoya5186
    @heatherzoya51863 жыл бұрын

    But if their ocd is that bad would they be drinking take away coffee 🤔

  • @janismackenzie5914

    @janismackenzie5914

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I think so, they dont sleep in their own beds, so probably dont cook or even make a cuppa cause it makes a mess in the house.

  • @julialander9192
    @julialander9192Ай бұрын

    It's seems to me as I watch this video people with ocd it looked Almost alot of seems like as if it's a boredom thing that why they keep doing it repeated over and over it's not like when u have depression it more like they don't know what to do with themselves sure there better things to do

  • @estherday2239
    @estherday22395 жыл бұрын

    I have OCD and have become alcohol dependant because of it.

  • @Treaks1981

    @Treaks1981

    5 жыл бұрын

    I know someone who is coping in this way. Seek professional help, alcohol is not the answer.

  • @sid221986able

    @sid221986able

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fluvoxamine meds helped me. Ask your doc about it. I have had severe ocd before and now I am functional.

  • @louis2033

    @louis2033

    2 жыл бұрын

    I used to abuse alcohol but now I take venlafaxine and it works better!

  • @windsurfing2023
    @windsurfing20235 жыл бұрын

    How does ocd start? What.s the trigger?

  • @CherieDeDieu

    @CherieDeDieu

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Scorness Correct. Most cases seem to be triggered by trauma connected with a need for control.

  • @cathryntaylor2478

    @cathryntaylor2478

    3 жыл бұрын

    Stress at college for me. I always did rituals but it got particularly bad when I was at college

  • @highflyerl23
    @highflyerl233 жыл бұрын

    Clearly the meds aren't working

  • @nathanblackadder8476
    @nathanblackadder84762 жыл бұрын

    Leslie you made your Daughter like this she has watched you as she was Growing up and now Copies your Actions

  • @matthewhalloran2069
    @matthewhalloran20693 жыл бұрын

    I never know Own from Coronaiton street had OCD

  • @melbournemade5784
    @melbournemade57843 жыл бұрын

    Where r the kitchen appliances? A microwave?

  • @joyskiies9709

    @joyskiies9709

    4 ай бұрын

    I was thinking that maybe they don’t eat

  • @leah-michelle5872
    @leah-michelle58722 ай бұрын

    I pray in Jesus's name for the complete healing of these people. Claim it.

  • @jamesthompson8486
    @jamesthompson8486 Жыл бұрын

    I know the OCD isn't a rational thing, but is the reason Lesley is avoiding germs so much because she fears for her life? She doesn't have a life. I'd rather get ill and end up in the hospital than exist like this. It's surely fear of the unknown, she'd probably even feel some relief if something like this happened as it would force her into seeing things clearly. Unfortunately she can't possibly realise it as she is now. She thinks she's playing it safe, but the real horror is living the way she is, trying to keep an illusory control. Everything is temporary and it's more about coming to an acceptance of that rather than clinging tightly to what slips through our fingers regardless.

  • @kellymurphy6667

    @kellymurphy6667

    2 ай бұрын

    She's probably most fearful of becoming sick and then passing it on to her daughter I imagine.

  • @elliemaszuchin6267
    @elliemaszuchin62672 жыл бұрын

    One thing I don't understand about the daughter - her phobia of germs is worse than her mother, but why does she wear earrings and piercings? It's a well-known fact that earrings and piercings harbour bacteria and can cause infections, so how would she have found the courage to get them done in the first place? Having them done doesn't fit in with her phobia.

  • @wahine7556

    @wahine7556

    2 жыл бұрын

    OCD isn't rational

  • @elliemaszuchin6267

    @elliemaszuchin6267

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@wahine7556 I know, and I would have thought that any OCD relating to bacteria would make you too scared to wear products known for harbouring bacteria. I would not expect her to wear any makeup or jewellery if she's really so scared of bacteria.

  • @dawncawthra3519
    @dawncawthra3519 Жыл бұрын

    This is terribly sad. Why hadn't anyone suggested mindfulness or meditation?

  • @sarahcooper6507
    @sarahcooper65076 ай бұрын

    Get them back on the telly again Tuesday and her mother are so entertaining

  • @matthewhalloran2069
    @matthewhalloran20693 жыл бұрын

    I cread to fu::: think What They are both like now. With coved 19 about

  • @gurtek08
    @gurtek086 жыл бұрын

    Who names their kid Tuesday. Why not Sunday or Monday. Saturday and Friday sounds pretty good.

