If she hates her father, she hates you.

@redpillthinking6043

3 жыл бұрын

Yup. Never date a woman with daddy issues.

@pjf3837

3 жыл бұрын

If she hates herself, she hates you.

@saif9amar417

3 жыл бұрын

@@pjf3837 If she hates her mom she hates herself and if she hates herself she won't be able to love anyone.

@ReticentIndignation

3 жыл бұрын

So true...wish I'd known that before marrying my ex-wife.

@queerasthedayislonglove8950

3 жыл бұрын

That’s what I’m starting to see.

If she can disrespect you once, she'll disrespect you twice. If she can disrespect you twice, she'll never stop disrespecting you.

@nickdiaz6095

Жыл бұрын

im fucked

@billyb4790

8 ай бұрын

Bingo. These dudes can sit here and act as alpha as they like and tell their cute stories about setting their women straight but it doesn’t matter. Women are a boundless sea of toxicity and no matter what you do it’s like shoveling shit against the tide. Best to work on yourself. Get enough money to tell any woman to go screw herself. You want a cute “alpha” story? I have a box of dildos I keep on hand to give to women as a consolation prize. “Go fk yourself” is the last thing they hear from me.

Private disrespect turns into public disrespect 🔥

@ethanstewart459

3 жыл бұрын

Need to put that one on my corkboard of quotes

@MenMovement

3 жыл бұрын

That's a fact. You're right

@eamonosiadhial2802

3 жыл бұрын

Respect

@ricliu4538

3 жыл бұрын

damn....thank you

@007mrredpillguy6

3 жыл бұрын

@financeinfluencer true words

When she disrespects you, dump her, quit being such a jellyfish. Get rid of her when she continually puts you down. Too many men have no backbone and women feel they’re never going to be held accountable.

@Anthony_in_Bloomington_Indiana

3 жыл бұрын

Now that ... is definitely a true statement! Thank you, Kevin, words from a wise man. My rule of thumb is - would you tolerate this same sort of rude or judgmental behavior from a friend, as you do from your girlfriend?

@jahbay

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed.... disrespect=I'm outta here

@scottw3039

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, “losing” a woman who treats you poorly isn’t losing at all. Women that will gladly take advantage and treat you poorly have no value and can be readily had anywhere and anytime. Find something better or just be alone.

@Nick-ue9of

2 жыл бұрын

@@Anthony_in_Bloomington_Indiana no, but let the friend know they disrespected you. If they can't change, adios.

@Mister.Palitotk

2 жыл бұрын

Kevin from sales right here guys! Indeed, man...

I know a guy who’s girlfriend was acting belligerent on a road trip. He dropped her off in the middle of the interstate and drove away...DON’T be afraid to crack the whip.

@thomasshort1784

3 жыл бұрын

@WM Paco If it's what you had to do, it's what you had to do!

@elijalive4303

3 жыл бұрын

@Mark Park good following your frame but lad, atleast drop her off where shes save. no need to kick her out next to a few lions because she disrespected you on a jungle trip

@Z8terfix

3 жыл бұрын

@BASIL!!!!! The musical and pumpin' Seagull you are clearly an Alpha .. all the other clowns that kicked their gfs on the side of the road are lowlifes

@Z8terfix

3 жыл бұрын

He was a lowlife

@--thatbih

3 жыл бұрын

@Mark Park you mean woman/women

"When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." -- Maya Angelou

@smoken4311

3 жыл бұрын

Gold

@Z8terfix

3 жыл бұрын

Yes.. make no excuses for them.. men woman or child..

@johnmoore37

3 жыл бұрын

Yep

@ajwalker2365

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed

@gregabrams5792

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!

Disrespectful isn't always verbal. Cheating is very disrespectful. Lying is too. Can be the nicest woman in the world but have very disrespectful traits

@actuallyflaw

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, disrespect is not solely about words or behavior, I had an LTR with the sweetest girl, but she was narcissistic and a liar, ended up cheating too.

@thomasshort1784

3 жыл бұрын

@@actuallyflaw I hope you got rid of her! You're definitely better off without her.

@colinjones5209

3 жыл бұрын

Lying is a big one, total disrespect, plus another step into deceit, plus another step into selfish, and knows exactly what she’s doing, and will do it again if you let her, the lying habit is almost impossible to break, it’s not teamwork, if she lies early on, dump her on the spot, much easier and cheaper than a divorce, been there done that, lies was the thing that destroyed us, and cost a lot of money.

@actuallyflaw

3 жыл бұрын

@@thomasshort1784 i did after a horrible breakup (putting all the blame on me) 2 years after she came back begging to take her back knowing that i was the only one who tolerated her bs, but no more my friend.

@thomasshort1784

3 жыл бұрын

@@actuallyflaw Good for you! You owed it to your self-respect. That blame angle is a form of gaslighting.

