It's a crazy world. Stay safe out there, friends.

@Klusterfrick

2 жыл бұрын

Hi

@longinusc

2 жыл бұрын

You too good sir!

@RandomtheRando

2 жыл бұрын

yep, really crazy

@iridium886

2 жыл бұрын

Stay safe Lazy!!

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for uploading.👍

I remember back when we would go to personal safety classes in the early 80s and we were told that we should just "comply" with everything that a rapist or abductor wanted for us to do. They said complying would "save your life". Even back then my Dad knew what was up. He told me that no matter what I was to never ever allow someone to take me to a new location if I was ever in that type of situation. He said that even if I had to drive my car into a building or another vehicle to do it and jump out and run for my life. Years later I went to a personal safety class with my daughter and they were starting to tell women the same thing that my Dad had always said. Dad, You did a great job of keeping me safe!

@dalerimoller272

2 жыл бұрын

@Mrs. M, your father is a wonderful, smart man. I’m glad he taught you right. I had been raped and assaulted by an ex who broke into my house about ten years ago. He tried to pull a murder-suicide on us, but eventually I was able to escape once he was unconscious from overdosing on medication, and we were both taken to the hospital. He’s in prison now, pretty much for the rest of his life. A few years ago I was talking to my fiancé about that night. My fiancé was an army ranger sniper. I asked him what should I have done once my ex had broken in and then broke down my bedroom door. I didn’t have time to kick him where it counts or do anything at all- he immediately punched me in the face, spun me around multiple times to disorient me and once I fell down he picked me up and hurled me into the wall, the pounced on me punching my face etc. that was just the first couple minutes of many hours. My fiancé told me that (god forbid I’m in that scenario again) to drop to the ground and fight on the ground. He showed me some moves he learned in training. One was an arm bar, you get the attacker’s elbow on your hip, do a flex ion of your hip- and he said you have to be prepared to go all the way, it’s going to be horrific, but do it and run, once you’ve broken their elbow backwards, snap it and dig that broken bone into the ground and run. Most people aren’t good at fighting on the ground, and that way you can’t get knocked down. I don’t remember much else, and my fiancé has since passed away. But I will forever be grateful for all he taught me and I hope when it comes to that, I never have to be in a situation to use it. I haven’t taken any self defense classes, so I’m curious to know what they taught you. Did they tell you anything similar to what my fiancé taught me? Thank you for sharing and hope to hear back from you on this!

@melanielanphier

2 жыл бұрын

My mother pretty much told me the same thing when I was a kid ( it was 80's or early 90's). There are worse things than dying.

@Nostalgic_1

2 жыл бұрын

@@dalerimoller272 I'm so sorry that you endured such a horrific ordeal at the hands of your ex. He sounds like a monster. Glad to hear that he's in prison which, by the way, is a testament a testament to your strength and survival. I'm also so very sorry to hear about the loss of your fiance'. My husband passed away in May and it's a difficult journey for sure. To answer your question, back in the 80s they essentially taught us not to fight back because, at the time, they thought if you angered your attacker that they would be more likely to significantly harm you or kill you. Since then we've learned that attackers do not care if you cooperate or not, if they plan to harm you, they are going to do it whether you cooperate or not, so fight like hell from the very beginning if you are able to. I've never thought about dropping to the ground to make it more difficult for them to "fight" you. My husband was a law enforcement officer and he taught me, our daughter and grandchildren that, if you can get to the attacker's eyes, completely gouge their eyes out with your thumbs. I know that it sounds gross but the goal is to get yourself out of the situation alive. So, as a victim, you have to not care about whether or not you blind them, and if you gouge their eyes out, they aren't going to be worried about you anymore and you can get away. Just be prepared to not back down, you gouge until they are not going to come after you. Another tactic is to stomp with everything you've got on the curve where the top of the foot curves upward and meets your lower leg/ankle. It might break their foot but who cares. Something else that you want to look up is pressure points and control techniques. It's where you know where certain pressure points are you can push on them and they will definitely let go of you. You'll want to not practice these on anyone because you can actually damage a person's nerves using them. That's about as helpful as I am...... I hope that you have many, many wonderful days!!! ❤💔❤

@Nostalgic_1

2 жыл бұрын

@@melanielanphier There are things far worse than dying. As a nurse I saw many of those things. Fight like hell and get away from someone who is attacking you. Once they have you completely subdued then you are at their mercy.

@maddhadder8324

2 жыл бұрын

@@dalerimoller272 I'm so sorry that you had to go through such a horrific event. I can't imagine how awful that experience was for you. I'm glad you survived & that your attacker is behind bars. What a scumbag. Unfortunately, I went through something similar, (I was drugged, beaten and sexually assaulted by possibly 10 different men at a party...it was like a horror movie). My attacker/attackers are still out there somewhere roaming free. It makes me sick. Luckily I don't remember much bc of the drugs I was slipped. It's awful and I still have nightmares about that night. Luckily I survived the beatings with pretty minor injuries (a broken nose, a shattered eardrum & 2 very black eyes). Anyway, I know we don't know each other, but if you ever want to talk, please reach out. I'm a good listener & am here for you. Us survivors have to stick together. Also, I'm glad your Dad was there for you & taught you well.

My mom gave us this advice when we were teenagers: even if you're being threatened, run. They might not be willing to cause a scene over following through with their threats. I added in my head afterwards that I'd rather die quickly than whatever they had planned in another place anyway.

@MrJest2

2 жыл бұрын

I would also add that, even when confronted with a firearm, running is a perfectly reasonable defense. Bullets are tiny, space is big, and most criminals can't shoot worth a damn anyway - even if they are willing to do so. The more distance you put between you, the better your odds are, with each and every step. There is no shame whatsoever in simply running away!!

@AlphaQHard

2 жыл бұрын

If you fight back you’re probably gonna end up winning. These rats who prey on people are very weak and frail

@peachgeorgia875

2 жыл бұрын

This is what I tell my kids. If they have a gun or a weapon, run! Never ever go with them. Your chances of surviving are higher if you're left on the street attracting attention. Your body mat never be found if you leave with them to the secondary location.

@FallenAngel9979

2 жыл бұрын

Bang on💪🏻💪🏻

@IAmNotOfThisWorld

2 жыл бұрын

Unless you’re unfortunate enough to meet a crazed criminal with a loaded handgun and nothing left to lose 😢

This is such good advice everyone should learn. My school even in the early 2000s taught girls to comply. I came home with that information and my dad shut that down immediately. He ordered that no matter what, even if I only feel a little uneasy, make a scene. It's better strangers think you're in need of a mental health check than people wonder where your body is.

@versatileduplicity9313

Жыл бұрын

Good

@mcadamdavid1

Жыл бұрын

SANGUINARY / SANGUINE FAMILY CLOSELY RELATED INBREDS SHOULD BE AS MIXED RACE WHITE OR OTHERS OF INBREDS SHOULD BE FIRST IVESTIGATED AS THEY MAKE UP 99% OF MUTILATOR MURDERS AS OCCULT MAFIA SANGUINE OR FOSTER SANGUINARY AS KILLERS / MUTILATORS SERIAL KILLERS ETC .

@GirlWithThePlumbobTattoo

Жыл бұрын

I applaud your dad for this! He taught you to protect yourself rather than leave it to chance 💯

@ms.pirate

Жыл бұрын

What a horrible school! I'm glad you're dad corrected it

@karissaarso3958

5 күн бұрын

Amen! 🙌🏾🙏🏾

Another super crazy and interesting abduction case is Alison Botha - she got taken to the middle of nowhere, was beaten, had her throat slit through her windpipe and then somehow managed to go for miles on foot before she got help. One of the craziest true survival stories i have ever heard of.

@shantelmills3265

Жыл бұрын

This case was incredibly intense. I initially learned about Alison from the Disturban channel. Not only was her throat slit through the windpipe, but she was disemboweled. From the damage done to her, it’s a miracle she survived. Her surgeons even said this.

@empressink_

Жыл бұрын

That story is insane! She wasn't just slit though, she was practically beheaded and disemboweled and somehow still had the strength and energy to survive and find help. From what I read, they cut her neck around fifteen times. The will power of that woman is remarkable!

@clairavance21

Жыл бұрын

I remember that. So glad they caught the disgusting jerks and put them away.

@ObtuseMori

Жыл бұрын

She's a true badass.

@xxxstellarxxx

Жыл бұрын

The fact that they nearly decapitated her and she had to *hold her head up so it wouldn’t fall off* the entire time she was walking to find help is fucking insane to me. I can’t even comprehend it.

My boss, Melvin, at the first pharmacy I ever worked gave me this very same advice--- He said--- Don't ever follow an assailant's orders to go somewhere with them, no matter WHAT... "Nope. Kill me right here, bc there's no chance I'm getting in that vehicle. I'm not stupid--- nothing better will come from giving him the privacy he wants to do his violence"

@cornhole3way694

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely right. It might even surprise them a little bit and give you a small window to get away.

@dariodicarlo8745

2 жыл бұрын

True even if you get killed at the primary location which is highly likely as well especially if they have a gun or there’s many attackers it’s better than being tortured at a secondary location

@akiraasmr3002

2 жыл бұрын

@@dariodicarlo8745 If they knock you out however then you are screwed.

@nickyblue4866

2 жыл бұрын

@@akiraasmr3002 better to die fighting then to willingly give them what they want.

