"Sweet Spirit" - the Mormon version of, "at least they have a great personality!"

@kerrysmiles

2 ай бұрын

I got called that so much... Ahhhh being disabled and a Mormon 🤦‍♀️

@andromedaunsure72

2 ай бұрын

Nooooo that’s legit heartbreaking

@MarieM-ui4bu

2 ай бұрын

God, I never felt so called out in my life 😂😂

@victoriahoward8244

2 ай бұрын

That’s AWFUL. What’s the male version? Let me guess; there isn’t one?

@victoriahoward8244

2 ай бұрын

@@kerrysmilesthat sucks! I’m sorry

I never heard the term soaking, but when I was at BYU they sent a general authority down to tell everyone that getting married for the weekend in Vegas so they could have sex, then having it annulled, was still a sin. 🤣😂

@flutenanyidk1806

2 ай бұрын

Hey they said legally married! That’s not TECHNICALLY against the rules! 🤣🤣

@lilithium3940

2 ай бұрын

​@@flutenanyidk1806I think the annulment has to be for specific reasons in this cult

@bewitched3912

2 ай бұрын

@@lilithium3940 if Nevada says no fault divorce, how can the church buck against following laws of the land they claim to be subject to and for that matter, it is a crime to molest kids, but Mormon Bishops have no problem calling Kirtand McConkie lawyers to silence child victims of sex abuse

@1495978707

2 ай бұрын

Why do people always forget that people will always game the system

@adamsmith1813

2 ай бұрын

Isn't all that process expensive though? That seems ridiculous all that just because you can't wait to fuck lmao.

My theory on soaking: You get caught having sex, so you freeze and vehemently claim that you weren't having sex, that you were merely soaking.

@IxiaRayne

2 ай бұрын

Ohhhhhh I like that explanation 👀

@Just_One_Tree

2 ай бұрын

Purity culture is strong in the US, that alone messes up peoples feeling around sex. Then there’s the extra shame instilled by families, at church, etc about having sex, experiencing pleasure, and even just having a body. That fear/shame can make people do very strange things In my late teens I knew conservative Christian people who would have an•l, in their hetero relationships, because it “wasn’t really sex” and they “were still pure for marriage”… (no judgement for people who enjoy an•l, that’s just not what it was about for them) TL;DR: people may actually be ‘soaking’ 😟

@VensVibrantNailsandBeauty

2 ай бұрын

​@@Just_One_Treemy first husband was RLDS, now known as Community of Christ. His family member went to a church-affiliated college in Lamoni, IA. She talked about how many of the college women would have anal sex, but not vaginal sex for this reason.

@Ballykeith

2 ай бұрын

​@@Just_One_Treean*l in this context: Saddlebacking.

@peggystoutemorin4529

2 ай бұрын

Why can't people make comments without all these letters, which many have no clue what they mean? I find it incredibly rude. It's like saying, "Go figure out what I mean." Come on! Ugh!! ​@Ballykeith

"Sweet Spirit" is kinda like "Bless Your Heart" in Southern. It sounds like a compliment, BUT IT'S NOT.

@Charlie_loves_pickles

Ай бұрын

Or I'mma pray for you/your on my prayer list 😂

@copperwopper6429

Ай бұрын

Bless your heart can be both an insult or a phrase of empathy. And imma pray for you or your in my prayers can be an insult or a phrase of empathy. Sweet spirit is just an insult

@G2Bryce

Ай бұрын

It's also why there is a legitimate reason to have polygamy. What are the unattractive women supposed to do? Just sit there alone forever? If no other man is willing to step in and be with them, and a married man is, and the woman wants it, who are we to judge?

@billcipher8645

28 күн бұрын

​@@G2BryceI believe polygamy should be legal for both sides of course but your argumentation is rather.. weird. In my mind it should be allowed just for freedom's sake, forbidding people from doing what they want in their partnerships (that isn't obviously abusive ofc) is just wacky but.. You are saying it as if women have no other life goal other than being with a man. Unattractive women can be single without some "saviour" that takes her in because he is so so "lovely"...