Left mine at a wedding 3 hours away bc she blew up on me over nothing. Ruined the whole weekend. I was done and had enough. She was yelling at me like I was a 9 year old. Complete bs

@dontfeelcold

2 жыл бұрын

You dodged a nuke.

@adonai7187

2 жыл бұрын

@@dontfeelcold lucky he.

@Fakestockguru

7 ай бұрын

Awesome lol. How did she get home?

@Arlene_DOTK

2 ай бұрын

Good for you, that will teach her 👏 👍 These disrespectful and narcissistic females need to learn manners and how to treat others.

In over 50+ years of marriage my Mother only argued once with my Father. He pulled the car over and looked at her and said sternly, "Never raise your voice to me ever again." My Father never laid a hand on her or his children ever but my Mother went pale and silent. Set your frame. Set your boundaries. In this case, my Father would have divorced her in a heartbeat.

@CedarRoofsOnly

Ай бұрын

Doesn't sound healthy to me. If they argued once in 50 years it sounds like a dictatorship.

One thing’s for sure. You’ll get MORE of whatever you tolerate...!

@gregkarson

3 жыл бұрын

True. This is Economics 101

@adalecarter

2 жыл бұрын

Words of wisdom my friend.

@proghead59

6 ай бұрын

Exactly! One of my cardinal rules is: Whatever you choose to tolerate, you are facilitating by default.

@Astral_Dusk

3 ай бұрын

Tolerance vs Boundaries - a pretty binary process. Maybe = Tolerance.

Lots of men won't put their foot down because they think it would be the end of the relationship. You will either be a doormat or divorced. Stand up and if the relationship ends move on. Better to know now, than after a costly divorce.

@dciccantelli

3 ай бұрын

If you don't put your foot down, there is no relationship. It's already over.

If she don't want you, she will tell you...it's in her behaviors

@coreyt6675

2 жыл бұрын

Yes

@lukeArmstrong524

2 жыл бұрын

Women do the chasing. Never chase women. If a woman is chasing you shes not replacing you.

@Astral_Dusk

3 ай бұрын

True, a lot of women are happy with a roommate with resources, little benefits / little romance, and having the real side action. Many need adventure and this is a form of adventure. Two or more partners, and the thrill of disrespect. Caught and cut off, these types might move on very quick, requiring codependence, unable to heal alone because of weak accountability - "no idea how I got here" stuff.

If you are an introvert, ambivalence really goes a long way. When you are not afraid of being alone, you can afford to have a zero disrespect, tolerance policy.

@mizukagematt1186

Жыл бұрын

Facts 😂

Never tolerate a disrespectful anyone...

When I called my wife out for the disrespectful way she was treating me I got accused of being verbally abusive and she is divorcing me! It broke my heart but 6 months later and the rose tinted glasses are off it’s probably the best thing-costly but at 67 I can cry FREEDOM!!!😂

@milesmayhem5440

3 жыл бұрын

Good luck to you sir.

@romanhoax9014

3 жыл бұрын

*Its always more difficult in a marriage, because women have the upper hand with divorce*

@lordzooq8987

3 жыл бұрын

Mistake was giving her the leverage to do that. But I'm glad for you brother

@beanybway

3 жыл бұрын

It’s just projection, my woman was emotionally abusing me for a year, I called her out on it and she switched it round to say I was emotionally abusing her by calling out her emotional abuse. She would tell me constantly I did nothing for her, to combat this I would remind her of all the nice things I did for her and then she would say I was throwing those things in her face!?!? I could never win and neither could you, the only way to win with a woman like that is to leave her! A woman like that will take years off of your life with stress. Enjoy your freedom my brother and make the most of your time and your life without the burden of hate and misery weighing you down.

@johnnyr3340

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao u got screwed for talking ur mind. U should have never gotten married to her to begin with. If you can’t even have a reasonable disagreement then there should be nothing

"When someone willfully disrespects you it is a test for hierarchy; so, be a knight or be a pawn because you cannot be both." - brian padrick drake

@lordzooq8987

3 жыл бұрын

Damn! Thanks for this

@saif9amar417

3 жыл бұрын

That's a good one.

@Ace.0.0.0.

2 жыл бұрын

Respectfully, I choose to be king, with a queen who serves and protects me.

@Astral_Dusk

3 ай бұрын

This is great, not doing anything is too often the pawn unless you're adept in a knight's body language and silence to convey a fury back at them. Sometimes you've got to strike fear in the entire room to stop a war.

Ive found in my personal experience that it only gets worse. Disrespect is a snowball, growing and getting worse. Once she gets away with it, she'll try it again. Then it gets worse.

@rich99global

2 жыл бұрын

True. You need to squash it as soon as it rears its ugly head. If it's a minor infraction give your girl some straight-talking the first time it happens. The 2nd time : dump her, she won't change.