@akiraasmr3002

2 жыл бұрын

@@nickyblue4866 that is true but if someone knocks someone out after creeping up behind them that person cant fight and the person can take them with no problem.

Years ago a woman was abducted in my city and forced to drive her own car. She saw a police car and rammed it saving herself. Smart.

@melanielanphier

2 жыл бұрын

Someone jumps in my car, and I might end up killing us both or running out of gas.

@diegorincon4673

2 жыл бұрын

Absolute Gigachad(gigastacy?)

@theunitedcommonwealth715

2 жыл бұрын

Never ram someone else to save your self are you trying to get someone dead.

@glendanison3064

2 жыл бұрын

@@theunitedcommonwealth715 yeah. The kidnapper.

@theunitedcommonwealth715

2 жыл бұрын

@@glendanison3064 Well apart from that lol.

Story 2 is so bone chilling. Crowded place, broad day light, just 8 minutes from her resident… my god. My dad always taught me that if I am in the car with the abductor just try to wheel the car to crash anything public or crash the side of the abductor. Or if I know where is the police station just speed the car like hell to get there. NEVER LET THEM TAKE CONTROL OR I DIE.

@raidoung4100

Жыл бұрын

why this comment didnt get more likes is beyond me:0 thanks for sharing

@ljeans531

Ай бұрын

It's the first case that gets me. That mother would probably still be alive if every adult in that man's life did not fail him. If the law granted clemency to black boys before they commit truly violent acts and help rehabilitate them. We, as a society create most of the monsters that victimize us later.😕

Reminds me of when I was coming out of the store once and saw two large men waiting by my car. My car was decorated in a way that you could tell a female owned it. They were just leaning against it and looking around. I went right back into the store and waited for a few minutes, then came back out and they were gone. I checked my car inside and out for any trackers or tags that would put my life in danger. Scariest moment in a long time.

@hughg.rection7208

Жыл бұрын

Now take those damn eyelashes off your car cause that’s a crime against humanity in itself

@PTS-Maid

Жыл бұрын

​@@hughg.rection7208 lmao

@matthewjacobs2991

11 ай бұрын

@@user-qv5sm5dw1v Wtf, you just watched a video about crimes of opportunity, someone getting abducted in broad daylight in a busy parking lot, and you're going to rag on someone in a year old comment about how they shouldn't be so cautious lol It's not like they called the police, they waited for the dudes to leave, and then did their due-diligence. Maybe the guys weren't casing the car, but if they were, the right decision was made. If they did end up abducting the commenter, you'd be sitting here calling them stupid for walking up on a car getting cased by a bunch of dudes. Better safe than sorry

@theedmee

2 ай бұрын

I gave up my smaller, 'girly' sports car for a full size sedan eventually bc it was too obvious and attracted idiot guys. (At least both have a turbocharger?) But seriously, good on you for being aware and alert re: your surroundings. That is scary af, I wish more women were as cautious as you.

Always make sure to lock all doors, and only unlock the drivers side door to get in when alone. A young punk got into my car. Luckily, I was able to smile and ask where he was going. He was nervous and it was obvious. So was the thick gloves and coat on a warm day. Anyhow, I was able to drop him off at a nearby bus stop. The whole time, I talked as if it was a normal, everyday thing for me to give total strangers ride. Thank the stars and luck, I didn’t become another statistic. That’s how I learned, never unlock all doors when getting in a vehicle alone.

@roleat

2 жыл бұрын

Luck was on your side.

@IudiciumInfernalum

2 жыл бұрын

Lol, probably caught him off guard being so nice. He was expecting a fight most likely, or he was expecting to catch you off guard. Unfortunately not everyone is going to respond that way. So keeping your doors locked seems good policy.

@txl43n

2 жыл бұрын

You was lucky did u get a gun yet. I learn my lesson when I got in my car I use to have a habit of leaving it unlocked while I take selfies, text or talk on the phone. The one time I just pulled up trying to look at an apartment for rent. Some random black guy started running up to my car and yank both my passenger doors I seen him coming n locked it asap. He said he thought I was Uber. Bullshit. A second time I came from the library. Some guy yanked my passenger doors the same shit and I seen him coming and locked it. He still tried to yank it hard. Then he lied and said "what time does the library close". Ever since then i always lock it right away and drive off fast. I don't sit parked for long.

@Nyctonaut

2 жыл бұрын

@@txl43n Jeeeez.... that sounds horrible. As a man I guess I never even consider stuff like this when im alone. I'm sure it's happened to men before but you get what I mean right? You guys gotta think about this stuff all the time huh? I just moved my Wife, daughter and I out of a really bad area and to a new super safe area and I feel so much better than I used to. Of course anything could happen but its not nearly as prevalent here.

@krashd

2 жыл бұрын

@@txl43n "I don't sit parked for long" Yeah, another rule when alone is never to sit in your car in a parking lot, as soon as you are back at your car you should move on, people who sit there and look at their purchases are just asking for someone with a gun to tap on their window. Supposedly parking lots are one of the places where a woman is most likely to be abducted so park close to the entrance, a camera, or a place with lots of pedestrian traffic if possible, and if someone does get in your car or harass you make sure to point out the CCTV camera - even if you have to invent a camera.

My brother and I (6 and 9 at the time) were approached in a mall by a man in a wheelchair who asked us to come out to the parking lot because he had dropped his keys in his car and needed someone to get them for him because he couldn't reach them on account of his chair. My brother was eager to help, but I saw a police officer walking by and said "Let's ask the policeman." When I turned around the guy was gone. I swear that's the closest I've ever come to being on one of these sorts of videos.

@kryer981

2 жыл бұрын

That was fortunate an officer walked by. I hope you share that story with other kids because it may save someone.

@deniseelsworth7816

2 жыл бұрын

Very close

@tekbarrier

2 жыл бұрын

The guy wheeled away that fast? Lol

@jas5519

2 жыл бұрын

He could prob walk and once you where out of site would of stood up and kidnapped yall

@Pundit07

2 жыл бұрын

@@jas5519 Exactly what I was thinking. He could have definitely been faking it.

I've been watching self defense videos and one common advice is to not let your pursuer take you to a 2nd location, even if it means dying on that spot. If they are willing to kill you there, imagine what's in store for you in the 2nd location. Be careful and vigilant at all times.

For how many times these unfortunate murders occur after the ATM transactions I’m surprised they haven’t done something with the machines to give a silent distress call. So sad. :(

@spiritmatter1553

Жыл бұрын

Truly a brilliant idea to add a panic button to the automated teller machines. Or if one could hit “911” or “999” on the keypad for help.

@joaniedomboroczky8624

Жыл бұрын

I've heard if you put your pin number in backwards, it notifies police. Idk how true it is though, but good idea.

@aazhie

Жыл бұрын

@@joaniedomboroczky8624 that's a myth sadly. But a good idea

@evil1by1

Жыл бұрын

Well we can't even get 911 to reliably accept text messages across the country. Seriously, no excuse for that

I once met with a guy for a date. But instead of going into the city and sit in a nice café, as I thought we would, he wanted me to get into his car and drive me to a location which was far away from any village. There was nothing but some trees, bushes and corn fields. I had the feeling, that he didn't have any good intentions. So I told him, I don't feel comfortable going there. He tried to guilt trip me to get into his car. Telling me, what a horrible, untrusting person I must be for not wanting to go with him. I left, and that was the last time I ever talked to the guy. He tried to hit me up a few times, but I didn't react. That is such a case, where you shouldn't go to "the second location". I am 100% sure, he would have r*p*d me, if I went with him. Never let anyone guilt trip you, to go to a place where you would be alone and couldn't get any help.

@bob7975

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like some old Ted Bundy stuff right there.

@sandrafaith

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sure you saved yourself from something awful. How many of us might have gone for fear of causing offense? Being polite is not worth risking your life.

@nickyblue4866

2 жыл бұрын

Dang... i just wanted to show you something out in the corn fields... you should have trusted me!

@kiwikappa

2 жыл бұрын

Good call, you probably avoided something terrible. The fact he tried to guilt trip you instead of going "oh ok sure, lets go to a cafe" was a MASSIVE red flag.

@Initium1000

2 жыл бұрын

There was nothing good that was going to come out of that ride. I bet you were super scared? I have an acquaintance that goes to online dating. He insist that the date meet him super close to his house as there’s a restaurant with outdoor seating - he’ll get a seat and bring his puppy. The date will be surprised by the pup and he’ll have a few drinks with them and state that his pup needs a nap and will GUILT the girl into coming up to his room. They always say no and he will rage out over the phone to me about how he can’t get a date He wants the women to sleep with him and it’s gross how he goes about it. I can say that he’s a virgin and he’s in his 30’s - there’s nothing wrong with being a 30 year old virgin but he just keeps trying the same thing. It’s just weird how some people work??

Back in the 1970's, US "experts" advised women to comply with the demands of a rapist. Otherwise, your chances of being murdered were quite high. The worst advice. Thanks you for another outstanding video.

@SuperRat420

2 жыл бұрын

Rather be murdered than raped, ESPECIALLY now

@nickyblue4866

2 жыл бұрын

I guess maybe back then they didnt realize that most rapists were also serial killers or something....?

