'Niī Mutumia ūhuana Ngui Ndimwendete' : Those Were My Husband's Words To Me On The Day We Separated

‘There is no difference between you and a dog!’ Those were the words that Apiyo’s husband told her before he abandoned her.
Dejected, poor and with a baby on her back, Apiyo came back to Nairobi and set out to brewing Changaa and drinking all night.
If a man in a club refused to buy her a drink, she would wrestle him to the ground, make sure she has overpowered him then sit on him and take all his money. She would spend some on alcohol and the rest on food for her babies. That’s how she nursed the pain of her divorce.
Here is her story on ‘Why are you single?’

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  • @carolinemukundi4918
    @carolinemukundi491811 күн бұрын

    AMG Realtor's and Bountiful Safaris make this lady smile❤❤.She has such a heart of gold.A story of resilience and hard work.

  • @rosendungu8773
    @rosendungu877312 күн бұрын

    My ex husband left me for an old woman from Majengo... thanks God that my doors opened for me and my 2 children...we are all in Europe and karma is dealing with him in Mai Mahiu

  • @Chai-moto-fm

    @Chai-moto-fm

    12 күн бұрын

    That’s a nice one Karma dealing with him in mai mahiu! 😂😂😂😂

  • @esthermagua8359

    @esthermagua8359

    12 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😅😅

  • @anthonymatovu6057

    @anthonymatovu6057

    12 күн бұрын

    Forgive him

  • @NellyWainaina-pc9pp

    @NellyWainaina-pc9pp

    12 күн бұрын

    That is the power of forgiving.

  • @auntmso

    @auntmso

    12 күн бұрын

    That's what I like to hear

  • @eunicenjeru215
    @eunicenjeru21512 күн бұрын

    This lady is gifted in learning languages.She is speaking fine Kikuyu.

  • @shikungugichannel5651

    @shikungugichannel5651

    11 күн бұрын

    I thought she is a Kikuyu 😮

  • @kuirairene9590

    @kuirairene9590

    9 күн бұрын

    Since I was a small girl namjua akiongea kikuyu

  • @kuirairene9590
    @kuirairene959011 күн бұрын

    I know her from my childhood, we used to go to the same church St. Francis Mwihoko and I schooled with her child Ashley (Awito)in the same class.Her story is true. True we need to give her flowers 🌺🌺🌺.

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi277912 күн бұрын

    Naniguo ena Gikuyu kiega ati Apiyo what a wonderful lady

  • @maryndungu-bs7je
    @maryndungu-bs7je12 күн бұрын

    She is such a vibe. I cannot have enough of her. The Kikuyu is better than many kiuks. God bless you Joyce Apiyo

  • @rosalinemwariri9000
    @rosalinemwariri900011 күн бұрын

    Kikuyu should be a national language, kudos mama Lilian 🎉

  • @mercymuriithi2669
    @mercymuriithi266911 күн бұрын

    It's true huyu mama namjua tunaishi na yeye mwihoko,she is my role model,she has a good n abig heart, Mungu akumbariki mamayetu,gwitaga Mami,ningwendete

  • @wanjiru-yues1
    @wanjiru-yues112 күн бұрын

    She’s a beautiful soul. Thanks Monica for hosting her. ❤

  • @cathywangari4740
    @cathywangari474012 күн бұрын

    Kenyans United If you are in Diaspora That when you know you don't care which tribe you came/born from We are kenyans in blood

  • @annmaina4268
    @annmaina426812 күн бұрын

    The way she is speaking amd knows deep Kikuyu more than I do is even illegal.

  • @alicemwago11

    @alicemwago11

    11 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 tiga uiru nunua Ile kitabu ya wirute guthoma 😅😅😅

  • @MonicaKariuki-ei1ic

    @MonicaKariuki-ei1ic

    10 күн бұрын

    You have said the truth th​@@alicemwago11

  • @irenek5407

    @irenek5407

    8 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @YvonneNjeri-cb7yw

    @YvonneNjeri-cb7yw

    3 күн бұрын

    ​@@alicemwago11 Ibuku riu ria wirute guthoma no rituire?

