Idk why but I laughed when she said “I don’t even know why they exist sometimes.”

@lauraheim8381

3 жыл бұрын

That’s hysterical!! I’ve actually heard that said b4 by women!🤣😂🤣

@dan_hitchman007

3 жыл бұрын

With artificial insemination, we're just sperm producers these days... mostly. :)

@DennisTheInternationalMenace

3 жыл бұрын

I did too.😂🤣

@rapa2894

3 жыл бұрын

@@dan_hitchman007 You could be an equal partner and parent, if you chose to not be sexist.

@supremecaffeine2633

3 жыл бұрын

@@dan_hitchman007 Realistically, a man's role in a family is irreplaceable.

It's really interesting to me what assumptions are made. There are definitely some great dads in America, but we have our own family problems. Still, it's good to highlight and uphold excellence, and these videos /are/ very cute. :)

I am a father of two daughters. My daughters have THREE daughters. I just LOVE cuddling with my granddaughters, reading them stories, telling them about what life was like when I was little, and making art with them. In January 2021, my wife and I took our two daughter, their husbands, their three daughters, and my mom and step-dad to Walt Disney World in Florida. That's eleven people all together. Eight of us traveled about 4000 miles in a van. It sounds like it would be crowded, noisy, cramped, and time consuming ... and it WAS all of those things! But we had such a great time as a family, all of us together for a whole week. I wish we could do it again, but I spent a large chunk of my retirement money on the trip, so it was definitely a "once in a lifetime" experience. I wish everyone could spend time with their family like we did, especially those who must live under the harsh conditions imposed by the North Korean government. It would warm my heart if I had the means to provide a home for someone from such a place and show them what love can be. That is the only thing we have a surplus of around here.

@adeleennis2255

3 жыл бұрын

My family did that when I was in high school. We took my two oldest cousins, so my sister and I would be less likely to fight. We took my mom’s mom. We left Binghamton, NY and my dad drove 27 hours straight to Panama City, FL where my dad’s mom and step-dad lived. We spent a few days there. Then we packed in my paternal grandma and headed to Orlando in our Chevy Caprice station wagon. They were still building Scandinavia at EPCOT at this time. It was a fun trip, but eight people in a station wagon does not leave a lot of leg room. My oldest cousin and I were in the backward facing seat. We had to wait for stuff to be unpacked before we could get out. I still remember some of the weird story my other cousin made up when we were going to Cocoa Beach and to Ron Jon’s Surf Shop. Of course, we competed for types of tractor trailers and license plates that we kept track of in note books.

@rillua

3 жыл бұрын

Wow that sounds like a lot of fun and unforgettable experience! I wish I had a grandfather like you, but sadly I don't have any. At least I can read others having fun memories with their famliy! Can I be your granddaughter?😂 Wish you and your family a long healthy good life^^

@badbiker666

3 жыл бұрын

​@@rillua I wish there was a way to get my contact info to you safely without inviting a shit ton of weirdos along with you. Until we figure it out, please consider yourself my virtual granddaughter! I guess we have been lucky in my family. I was especially close to my mother's parents. I spent entire summers with them as a child, their house was the first place I went out of town, alone, after I got my drivers license, their house was the second place I took my new bride after our wedding (mom's house was the first), and they loved to snuggle with my daughters, their great grandchildren, when they came along. I was in my 40s when they passed away. This was partly because we tend to live a long time, but also because I was born at the end of the 1950s when my mom was still a teenager. Good luck to you, Rinesa.

@Skylermaxwell13

10 ай бұрын

Aw 🤭

I have a lot of respect for men that spend quality time with their kids.

@brianjacobs1283

2 жыл бұрын

I can't imagine a father NOT spending quality time their my kids. Yes I know there are piece of $#!T fathers in the world, but being a Dad is the most gratifying position in the world. I absolutely love spending time, playing, and doing things with my family.. I make lunches, make sure their homework is completed, take them to ball practice, play and take them to school. I love doing it and they're thankful for it. I couldn't imagine not doing those things because that's what world drive me insane.