When a broad checks out of the relationship she will not only disrespect you openly in front of your friends but she will not care what happens to you. I've seen so called "love" dissappear and turn into disdain lol

@gwynedd1

3 жыл бұрын

Love is real, but existential. Its a verb and not a noun.

@vincenth3267

2 жыл бұрын

Very true!!! I have seen it many times and experienced it myself, on both sides from multiple woman!!!

@vincenth3267

2 жыл бұрын

When a female checks out!!

@garysavala665

2 жыл бұрын

She’s trying to get you to leave .so she be with pookie and ray ray

@NSLZ6

Жыл бұрын

Do you have any example of her not caring? I’m having trouble thinking of them. Also in this scenario, what other things will she do ?

Any disrespect, invalidation, emasculation, dismissiveness, or denigration.... they get ghosted. Before I even get into a relationship with somebody they know the rules. I tell them straight out not only am I gonna walk away from you forever I’ll forget your name and I’ll go find somebody that looks just like you.

@pvtruestmusic

2 жыл бұрын

Gang

@zippyblessed839

2 жыл бұрын

That sounds harsh 😳

@rockr10

Жыл бұрын

@@zippyblessed839 "That sounds harsh 😳" It's called being a man and having self-respect

@UnitedStatesofClips

7 ай бұрын

W

I could write a book on these women. And at this age I’ve learned the good ones got married and stayed married, what’s left is other men’s cast offs and lunatics who can’t keep a man.

@brettgoranflo5101

2 жыл бұрын

Man, 1000% true! I wish I knew in my mid 20's what I know now... would've stopped the partying and settled down. Now at 40, going through a rough breakup 2.5 years ago to a solid 9 then seeing what's left in the dating pool.... my GAWD, it's bad out there..

@Drumbeat52

2 жыл бұрын

So right!! Dating today is like shopping at the Goodwill!!

@eskanda3434

22 күн бұрын

all the good ones get locked down once you hit your 30s its not a pretty site

It's funny when Paul mentioned leaving her behind and it reminded me of an incident that happened in my family. My dad and mom came to visit us in our apartment shortly after I was married. At one point in the evening around 10:00 my dad stood up and said it's time to leave. He went to the door , put on his coat, said his goodbyes and walked out. My mom said I'd better go or he'll leave me behind again. As she was putting on her coat she said he'll go down to the car, start it and wait two minutes and then he'll drive home and leave her there. Mom said he won't come back for her; if that happens and I would have to drive her home. As dad got older he didn't take crap from anyone. He had ran his own businesses his whole life and had to put up with customers. Once he retired and sold his business and his apartment buildings he didn't put up with anything.

@ivantheterribler8346

3 жыл бұрын

Was your mom a nag?

@topcathk1

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing - who's side do you take when your parents visibly quarrel like this ?

@lardal1502

3 жыл бұрын

@@topcathk1 It has nothing to do with me. I just observe. It's not really a quarrel it's more a quiet statement of dominance from my dad. My mom was not that bright. All women need to be lead. But, lead by a man that cares for his woman. Women expect to be lead and it gives them a sense of security as long as she has confidence in that man.

@Ace.0.0.0.

3 жыл бұрын

It's true. Age gives license. It sounds like your parents have an understanding of how their marriage works.

@EDINFarms

3 жыл бұрын

That's a BOSS. Thanks for sharing

On God.. NEVER EVER TOLERATE DISRESPECT. You don’t deserve it and don’t let it slide.

@AggravatedMan365

2 жыл бұрын

🎯

I had this girlfriend that tried to disrespecting me this one time. I told her ‘thats it i’m done’ I literally just stopped talking to her. Received like over 100s messages. Even now 2 years later, i get birthday and holiday messages from her and i only reply ‘thank you’. Every couple months

@starscream6629

2 жыл бұрын

Wouldn’t even reply at all if you want her to stop

@dasein9980

2 жыл бұрын

Good for you

@ericpowell4350

2 жыл бұрын

Why are you even replying?

@dontfeelcold

2 жыл бұрын

@@ericpowell4350 he's a beta

@forgottenmma3694

Жыл бұрын

What she do?

Check a woman's disrespect immediately, in private or public! They will cower like wounded kittens and crawl back. A woman only gets one shot with me, when it comes to disrespect. She's trying t pull the man out of you!!! Give it to her.

When to Dump your Women: 1 - When She is not DTF 2 - When She steps out of your Boundary 3 - When She is operating in her Hypergamy Mode Be So Unpredictable and Make Her think She has made a BIG Mistake! - And Of course, DON'T TAKE HER BACK! Rollo's Iron Rule: it is time better spent with new prospective women than to rebuild already broken relationship

@danurachman5626

3 жыл бұрын

@Luis just exactly the right time to dump her... When she think she can do better than you, show that bird the exit 😆

@vdm_

3 жыл бұрын

DTF?

