Never settle for less.

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  • @denisemitchell5308
    @denisemitchell53082 ай бұрын

    I agree what the daughter said

  • @KaramoShow

    @KaramoShow

    2 ай бұрын

    Don’t hate others for the choices you make. #karamoshow #shorts

  • @ashimagotnuthinbutluv4ubab429
    @ashimagotnuthinbutluv4ubab4292 ай бұрын

    Men take advantage of women especially when other men r not around to protect them

  • @wrightsrottweilerkennel3276

    @wrightsrottweilerkennel3276

    2 ай бұрын

    Let’s say that is true SO WHAT

  • @wrightsrottweilerkennel3276

    @wrightsrottweilerkennel3276

    2 ай бұрын

    Nobody told these women to go from 1 man to the next and think they gone find prince

  • @laurencameron3150

    @laurencameron3150

    2 ай бұрын

    @@wrightsrottweilerkennel3276True but when will yall hold trash men accountable the same way yall do women? Is it because yall are just as afraid of those men as women are?

  • @troy028

    @troy028

    2 ай бұрын

    Men aren't taking advantage of yall 304s. She put herself in her position. Learn to take accountability. She got 5 children because she lacks accountability like most black women.

  • @Saltykits

    @Saltykits

    2 ай бұрын

    @@wrightsrottweilerkennel3276 sounds like your one of them a user

  • @cantrippin
    @cantrippin2 ай бұрын

    It's up FOREVER I felt that

  • @poohsreviews8992
    @poohsreviews89922 ай бұрын

    Daughter ❤❤❤ Beautiful Young Lady said "NOOOAH"! WHEN YOUR CHILD IS THIS PASSIONATE AND VULNERABLE...CHOOSE THEM!!! WTH!

  • @Megan-nm9lz
    @Megan-nm9lz2 ай бұрын

    That mom needs therapy

  • @troy028

    @troy028

    2 ай бұрын

    This mom needs a brain 🧠. She know real woman.

  • @collegestudent1563

    @collegestudent1563

    2 ай бұрын

    Absolutely! She needs a life! The mother really done lost her mind!!!

  • @xoxoxok

    @xoxoxok

    Ай бұрын

    She has the power to heal. As time goes on therapy will become cheaper I hope in unlocking her generational pain🙏

  • @cherylbraxton655
    @cherylbraxton6552 ай бұрын

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 for the daughter 💯💯💯💯

  • @evondarobinson3676
    @evondarobinson36762 ай бұрын

    I agree with the daughter❤

  • @carolmcclelland3048

    @carolmcclelland3048

    2 ай бұрын

    Me too

  • @brendar3324

    @brendar3324

    2 ай бұрын

    Me too

  • @ellemm8238
    @ellemm82382 ай бұрын

    It’s a lot of damage between them. I can only image what the daughter experience and witnessed being under her rule .

  • @nataliking
    @nataliking2 ай бұрын

    And a child shall lead them.... The daughter is more mature than the mom.

  • @collegestudent1563

    @collegestudent1563

    2 ай бұрын

    No kidding

  • @princessleah6826
    @princessleah68262 ай бұрын

    “Willing to accept me” 🤦🏽‍♀️ I don’t care if i have 20 kids! Im not allowing a man to choose me like a “pick me chic”. The choosing has to be mutual or I will stay single. My home is peaceful and Im not bringing any drama my way

  • @FunStuff-zn2yb

    @FunStuff-zn2yb

    2 ай бұрын

    If you have 20 kids, your pick me days are over

  • @balancedbody1

    @balancedbody1

    2 ай бұрын

    @@FunStuff-zn2ybLol

  • @Lena-ib6qg

    @Lena-ib6qg

    2 ай бұрын

    You not lying you shouldn’t bring people until your peace and your space some people just don’t get it I’m a single mom and I understand don’t settle for less

  • @cookingwtheword1346
    @cookingwtheword13462 ай бұрын

    She doesn't know who she is and doesn't know Love. She just wants to hold on to any piece of affection. All of this started when she was a child. So, a weak, hurt, painful, alone little girl has grown up to be a weaker, hurting, painful, adult with no voice with deeper wounds. I pray she finds healing and realizes she has value.

  • @maroonblaxk
    @maroonblaxk2 ай бұрын

    Sometimes I just feel like loneliness brings desperation to some folks and it gets tied up in toxic abusive environment

  • @MsLuverofmusic57

    @MsLuverofmusic57

    2 ай бұрын

    Yess!

