NoFap Nearly Ruined My Life (Why I Relapsed Intentionally)

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  • @dimboomx7582
    @dimboomx75829 ай бұрын

    People tend to misunderstand the actual point of no-fap. It's not about going long streaks without fapping, but rather putting your focus on actually important life things, which in return reduces the amount of time you spend fapping. I've noticed the more occupied i am with things, the less likely I am to perform this heinous act.

  • @vividchilling2492

    @vividchilling2492

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Ruminatr Shit say all that you want, you went two weeks sometimes and 3 months sometimes right? good shit, that's good, who cares if you didin't become god from doing a 10 year streak

  • @alphonsemarolle5785

    @alphonsemarolle5785

    9 ай бұрын

    Exactly. However, as much as it's mostly how often you fap that's impartant rater than the lenght of the streak, the lenght of the streak is also important if you want to reach certain benefits that only come over time. For example, you will feel a rise of energy after about a week, and a second rise in energy and endurance after about a month. So you need to hae that streak if you want to benefit from those extra levels of energy, especially if you're an athlete before an important competition. I did about 40 days before my last big event, and in that situation keeping my streak was really important.

  • @vividchilling2492

    @vividchilling2492

    9 ай бұрын

    @@alphonsemarolle5785 Yeah I need that energy, noted

  • @Shellboy11

    @Shellboy11

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Ruminatr As long as you're not watching porn, addicted or incessantly jacking off every day you're golden mate. Streaks are the least of concern here you should just be focusing on actual gains; minimising procrastination and reducing adverse effects of indulgence.

  • @l3lackoutsMedia

    @l3lackoutsMedia

    9 ай бұрын

    Stopping the action is only half of the equation - quieting the mind selectively through change of mindset is the other side.

  • @akijax9184
    @akijax91849 ай бұрын

    This was really insightful, and kind of hilarious as well as someone who has gone through a similar experience. Especially the part about orienting your life around NoFap. Good stuff bro

  • @jaronloar1762
    @jaronloar17623 ай бұрын

    Joining you bro! Resonated like crazy! Thank you!

  • @dusty4896
    @dusty48969 ай бұрын

    Just like to say, although you were a bit questionable at first, the general idea was amazing, this is the kind of stuff people need to hear. Btw this is closely related to the story of the two smokers which is an idea in psychology

  • @sebenerepublic6848
    @sebenerepublic68483 ай бұрын

    This video has changed my life, I was very addicted to watching porn but ever since I watched your video it has changed my perspective on no cap. Instead of counting the days and looking at it as a streak, rather instead fill my time with the more important things. I appreciate your video. Anyone who is reading this message hope we all can recover and get on the right path.

  • @anotheryoutubeaccount8122
    @anotheryoutubeaccount81229 ай бұрын

    u clearly have some maturity in this subject this is good content bro. the idea you have of yourself is EVERYTHING. its literally the reason i was able to go 2 weeks a month ago now

  • @unkoiboi

    @unkoiboi

    9 ай бұрын

    Did you not listen to the video lol

  • @xanderwindeymusic

    @xanderwindeymusic

    9 ай бұрын

    @@unkoiboidude clearly didnt watch the video fully Low attention span ppl, pss

  • @unkoiboi

    @unkoiboi

    9 ай бұрын

    @@xanderwindeymusic fr ppl w mindsets like dat just arent going go that far

  • @anotheryoutubeaccount8122

    @anotheryoutubeaccount8122

    9 ай бұрын

    @@unkoiboi i was agreeing with you bro lol. yea i did watch the vid

  • @achmed2pac

    @achmed2pac

    4 ай бұрын

    Amen with Men Things are impossible but with God ALL Things are Possible! (: May Jesus Christ Bless you🙏💟i love you bro! Be Encouraged💯

  • @badoopwarbleton9934
    @badoopwarbleton99346 ай бұрын

    @5:50 Correct. Thank you for sharing brother, excellent stuff.

