That’s why you should ‘grow’ in love rather than ‘fall’ in love

@therealjag

8 ай бұрын

Like semi arranged marriages

@Nancy22102

8 ай бұрын

Well said

@heatherlove5989

8 ай бұрын

Smart

@aileenmac1

7 ай бұрын

You do make a good point

@keithbell9348

7 ай бұрын

BINGO. This falling in love stuff is fantasy. It really is shallow infatuation. Feels good for the moment because "he or she fulfills my idea of what the perfect person is like!" NO human will ever live up to that unrealistic standard. It does not exist. It has no staying power because reality sets in when you see what they really are like. REAL love takes time to develop between 2 individuals who are willing to learn and grow in their relationship with each other, while struggling with each others' imperfections. That hard work leads to something of real substance. Ever see a couple that at first appearance makes you wonder- how could THEY be a good match? Take a deeper look. Notice how well they get along? They found it! They could very well have what you are still yearning for. They have built a loving lasting relationship built on respect, and of course, Love!

If you love someone, act like it. Best relationship advice out there.

@ineveryseason

8 ай бұрын

Key word - ACT 💯

@mrsnass2431

8 ай бұрын

Exactly....

@pinzytoto7698

8 ай бұрын

simple and effective. If other person doesn't reciprocate then recognize and move on.

@butterketchup

8 ай бұрын

That's 💯 !!!!

@fried_nice

8 ай бұрын

Do that these days and most modern women will treat you like shit.

"Hurting them should be hurting you" that is golden advice!

“Boundaries simply teach the person how to love you…learn to effectively communicate them…”

They nailed it. Anyone that comes on too strong; all enthusiastic, talkative, wide-eyed, passionate, etc. Those are the main ones you should tread lightly with. As fast and hard as they will come onto to you, they will be just as fast to hop right off and move onto the next. I've seen so many people go through it. This is why I have to first know that the other person is comfortable during "boring" moments -- whether a romantic partner or simply friends (male or female ) -- There's no such thing as longevity and genuine connection with dopamine junkies.

@shomarishanghai777

8 ай бұрын

Yessss

@gti500

8 ай бұрын

It's called love bombing.

@kimberlys347

8 ай бұрын

Dopamine junkies! lol, Perfectly described

@ST-yc7uj

7 ай бұрын

Basically, a vast majority of men in their twenties

@nathananderson6987

3 ай бұрын

You are wise

I’m not disagreeing with anything she’s saying; she’s a relationship expert, I’m not. But it’s not surprising so many people are opting to just remain single. Dating and relationships are exhausting these days, there’s so many rules and it’s overly complicated. It just doesn’t feel worth it anymore.

@russlegibs4490

9 ай бұрын

I wish I didn't have to say I agree with ya but I totally do. I have more consistent happiness when I'm single lately.

@KatieKamala

9 ай бұрын

I hear you. I've been mostly dating with more platonic relationships just for the reason you said.

@katrina639

9 ай бұрын

dating and relationships are exhausting because they require emotional responsibility & self accountability, for a healthy relationship at least

@alluringbliss4165

9 ай бұрын

I'd say people are different too, they don't value relationship the same as before. There are so many options now that choosing to be committed on a long term or finding someone who is looking for a long term commitment is very hard.

@amyyellowrose2798

9 ай бұрын

The problem is some people drive us really insane and it's not healthy for us to be with them. Once u are alone u can achieve peace. Men and women should learn to be alone and don't blame others just enjoy Ur own company

Yes, I agree with her 💯! If you hurt someone in the relationship, it should be hurting you. Golden advice!

"We are attracted to a person who has a trauma similar to ours," said a trauma-trained psychotherapist. "The false feeling of connection, love and intimacy ... the chemistry is explosive" - Lewis is talking about a trauma-bonded relationship.

@supsat2952

8 ай бұрын

yes, too many psychotherapists speak on love but they are speaking about trauma bonds and trauma bonded relationships. and oh my gawwwwd, there have been more than one therapist that has scoffed at me in session when I talk about love and compatibility when they speak on trauma bonds. I'm like, um, stop projecting! you already told me about your personal experience to relate to me but i aint you

@angelaunderwood7660

8 ай бұрын

Like, in my relationship with my husband I had VERY little trauma in comparison to him. His childhood was a literal nightmare....& boy do I see it now. Things are a lot better, but I still see issues. However, at this point he says that he’s willing to go through getting some help to navigate his childhood trauma in order to help heal our kids & our relationship.