When our kids were small, my wife and I overheard the kids one evening. They were talking about dinner. The tone was that Mommy cooks fast but Daddy cooks good. We bring that up a lot when they visit.

@jackimoon8284

3 жыл бұрын

This was our house too. Our mom only made like hamburger helper or microwave foods- but dad was a badass in the kitchen. The problem? Moms food rarely was memorable, and dad always got kinda drunk when he cooked.

@gailwagner8115

3 жыл бұрын

My husband did 99% of the cooking, just better at it.. best story though.. when my son was about 5 years old he wanted his neighbor friend to eat over so he asked his dad what we were having for dinner and if Ronnie could eat over. My husband jokingly told him it was his mother's turn to cook and to ask me.. the look on his face was sheer horror!! Haha, he then said well can I eat over Ronnie's then? Roflol

@gracepicklebottom

7 ай бұрын

sorry this is too funny

My hubby had horrible abusive parents , but he is the most caring, loving hubby and Dad to our daughter and I, he would sit for hours with her just talking about Pokemon.

I think that in a lot of American families, Mama still does a lot of the actual caring for the kids, but Daddy plays with the kids more.

@danielg6566

3 жыл бұрын

Ain't that the truth! I taught my daughter to say "Daddy is the best!" but you know that didn't last.

@JorgensZelda

3 жыл бұрын

Things are definitely shifting around. Sure, moms are still associated with those things more, but it's becoming more accepted for dads to be the stay at home parent and moms to work, or for both parents to do the household and childrearing duties equally. Even to the point where you're seeing dads in diaper and baby food commercials who don't look like they're completely clueless. It's good to see both parents starting to be represented in caring for the house and kids and no one batting an eye anymore.

@pinoyshit3613

3 жыл бұрын

It's more fun spending time with dads. They have the craziest idea ever.

@blueraineee

3 жыл бұрын

@@pinoyshit3613 I think that's why moms are always on the side to eye their husband to make sure they don't fk up or do anything dangerous xD

@Alaskanman

3 жыл бұрын

@@danielg6566 Guess your daughter hit middle or high school?

Most men have an intense desire to take care of their families and, as that is almost impossible to do in NK, they will suffer from low self esteem, hopelessness, and depression. Any or all of which can lead to alcoholism and a sense non-worth.

@1000wastedwords

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. And also culturally, maybe aren't afforded these opportunities. She even said she would have made fun of them before moving to America. If they're actively discouraged from antics like these, I can see that having a big impact on their fathering style.

@prestonjones1653

3 жыл бұрын

It's basic animal instinct to want to care for our offspring. To try and prevent it due to culture goes against nature itself.

@Zektor101

3 жыл бұрын

@@prestonjones1653 Only for women, their brain changes when they are pregnant and as a result, usually care deeply for their children. This can happen to men too, if they interact and care for their children when they are babies, their brain will also change in a similar way that the women's brain changes, it's why paternity leave is so important. But the natural instinct for men is to father more children, not care for the ones they have. Thankfully we aren't enslaved to our natural instincts anymore.

@jeberdelgadillo6189

3 жыл бұрын

That's just... Awful!

@jonothandoeser

3 жыл бұрын

The American men have been FEMINIZED!

Thank you for appreciating American Dads!!! This is the best of humanity and we are all capable of it

She’s such a cutie 🥰 I’m happy she’s able to be happy now 💗

@Skindrift

3 жыл бұрын

Same cause she's such a sweetheart.

@ronaldgray9861

2 жыл бұрын

How are you doing

Isn't just so sad how they grow up with no affection and love from their parents

If she's so unfamiliar with kissing she should react to Italians XD

@jugaloking69dope58

3 жыл бұрын

i was thinking about the French personally

@kuroyuki6254

3 жыл бұрын

@@jugaloking69dope58 Oh you're right. How about both

@jugaloking69dope58

3 жыл бұрын

@@kuroyuki6254 French is more about friendship where Italians are emotional I would take a Italian everytime Kapitin Rick ftw kzread.info/dron/IcsyW5rnZofseMdrJUKMhQ.html

@lucillelovesnegan2144

3 жыл бұрын

@@kuroyuki6254 now that's amore

This young lady is lovely. Glad she is here in America.

