NikkieTutorials' Blackmailer Is CORNERED, Employee Fired Over Accusations
An employee of a popular makeup company was fired after accusing NikkieTutorials of being a liar and NikkieTutorials reveals how she found her blackmailer.
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Okay... so for fans, her being trans literally means absolutely nothing. She’s still the same person she’s always been. I don’t know why people want to out others, especially when it doesn’t even matter.
@marodes9440
4 жыл бұрын
i agree with you
@coolote6245
4 жыл бұрын
It gives the person a sense of power when they know something that others don’t. Especially if they have a grudge towards trans people or Nikki, I think that what they did was cowardly and terrible.
@carolyingfa
4 жыл бұрын
@@coolote6245 Add to that the fact that she has money...
@whorrid5148
4 жыл бұрын
Ur right
@crashharmonyroberson5076
4 жыл бұрын
100% agree. If she looked like a man/hasn’t fully transitioned my opinion would be the opposite
I cannot staaaaaaaand Lisa, she's always been messy. She attacks anyone who says anything negative about Jarrod or TF, and I'm honestly surprised it took this long to let her go
@amymorgan7797
4 жыл бұрын
I don't even believe they really fired her, I feel you can't trust two faced :/
@liily1287
4 жыл бұрын
Amy Morgan I guess they really are *two faced*
@msfoxylove20
4 жыл бұрын
Hajira S. I have a friend who is also transgender and I can understand what she’s saying but for Lisa she had no right to out her and she had no one has no right out of person if they have different sexualities that’s not what you do
@elainelat8067
4 жыл бұрын
If he did let his sister go.
@tkmiller_author
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. She got her attitude from her "boss". The only reason they did anything about it this time was because of how big it became. Too Faced is still trash and by extension, Estee Lauder who owns them. They've owned them long enough to have put a stop to her and didn't.
Dang, it's so sad Nikkie has been blackmailed. She deserves better and she had the right to say that shes a transgender woman whenever she wanted to.
@indraranizandstra1981
4 жыл бұрын
@Ksjs Jdjdb he knew it alreadu he even encouraged her to do the video .
@plumbobboy9883
4 жыл бұрын
@Ksjs Jdjdb I can understand why she didn't though, Because not only would it be Scary the thought of losing Dylan. What if the he was so upset or angry he decided to out her? Because it's not like she is like most transgender people. She is a public figure, so the posibility of him outing her would be even more frightening
@SwiftieLuma
4 жыл бұрын
@@marisatheuglybitch8584 He knew after he was with her, that's her personal life ... however when she came out to the public, he already knew.
@marisatheuglybitch8584
4 жыл бұрын
I believe that she shouldn't have withheld that information from her partner for so long since thats such an important piece of information. Sometimes being trans can be a deal breaker for people, not to say they are transphobic. The main reason I have seen for people not wanting to date trans people is because they aspire to have biological kids some day with their significant other. Many trans people can not have biological children after they have transition. I think Dylan (is that how you spell it?) was more open about it and was willing to have that conversation with her which im glad about. I do understand that whole "wait until you are in safe hands" thing but i strongly believed that if you are scared that any violence would take place if you come out, then do so in a open and public area where there many people around and most certainly bring a friend or 2.
@EJaramillo
4 жыл бұрын
Swiftie Luma I think it was wrong to keep it from him at all. That’s a very personal thing that as a partner had the right to know up front.
I think it is disgusting someone forced her out. That being said I think she has dealt with this situation extremely well. I don't think it is anyone's business how she handles her personal life unless they are directly involved. I can see how scary it must have been for her. I hope things go well for her in the future.
@Valkyrtzia
4 жыл бұрын
Jessica Cowell him*
@jessicacowell5424
4 жыл бұрын
@@Valkyrtzia I feel really sad for you.
@Valkyrtzia
4 жыл бұрын
Jessica Cowell awww Ask me if I care, sheep
@cairasimpson9348
4 жыл бұрын
@@jessicacowell5424 ur awesome and kind
@cairasimpson9348
4 жыл бұрын
Whoever liked my vid tysm 💓💓
Too faced living up to the name
@carolinacollins7376
4 жыл бұрын
Fr tho. They're seriously living up to their name, smh. 💀
@canyounot2102
4 жыл бұрын
Sara Hiles // hahahahaha
@xakirax_8864
4 жыл бұрын
Always wondered why they called themselves that
@ShiruKitty
4 жыл бұрын
thats what I was thinking.
