Nyokabi Ngatha Her no 0714 809181 Kindy subscribe to her you tube channel. kzread.info/dron/n0GS03_4NUj7VAwIRSUUBQ.html Thanks for supporting her.

@hisgracesuffient6046

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed ✔ 👍

@gladwelltailor

2 жыл бұрын

powerful message I will one day tell my story too. This is my story from childhood until now in my fifties. I am calling you my dear. 🔥🔥💓💓🇰🇪🙏🏽📖🙋🏽😢😢

@gladwelltailor

2 жыл бұрын

powerful ngatha you something so deep in our society and it's almost 50% of Kenyan families are having narcissistic personality disorders for years 🇰🇪📖🙋🏽🙏🏽🛐

@Perry_Paris

2 жыл бұрын

This story messed my night. I have cried so much.These family wounds are real n they hurt so bad

Kwanza jaribu uzalie home kwenu kama hauna kakitu, you become the maid and stress reliever of the family.

@Magerito

2 жыл бұрын

Umesema, kwanza kama Hauna money 💰💰💰 or husband heeey utaona mambo,

I keep saying there's nothing distressing like siblings rivalry it slaps differently and like Nyokabi has said,the referee is always the mother (in most cases). You can chose your friends but you can't chose your family and neighbours. We are keeping our circle small coz we want to protect our serenity and peace of mind.

WOW.... HATA NGUGI IS SO EMOTIONAL . NGAI AMUHE HINYA😭😭

After watching this many thanks to both my parents they have never divided us from young age and our youngest is 44 yrs old my parents God continue to bless you more and more 😘 😘😘

I totally agree with nyokabi mums r coz of everything

Thro this story I changed my way of thinking completely. Niguthii riu. Forward ever backward never and I will not be held back by the past. Nyokabi future glory can not compared with past. You are teacher / counsellor to many . This is a rank above your won. Am learning from you and am your mother. Am over 50 yrs and am determined to make ends meet. There is no summary in life.

Learning something from this woman Every time I watch her Umuthi mwauga mwarie githungu))😉😉😘😘

This girl is a gem. With a very toxic family be careful so they don't recruit your very supportive husband into their shit. But yes don't take panadol for someone's headache.

i support nyoks Even good people get tired for ungrateful people fmly No ikuhurukie kahora ni kwaga umenyo.this very dangerous juu kitu ikitokea they blame yu.hugs nyoks

Reke nguire nii 1st born witu riamuisho ndamuiguire 2017 and am peace i had that he said i hate him for nothing.

Huyu dame anapenda kizungu sana

Personally siblings rivalry is all brought about by mother's .....what else unless you keep off and live like they never exist

Nyokz unaonge ruzungu mingi sana ni vizuri uongee rukuyu iko sawa sana na wewe .

This is what I have gone through with my siblings and in-laws.This interview has healed me.Realizing that you have to detach yourself, to stop treating people as family if they don't treat you as one.Leave them alone and live your life.Ndugu ni kufaana na sio kufanana.

@alicegatama1898

2 жыл бұрын

I see we are many. I have detached from haters also and we meet only when I can't avoid.

@priscillawanjirunjenga4533

2 жыл бұрын

Tuko wengi. But God knows why,now i know how to love my self before l couldn't coz i really hated my self the way people hated me,that when i realised a kikuyu saying NDUKANAMENWO WIMENE

@alicegatama1898

2 жыл бұрын

@@priscillawanjirunjenga4533 ,na uria umenagwo niwe uteithagia andu. Nii ona Nii nindakinyite gwiciria anga ngiri muuru.

The English i speak when am angry strong gal

Theses manenos are there and not many can understand,am afirst born I know what it means

Mothers come here and listen to this and learn from Nyokabi's life experiences. Your enemies are members of your family

I relate and identify with you Nyokabi and all the others who have gone through the same experiences. I have learnt to cut off toxic people regardless of who they are. Nii nderirwo ndiendaga andu moke gwakwa tondu kwaraga arume line by a young sibling I have helped so much. Another thing I have learnt is that in this world YOU ONLY NEED GOD ON YOUR SIDE PERIOD!!

@wanguikamau3483

Жыл бұрын

Sorry our mother died I did everything to them but today I am theirs most Enemy we needs to form a groups we can be meeting to encourage each other's likes sisters and brothers that's what's they do here people's meet and discuss Nii mutumia wa mbere gutuika homeless bururi wa kuraya

@jomwekserviceslimited

Жыл бұрын

This is real life…many are suffering silently. As for Nyokabi, she is in in her healing state … i can relate to her story in a way.