  • @spookyfloyd3326
    @spookyfloyd33269 ай бұрын

    You do have a point bro. Nice vid

  • @theonetruchubster5891
    @theonetruchubster58919 ай бұрын

    very inspirational, thank you for sharing

  • @giulianodc4062
    @giulianodc40629 ай бұрын

    Great to see other men learning from hamza, keep going king!

  • @Don-Coyote-De-Transylvania

    @Don-Coyote-De-Transylvania

    2 ай бұрын

    If you watch that bathrobe man i feel sorry for your future.

  • @Puxi

    @Puxi

    Ай бұрын

    @@Don-Coyote-De-Transylvania Scamsa. They all wanna be like him.

  • @MikeV8652
    @MikeV8652Ай бұрын

    Men vary. Do whatever works for you to get you to where you want to be. Personally, I needed the challenge of a long streak to keep me motivated. I did 90 days and resumed. A couple of weeks later, I wanted to begin again. By about day 50-60 I extended my goal to a year. On day 370, I threw in the towel and settled into low-fap. For the next two years, I kept it to a minimum, but I still chose to do occasional streaks of 1-3 months. Eventually, I realized that what I wanted most was to eliminate release altogether, so I embraced it. At that point, it was easier than I ever imagined. Now, 5½ years later, I've never felt more masculine, and I don't expect to go back.

  • @Platinumquotes-rb4wd

    @Platinumquotes-rb4wd

    15 күн бұрын

    How did you reach day 370

  • @MikeV8652

    @MikeV8652

    15 күн бұрын

    @@Platinumquotes-rb4wd As I said, on my second serious streak, at about 50-60 days, I was inspired to extend my goal. I had build enough momentum toward extreme retention that I wanted to see if I could do a whole year. By about four months in, I had no doubt that I could do it, and I did. Through the following two years of mixed practices (as to releasing and not releasing), I realized more fully than ever that nothing was quite as satisfying as semen retention. That's when I finally (and enthusiastically) decided to go permanently celibate. I've never regretted my decision. If I had, I could fap at any time, but I haven't.

  • @GregtheGrey6969
    @GregtheGrey69699 ай бұрын

    You nailed it brother...100%

  • @richardsoderkvist6383
    @richardsoderkvist63833 ай бұрын

    By Gods grace and help ws are all trying to overcome these things.Its not easy its fine when you have a nicegirlfriend or even more so a nice lovely wife.So lets not be too hard on our selvfes.Keep pressing on.

  • @realmarkoknezevic
    @realmarkoknezevic9 ай бұрын

    Great video

  • @Outzone_2222
    @Outzone_22229 ай бұрын

    Don't count days let the days count..

  • @theonetruchubster5891
    @theonetruchubster58919 ай бұрын

    Hitchcock said "if you can place the origin of your fear, it will disappear"

  • @hayden12321
    @hayden123218 ай бұрын

    I’m 7 months into my 2nd streak and I’ve never counted the days. It created an unnecessary toxicity in your head it’s not good.

  • @user-lc2em5ld9e
    @user-lc2em5ld9e9 ай бұрын

    its also hard for some people because it might be a corn addiction or fapping it self

  • @edgarr9495
    @edgarr94952 ай бұрын

    Watching this video again for the 5th time. I relapsed on my 20th day. Planning to do it the way you explained in this video

  • @icephoenix1024
    @icephoenix10249 ай бұрын

  • @esotericknowledge111
    @esotericknowledge1119 ай бұрын

    Hi bro, great video. I never had problems with girls and all my life was called cute or handsome but I still had no confidence to approach girls and make it happen, they would show me interest and call me cute but as soon as they find out I had no confidence it would be over for me. What helped me is I joined the gym got my body muscular and in the process I gained confidence talking to girls more on daily basis, not hitting on them but just talking and not caring about the outcome and that turns them on even more, but what NOFAP has done to me it thought me SEXUAL DISCIPLINE. I dont look at every girls ass on the street anymore cause it dont bother me anymore and when I talk to really HOT girl her looks or their fat ass, big boobs, do not bother me anymore no fap made me numb to these things. Of course I like hot girls no doubt but NOFAP made me stronger and its under control now in a way that I can talk to a pretty girl and not blush all the time or lust about how she hot and they get sooo confused like why are you not acting like other guys do around me?? why are you not excited about my pretty face and big ass? They dont say it like that but they try it even harder like some girls will sit on your lap just to see what you gonna do and if you act all nonchalant not putting your hands all over her she cant figure out whats wrong lol Cause 5 years ago I was so shy around hot girls, blushing all the time thinking they are something special but now a days it means nothing to me, I ask them what else is special about you ?? and girls who see the guy dont want them for their body they immediately want to give you her body just cause you dont care it confuses them like what you dont want me? Yes I do but I can control myself babe so it dont bother me.