@v9b23j

8 ай бұрын

@@angelaunderwood7660 I empathize with your situation and hope you and your family are on the journey to navigate your husband's childhood trauma together. There is a model called,Trauma Informed Relational Model (TIRM) developed and practiced by the Trauma Recovery Institute in Dublin. It's based on the premise that the intimate partner relationship is the therapy where each partner heals within in the relationship and they grow together. And there is also IMAGO Relationship therapy which is designed to help conflict within relationships so they become opportunities for healing and growth.

@BethBlankx

8 ай бұрын

Good luck I pray he values what he is blessed to have enough to follow thru and make promises true. ❤Actions not words x

@ashton1952

7 ай бұрын

@@angelaunderwood7660 Gotta appreciate when a man has been through all that and can admit it and still be willing to try fix it; that's true love

"Hurting them should be hurting you." 💯

Funny how Sadia always lands up interviewing the interviewer without them realizing it

@teddslens

9 ай бұрын

😂

@bigthangz5489

9 ай бұрын

hard wired training in psychology

@tmmartinesq.6216

8 ай бұрын

FRFR❤

@cowoverthemoo

8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@davidmorris9596

3 ай бұрын

I agree 👍

I love the single life as relationships usually develop into superficial episodes for insecure people who can't bare to be on their own. Quiet, solitude to an extent and freedom to do what I want, when I want and if I want is very liberating. Selfish.... not sure but it's a nice way to be.

@jimb3093

8 ай бұрын

I’m with you on that one.

@OceanLife772

8 ай бұрын

Agree: No drama!

@user-mn5hc2se6x

6 ай бұрын

Totally NOT selfish. I feel the same way you do. However, there are times, I miss the closeness, the private jokes, laughing with a significant other and the hand holding.

@jaideberney8089

6 ай бұрын

@JRA73 that sounds very sensible and measured to me

It’s also important to not swing to the other extreme of dating “boring” people. I see the narrative is shifting to this now and it’s equally undesirable. Those with trauma doubt themselves and need to cultivate a relationship with self first. Thing is, some people ARE boring, because they are blocked and not in touch with their own vitality. It takes time to know the difference.

@utualan

9 ай бұрын

True. I think 'boring' was meant to convey a 'non-drama' relationship.

@user-lx4uk5un7s

9 ай бұрын

@@utualanI agree, low limited drama

@thepragmatist

9 ай бұрын

Agree.

@niahughes5223

8 ай бұрын

I agree. I’ll pass on men who want to sit on the couch all day if that’s what they mean. It was peaceful in a sense but extremely boring.

@BethBlankx

8 ай бұрын

❤ it hello fellow meanie walking by faith not sight, and all of us lovers here, the net has broken my fall and cradled me til I could gather strength so Thank You beautiful people xxx

Everything comes back to an even exchange of respect. The respect I have for myself and the respect I give my partner. A great test I always use is if the relationship is easy to the point that I keep asking myself “where are the problems?” then odds are she is worth investing in.

I think a huge factor here is how your partner expresses themselves to you. If they speak like she does in this interview, eg. "oh babe I haven't heard from you" then it's far easier to respond positively. If, on the other hand, they say "where have you been?! Why haven't you called me?!" it's far more likely they will get a bad response. The tone and choice of words makes a huge huge difference.

@allbymyself4927

8 ай бұрын

You are absolutely spot on. Wanted to hold on to her last point, I remembered I had the conversation with "him" and he mentioned my manner of approach. I'd have to work on my manner of approach and hopefully there would be changes. 🤞

@katiajordan_

5 ай бұрын

No, WHERE have you been makes a difference. The truth doesn’t mind to be questioned.

@bapbap22

Ай бұрын

Yeah. I was dating someone. She hit me with the “I’ll let you know” and another excuse twice so I just stopped reaching out. Then two months of silence and a voice note, “you only think of me when I text you.” Which was bullshit. During the two months of silence I realized I was carrying all the effort. If she had just said something more neutral I probably would’ve given it another chance.

I like that saying Grow in Love rather than Fall in Love at least it planned if you grow. Here's one never get involved with anyone who can't communicate effectively especially those who are unwilling or uncappable of communicating with you as far as the difficult conversations. Someone who is there for you through thick and thin no matter what the tough times & the easy times

This is such an important point! People with childhood trauma are more likely to get into sex work. They didn’t learn healthy boundaries between themselves and others and lack a sense of worthiness, so it’s easier for them to turn to selling their bodies, doing drugs, etc.

