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Objectification in the Dating World : Women Speak Out (The Desirable Truth EP 21)

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  • @painexotic3757
    @painexotic3757 Жыл бұрын

    women will complain about being objectified yet openly say how they only want tall goodlooking men who're packing down there.. Cant take this seriously lol.

  • @RedK-uo3fo

    @RedK-uo3fo

    Жыл бұрын

    Heaven forbid. When we’re taught from birth that it’s ok for men to do that to us and we try to do the same, we’re the bad guys?

  • @painexotic3757

    @painexotic3757

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RedK-uo3fo you're always the victim. No accountability. Another reason I can't take you seriously.

  • @RedK-uo3fo

    @RedK-uo3fo

    Жыл бұрын

    @@painexotic3757 who says we don’t take accountability? You. No wonder you’re bitter and probably alone.

  • @MaxPayneInTheAss

    @MaxPayneInTheAss

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RedK-uo3fo SIGN Language. Stay mad. Not our fault you got dug out by the Ahole.

  • @Nikstar112

    @Nikstar112

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RedK-uo3fo you have to be a troll, name one woman who has been accountable for bad decisions/actions

  • @ThenameisOskar
    @ThenameisOskar Жыл бұрын

    Bear in mind guys. Women think and say different things.

  • @RedK-uo3fo

    @RedK-uo3fo

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh you can read minds can you?

  • @denisvelin1445

    @denisvelin1445

    Жыл бұрын

    And act a third way

  • @parmendariez

    @parmendariez

    Жыл бұрын

    Some

  • @4SChris

    @4SChris

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RedK-uo3fo But this is true ! Women say they want nice guys (beta male providers) but they cannot resist the power of Chads ! :-D

  • @jimhooligan3263

    @jimhooligan3263

    Жыл бұрын

    They also react to different things. "I like sensitive men" but likes the guy that is not sensitive.

  • @tonyruiz5414
    @tonyruiz5414 Жыл бұрын

    live by the golden rule "treat others the way you want to be treated". learned this in pre-school and have stuck to it my whole life

  • @Agislife1960

    @Agislife1960

    Жыл бұрын

    Doesn't work with hot girls, which is why they only screw bad boys who treat them badly

  • @bobbanks6217

    @bobbanks6217

    6 ай бұрын

    That's why whenever i see an attractive girl i ask her if she'd like to have sex😅

  • @QUNYC7
    @QUNYC7 Жыл бұрын

    Accountability is a woman's kryptonite!🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @mrconfusion87
    @mrconfusion875 ай бұрын

    We know the REAL rules of the game Gentlemen - "If she finds you hot, it is flirting! If she finds you ugly, it is harassment!" NOTHING MORE, NOTHING LESS! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @frang2023
    @frang2023 Жыл бұрын

    9:04 9:31 *Zero accountability. throws the responsability on men and making girls the victims.* A real woman empowerment would be like: "F* what men want us to do. We will gonna stop the objectificacion by not doing onlyfans, dressing provocatively, posting photos in bikini on instagram, being sexualized in the media, etc"

  • @nocando17

    @nocando17

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m not an incel but I just don’t see how most men date women when they are just walking hypocrites that can’t take accountability. It’s so unattractive. Just pretend as if they don’t exist and you’ll see them go insane

  • @rodrigosmith24
    @rodrigosmith24 Жыл бұрын

    Never heard so much BS in my life. It’s always someone else’s fault.

  • @MrNanah38
    @MrNanah389 ай бұрын

    Back in my days, buying a woman a drink was a part of courtship, today its a sign of weakness. What a society we live in today.

  • @relaphe3271

    @relaphe3271

    8 ай бұрын

    Lol. It's not, you just dont HAVE to do it. It is better now.

  • @BRad-mu6qr

    @BRad-mu6qr

    8 ай бұрын

    I can relate to my girl thinks I spend money just to try to impress her and she brings it up in a argument

  • @joemama69448
    @joemama6944811 ай бұрын

    WAP is female empowerment 😂😂😂 lmfao

  • @skyhawk2311

    @skyhawk2311

    2 ай бұрын

    I literally busted out laughing and was shaking my head at the same time

  • @immikemx
    @immikemx Жыл бұрын

    Come on, the ones who complain about objectifying women and the ones objectifying themselves and taking advantage of their attractive looks are not the same. Many who complain about objectifying women would not complain if they were that hot and if they were taking advantage of it and benefiting from it.