@elsagreen1476

21 күн бұрын

In French we say "she's a brave woman" or "he's nice I guess", in a way that means that person is trying, but they're a bit slow. They're not mean. And that's pretty much the only good thing you can say about them 😅

It really shows what a culture thinks of women when they use “her personality is good” as an insult.

@themist6815

2 ай бұрын

Bingo! It is all culture to her. Nothing more. Mocking other people's beliefs is sport.

@xylophone_888

2 ай бұрын

​@@themist6815 its ok if the "beliefs" are fvcked up and cultist

@disab4649

Ай бұрын

I had meeting with a teacher were she was supposed to tell me my grade in her subject. She started of with: I want you to know you,re an amazing person... Guess if my grade was good or bad XD

@abithefallenhuman921

Ай бұрын

​@@themist6815she's ex-mormon? Beyond that, Mormonism is a cult, she's raising awareness of their cult practices. And beyond that, no culture is immune to critism, especially when it sees certain people as lesser

@keegster7167

Ай бұрын

I think women do the same thing with men though. They say things like “He looks…nice.” Haha. It’s the absence of one category of description (looks) that imply a deficiency

Exmo from Indiana. We called girls that were not married and had hit 30 “unclaimed jewels.”

@ReflectedMiles

2 ай бұрын

JS apparently thought that could be said by 16, and he had lots of experience treasure digging, so.... Poor Oliver Cowdery, not to mention Emma. 😳

@TehMomo_

2 ай бұрын

Oof

@m__6930

2 ай бұрын

And what about the men? I imagine there's no offensive term for unmarried 30+ men?

@yurisv7315

2 ай бұрын

​@@m__6930Do you mind explaining what's so offensive about being called a jewel?

@joostdriesens3984

2 ай бұрын

@@yurisv7315 Do you know what a euphemism is?

“Let’s get to levi lovin’” kinda has a ring to it, or perhaps it’s just me-

@heehoopeanut420

2 ай бұрын

nah, they unfortunately popped off with that one. The fundies take all the cool slang😂

@cctomcat321

2 ай бұрын

Sounds... chafe-y.

@Butterfly-ql4pg

2 ай бұрын

If it weren't slang for one of the many weird ways Mormon kids try to circumvent purity culture, I feel like it would have potential as a country song title 👌

@Ballykeith

2 ай бұрын

Why *Levi* lovin'?

@Throatzillaaa

2 ай бұрын

Sounds like a country song.

Soaking? They really discovered cockwarming and renamed it. Presumably because “cockwarming” makes them uncomfortable to say. These poor young horny people. It always warms my heart to see ex-Mormons not being ashamed, disgusted, or afraid of themselves anymore, in life, love, and sex. I love your content! I know you grew up feeling pressured to be a “beacon of light for God’s grace” or however Mormons say it, but I want to you know that you are now an inspiration on a long, hard road for ex-cultists of all stripes. You’ve helped a lot of people, and that’s truly inspiring. I hope your life continues to be free and happy!

@UpsideDown.Bat42

2 ай бұрын

I NEVER EVEN THOUGHT OF IT THAT WAY AND IM LAUGHING MY ASS OFF BRO

@ExhaustedScarf

2 ай бұрын

@@UpsideDown.Bat42 I don’t kink shame any Mormons, just point out the naughtiness lmao

@UpsideDown.Bat42

2 ай бұрын

@@ExhaustedScarf oh definitely no kink shaming here 🤣 I didn't even make the connection that it's the same thing as cockwarming and I'm screaming internally now

@jodigepford2850

2 ай бұрын

​@@ExhaustedScarf The church/cult shames them

@ExhaustedScarf

2 ай бұрын

@@jodigepford2850 Exactly why I don’t. The church hurts them enough, I’m just here to make ‘em think, and maybe point out funnies occasionally. I never went in service or got baptized, but I was targeted by JW propagandizing. I know what it’s like to suffer beause of a cult. Nothing but love for the indoctinated from me, even if they are currently mired in awful beliefs. I trust that anyone, when given full access to all the information they need, can chose to leave things behind that hurt themselves or others.