@danurachman5626

3 жыл бұрын

@@vdm_ No DTF means no Genuine Desire... DTF (Down to F*ck) 😏

@RicardoLopez-ty4kn

3 жыл бұрын

@Luis how can you tell? Whats the signs?

This is true for friends, co-workers, teachers, students, bosses etc. My old boss yelled at everyone but me. Give respect, expect respect

Disrespect, comes in many forms: Here is some examples: At a restaurant I told a waiter I dont want peas in my pastas. She tells waiter he will have the peas after I said I didn’t want it. She got checked real quick! Another time holding her hand while walking to restraurant I said something she didnt agree with she threw my hand away from hers in front of everyone. I walked out of restruarant and took off. No dinner for her! This is on point start distancing

"Private disrespect becomes public disrespect" That is sooooooo fuckn right!!!

Spot on, i learned the hard way.

@mrtimtom2631

3 жыл бұрын

Right on brother

@ScarfaceFranckRibery

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@NsIX3

3 жыл бұрын

Me too, never again.

@jvc9386

3 жыл бұрын

Never again

@caucasianafrican1435

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry, brotha

"When your silence inspires more dread than anything you can say, that's when you're alpha." 100%. There's a reason women use the silent treatment. They use it on each other and it is brutally effective when they do, their tendency to gaslight themselves does more work than any words they say. They use this on men too thinking it will have the same effectiveness but not knowing they can turn it right back on them. When she's the first one to speak after a conflict it's almost always because the silence is getting to her

@bigneiltoo

2 жыл бұрын

When your dread inspires silence, that's when you're Omicron.

@thetruther9521

2 жыл бұрын

That's not alpha That's sigma

Never tolerate any form of disrespect. You have the power to walk away.

If she dont respect you get rid of her and find a woman who will.

I don't tolerate a disrespectful anybody. Probably why people respect me.

@thomasshort1784

3 жыл бұрын

@Ryan Stresser Same here! When somebody tries doing that, you're best off cutting ALL contact with them. This world needs MORE stand-up and assertive men!

@bradleyb.425

2 жыл бұрын

BINGO. I got locked up for 17 months by the Feds for doing some hard core patriot stuff. Everyone around me called each other "fool" all the time. Not once did anyone ever call me fool. Know who you are and live it. Others can tell.

I found out my wife cheated on me. I didn't say a WORD!!.. SHE had a trip out of the country 3 days later. I took her to the Airport and have never seen her since. Divorce papers were on the table when she got back!!

@JUICEGOTTHEJUICE

Жыл бұрын

Nice

@sgtlucifer6883

5 ай бұрын

Bravo! my fella. - you gotta know how to stick it to them. - my dumb ex went to work at 7am one Saturday in 2012. - by the time she got back from work, my belongings were packed out of the house. - 3 kids. yet i had to give up for my own sanity. - modern women are a basket case of never-ending troubles.

Zero tolerance for any form of disrespect. Shut it down the first time. End it after the second time. Don't look back.

I started noticing this 2 years into my relationship that I ended at 4 years. At family gatherings or at get togethers with mutual friends I would often become the butt of one of her jokes, but it was always have joking and half serious. I got to the point where I didn’t want her around the people in my life. It took too long to realize my mistakes, but I’ll be hyper aware moving forward.

No child should ever experience mum throwing dad out of the house. It messes with a child's mental health. What's worst is a man trying to come back after she did that. I've lived through that and i feel sorry for my dad. It came to a point I couldn't handle the disrespect I moved out. If a woman doesn't respect the man of the house, the children are in deep trouble. Better leave when dad doesn't even stand up for himself. A mother who claims her children are emasculating her husband needs help. If mum doesn't respect dad, how on earth do u expect the kids to respect him. In my case, I tried respecting dad but she made it impossible. Now I love them from afar, but for my own mental health I don't associate with them. I'm just being real here. I'd rather die than treat my husband that way.

Taking notes RN should have known this as a teen. It's messed up when you see blatant desrespect of a guy from his girl in public. It's sad to watch you feel sorry for the guy especially if he's married or has kids.

I put up with so much of what you said and now I'm in my 60s where I finally left my wife from decades of disrespect. She trash talked me constantly to all her family and relatives. I kept thinking things would get better but only got worse. I should have left decade's ago, but now I'm looked upon as the bad guy. Sure wished I'd had guidance such as you guys decade's ago.

Never let anyone mistreat you always best that you leave find something better

In the 15 years I was married to my ex, she apologized less than 3 times. I didn't have the spine to hold her in check. But I learned the hard way.

I threw out my ex because she became obsessively disrespectful. Constant critique about me on twitter behind my back, and constant antagonistic behavior literally trying to push new buttons every time.