@melanielanphier

2 жыл бұрын

There are worse things than dying

@RyukyuStyle

2 жыл бұрын

@@melanielanphier arguable lol. I would think dying would be the absolute worst thing that can possibly happen... cuz you are dead.

@msw8839

2 жыл бұрын

@@nickyblue4866 Exactly!

Edwyn Hall: "I thought she was 12" My brother in Christ, *she drove a car to the mall.*

More than a decade ago, My mother was walking home one evening to our apartment. She told me there was a man in a white pickup truck following her. He eventually stopped and waved at her to come over or something. She immediately felt unsure and ran away from the truck. Luckily our apartment wasn't far from the encounter. Nothing had ever happened again after. That's why I armed myself with a serious arsenal to protect our family!

@raidoung4100

Жыл бұрын

them gangsters doing everything to avoid suspicion, now a white pickup truck, not a black one O_o

Don't EVER go to the secondary crime scene. Make them shoot you where there are witnesses, and people who will call emergency services. Run in the direction opposite to where the car is facing. If that doesn't work, sit down in the street and make them pick you up and drag you. Nobody who is taken off the street lives to tell the tale. Those people who are found decomposed out in the woods did not encounter their killer out there.

@theunitedcommonwealth715

2 жыл бұрын

Are you kidding me never let them shoot you ANYWHERE fight trick lie but never that what ??.

@furygeist

2 жыл бұрын

@@theunitedcommonwealth715 pretty sure they mean better to get shot where there is help and a chance to escape than out in the middle of nowhere.

@glendanison3064

2 жыл бұрын

@@theunitedcommonwealth715 HAHAHAHA Listen to the survival expert here.

@someoneelse53301

2 жыл бұрын

@@theunitedcommonwealth715 Things dont always work out how you plan them.

@Herschel1738

2 жыл бұрын

"Those people who are found decomposed out in the woods did not encounter their killer out there." Wow. That really sums it up.

When I was a teenager, around 14 years old, my best friend and I went to our local mall (the smaller of two main malls where we lived) we went in and out of multiple stores completely aloof and just enjoying our time, but as we exited one particular store, a security guard approached us and told us that an older man had been following from us from nearly every store we had entered and exited. He asked if we knew him, if he was one of our parents or someone “watching out for us” we told the guard no, I can’t remember much else after that except being shocked and horrified that we hadn’t even noticed. I don’t know what happened to the man, but I remember security stayed with us until our parents picked us up. To this day, I am thankful for that guard and the security that watched the cameras, he likely saved our lives had he not said anything. That moment changed me forever though, my senses are heightened and it’s given me some anxiety issues. You can’t live life in a bubble though, and I remind myself that not everyone is out for bad reasons. That being said, I also never leave home without pepper spray and Witt’s 100% about me.

@diegorincon4673

2 жыл бұрын

This proves that most heroes are regular people.

@furygeist

2 жыл бұрын

That guard took his job seriously and likely saved you both from a bad ending. I'm glad he was keeping an eye out. Sad that you had to be given the gift of fear so young, tho.

@TH3FACE

2 жыл бұрын

@@furygeist I’m very grateful he took his job seriously. I often wonder what could have happened that day all those years ago. I have the utmost respect for mall guards, most people I feel don’t give them a second thought but good guards do exist and the one that watched after my friend and I that day is proof 💯

@chrislair6832

2 жыл бұрын

Awesome security guard

@DougieMonster31

2 жыл бұрын

Just because you don't pay attention to the world doesn't mean the world isn't paying attention to you.

one thing i never thought about until i became a parent is the dangers of people in your circle that know your child. Teach your kids about stranger danger AND teach them who is safe to leave with. teachers, doctors, family friends and even family can be pedophiles and abusers. i have been vigilant sine i was 11 years old when a WHITE VAN pulled up to me and my friend and asked if we saw his daughter. i was going to throw up, thinking i was going to be abducted and we were near a huge park that he wouldn’t be able to drive the van up to and i ran as fast as i could. my friend just stood there !!! i was yelling “what are you doing! get away from him!” and he drove off and she acted like i was a psycho. i had a gut feeling and i believed i saved my life. thank you dad 🤞🏼💜 (after this i never walked anywhere even if there was 10 people walking until i was 15, to this day i carry mace and a knife, once i turn 21 i’m going to learn how to handle a weapon to protect myself.

True Story: I was leaving University late at night around 9pm to go back to my apartment. It's a short, 10 minute uphill walk right beside the highway. It's a very dark road and up ahead I see this white van coming towards me. I noticed it didn't have any plates and it was slowing down and it swerved towards the edge of the road to where I was. The windows were tinted black. I immediately moved away from the road and I see the side door of the van suddenly swing open and two men wearing all black clothes preparing to grab me but the van was going too fast and they missed. I looked back and saw they were trying to make a uturn. I was carrying my bag and heavy school books making it impossible for me to run uphill with the weight and make it to my apartment (they were expensive medical books i never thought to drop them). When they turned and came up again, this time they grabbed me. I kicked, I clawed, I wiggled and fought with all my strength to get free even when half of my body was already in the van I fought for my life and managed to somehow get my legs to stand and free myself. And I ran downhill back towards the university entrance falling and getting up until I made it. Two weeks later a body of a girl, high-school student, was found in a ditch on the same road. Her front torso was sliced open from neck to navel and organs missing. Police said witnesses saw a white van, tinted windows and men wearing all black leave the area.

@laiculture162

Жыл бұрын

that must've been so traumatic, I'm so sorry it happened to you. reading this terrifies me as I'm in high school too and also reminds me to fight and not comply to the assailant's orders. you're very brave and strong for escaping from them!

@jtarantula3390

Жыл бұрын

What was her name?

@tutziepop

Жыл бұрын

@@jtarantula3390 I don't know her name. It happened in front of a highschool, her body was on the grass outside by the highway. There were so many people by the side of the road with police cars everywhere. And my friend was there and told me what happened.

@randomlyswatching9481

Жыл бұрын

In USA?

@carolynlewis1306

Жыл бұрын

OMG!

That second story scared the sh** out of me. Just the thought of someone deciding to kill someone, as a spur of the moment, after seeing them for the first time , at a crowded store, in daylight. And he thought she was a 12 year old who drove to a store by herself? Wtf

@TheHalomaster33

2 жыл бұрын

That's exactly what I was thinking, man really thought a 12 year old would drive themselve to the store.

@kenosabi

2 жыл бұрын

Edwin wasn't that bright.

@andalinta

2 жыл бұрын

I don't understand how that guy didn't get death penalty and the first did. Second one was way more fucking sick

@toxiczombiewolf5692

2 жыл бұрын

That guy was an evil peice of shit who say she's was in the weongnplace wrong time fuck that he was just a monster looking for a victim

@ReginaApple007

2 жыл бұрын

@@andalinta the first guy had a ton of priors and had attacked two other women after the murder of the first woman. Orphaning two kids is a good way to secure a charge as well.

given how things seem to often go for women in particular in these cases... I'd rather be killed at the primary location rather than be raped, tortured, and still killed at a secondary location

@LadyAstarionAncunin

2 жыл бұрын

That's what I say too. Honestly, I could not survive that even if I physically survived it. So, if I'm gonna go either way, I'd rather it be on my terms, without going through the torture, than on their terms.

@coldstuff9784

Жыл бұрын

Exactly my thoughts too.

@aquaseahorselove3939

Жыл бұрын

I’ve always wondered if I was the only one who felt this way. I can’t imagine getting in someone’s vehicle even if a knife or gun is being pulled on me. I have a pretty fierce high pitched scream and I’m not afraid to use it.

@otomo129

Жыл бұрын

Yes because men can't be raped, tortured and killed at a secondary location....

@SallySpeleers

Жыл бұрын

@@otomo129 not saying that men can't go through that (note how I said "for women IN PARTICULAR") but especially if you follow this channel and other similar channels, you can't deny that the majority of victims are women....

As a mother of 2 adult girls, I thank you so much for a video I am sharing with them and all of my female friends and family! They really should start doing safety commercials on TV and in online adverts - instead of beauty products, clothes, whatever ... The goal should be to keep our young girls safe but more importantly Aware and Informed!

@graveyardspliff

Жыл бұрын

I completely understand the hatred towards men. Sad world :/

@IAmGodHimself777

Жыл бұрын

You should send it to your male friends aswell.

@fictionindianspaceprogram-222

Жыл бұрын

The problem is most young people aren't interested in keeping themselves safe.

I remember the teaching I was once imparted in this regard, "If you fight right there and then you are probably dead but if you let them take you elsewhere you are for sure dead" just a chilling thought but it is something good to have in mind in case you once find yourself in that horrid situation.

My friend was out for a walk in her neighborhood one day when a guy snuck up behind her and put a gun to her back. He told her not to make any noise or he would shoot her right there. She started screaming as loud as she could. She knew people would be able to hear her screaming from inside their houses and would come outside to see what was going on. The guy knew this too and took off running. The police told her she did the right thing. The police said most perps won't actually shoot someone in a public place where they have a higher chance of getting caught and there are so many potential witnesses around. They expect their victims to comply so when a victim doesn't, they get scared and flee. I don't know what that guy's intentions for my friend were, but I have no doubt that her decision to scream instead of complying and staying quiet saved her life.

@missfortune8553

2 жыл бұрын

So scary, glad she’s ok

@LadyAstarionAncunin

2 жыл бұрын

"I don't know what that guy's intentions for my friend were" It's not difficult to guess.