  • @braxfan683

    @braxfan683

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙈

  • @tuesdayturner9230

    @tuesdayturner9230

    4 жыл бұрын

    My mother couldn't spell Saturday sweetheart

  • @braxfan683

    @braxfan683

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@tuesdayturner9230 Good for you 🌻

  • @eskiemax5133

    @eskiemax5133

    3 жыл бұрын

    I saw the BBC update on how Tuesday and Lesley are coping with the virus. I could have cried over Lesley having to take meds to Tuesday daily. They are in my prayers!

  • @CherieDeDieu

    @CherieDeDieu

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have a guy friend called Sunday so....it's not weird to have days of the week as names any more.

  • @gravity7208
    @gravity7208 Жыл бұрын

    it may help in ocd dod what u want to do and sometimes accept u cant do it, or keep the house and outside seperate like different clothes shoes, get a shower after coming back home, things like that. Also the guy who thinks about his luck should know luck is not in your hand and bad things will happen but i can know hoow frighting it can be a thought of loosing someone.

  • @susanmargaretwills6432
    @susanmargaretwills64323 жыл бұрын

    I wonder if OCD is present in like 3rd World countries?

  • @susanemo9811

    @susanemo9811

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes it is seen video s

  • @lindelwamthalane1048

    @lindelwamthalane1048

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeap it is. The one time this lady could not touch ketchup in a restaurant, not even door. Remember it might be third world but people wont be necessarily all dirty

  • @susanmargaretwills6432

    @susanmargaretwills6432

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lindelwamthalane1048 I'm not suggesting that people in 3rd World are dirty - OCD is an illness and tapping your fingers or checking door locks has nothing to do with being clean

  • @Kubulek17

    @Kubulek17

    2 жыл бұрын

    OCD presents itself in hoarding too, or rituals

  • @Kubulek17

    @Kubulek17

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@leahwangui5029 because their ocd has different triggers ? Different environments warrant different types of OCD

  • @hacerecirli5911
    @hacerecirli59113 жыл бұрын

    Terminatör

  • @matthewhalloran2069
    @matthewhalloran20693 жыл бұрын

    I mean if she can't even touch money What dose That tell you. They have someone who dose the shopping for Them she doesn't even like touching the Zebra crossing button. Is just On B Joke

  • @wahine7556

    @wahine7556

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're the reason people don't get help

  • @Kimberly-cn8ro
    @Kimberly-cn8ro Жыл бұрын

    They gave their kid up because she had OCD they need to read the Bible and start praying

  • @matthewhalloran2069
    @matthewhalloran20693 жыл бұрын

    There was no need for her to say. Can't wait for you to go she needs to calm down and let visitors in Her house

  • @dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424

    @dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424

    Жыл бұрын

    She's sick dummy

  • @matthewhalloran2069
    @matthewhalloran20693 жыл бұрын

    There's two are so mad

  • @DallasCityGurl
    @DallasCityGurl5 жыл бұрын

    They gentleman says you only get 6 therapy lessons on NHS....WELL if you really want help, pay for treatment yourself. Work and use the money for treatment.

  • @ellensugden5609

    @ellensugden5609

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amie that’s ridiculous, I had private therapy for my OCD and it cost almost a grand, that’s not affordable for most people. If somebody had cancer you wouldn’t tell them to pay for chemo themselves

  • @DallasCityGurl

    @DallasCityGurl

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@ellensugden5609 A thousand is affordable to most in the western world.

  • @ellensugden5609

    @ellensugden5609

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amie it’s the principle, if they pay taxes they should be able to get all the treatment they need on the NHS. You wait months to get to the top of the waiting list, have you six session which aren’t enough to change much, then you’re back at the bottom and your recovery goes backwards. We should be treated the same as those with physical medical conditions

  • @DallasCityGurl

    @DallasCityGurl

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@ellensugden5609 WE don't live in a perfect world. Never will :)

  • @ellensugden5609

    @ellensugden5609

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amie well maybe WE should be trying bloody harder and giving more funding to our NHS not trying to privatise it like the conservatives are. If we end up like America, mental health treatment won’t be the only sector suffering.

  • @julialander9192
    @julialander9192Ай бұрын

    They should have taken Leslie daugther into Foster care look what damage it doing to her daugther her mother should have got help years ago something deeper going on and not related to ocd

  • @julialander9192
    @julialander9192Ай бұрын

    She should have gone to mental hospital that no way near normal behaviour not how much they were spending cleaning like if she had voice in her head telling her to clean also she look paranoid her mother just by talking I wonder if she had schizophernia too