  • @alicemwago11

    @alicemwago11

    3 күн бұрын

    @@YvonneNjeri-cb7yw hahahhahaha 😃😃😃 aki ma onanie nindirarietha niundu wa mwana wakwa

  • @dannjuguna6648
    @dannjuguna66489 күн бұрын

    This is the kenya we want...this lady is a vibe ❤.

  • @charitynganga9351
    @charitynganga935111 күн бұрын

    She is very comical - wow...the power of forgiveness. May God bless her and give her favour in all she does.

  • @ruthnjeri1072
    @ruthnjeri10722 күн бұрын

    Amazing how Apiyo is fluent in Kikuyu hata hachanganyi na kiswahili...roho safi kabisa

  • @rachealkaranja26
    @rachealkaranja2612 күн бұрын

    This lady is so beautiful, mature and has a very good heart. She is a seed of God.

  • @nonig8816
    @nonig881611 күн бұрын

    Wow!! I thought she's Kikuyu, speaking perfect Kikuyu♥️

  • @gracekarimi6378
    @gracekarimi637811 күн бұрын

    Thank you Monica. Biggest lesson in this interview is the joy in letting go.

  • @bethwambui4740
    @bethwambui474011 күн бұрын

    Dealing with men who are not ready to settle or raise kids is not a joke

  • @phyloshix4153
    @phyloshix41534 күн бұрын

    She is such a vibe... her eloquence in kiuk... Is amazing

  • @Esenem_247
    @Esenem_24712 күн бұрын

    This lady is so fluent abd she seems so open and a wonderful mature lady 😊

  • @newtonnjugunanewtonnjuguna8755
    @newtonnjugunanewtonnjuguna875512 күн бұрын

    Waaaah, pole mama Lilian , hope sisi wote wenye tunafanya gulf wameskia but, i want to remind mama Lilian that this money you used to pick or rather steal from the dramkards, most likely lead to the punishment you received, I have learned that anything you get the wrong/evil way, destroys you dearly I would want you to apologize, and kindly ask God for forgiveness and if possible, reach to those men and ask for forgiveness, kindly I really felt sorry for you, hopefully God will definitely take care for you, especially if you will manage to reach this Men

  • @prophetjanekimani987

    @prophetjanekimani987

    11 күн бұрын

    God is not a punisher but a forgiver…. It is good to seek forgiveness from God but she should not feel condemned….she is blessed…❤ ❤

  • @janeshepherd9259

    @janeshepherd9259

    10 күн бұрын

    There's now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus

  • @newtonnjugunanewtonnjuguna8755

    @newtonnjugunanewtonnjuguna8755

    10 күн бұрын

    @@janeshepherd9259 , you are right, but on alight note you as a person needs to just visit them, victims, and simply say sorry and that you didn't know what you were doing, because remember that the families of the victims suffered severally because of stealing their father, the bitter tears of the victims wives, sleeping hungry because of you, there's something more to do

  • @vinjoproducts.4655
    @vinjoproducts.465512 күн бұрын

    She is a good woman

  • @sophianaropi5011
    @sophianaropi501112 күн бұрын

    This is a very strong, intelligent and blessed woman. She has a beautiful soul. God bless the works of her hands.

  • @MorenaacalvinChege-wz6vg
    @MorenaacalvinChege-wz6vg12 күн бұрын

    Huyu mama n kama wajaluo wa laikipia na wakalejin ,, they speak pure Kikuyu,, naskiza hii story nikiwa Riyadh,, taking notes on how to save on My own,,,,,,Mk❤❤❤

  • @chatwithanne1122

    @chatwithanne1122

    12 күн бұрын

    Yes save your own money eg Kwa M-Pesa if you don't have a bank account. Never trust anyone

  • @chatwithanne1122

    @chatwithanne1122

    12 күн бұрын

    For those planning to go to the gulf or any country please open a bank account before you leave Kenya then you can do online banking..and have an M-Pesa.

  • @florambugua7117
    @florambugua711712 күн бұрын

    Very wise lady n determination to achieve

  • @samuelnjugunakimata5576
    @samuelnjugunakimata557612 күн бұрын

    She very fluent in gĩkũyũ language.