Ngugi kip it up na ungeitherie mrembo ucio

Oh so am not alone passing 😕 this... Aki kweli nowadays so called siblings is big no..hata kuko siku niliambia my mom 👩 watu usema damu ni nzito kuliko maji but better maji then blood....GOD IS THE ONLY TRUE 👍 FRIEND AND A FATHER 👨..blood my foot

strong mama leo kizungu 👌👌wee mpaka uncle wa mautamu anazubaa

The problem comes when they start recruiting others and that when the Hell comes in alot of people who are toxic will show you who you are coz this people have formed a group called RUMENA RWA GWATIO

You are not alone iam a firstborn and am treated the same by my siblings they all hate me both our parents are long gone i now have my son his wife and my grandkids take heart God is with us.

@memeem3585

2 жыл бұрын

@Nancy Mugo I would want to know how u overcome that I have the same issue and all I doo is cry but it never fades away

@florencekariuki6232

2 жыл бұрын

Nyokabi Joseph endio misili no ario a nyina no oh mathire kumwetha kindly am also a victim tafuta marafiki walio na isue Kama yako na uwafanye dada na ndugu zako me am ok with other ppl more than my family

This lady is talented na nituguthinja thahu ndukanahutie kairitu gaka in Jesus Name

Umuthi nyokabi ena roho WA githungu githungu.... anyway you are blessed nyoks ndukamake ninkuria umiite. .

I thought I was alone in this. Thanks for sharing. You have helped me a lot.

Umuthi Nyokabi uraria oooh kimonimoni

UI Nyoks you are not allone my two sis did wedding they never invited my husband my three children and i even uthoni imagine nilienda kusalimia my mom bila kujua kuko na uthoni nikapatawatu wamejaa huko nikarudi Nairobi kwangu mazishi ndio watajulisha mume wangu ndio achange

Woiii kumbe to gwitù tuu gwakanaga mwaki Ngai! Nìì nìkìo nginya itangiheana rwakwa rùgano gùkù mìtamboìni tondù ingìrwo nigùcambithia family my foot! Thank God despite all I went through God has been faithful....nilisema kila mtu aishi maisha yake. Am in the U.K and doing well otherwise some siblings are just hell.... wìhoke Ngai tuu

@loisekiiru8261

Жыл бұрын

Ona gwitu kumaga wa 🔵

There is something about this woman. She is lovable, happy. When ur star is bright, the darkness will never b happy. It must be attacked. U hv a great star nyoks. Love u from 🇬🇷

Nyokabi , you look smart , you star is great that's why watu wanakufight, I pray Jehovah fights all your battles

Don't carry unnecessary loads, I agree with her.......those who do not want to be in your life can leave.....

Ngugi please help nyokabi reconcile with her family its soo sad this things follow our children generational curse.its not easy remember everything starts from the spiritual world

Matinyonaga nomathina niokaga but hii yote ni mathy amefanya kuketi chini kuniongelelea yet no positivity wanaezasema ni uongo ata usaidie mtu they will say you don't.

Always lit. Ngatha nîtûkwendete mûno

Nyokabi tuko wengi don't worry mungu akiwa upande wetu atatupingania

Waa this hard feeling ever this reminds me of my family right now Ido value (mugikuyu)than family they like u when use bt when you are in pain they run nsee u sence less (ndwiciriragia) I don't go in family gathering evei burial no fr peace of mind

Hapo nikweli mzazi huchangia xana

For me I will say learn how to love yourself don't expect anyone to love you more than yourself our happiness and joy should come from within us but not from others,with or without them you can be happy, you don't need to explain yourself to anyone if a person don't like you it's their business,you don't need to do things for people to love you or accept you,you don't even try to justify yourself to anyone let people love you for who you are and if they don't it's their problem be free live a healthy life we just have one life to live in this earth make sure you utilise it very well and the most important know that God's love for you is sufficient be happy you are liberated.

@paulkamau5096

2 жыл бұрын

And i would add... You cannot give what you dont have. If you cannot love self, you cannot love others. Simpl; garbage in garbage out.

@margaretwachoro7532

2 жыл бұрын

Woow true

thayu Nyokabi

From the comments, people can relate to this. We ni we muhuhi wa coro wa ma because you address the tough issues people don't want to speak for fear of being victimized. Ngai mbere...