  • @esotericknowledge111

    @esotericknowledge111

    9 ай бұрын

    When results of gym and NOFAP started to show off I first noticed at my work place where certain good looking girls/women didn't bother me anymore I stopped blushing around them and was talking to them just like to any other human being and then when I placed myself in a social situations outside work and see other guys get excited around baddies and me just talking to them like they regular people thats when I started to date girls that are 8s and 9s. once you dont care about their boobs or ass is when they want it to give it to you the most

  • @jdubstiktok23

    @jdubstiktok23

    9 ай бұрын

    This is actually a good point, honestly I feel like your story for NOFAP is kind of facts. Like there is no shame if someone NOFAPS, but personally to the person that does it. You turn out way more confidence. Because a man does it so much, it's like I don't really care about the girl. It's more like, I just wanna try to either be friends or get to know her better other then trying to get with her if that makes any sense. But this video, I totally understand where he's coming from.

  • @Bweyg

    @Bweyg

    9 ай бұрын

    I'm only asking out a girl once, and once she says no, I'm onto the next. I don't give girls my attention unless she agrees to go out on the date with me, my attention is much more valuable than that. If I wanted to talk to people like their friends, I would just talk to guys.

  • @EuropaTelesBTR
    @EuropaTelesBTR9 ай бұрын

    NoFap is very good for Human health overall. Spread the word, save the world.

  • @trippinpandaz7520

    @trippinpandaz7520

    7 сағат бұрын

    no fap is good for health? Can u prove it?

  • @madbanana9091
    @madbanana909111 күн бұрын

    This same thing I’ve realised, I can resonate so much, THE ONLY THING PEOPLE SHOULD KNOW ABOUT NO FAP IS STOP COUNTING YOUR DAYS.

  • @CK-yi5eh
    @CK-yi5eh9 ай бұрын

    That was a helpful video 👍

  • @DoodleDoo
    @DoodleDoo9 ай бұрын

    Your vids are really good. I think you have what it takes to make it on KZread. Just a suggestion. Get a better camera.

  • @Spoutnik
    @Spoutnik2 ай бұрын

    I have now been on total SR for more than three years and it has just become a new normal to me rather than the experience of overrated physical or psychological benefits. I do it for religious purpose and find it much more meaningful when there is no "benefit" attached.

  • @trippinpandaz7520
    @trippinpandaz75207 сағат бұрын

    good video!...nofap is not only bad but also bad for ur health bc of the retention

  • @ym3306
    @ym3306Ай бұрын

    I do sr because I like to keep my wealth to myself. Energy is much more valuable than money and yet people throw it away.

  • @DEV_XO
    @DEV_XOАй бұрын

    Nice video mate.

  • @HaycravingHorse
    @HaycravingHorse9 ай бұрын

    Nofap is BS but the idea in this video is gold. We get so obsessed with self-improvement that we end up focusing on the wrong things and achieving zero results. Focus on the end, not the means.

  • @traplabspr5413
    @traplabspr54139 ай бұрын

    Made me lose a lot of time buddy thought you where taking this another route…

  • @Trade_with_hunter
    @Trade_with_hunter9 ай бұрын

    Nice one

  • @lufio_
    @lufio_28 күн бұрын

    blud this is litteraly exactly the same title as a Jak Piggot video cmon

  • @GregtheGrey6969
    @GregtheGrey69699 ай бұрын

    Amazing brother lol

  • @abdinorth7997
    @abdinorth79972 ай бұрын

    I’m on day 84 today the urges to relapse is super strong today 😢

  • @DivineAngelSpirituality

    @DivineAngelSpirituality

    Ай бұрын

    it's okay to release every now and then. just don't make a habit of it.

