Don’t try to fit in where you don’t belong and pretend to be someone you’re not. Hope you learned a good lesson and glad your husband was understanding.

The problem is you're a follower. You can easily be pursued to do what others do without saying NO, or giving a second thought if it's a need or want. You're a grown woman...nobody can make you do something you don’t want to, or saying NO to your so-called fake friends. In life, you need to be strong and make smart choices that fit your lifestyle and budget.

This one should be titled, "Nrog Pawg Tsab Muaj, thiaj pluag li lawv." LOL 😅😂

Lol. I rather have 4k in my purse than a 4k purse with only 100 in it. Wrong type of friends for you. Stay in your boundaries sister.

Lol 😂! Can’t believe this lady compared GOLD to expensive purses. Purse devalued while gold increases in value 🤦🏻‍♀️. I’ll settle for gold in that case.

Peer pressure is problem. Don’t try to be someone you are not eventhough some people are just showing off and aren’t as rich as they made themselves appeared to be.

My rich friends don't disrespect me like that. They are very mindful and dont mind doing low-cost activities because they just want to be with me and my husband. It's not a competition. Even if you're middle class, you can still be a valuable friend to someone. You should look for friends who don't put money first.

I can never relate to those who thinks a purse is beauty and makes you happy.

Pluag tsab muaj mas txom nyem siab kawg ov "Tawm rooj plaws ces siv nyiaj li neeg nplua nuj, rov los txog tsev ces mam los ua dev nqov ntuj"

Live your life the way you want to live, not what others tell you to live…😩!

Rich people don't show off because they know they're rich and they don't feel the need to prove to others. There are many millionaires living next door to us that you never know unless you're very close to them.

Good lesson to learn. 😅😅😅

You don't need people like these they aren't real friends. Purses and diamonds are worthless.🤦‍♂️

People don't understand the meaning behind loving one self. It's not spending 100s and thousands of money on one self, the correct meaning of loving one self is taking care of your health.

I like having fun with my friends but we spend within our means, not try to show off with what we don’t have. Loving yourself doesn’t mean stressed yourself with money you don’t have. You’re lucky your husband is understanding.

😮😮vuaggggg! Niam doctor es cAs lub ring 4k es yog $12 thousands xwb ntag? 4 k is over 30-40 thousands sav! Niam doctor must be wearing a fake diamond😂😂😂😂ring🙄

Nyoo zaum no lawm os me niam tsev.

These people are not rich they are just dumb trying to be rich. Nobody going to know how much your stuff cost unless you wear it with the price tag.

Koj ua phooj ywg yuam kev lawm lau

It's a good thing you learned your lesson early on. You have such a loving husband that understands and didn't make a big deal about it.

Unless these ladies can pay off the whole credit card bill when it arrives, they are not rich and are just living a fake "rich" life. IMO, living above your means is the stupidest thing a person can do when it comes to making financial decisions.

What? You call swiping the credit card and being in debts loving yourself? That sounds like torture to me! Also, unless those Niam doctor have double doctor incomes or booming businesses, I don’t believe they are that wealthy. It’s just show boating!

Cov neeg tsis muaj hlwb thiaj xav mus ua phooj ywg nrog rau cov neeg muaj nyiaj xwb os mog, yog yus muaj hlwb xav yus txawj xav txog yus yus lub neej yus yeej tsis xav mus phooj ywg nrog lawv li os

Peb ua neeg nyob don’t compare your life to others. Appreciate the things you have in life. Txhob ntshaw2 luag lwm tus lib neej os. Koj pom dej dag lawm es thiaj answer koj txoj kev xav tias lawv ua li cas lawv thiaj muaj los zoo li ntawd.

Kuv li mas Kuv nco nco Kuv tus txiv tsev yus yuav nrog tsi tau leej twg mus li kws ob peb hnub li nawb.

you dont need friends...just a few is good...be wise who u choose as friend...paub neeg tsis paub siab...friends eat los friend die...

You have an understanding husband who will help you pay your debt. Don’t hang with those girls who spends too much money.

Me I don’t have I don’t have I’m not trying to fit in with those want to rich B…

Koj tsis pluab nuj koj txhob nrog pab no. Koj nrog ntau ces koj lub neej kawg nyob tom qab choj. Lawv yog cov neeg muaj ces 1k zoo li 1 penny xwb. Koj yuav tsum nrog cov neeg muaj li koj xwb koj thiaj nyob taus.

When she paid for the foods reminds me of my cousins & friends tag along with me to my sisters place for 4 hours and gas was low and I was worried & they don’t even bugged & when she worried bout paying for foods!! I don’t want to be superficial & also; materialistic things don’t make me happy! I’m happy without things; it’s the good people who make me smile & being healthy is all I want! But, try being a Sigma Female ladies!

Lub purse Kim Kim yus nqa xwb tsis tas khwv nyiaj púas txawj los nkag hauv mas

True friends don’t tell you it must be expensive and brand name….