Sweet Spirit is brutal 😂

@kerrysmiles

2 ай бұрын

They use it for disabled folks too. 🙄

@bonnie1303

2 ай бұрын

The backhand is so strong

@QuestionsIAskMyself

2 ай бұрын

@@kerrysmiles wtf that’s cruel

@themist6815

2 ай бұрын

It's the "Mean Girls'" slang.

I totally forgot about the term NCMO. You just unlocked some very cringy teenage memories 😂😂😂

I’m not Mormon but my best friend in middle school was. She called me a “sweet spirit” once and I thought it was nice. Lmao. Maybe we weren’t friends😂

@chlyri

2 ай бұрын

it really depends. she could have been genuine.

I heard with soaking that you’re suppose to get a buddy underneath the bed to start kicking the mattress so YOU aren’t moving but there is movement

@angelalovell5669

2 ай бұрын

Holy hell, what a great example of religion making life ridiculous.

@tomriddle8933

2 ай бұрын

Kinda lame devils triangle. 😂

@OatmealTheCrazy

Ай бұрын

Or have someone else jump on the bed

@ao-111

Ай бұрын

@@angelalovell5669 Have I got a story for you about wires hanging in Brooklyn...

@angelalovell5669

Ай бұрын

@@ao-111 Intrigued...

Lmao I’m sorry do they think they can like…. Trick god? It doesn’t count because I came in my jeans, lord 😂😂😂😂

@violetquartz8817

2 ай бұрын

Hey but less unwanted pregnancy and stds tho if u do it full hands and skin off. Not defending tho. Its dumb lol

@zyxwvutsrqponmlkh

Ай бұрын

Look up "An Eruv", tricking god is what it's all about.

@cy-one

Ай бұрын

Yeah, everyone thinks they can trick God. In Germany there's a pasta dish made to hide eating meat from God during fasting, because obviously God can't see the meat when it's wrapped in pasta dough. Dates back to sometime even before the 18th century.

I used to get told I had a “Sweet Spirit” and now not only am I married, but I’m Gay Married. Take that past TBM me lol

@bunasdfghjkl

Ай бұрын

god, fuck the people who told you that omg. Gay Married ftw, happy pride month!!! 🏳️‍🌈💕

Soaking is a real thing. I am a non Mormon living in Utah. Dated a Mormon boy when I was 19 and we did this. Per his request because it was “okay” and not sex.

@coryshimata4489

Ай бұрын

He lied. It is still sex.

@daphnegarzarelli-lawson324

Ай бұрын

@@coryshimata4489 he didn’t come. It was a sexual act but not intercourse. That came later.

@OatmealTheCrazy

Ай бұрын

Sex doesn't require ejaculation. Hell, it doesn't even require penetration

@DisgruntledPeasant

Ай бұрын

It's a very strange idea of god, for him to be angry only if there is motion involved...

@cy-one

Ай бұрын

@@DisgruntledPeasant Ah, well, God gets angry at weird things. I'm German, and we have a dish that is essentially very thicc ravioli. A meaty filling wrapped in pasta dough. Origin? So that we could eat meat during the time of fasting so that God doesn't see :D If noodles can make meat invisible to God, so can not-moving make sex invisible to God. Solid logic :D

Has anyone else heard about Fp? It's short for fat potential. Missionary men tell each other to check out the mother of a potential date to see if her mom is fat. If her mom is fat that means that the daughter has potential for being fat later in life. Soo disgusting 🫣

@ericf7063

2 ай бұрын

It's not limited to LDS's. It's pretty much universal.

@tomriddle8933

2 ай бұрын

Regardless, the daughter has potential for being fat. Especially after you've put a few babies in her.

@hillman334

Ай бұрын

This 1958 dating advice referenced from another YT video I've seen also mentions the idea of weight of the parents being correlated with the weight of the children: inside.sfuhs.org/dept/history/US_History_reader/Chapter13/McCalls%201958%20129%20ways%20to%20get%20a%20husband.pdf

@user-ed5zl2cw2h

Ай бұрын

Girls might as well look at the guy's dad and granddads to see if he is likely to become fat, bold and die early.