@danilaroche1156

7 ай бұрын

This is true. I had an incredibly chaotic, violent and incestual family. I would have easy fallen into this trap but when I gave my life to Christ, the trauma was healed.

As a woman I enjoy this lady's knowledge. I think the relationship is not about looks always, because after time the person who feels infatuation realizes that he/she needs something more than charisma, looks and lifestyle (lifestyle of sports hobbies, habits )......the reason is that his/her soul is craving also the connection of spiritual value,....The physical attraction and charisma may last a few months but the spiritual connection may last many years. For example, there is something very spiritual about laughter, smile, joy, and kindness. These values are not based on physical looks or materialism. You may meet hundreds of good-looking people with interesting lifestyles and charisma. But you realize there is something missing. That it's not about having more things, but about the consistency of lifestyle and having a true spiritual connection. Your soul will feel most happy if you meet also a spiritual connection, someone who makes you laugh every day or enjoys spending time in nature, or going camping, going to concerts or meeting communities of nice people etc.

@Lavender3333

8 ай бұрын

Beautifully said ❤

@diegogene8381

Күн бұрын

I love spending time outside in nature...well said alaaa

This resonated with me more than I can express. I had a tough childhood. All my life I've been attracted to these women that strike a spark for me. I've only recently come to understand that that spark is a real red flag.

“If the person you meet is boring, that’s a good thing. If it feels magical and explosive, it’s often a bad sign. Or you should ask why that explosive chemistry is occurring” what a deep thought

@jemmysmith8661

Ай бұрын

not always the case thats the problem

Very true, every man that I dated that had a bad childhood treated me like trash.

@ari_mas_cas3484

9 ай бұрын

I noticed this too 😵‍💫

@De-tw7by

9 ай бұрын

I'm perfect and the people I meet are problematic. 😜

@alluringbliss4165

9 ай бұрын

@@De-tw7by Looks like you can't see anything rationally

@timothythompson4036

5 ай бұрын

As a man, I noticed the same pattern with young women.

@dragonflymagictarot1180

Ай бұрын

😩😏

You're definitely speaking a lot of truths to note down in case I get to be in a relationship again. Relationships if done right are the best thing ever. I'm glad you do this type of work because it will build healthier societies consistent of healthy relationships. Look forward to more content like this and thank you very much

i tried for 24 years but when i felt more alone with her than without her I knew it was time for me to move on.

You illuminate the darkness with the knowledge you so freely share with the world. Thank you Sadia, it’s really helping😘💜🥹🙏🏻🌏✌🏻🖤

She’s right. In my own relationship I had anger rage and ptsd from my militant childhood (I’m using my therapist’s language when describing my childhood) and my partner did NOT deserve any of my rage/anger. I reached a breaking point during Covid lockdowns (2020-2021) had to seek help from a therapist and thank goodness she was a good one and 1-2 years later I’m not seeing her anymore and I’m working on controlling my emotions. My relationship with my partner is stronger than ever because he also recognizes my efforts to get better and become a better human to myself and everyone around me. Anyways you can’t rely on your partner to “fix you” , it’s YOUR responsibility 💕💕

@ParalyzedDreamer

8 ай бұрын

Also thank goodness my place of work offers 80% coverage for psychotherapy otherwise I could NEVER afford her care. I can’t believe our government (I’m from Canada) doesn’t offer more preventive care..mental health is JUST as important if not MORE important than physical health. But yes I understand my privilege when it comes to getting therapy 🥺

Exactly so true about the traumatic childhood. Stop being ok to be the punching bag and be the Savior. And you can never save ppl who doesn’t want to save themselves.

This was exactly what I needed to hear, not necessarily what I wanted to hear.

Not necessarily … I tried to play it safe and going with the steadfast, boring guy … marrying for friendship, compatibility/similar intelligence and interests, and he ended up having a whole secret life of addiction. So I gave up chemistry for stability and he ended up not being stable - farthest thing from it. Life is crazy and people change and shift, especially when you are meeting and dating people when you are young. There are years of development and life circumstances that go into forming a person’s daily decisions to make healthy choices and be grounded in reality. All of the “red flags” at the start of my relationship were no different than other friends’ boyfriends - now spouses- bc it was college! There is no sure way to determine who will turn out what way… so yes, don’t run to passion and chaos-but don’t settle for boring either bc you might just get screwed by that, too.