  • @bethkiragu3809
    @bethkiragu380912 күн бұрын

    Hi Kui. What an inspiring story. May the Almighty God bless you and Apiyo for such a wonderful story.

  • @juliuskariuki7387
    @juliuskariuki738712 күн бұрын

    Ur chronologically of asking questions is top notch, i salute u

  • @Wanguicathy

    @Wanguicathy

    11 күн бұрын

    True she is not overly curious or insensitive nampenda sana

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi277912 күн бұрын

    True we don't give because we are rich we share the little we have Joyce be blessed you worked your level best in Saudi God will reward and repay you back 🤲🙏

  • @wanguigithaga3305
    @wanguigithaga330512 күн бұрын

    She's an excellent mam. May God bless her so much. Thank you Kago I you are such a great soul❤

  • @wanyagahostrich2443
    @wanyagahostrich244312 күн бұрын

    Apiyo is a comedian , though amekapitia she’s fighter n she have a compassion heart 🙏

  • @MaryWanjiku-qn7kh
    @MaryWanjiku-qn7kh12 күн бұрын

    A good natured humourous sweet hearted lady. God will soon shower her with His favour. Be blessed Apiyo Wambui❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @elizabethnganga
    @elizabethnganga12 күн бұрын

    True, you don't give out of abundance of material wealth but rather out of the abundance of the heart. Nyadhiwa, well done. Or do I say, Wambūi, kanyangia papo hapo👏🏾🙌🏾

  • @mindsetmakeoverbyMaggieG
    @mindsetmakeoverbyMaggieG19 сағат бұрын

    I love this story,her spoken English is 👌.

  • @Fey-stephen
    @Fey-stephenКүн бұрын

    Weh...her kikuyu is soo fine👏 😂😂😂😂..she's just a vibe..amesema wanaume wote niwamama mmoja..the rizon why am single after first failed marriage 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Mamake657
    @Mamake65711 күн бұрын

    Wow niko gulf nanimesoma mengi... thanks kagoni❤

  • @shirowkihara6577
    @shirowkihara657711 күн бұрын

    She's a no_nonsense lady 😂😂 I love ladies like her, strong go getters, courageous and who knows their worth.

  • @blessedrose9424
    @blessedrose942410 күн бұрын

    Wee kikuyu yake imeweza.. I’m a kikuyu, but hata haifiki hapo, the vocabularies weeee. Congrats Walilian…may God keep you long and protect you

  • @Alba-Shi
    @Alba-Shi12 күн бұрын

    I like such women. Such a vibe!🤣

  • @juliewambui3991
    @juliewambui399111 күн бұрын

    What an a inspiring story,wambui ur r a strong woman 🎉

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri64279 күн бұрын

    Apiyo is such a vibe I love her positivity towards life she never gave up

  • @lydiamaina1005
    @lydiamaina100511 күн бұрын

    Resilience, patient and hardworking lady

  • @susanwanjiku5839
    @susanwanjiku583911 күн бұрын

    She is a vibe.a lady with a golden heart.God bless you Mama🙏

  • @user-wo5dw9om8d
    @user-wo5dw9om8d10 күн бұрын

    May God bless u Apiyo and monicah for this inspiring story,mama Lilian God is talking u to another level for Ur good heart.

  • @carolinemunge1563
    @carolinemunge156311 күн бұрын

    This is the spirit of a mother😊❣️

  • @nenekarain539
    @nenekarain53912 күн бұрын

    True way and demonstration of forgiveness

  • @margaretnjeri2310
    @margaretnjeri231012 күн бұрын

    U did good to forgive ur daughter.

  • @hellenmwangi4598
    @hellenmwangi459812 күн бұрын

    Mama you are a good story teller😂

  • @rachealmukuria8846
    @rachealmukuria884612 күн бұрын

    She's a vibe n a blessing to many

  • @lenahjrgensen6205
    @lenahjrgensen620512 күн бұрын

    Weee her fluent Kikuyu with no accent.. mpaka Kikuyu vocabularies

  • @PurityNjeri-ib6mk
    @PurityNjeri-ib6mk10 күн бұрын

    She deserves to be called a mum!!! May the lord bless this lady

  • @gladwellgichuki2267
    @gladwellgichuki226710 күн бұрын

    She has a very good heart, May one day God fulfill all her heart's desire.