  • @elbert3987

    @elbert3987

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@DivineAngelSpiritualitystop with that mindset no it's not ok

  • @thebatman3905

    @thebatman3905

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@elbert3987it's ok to relapse. The nofap community is a cult and act like it will fix your life. Trust me it won't. Ejaculation is like releasing pressure, like popping, peeing, and hunger. It's ok to do it 3 times a week it just means you have a high sex drive.

  • @lao32131

    @lao32131

    Ай бұрын

    @@DivineAngelSpirituality shut up

  • @canada8574

    @canada8574

    Ай бұрын

    @@elbert3987why, and don’t talk about any religious stuff because not everyone agrees with your beliefs.

  • @kobejones3869
    @kobejones38699 ай бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @starch444yt9
    @starch444yt99 ай бұрын

    You just look like my friend but with a little beard

  • @GPenrose

    @GPenrose

    9 ай бұрын

    He's got a big beard?

  • @HzAarondemonic-survive
    @HzAarondemonic-survive8 күн бұрын

    ruined why?

  • @peterkunley
    @peterkunley9 ай бұрын

    0:05 7:01 You will never see a channel like mine! I go LIVE everyday and you can ask me anything you like, I answer all questions with no filters. I am looking for people to discuss everything with, come hang out with me and discover something about yourself.

  • @georgegeri1392
    @georgegeri13929 ай бұрын

    I agree bro. Im 44 days in rn and when i reach 90 days im not gonna be doing nofap anymore. it just ways consumes your mind

  • @xanderwindeymusic

    @xanderwindeymusic

    9 ай бұрын

    U clearly didn’t get the point :/

  • @georgegeri1392

    @georgegeri1392

    9 ай бұрын

    @@xanderwindeymusic what was it then bro?

  • @user-cf8hi3pc5f
    @user-cf8hi3pc5f12 күн бұрын

    Ads ruined my life.

  • @hadinterest
    @hadinterest9 ай бұрын

    low key look like Andrw tate

  • @user-bw4sv3xq2x

    @user-bw4sv3xq2x

    3 ай бұрын

    Facts lol

  • @Itachitard
    @Itachitard11 күн бұрын

    This helps

  • @mitchgotrich
    @mitchgotrich9 ай бұрын

    Sorry how did this almost ruin your life?? Also doesn't sound like an intentional relapse. More like a relapse followed by excuses.

  • @xanderwindeymusic

    @xanderwindeymusic

    9 ай бұрын

    A relapse followed by a realisation

  • @Remember-Death

    @Remember-Death

    9 ай бұрын

    He's using a bit of a "click-baity" title to get views. Don't take it personal.

  • @kedarkedar1520
    @kedarkedar1520Ай бұрын

    2:00

  • @Shellboy11
    @Shellboy119 ай бұрын

    Dont really see much point to going for long streaks anyway. Once made it to 6 months when I was 17 but could never get past 2 weeks at 18 yo The problem is that once i got to the 1 week + span I would get increasingly horny and at 2 weeks i'd be rock hard non stop, I wouldn't be able to sleep unless I jacked off, sometimes this would jumpstart PMO sessions regrettably. every so often instead i'll stop a few days, i find that works better for me and also cutting out porn is beneficial enough too. Feel like alot of guys discourage themselves too much just for having a healthy sex drive; yeah dont be addicted but dont make it your life either.

  • @AK_creation01
    @AK_creation019 ай бұрын

    Looks like Dhruv Rathee

  • @Govind_rana500

    @Govind_rana500

    9 ай бұрын

    German shepherd 😂

  • @Govind_rana500
    @Govind_rana5009 ай бұрын

    Bro, read Gita don't get ruined by expections

  • @FirstNameLastName-uz7gy

    @FirstNameLastName-uz7gy

    9 ай бұрын

    Started to read on your reference, it literally says if wife wants sex and becomes pregnant then the child is demon. WTF 💀💀 Bhagavad-gītā 7.11-13 "But the wife was too much agitated. So she obliged the husband to have sex life with her, and after sex life the Kaśyapa Muni said that "Your sons will be demons."