@jas5519

2 жыл бұрын

@@LadyAstarionAncunin lmao yeah rape or murder

@Pundit07

2 жыл бұрын

@@LadyAstarionAncunin I’m sure deep down OP knows. They just doesn’t want to even think about it. Can’t say I blame them.

@TheSCPStudio

2 жыл бұрын

I mean, killing someone is a heavy toll, even for people who kill to save their own lives in self defense. So it makes sense that it’s very rare for a person with a gun to shoot and kill a random person.

They’re all such sad stories. The last one is especially wild to me. So many eyewitnesses and they still couldn’t find the kidnappers. Heartbreaking.

@saltycat662

2 жыл бұрын

It was dark and I think the neighbors weren't close enough to view the perps properly. That neighborhood seems to have homes behind the woods near the road. The lighting there is probably terrible too. We can only hope they someday find those sobs.

@laceybabay1013

2 жыл бұрын

@@saltycat662 Oh for sure! Definitely not blaming the eyewitnesses. It just has to make it even more frustrating feeling like you’re so close to answers, but not close enough.

@ElegyVio

2 жыл бұрын

Jesus Christ is the truth reach out, nothing but respect

@laceybabay1013

2 жыл бұрын

@@ElegyVio Huh?

@farhanatashiga3721

2 жыл бұрын

@@laceybabay1013 ignore, these damn spambots have been doing this for awhile.

That last story about Gordana was the hardest to hear. I can't imagine how tortuous it must be to have your child go missing and never learn what happened to them. At least when the person is found deceased, there's finality to it. The family doesn't have to wonder where their loved one is or what became of them. But to just never know...I can't imagine 😥😥

3:50 At this point I got reminded of a video I saw about a week ago. It was security footage of a man at a gas station filling up his car. While he was filling it, 3 criminals pulled up next to his car and were about to attack him and hijack the car. Not hesitating one second, the victim pulled the gas hose out of his car and aimed it at his attackers. One by one he sprayed them with gasoline, they couldn’t run away fast enough. In panicked state and soaked in gasoline the criminals jumped back into their car and drove away immediately. It was a genius move of the victim and possibly saved his life. Quick thinking. If anyone finds themselves in a position like that at a gas station, you now know what to do 😉 But really though, take advantage of ANYTHING in your environment like this man has done to save your life. This man was unarmed, yet still had a resource to use as weapon. Sometimes it might seem you don’t have any options, but you do if you create one.

@raidoung4100

Жыл бұрын

long story short- gotta be unnice, unkind, be an ass to those who wanna do you harm? it's good he didnt set them on fire cause he would probably also die then :p Oh gosh, what pressure was in that "snake"?

I once had a client who told me how she got cornered by some sicko in a gas station bathroom while traveling. She said she slammed open her bathroom stall door into the guy, used her keys and fishhooked the dude so hard it ripped straight through the side of his mouth. She got away and dude got put away. So yea, fight like hell.

@LadyAstarionAncunin

2 жыл бұрын

Go for soft points too. People have been watching too many movies, so they try punching someone in the face or gut when they should go for the eyes and ears.

@Roadent1241

2 жыл бұрын

@@LadyAstarionAncunin Ears are just external fleshy bits, what's that gonna do? Ironically asks the HoH dwarf who can't reach anyone's ears anyway, but at least I can headbutt at the right sort of height.....

@jtarantula3390

Жыл бұрын

@@Roadent1241 have you ever hit your ear? It HURTS

@Roadent1241

Жыл бұрын

@@jtarantula3390 I have had my aid pinned against it now you mention it. Can agree it's unfairly painful. Wonder why it's a sensitive area.

@singenstattatmen5096

Жыл бұрын

@@Roadent1241 If you clap an attacker on both ears with your flat hands very hard, it gives you a huge advantage because they become disoriented. For someone who isn't born deaf, our hearing gives us equilibrium. So if done right, attacker dude won't be able to walk in a straight line. However, first choice for defense should always be groin or eyes, because that attack doesn't need to be perfect or have a lot of strength behind it to do some real damage. And also one of the most important things we teach in self defense is to USE YOUR VOICE. Scream, shout, don't stop. It will scare most attackers off, even when there isn't anyone nearby to hear and help you.

I never understood the whole "comply with their demands" idea unless you were a staff member and they wanted cash. My plan has always been to immediately attack - claw out their eyes, bite off anything I can, and yell all kinds of crazy shit. My philosophy has always been "Even if I end up dying, I'm sure as shit going to make sure they end up with wounds they won't be able to explain away".

@yannickgrignon2473

2 жыл бұрын

I imagine if someone wants money, they just want the money and it may be best to comply - if they want YOU, that's when you fight/scream/run

@philipsmi-lenguyen8155

Жыл бұрын

Ikr. Only comply if they are robbing u tho.

@dkryan50

Жыл бұрын

If worse comes to worse, be sure to leave some DNA behind or get it on you, under your fingernails, etc.

@kaptainz7720

Жыл бұрын

That's actually a pretty great idea. 0_0 Sure you'll die either way, but at least you'll be able to provide evidence to the police.

@jessbellis9510

Жыл бұрын

@@kaptainz7720 Exactly. If I'm going to die either way, I might as well do everything I can to ensure the asshole gets caught.

As a young woman these stories a so hearthbreaking, guys like to call us paranoid but it's almost always some man killing a woman just because he feels like he can. Cases like the ones in the vid are so common in my country, I rather act ''paranoid'' and don't get close to strangers than ending up dead.

20:56 This really hits hard. All of these cases are horrific. I truly hope Gordana's remains are found so her family can put her to rest properly, likewise for the other 3 young women. (Unless they're alive, of course, in which case I just hope they are found)

I learned this from Oprah many years ago. Fight like hell in the beginning to get away, because if they are doing THIS in public, it's gonna be much worse in the place they have prepared for you.

@Mama_Bear524

2 жыл бұрын

I remember that. It was an expert guy on right? I remember him saying “never go to a second location” It really made an impression on me

@Missconduct044

2 жыл бұрын

I’ve told my kids that exact thing. If someone is going to grab you, you will not come home. They will say they won’t hurt you…but it’s a lie to make you compliant. You will die.1 If your in a car, jump out where you see people or grab the wheel and crash into another car. This is absolutely horrible, but I’d rather have my kid die jumping from a car vs what will happen if they are abducted. Oh yeah…and go for the eyes!! I heard a story about young girl (12) who was grabbed off her bike. As he was taking her into the woods, she grabbed his glasses, smashed them and ran away. Turns out he was a serial killer and she was the only one who got away, and I think helped get him caught. Brilliant and totally bad ass little girl. She was terrified but acted anyway.

@LadyAstarionAncunin

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mama_Bear524 You mean the guy who wrote The Gift of Fear, Gavin de Becker ? That book is super helpful. I saw someone mention it on a message board once, read it, and had my mind blown.

I remember the second story on “See no Evil”. It is so creepy seeing that guy stalking her through the whole store, then suddenly rush up to her in the parking lot.

@ABCDuwachui

2 жыл бұрын

I put mustard on my macaroni and cheese!!!

@DebtBuysFreedumb

2 жыл бұрын

I put mustard on my macaroni and cheese!!!

@TylerPlayGame

2 жыл бұрын

As soon as I saw the name that was exactly what went through my mind as well.

@PlAiNJaNe521

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!! Me too. Terrifying! In broad daylight around a bunch of people and still wasn't safe.

@melissamccleary9611

2 жыл бұрын

@@ABCDuwachui who doesn't? 🤔

Kelsey’s case, how scary her bf and father were so quick to act and knew something was wrong… she looked so much like her father first time hearing of this case sooo sad💔 And very admirable of you for including those words of advice for everyone!

The one at target really got me. It was daytime! She just ran in really quick to grab a few things…. & being stalked like prey by her murderer. So chilling

@mariec3527

9 ай бұрын

Right even more disgusting that the guys family was trying to leave town probably knew what he did and wasn't gonna turn him in 🙄 and the fact he said he thought she was 12 !!! Like wtf

My Dad was a Police Officer, and part of his "stranger danger" training for my brother&I was to ALWAYS fight&yell if someone grabbed us&tried to move us to a car/2nd location. He was kind&gentle in his talks, but very firm when it came to this topic.

@hunterwise9412

2 жыл бұрын

Your dad sounds like a great and caring man! That’s so good that you all listened and took his information to heart. Thank you for the share and have a great day....

@aprilgraham-tash1124

2 жыл бұрын

@@hunterwise9412 Thank you. 💕 My Dad truly was a wonderful man.

@LadyAstarionAncunin

2 жыл бұрын

My mom was always straight up with us, and I appreciate it. It kept me safe, and I still have that advice in my head now.

@wadewilson8011

Жыл бұрын

Space your words with "&" between them.

@raidoung4100

Жыл бұрын

Wonderful dad, really, cheers ~!

Running in a straight line is good advice. I probably would think to zig zag to make yourself a harder target to hit, but realistically they would chase you before they'd shoot you because they want to bring you somewhere they're less likely to get caught.

@MrJest2

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed - it's *distance* that increases your chance of not being hit by a shot, not motion. Zig-zagging just slows down the amount of time it takes to open the range. Better to get further away in a straight line than spend more time trying to dodge.