@ember258
4 жыл бұрын
I know right
Nikkie clearly said that the timing of coming out to Dylan was because of her own personal experience, and that she was in no way talking for the rest of the trans community. And then comes this other member of said community to claim that Nikkie "told you to do" anything. She did not. I don't care if they're trans, they have no right to tell anyone how to handle their life and what their experience should be.
@kissme8970
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. It's no ones business if she's trans or not except for the people she ends up with. The entire world doesn't need to know that. It should have been her choice to indulge that kind of personal information to millions of random strangers on the internet.
@SereneWolfgachastudio
4 жыл бұрын
Laura Blues I get your point but sometimes outing someone is really disrespectful, also. She’s not telling them what to do, she’s giving advice telling and advice is two different things.
@lenaertsjelke
4 жыл бұрын
Especially because Nikki actually said in the video to not do what she did and wait so long. She kept saying she wish she said it sooner and recommends her trans viewers come out to their partner sooner rather than later. That person was literally claiming that Nikkie said the opposite of what she actually did. Seems to me they didn’t watch the entire video and are just bandwagoning on what other people have said. Edit: spelling mistake
@abyz9774
4 жыл бұрын
Wait so she didn’t even tell her S/O that she was trans?
@lenaertsjelke
4 жыл бұрын
kobe jones the only thing she said is that she wished she told him sooner. We don’t know at what point in the relationship she told him. We do, however, know that it was before this whole situation as she said on the Ellen Show that he encouraged her to make the video.
Honestly, I think everything she felt and did was valid. Idk why people are saying that she should've said it sooner, SHE FELT SCARED.
@breadcrust4006
4 жыл бұрын
Kellie Martinez and even before they did anything together SHE. TOLD. HIM
@WildVee
4 жыл бұрын
I love Nikkie and I'll always love her videos but she should've told her partner from start. As somebody who's dating a trans, I was extremely shocked to hear it after 2 years (the start of our relationship was long distance), and I was upset with him very much. I considered breaking up - not because he's trans but because he hasn't told me and trusted me earlier. I ended up getting over it and being supportive though and I'm glad Nikkie and her partner are working things out too :)
@XxXShevampXxX
4 жыл бұрын
@@WildVee maybe so but it's really none of our business. None of us know enough about their relationship dynamic to say what she should've done.
@MaliaMelton
4 жыл бұрын
@@WildVee Maybe she should have told her partner sooner, but it's well past that point now - and it isn't our business to begin with. There's no sense in shaming her for her, apparently valid, fear and how she handled it now. And I think that's the biggest take-away, yknow? Maybe what she did was the wrong thing, or she went about things the wrong way, but she's learned from living her life and from her experiences and it just isn't our place to pass judgement onto her for whatever mistakes we believe she made.
@WildVee
4 жыл бұрын
@@XxXShevampXxX True but since she made the video public and everybody is sharing their opinions, I'm sharing mine and my experience.
Blackmailers need to chill out, there’s been a surge of them recently
@Qtippy.
4 жыл бұрын
Yea
@GenerationalDisappointment
4 жыл бұрын
Who else has been blackmailed to consider it a surge??
@enterfromthesky
4 жыл бұрын
I see you everywhere Just Some Guy without a Mustache
@ThisisRaP44
4 жыл бұрын
Someone get this to 666 likes 😂 #661
@alexisjade8001
4 жыл бұрын
Chvncey me
It’s absolutely disgusting behaviour that people feel entitled to tell someone when and how they came out to ANYONE was wrong. Especially that tweet by the person who says they’re a part of the trans community themselves..
@Blackcanvasart
4 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY they of all people should understand
@lucien9006
4 жыл бұрын
That tweet sounds a lot like BS.
@savvysmith8981
4 жыл бұрын
@@lowkey7561 I have had two girlfriends who were beaten nearly to death for immediately coming out to their partner. Masked behind false acceptance and both lured into their potential demises. Please don't gatekeep being transgender.
@sullie09
4 жыл бұрын
That doesn’t mean they have to agree though.
@Mmk12a
4 жыл бұрын
@@savvysmith8981 Maybe they can ask the person they're dating about their thoughts on the LGBT community, and if they respond negatively, then they will know not to trust them.
People should really stop meddling in other people's business 🤦🏽♀️
@nancytosheva
4 жыл бұрын
Finally! I agree so much with you!
@sharlejones4406
4 жыл бұрын
@@nancytosheva I had the same pfp
The thing that messes me up the most is that it is none of our business if Nikkie is trans, that is her private business. It shouldn't matter that Nikkie is trans, her content and character is what matters.