@ronaldgray9861

2 жыл бұрын

Hello,how are you doing today

Her English is really really good and she looks pretty young. when did she live in N. Korea I wonder

@Harley-and-Her-Ruff-Riders

3 жыл бұрын

She was in another video yesterday or today, I forget. She escaped 2013 and her mom told her to go to America. So she traveled to her mom's Chinese apartment, then went by bus and boat to I believe Laos. Most of the defectors waited in prison for a couple weeks to go to South Korea, but she had to wait 10 months for different American interviews. Then was brought to America and placed with a foster family in 2015 as she was under 18.

@Dud3itsj3ff

3 жыл бұрын

@@Harley-and-Her-Ruff-Riders thanks for the info

What a wild culture shock it must have been going from North Korea to America. But yes GENERALLY American fathers are affectionate with their children. But of course its case by case.

While it was 35 years ago, I still remember how my life changed the day my daughter was born. It was the best day ever!

2:46 "What a muscular man. 😳" She's so cute!

@EvelynwelcomeTomychannel

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you:)

I think one day She will be a Great Mom .

I'm a professional uncle/ nanny, as in I raised my niece's and nephews and grandniece's and grandnephews it was very rewarding and fun loveing and I want father but I was Raised to be family oriented here in Austin Texas.

I think I love her.Could listen to the accent all day lol soooo cute.

even asian dad dont even doing anything for kids....even i was baby , my foster father take me when i was baby to foster mom & say "she poop"....she said to me when i grow up "what am i ? maid ? even you guys , he dont like doing changing diaper & give food / milk " all i know in memory since childhood till adult....all i saw he always go playing golf morning till late evening , sleep & watch movie ...i not close him so much....i ok shopping with my foster mom than foster dad...he so always said hurry up....man always shopping so fast

I tell you one thing, there are some real shit parents. Kids get beat and hit here too sometimes for nor even doing anything wrong. Abuse is universal every where unfortunately.

@maerichardson5897

3 жыл бұрын

I think she knows that but maybe abuse and neglect are the norm in North Korea and no one there bats an eye at it. We have bad parents here but they aren't really the norm and it is generally looked down on here.

@rapa2894

3 жыл бұрын

@r h It's not, that's why we're specifying, which is what they need to do in these videos. Instead they insist America is all teddy bears and roses. It's not. And for those of us who were abused, it's insulting to be told we're so lucky we weren't abused. It's ignorant, insulting, and stupid to speak in such a way.

@MelissaBezerra

2 жыл бұрын

it’s still pretty different from the situation in north korea

I have heard her story. I know it took her longer to come to America because they had to get her a foster family but I’m so glad she did. We are very lucky to have ANY North Korean defectors here. We can learn a lot from them.

Very sweet of you to show the great/good American daddy's, but sadly many suffer from sad and abusive upbringings, and repeat the cycle. I can't imagine what it would do to my mental state living in N. Korea even with the best of parental care. Very happy you are no longer there. Thanks for sharing.

I loved that little gesture she made when she said "drunk".

I love my father with every ounce of my being! He played with my sister's and I a lot as kids. He's my biggest fan today. And my hero! ... I know it's impossible, but I wish I could rescue all the N. Korean people and just hug them and help them find a better life...

Seems like NK didn't introduce the word LOVE to its people.

@cyl742

3 жыл бұрын

On another channel, the woman said North Korean regime has destroyed families.

@Skindrift

3 жыл бұрын

@@cyl742 Communist to have traditional families. It's why BLM the organization has it in it's tenants.

@supremecaffeine2633

3 жыл бұрын

@@Skindrift Might want to edit your comment. Communist want to destroy the family.

@House2017

3 жыл бұрын

@@supremecaffeine2633 Communism has nothing to do with it. If anything, profit motive destroys families. People forcing “traditional values” on others want to destroy lives.