@ellioteel

2 жыл бұрын

I'd imagine it would take less stamina to run in a straight line as well

@christophermerlot3366

2 жыл бұрын

Zig zag running is for eluding alligators.

@Yoshikarter1

2 жыл бұрын

@@christophermerlot3366 Wrong. Gators and crocs can run as fast as a horse in short bursts, and they are more maneuverable than they appear. Zigzagging is only for if you want to feed the alligator...

@Nik-Nak2007

2 жыл бұрын

@@Yoshikarter1 I was born and raised in South East Florida and they used to teach us in school to run in zig zags away from Gators.

I'm glad you posted this. I'm someone who ran from an armed man trying to kidnap me because in that split second I knew that if he got me in his car I would be a dead woman. I was walking to work when a man pulled up beside me and said "get in my car" I was nervous and laughed like "you gotta be kidding me" when he pulled out his gun from the passenger's seat and tried to stop, I just ran. I was very lucky he tried this during the day in a rather populated area. If he was bold enough to shoot me which he wouldn't have had a great aim because I always knew to run in undistinguished movements and no set pattern, I would have probably had a much easier way out than if he drove me somewhere secluded like he wanted to, or possibly have help in doing something else. I think this needs to be highlighted more, never go to a second location, gun, knife, nothing. They want you alive at that second location so the weapons are an intimidation tactic. I'm not saying all people are going to follow this to a T, nothing is really guaranteed but I'm sure most do.

I think every college or drinking age person no matter there country or gender needs to watch this video. I had an encounter where my friends actually prevented me from getting in a car with a complete stranger after a night of drinking. Prefacing this by saying I’m a guy in my early 20s and I had gone out drinking with some female friends for a birthday celebration. As the night went on I was in no state to make decisions. Throughout the night there was a very pretty women in her early 40s in this club who took a liking to me. So started talking, and I can’t remember a lot of what she said, but I know she kept on trying to convince me to go back to her flat. Me being a single guy, very drunk was just going along with it. So she asked me if I wanted a cigarette outside, didn’t wait for an answer and dragged me outside away from my friends. We got outside and straight away she took me down this back alley next to the club and straight away seemed off, looking around the road and at other people smoking. Again being drunk and happy I was potentially going to get laid was just enjoying the vibe. In the background I could here this women getting more and more aggressive on the phone asking for a lift back to her flat. At this point I had finished my cigarette and was attempting to go back inside to find my friends to let them know I was going with this women. As soon as tried to go back inside the club this woman absolutely freaked. Started saying things like god would look after me, she’d make sure I was “looked after.” Anything to get me to come with her. Luckily as soon as she started to get more forceful with me to try and get me in the car that was supposedly going to her flat, one of my friends had come out to look for me. She saw I was looking more and more uncomfortable being trapped in this back alley behind the club by this women now trying to drag me down the road. Till this day I keep on saying thank you to her, as probably wasn’t anything sinister at all but the level of discomfort was one of the most uncomfortable I’ve felt on a night out. So my friend started walking down down this alley pretending to be my girlfriend and started screaming at this women to fuck off and leave me alone. This women looked away from me and towards my friend, and according to my friend gave her the most evil look she had ever seen before skulking off further down the alley. My friend put her arm around me and started walking me back inside to our friend group. On the way back into the club she lectured me about how stupid it was going with a complete stranger especially agreeing to get in a car. Have to say it’s sad that all women have to worry about that even on a normal day. But in this case I’m extremely grateful that my friend had her doubts and second thoughts. TO ANYONE who goes out drinking. 1. tell your friends where your going even if you are still together always check you have people with you. 2. Always trust your gut, or your friends gut if you are in a position to not make functional decisions by yourself. 3. Don’t be afraid to speak up and say you have people waiting for you, after hearing many different stories of potential abduction if a potential kidnapper knows there’s people waiting or looking for you, the risk is greatly minimised. 4. This is mainly for guys as I know we will do anything to get our dicks wet. If you feel uncomfortable or being pushed into a situation where a girl is trying to separate you from your group just try and be aware of your surroundings or make sure atleast one friend sees you with that person. Be safe, aware and respectful when out drinking.

@allisonelizabeth6596

2 күн бұрын

damn. Glad you're okay

This is great advice. Once upon a time, I was out at a bar on New Years Eve with some friends, and was drugged. It was a guy I had met earlier in the evening. He came over and said "Here, I bought this drink for you!" I was wary, but he kept insisting, so I took a few sips, to which he replied "Oh come on, drink up!" and tipped the glass from its bottom. He really wanted me to drink the whole thing. After that, he asked if I wanted to smoke, to which I said OK, because I used to be a social smoker. Instead of going to the back patio smoking area, he started dragging me out to the front. I tried to protest, but I started to immediately feel dizzy and by the time he got me outside, I only remember bits and pieces, then nothing. The entire thing took less than 5 minutes. He was trying to get me to get into a cab with him, but his evil plan backfired when I somehow fell backwards, hitting my head on something (most likely the concrete sidewalk). Next thing I know, I'm in the hospital being given a lecture on not drinking too much. The thing is, I only had 2 vodka tonics up until the moment when the guy gave me the evil cocktail. I don't know what would have happened to me, but I'm 100% sure it wouldn't have been good, and I wouldn't have remembered a thing. Sorry for such a long comment, but please be wary everyone! There are sickos everywhere, so don't accept drinks from strangers, OR go to a second location with them, _especially_ if you are separated from your friends or people that can help. ALWAYS BE ON GUARD!

@dreadcthulhu5

2 жыл бұрын

That also why they warn you not to accept drinks from strangers and to keep a close eye on any you order yourself these days.

@john-doemcalias4759

2 жыл бұрын

@@dreadcthulhu5 not just these days. For the last 40 years... as a man i find this story really foolish. Why would a stranger just randomly buy you something? Why would that be normal? And even if it did happen i personally would have said no? I know what i want to drink and i certainly wouldn't humor the presumptions of a total stranger. Maybe its a guy thing but random unwarranted gifts are usually the domain of aggressive advertising/ religious fanatics or rapists.

@dreadcthulhu5

2 жыл бұрын

@@john-doemcalias4759 I men some desperate horny losers think that buying a woman a drink entitles them to something, but it doesn't. It goes along the lines of "I bought you a meal and took you to a movie. Now where is the sex I am owed for that?" reasoning that some have.

@AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult

2 жыл бұрын

@@john-doemcalias4759 Some women are indoctrinated since early age to always err on the nice side, and the dark side of that is that these women end up not being equipped to deal with harassment, bc they're still on people pleasing mode. Hell, I'd never take a drink from a stranger, and my mom used to think I was being rude for stablishing basic, safe boundaries.

@john-doemcalias4759

2 жыл бұрын

Just realising my original comment sounds pretty misogynistic 😅 just to clarify I only meant to say that all i have for reference is the male perspective. That said i cant imagine my partner or our daughter would be silly enough to take a drink from a stranger...

I had a man corner me one evening. I didn't see him in the dark when I came around the corner. He stepped out from no where. I'm 6' and he towered over me. I was never more thankful that in my dominant hand I had pepper spray ready to go. In my other hand my pocket knife that button flips open and locks. Very thankful when I sprayed him directly in the face it made him cry and run away to the van just across the street. Driver waiting and a 3rd man in the back. I ran back where I came from and safety! Please! Our world has gone mad! If you are a woman walking, day or night, at least have your pepper spray ready. No earbuds and always be aware of your surroundings and all movements. Peace and safety to all!

@joanneginever1890

2 жыл бұрын

And in places where you can't legally buy pepper spray, hair spray is a good substitute or flyspray.

@mickmamahawkmickmamahawk5829

2 жыл бұрын

@@joanneginever1890 a lighter goes well with both. Both legal.

@moomyung9231

2 жыл бұрын

I can't walk without my earbuds. But I look around constantly because I'm paranoid, but it's also helped at least twice to avoid people trying to cut me off. (The last one didn't even freak me out, I thought it was funny that I'd walk one way and he'd pull out and start that way...and then I'd just turn around and go the other way and he'd try again to follow. We did that about 4 times before he must've gotten too annoyed and left or was worried that someone at the nearby gas station would notice he was being strange. Halloween 2020, and I'd just watched a video saying to be careful on Halloween.)

@mickmamahawkmickmamahawk5829

2 жыл бұрын

@@moomyung9231 ok. 1 earbud😊

@krashd

2 жыл бұрын

@@moomyung9231 I could never walk with earphones in. On a bus or train it's fine, but I would never want to be without one of my most important senses while walking.

I taught my kids that instant death at the first location is a better fate than the torture and agony preceding what will be a gruesome and painful death at the second location. Plus my kids are a bit vindictive like me, so they also agree that robbing the perpetrator of the chance to get what he wants would be the icing on the cake, the ultimate act of defiance and biggest FU possible. I’d rather be killed quickly and with dignity while giving the freak the biggest set of psychopathic blue balls 😂

In my profiling class in college they named three locations: initial attack/abduction, kill site, and dump site. Now they can merge or all be the same place (usually not the same with organized offenders).

@lovelight6973

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the information. What kind of class was it?

@Nevermore-Nevermore

2 жыл бұрын

@@lovelight6973 It was a class on criminal profiling (like criminal minds) for my forensic science degree.

@lovelight6973

2 жыл бұрын

@@Nevermore-Nevermore wow. Very cool!