@AngelaJeanChat

8 ай бұрын

Interesting that you say that. I did it back to back men that I had amazing chemistry with. The first normal/boring guy I dated end up having a secret side life too. The boring normal guy he presented to me was not the real him. I am very wary of so-called boring people now. I actually prefer to deal with the wild ones because at least you know what you’re dealing with because everything’s on the table.

@marlajacques6947

8 ай бұрын

Same! Paid a big price for the safe boring one with lukewarm chemistry

@ST-yc7uj

7 ай бұрын

Recreating chaos outside the marriage union, she literally said it.

Nothing in life is perfect but, you know when your suppose to be with someone. I'm sure alot of ppl have childhood wounds. I think you have to look and see how serious it is and if you can deal with it. Communication is the key and level of maturity. Red flags are important to look at. When someone keeps sabotage the relationship time to leave.

I so appreciate your manner in delivering difficult wisdom, Sadia. 🙏

You defined boundaries so well!

A large amount of the dating population is undateable.

@LukeRev480

6 ай бұрын

Few are taking care of themselves. Most just want relationships without doing the work

1. Be aware of their childhood 2. Communicate Boundaries or Self sabotage 3. Competition or cooperation

@Bhanoo4UTube

8 ай бұрын

🙌💖🙏

I love how you educate people about life

I just recently discovered this Sadia channel. I must say it is very educational and provides much needed enlightenment! ...Thx so much, grateful! much appreciated! ;)

@col2959

9 ай бұрын

She’s very good

I have determined it's not exactly always like this, but she is accurate about the typical or average person. Their childhood is the biggest default rudder in their lives' closest relationships. The only way away from that is confronting it. There are various ways of doing that. Some work better than others. Half of the success is identifying what works best for oneself. Ignoring it never seems to work well. FYI. 😅

She’s a very strong communicator. Lovely to listen to. I’m learning lots. Thank you.

Sadia has such a clear and affirmative communication style. It’s both disarming and informative at the same time! What a great skill!

@davidmorris9596

3 ай бұрын

Right On!!

I’m so glad i found this woman she is so amazing and awesome because of her I understand myself and the things I need to work on with in my own life I am so grateful for her experience and content

Hey Sads, love your content. Look at your attachment style, then you can fix your trauma even from childhood. Therapy and the willingness to change. ❤

We all have childhood trauma and issues. We just need to pick which ones we can deal with in a partner. I'm single so I have found the ones I can deal with. :)

After listening to her advice and red flags, unfortunately, I think my wife and I suffer from all three issues. I’m so disappointed with the way our marriage makes feel now. I’m receiving therapy and so is she but we are separated and feel a sense of doom. I hope I can move forward as this is really difficult. I cannot believe that after all these years worth of efforts, we find ourselves fighting all the time and resenting each other. Marriage has been the most difficult proposition I have ever faced.

@WBscorned

8 ай бұрын

I hope you two make it.❤

@LoveYourLife222

8 ай бұрын

I have the same situation with my marriage. Best wishes and May God give us the strength to make it through. I know how this feels. What I am learning most of all is to trust Jesus and walk by faith and not by sight. Tell Him what we desire and then wait upon the Lord.

@Bhanoo4UTube

8 ай бұрын

💞🤞

@WBscorned

8 ай бұрын

@@LoveYourLife222 I love this comment. You’re golden. Thank you for being there for others!

@nadinegarcia2240

8 ай бұрын

I understand what you going through and how you feel I going through that as well but my husband don't want therapy and when I ask questions he is telling me mind my own business he even put a lock on his phone

Thank you so much for the priceless advises you are giving ❤. I have been searching for real objective views on modern relationships and could not find any of the answers. You are opening my eyes ❤. Thank you

"if you haven't acknowledged the impact" the the key....... if you haven't been truthful about it. No matter how bad, if you work with it, be truthful about it, you will be fine

00:46 I was the opposite. I had so much trauma and a poor example of love. I fantasized the relationship and love would save me and make me whole. The cycle of people pleasing and endless pursuit of love began very early. Not all are afraid of love with trauma.

Such a wise and well spoken woman!