Yaku nama ni shadow Nyokabi, you are a strong gal!

Listening to Nyokabi is a big therapy to many. Yes, cutting TOXIC & Negative families members & friends in our lives is the best feeling ever. It open many doors full of Positive vibes. I do so un Apologetic & I never look back. Peace of mind is everything for me.

@mandisakahahu9022

Жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏻.....l am feeling you very , truely , deeply ,from the painfull , corner of my Heart....( touching...and deeply!).......Be Blessed always!....We Love you much.....and wishing you More Strength !.....Be Blessed always!💞🤲🏼💯💤🙏🏻👈🏿👏

Waaah😭😭😭, wega, wendo na thayu wa Ngai witu cirotuika cia gukuigana Nyokabi 🙏🙏

Behind every smile there's always a painful story to tell,may God continue to heal u baby girl,ur an inspiration to many who are suffering in silence

Nyokabi u said it well straight..mother's are dangerous 😳 na wao ndio wanapanda hii chuki hata wanaleta death between kid's..am a victim and its really painful 💔 😢..mimi kwetu my mom 👩 ametuzaa nje ya doa and she got married again na wakazaa watoi with my step father and from there akaanza kutulaani bele ya hao my step siblings kutuita mbwa na kutuambia heri hangetuzaa, na hao my step father and step siblings were always seeing 👀 how our mom matretend us, so wakakua wakijua sisi ni mbwa na hata waleo hawatuongeleshangi na ikafikia mama yetu akaanza kutuambia pamoja na step father and step siblings sisi tumezaliwa nje ya doa tusikawahi ongereshana na wakati atajua tunaongeleshana tusikawahi muita mom..😭😭😭😭💔..sasa tumebarikiwa ndio wameanza kututafuta tuwasaidie.

@blessedwachera7133

2 жыл бұрын

That’s terrible. I am so sorry that you have gone through that. I hope you are ignoring them now.

Wivu ni mbaya sana. Some r very jealousy n lazy that's why they cook story after failing in their miserable life

Ici niciarega mitheko. Ngugi umuthi ndaratheka na niguo endete gutheka. Dont worry Nyoks. Mimi nimechukiwa na everybody kwetu and I dont care. I have gone through sibling hatred. Its so painful. But at the end of the day, its my life. I detached myself and I have sèen the hand of God in my lifw

Nyokabi i support you 100% mothers can built or break up a family. Good show keep it up Nyokis an Ngugi wa Karanja.

Nyoks, yu are just amazing, I, relate alot with yu, My life is very similar to yours. I, love yur mind. Yu think correct. God bless yu much.

If anybody want to leave your life let them do so .life is very short to carry unnecessary loads everyday

Tuko 8 but Mimi Niko pekeyangu,Saba wako pamoja but my God is watching,it is painful to me

Diabetes is a chronic (long term) health condition that affect how your body turns food into energy, so your body either doesn't make enough insulin or can't use it well as it should. It's a lifestyle disease. I felt like sharing this😊

@Wanjamburu.23

2 жыл бұрын

Toxic people don't like reasoning they far fetch issues and smear mad.

@wapastor9724

2 жыл бұрын

That is type 2 There is type 1which is genetic

@shirowkihara6577

2 жыл бұрын

@@wapastor9724 correct, thanks for the specification

@ashleymuka7469

2 жыл бұрын

But now her mom claims she gave her diabetes 😅

Thanks for talking about that very sensitive topic. I can't imagine what you've gone through to get to that point of airing that. God bless you. If mothers lacks wisdom ucio ni ta murimu wa cancer ukaga kunyarira na kuharagania. But the siblings need to wise up and stay together in love.

Am in your shoes am going the same issue but Nyokabi you are a healer an angle sent from heaven waga gwa guthii ugoka gwitu you are 110%wellcome

Nyokabi keep strong. Mimi am going through this at the moment with my family and I am the last born.

Very touching story, she's telling the truth hii story niliona na my uncle separating kids saa hii hawaonanangi kwa macho.Leave people alone Nyokabi only God knows the truth.Keep smiling gal.

tumepitia mingi only God know how we feel inside .... family ziko n maneno

Nyoks i can't imagine the pain and heart break 💔. Our God is able to heal your heart but you'll never forget.

Nyokabi geragia kwaria na gikuyu maita maingi. Ngugi wa Karanja niugeragia gucokera uria Nyokabi aroiga. Ningatho. Nyokabi gikuyu ni kuega....