  • @Carlos-gm8rq
    @Carlos-gm8rq Жыл бұрын

    I started chuckling at 10:45 saying "but its a small number of women" a small number of men commit school shootings the whole line of reasoning made no sense

  • @skyhawk2311

    @skyhawk2311

    2 ай бұрын

    Not a damn thing she said in the entire segment made sense

  • @ouroboricscribe3201
    @ouroboricscribe320111 ай бұрын

    4:42 Teach your daughter- I mean your son" Translation: Let women be accountability free and drop that responsibility on someone else's shoulders. "raise them with a good view on women" Translation: Raise them as simps so I can continue living life on easy difficulty with foodie calls and free gifts. Newsflash, no matter how you raise a person, the moment they make contact with the real deal and discover that all they know about them is lies and propaganda, your chances to keep up the façade drop to zero. There is no way a man is wasting his time on a woman that does not understand she is responsible for herself and especially on one that does not respect herself and/or others. Low self-esteem women trying to shame men into not having standards and preferences in the dating market are toxic and deserve no attention from the men they regularly ridicule and ignore when indiscriminately throwing themselves at Chad and Tyrone with free, no effort ussy, because that is how you start a committed relationship built to last, right ladies?

  • @mmoore8429
    @mmoore84299 ай бұрын

    Show that you have more to offer than just your body and you won’t have anything to worry about

  • @d.l4055
    @d.l40556 ай бұрын

    Someone who complains about society while doing the same things used to be termed a "Hypocrite". Society isn't crumbling, the language infrastructure that used to define everything with specificity is.

  • @imitatorofJesusChrist
    @imitatorofJesusChrist Жыл бұрын

    A bunch of walking contradiction right before your eyes

  • @kingmo565
    @kingmo5652 ай бұрын

    Women speak based on how they're emotionally feeling at a given time.

  • @cascade3304
    @cascade3304 Жыл бұрын

    11:46 she is 100% right about this and it is a major problem with society

  • @NimrodTheMaidenless

    @NimrodTheMaidenless

    Жыл бұрын

    nah, sure dudes must be teached at a young age how to take rejection, but it's not other men's job to white knight if a girl can't say no

  • @cascade3304

    @cascade3304

    Жыл бұрын

    @@NimrodTheMaidenless that has nothing to do with what she said…

  • @pancakerepairman

    @pancakerepairman

    Жыл бұрын

    guys being "gross" is a major problem with society? whatever that means. i wonder if the reason she wants to leave what she's complaining about so ambiguous is because "gross" is a sliding scale based on how attractive or unattractive the guy is.

  • @QUNYC7

    @QUNYC7

    Жыл бұрын

    Women are the teacher of culture. It's been proven factually the men are better at parenting.

  • @mikeprice8307

    @mikeprice8307

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@cascade3304it has everything to do with what she said😅

  • @AcerbicOrder
    @AcerbicOrder Жыл бұрын

    Dude in the blue shirt is naïve or just slow of course most people don't ask how much money you make out right...they ask what you do or where you work then make judgements about money/salary or status based off that

  • @RedK-uo3fo

    @RedK-uo3fo

    Жыл бұрын

    Man in the blue shirt would get it. You wouldn’t.

  • @cascade3304

    @cascade3304

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RedK-uo3fo agreed

  • @pancakerepairman

    @pancakerepairman

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RedK-uo3fo would get what?

  • @Kensane12
    @Kensane12 Жыл бұрын

    A shot for every time you hear the word like.

  • @NightRidah777
    @NightRidah77711 ай бұрын

    I for one welcome AI replacing us

  • @nucle4rpenguins534

    @nucle4rpenguins534

    Ай бұрын

    It’s an interesting problem, I think this is an issue that the so called ‘collective subconscious’ of society is recognizing: Humans are not able to meet the demands we set for ourselves. Perhaps we can make something that can do the job ?

  • @gregorylagrange
    @gregorylagrange Жыл бұрын

    Maybe he's intended on just letting the women speak, but his missing some key moments to question them on a lot of the things they say. Like the onlyfans question. When she responded to onlyfans reinforcing objectification with women are forced to do it, that was a perfect time to ask her how are they forced to do it and why can't they just get a job? Also about pressure to conform to beauty standards in order to be desirable, he should ask the women about all the things men need to have in order for women to see them as desirable. And he could've asked the men who said that they don't conform, do they ever shave or choose what they wear based on the event or if it's not considered dressed up enough.

  • @skyhawk2311

    @skyhawk2311

    2 ай бұрын

    There was PLENTY of things he could have challenged them on. Pretty sure they would have just deflected

  • @JB-kx9bx
    @JB-kx9bx11 ай бұрын

    I'll take being invisible over unwanted attention anyday.

  • @edwintapia9245
    @edwintapia924510 ай бұрын

    The difference between wombmen and transgenders or transsexuals or ladyboy as pornagraphy states.Q AND A BEWARE OF WHO YOU DATE MAKE SURE THEIR HONEST WITH, HONESTY COMES FIRST. BE HONEST WITH YOUR SELF.

  • @Jay-ef2ii
    @Jay-ef2ii Жыл бұрын

    Parents need to do a better job raising their kids. January 2, 2023. USA.