@thomaswhite3059

Ай бұрын

Heaven forbid a human body changes after... aging. And knowing Mormons, having children.

Sorry, but if a man puts it in, it counts.

@audreydoyle5268

2 ай бұрын

Exactly. It's like saying "I didn't plant the fields, cause I didn't fertilise. Just put the seed in the ground,".

@Ballykeith

2 ай бұрын

That would be the FLDS position.

@patrickevans9604

Ай бұрын

Iirc a few years back I heard they sometimes did that on beds and "laid still" while friends jumped up and down on mattress. Their justification for it not being sex was they got off from the friction of bed moving cause of people jumping lol. That's call an excuse to rebel while fighting sexual repression from the church

@Ballykeith

Ай бұрын

@@patrickevans9604 that's called jump humping, which takes soaking to a new level.

@DocumentMedic

Ай бұрын

Wow, that is pretty weird that they would allow additional people to be involved in the activities, even if they are not directly participating. (Then again, maybe they are taking turns🤡.)

"fill your canteen." Sounds like the "Spank Bank." I thought that was not allowed either.

@coryshimata4489

Ай бұрын

It's not. All of these are either skirting the line and trying to follow the letter and ignore the spirit of the law or are dumb line in the sand excuses to sin.

Soaking sounds hilarious. "Was it good for you?" "I fell asleep after 5 minutes." "Me too. Anyway let's play Scrabble!"

Soaking is not a myth I have literally been asked to do it. “DTS” down to soak.

only getting married if we bring back polygamy is cold blooded

This sounds like a 11 telling his friends about sex that he learned from his 15 year old brother.

@travcollier

2 ай бұрын

That makes it sound way more wholesome than it is.

I went to the MTC in 1978, and I remember hearing stories about the tennis raquet in the windows of the female dorms at BYU, which let the male studants know that certain co-eds were open for business, I remembered that the Utah Elders would talk about Helaman Halls like it was a brothel.

@AdaraBalabusta

2 ай бұрын

Yes! That is true! 😂

@darknessandlife777

Ай бұрын

My Father, a nevermo who attended U of U in the late 1970's used to tell me stories all the time about how BYU students would cruise U of U on the weekends to find hook ups. One was a certain female Mormon Celebrity famous at that time. I would take that as a BS tall tale except for the fact he had photos of parties at his apartment of which said young woman was present and drinking from a red Dixie cup.

@mattskustomkreations

5 күн бұрын

@@darknessandlife777Sounds like she was more than a little bit rock ‘n’ roll!

I knew people that went to BYU and soaked… how might I know?? I was asked to be a bouncer ☠️

As someone who is named Levi, I never heard that one. As far as soaking, some other ex Mormon content creators have talked about doing it, and the next stage version where someone else bounces on the bed to give them some movement. So, it is something that people do/did.

@thecavalieryouth

2 ай бұрын

... Huh? So the penis is inside, and the girl is... what? On top and starts bouncing?? Isn't that just sex then??? Does it only count as sex when it's the guy moving, or if we're in missionary? Do they know you can get pregnant from that, even if the guy doesn't ejaculate?? Also, with this soaking business, do we just lie there, can we do anything else like kiss? Is anyone allowed to orgasm? How long does this go on for? Are we naked? Is any of this at all pleasurable? How does this not count as sex?? I'm... so so confused by this religion (cult, faith, you get the picture). Send help!

@ElliLavender

2 ай бұрын

Someone bouncing on the bed next to you is fuckinh crazy

@cutienerdgirl

2 ай бұрын

​@@thecavalieryouth No, they're usually in the missionary position (pun unintended) while a third person jumps on the bed.

@hillman334

Ай бұрын

I assume Levi is referring to Levi's, the jeans

@landerson7348

Ай бұрын

​@@hillman334 that would be my guess as well.