This story opened my wounds which I have been healing for 5years now. As per now nalia tu, I felt your pain Nyokabi coz I know how it feels to have toxic families

@zulfawaithera5479

2 жыл бұрын

Pole saana

Nyokabi & MC, this is where mediation comes in. To find a common ground for all. Mediation is a win-win situation. I am a mediator and no situation is that hard.

@hisgracesuffient6046

2 жыл бұрын

That would be great. What do you charge. We help Nyoks out if she's interested.

This very true even in Arabs family .I worked with a family for 5years . firstborn can do to others whatever he want and insults as he like and he is the best for the parents.im happy because at school teachers started complaining of his behaviour and even the other relatives ..sorry wamother

Nyoks... I personally don't care about anyone's opinion... my dear worry about God ALONE ... He knows you by name. By the way the good hearted people are the ones who get judged wrongly.. hated and belittled. Create your peaceful place and you will be happy. Don't hate or carry grudges... jipende...separate yourself from anything or anyone who steals your peace. You're blessed girl

@annwanjohi1049

2 жыл бұрын

Weee nyoks i dont talk much today na mimi kesho nisipate messagge zingine nilitumiwa,i need peace but as u always say family are the most toxic things

@annwanjohi1049

2 жыл бұрын

U got another sister here usijali

@simplyloise6820

2 жыл бұрын

@@annwanjohi1049 we are in the same boat my sisters hate me so much my mum ananichukia pia they don't care about me

@ChildofDestiny-2023

2 жыл бұрын

@@simplyloise6820 hugs to you dear, I can’t imagine hating my own child 😢😢 so sad 😞😮

This is an outbreak I think particularly in mt kenya region. How sad this is, but I agree completely just cos you are born together doesnt mean you are tied for life. I think this goes back to as far as the old testament. Be strong

@kmipos

2 жыл бұрын

You have said it,am going through the same predicament

@paulkamau5096

2 жыл бұрын

Its all over my dear. Am a teacher and i can tell this is a tragedy. Unfortunately, it already beyond repair. There's absolutely nothing that can be done about it. We just play our parts independently and pray it doesn't go further.

Njokabi you must not allow this people to interact with your ,children, friend's,etc coz they will spoil them, I know this kind

The stone the builders rejected became the corner stone. God loves those who are rejected by people. I identify with your story. What to do 1) have zero expectations from anyone. Expect nothing. Not siblings, not parents. They will not surprise you negatively. But when they step up to the mark as siblings, parents or family Then you will be pleasantly surprised. We cant choose 👪. Toxic love them at a distance. And if you are blessed Never deny them help but Protect your heart. Protect your space Protect yourself No is as good an answer as a yes I love you Nyoks I add any parent can do it not just mothers.

Nyokabi you are such a vibe dear.Let no one bring you down.keep going girl na nakupenda sana.You must be ahead of them that's why.

Woi pole sana madam Ngatha it’s very sad that you had to go through so much in life and then your family neglected you to such level but and I say but I will tell you to forgive especially your dear mum forgive them this will give another chance to like them for start and always you to be at peace take care of your soul by forgiving them

Sorry for what your going through but mine is worse than yours

I also wares the same shoe, the only way to get out of this is just distance loving and assume the past because you will never change how they persive you ,let the nature take course.and am also healed. thank you for sharing this.

💯 %mothers contributes this hates in family. Ndio apewe pesa na kila mtoto bila wengine kujua. This story is 💯 my equal to my family. You’re not alone my sister.75%of kikuyu parents sides with who has money that period. This story should be aired to kameme and inooro, and citizen ntv,ktn. For everyone to know, coz most ppl we visit Kenya and stay in hotels. Because the ppl you call family. They’re like Aliens to you.

@shezbeenhere993

2 жыл бұрын

Very true which is very wrong as a parent

@blessedwachera7133

2 жыл бұрын

This is spot on. And it’s always mothers. Fathers are not this divisive. But mothers are experts in the “divide and rule” method of parenting. And they are also very money minded. The child who has the most money is their favorite.