  • @m3m3god
    @m3m3god Жыл бұрын

    I don't know if it's possible to not objectify women. Men are visual people, they approach or swipe right based on looks. I mean everyone objectifies everyone, it depends on if you respect them regardless of what you see.

  • @Julia36D

    @Julia36D

    6 ай бұрын

    Women also go on looks first. I actually think the objectification of women stems from women. Men usually don’t expect women to look a certain way unless they’re addicted to corn. They also don’t expect women to have no blemishes or flaws, that’s something women peddle to other women.

  • @ernestooswaldohoffmanndeol4999
    @ernestooswaldohoffmanndeol4999 Жыл бұрын

    i wouid say that Mens like woman because they are beautiful, and they feel atractated to them. Whem a men dont see a woman atractive they will treat that woman as a men, them the woman lose valor and will be mad. So in the end woman are humans but the male see valor in them because they are prety, other wise they will be just another human.

  • @oneschance
    @oneschance11 ай бұрын

    Yet all of these women gladly comply with these standards.

  • @MILABRRA
    @MILABRRA3 ай бұрын

    10:08 THEY'RE VERY LOGICAL xD

  • @yvs6663
    @yvs666310 ай бұрын

    "men expect x, y and z from simply buying you a drink" well yeah, it used to be code for "do you like me enough to potentially want to get to know me". i feel like its a polite thing to at least talk to a person if they offered to buy you a drink. otherwise, have the freaking integrity to just say no. like seriously, women will pick a drink thats probably as expensive as the guys last meal and than be confused with the fact that he wants to at least get a conversation out of it. clubs are making a living of of women like that, you know. also, if a guy wants a one night stand and approaches a woman to see if she also wants it, the moment she decides the answer is no, he is objectifying her. if a woman wants a one night stand, its her porogative and how dare we judge her for it. even if the guy she wanted it with doesn't want it and she is way too intrusive in trying to get it after he already verbally expressed that, very few people will say she is in the wrong. heck, they might even go after him on her behalf.

  • @InfamousLib
    @InfamousLib Жыл бұрын

    it was honestly crazy to listen to a woman say false rape accusations just happen, almost with no concern on the topic. but if a woman where to be raped, it’s all of a sudden the end of the world. both factions should be treated with the same amount of care.

  • @relaphe3271

    @relaphe3271

    8 ай бұрын

    You didn't understand dude

  • @Chris2jz
    @Chris2jz Жыл бұрын

    These girls crying about gym people looking at them yet post a public thong selfie 😂 make it make sense

  • @Sorrowblast
    @Sorrowblast Жыл бұрын

    No.

  • @GaIvatr0n
    @GaIvatr0n Жыл бұрын

    15:05 who is she? she looks familiar

  • @Outhere.Podcast
    @Outhere.Podcast10 ай бұрын

    Just let a women talk and they’ll tell on themselves.

  • @thepillflash1298
    @thepillflash129811 ай бұрын

    Treat them like a person complement them what meaning if he's handsome it's okey but if he's ugly he is a creep you dressed naked wanting attention u don't respect yourself how u expect the streets will

  • @lorenzobordeaux8604
    @lorenzobordeaux86043 ай бұрын

    Why does everyone say like after every word now?

  • @danielmarquis5258
    @danielmarquis5258 Жыл бұрын

    I wish I learned EARLIER in my life not to put women on a pedestal. A lot of men I grew up with in the 90's did this and I (unfortunately) thought it was ok. Never buy gifts for women or compliment them on their looks. Don't be a simp.

  • @lmnts556

    @lmnts556

    9 ай бұрын

    This is key in the relationship as well. It keeps them wanting more.

  • @johncuadrums
    @johncuadrums Жыл бұрын

    Not to play the preference game (even tho I totally am by posting this) but this lady 2:22 is totally someone I'd be into when it comes to outward appearance. I love when a woman is tall and not a total stick. There's nothing wrong being short and a stick, but there's something about looking upward to see a lady whom also possesses curves that's one of my favorite things!

  • @Chris2jz
    @Chris2jz Жыл бұрын

    3:24 slap yourself

  • @Chris2jz
    @Chris2jz Жыл бұрын

    Buy your own drink

  • @timothymanigault1551
    @timothymanigault155111 ай бұрын

    This is y relationships be doomed cause u have this bias sisterhood that couldn't tell the truth if if shot them it's crazy

  • @NeighborTom
    @NeighborTom11 ай бұрын

    Lol. There is no such thing as objectification. It’s a made up word like Ghost. Feminism use the fake concept to attack men.

  • @annzo23
    @annzo239 ай бұрын

    Like, like, like - why can’t people speak properly

  • @duanewoodson9804
    @duanewoodson98043 ай бұрын

    Wow modern day simps. Where are the men like Abraham and King David and Moses and Lot?

  • @MrNanah38
    @MrNanah389 ай бұрын

    Cry me a F ing River.

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