@Gurlzup123

2 жыл бұрын

Criminal profiling always seems like a very fascinating subject, if only I had the grades and money to take classes like that...

Very happy to see this subject covered. It is so so important to do anything you can initially and not end up isolated with no chance of help at another location. I really hope everybody fully paid attention to the important message in this video.

Lazy, I was like you - I watched a lot of true crime documentaries, and I saw a pattern: if the abductor wanted to take a person somewhere, that person would likely be tortured and then their body would be dumped. Another thing I've noticed, time after time in the true crime documentaries, is that when a girl is with their boyfriend, and a man pulls a gun on them and makes them to get on their knees, the gunman will then execute the boyfriend (because men are stronger than women, and a gunman can control a woman much easier). Never, ever comply. It is better to fight for your life than to willingly go to a slow death at the hands of a merciless monster.

I tell my wife to fight with every ounce of her being, because whatever he does in a public location isn't going to be nearly as bad as what will happen if he takes her.

@bonjovirocks24

Жыл бұрын

Many stalkers like this do home invasion, knowing their target is no,e alone. Fight like your life depends on it, because it does. Also, keep bear spray or wasp spray by all door entrances, You might not have time to grab a weapon otherwise, and neighbors are unlikely to hear screaming, much less do anything if they do. This is from personal experience.

@bonjovirocks24

Жыл бұрын

Home alone - stupid iPad,

@wvrjl

Жыл бұрын

The unfortunate thing in Canada is that you'll get arrested if you use an object to defend yourself! against a stronger attacker. Even if they break into your house!!! I know, because it happened / IS HAPPENING to me!!!!!!!!!!!!! Even though that is NOT the law, the Canadian police illegally use their arresting power to dissuade you from doing things they don't like (and they DON'T arrest your attacker; even when they broke down your door to get to you!!!). It's insane, and our human / civil rights groups need to get off their asses, and do their jobs by suing the police and cities!!!!!! However, you should still do what you have to do to protect yourself. It's just shame this is STILL happening here!!!

@ThimbleFox350

Жыл бұрын

@@wvrjl In America sometimes people get in trouble with the law for attacking a home invader that breaks in to harm them too. It makes no sense to me.

@gilbertflores4341

Жыл бұрын

That's sounds like California too.

Someone tried to kidnap my mrs once she elbowed him so hard in the face she nearly knocked him out and got away. Thank god he was a little shit bag because she's only tiny and was only 17 at the time. It's scary how much it happens.

@someoneout-there2165

2 жыл бұрын

Thank God she didn't freeze up from panic. Can't believe this many people do or what to do things like this.

@nickyblue4866

2 жыл бұрын

I wasnt knocked out....

@EvilStrikesTrueCrimeChannel

2 жыл бұрын

@@nickyblue4866 that's why I said nearly. You know you where seeing stars.

@nickyblue4866

2 жыл бұрын

@@EvilStrikesTrueCrimeChannel actually it was those little blue birds that fly around the head... like in a cartoon when a character gets hit in the head hard....

@EvilStrikesTrueCrimeChannel

2 жыл бұрын

@@nickyblue4866 😂 yeh yeh that's what I meant she still remembers the sound effects of the bump that formed on your head.

I'm Australian and I was 14 in 1994 but I don't recall hearing about Gordana's case. I hope her mystery is solved someday and her family find some form of closure. I refuse to give up hope of that.

If there’s one rule I know, it’s “never go to the second location under any circumstance” And while I am an agoraphobic mess of anxiety and depression and will probably never have to actually come face to face with this, I will still put it in to practice and think about it more than I ever should. Anyways. I haven’t ever heard of you but I am glad this was recommended. Subbing immediately.

Typical child groomer: "She said that she's 18" Edwin Hall: "I thought she was 12" *bruh* 🗿

@niharikatasnim939

Жыл бұрын

🤢🤢🤢🤢

@mariomario1462

Жыл бұрын

Stop abusing words u don't know

@willow9912

Жыл бұрын

@@mariomario1462 how did they misuse the word tho? Just asking

@mariomario1462

Жыл бұрын

@@willow9912 nobody was groomed. This word has a specifc meaning.

Great advice! If someone forces their way into your car and your driving; cause damage to another car or building. People come running for an accident. (Obviously don't injure another person to save yourself.) If there is no possible witnesses put the car in the ditch or hit a tree; changing their plan/destination may change your fate.

@sea_triscuit7980

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, I mean being killed by crashing or even being killed by the perp because you crashed will be preferable to what lies in store for you

@DizzyedUpGirl

2 жыл бұрын

Drive like your name is Leon S. Kennedy.

@danielbrown503

2 жыл бұрын

This!!! Plus YOU will know when the airbags will deploy. The attacker won't. A bit of advantage, that hopefully, you can use against them.

@Ridd333

2 жыл бұрын

Makes me think of a scene from payback for some reason. But yeah.

@samuelwallace1797

2 жыл бұрын

A lady did that when a guy got her in her car with a knife , then to save herself from being robbed/murdered she crashed the car and there were witnesse.He then stabbed her a few times with a long sharp knife in her chest area and she died after stumbling out of her car. He ran off and it was an Unsolved Mysteries episode.

I've raised my children with this exact advice! Scream, fight, grab anything possible to make yourself bigger and therefore harder to force into a vehicle. Even if they have a gun pointed at you, DO NOT COMPLY!!! They're only trying to take you to a place where they have more control and are less likely to get caught or interrupted while doing terrible things to you that you almost certainly will not survive. Now that they're teens and tweens, if I even start to tell them this again, they can quote it back verbatim, with their own ideas of how they'll fight added.

The letter that young Damien wrote wishing for his sister back, just broke me. How terrible to never get any closure.

Poor Kelsey, the fact that her killers family were packing up their stuff to run away just horrifies me. It’s like Brian Laundries family- knowing that their son is a monster but trying to protect him!

@hoodzzeee

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe, I think this was "normal" behaviour for his family. His family should be looked into as this seems like learnt behaviour. Who knows?

@JadedBelle

2 жыл бұрын

No it was his wife and son he was packing up to leave...not his parents.

@bodhiswayze1892

2 жыл бұрын

@@JadedBelle I know. That’s why we said “family” not “parents” 🤦‍♀️

@JadedBelle

2 жыл бұрын

@@bodhiswayze1892 Alright man it's really not that serious..I wasn't at all being rude or sarcastic. I only assumed as I shouldn't have that you meant parents bc of the Laundrie reference...Apologies.

Ragdolling absolutely makes it harder for them. I teach pre-k and when my toddlers go limp it's a hell of a lot harder to pick them up than if they were standing. Even if you're on the smaller side trying to deadlift just 45kg that's flat on the ground can be extremely difficult, especially since the perps tend to be average dudes and not hardcore weightlifters. Also thrash around like crazy so they can't get a good grip. And as a tangent I hate when someone assaults/murders people and then begs for mercy on the grounds that they're religious now. Like cool story bro but you didn't give your victims any mercy so why do you deserve it just because you feel bad now? Finding religion does not suddenly absolve you of your crimes, your victims are no less harmed just because you developed a conscience. Live with that guilt.

@gobalbucs

2 жыл бұрын

Frankly, I doubt he actually did “find God” to begin with. He was just scared of dying and was desperate to gain sympathy. Well, he sure as shit didn’t give his victims any.

@christinawhelehan6445

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, boo bloody hoo for him, let him rot in Hell where he deserves to go to. He never needed to find God because God is and has alway's been there and he know's what he has done, and everything that happened to that poor woman, he also left her child or children without a mother, her parent's without their child, maybe sibling's without a sister etc so he ruined other lives because of his sick, twisted few minutes of acting out his awful, sick, twisted act on an innocent person, if anything if what happened to him happened to him for real, why would he do something that was horrific for him do it to another person if he knew the horrible feeling? She should have got that cigarette lighter thing and stuck it to his face, a mark of Cain for him to alway's remember when he look's in the mirror, scumbag.

@anonymouswhite352

Жыл бұрын

Hate to be that guy 45kg any that much even for a weak/average guy

@IudiciumInfernalum

Жыл бұрын

If they have turned religious than they will have their chance to appeal to The Highest Authority after they have faced the punishment of man.

@wadewilson8011

Жыл бұрын

No, it's better to trash around. Kick, punch, scream, do whatever it takes. Going limp doesn't always work. There are a lot of strong people out here. I can deadlift a 200lb adult man off of a floor with ease. And I'm not a bodybuilder. I workout, but I'm not a dedicated gym freak. Never underestimate someone's core strength and raw power.

Case two is especially terrifying to me because I’ve had a man follow me down every aisle in a store once. I noticed long before he actually approached me, and I wasn’t alone in the store, thankfully. It’s a scary thing to experience, and I hope everyone remains vigilant-whether you’re alone or with someone else, because there’s no guarantee they’ll notice for you.

I came to check back after being an avid listener when you did horror story readings and I'm so shocked to see your content is once again something I am hooked on! Congrats on 1mil Lazy.

My mom taught me this when I was about six years old. She said anything they're saying they'll do to you if you don't comply is something they'll do to you anyway, and more, so scream and fight and run like hell. Her dad was a cop so we were all taught some really important stuff. It's awesome that you put this up.

@illbedamedifidogiveadamn

Жыл бұрын

Important stuffs like?