  • @carolynwhite9975
    @carolynwhite99752 ай бұрын

    💯💯💯💯💯💯💯for the daughter Not only the mother cannot see people for who they really are, the mother can't see herself for who she really is.

  • @consejosdemama6084
    @consejosdemama60842 ай бұрын

    That woman is not a mother. She is selfish and bringing children to this world to suffer with her stupid choices. I had a mother like that and she ended up alone anyways. Those men didn’t stick around and she prefer them over us but they are gone and she is all alone.

  • @nubiansapphire5481

    @nubiansapphire5481

    2 ай бұрын

    She definitely need to work on her self worth.

  • @jozey555

    @jozey555

    2 ай бұрын

    yup. same thing with my “mom” always choosing men over her kids when the men couldn’t give less of a fck about her. just sickening and sad

  • @staceyloveschmid2291

    @staceyloveschmid2291

    2 ай бұрын

    You have to forgive. You are holding on to deep pain. Maybe counseling will help you.❤

  • @antoinettejohnson2188

    @antoinettejohnson2188

    2 ай бұрын

    3 of those kids were her sisters kids who passed. Im not justifying just saying it got harder after she lost her sister and took in her kids.

  • @antoinettejohnson2188

    @antoinettejohnson2188

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@nubiansapphire5481agree

  • @staceyloveschmid2291
    @staceyloveschmid22912 ай бұрын

    Lord have mercy!!!!

  • @ricksanford4434
    @ricksanford44342 ай бұрын

    Play the single mother song

  • @makaylacarney2187

    @makaylacarney2187

    2 ай бұрын

    “You let him hit it raw” 😂😂

  • @aeshimani1342

    @aeshimani1342

    2 ай бұрын

    “Now you’re a single mom” 🎶🎶

  • @denisemitchell5308
    @denisemitchell53082 ай бұрын

    Right!!!!!! Daughter right

  • @otishavernon5063
    @otishavernon50632 ай бұрын

    IT'S REALLY SAD, A LOT OF PEOPLE LIVE LIKE THIS. I'M NOT SETTLING FOR ABUSE. EVER

  • @augheat68
    @augheat682 ай бұрын

    I am learning in life that my job is never to judge anyone. I feel for the mother. You can see and feel her pain. Loneliness and being alone for some people is too much and raising 5 children I am sure was not easy. Everyone wants to be wanted. I pray she gets long term therapy so she can see the beautiful woman I see from the outside. I certainly hope she did not return to her abuser. Praying for the family.

  • @tulipswaxing2496
    @tulipswaxing2496Ай бұрын

    That daughter has been a protector. She's going to always be on guard.

  • @Rasheens-Story
    @Rasheens-Story2 ай бұрын

    Wow, that’s just heartbreaking to hear just because she has 5 kids she felt that she needed to settle. I mean if you have to settle then you’re just better off being alone. I have three kids from my ex and I do it a lone now and I’m not desperate to get with anyone, even though I could be with someone I am not because I refuse to settle. Plus I am skeptical of men now, because a lot of these MFs are looking for help not love. It’s not hard doing it on your own if you have a good career and a solid routine. A lot of women make this mistake after their partners leave them and they are stuck with the kids Instead of focusing on bettering themselves, whether it’s going to college, getting a degree to give yourself a high paying career to be able to support yourself and your kids, you veer off and put all your attention into finding another partner instead of leveling up for yourself and kids. Stop being so scared of being alone you don’t need a man in your life if you haven’t even worked on yourself to be where you want to be in life. This mother is also delusional. Why is she worried about rekindling a connection with a guy that made threats towards her and her kids and put her in crutches 🩼 lmao this woman is older than me, but she’s not very clever, and she’s not very bright😒 Man since I broke up with my ex that I had three kids with my main focus has been getting my degree and chasing success so I can eventually make the six figure I desire, and then start my business to double that as much as I can and I’m already halfway there. I just gotta finish school. I’m not worried about no man or 🍆. When I get to where I wanna be in life, the right guy will show up, but I don’t need to go looking for him. Eventually they’ll find me, and if they don’t guess what I’ll still be fine and dandy. She will never attract the right man because she’s giving off desperate energy and she doesn’t have self-worth, so she goes looking for it elsewhere, instead of within. No man will ever choose her with that mentality. Let them know your standards, and if they can’t meet it, then let them go stop. Being afraid of losing people because that’s when they take advantage of you. If somebody comes into my life and they want to leave, I just hold the door open for them so they can pass through. I’m actually embarrassed for her🤦🏽‍♀️ I would never choose any man over my kids. If I have to choose between keeping my kids around and having a man, I guess I don’t need a man then because I’m not letting my kids go live with a family member or my mother permanently just so that I could have a relationship, no thank you!