This is definitely not a Psychologist I would ever go to see. I watched a lot of her videos, and I think she has a lot of biased based on her own childhood experience. It’s extremely hard to treat patients when you yourself can’t separate that from your practice. A second point I would like to make in is in every relationship with a person is a chance for a learning experience. Relationships are learning experiences for us as humans. Even having children is a learning experience, a teacher said person to grow up and it also teaches them about themselves. So, even though someone had a bad childhood, it doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be out dating. It’s a good way to learn about yourself through another person, as long as that person isn’t a narcissist. Also, I’ve seen others that have had very good childhood and they are as messed up as someone that didn’t have a bad childhood. Sometimes it’s not just about the nurture, but also the nature. I’m going to also point out the fact that she is not a trauma therapist. She is a relationship expert with a masters in psychology. How can you give advice to people in relationships if you haven’t had experience with learning about how to do trauma therapy considering a lot of issues in relationships come from, as you stated, childhood trauma. It’s almost nearly impossible. you might, as will just be a sociologist. Now I understand why people listen to her because some of her stuff does make sense. However, I have noticed a lot of it is people pleasing advice. She’s a gorgeous woman who would not listen to her, that’s not a sarcastic dig at her. It’s an actual compliment. I know how to chew up the meat and spit out the bones, so that is why I listen to her because there are some things that doesn’t make sense that comes out of her mouth. I saw her interview with Andrew Tate. That was a great interview. She was very attracted to him. In fact, that’s what made me start watching her videos to begin with. Andrew Tate is a narcissist , if she’s giving relationship advice to women, on how to deal with a man, and that man is a narcissist the advice that she is giving is going to make the situation worse.

@wastedanalogues8991

5 ай бұрын

I agree. With all of it. And Andrew tate? Why would she give an interview with him... he's horrible to women..

So true !!!!! I should have watched Sadia’s video Before wasting 2 years of my Life with a borderline woman (unfortunately she had a chaotic childhood!!)

Childhood trauma is a leading cause of adults feeling unloveable. Childhood abuse in particular leaves children with a damaged view of themselves.

@Bhanoo4UTube

8 ай бұрын

🥺

My childhood was terrible , grew up around cheating and abuse. I've never been able to have a relationship with a man.

@traditionalfood367

8 ай бұрын

Fearful Avoidant attachment style.

I agree with her , my father was in the Army and all he thought of me as an orderly to follow his orders of which he was very demanding, never go tired, controlling, rigid man . he hated Army to the core. So no point in discussing with him anything and I stopped talking to him as an 8yr old. It has no effect on him -. that was his love for me

@AA-nb2ky

8 ай бұрын

I hade an 80 years old neigbour, she was taking about her dad exactly the same way, not only her but all the siblings & mum and close relatives were suffering the same way with her fathers army like disipline..

Nailed it 👉🏽 Prioritizing eachothers well-being.

@ab-jc8nv

8 ай бұрын

How r u

Very good points. Thanks, Dr Sadia.

Brilliant.. relationship help done right .. so clear and good.. I mean we all just wanna get on and be good in love and everything

Thank you, Sadia I've had a change of perspective.

Like you always say you don't mince your words. It hurts but it works. My friend's dad once said, " A friend tells you what you want to hear, a true friend tells you what you don't want to hear". You are our true friend, thank you.

Spot on as always sister!

Now that I know better, I have come to the conclusion that relationships are exhausting and stressful. To be drained emotionally and spiritually is not what I want for my life. It takes a tow on your soul.

Thanks Mom & Dad!

Right on Sadia. Great.

3 Red Flags 1) (Unsolved) childhood trauma 2) Not setting clear boundaries or voicing them 3) Competition over cooperation

@erko78

9 ай бұрын

Thank you. I hate how they don’t list it and force you to watch it all.

@kairinaminemix

9 ай бұрын

@@erko78 yes but I do enjoy the explanation behind it tho

@ajcraft-hello

9 ай бұрын

Thanks

1. If they haven't acknowledged childhood trauma, you'll be the punching bag due to our embedded core self-belief. 2. Boundaries or self-sabotage? 3. Cooperation or competition?