@namjoonsoldmyjamsfor3dolla404
4 жыл бұрын
Joanna Araujo Amen
@itsstrange1213
4 жыл бұрын
*Louder for the people in the back*
@AK-yc9xz
4 жыл бұрын
She was an amazing, talented woman before she came out, and she still is now 🤷🏻♀️ nothing changes
@Blackcanvasart
4 жыл бұрын
YES
@beautifulbeaner
4 жыл бұрын
It’s someone’s business when there in a relationship with the person
I feel like nikkie’s situation is different than someone else who doesn’t have such a high influence because telling someone you don’t know you’re trans and then them leaving and leaking is a lot scarier when you have millions of followers I think.
@guisantos2934
4 жыл бұрын
Oh wow, I didn't even think of that, I was honestly thinking she should've told her boyfriend she's trans as soon as they started dating but that puts a whole new perspective to it. Plus, if he didn't notice it when they hooked up the first and subsequent times, then I think he wouldn't care now.
@odieg
4 жыл бұрын
Gui Santos It does matter, some people don’t want to be with trans people. Some people can get aggressive if they find out your trans later. Some want biological children. It’s always important to tell your partners.
@spooniejusticewarrior
4 жыл бұрын
@@odieg many trans people can have biological children.
@reckless_ashen9383
4 жыл бұрын
@@guisantos2934 she never said she was intimate with her partner before telling him though? She said she just waited before telling him.
@juliaxiaoa
4 жыл бұрын
Definitely! But I think Nikki would be more concerned that it wasn’t coming from her rather than the information being leaked in the first place. But that is still terrifying!
How about we stop telling people how to function in their own relationships? I'm Cis, idk the trans struggle. You bring up your story when you feel is right, honesty is always a plus with people. On the flip side, if your partner isn't cool with it, that's their decision. They get to make that call. And you'll probably be better off without them in your life. Shaming people for being human and maybe not doing things as perfectly as you THINK they should have does no one any good. Get off your high horse.
@alexisjade8001
4 жыл бұрын
What does cis mean?
@PortiaWaffles
4 жыл бұрын
No dude, you should bring it up when you start seeing them. You're essentially wasting their time if they don't know and especially if they aren't into that. Obviously, I don't know the struggle of being trans but hiding that kind of information is extremely dishonest. If you wanna feel safe in a relationship, you should tell them and see how they react.
@sadgalshiz
4 жыл бұрын
Cattleya Loi dating can be a waste of time. think about class for example. you meet someone who you really like and they like you too but they have generations of wealth and you and your family has always struggled financially. let’s say you tell them on the first date and they decide they don’t want to go on another. but what if they really got to know you first? maybe they would start to think it’s not as important as they once thought it was. or maybe they won’t... there are many other examples similar to this but that’s just a part of dating
@manaash4316
4 жыл бұрын
@@alexisjade8001 cis is for "cisgender", which means a person who was assigned the correct gender at birth.
@bumblebeez1995
4 жыл бұрын
You should be telling them as soon as you know you want to have a relationship with said person, not waiting until you’re engaged. Idk what it’s like to be trans, but I can imagine how scary it is to tell people. But you need to tell someone you’re gonna be in a relationship now
how is someone gonna be mad that she made sure she was safe before telling him..? i love it how people try to make situations their own.
@dafyang7204
4 жыл бұрын
She wanted to make sure a guy is not a serial killer or worse... dundunndunnnnn!
@malinasworld
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. People out there saying she should've been open with him from the start as if it isn't incredibly dangerous.
@princessaria
4 жыл бұрын
Trey Spaxx And they’re assuming that he didn’t know until she was blackmailed. She said she wished she had told him sooner than she did tell him, but I don’t think she was saying that she waited until now. She might have just meant that they’d been on multiple dates. We have no clue when she told him and it’s not our business.
@NinjaTofu0
4 жыл бұрын
K J This exactly!!!!!
@birdy4826
4 жыл бұрын
She could of told him through text message before going on the first date duhh 🤷🏻♂️
What some people (blackmailer) do not understand is that NOT OUR BUSINESS what gender someone is UNLESS they choose to tell us.
@breadcrust4006
4 жыл бұрын
changingmyself yea, I wish she came out on her own terms 😔
@BloodyGir7
4 жыл бұрын
THIS!!!!
Can people please leave Nikki alone it’s her decision to come out any time she wants not yours
@_lucy_lovley
4 жыл бұрын
Namjoon sold my jams for 3 dollars agreed
@ThatMilkJuice
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah! Especially when it’s her decision to come out. What I think why she hadn’t told her boyfriend until she was in good hand was because she had to trust him enough so he wouldn’t go out and tell people and her fans that she trans.