@ahk9838

Жыл бұрын

They wanna create a trigger on you.

This is also a reminder not only for ladies, but guys too. i have personally experienced being physically assaulted and robbed by a taxi driver when i was actually lost in a city in a late late nighttime. And i thought being a guy saves me from sexual assaults, i was wrong. The taxi driver touched me in improper places just after he punched me in my right cheek. I was a small, 18y/o asian guy. And the dude was a middle-aged large body-type guy. I tried to fight back but i physically couldnt. So i even started crying inside the taxi realizing what would my fate be. Fortunately, the taxi driver only wants my possesions (phone,cash, and some stuff in my bag) He pushed me out at literally nowhere in the middle of a highway. And i still remember now, that 5 hours of me walking injured and emotionally traumatized, back into my home.

@sandrafaith

2 жыл бұрын

Yikes! I'm sorry that happened to you. A good reminder that everyone should be vigilant.

@destiny5544

2 жыл бұрын

What a horrific experience, I'm so glad you survived!!

@datheamore6395

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this. Many patents make the mistake of not teaching their sons that sexual assault can happen to them too.

@iamV10010

2 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry. And you're right, men need to hear this advice too.

@LadyAstarionAncunin

2 жыл бұрын

Two of my best male friends have been SA'd by men multiple times and told me about it. It's happening out there all the time! It makes me so angry.

Bro, I remember finding your account years ago when you were new to KZread. I stopped watching your content for a while, but it’s nice to see you’ve grown as a KZreadr and your content is professional and you’re getting sponsorship on your videos. I used to love your creepypasta stories, would be nice if you could carry on that series, but what do I know. Keep it up mate.

John Mulaney mentions not letting someone take you to a secondary location as part of one of his stand up routines. Apparently, they had a cop who did safety talks with the kids about not getting kidnapped, and that was one of his big Do Nots. And, being a stand up routine, there were jokes because he was a kid and the guy was intense and freaked the kids out, and you laugh. But these stories drive home just how right that cop was. It's an important lesson, a scary one, but very important for people to learn especially kids.

@jsmalls9575

Жыл бұрын

Sergeant JJ Bittenbinder, Street Smarts!

A guy tried to break into my house not to long ago at night. I came down in the dark to get some water and could see him through the window. He didn't see me coming when I opened the door and loudly said "wtf do you think you're doing?" it scared him and he took off. Maybe not the smartest thing but my fight or flight kicked in and I'm clearly a fighter 😅 I've now hidden knifes throughout my house, added a rope to safely be able to step outside the upstairs window and put a key on the inside of the bedroom door.

@ellioteel

2 жыл бұрын

What's the key on the bedroom door for?

@deniseelsworth7816

2 жыл бұрын

@@ellioteel so you can lock out invaders and get some sleep!

@thelemurofmadagascar9183

2 жыл бұрын

I honestly wish I had as much courage as you. I'm a complete wimp, and if God forbid anything like that happened to me, I'd just freeze on the spot. I don't think I'd even be able to run on account of my legs turning into jelly. On an unrelated side note, it's nice to see another Moomin fan :)

@diegorincon4673

2 жыл бұрын

The knives thing is certainly intelligent

@ledam2654

Жыл бұрын

Be careful with weapon usage. Whatever weapon the criminal wrestles away from you can be used against you.

I’m sooooo glad that the narrator suggested that victims go limp if they’re being dragged, pushed or otherwise forced somewhere they don’t want to go. GREAT ADVICE! Best chance of surviving a horrible situation.

I really appreciate how u started the video by clearly explaining what anyone should do in case someone is trying to get them to go somewhere and threatening them with a gun, knife etc... I feel like I've never heard that in any true crime channel before and I watch a lot!!!!

That’s great advice lazy! And it could have possibly saved a lot of peoples lives. I know it saved mine once. I was about 13-14 at the time (20 now) my family and I had gone out of town to a nearby carnival (idk if that’s what it’s called english is not my first language) we always preferred to go when it was chilly because naturally less people would be there because of the cold. I was separated from my family for just 10 minutes to go to the bathroom and the bathroom area was in a somewhat dark corner and if I remember correctly there was almost no one there. When I got out a man approached me and asked if I was lost and that he could help me find my family. I thought he was a worker or something but I declined because I already knew where my family was. He kept insisting though and obviously that seemed weird to me so I kept telling him no and started walking away and naively had my back turned to him which gave him the opportunity to grab me from behind and drag me (I think he either wanted to take me back to the bathroom or behind it who knows) it all happened so fast that I barely remember anything but I thank god for the adrenaline rush that gave me enough strength to fight him off and I bolted away from there as fast as I could without looking back. I found my family and told them everything and even though I could remember the mans features (although it was dark) we were never capable of tracking him down. God knows what he would’ve done to me if I hadn’t fought back. Moral of the story is FIGHT BACK. Scratch, bite, scream, do anything in your power and you could catch them off guard with that and run away. even if you end up dead in that moment it’s much better than whatever your attacker has in mind for you.

My parents always stressed to me and my sisters that should a stranger ever threateningly demand we get into his/her car, or try to pull us in, to make as much noise and fight back as much as possible. They told us, odds were, they would just give up and runaway because they don't want any attention drawn to them. I also figured, "I'd rather be shot and killed outright then and there instead of being taken somewhere else to be horrifically tortured and then killed."

My mom used to watch the Oprah Winfrey show when I came from school and one day Oprah had a FBI agent on the show and he said never ever go to the second location. That advice is something that has stuck with me right into adulthood

@LadyAstarionAncunin

2 жыл бұрын

I think you mean Gavin de Becker. The guy who wrote The Gift of Fear? He has an agency for protecting people who have stalkers.

@winterblommetjie

2 жыл бұрын

@@LadyAstarionAncunin yes! That's him!

Thank you for telling people this! My dad, a sheriff, said this when I was a kid. "No matter what, do not go with them!" Make therm commit the crime where they will get caught. Not in the dungeon they built. Where you'll live in agany, disappear, and never be found.

I am both happy and saddened by the fact that in case 2 the police started looking for Kelsey so quickly. Because I think that it should be done that quick all the time, but I know a lot of police try to tell victim's families to wait a few days before filing a missing person's report. I know that they got on it right away for Kelsey because she was the daughter of someone on law enforcement and it's kinda unfair for all the other people that go missing/are killed that they aren't treated the same.

I used to live an hour from Overland Park. Two years after Kelsey's death her father came to my high school on behalf of the Kelsey Smith Foundation. He talked about how she was like and her goals for the future. Then told us how she was kidnapped in broad daylight in a public area and later how she was murdered. You could hear the grief in his voice while he talked. At times he was holding back tears. It was chilling listening to what happened to her. Afterwards he educated us on the importance of being aware of your surroundings even if you think you're somewhere safe. Him and a woman connected to law enforcement taught us some self defense and gave tips on what to do in a similar scenario to Kelsey's. He said he didn't want anyone to have to go through what his daughter did. Watching this video brought that memory to the forefront of my mind.

Wait, so Gordana, the poor girl in the third story that I am still watching was seen being abducted but SIX PEOPLE and no one came to her aide?? WTF is wrong with people????? You see a young woman being kidnapped and it’s NOT your problem….

@diefluchendehexe5775

2 жыл бұрын

Shock is a really crazy thing. /:

@Roadent1241

2 жыл бұрын

Bystander effect "Oh someone else will sort it out" is a hell of a thing.

@hannibalbarca1147

Жыл бұрын

It's probably a combination of Shock, bystander effect, and fear. Initially you're just outright surprised, then you're like "I'm not going anywhere near that" and then it's "someone else will take care of it".

@bullymaguire5838

Жыл бұрын

@@hannibalbarca1147 and if there's a weapon involved then it becomes well better 1 body than 2 bodies

These stories usually happen so far away from where I live, but the second story of Stacey Erickson hits real close to home. Grandview is a short drive away, 20 minutes at most, and yet thinking someone had been kidnapped and killed so close to home gives one a primal terror. Murder happens everywhere, don't think you are safe just because you never hear about it happening close to your life.

What an amazing channel. So glad I found Lazy Masquerade. Entertainment of the highest order. Thank you!

Case 2: He admitted he wanted a 12 yo -He's most likely in protective custody. Few years ago, there was a police officer who gave advice on how to not be victim - he said NEVER go with criminals, cause it's not going to end well. Better to fight/run where you are.

Wow, you don't often see a $1M reward. Especially on an 18 year old case. I hope the loved ones in all of the cases are still able to find joy in their lives despite such tragedy.

@NannupTiger

2 жыл бұрын

You do in Australia, our 'rewards' for info on serious cases generally start at $250,000, rewards for cold case murders/disappearances are often $1 million... In fact, there is a TV show on $1mil cases right now, called Million Dollar Murders

@krashd

2 жыл бұрын

@@NannupTiger Huge rewards act somewhat as a deterrent also, anyone thinking about killing someone has to realise that for the rest of their life anyone who has even the slightest inclination that they might be a killer could rat them out for a big pay day. They would have to be looking over their shoulder constantly.

@NannupTiger

2 жыл бұрын

@@krashd 🤷‍♀️ even the death penalty or LWOP is not always a deterrent

@krashd

2 жыл бұрын

@@NannupTiger Deterrence is subjective because every person is different, but reminding a person that they will be hunted forever and that there will be a 7-figure bounty on their head for the rest of their life is a lot for them to think about when they are planning a murder.