I love rich's story about the gf calling him cheap.

If she doesn't honor her commitments or isn't willing to cooperate, leave her.

"if she values you you'll notice changes, if she doesn't then she won't change"..... its that simple and I ended one quickly over this!

This is 100% true. Private disrespect will escalate into public disrespect. When disrespect rears its ugly head, you cut its head off immediately and keep that disrespectful tendency in constant fear of ever showing itself again. Do it not, and it will grow into a hydra that will eventually destroy your relationship.

It’s sad to see men get pushed around by women and then they still plan on marrying her like dude you’re setting yourself up for failure

It’s important to train the women in your life

Actionable advice? I divorced my wife for huge levels of dismissal and disrespect over too long of time. And now she has little going on, is still shocked after more than a year, is alone and very lonely. Yes, she is indeed replaceable.

They only sincerely apologize when you don’t call them out on it

@Ace.0.0.0.

3 жыл бұрын

I disagree. They apologize only when you call them out.

@abhisekgogoi1043

2 жыл бұрын

From my experience they apologize only when they need help

@Ace.0.0.0.

2 жыл бұрын

@@abhisekgogoi1043 Unfortunately, I have to agree. They rarely apologize because it's the right thing to do. In my experience, they do it when they see that not apologizing could be worse. Or, when they are under the gun. It's funny, in that I know I am not perfect. I know I am prone to error. I do not want people to think I am perfect. That would be a terrible burden. But others have a VERY high opinion of themselves, and they would rather die (figuratively) than apologize.

@ericpowell4350

2 жыл бұрын

@Chris you have to call them out on it and not whine about it. There's definitely a difference. The thing is marriage turns most men into the type that will eventually start whining because one is trying to keep the peace.

I shut a woman down that tried to play games. So glad I’m learning tools from you.

If being cheap means owning a McLaren down the line, then I'm in!! 🏎️

My ex wife never disrespected me while we dated for 16 months, and not the first 6 months of marriage, but after the first 6 months the disrespect started. She never disrespected in front of people (she did it once and I ripped her) or cheated. I always called her on the disrespect. After a couple of yrs of disrespect, she became an ex wife. And yes, she only rolled her eyes at me one time!!!!!

All are spot on, agree nip it in the bud or just bail out. If she doesn’t inherently know how to be respectful and not to air issue in public it’s a walk of the lot.

Thank you Mr. Rich for sharing your story on how to deal with disrespect. It really made me think about how I need to approach disrespect across the board. "Act immediately on private disrespect."- Mr. Rich

Both my exes did this. Breaking ranks, if you will, in front of the kids, parents, friends, etc. I'm a very self-reflective guy, so I wondered what I did to cause them to lose respect for me. I did things different...changed how I dressed, how I spoke to them, put more value on my time (by refusing to waste it), worked more, was home more - not at her request....nothing worked. Its kind of like once she loses respect for you, it's gone. There didn't seem to be anything i could do to get it back. So I agree. Once she loses respect for you, adios. But you have to treat yourself like a high value man. My own personal observation: You have to show the world that you're worthy of their respect without demanding it. If you have to say it, you don't deserve it. Keep control of your emotions and don't take shit from people. Zero tolerance for bullshit. She has to see you earn respect from others. Let her see others asking your opinion... about something that matters (video games and star wars don't count). She has to see you handle your work load (vocational and daily stressors and life's curve balls) with poise, determination and an even keel. If you're going to lose your shit, Don't. You. DARE. do it in front of her. Ride your motorcycle, kick the crap out of a heavy bag, take it out picking up and putting down some heavy shit, anything but yelling and screaming or arguing. Don't allow the cracks in your armor show. You're better than that and you have to make sure (by SHOWING her, not by telling her) that she's well aware of that fact.

@lordzooq8987

3 жыл бұрын

I'm 21, thanks for this man

@calleocho2107

2 жыл бұрын

I’m 26 years old and it makes so much sense now after reading why women have ghosted me once they see a slight weakness in their (me) “knight-shining armor.”

@mav8243

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks my friend, the same thing happened to me, everyone disrespects me and my exes disrespected me at the first opportunity and I tried to change a thousand things about myself but nothing went back to the way it was before. The more I opened up the worse it got. Stoic.

@damo9961

2 жыл бұрын

It's not about respect, those chicks were probably cluster B.

@forgottenmma3694

Жыл бұрын

Her kids? Lmao first mistake

I have mommy issue and grew up with 3 sisters (one of them has BPD), there was constant fight and controlling mother so I am getting Avoidant personality disorder. So when my Borderline girlfriend came into my life, I couldn't see her abuse abnormal (yelling, physical hits, toxic attitude). Sometimes family dynamic makes young boys not having strong boundaries. In conclusion, my borderline ex mentally broken me into pieces.