@_lucy_lovley
4 жыл бұрын
Pizza and Wings yes since its not easy to come out
@megami.x
4 жыл бұрын
Who are the “people“ you’re referring to? The one that blackmailed her? One person? She’s the one that decided to come out… No people told her to.
@JV-Jaye
4 жыл бұрын
@@megami.x they're talking about the people saying 'You should've come out sooner because blablabla'
Why does it matter when she told us? She didn't even have to. At the end of the day, Nikkie is Nikkie and that's all that really matters.
@queenk.csmith1571
4 жыл бұрын
Right and let's be honest did we really need to know
@0oracl3e
4 жыл бұрын
queenk.c smith honestly we didn’t because she passed as a girl and is a girl. She doesn’t need to tell us she’s trans because she is a beautiful girl and that’s that.
@ThisisRaP44
4 жыл бұрын
@@0oracl3e P R E A C H 💞
@PassionPno
4 жыл бұрын
@@0oracl3e Which girl has XY chromosomes?
@alina5468
3 жыл бұрын
@@PassionPno thats just irrelevant
That mans name who wrote the article is most likely pronounced “Hermon” and probably not German.
@PONR2006
4 жыл бұрын
Emma C. Hale if it’s pronounced the Spanish way, which looks like it given his last name, it would be Herman (a as pronounced in apple and with the emphasis on the last syllable)
@teamrocketjess
4 жыл бұрын
His name kinda sounds like Hamon. *SUNLIGHT YELLOW OVERDRIVE!* (Yes that was a JoJo reference)
@nqk_0662
4 жыл бұрын
Is that a digimon reference?
@soltrice
4 жыл бұрын
is that a food wars reference
@hollownoises3925
4 жыл бұрын
Maybe Herman? Or Hermann
I totally understand why she want to make sure her finance is the right guy. Because if not she could be blackmailed too!
@emd4682
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah.. it could have been worse.. if she did not tell him before and he was a transphobe most likely he would've become violent when she came out... Fortunately there are more good people than bad people But that's why you should tell someone who you want to pursue, to avoid being hurt and hurt those people
@1_._._._1
4 жыл бұрын
Vic D. Nicki wouldn’t have been dating him if he was transphobic so....
@Kikiricki11
4 жыл бұрын
twice Excelt maybe she would not have known? Oftentimes people are accepting of something until it affect them or it could be that it does not come out until later in their relationship.
@novemberblake9505
4 жыл бұрын
twice honey I thought my parents weren’t transphobic until I came out. You can never know
Nikkie: I was blackmailed Fans: we ride at dawn Edit:holy wow 1k most likes I’ve ever got thank you 😂
@wdedesjd3496
4 жыл бұрын
nikkie*
@nickiminajqueen894
4 жыл бұрын
@@wdedesjd3496 lol
@lazyspudz
4 жыл бұрын
uzia sorry I’ll fix it lol
@TheRoyalpython1978
4 жыл бұрын
Where’s my torches and pitchforks and a good noble steed.
@christinaakman7791
4 жыл бұрын
@@TheRoyalpython1978 I've got some motorcycles in my garage and pitchforks in my shed who wants to go?
i am honestly mad about the blackmailing but so happy for nikkie and how she is dealing and doing with her coming out
She's handling everything so professionally. I admire that.
7:30 bruh, so many trans people are abused by their partners, it makes sense to want a better understanding of your SO's character and personality before you let them know.
@starzies
4 жыл бұрын
@don't, john just don't I'm so sorry that happened to you, I hope you're in a MUCH better place now 🥺
I feel like its non of our business whether or not nikkie tells her boyfriend shes trans, and that that is a really private thing for anyone to talk about. People are just mad because shes not acting like a trans icon.
@wdedesjd3496
4 жыл бұрын
nikkie*
@ferist2216
4 жыл бұрын
@@wdedesjd3496 yes, sorry about that 😅 I'm bad with english sounding names
@haileygoofy8454
4 жыл бұрын
I think it was very wrong of her to not have his full consent if they slept together. If she loved him enough to marry him she should have loved him enough to be honest.
@paromora6207
4 жыл бұрын
@@haileygoofy8454 it's her body, her life in the end and I dont know how to word this but she is a she, it shouldn't matter what she used to be because shes not that anymore
@haileygoofy8454
4 жыл бұрын
@@paromora6207 it matters if he wanted to have kids. It matters in terms of consent. It matters in terms of how in the future if they were to get married how honest she will be. Her not being honest with him about this could have possibly destroyed the trust he had for her. Love and trust goes hand in hand. And she clearly did not trust him enough.