@supremecaffeine2633

3 жыл бұрын

@@House2017 Are you joking? The destruction of the nuclear family is one of the main goals of communism.

Watch Superman/Return of Superman it’s a South Korean variety show about South Korean celebrity fathers having to take care of their kids alone for about 3 days. It’s very interesting to watch. It’s also very amazing and funny to watch these dads who have never been alone with their kids before. You start to really care about the kids.

If only every person could have a father like these. Unfortunately the insane amounts of diversity also applies to parenting. Also, not sure how spread out it is now but spankings with a belt were regular for everyone I've known.

@Lavenrius

2 жыл бұрын

Which just goes to show how different things are even on that scale! My parents? With neither me, nor my three other siblings, were ever spanked or hit with a belt or anything. The worst we got was timeout in our rooms and maybe being grounded if we did something bad enough. But other than that, we were never physically hit.

Evelyn. Fun to see you on South Korean Dimple. Have fun and travel safely. Hope you are happy to be with your Mom !

This woman is amazing. She left North Korea which must have been complicated and dangerous, she's at least bilingual, and she's like a scholar analyzing videos and cultures very thoughtfully. I want to be like her someday.

It’s interesting to see North Koreans reacting to different aspects of American life but it would be nice to see more than just white people in the videos you show since the US is so diverse. There are lots of videos that include black, Asian, latino, and other people as well to show !

@MikinessAnalog

3 жыл бұрын

We all bleed red and if the only thing you noticed were the ethnicities of those presented, you are the racist.

@silenceisbetterthannonsense

3 жыл бұрын

@@MikinessAnalog It’s racist to want them to show the true diversity of the USA? That’s hilarious. Black, Brown, Indigenous, Asian, Polynesian, Middle Eastern (etc) people exist in the states, no point in hiding it.

Really enjoyed your reactions to American dads.

She's so stunning ^__^ ❤️❤️❤️

What a sweetie - I’d be so proud to have a daughter like you

When she said they don't kiss: do you want a thimble? 😂🤣😂🤣 (Peter pan jokes)

Videos like this make me feel incredibly blessed that for whatever reason, whatever an individual's belief system is based on, that I was born in a developed and free country. My upbringing was a little dysfunctional but it feels incredibly ill-mannered to moan about it when you see and hear through the eyes of others. Thank you for sharing these videos.

Evelyn, you are an amazing woman. I have admired you for quite some time. I am a dad and, not meaning to sound melodramatic, I really would lay down my life for one of my children. Now, I have grandchildren, and all I can say is that I wish we could have had the grandchildren first.

She's cute

I'd love to see the awesome people at Dimple react to "The Great Dictator Speech" -Charlie Chaplin

She is awesome 💖 I'd love to be her friend. Such a warm and friendly personality. You guys should react to older sibling coming home from school omg so cute

Not every American father is perfect. But there’s a good bunch out there. I didn’t get that one, but I’m sure their out there lol

@Nandinandito

3 жыл бұрын

Mood

@robertgoss4842

2 жыл бұрын

Me neither.

That baby clearing corners with her dad...😎

Id love to see some of the NK peeps react go stuff from Ireland or Europe for a change ? I know to them learning america isnt the big bad etc. is interesting -but like the Haka video Id love to see other cultures looked at !

@katiearbuckle9017

3 жыл бұрын

They do need to see the Whole World at some point it would be cool.

Such cute videos your cute and deserves a great life

What a beautiful lady.

This is anecdotal. Not all father's in America are present or loving. Some are abusive or abandon their children and worse. There are good and bad people anywhere you go.

European and Asia are extremely different in the treatment of their children. Countries where men and women can switch jobs easily with very little complaint have a far better chance to raise healthy happy children.

This woman is very lovely ☺️ she will make a lucky 🍀 man a great wife one day, Good luck 💜

I feel like i hear more north korean defectors say their mother came with them more often than the fathers helping their children get out.

Shit well my dad is definitely not an American dad 🤣

Hopefully, this young lady will receive many, many kisses, and much, much love and tenderness.