@jayc342009

Жыл бұрын

I am avoidant too and i dated a BPD, we seem to ignore red flags more because we see them as normal from growing up around toxic family members. Just a question, how long were you with your BPD ex?

@CarlosRamirez-no2js

Жыл бұрын

Same here. One sister , crazy mom, dads too long of a story but none the less sides with the girls against me . Almost shot myself a while back. Glad I’m alive , I hate women now but want to bang ‘em still haha

Imagine our boy Rich at the grocery store and feeling the tap on the shoulder and him turning around thinking it might be someone who wants to fight him or something lol she was scarrrrrrrrrred

@65firered

3 жыл бұрын

And now people are going to do that if they see him.

The story Rick told at the end sums it up perfectly!

She disrespects you it's time for NO CONTACT. Depends on severity of disrespect of course. A little dread game can work wonders. If it's a pattern of disrespectful behavior and words then cut bait ASAP.

Put your self respect above all else gentleman. Follow through when these women test you and have the abundance mindset to walk away. This video is truth and you'll be happier with or without her.

Great content with the collaboration Rich 👍🏽

I appreciate what you are explaining here. My partner and I treat each other with care and respect. I’m female and my dad an alpha. That being said the things that you are saying women do I can’t even imagine. Women have become horrible. I wouldn’t even do those things to a girlfriend. What you are doing here is teaching yourself boundaries and how to communicate to the immaturity that women seem to behave with. It also shows me that fathers are important. My dad treated me with love but we also treated him with respect. He would have taken a bullet for me. Be good fathers. You will help correct this insanity of modern feminism.

If a woman disrespects you, it means you need to check her. most beg for it

" Can you drive her home? " Leave, light a cigar, and drink some bourbon. Leave her on read.

I had a girlfriend that was 14 years younger than me when I was 35 and boy let me tell ya.. she could be a different person in different situations. I had neeeever dated anyone like her. I was guilty of letting things go too far because I didn't want to end the relationship but damn it got so bad. She wouldn't stand up for me or anything. I remember a comparable time to his story about turning the car around... We had loaded up my snowmobiles and had only made it about a half mile down the road and she was in one of her disrespectful moods and she said, "the only reason I'm going is because you're making me!" She had me so mad I just turned around at the corner and took her back to the house. She immediately changed her tone but I just wanted to get away from her. I wasn't making her come with me and I wasn't even fighting with her, she just liked to stir shit up over absolutely nothing! So as I was out riding my snowmobile and having a good time she started texting me and being all nice. This would always happen, back and forth to where I got so damn sick of getting her to behave! She just wore me the hell out so I kicked her out. Been single ever since. Now I'm 40.. I have a bad taste in my mouth about women now. I just view them as all bad now to where I dont even want to be in a relationship with them. I go on lots of dates but shit.. I just dont trust that they won't turn into a shithead. Women just aren't what I used to think.. Theyre so much trouble..

@tommybrown187

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

@CJ-tc7xh

6 ай бұрын

Similar situation. She’s 11 years younger than me. First time I checked her she got on good behavior for two weeks then everything went down hill from there. I have to constantly pull back to get her to behave and it’s wearing me out.

Awesome clip fellas and awesome story about dealing with disrespect.

The other side of this that doesn't get touched on here is that some women will never respond positively to this. From personal experience, the women that were raised in 2 parent homes but the father was a bumbling doormat of bufoonery that spent all his time providing and then serving the mother will never comprehend this boundary. It took me 3 years with an otherwise great woman to finally just kick her to the curb because it had been a constant source of conflict since 6 months into the relationship. I always responded to it immediately, either kicking her out of wherever we were or leaving without her whenever possible, and giving her a "you must have lost your fuckin mind" whenever it wasn't possible. She would cut the shit...for a month or 2. Then be right back on it. The cycle never stopped. Moral of the story: just because she doesn't have daddy issues doesn't mean she doesn't have daddy issues. A female-dominant parental situation is a big red flag.

@jimdaniel4412

Жыл бұрын

Female dominant parental situation. Nailed it.

@samredfield4963

Жыл бұрын

I'm Mindblown after reading this... just went through it and it adds up, luckily i was the one who ended it before she could monkey branch.

Dad does not need to say anything. It’s just that look he gives to us including mom. He just passed 70 and still have our respect and we’re 10 successful siblings.

for those not sure how to calibrate disrespect, if it feels like it was a "dig" then thats your signal to bounce ( Especially after patterns of it )

@callanc3925

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah and dudes need to realise that they probably have a different metric for disrespect. Some guys like to joke around and will take a lot of shit if it seems jokey and like they can send some back. Other guys are no nonsense and even a joking dig is disrespectful. Its all about finding out what is disrespectful to you personally

There is one thing women hate more than being ignored, that's being alone. I already see generations of cat ladies in the making.