Why are you pretending and wanting something that is beyond you and not for you. Stay true to yourself, and you'll be much happier. Truth always have a way of coming out. Real friends do not need to hide. There is no jealousy or envious nor backstabber or shallowness and diffinately no shaming.

Very good

I’ve never lived to impress anyone. Even if I was rich, I wouldn’t care about fancy things.

This is why I don't have many friends. I can't afford to buy a new dress for a party every weekend

I've been with expensive friends and people...and honestly expensive foods don't mean the foods tastes good. I prefer buffets lol getting my money's worth. My life was happier when I stayed within my means...I've become such a hoarder after I start hanging out with my expensive friend even if she is broke her man spoils her. I can't keep up anymore but I realized that those things don't make me fulfilled it just fills my space and drain all my savings! I rather save up for a nice vacation.

Nws tsis yog niam Doctor os....nws yog Doctor tu poj niam xwb

Yog kawg yus nyob level li cas ces mus sem ntawv xwb! Mus li ko thiaj kawm tau mas pom cuag tsis cuag ua thiab raug dua os😊

Get in where you fit in

Don’t sell yourself to people who don’t care about you, but only about whether you can spend money recklessly. These are not friends. No matter what “level” friends don’t pressure friends in this way.

Friends Do Come with a Cost..

Nrog cov neeg xob txhiaj ces yuav ua neeg xob txhiaj. Mus ib zaug li no lo ces tau ib tug dab xob txhiaj yuav siv nyiaj loj loj lawm os.

Unless you have a successful business, one cannot spend like that and expect to be okay. I’m sure they are just living off of credit cards and drowning in debt too.

True friends understand your situation and don’t pressure you into buying something you can’t afford. My wife and I make pretty good money. Our $4000 trips was too much already.

Qhov twg zoo ces yog yus qhov twg phem ces muab xyeeb rau luag xwb pob

Kuv los thaum ub yeej muaj ib co phooj ywg zoo li no thiab lawv muaj ATV los kuv tsis muaj. Lawv tseem hais lus fab fab kuv thiab. Txog thaum kawg kuv tseem nyob kuv tus yees kuv tsis quav ntsej lawv. Kuv nyob thiab shiv raws kuv muaj xwb. Kuv tsis cia cov phooj ywg zoo li no ntxuav kuv lub hlwb.

That’s what happens when u try too hard to fit in…

Kuv tus tub uas hauj lwm rau Airline kuv tau zaum 1st class many times los twb tsis zoo luaj twg.

😂😂😂, yus yog neeg normal xwb es ho xav nrog cov neeg nplua nuj ces kawg kob huam. Nyaj yuav kawm tau lawv cov tswv yim lawm lau.

Mloog cov no ces npab vwm xwb nkim sij hawm mloog ,

Pab pawg no khav theeb tas2

Neeg muaj tsis spend money loj cuag ntawv os

I would’ve told them wannabe “high class” I got emergency back home and leave in the middle of the dinner. Lol Glad I don’t care about fiends that think they’re “Rich” I rather be alone and make decisions without feeling like I must do their way.

That’s what happens to followers not a leader in your own sit.

Poj ruam aws, you're lucky your husband didn't divorce your pluag tsab muaj assss!

Wow...😂😂😂..this lady is a follower....you need to make your own choices...think for yourself....don't follow people...

Koj cov phoojywg ko ces tib cov tsab muaj xwb tej ko tsis muaj qab hau dabtsi ib hnub twg ces koj pom kawg mus thov mov tom church xwb os yeej muaj ib cov neeg coj li ko twb nrog lawm ib tamada thisb ntsab muaj tsis txawv qhov twg li 😆 😅😊😮😮

I went to Ramsy restaurant. The chicken was so dried. It's not worth the money. I prefer Sam's club chicken. Unless rich people eat dried chicken.

This is why I don’t need friends.

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You're not belong to the crazy lady group. The $6k purse, what are you gonna put in there? You already used all the money and you have nothing to put it inside.

Get in where you fit in. 😂

Txawm li ko es Kuv thiaj li mus vacation nrog Kuv tus txiv xwb. Siv Kuv tej nyiaj nrog yus tus txij tus nkawm xwb, vim ob leeg sib2 zog khwv rau lub neej

Zoo siab tias kuv tsis muaj cov phooj ywg tsab muaj nyiaj thiab thiab haus dej haus cawv kuv tus txiv tsev neeg tsis nyiam haus dej haus cawv

You’re a follower! Don’t let your friend tell you what to do lol …don’t go broke because you want to fit in! They aren’t your friends!

This is what's called "middle class fancy" also known as "broke".

The Title of this story sure BE “Fake it till you make it “!!!

Remember some are acting rich but broke. Some look broke but rich. These women are wanting to look rich.

Dang $10k in Vegas??!! That’s a trip around the world, please learn from this mistake!

If they were your real friends they would not force you into buying things you can’t afford. Don’t try to act you’re rich when you are not.