In Japan they call women who aren't married by 25 a Christmas cake in reference to that they go on sale after.

I love your content and to see how happy and free you are with your life. Keep it up!

@namastezen3300

2 ай бұрын

It's good seeing her happy.

@graybear505

2 ай бұрын

Her little giggle laugh is totally endearing.

Thank you. The last one reminded me of the Mark Twain quote about Mormons and polygamy.😉

Idk about the soaking not being real, I've heard many ex mormons and even a couple friends who attended BYU tell me stories 😂

I never knew what a "plig" was until I moved to Utah and a local friend explained why there were so many 12 passenger vans at the grocery store.

@zyxwvutsrqponmlkh

Ай бұрын

Mormon attack vehicle.

@Lucaisstinky

Ай бұрын

Are you going to explain for the rest of us or do we have to figure it out ourselves?

@fbwsrd9910

Ай бұрын

@@Lucaisstinky Internet says it means polygamist

I’ve gone to BYUI and cuddling means having sex 😂straight up. I was shocked bc I didn’t know that the first time haha! Cuddling ended up being Netflix and chill

"Sweet spirit" - this reminds me of: In my family they used to say: "Oh, but she is so kind, poor thing!" But they didn't only say that about people who weren't pretty (or handsome). They also said that about people they thought were not very smart.

@peterclarke7006

2 ай бұрын

I think I'd rather be married to someone not very bright and not very "pretty" (beauty is in the eyes and the smile, as far as I'm concerned) than someone condescendingly cruel who probably thinks they're not being condescendingly cruel.

@mailill

2 ай бұрын

@@peterclarke7006 I totally agree! I think kindness is the most important trait in a partner, anyway

I was just talking to a Mormon friend, he went to the beach with other friends, also mormon, and he said these two guys apparently were spooning each other and they said it was for "funsies.” Is that a form of Levi Lovin’? I’m also curious about closeted mormons and how they go about their faith.

@kerrysmiles

2 ай бұрын

Some of us are so naive... Like I was closeted but didn't even know it. If you're taught something is a choice sometimes you don't even let your brain go there.

@kerrysmiles

2 ай бұрын

I was in my '30s when it finally hit me why none of my relationships would work. I was looking at a magazine thinking the girl was hot... And I realized suddenly it wasn't just normal checking out girls that even straight people do it was ShEs HOT... And then my next thought was ...wait it's not a choice? What else is the church wrong about? So yeah I went from straight to out of the closet and also fully not believing in the church anymore

@jmnlprz

2 ай бұрын

@@kerrysmiles thank you for sharing this. When I was in high school my best friend who’s also mormon would tell me things like “Being gay is like your taste in food, you choose wether you like chocolate or not you’re not born with it.” But that analogy never quite fully made sense to me. I also noticed some things where he seemed as if he might’ve been closeted but he’s now married and with a kid. We don’t talk anymore, last time I saw him was at his father funeral service, I was the only one from his high school friends that went and he did not say a single word to me.

@kray3883

2 ай бұрын

​​​@@jmnlprzNo, I think that's a perfect analogy. If you're born with the gene that makes cilantro smell/taste like soap then it's never going to be something you like and that's just how it is. Of course back in the dark ages we didn't have any understanding of this stuff so people may have thought it was just a choice, but now that we're a quarter of the way through the 21st century........oh, right.

@jodigepford2850

2 ай бұрын

Many of them just get hetero married and live miserable all their lives. It's not fair to them and it's definitely not fair to their spouses!!

I heard about soaking as a teen who lived near a huge Mormon population. Some people actually do participate in soaking.

LMAO I have been called a "sweet spirit" before...I guess they were half right since I'm in a very gay polyamorous (not polygamous) marriage now. 😂

I hate to tell you Soaking isn't a myth. I know of too many people who've done it 😫

Why does this creep me out just as much as any Hustler Mag ever would?

@kray3883

2 ай бұрын

Worse, imo. Because you know a bunch of them are going to be all "kids these days" and shunning people for, idk, wearing slightly short shorts in about 10 years. At least Hustler is honestly unrepentant.