This channel is gold!

This is such high wisdom it would’ve been more powerful if you all would’ve met up to speak on it together in person

I’m reading your book now. Enjoyable

Great topic guys. Great commentary and insight also. Keep up the good work brother

Pure gold!

Extremely well spoken Alpha Kings!!!

This is amazing

These women "know" when they have crossed the line. They know. Mine did. Even if you don't call her out.

@Ace.0.0.0.

3 жыл бұрын

The question is, then what happens?

@3oxisprimus848

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ace.0.0.0. what happens? You bounce!

love that suzuki swift / pull over and throw her out story . Made me chuckle . More guys need to take that kind of action .

Goddamn that’s so right. But all I can think is of all the times I should have employed these principles and didn’t.

Bravo. Nice story Rich. 👏

So true I have seen so many times that women did not offer an apology to me or somebody else.

Disrespect will manifest when a man's confidence is low usually when finances are tight or there is disruption in income security and concern and doubt about the future. That is the point where keeping frame will be vulnerable, it is going to happen at some point. It is very damaging and debilitating and can and will lead to the man's self esteem breaking down which in turn effects his ability to turn things round when in a slump, it is this dysfunction that is dangerous. Disrespect is going to happen at some point because it is in women's nature to shit test and test the boundaries and as a man you have to keep the plates spinning to keep this at bay but understand you are not allowed a weak moment and if you get into a slump disrespect will follow. The problem with disrespect is that it is a conditioned habit which gets stronger with practice and reinforcement and will become the woman's MO the only way to avoid it is to avoid it completely.

@whirlwindmgtow5534

2 жыл бұрын

Troof.

You need to be willing and ready to walk out of a relationship. If you are not married, it is easy. When you are married and no kids, it is also relatively simple. When you are married with kids the problem is exponentially more complex... Don't get married if it does not feel right. Listen to your gut feelings and don;t be a needy bastard!

From the start of the relationship, NEVER tolerate her badmouthing you to other people. Set a standard. And ALSO, NEVER badmouth her to other people, set that standard that you respect her and "this is how we behave, like a class act". I'm not saying you worship her in social settings, with glowing compliments, just talk about her with respect and dignity. Like I said, set a standard and then always insist on that standard.

@GreenBroccoli100

3 жыл бұрын

Hard to remain respectful of someone who constantly disrespects you and treats you like a dirty rag.

@wizrom3046

3 жыл бұрын

@@GreenBroccoli100 hmmm, I would not be in a relationship with someone that bad...

@GreenBroccoli100

3 жыл бұрын

@@wizrom3046 Problem is you don't find out till its too late, my ex became very disrespectful towards me in the end, was gaslighting me and being emotionally abusive. But she played the sweet and caring girl for a while.. till I started living with her then I found out really who she was... all the respect and love I showed her, she took it for granted, and discarded me like trash. It's easier said than done, if you know what I mean. Unfortunately I haven't met a lot of girls who treat men with equal respect if hes good to her, usually she ends up treating him like crap, so one thing I have noticed is that they do respond well to and seem to give respect to men who treat them like trash... I get it alpha fucks beta bucks lol Anyway it was a harsh but important life lesson for me. Never love someone more than you love yourself. I'll just have to be incredibly selfish and ruthless next time, not put up with their BS again.

@wizrom3046

3 жыл бұрын

@@GreenBroccoli100 I feel for you man. 🙂 All I can say is you have to pick them right from the start, then set good standards right from the start... And probably still takes some luck too. A good trick is to test her character early in the relationship. Expose her to problems, especially ones where she doesn't get her own way. If she has a quality character she will respond with humour and a good natured approach. If she instantly turns into a screaming spoilt psycho when things go wrong and she doesn't get her own way, that tells you all you ever need to know. 😱👎

@GreenBroccoli100

3 жыл бұрын

@@wizrom3046 Thank you for your kind words brother. To be honest I'm not experienced enough with relationships, I was still somewhat red pill.. I read a lot of red pill books, articles but not red pill enough to actually have enough practical experience out in the real world when it came to having a relationship. Although I've slept with over 50 women in my lifetime..by doing pick up. Finding a girl who was looking for a serious relationship was hard work.. (I'm not a fan of hookup culture but that's just me, since sleeping around made me feel hollow and empty) Early on there weren't any red flags I could think of (perhaps she just hid it really well). She was completely different to most girls I've been with, she had this charm about her, and well she kind of exceeded my expectations so to speak.. (I was an idiot to think she would be any different to any of the other girls I had met prior) Its just that it turns out she hid her true nature till later on.. she had far more relationship experience than I did like most girls do (This is an area I think women tend to have an advantage over men, I have found more men lack relationship experience than women nowadays, even fat girls can easily get a boyfriend) Here men on average have never had a relationship, or only had a few, while women jump from one relationship to another from what I've seen. I basically live in the worst country for a single man lol since statistically over 80% of our women are obese and well we have a country that embraces feminism.. and our laws here are very anti-male.. the future ain't looking so bright here when they are looking to introduce made up laws about consent.. I'm just focusing on myself now, building myself up. I don't care about relationships anymore..or dating, I'm too burnt out by women and their drama, they are more demanding than they were ten years ago, and I've never met one woman who has ever told me she was happy with her man. So I've decided I'll move abroad if I really want to settle down one day. I just don't feel the lemon is worth the squeeze anymore. I'm going to chase excellence and focus on myself, luckily I'm approaching my 30s.. and my sex drive is more under control. If i was still stuck in my 20s, I'd be having a really hard time having it under control.