Cov ko lam coj koj mus thuam xwb os. Lawv tias ntseg muag no tseem xav tias nws phim peb thiab coj mus rhuav 😅😅😅 fyi....kuv tus sister yog ib tug niam Dr kuaj mob tiag tiag tab sis nws tsis need purse 5/6/7 txhiab os. Cov kos yog khav theeb xwb os.

You never satisfied with yourself and wanted to be long to someone not smart but of spending more money, carry brand names purses, peers pressure that doesn’t mean they’re worth more than anyone! Who cared about their status, they just another human being like you! Just be happy and glad that you have everything you’re needed!

Pab ko yog pab ruam xwb

These people are not your friends... you should stop people pleasing...

Mus Vegas mas ua zoo saib nawb. Muaj ntau hom khooj room hod. Cov qab, qaub, liab, ntsuab, xiav, loj, me, ntev los muaj tib si. Saj tau tsis rov los.

I'm pretty sure they have plenty of financial issues, too. Financially secured people are reserved in their outward appearance.

Couldn’t you return those expensive purses back.

The problem is not them. The problem is you because you tried too hard to fit in and you're not smart. Wealthy and rich people doesnt care about brand. Those are not your friends...they're pushover people! Friends wouldnt put you in a difficult spot. Ntshe lawv lam hais tias lawv muaj nyiaj thiab yuav tej niag kim kim tiamsis nyob nuj nqi charge credit card tas li xwb pob. 😅😅😅 ntshe lawv twb tsis muaj nyiaj ib yam li koj thiab...tsuas yog lam ua khw khw xwb os.

Li no es.. kuv thiaj ua siab tsis nrhiav phooj ywg😅😅

Hub..! Niam yuav yog koj nqa lub kabpaus muaj npe es koj cia li zoo nkauj os , koj cov niag phoojywg no ces yog tib pab niaj muajplhus kavtheeb xwb neeg tsis Zoo nkauj ces tseev koj nqa li koj yeej tsis zoo nkauj os tibpab niag poj hmoob npannok tuaj txog america teb muaj chaw khwv tau nyiaj ces tsab ntse xwb .

Yog lwm tus ces muaj koj nrauj vim Koj ruam kav theeb thiab liam dhau lawm.

Koj pheej xav kom haib2 ne, sister don't try to fit where you don't belong.

No, the problem is not that neb nyiam nyiam kwvtij neej tsa thiab phoojywg. You like fun. You confused yourself with liking fun and liking family members and friends. Family and friends are obligations and responsibility. Joining certain selected groups for pleasure and fun are false sense of showing off.

Yes fake story rich people don't want to hang around poor people so why is she with them. If not family they don't want to have anything to do with u

Tsis yog "ev"lub purse. Yog "nqa" purse los yog "khuam" purse. "Ev" mas yog "ev" me nyuam, ev lub kawm , ev dej, ev taws, ev backpack,, etc "EV" mas hais rau tej yam uas yus ev nraum nrob qaum. Purse mas peb tsis muab ev rau nraum nrob qaum. Peb nqa ntawm tes los yog khuam ntawm ib swb pwg xwb. Ev tsis thwj lawm . Yog sia daim "Apron.". Tsis yog ev daim Apron. Ev tsis thwj lawm. Tsis muaj neeg muab daim Apron ev rau nraum nrob qaum na. Sia ib yam li sia sev ntawm yus lub xub ntia.

First of all, don't believe that all your friends are rich. They are broke ass and high debts. Rich people don't show off.

😅😅ua tuab zoo tsaam dlub muab koj peg txeeb koj lub nyuas $6k purse ntawm koj ov.

I won't be able to stay friends to these kinds of "friends". They're too high maintenance and conceited. My blunt self might end up creating enemies instead.

Which credit card company will give you $20k credit? I am intrigued and wondering what income brackets these Hmong folks are in to qualified!! 😂

So sad this lady let others tell her what to do. She must not love herself and respect herself.

Rich people don't flaunt their money around. The lady must be thousands of dollars in debt, trying to look rich. You're hanging with the wrong crowd lady. I'd rather spend all that money on my kids and hubby on a vacation in the Bahamas.

Why try to be someone you not fit in...it better to be alone than be with a friend who try to make you broke especially they pressure you to pay for item that you can't even afford..

This group is too much. Live the way you can afford only. Why do people get influenced so easily?! It’s your money, you have a brain use it!

Im from a rich family and we would only spend the most up to $500 per meal per entire family at vegas. Average like $100-$150. We also dont fly business class but economy to vegas.

These people are usually on credit cards only.

Real friends do not force friends to pay full bill and buy things they cannot afford. These women are not rich, fake rich is not rich. Real rich people do not behave like this, as a matter of fact real rich people act poor!!!

Too desperate for friendship.

Call the Dave Ramsey show. 😂 This woman: “Dave, I wrecked up $10k credit card debt and I only make $30k/year.” Dave: 🤦‍♀️”get a second job delivering pizzas and eat beans and rice for a year.”

10 stacks gets me 2 wife 😅