I don‘t know why that lowlife would think that we‘d change our minds about Nikkie whether she‘s trans or not??? Like we came for the Make Up and stayed for everything else. Period.
@haneenhafiz1452
4 жыл бұрын
I changed my mind
@_twinklesprinkle
3 жыл бұрын
@@haneenhafiz1452 zip it. no one asked you.
That's why I stay deep in the forest where no one will try to blackmail me
@anonymoususer8316
4 жыл бұрын
Just Some Bigfoot With Internet Access except the animals.....
@softbrainrot5995
4 жыл бұрын
Can i Join You 😔👉👈???
@cute2178
4 жыл бұрын
Lucky you
@cutiecaveyxD
4 жыл бұрын
what if we kissed deep in the forest haha jk .. i mean 😳
@bebeonce5794
4 жыл бұрын
HOWWWWWWWW. ARE YOU FOLLOWING ME?
In the end, Nikki is the one who is gonna have to face what is going on with her and Dylan, not us. Just she and him. And her not telling him right away is her choice and her choice alone, she took a risk and will have to live with whatever outcome that follows. So ounce again, people need to mind their business and let Nikkir figure things out now.
@barbarajacobs1197
4 жыл бұрын
Agreed , wish her all the best
@Jessikupo
4 жыл бұрын
i dont undersand how dylan didn't know? he didn't see her biological male private parts? I doubt she had that major surgery before she 'fully transitioned at 19.' it's very confusing. Regardles, their business and no one elses!!
@fabrizior.8071
4 жыл бұрын
Jessica G well she met Dylan about than 2-3 years ago I believe and she was fully transitioned by then so
okay but she just posted a video asking y’all to stop this hunt. give her some space and time omg. she gave a very valid reason for not wanting to share a name, she can share it if she wanted people to know.
@justanotherguy469
4 жыл бұрын
That's ridiculous. is the blackmailer her property? It is not her blackmailer it is "the" blackmailer. Were they trying to extort? Extortion is a crime and if she already told on herself she has nothing to lose. Their correspondences were through email, then she claims he spoke to her in a pressuring voice? You do not speak with someone via email. If she went to the police and they determined that a crime was committed they would have no choice but to prosecute and for the police to conduct an investigation and find out email addresses and phone numbers and addresses requires the usage of precious resources, they would prosecute. I smollet something fishy.
@gazellete4925
4 жыл бұрын
@@justanotherguy469 it is her blackmailer bc they were trying to blackmail her, it doesnt mean she owns him do you understand English lolol. If she didnt want to press charges then the police cant do anything more. Are you 5?
Unless you're dating someone, you're not entitled to know if they're trans or not. That's none of your business, especially these strangers on the internet who need to realize that celebrities don't even know they exist.
That was Nikki's business if she ever wanted to come out to the public. I feel like she should have told Dylan sooner before they got engaged, but I can see why she didn't.
@madi5286
4 жыл бұрын
She was VERY surprised by the engagement from what i heard and their relationship moved very quickly. I suspect it was her plan to tell him before they were engaged
@namikkou
4 жыл бұрын
@@madi5286 I know. That's why I said I can see why she didn't, everything was moving so fast and it must be a hard thing to open up about.
@Toasty_Mr.Marsh_
4 жыл бұрын
Did she ever say she told him after getting engaged? Or when she told him?
@namikkou
4 жыл бұрын
@@Toasty_Mr.Marsh_ she said things moved so fast she didn't tell him until AFTER they were already engaged.
@amalamal8278
4 жыл бұрын
@@namikkou are they still together??
This is horrible how could people say that “She should’ve said it sooner this is honestly disgusting” hunny Nono She was frightened to tell the public that she is a trans woman, coming out is difficult luv.
@Jay-nl1fw
4 жыл бұрын
Dristvn People are disgusted that she didn’t let her s/o know until now. He didn’t know she was trans and he was engaged to her. That’s a huge deal
@jazminevermillion3975
4 жыл бұрын
plus, it's her body. she is famous for being good at makeup, not for being a woman. it honestly doesn't matter.
@kiddayna
4 жыл бұрын
Maybelater That’s also their business. Not entitled opinionated people.
@Jay-nl1fw
4 жыл бұрын
Jojo Glinks yeah, ok.
@kiddayna
4 жыл бұрын
Maybelater Mhm.
These blackmailers need to learn they're messing with people who are stronger than they'll ever be. These victims will always be above the people who try to take any part of their identity away. Blackmailers have no power if you don't give it to them, no matter what info they have.
