So being a bad boy is basically being honest and genuine.

Bad boy =guy that puts himself first

Dont do the nice thing,do the right thing..

5 жыл бұрын

What's the right thing? Because thay shit is subjective

Good explanation Locario and you had me cracking up with some of your analogies.

Never heard anyone breakdown the nice guy vs bad boy scenario in the dating game.

Very Good Message, Much Needed. it is difficult to stop being a nice guy, cause i been this way for a long time. and i am trying to be indifferent and a challenge to women, but guys, never give up to those who are struggling with this.

@kwandampumelelo3309

3 ай бұрын

Don't try to be a challenge to women just stand on who you are, because if your trying to be a challenge to a woman your doing it for here versus yourself. Just a tip as I've also been there stay strong g

It's such a blessing to be unattractive. You just have to learn to embrace yourself and love being alone. I still enjoy these videos anyway cus I'm a fiend for human psychology. My point is that your life will be better overall if you have confidence regardless of how women see you because confidence is not a tool to get chicks but about feeling good and strong in your own skin.

@darkmagician1710

6 жыл бұрын

True but if you want to learn psychology, there is more to it than the dating game. I'm sure these videos are only one of the sources that you study from.

@YuhhFeelMe

Жыл бұрын

I got confidence, dont mean my life is good

Badboy is just a real dude

Its all about honesty bro, honesty is one of the keys on the game, good audio bro.

I use to be that guy mr nice guy. Listing to your channel has changed my mindset and i stop been mr nice guy. I started putting myself first and doing the things i wants in life. Your advice is gold, you given away for free here . Im grateful to you. Thank you my friend.

Preach Brother, thanks for opening my eyes to this Important topic!

This is a mindset shift video , one of your best video by far. This is a game changer in the dating world

I committed on this video 1 year ago I still come back listing to this video other videos to reflect. You have to allow the knowledge go deep inside your brain 🧠. Rewatching videos is must you want to learn more and change your mindset

This video hilarious but at the same time 100% accurate, pure facts.

Excellent breakdown!

Mr Locario please let us digest the knowledge you've already put out. You're uploading way too much good stuff

@Ronyron3053

6 жыл бұрын

Chukwudi Ezichi well it keeps your mind full

@bobrew461

6 жыл бұрын

as Luther said, its never too much

The answer is simple. Don't do shit for women. Don't give your time for free. If she is not cooperating remove your attention indefinitely. Two she must follow your lead don't follow hers. If she's trying to dictate how things go tell her ass to kick rocks. Simple

I think that some men believe that women will be attracted to them, if they are able to identify or become more like how they perceive women to be. What they might not realize, is how sexually active some women are. Like how you said that it is like yin and yang, when comparing the nice guy to the bad boy. The nice guy might not realize, that women are probably most likely attracted to the more yang qualities in a man. And women might not necessarily be attracted to a man, who is more like (yin) them. Also nice guys might not be used to openly expressing their feelings to other people. I've read books by Michael Baisden, Rom Wills, and Tariq Nasheed in that order. Baisden might say, "bad boy", Wills might say, "select", and Nasheed might say, "mack". And of course, all three may have used the term, "player".

Bruh this dude really be spitting the truth he explains everything way better than everyone else.

@YuhhFeelMe

Жыл бұрын

Nah other dating coaches better

I am going to start a channel called "The Nice Guy of the Dating Game"

why I hate job interviews, i don't like being fake

Woooow this is the realest video I’ve watched on this subject. I’ve been a nice guy all my life. No more.

Excellent video, the game is about you, be direct & know what you want from within yourself, it's about 100% cooperation. I think it's hard to find out who you really are because you do put on mask on either at work, school or with family. That's why you see men try to adjust to the women & her wants & desires

@darkmagician1710

6 жыл бұрын

You can't lie to yourself at the end of the day because you know who you truly are. It takes some people more introspection than others, but being real in everyday situations is a start. I'm not saying to curse your boss out and fight your coworkers, but at the same time you don't have to kiss anyone's ass or let people walk over you. Take the same mindset with women. Tell them what you want up front and accept the yes or no and move on. There's too many hoes out here.

@liteoreo

6 жыл бұрын

Dark Magician why do you think it's hard for men to be honest with women ? Why do some feel they need to lie , in your own opinion

@darkmagician1710

6 жыл бұрын

Jonathan Collier I would say that it's social conditioning. Many of us were taught that you have to act a certain way to get laid even if it's not authentic to who we are. I personally don't have that issue but I can understand why some men do.

Thank you

This is one of your best videos so far !!

I think the whole nice/bad guy thing screwed it up for a lot of men. They think being bad means being obnoxious and rude. While guys who are respectful are weak...WRONG. No one wants to be with someone who abuses and disrespects them for no reason. But what’s even worse is a phony disingenuous person who can’t take ownership over themselves. Those are the ones who always wreak havoc in society and are manipulative. And that’s what most “nice guys” end up becoming

@bulldogmalone

6 жыл бұрын

Very well said. The nice guys not shown how to have standards and respect for himself. He was never shown how to control his emotions. He was not taught how to stop fear from taking over his interactions with women. He listens to alot of bad advice from other guys that's been hurt. Basically he hasn't learned his real self, He was never shown how to be a Man

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. There’s no excuse for beta male simpin after listening to this right here. Let your balls hang fellas. No excuses now. Mr. Locario I admire your patience brotha.

Realtalk

One question,when will the physical copy of the Bad Boy book be available?