  • @GofishingandloveGod
    @GofishingandloveGod2 ай бұрын

    You're not alone..you got 5 kids to care about and raise.

  • @monicamackey4122
    @monicamackey41222 ай бұрын

    That’s a good daughter, mama a fool for love

  • @Lyn.isGrey
    @Lyn.isGreyАй бұрын

    That daughter is absolutely stunning. Beautiful.

  • @durisorikesha8

    @durisorikesha8

    Ай бұрын

    Yes she is! I just said this to myself

  • @nola8530
    @nola85302 ай бұрын

    This is what damage looks like. Praying for your healing because it’s very much needed ❤

  • @BeautifulBrainTrained
    @BeautifulBrainTrainedАй бұрын

    MOM SOUND LIKE A CRAZY PERSON.

  • @tomassabrown7738
    @tomassabrown7738Ай бұрын

    We definitely have to protect our mothers❤

  • @vantasanders5655
    @vantasanders56552 ай бұрын

    To many relationships are ending with one or both people dead.. She needs to leave that one alone. 🙏🏽

  • @cmarev3509
    @cmarev35092 ай бұрын

    Sister you got to love yourself. Any man who threatens your children is someone who you shouldn't't be with. You got to work on your insecurities my sister. You need healing. Seek God for deliverance from hurt. God will keep you if you want to be kept. I pray you find peace. Yeah it's hard raising kids by yourself but you can't let fear dictate your relationship choices. Being alone is a growing experience, you have a chance to heal, to see your shortcomings and faults and the opportunity to be delivered from some things, people and places. I pray you find peace and most of all find yourself.❤🛐🛐🛐♥️

  • @sheilawoods6864
    @sheilawoods68642 ай бұрын

    How low is her self-esteem and choice-making. This man has threatened her children and she think it's a smart idea to reconcile with him and put him back in the house with her children?

  • @NdigoGawdess88
    @NdigoGawdess88Ай бұрын

    Its up forever❤

  • @Gurl-5150
    @Gurl-5150Ай бұрын

    Omg! This lady is STILL making excuses for the ABUSERS!! Hell nah. The daughter is the HERO here!!

  • @jennj3452
    @jennj3452Ай бұрын

    Best thing for that momma to do is get to know herself and what she wants... and it shouldn't be a bunch of baggage! That's what I've learned! Men that are available now, that haven't married or don't have their kids in their life... there's reasons for that! Let it be a warning..

  • @KianaRobinson-uk9yn
    @KianaRobinson-uk9ynАй бұрын

    She seen that first babydad when she started yelling

  • @muffywilcox5875
    @muffywilcox58752 ай бұрын

    I’m a single mother to a set of twins and I choose God and my kids first not a man I will die single if I have to subject myself to abuse or disrespect

  • @rashaunjones1027
    @rashaunjones10272 ай бұрын

    How is it the daughter got more common sense than the mother ?

  • @None452
    @None4522 ай бұрын

    Its not that hard .. find someone with the same interests... commitment oriented..move on .🖤✌️💯😎

  • @Brook-ct3kk
    @Brook-ct3kkАй бұрын

    Mother's still pitiful with men, but strong with her daughter

  • @URHUSBANDBEATSU
    @URHUSBANDBEATSU2 ай бұрын

    TRUST NO ONE ON THIS EARTH ONLY TRUST THE ETERNAL ONE

  • @toyalewis3045
    @toyalewis30452 ай бұрын

    Girl get u a bob (battery operating boyfriend)...u can never he alone when u have 5 kids

  • @atthismoment3006
    @atthismoment30062 ай бұрын

    its also what you believe about yourself

  • @bellasamantha237
    @bellasamantha2372 ай бұрын

    Too much toxicity all round n it's too easy to just blame men. We're all accountable, including the daughter.