We all gonna pretend he actually fired her? Because there’s no way he actually did it. They all give the brand that name. Two faced.
@ashleycampbell889
4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
First too faced scams nikkie out of her money and now this. Will not be buying their products
I love how Nikkie talks so confidently and that's really soothing for sum reason idk
It's not our right to know these sorts of things. People are only fans, not close friends or lovers- they don't need to know. I think people are blowing her being transgender out if proportion. The only one who she should have told from the very start is her lover, arguably the one who would be closest to her on a daily basis, not us.
@Skyler_Momoko
4 жыл бұрын
PREACH!!
@52andattitude48
4 жыл бұрын
M̲ᴀ̲ʀ̲ say it LOUDER
honestly it wasn’t even necessary to know that she is transgender none of what she’s doing has anything to do with her gender sooo
At the end of the day, she's still a woman. Her journey is her own. Telling people doesn't mean anything. She not trans for fame, she is just another woman. She says her life was dark at one point. Why should we judge her painful times? Those are private, and she owes society no explanation.
I personally haven’t watched her Chanel but she seems like such a sweetheart and a generally kind person
I feel like it was def too faced blackmailing her & they’re just covering their arse by scapegoating that girl, she might’ve had something to do with it but Jared has had the same nasty behavior as his sister in his past. I do not believe he is innocent in this!
It’s her life and her decisions. No one should have the right to tell her how to live it.
She is soooo mature about this and kind!!! I cant imagine being like that to someone that was blackmailing you. So kind
I feel like the "big issue" being how she was treated just focuses on the little bad when it was mostly a positive response full of love and support. The REAL big issue should have been the blackmail itself and how someone thinks they have the right to talk about someone else's private life
Being transgender is her business. Not the world's.
@1grapefruit
4 жыл бұрын
yeah, she shouldnt tell her husband that she is trans, her husband doesnt deserve to know shes trans.
@samikay9599
4 жыл бұрын
@@1grapefruit not when they are just first getting to know each other. No he does not have that right just like some dude I'm just getting to know has no right to know intimate details about my life that could send him into a primal rage. Also Nikki I believe has had bottom surgery so it isn't like he is working with different equipment.
@athing8846
4 жыл бұрын
Mihai Anghel I think she meant it isn’t the world’s business as in anyone that isnt involved in her personal life
@1grapefruit
4 жыл бұрын
@@samikay9599 imagine falling in love with someone then them talling you they're trans. you should tell them as soon as you feel a connection so youre not heartbroken.
@samikay9599
4 жыл бұрын
@@1grapefruit I mean my boyfriend is trans so.
I think jeffree blackmailed Nikki. The truth will come out.
last time i was this early my wig was found on mars
@asherhaha3648
4 жыл бұрын
did you get it back?
She is such a strong woman. My respect for her just increased. She always wanted to be her own self. She just wanted to be 'Nikkie'. Many people just milk the trans card like "Nikita Dragun".
people think that just bc you are trans you HAVE TO come out. NO. thats not YOUR decision. also, if you think that being trans is a dealbreaker in YOUR relationship, then you definitely have to tell your future partner, maybe nikkie didnt feel that way bc Dylan was so open to communication
@ItzJeweled
4 жыл бұрын
Um I feel like both have to be open not just one person
I just would like to say: _no one-and i mean NO ONE, has the right or entitlement to tell another, trans or not, how to run their life, what they should feel, who they should be and when_
Nikkie is such a beautiful soul!
I’m not part of Nikkie and Dylan’s relationship so I’m not going to bark orders at them for how they should run their relationship 🙄
I already know when I come out I’m going to be disowned and shunned. I’m waiting until I can get a stable job and home, but I’m only 15 so I still have to wait :(
@maddie6589
4 жыл бұрын
U got this
@alybanana415
4 жыл бұрын
When you turn 16 get a part time job, save up save save save, by the time you are 18 you can get your first apartment. And through those 2 years you can find a better paying job before you turn 18. Find a room mate that is a friend. If you aren’t able to move to go to college FIND A TRUST WORTHY friend and go half on the apartment or even have 2 room mates and split it into thirds.
@coreylyn05
4 жыл бұрын
Aly Banana good idea! Thank you 🥺❤️
@user-sf9gs2pg1b
4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, my parents didn’t take it well. I had to write a LONG letter explaining everything. I recommend doing that, and not specifically using the loaded word,” transgender” until the end. That way, they won’t stop reading at the first sentence and yell at you to never come back or whatever. Before doing this, have a backup plan if things go wrong. Also, I recommend checking the family insurance. If it covers all hormones and surgery, definitely get them on your side. Saves a ton of money in the long run. I love the letter “technique” because you don’t have to be right next to them. You can still dress as and probably pass as the gender you wish to before HRT. My friends were accepting.... it’s weird. People act like you died, so you have to show you’re still you. Good luck!