@compkiller1569

6 жыл бұрын

DishonestTruths Lol bring that thing out when you trying to find bitches in the mall or wherever

I am glad I was not born the nice guy I am the real guy

Mind blown............

Bad boy = select Nice guy = non -select Bad boy = upfront honest about their intentions Nice guy = not been themselves no honest intentions

When you leave a woman's presence always leave her wonder and thinking who was that guy🤨

@darkmagician1710

6 жыл бұрын

That's fine and dandy but as long as you feel like you're the shit it doesn't matter what a woman thinks about you

@Moneyoverbullshit850

5 жыл бұрын

Being dere done that ready I left my woman's this year haven't looked back still haven't called her

I dig your videos man. But I feel like you've explained this shit as clear as you possibly can thus far and rather excessively at that. I realize you're a coach and hope to help as many dudes as you can but if these cats still can't get the gist of the reality they're living in then it is what is. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink it feel me? Keep doing your thing, I just feel like some of your content has come full circle.

@darkmagician1710

6 жыл бұрын

Cody After a certain point, you can only learn by actually going out and getting experience for yourself. Keep in mind that his free videos are for beginner/intermediate level guys. His other content is in his bad boy membership.

YES!

I feel like I can turn either one on and off

At first when I have found out about PUA materials I really belived being good person is a real problem here, but my experience have opened my eyes to what's really behind this whole being a "nice guy" label. Many nice guys from my social circle were very unfriendly and dishonest towards me, but towards women they liked they were totally nice and they behaved like a different people. Of course a typical nice guys only pretended to be nice because they expected something in return. It goes like that, I will be nice to her 24/24 and buy her presents and meals 7 days a week but I want something in return (relationship and sex). Basically of you really think about it a typical nice guy wants to buy woman time and feelings with money and by pretending nice behavior rather than being honest with women. Bad boys on the other hand are really honest, they are not pretending being someone they are not, and they are not afraid to seduce women. No wonder average woman prefers bad boys. But true bad boys arnt good boyfriend materials, and in the long run they have their own flaws that turn women off (true bad boy likes to think only about themselves and can be disrespectful to people). IMHO in reality girls WANTS a good person, but good person doesnt mean a weak person (like typical nice guys who are afraid to speak whats on their mind), so guys have to become a true man (taking risks, being confident and honest, have some goals in life besides women).

Don't compromise your principles just to get what you want. The good guy shit is like having Stockholm Syndrome to me, just doing shit to appease others out of fear. It's OK to be controversial and show some spine despite the fear of rejection in all aspects.

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Nice=phony.

This is one of the realest videos in the game

How do you be assertive and say what you want without being needy creepy or thirsty.

What if your true self is a nice guy

@compkiller1569

6 жыл бұрын

JUNE learn how to be a douche to females but be nice to your friends, and not to mix it up, if a girl likes you for being a bad boy she doesn't want you to change,"that's not what I signed up for" and ends up cheating, being a nice guy means you keep complimenting or let her push you over.

Alot of dudes should watch this video

the bad boy is just being you without the feminist and societal braninwashing

cant really imagine anything I would enjoy doing with a woman expect than sex when I am feeling it..

Do you think it would be good for high schoolers to use the example at 12 minutes. When you just tell her you don't feel like just talking you want to have sex. Wouldn't that be bad for the guys reputation because she'll tell all of her friends that all the guy wants is sex?

@qasimimtiaz9668

Жыл бұрын

bruh, all girls know all you want is sex

How does the bad guy handle that situation

@user-rh1rs9ph4l

4 жыл бұрын

Dominance

This video wasn't sponsored by Jiggy-Riggyco.com🤔

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Why are these dating coaches always talking about nice guys? Aren't they fed up enough

@willms7173

6 жыл бұрын

I remember when the so-called nice guys, used to often complain about the so-called bad boys.

@alphapimp0073

6 жыл бұрын

Wil lms We'll a lot of those so called nice guys turn into players and bad boys because of American modern women. Thanks to these dating coaches.

@willms7173

6 жыл бұрын

It seems that nice guys turn to the bad boys for guidance in today's society. I've noticed that many of the married men, who come here from other cultures with their families, do not appear to be bad boys.

@darkmagician1710

6 жыл бұрын

Ironically this is what this video is talking about. You don't have to be an asshole to be a "bad boy". A bad boy is just a guy that doesn't let people walk all over them. That includes women.

@willms7173

6 жыл бұрын

A nice guy might perceive them as being jerks, if the nice guy allows people to have their way with them. The nice guy might think that someone who puts their foot down, is treating others like crap.

u should have explained this earlier. u made me kill

I feel like you talking bout me lol

I'm just a dick thank u sir

CAN U DO A VIDEO ABOUT GIRL U JUST MET ASKING U FOR MONEY AND U KNOW U DNT WANNA GIVE IT? And she is trying her best to GUILT u into paying for her bullshit like her hair wtf?

i remember years back when i was at camp, i wrote this bitch a letter who i liked and shit. she showed her friends, pulled me outside and said how that was a nice letter and shit. she said that she had a boyfriend though and just thanked me for the letter. If i could go back in time, i would spit some direct game instead of writing a letter, just to see if things would've turned out different. boy if i could time travel

Hey locario do me a favor & look up the etymology of 'nice' then make 1 more video about every guy who claims to be nice are doomed b4 they start. Its like nice guys are cursing themselves & fail to realize nice & kind are 2 different things.