  • @sarahmwangi6025
    @sarahmwangi602511 күн бұрын

    I have just enjoyed the show.....this mum is a vibe❤❤❤❤

  • @reginadavid4454
    @reginadavid445411 күн бұрын

    Waoh what a story she is blessed ❤

  • @monicahwambui548
    @monicahwambui54811 күн бұрын

    God bless you mama,,I can't get enough of you.

  • @FaithWanjiru-oj7kz
    @FaithWanjiru-oj7kz4 күн бұрын

    Am learning that Forgiveness is key so that God can bless you.Forgive from deep down your heart

  • @mercymuturi8045
    @mercymuturi804510 күн бұрын

    Hadi anajua jina 'Nyaciara' woiiii....Your flowers 💐💐 Apiyo

  • @IreneWaithera-fp8pl
    @IreneWaithera-fp8pl8 күн бұрын

    Waoh beautiful story i lun alot from her may God bless you mama and give you your heart desires ❤️

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi277912 күн бұрын

    Yani ngiya kwa Jaluo kwi wana ushio wa ma mother in law 😊

  • @wanjiruwanganga5707

    @wanjiruwanganga5707

    11 күн бұрын

    Mother in law Hadi wazungu they can hate you😢

  • @sarahngugi2779

    @sarahngugi2779

    11 күн бұрын

    @@wanjiruwanganga5707 weeeh i was shocked

  • @RoseMary-xf3pt
    @RoseMary-xf3pt8 күн бұрын

    Wa lilian is so vibrant.. very nice story may God open doors for her

  • @user-jd2ke9fq5z
    @user-jd2ke9fq5z12 күн бұрын

    Good show Monica

  • @rosekamau8537
    @rosekamau85377 күн бұрын

    Many lessons learnt, kwanza hapo kwa kuachilia bitterness in Life😢

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi277912 күн бұрын

    Haki ako na kikuyu veeeeeeery nice 👍

  • @janenjuguna7904
    @janenjuguna790411 күн бұрын

    Mimi wacha niwatumie school fees na rent na za food nitakaa na zangu hapa USA I can’t trust anyone 😢

  • @user-hv8zy5uo7x

    @user-hv8zy5uo7x

    11 күн бұрын

    Aki si unisaidie kufika uko jane

  • @gracewanjiru1022

    @gracewanjiru1022

    11 күн бұрын

    Any connections za kukuja huko

  • @YvonneNjeri-cb7yw

    @YvonneNjeri-cb7yw

    3 күн бұрын

    Yes ooh ukicheza watakushow kibembe

  • @donnangugi9192
    @donnangugi919211 күн бұрын

    l love her vibes a very good narrator ❤

  • @eunicenjeru215
    @eunicenjeru21512 күн бұрын

    I cannot get enough of Apiyo.Eti Tusker malt.Yaan you met a very good family.

  • @davidmwangi2234
    @davidmwangi223412 күн бұрын

    Hook her up with wanjiru wa kiama they can make a great team

  • @josephmwangi5141
    @josephmwangi514111 күн бұрын

    Úyú mútumia ní fire 🎉

  • @Karenwangari-cu8dw
    @Karenwangari-cu8dw11 күн бұрын

    She is beautiful,we are all unique and made in the image of God

  • @cindylombard4176
    @cindylombard417611 күн бұрын

    Mama Lilian, there's a place for people like you! Nakupenda bure.