@Narangarath

2 ай бұрын

It's based on cult ideals and cults are creepy, which makes this creepy by default.

You’re a very well spoken lady, I enjoy listening, you have a great way of explaining things to people and thoroughly breaking down and gave me a whole understanding of the Mormon religion.

Earthquaking is when soaking is happening and someone else somehow shakes and bounces the bed, thus causing movement but only "by coincidence" 😂

@B.Harper7

Ай бұрын

Oh my gosh there's a name for it?!? Hahaha well I guess of course there is, because humans

@DisgruntledPeasant

Ай бұрын

I just can't... If you think god is all knowing then he damn well going to know you asked your buddy to move you. At that point it's practically a threesome.

So basically they want to have a sex life without feeling guilty about it.

@chlyri

2 ай бұрын

yeah. if only they had actual healthy role models and weren't shamed for their natural urges.

"Sweet spirit", "good personality,' etc., _all_ awful terms, and apparently everyone has a version of it? You KNOW it's actually insulting when you wouldn't say that to her face, _she_ knows what it means too. I've had someone ask me if a guy (someone a sibling was seeing) was good looking, and I replied, "I don't know, he's ugly inside" - because his awful character coloured any objective physical attractiveness. I was told that if you didn't know him, you'd probably consider him attractive, but - as stated - I did have the misfortune of knowing who he was 'under the skin.' Those 'sweet spirit'/'good personality' comments are so unkind ... and physical beauty standards go in and out of fashion, and can be taken away very quickly by accident or illness. Sorry. That is just one of those things that riles me up, I've known more than one girl who's been emotionally damaged - when their self-esteem is.already a fragile thing - because this kind of commentary got back to them.

@stellangios

2 ай бұрын

Yes to all of this. And why don't we have terms for all those guys who LOOK "attractive" but are actually gross or monstrous? They're the ones who should be shamed. And they're *choosing* to be like that...

@IxiaRayne

2 ай бұрын

It shouldn’t break my heart this much when I know ‘hazing’ and ‘pigging’ is a thing but it does. Every. Single. Time.

@AndrielleHillis

2 ай бұрын

@@stellangios I say we just use the term the rest of the world uses: a$$holes.

@WatchingwaitingG2D

2 ай бұрын

@@AndrielleHillis You shouldn't talk about your family like that bow wow.

@msshellm8154

2 ай бұрын

@@stellangios Yes! This!!

“Sweet spirit” is the Mormon version of “Butter face”

@audreydoyle5268

2 ай бұрын

Yeah, was about to say, it's basically just saying "she's butters,"

I was called a "sweet spirit" growing up in the mormon church😂😅 that feels kinda brutal now lol - only my church leaders did it too 😅😭 (i love your channel!!)

What is it about religions being so obsessed with sex.

@carterhouston3212

2 ай бұрын

horny teenagers are horny teenagers regardless of whether they’re religious or not

@samuelleininger9297

2 ай бұрын

Non religious people are obsessed with sex too. They just tend to trumpet the other side of the extreme

@HeronMarkedBlade-ef7zz

2 ай бұрын

Control, and a lack of birth control having a negative impact on the "Tribe" or community back when these things were made up.

@chlyri

2 ай бұрын

sex is a basic urge for most of humanity. establishing control over how people feel about sex is one of the best ways to get them to do what you want.

@demo2823

2 ай бұрын

What is with the non religious being so obsessed with what religious people do in bed. Yall have mad kinks and I don't go quizzing you on it.

Damn, ‘only when they bring back polygamy’ … and they say Mormons are so kind 💀

I officially removed my membership from the “church” 3 years ago. The book of Mormon is false, the LDS prophet is a wolf, and the Bible is the only true word of God. You cannot become a God, you are saved only through Jesus Christ. May God free anyone who is deceived by the false prophets of this world. Amen.

@DavidSmith-vr1nb

2 ай бұрын

From one delusion to another 😢

@gokuss15

2 ай бұрын

@@DavidSmith-vr1nbChrist is king, heathen.