100%, Listening to this great book "Iron John" by Robert Bly. He talks about how this soft masculinity came about and what could be done about it. Highly recommend. Robert explains steps for the male initiation, hero's journey, what to expect for you as a man throughout your life based on mythology. Thought provoking.

@VooDooDaddy46

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, just bought it on eBay for $4. Arriving by May 2nd. Hopefully it's a good'un?

Great advice.Stay silent stay stoic and dont engage in the drama.

My favorite, KZread video of all time hands-down

Good topic and discussion.

Nailed it lads

My sister-in-law talks down to her husband all the time now, as if everything she wants must be the best & only way to approach any given issue of the day in their family. I've known this woman since 1986. I thought about pulling her aside and telling her she's out of line, but the other part of me says my brother should fight his own fights. Thing is, he can't just kick her out of the house now that children are involved.

@olefeelsnature6589

3 жыл бұрын

Don‘t think of it like that. You‘ll be doing your sister a favor by pointing out her behavior. That‘s your responsibility as her brother.

@Director-M

3 жыл бұрын

@@olefeelsnature6589 You misunderstood. Alan's *brother* is married to this disrespectful woman (aka Alan's SIL). I do think it would be helpful if you talked to your brother about it, but it may already be too late. She's set in her ways, mentally, and they've got kids in tow..

@olefeelsnature6589

3 жыл бұрын

@@Director-M Oh. Thanks for clarifying.

@GBU61

3 жыл бұрын

It is your brothers relationship and your brothers problem. He is either a weak man or accepts it. I would pull my brother aside say my peace and let it go. However, I would make it clear if she does that, I will tell him it is better if we not spend time together if she is involved.

@Alaninbroomfield

3 жыл бұрын

@@olefeelsnature6589 Yes SIL. I kind of don't want to intrude on their relationship, but she's talking down to him in front of the kids, and teaching them that this is acceptable behavior.

My friend's girlfriend often disrespects him. Recently she started disrespecting him behind his back in front of all his friends including me. We gave her no reaction but kept it to ourselves (even her boyfriend wasn't aware). Feeling defeated she decided to take it a notch higher by slandering the reputation of the guys to their respective girlfriends and wives. Girls being girls easily fall victim to the gossip. Our girls started questioning us. In retaliation, us guys made a round table conference with her boyfriend and cleared off everything. Right now she's an outcast from the friend circle and has lost all the privileges. Unfortunately my friend's still a puppet. Hope he realises that soon. It's very very important for men to stand strong in the face of adversity even if it means standing up against your female counterpart. Principles matter. I'm grateful that we a have a group of strong male friends. Any female attempting to break us up will be obliterated socially.

@jjberg83

Жыл бұрын

That's fucking cool.

LOVE the example at the end.

You want to let her know openly and as often as necessary... She needs to know you can get with someone else easily. Hard for her to respect you if you can't get another love on your own. If you can get another love right in front of her, her behaviors start changing quickly.

Experience is definitely the best teacher! Hands down. I messed up so much but I definitely did a lot right as well. I never understood why 1 of my exs was so crazy about me when I literally would do things like that where I would not care. By that I mean, like when you get disrespected and you do something “crazy” like what rich said about when he was called cheap and just pulling over to tell his girl to get out. I had an ex once where I did something similar when she disrespected me and she literally would go crazy apologizing to me and trying to please me in every way possible doing everything she could to make me happy. I was unaware of what I was doing atm. But now it all makes sense. Her friends would think I was an asshole for standing up for myself when she would disrespected me and that I was cruel to her. But when someone disrespects you, you cannot tolerate it. Even she herself did not know how to explain to her friends why she wanted me so bad. But now it all makes sense. I definitely screwed up a lot after as well but some of the things I did really make a clear point now to me. You guys are all doing amazing work. Definitely learning so much from you Rich! It’s crazy all of us get this info for free.

love these

Very informative thanks a lot you guys..

“Your presence isn’t unconditional” at 2:42 should be applied to all relationships especially family.

My own attitude above everything in any situations !