  • @Govind_rana500

    @Govind_rana500

    9 ай бұрын

    @@FirstNameLastName-uz7gy 😂 don't translate in English from sanskrit , read from Bhagvat Gita as it is from Iskcon

  • @Govind_rana500

    @Govind_rana500

    9 ай бұрын

    @@FirstNameLastName-uz7gy actual translation BG 7-11 :--"When sexual activity is undertaken only for sensual pleasure and is devoid of any regulative principles, it is considered beastly or animalistic. "

  • @silentdep403
    @silentdep40325 күн бұрын

    Why do NOFAP? when ut forces you to think about something?, a trap that you are always thinking about it... Instead of denying it, learn to coexist

  • @FraterPerpetuusCoegi
    @FraterPerpetuusCoegiАй бұрын

    Its about not watching porn

  • @ReginaTrans_
    @ReginaTrans_9 ай бұрын

    just get a pillow and a hole in it, guys stop feeling guilty for being men, Jesus

  • @soulelevation8861

    @soulelevation8861

    9 ай бұрын

    If people had jobs like real men they wouldn’t be beating off all day

  • @smalliver365

    @smalliver365

    9 ай бұрын

    Coomer

  • @Shellboy11

    @Shellboy11

    9 ай бұрын

    I kinda agree, some of the nofap community have guilted themselves for their sexuality too much. It can be a source of issue for some men though; some people are addicted to jacking off and it prevents them from attending to their commitments so there is some merit to nofap. Just dont shame yourselves for being sexual guys, we are human, just dont be creepy and indulge sensibly, that is my advice.

  • @Shellboy11

    @Shellboy11

    9 ай бұрын

    @@smalliver365 wojak poster.

  • @jarredlalap4136

    @jarredlalap4136

    5 ай бұрын

    @@Shellboy11thank you for mentioning the source of issue. i joined no fap bcs i find fapping started ruining my life, i get easily tired and all. When i was a kid, i bear my in my mind that fapping is normal and i got addicted. I tried different methods of no fap but all didn't help and made me more regretful when i relapse. this was just my experience but it may be different from other poeple

  • @360fanboy360
    @360fanboy3607 күн бұрын

    fapping can be damaging but porn is the real killer.

  • @Lets.ForgetiSaidThat
    @Lets.ForgetiSaidThatАй бұрын

    When i no fapped 80 days, my inner demon battle went like: "Noo. Nooo." *Demon:* "Get her." So i did.

  • @trevor5485
    @trevor5485Ай бұрын

    im just gonna say it you look exactly like andrew tate wtf

  • @smalliver365
    @smalliver3659 ай бұрын

    Coomer

  • @jamesmyers1995
    @jamesmyers19959 ай бұрын

    Nofap does not ruin your life dude, stop blaming Nofap, you ruined your life, you are responsible for your actions, Ive never heard of anyone talk bad about nofap, there is no health benifits to porn dude, Im sick of people saying nofap "ruined" my life bullshit. Clickbait title bro come on

  • @peachcobbler641

    @peachcobbler641

    9 ай бұрын

    agreed

  • @mitchgotrich

    @mitchgotrich

    9 ай бұрын

    exactly bro, nothing in this video even slightly resembled it ruining his life lmao, just making excuses for his relapse

  • @chucky7399

    @chucky7399

    9 ай бұрын

    it would kinda ruin your life only if you developed balls cancer

  • @mitchgotrich

    @mitchgotrich

    9 ай бұрын

    are u saying nofap causes ball cancer?@@chucky7399

  • @alphonsemarolle5785

    @alphonsemarolle5785

    9 ай бұрын

    His point is that doing Nofap is not the goal, it's a tool to achieve a goal, but people who start nofap get so caught in counting streaks that it has the opposite effect. If they relapse once, the will also relaps the next day because they're on day 0 anyway.