@Dyslexic.D0ry

2 ай бұрын

Like another commenter said one delusion to another

@kaylanicole8091

2 ай бұрын

Amen!!!!!!!!!!

@gokuss15

2 ай бұрын

@@redcell9636 exactly. Modern science would not exist without Saint Thomas Aquinas.

Never actually heard any of these even though I'm an exmormon

@alyssadgrenfell

2 ай бұрын

Haha maybe it was just BYU slang 🥲 or maybe Utah?

@Gort_the_surf

2 ай бұрын

As someone who grew up in and am currently in a smaller church in the south (leaving once I can live on my own) I haven’t heard about this either

@chiavanashley

2 ай бұрын

​@@Gort_the_surf omg its Gort

@LydiaLehr22

2 ай бұрын

​@alyssadgrenfell Where'd you hear the slang from? I have never heard of these, and I've lived in Utah.

@kerrysmiles

2 ай бұрын

I hadn't heard of Levi loving but the others yeah 😂

Omg all I remember about sweet spirit was, “sweet spirit, you’re so….. nice” LOL did not remember the polygamy line 😅

Poop hole loophole.

@dadzilla8015

2 ай бұрын

I had an old buddy that told me that girls in Provo give up the ass. And those same girls will judge you for having a beer at a party.

No physical contact. The proselytizing mission is more about cementing the cultist into the mormon church than actually converting people.

Levi loving, I need oxygen after hearing that term 🤣

Soaking is not a myth. ExmoLex on youtube did this with her husband before they were married.

There was a missionary just arrested for SA in Saratoga Springs a few days ago. This isn't the first time won't be the last.

Pretty sure “soaking” still qualifies as a ONE pump dump 💦

@Ballykeith

2 ай бұрын

That's pushing the envelope imo.

@rudra62

15 күн бұрын

Not always. It can be done for a long time, without the pumping, or even male orgasm at all. I never did it in a religious context, or having anything to do with sin, but having a third person jumping on the bed would have just been weird to me.

We used to make sure not to have sex standing up, so we wouldn't be tempted to commit the sin of dancing.

Durfing??? That sounds like a euphemism for shitting your pants 😂

Oh no! Don't reveal their secrets! If BYU Admin finds out about that, they'll put a stop to NCMOs... and that would be sad...

@carterhouston3212

2 ай бұрын

pretty sure byu admin knows that their students… make out 🤦🏽‍♂️

Oh I got called a sweet spirit so many times growing up

This is so funny, I’ve never heard of these! It’s very interesting to learn about Mormon culture.

How did I not know that’s what sweet spirit meant…. The amount of time I’ve been called that.😢

Back in 1979 when I was at the Y "parking" was called going to the lake to watch the submarine races.

Ok, but if I guy puts it in, moving or not, the girl is no longer a virgin. How does that not count?

Someone else jumps on the bed during soaking to cause the motion of the... pond. It's like any other loophole people find in religion. It's actually quite interesting to me. People who self-impose rules and then try to find their way around them. And "Devil's Loophole" is a hilarious song. Like the Orthodox and all their gadgets to get around the rules on the Sabbath. Religion... weird.

This combined whif discussing marriage one the second date is mad, the number of first dates whiff kissing must be outrageous.

I love that she almost lost it with Levi lovin 😂

When i was 16 there was no way i coulda have just left it in an not moved. Like my self control eve getting to that point was paper thin to hold back at the far in would be Herculean.

I grew up mormon in the SF bay Area and had never heard of NCMO. When i went to BYU, It took me a full year to finally ask what it meant😅

I had quite a few NCMOs in my days as a Mormon and yes some were in Utah haha😂

@bewitched3912

2 ай бұрын

I experienced a returned missionary grinding my thigh in his jeans.. because he wasn't able to cop an "O" on his own because of the dangerous programming by the leadership

I grew up conservative Christian. They do now have names for it, but all these things certainly happen with evangelicals. I call myself an exvangelical.