@leahmutugu1496

2 жыл бұрын

Well said

@rose-ou1di

2 жыл бұрын

Very true

@monicagatumbo1751

2 жыл бұрын

You're genius my dear

Hii story nikama yangu my mom alipotea macho akasema ni Mimi,tena alikuwa na hasira towards me ati ni Mimi nilifanya apitie yenye aliwa anapitia,I felt so disappointed,but what I did nilitafuta pesa akatibiwa macho,saii macho yake iko sawa and we are great friends right now ,so nataka kusema Kuna spirit inaingiaga wazazi wakati wanapitia hell,riu uria mekaga nikumena mwana wao , muno muno the first born

nyokabi you are a strong woman.......the bible says that the Lord shall never leave you even 8f all the others leave.....stay strong,focused and calm. I thank God for your wonderful husband....May your love together double to compensate the love of your family....penda wewe mama.

I love her thanks for sharing your story ❤️ you're such a vibe

Am so sorry nyokabi for what you have gone through ....just keep off from them they will drain you to dead.

I just love the advise stick to your lane!

Nyokabi my best you look so lovely and the hair style look sooo nice... keep up and don't think about the past.. that's life for today

Nyokabi ,people hate you when they want what you have and can't have. For one,you are a very strong personality and you will go far.

Sending you love and light Nyokabi,you are blessed and special.

I can support nyokabi what she is saying mother's engineers hatred within kids like me we don't talk because my mum is like kutupiganisha Hadi we no longer speak to each other. Soo sad...

@wambui185

2 жыл бұрын

😢😢😢

@monicagatumbo1751

2 жыл бұрын

I can relate

Thanks so much for the highlights you're not alone...

Love you gal....leo ni kizungu...kizungu..... beautiful ❤️

Sooo painful 💔, I have seen it happen in our dad's family ..but what I know is that God is watching from above ..nyokabi ur strong,keep fighting on.... Mothers ...may God help us through,let's take care of our kids and teach them the right ✅ 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏.

Just wish my sisters can watch this

I love her laughter May God fight you

Waiting

Aki Ngugi u have a Nice soal

The kizungu is showing how she is feeling... very serious matter from her heart!! God is good and He is on your side Nyokabi.

Hii story imefanya nilie nikijua haya dio napitia ..mpaka mama akambukiza kwa watoto wangu..i wish iam in kenya ningeongea haya

@wanjikumwaura9229

2 жыл бұрын

Don't worry tuko pamoja.

Huyu dada nimekuvulia kofia umechagua kujipa raha.wewe wakuigwa.

Nyokabi don't maid you are not alone in that situation. Even me my sisters told me I'm devil worship. It's painful but God heal the heart and one day God will show him self.

i thought i was hated,till i watched this.Damn....how now?

@gramarkpharmacy2175

Жыл бұрын

Hey Dad what are you talking about.

Pole gal,Stay strong 💪 💖

This is so painful 💔. God help this young mother. Give her peace, wisdom and the grace to abound much more. Pole Nyoks. You are such a genius. Please advance in life. I am proud of you how far you have come. I hope baby boy is doing well.

@nyokabingatha

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Our boy is okey. I was referred to KISE so that we can find a school where he will be taught at his own pace by professionals who understand ADHD and dyslexia. I will be going there next week.

@hisgracesuffient6046

2 жыл бұрын

@@nyokabingatha please don't give up. I wish he was here in the US. Sounds like a smart boy. Apply citizenship ya America when it opens please. Tafuta passport yako mapema. God is in control. Both of you with hubby apply. I believe something good will happen.

@nyokabingatha

2 жыл бұрын

@@hisgracesuffient6046 yeah. He is quite smart n his IQ is quite high. Wow. I will apply... Naambiangwa huko ni kuzuri na such kids coz they help the kids identify their talents and major on them unlike Kenya where we measure intelligence by the ability of one to write and read

@hisgracesuffient6046

2 жыл бұрын

@@nyokabingatha thats ✅. They teach them well and remain int he regular school system. Usikufe moyo mama. This is your champion. His star will shine. Most celebs here have had ADHD and Dyslexia but it does not define them. It shall be well. God is not mocked He has a great future for him.

Agreed with you nyokabi....

Hi MC thanks for inviting Nyokabi atleast she has encouraged me coz I went thru the same thing with my family....nimeona am not alone but God is with us...it's so sad and pls invite someone who will uplift us coz it's painful we need encouragement message ndio we try to forget all what happened but it's not easy

@davidmbugua715

Жыл бұрын

tuko wengi .....am telling you

Next bring her husband from testimony he is full of wisdom

Can all scapegoated children, come together and create our own family unit. And then we have one big celebration of each other 💃💃💃