She is adorable. I'll be her American daddy.

Evelyn is soooo pretty!

In America, when you become a Dad you are immune to embarrassment. As long as your kids are safe, it doesn't matter what anyone says to you.

I'm surprised NK dads don't play with their kids. Interacting n playing with your kids is a must. Though I'm still single n don't have kids (ʘᴗʘ✿)

Your English is excellent.

im suprised they have alcohol in North korea but almost starve to death

I'm my dad's only daughter and the older child of two. He used to sleep in my crib with me when I was a baby because I would sleep so easily. There is one thing that terrifies me the most; disappointing my dad and showing him that I'm not his perfect daughter. I'm like him in a lot of things but I'm also like my mom in some things. not a good combination.

My wife and I are having our first child in July, I'm nervous and excited at the same time.

@ronaldgray9861

2 жыл бұрын

How are you doing

@JonathanH1253

2 жыл бұрын

We're doing good, it's definitely a learning process though.

@ronaldgray9861

2 жыл бұрын

@@JonathanH1253 alright,message to know if you are open to business opportunities,

Moms are still primary caregivers but Dads are the best at play and comfort. When you just need to feel safe or wanna have a good time -Dads are the ones to go to- they make the best friends lol.

@Msfinable

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t think dads role is to make the best friend 😅 they are parents with responsibilities just as the mums are. And most small babies feel the safest in their mothers arms since that’s what they know best. When they grow up a little the situation should get more equal between the parents, since they can both provide safety, play, food, snuggles and healthy boundaries for their children.

@sammiebateman8921

3 жыл бұрын

@@Msfinable it is an expression. I get that the parents are equal. No one ever questions the value of a mother. Dads are minimized by the culture as nonessential which is why our culture is falling apart and people are week and poorly raised. We have spent the last three generations trying to convince ourselves that men are unnecessary. You can be a parent and still be the child’s friend. The problem with being a friend is that you can’t stop being a parent to be a friend.

@Msfinable

3 жыл бұрын

@@sammiebateman8921 okay, this expression and the "dads are nonessentia ideal" might be a cultural things and your cultural background is different from mine. If that's the case, I understand your comment. My background in Finland provides me with more equal outlook on parenthood than many other cultures, and sometimes I forget that.

@sammiebateman8921

3 жыл бұрын

@@Msfinable yeah it is hard to communicate an entire idea and the perspective of the writer in a few lines of text.

Evelyn be a movie/tv-STAR. You should be model/star.

Maybe they should have had someone with more experience with North Korean fathers to react to this video. This young lady is, for all intents & purpose, an American. I mean, it’s fun watching her react, but it’s not different than watching an American react. It just feels like a little bit of clickbait calling her a ‘North Korean.’

We take pictures and videos for the future, so the child (when adults), can enjoy them. Also they can share the experience with THEIR children (grandchildren) in the future. It's memories.

Just to be clear Evelyn, most dads don't wear baby clothes, in fact we would make fun of him too.

Evelin is beautiful

@EvelynwelcomeTomychannel

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

Not all dads. Some dads are really terrible people, the same goes for moms as well. It's good to know, though, that there are really great parents out there.

Okay now let’s do a poll who else has a dad who went to go get milk

I feel like us as Americans don’t value these things as much as we should, just being able to talk to your dad or kissing a family member or a friend

Wish I had a dad now...

2:51 like father like son…

My father was never here, all my brothers and I had was our mom because our father abandoned us but not surprisingly he smoked so probably he went out and never came back like the meme

I think this girl is so beautiful

I find it strange that she would move to South Korea after living in the United States. Most North or South Koreans choose to stay after living here. It is rare that someone would move back unless it involved a serious healthcare issue or a high paying or prestigious job. A KZread channel can be done from anywhere. Regardless of her motives, I'm happy that she escaped that awful place and has a better life wherever she chooses to be. God bless her.