If you want to know about that third thing, Exmo Lex has a video on the subject. Let's leave it at that.

@Ballykeith

2 ай бұрын

ExMo showdown.

Soaking is not a Mormon myth! I am an exmormon and I have had friends who had to postpone missions because of it

Other ex mormon channels don't call "soaking" a mormon mith at all🤔

@rudra62

15 күн бұрын

It's practice is not exclusive to Mormons though.

I am a Mormon (technically we have moved away from that nick name but whatever) and current BYU student and here is my view on all of these phrases/actions NCMO: she got it spot on, it’s kinda a booty call. But like I think it’s something people can understand Levi lovin’: honestly I mostly just head people referring to it as durfing, but that could just be my group of friends. Soaking: I honestly don’t know of anyone who soaks but again that could just be from my group of people. But from what I see 90% of people look down on it (atleast outwardly). Fill your canteen: during my mission some missionaries would mention doing this (so it does happen) but not the majority or even close to that. Sweet spirit: I don’t know if I’ve ever heard someone actually say this, most people would just say “she’s nice but I’m not attracted to her,” or along those lines. Although I do admit this could be subject to my experience and the people I’m around, so there could be varying experiences across different people.

Hey, please bring some of your books to my shop. I would like to carry them. Moonlass Antiques n Art in Orem

Who knew Mormons could be so mean????

@phillisob

2 ай бұрын

It's one of their strong suits.

@AdaraBalabusta

2 ай бұрын

@@phillisobYep.

The year 2020. "Sweet Spirits can finally get married again in Utah"

As a mormon at BYU, I have never heard of any of these in my life

When I was still in the church, the term sweet spirit made me stabby. Always used for women of course.

The fact that it stands for Mon Committal Make Out Sessions but is NCMO instead of NCMOS bugs me.

A SONS OF PROVO REFERENCE! I feel so seen 😭

This channel is fantastic! Christian culture is the exact same as Mormon culture in the sense that it’s so isolated they have their own language, rules etc… we called it “christianese” when someone says something that no one from the outside world would ever understand wtf you’re talking about 😂

NCMO lol. That brought back some memories 😂

Mormons: Shes only getting married if we bring back polygamy Me: DAAAAAAAMN THATS SOME SHADE

I scrolled and immediately got an ad for the mormon church

the soundtrack to that movie was super funny growing up in the church. Sons of Provo. Some missionaries brought it to my mission and we loved laughing and singing along to it. I don't think it was approved though~lol.

Part 2: DTR, 10 cow wife, RM, preemie, writing a "dear john, flirt to convert....

@jodigepford2850

2 ай бұрын

Please explain

Its wild to think its actual.adults doing this. This is the kind of thing I was getting up to at 16. Except soaking. I dont think there was a force in the world powerful enough to stop me from moving once it was in

@Judge_Jej

Ай бұрын

In for a penny, in for a pound

When I was a Mormon 15 years ago, everyone was a sweet spirit. There were no air quotes around it.

I had a Mormon friend in HS who once referred to something soaking-adjacent she called a "Provo Earthquake," because apparently it's only a sin if the guy in question is the one doing the thrusting, not someone jumping on the bed next to you. She was probably winding me up but I choose to believe that it's a real thing.

I went to a uni with a lot of mormons and they would hire people so when they do levi lovin they would shake the bed and like get 50 bucks or something

@AdaraBalabusta

2 ай бұрын

That I never heard.

As a member of the church of jesus christ i have never heard these terms used unironically

I'm dyin' of laughter out here. Thanks!

"Only getting married if they bring back polygamy"....LOLERSKATEZ

🎶Oooohhhh sweet spirit, you’re so…….nice. You many not appear to, but your soul’s a pearl of great price….🎶

ExmoLex claims that she has soaked before and I don't see why anyone would admit to that if it weren't true!

this was a fantastic watch honestly

I love your content! I learn so much!

One of my favorites from my days at the singles branch was DTR - determine the relationship. So glad to be an exmo now.

That's sad, especially "Sweet spirit."

That lyric is so brutal