  • @LeeTheLee
    @LeeTheLee2 ай бұрын

    I agree with the daughter. But until youve been in an abusive telationshipnyou gotta be careful how you help cause that help can land the victim ON CRUTCHES

  • @bernettabunny
    @bernettabunny2 ай бұрын

    A lot of women need to love their self first before they try to look for a relationship and it seems like she putting the man before herself and her kids is sad I feel sad for her looking for love in all the wrong places

  • @SweetNina
    @SweetNina2 ай бұрын

    That women better stop fearing being alone.! How you going to reconcile with a mofo that put you on cruches. Lady you better open those eyes and recognize. Like your daughter said No. when a mofo threaten to harm your children they got to go!!

  • @iamcellular6650
    @iamcellular6650Ай бұрын

    This is why we should wait till marriage. If not to have sex then to have kids, we should wait. There are physical and spiritual consequences.

  • @leroyhamilton6333
    @leroyhamilton63332 ай бұрын

    One question being alone and getting used how girl you look to good for that

  • @maimapassawe7822
    @maimapassawe78222 ай бұрын

    Me, rather die alone than to allow a man to treat me like an animal!

  • @californiaredd8646
    @californiaredd8646Ай бұрын

    DATE BUT STAY SINGLE!! Dating DOESNT MEAN HUMPING

  • @MultiCountrygrl
    @MultiCountrygrlАй бұрын

    She needs to learn to be alone and get herself together. When you are desperate you will attact the wrong person.

  • @rememberselfcare
    @rememberselfcare2 ай бұрын

    Mom still doesn't see and she's on crutches. Fall in love with yourself so you don't a accept nothing but the best. It's ok to be single.

  • @Ms.Pamela
    @Ms.PamelaАй бұрын

    She is on crutches because of him and he threatened her kids and she's talking about reconciling?!!! I am so irritated!

  • @lesdawn7314
    @lesdawn73142 ай бұрын

    Listen to your daughter.. a man killed a woman in front of their kids in dc.. see the sig bb s.. don't ruin the life of your children

  • @user-yk2bf4qw1v
    @user-yk2bf4qw1v2 ай бұрын

    I know she not putting no man before her kids.

  • @ddomcurtis9800
    @ddomcurtis9800Ай бұрын

    She is still delusional by still trying to justify that man actions. There is no reconciliation when you are on crutches.

  • @tracyhunter4315
    @tracyhunter43152 ай бұрын

    Sitting there on crutches, defending a MONSTER! Girl.bye!

  • @bonentchou1040
    @bonentchou1040Ай бұрын

    Women picking men over their own children.

  • @troybradley2575
    @troybradley25752 ай бұрын

    Oh well

  • @AiryKay
    @AiryKay2 ай бұрын

    Stop Having all these damn kids

  • @dorisarmstrong5913
    @dorisarmstrong5913Ай бұрын

    Mom needs a therapist, she's too needy

  • @samanthajackson8510
    @samanthajackson85102 ай бұрын

    Mum grow stop putting your kids through shit pls!!

  • @Tam-Ruh4856
    @Tam-Ruh48562 ай бұрын

    I just genuinely don’t care about being in a relationship. I enjoy my peace. So I find it difficult to understand how some women can be this desperate for a man. They’ll just accept anything that comes their way for the sake of not being “alone.” It’s sad.

  • @florastewart7957
    @florastewart79572 ай бұрын

    Woman with kids don’t need a man - you need Jesus and a good support network. Kids can pitch in and help with jobs or by selling baked goods. This woman needs therapy. And she needs to pray for peace of mind and help.

  • @Msbrittanyhoney
    @Msbrittanyhoney2 ай бұрын

    The mama is just desperate smh

  • @violabrown55
    @violabrown55Ай бұрын

    Mama is delusional

  • @DeeLytes
    @DeeLytes2 ай бұрын

    She’s broken…

  • @evelyn7881
    @evelyn7881Ай бұрын

    Maybe the mother needs to work on herself, not concentrate on having a piece of, a man.

  • @valerielovelovespeakthetru6643
    @valerielovelovespeakthetru66432 ай бұрын

    You can do bad by yourself,

  • @MrShorty1969
    @MrShorty19692 ай бұрын

    Kids no listen to your daughter

  • @peachprince4168
    @peachprince41682 ай бұрын

    Her Mother still doesn’t get it and it’s sad 🫣