@coreylyn05
4 жыл бұрын
C thank you for the advice! 🥺❤️
It’s disgusting that they forced her to come out to everyone she’s still and always will be our queen Nikki.
"Women body is not their own" saga continues even still in 2020 ...
@justanotherguy469
4 жыл бұрын
"?Woman"
i accidentally thought she said "toothpaste" now i can't unhear it
You really knocked this one out of the park. Well researched, and extremely well said.
It’s really sad that Lisa’s BROTHER had to say sorry for what SHE did
“Why she wouldn’t come out sooner” child-
That old picture of Jerrod and his sister! 😂💀
Too faced is full of sus people. Even the owner.
why is it always too faced like what is actually going on over there
"no one has the right to out someone without their consent" (Tatiana, The Killer Bride))
I'm glad we get somewhat closure abt this situation
It’s funny how she asked specifically for no other media outlet to share the story on her blackmailer yet that is exactly what this video is doing
I think it's kind of wrong to say that "you don't have to say how many people you slept with" compared to your gender. I started dating a boy two years ago and I asked him if he wanted me to tell him about my past life with other guys, etc. etc. And he said he doesn't have to because it is in the past. However, the gender issue is not in the past, it is with you there, it was with you and it will still be. That's why I think it is wrong to compare. I may be wrong but that is what I think.
@nickinicole7707
4 жыл бұрын
Welcome to Innsmouth absolutely right they can’t compare the two at all
@ThatGirlJD
4 жыл бұрын
It's interesting that once they make their choice to be trans, they feel they have the right to take away the choice of dating or not dating a trans person from other people.
It bothers me seeing/hearing someone talk about important things with half a face of makeup 😂
@hairbeauty8083
4 жыл бұрын
Me2
This whole thing is a mess. In my opinion, if you can't trust whomever you're with then you shouldn't be with them. If you feel like you can't trust your partner with yourself then their is no relationship to be had. People have the right to know what they're getting into. I feel for Nikki, but that kind of information needs to be shared with your partner, especially if that isn't their partners preference. I don't know. Like I said, it's all a mess.
@nickinicole7707
4 жыл бұрын
Burnout Cold yess finally someone with some common sense
@BCG_332
4 жыл бұрын
Right I was thinking the same thing. Like most relationships begin as friendships so maybe when you feel comfortable and safe in that friendship and possibly see that friendship leading to a relationship that would be the time to share that information. So the other person can process that sort of information before deeper feelings develop. Like you said if they feel like they can’t share something so intimate and sacred with this person then they definitely don’t deserve their love.
@daxcade2865
4 жыл бұрын
Maybe it's just me, but most abuse doesn't start right out of the gate. It's months and years into it when it starts and transpersons are especially (statistically speaking) vulnerable to that. I don't think it's wrong to protect yourself and the fact they tell you at all speaks volumes of the trust they placed in you
@mirandaplant5542
4 жыл бұрын
Trust is earned my friend...and for some people it takes a long time to build it with someone
I’m going to assume that her intention was right but her words were waaay wrong. She wanted the witch hunt to end because SHE wanted the exclusive rights to dox the blackmailer? Or because witch hunting and blackmailing is wrong?
@thehillsarealivewiththesou8293
4 жыл бұрын
Cocktails & Consoles I find it weird she doesn’t want to press charges. Now I understand about the witch-hunt and let the authorities deal with the issue but this ‘let me decide what to do?’ Is strange to me unless it’s because she wants to do more interviews and fly about talking about it? 🙄
most people don’t tell others what genitals they have.
IDK if this is me but I've never seen a decent photo of Lisa Blandino ever...
her love life is private, it’s none of their business and they don’t have the right to control or judge that
I mean the reason why the relationships end is simple. It isnt homophobic or sexist or anything. Simple thing is you arent what they expected. You should definetly tell your partner/potential partner from the jump because it simplifies everything. Reasons vary but mainly it boils down to the simple fact that they weren't looking for this situation, they entered the relationship thinking one thing and got something different.
Idk why but when nikki said: "i am me", i teared up... idk im just happy for her
She literally said in her latest video to stop the hunt of who the blackmailer is...
@soy_j1260
4 жыл бұрын
Haha that's like one teacher trying to tell over a million students to be quiet. Sadly not everyone listens
Love the fact that you give history facts and do your research on the topics you talk about. Main stream media should take note.