  • @user-ix9cx5sh9m
    @user-ix9cx5sh9m12 күн бұрын

    I love your locks Monica ❤

  • @esthermumbi2600
    @esthermumbi26009 күн бұрын

    Very inspiring story.kagoni very soon nitapeana my story

  • @monicahlishiar6631
    @monicahlishiar663112 күн бұрын

    Good job💞💞💞💞

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi277912 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂 after two week hair style Lilian maah ndekaga wega mbia cia Saudi ma

  • @millicentmaina3687
    @millicentmaina368711 күн бұрын

    Wow she’s very fluent and honest

  • @kamaunjeri7562
    @kamaunjeri756210 күн бұрын

    If only we know that the human experience is the same

  • @kennethnjuguna7810
    @kennethnjuguna781011 күн бұрын

    True story kabisa..I know her ❤

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi277912 күн бұрын

    Haki four years wasted to bad ona Joyce e hinya ma ati ujaluo ni ngarama like for real

  • @EstherMaina-ep6ue
    @EstherMaina-ep6ue11 күн бұрын

    Hiyo umewambia ukweli achana na bwana yawenyewe boss ni boss hata hapa Kenya

  • @jesusfound8758
    @jesusfound87588 күн бұрын

    Beautiful lady with a great ❤️ heart

  • @janeshepherd9259
    @janeshepherd925910 күн бұрын

    This one can do the work of a comedian 😅 I just love you mama lilian ❤

  • @EstherMaina-ep6ue
    @EstherMaina-ep6ue11 күн бұрын

    Apio my neighbor watu hutoka far

  • @monicawacuka6110
    @monicawacuka611011 күн бұрын

    Apiyo you are amazing 😂🎉

  • @NyaguthiiNgatia
    @NyaguthiiNgatia6 күн бұрын

    hii ulimi haijui kijaka aki,,,fluent kikuyu

  • @juliegicheru921
    @juliegicheru9217 күн бұрын

    She a vibe. I agree with Joyce Saudi mind your business the rest fanyia kwenyu😅 otherwise utawai fight n mwarabu

  • @kinjowadad2422
    @kinjowadad242211 күн бұрын

    Mum pole sana,wamama upitia mambo mengi sana wakilea watoto wao .micie ni ndogo.

  • @FaithImani-qj1ci
    @FaithImani-qj1ci12 күн бұрын

    Ciana itihuanaine kuri mari mitwe nakuri matari,murekere tu mum tondu niaguikire uuru muno na mwana waku,niakarihio ni Ngai, narikorwo mutumia uyu no one mundu ungimugirira kieya uyu no atethie andu aingi ena ngoro ya gutethia

  • @alicegatama
    @alicegatama11 күн бұрын

    I love this lady. She has a beautiful heart.

  • @MercyWangari-xm6ty
    @MercyWangari-xm6ty8 күн бұрын

    Woow, mwarī wa Obonyo from mwihoko❤

  • @rosamariewanjiru8659
    @rosamariewanjiru86599 күн бұрын

    Who knows what hair braid is monicah wearing and who makes them. They are beautiful

  • @gracenjoroge4150
    @gracenjoroge415011 күн бұрын

    Wanaume ni wale wale. May Almighty help women.

  • @amosnjagi9804
    @amosnjagi980411 күн бұрын

    Ùyù mùtumia nì vibe 😂😂😂😂😂ndinamenya story ìgìthira aki 😂

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi277912 күн бұрын

    Tene kwari kwega gutiari muchere ni rehe life life tita rau no njuragano

  • @moniwawarikuo2253
    @moniwawarikuo225310 күн бұрын

    Our God is slow to anger and forgive Pure heart ur forgiven for forgiving

  • @elizabethnganga
    @elizabethnganga12 күн бұрын

    Veterinary 🤣😂🤣 Mama Lilian roho juu sana!

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi277912 күн бұрын

    Nikio itagihoka mwana ona ndimwendete atia wooi so sad 😢

  • @mercynjeri7086

    @mercynjeri7086

    10 күн бұрын

    Ndakwira nowihokire Ngai 😢

  • @annwamiti
    @annwamiti12 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂 lilian alikuwa anakaa maisha ya ujaluo ni? 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @janekogi6442
    @janekogi644210 күн бұрын

    She is a community resource person

  • @mundiasophie4637
    @mundiasophie46379 күн бұрын

    Such a soul.

  • @marywaithira-wd6sv
    @marywaithira-wd6sv12 күн бұрын

    Connect to the person who did your locks i love them

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