2 videos of North Koreans commenting on American fathers saying they like it but then criticize North Korean fathers for not being like that but also saying they’d insult them if they did. Maybe they have the society they created

Apparently this lady has never heard of Chris Watts, the family annihilator.

don´t say `awwh`challenge would be funny lol

Because they work their ass of.

Evelyn: I have a question for you. On KZread, have you ever heard 'SO HYANG" sing "ARIRANG ALONE"?? If not you should watch that video!!

She doesn't know what lengths some fathers go to when they change diapers here. I have seen gas masks and even a guy in a full hazmat suit. LOL

Glad to see she's happy with US performance. One step closer to WORLD PEACE!!

I worry about her future family if she had no positive understanding or role models for husbands and fathers. Her future family seems doomed to divorce before it begins.

@medarby3066

3 жыл бұрын

She said she learned about dads from her foster family in America, so how does she not understand fathers role?

@fionnmaccumhaill3257

3 жыл бұрын

@@medarby3066 It was a brief period of time compared to her life in Korea. Also, her comments indicate such.

@medarby3066

3 жыл бұрын

@@fionnmaccumhaill3257 thats not what you said tho. You said NO understanding. You should edit your comment to say LIMITED understanding to cause less confusion.

@silenceisbetterthannonsense

3 жыл бұрын

@@fionnmaccumhaill3257 6 years is not a brief period of time, especially since she left NK when she was a child. Also, how are you worried when she literally talked about the ideal father in this video? When people are showing her what a good father is in the video? You’re hilarious.

its not just USA dads am a single dad to my son 8

"American dads are opposite" eeehhhh... I'm not so sure lol coming from a family with an alcoholic dad seems to be a universal experience across cultures

There are definitely a lot of abusive and terrible fathers in America as well

Do you have the source for 3:45?

Unfortunately, there are a lot of abusive parents in America too, but most are good and loving parents, I think. :)

Hello!

It's so sad that all fathers, nd all men don't love and care for all babies.

hey, it's different in America. The reverse actually.

To be a man means to be everything your family needs. Absent fathers are just sperm donors. It takes sperm to be a dad, it takes EVERYTHING to be a father.

AMERICAAAAA! FUCK YEAH!!

Aww shes so naive when she said that the dad's dont hurt their kids in the US. I'm happy to go along with it to preserve her innocent view of families here.

@cristiaolson7327

3 жыл бұрын

I think the difference is that in NK it is considered normal for fathers to be cold at best and abusive as a matter of course, while in western cultures we have more of a view that extols affectionate and caring dads and frowns upon excessively harsh fathers. I'm sure there are some NK dads who genuinely care for their children, just as some American fathers are terrible. However, I think the commentary here is reflective of the cultural norms and expectations in the respective countries.

Any totalitarian regime will try to break bonds between family members. Loyalty to the state is first and foremost. Cambodia under Pol Pot was a very good example of re-education where children were separated from their parents at a young age and indoctrinated with state propaganda. They were encouraged to spy on their parents and report disloyalty or transgressions to the local political officer. After generations of such a system it is no surprise that the family unit can be so dysfunctional.

“american dads don’t hit any kids” girl speak for yourself my dad hit hard as hell🙁

I have a new crush 😍

@EvelynwelcomeTomychannel

3 жыл бұрын

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

So, Evelin. Do you have trouble with speaking Korean after being in the states for so long?

Been in South Korea one month? How is your English so good?

@cristiaolson7327

3 жыл бұрын

She said she spent several years in America, and apparently she stayed with a foster family (so she was probably a minor when she escaped NK); presumably she learned English while living in the States. Even though she has a few issues with grammar, which is common for Asian-born English-learners (Asian languages use very different grammar from Germanic languages, so it can be really hard for people raised in one of those language-families to perfect grammar use in the other) it's clear she is very comfortable speaking English conversationally, and that she has done so for a while since she speaks fairly quickly and doesn't have to mentally search for words.

It's amazing that people from tyrannical nations are more likely to be appreciative of things.

I'd love to see north koreans reacting to some positive and negative lgbt+ stuff I'm so curious as to what their views would be like from a country like that