You should have added the Panic defense in the US, which is thankfully becoming questioned and a couple states banned it.
*im early and i don’t know what to say because I’m not funny*
@baamnight6878
4 жыл бұрын
Ahahahahhahahahahah
@miadean2357
4 жыл бұрын
it’s so annoying i only think of funny things when the video is like *5000 years old and no one watches it*
@thehornyasexual
4 жыл бұрын
Well at least you're honest lol
@goliathtigerfishes
4 жыл бұрын
But relatable lol
@beefstroganoff8597
4 жыл бұрын
Same
I can’t believe people are like it’s “disgusting” to not tell your partner that you are trans Like it’s their choice to tell people their identity
shes the most purest human being i have ever seen dealing with such a situation like this,she remains so composed and respectful during this
Why Lisa did it: jealousy, insecurity, immaturity
I don’t get why so many people are mad she didn’t come out to her fans sooner. She’s allowed to take as long as she wants, it’s a scary world for any transgender person and it would be especially scary because of how famous she has become so she would be more at risk. Stop getting mad saying ‘she wouldn’t come out if she wasn’t threatened’ so what? She doesn’t owe anybody that information
People judging her decisions are just as bad as blackmailers.
I feel like Nikkie choosing not to out the blackmailer and ruin his life shows much class. I'm honestly impressed with how she's chosen to be the better person in this situation. I've never been a subscriber of hers, but dang I respect this woman so much now.
Lisa needs to take 100 seats. Coming out is personal it's your decision and NO ONE should be forced. I've been done with two faced for a while and I'm still done.
It's disgusting that people felt it was their right to tell her story. But I do not agree with her waiting to see "if she's in good hands" to tell the person that she's in a relationship with. Anyone can act like they care about you to get you to trust them then when you pour your heart out to them, they could use it all against you plus physically hurt you for not being upfront. Idgaf how well you are at reading people you should NOT WAIT.
@daxcade2865
4 жыл бұрын
That's generally how abuse works.. But if you just tell everyone right out the gate the media gets to blame your death on you instead of the transphobe
Ironic that the *Too Faced* Cosmetics co-founders sister, was fired.
How low can you be to try to blackmail someone into coming out againt their will. That is their buisness, it's their life and they can choose to tell people if and when they want
To all the people saying that she should've said her boyfriend from the beginning that she was trans. Why? What does that change? She is still the person he fell in love with. What does it matter if she's transgender or not? I've never understood why you should tell someone your transgender. You transitioned so you identify as that gender. If that person loved you before, you being transgender shouldn't matter at all.... PERIOD.
I'm sorry, but anyone who tries to blackmail another person is just scummy af. They're lucky she's not going to be vindictive and out them.
can we appreciate nikkie for a moment? she's so strong
Its non of our business!!!! Plain and simple!!!!
I like how you’ve changed “tea” to “story.” It’s more mature in the sense that everything isn’t just about gossip and that it’s real.
Too faced seems pretty *two faced*
FINALLY 😍 It's currently 3:06 AM here in the Philippines and I have school later but meh need to watch this first
@miss.bitchswerve6329
4 жыл бұрын
me when i need to wake up early or go to an appointment in the morning, my body feels fragile and tired for getting 4hrs of sleep lol
@love__scene
4 жыл бұрын
I am what I.M omg i read this at exactly 3:06 am
The fact that Nikkie didn't take the chance to ruin her blackmailer's life is amazing. She deserves a crown or a trophy or something.
@flowerpotgirl8835
4 жыл бұрын
ToriJayy ROBLOX I think that is a poor choice, honestly. That man has gotten away with a crime. People are also questioning if it is ture, due to her not legally pursuing it. He deserves to be punished for being a terrible human and a criminal.
@torijayy
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, that’s true.
Wait, I love Nikkie but I didn't know all this time that she didn't tell Dylan that she was trans from the start? That's the first thing you tell someone on a first date! Not after they caught feelings for you..anyhow that's her private business whatsoever and I'm glad he is okay with it and I'm happy for Nikki's success. Congrats to Nikki for being on Eurovision!🥳
It was probably someone she used to go to school with back then.
why is it up to people on social media- cis or trans - to decide whether or not it is okay to come out to someone yet? regardless of whether you're dating or not coming our should be your own decision and no one else's
@ginyu2969
4 жыл бұрын
Sucharita S if you’re in a serious relationship that makes it not only your choice anymore. People have the right to know who their partner really are..
Imagine needing to fire your sibling; Thanksgiving dinner would be mighty awkward afterwards.
yikes. imagine thinking you could get away with that.