@NannupTiger

2 жыл бұрын

@@krashd ok, you sound like you know best, keep it up..

The is the best advice I’ve heard. Something that I have never stopped to think about but is absolutely true. Under no circumstances should you go with an assailant to a secondary location. Thanks so much for pointing this out, it could perhaps save many lives ❤

Damn Lazy, that advice at the end was the best advice I've ever heard as it pertains to the topic. It's better to be injured in a public place with help minutes away than being in a unknown place with help nowhere in sight. Man that was hella deep and nothing but facts. Really good job writing that you have just saved a bunch of lives with that advice.

Remember, your chances of escape are exponentially higher during initial contact and the plans for you at a second location are usually far worse than a bullet to the back as you run away.

Love your channel. You did an excellent job outlining the dangers of complying to abductions. Yes! Bite, kick. SCREAM, scratch and RUN! Never be submissive when being abducted. Thank you.

Exactly. Fight back even if U know that you'll die. My mom always says that it gives a feeling of closure to know that I died instead of dragging the family into the pain of not knowing anything.

Another tip if something similar happens to you or could: Scream "fire" and not "help", when people hear fire they all react. When they hear help they sit and wait for someone else to handle the situation

@E4T4

8 ай бұрын

yea I feel like its more likely that people will start recording rather than help anyone its so sad

@gracelambert5038

8 ай бұрын

You are exactly right

I remember the Kelsey Smith case quite well. It happened pretty close to where I grew up, and everyone was pretty shocked, especially with the Kara Kopetsky case happening around the same time. at first, it seemed like a serial killer situation. still sad either way. another great video Lazy!

@darkkiss7247

2 жыл бұрын

I lived 20 minutes away from Overland Park. I remember both of these cases very well. My daughter was Kara's age when Kara went missing.

@Presca1

2 жыл бұрын

Something that really also bugged me in Kelsey's case was how the parents were 'packing him up' so they could escape town. Lovely parents - now wonder he turned into a piece of sh*t.

@nickyblue4866

2 жыл бұрын

@@Presca1 the shit apple dont fall far from the doo doo tree

@JadedBelle

2 жыл бұрын

@@Presca1 I believe he was married and was packing his family up..not the parents. Edwin had been adopted but removed from his adoptive parents home when he was younger.

What a way to end a weekend! Lazy comes through when we need him the most.

@EsperantoDelta

2 жыл бұрын

Just after the long day at the beach and volleyball, a video to listen to calmly

@nicolasguzman2271

2 жыл бұрын

One would say he is the avatar of horror

@Batnano

2 жыл бұрын

yes,nothing like rehashed content we've seen in all of his past videos

@bruggeman672

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah gotta keep the gruesome details coming right? Who cares people died, you want content! The ghouls are out in droves apparently...

@Batnano

2 жыл бұрын

@@bruggeman672 yess,keep the stories i already watched in 5 different videos from the same channel coming please, i love me some youtube money content

I was literally just discussing that with my mom, I’ve watched too many crime documentaries where ppl got abducted in bright day light: and I was saying if they take you right there you have less chances after that, so do whatever you can to get away the fist chance you get. The gun or a knife is just a scare tactic it’s less likely they will actually use it to kill you they just want you to obey. So scream as loud as you can and just run away to safety!

Really informative cautionary video. Thank you❤

I just want to remind everyone that it's NOT the victim's fault regardless of whatever "better" choice they could have made. Sure, it's helpful to discuss what to do if someone sticks gun in your face and says get in the car, but in the extreme stress of a life threatening situations your reaction might not be what you think.

@letsgetreal6402

2 жыл бұрын

Discussing what choices to make in these situations and to mitigate these these situations is exactly what's called victim blaming though.... Gathering evidence and a statement too.

@smileymctrashbag

2 жыл бұрын

Very true. We all say/think we would be the badass who fights back and wins, but that might not be the case.

@happytrails3

2 жыл бұрын

@@CedarMountainsnow Yes, exactly. People have gone overboard calling things that term. People have to learn about what's risky and why, and ways to avoid trouble.

@jacksyoutubechannel4045

2 жыл бұрын

One of the reasons it's so important to go over these kinds of situations, to go ahead and make the decision, "I will never let them restrain me; I will never let them take me to a second location," is because deciding ahead of time actually _does_ help you know what your reaction will be. Usually, the people whose reactions aren't what they thought they would be are people who may have thought about the situation, but never decided, "I will do _x_ if this happens." Decide what you'll do now, so you're not trying to think it through under the stress of a life threatening situation.

@fork1695

Жыл бұрын

Yes, remember this stuff for the future but never blame people who didn’t do this in the past

#1 rule - never let them get you in a car. At that point police assume they're looking for a body, not a person. Even without a vehicle, once abducted and no trace for 24 hours? Your chances of survival are now pegged at less than 10%, so even if you are still alive most searchers assume you're not and may be searching for a body dump site not a place for a warm body.

Let's be honest, no one anywhere at any time could ever call this channel's creator lazy!🙅🏼‍♀️Thank u for the great content; keep it up and ur gonna blow up fast!!💕🌻

Really sound advice there. It would seem the wrong thing to do by screaming and running away etc but there is no chance at all if you comply to your attacker demands

This video is absolutely amazing on so many levels ! The stories are terrifying , BUT I truly appreciate the added safety tips. Along with being a fan myself , my 16 y/o daughter has become a fan of your channel and loves the lessons she gets every time . Sometimes the moral of the story , and others like this where u list specific tactics and things to be even more aware of are just the best ! Guaranteed you sir , have just saved a few lives with this video alone! That is much appreciated!

@SuperRat420

2 жыл бұрын

Tell her not to trust men

@heatherdavis345

2 жыл бұрын

@@SuperRat420 lol. I Tell her not to trust anyone that hasn't proven their intentions.

Losing someone is hard enough, but finding out that it happened while they were getting a gift for you is just soul destroying.

@raidoung4100

Жыл бұрын

dunno why you didnt get more "appreciations" for this post. Very insightful. Cheers.

My dad always told me if someone tried to force me to do something, like follow to a second location, that I should claw their eyes out, kick them in the crotch, bite them etc. whatever I could within my power to just run. It hasn't happened to me and it shouldn't have to happen to anyone, but instructions like these are extremely important and I'm glad more and more people realize it's really the best option in any situation. Thanks for highlighting this, Lazy. You're doing a service.

This is excellent advice. Years ago, while still in school, we had an FBI Agent come and speak with us...he gave this exact same advice.

My uncle was kidnapped and murdered in Colombia in the late 80’s. I doubt he had any chance of running or escaping from his group of captures though.

@Soup_phobic

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry :(

"Verizon was less than helpful." -every Verizon customer

They thought his childhood would allow him to have a lighter sentence 😭 Tons have terrible childhoods, be better and don't take it out on innocent people. What a joke.

When I was 17 years ago I was hitchhiking back home from a party cuz everyone was too drunk to drive home I met a guy who offered me a ride. When I got in he immediately offered me coke. I denied his offer but got an uneasy feeling in my tummy. I kept asking him to pull over and let me out. he kept making excuses. I put my hand on the handle ready to jump out. the feeling in my gut was getting worse. he finally started pulling onto a ramp in the woods. We were coming off the highway into the woods. I instantly remembered oprah whinfrys statement about not letting them take you to a second spot so I yelled at him to stop. he stopped. I thanked him for the ride and got out and started walking back towards the highway. All of a sudden I heard running behind me. I didn't get a chance to look behind as I was immediately attacked from behind and knocked down in the gravel. I was screaming so loud but it was the woods so no one heard me. He dragged me across the gravel down into the gutter with me kicking and screaming. He started raping me all while I was fighting back. At one point he held a gun up in the air but I kept kicking him. Suddenly there was a white car coming so I had this white bag in my hand and started waving it high above. the white car stopped behind this guys car. He jumped off me and ran into the woods. I jumped up and started running down towards the highway. I was half naked and bloody from the gravel. I ran to the highway and started flagging down cars. no one would stop. I was devastated. I knew I only had a few min before he would come after me. I ran to the opposite side of the highway and tried flagging down cars. no one would stop. finally I reached a decision to just jump in front of a car as I would want to die that way rather than him. I jumped right in front of this blue car. they stopped. I ran to the car to the back and jumped into the back and was frantically telling them to go go go or he would be after us. They drove me to the next stop which was McDonalds. I ran inside to call the police. Apparently there were multiple calls coming from people who reported me. Police came finally and they took me to the hospital for a rape kit. the guy was never caught.😢🤬. back then hitchhiking was the norm. Never ever again.

The second story reminds me of something I experienced in college. I was going out to my car and there was a young woman standing completely still in the middle of the parking lot like she was frozen in place. I asked if she was ok and I had this bad feeling in my gut. She said she had a feeling like someone was watching her. I escorted her to her car and made sure it started and watched her drive off while scanning around where she parked. I left still feeling uneasy. I saw her a few days later and she thanked me for seeing her to her car and she hadn’t felt that uneasy feeling since. I hadn’t felt it after that day either. Obviously we went out separate ways in life, but I hope she’s still doing alright. Hopefully my presence was enough to scare off whoever she thought was watching her. Hopefully it was no one and there was no danger but you never know in this world.