Beautiful sadia,tnx for ur insight

Focus on the relationship with yourself first. We’ve all had ‘traumas’ big or small. Lots of us have Mum or Dad issues too. Jung has some great ideas about the Anima and Animus which I, and clients, have found particularly helpful. We can’t go looking for Mr or Miss Right when we’re not ‘right’ ourselves

"Man is free, yet everywhere he's in chains." (Rousseau) It is SO SO true!! All of these "rules", "lists", "how-to's"---these things do nothing but stifle creative possibilities!! Life is a GIFT--be FREE!! Get rid of the "mind-forged manacles." (Blake)

I have noticed that adults who come from broken homes have a bad attitude towards marriage. For me, with women who came from broken homes, it never worked out.

Thank you for sharing this, great insight.

Great summarize video with a good title. Thanks so much 🙏🌺🙏🌺

Because she is beautiful, I keep staring and b4 I know it, the video ends. I usually skip in videos coz I'm impatient but I always finish her videos😂❤❤❤ How eloquent! I hope you are happy. People who tend to help people usually have no one to help them in return. This mom is always cheering u on luv❤❤.

When you meet someone new beware the early on stage will be filled with dreamy bubble of love and romance for the most part. You can choose to go with flow but prepare to slow it down to some serious questions, you may even trigger situations to get the authenticity of the individual. But hold on peeps, you can only go d’y his path if you had worked on yourself, if you are lucky to meet one who had worked on his ego, self worth and trauma, you are going to feel the “heathy” in the connection.

A narcissist will say “My childhood and family upbringing were PERFECT” or the other extreme “My childhood was the WORST ever.” Stay away from them.

Your a beauty…..I’m glad I don’t dismiss you. Because your intelligent and down to earth. Rare

Such a articulate smart lady !

I agree. I was raised in a home of 2 alcoholic parents. My father was worse. My mother was a functioning alcoholic. Weekends were horrible. I never saw much love, only fighting. I got married and thats all we did was fight, never a loving moment. My husband's father was abusive, so my husband abused me and our son, which resulted in a tragic ending i cant even say, so yes please get to know your potential partner's childhood. It will definitely have an affect on your future with them.

I love that sometimes she reveals her own red ♥️ flags ❤ high value women. Once you understand human behaviour more deeply.

1. Beware of childhood trauma 2. Do they communicate boundaries 3. Competition or cooperation

@Bhanoo4UTube

8 ай бұрын

🙌💖🙏

@rudolphferdinand3634

Ай бұрын

But about 70% of us come from some level of dysfunctional families.

I like the way she expresses her answer.....n it makes a lot of sense.....

What a simplistic conversation.

Her work is amazzzzzzingggggggg

Boundaries vs. Self sabotage portion seems worth further thought and dialogue.

Thank you for this.

My X brought drama....BIG TIME!! She's now my X

Amazing video, thank you. You seem like a very nice woman and especially young women need role models like you. I certainly wished I heard that advice when I was younger.

Each and Everyone must hv the ability to recognize them selves first. Be in tuned, aware of your own words, expressions and own behavior. Very alert with your own personality and the outcome it may display. Be better earlier.before engaging with others. It's the inner vibration and beliefs which sets your profile. Think tuning a musical instrument before you want to play music w someone.

Good one on good boundary-setting

So don’t marry anyone got it

@moemanm1202

Ай бұрын

Lol

@jemmysmith8661

Ай бұрын

exactly

@rudolphferdinand3634

Ай бұрын

But they may not show any signs of a dysfunctional life, not until you marry them - nonverbal communication is revealed more easily than what we may say. Know what to look for in the person, and learn.

@jemmysmith8661

Ай бұрын

@@rudolphferdinand3634 i think no matter what everyone takes s leap of faith(to an extwnt) with marriage-

Everything this woman said is true.

Amazing Sadia behan 🌹

🔥🔥🔥 Sadia is fire on all levels!

They treat you like you’re temporary because you are .

“Don’t stick your hand in boiling water”. Between me and my wife, if one of us was really hot, in an argument. That we could say, I’m not talking about this right now, let’s revisit at a later time when things calm down. We both respected this rule and it served us very well.

I agree my ex lost his Dad young and the love in his house changed as everyone got lost in their own grief and he had to grow up fast, he has never fully committed to any relationship other than the one he has with the bottle/can 🍺🥃

Sadia please write a book❤ i love your intelligence and your aura overall.

This lady knows her stuff. Even though she's easy on the eyes, i could listen to her all day.

She’s absolutely lovely and very tolerant of him constantly speaking over her ❤ todays society normalizes this rude American behavior. I almost got halfway through this important topic but I don’t want to listen to her battle to speak on her podcast. Good luck 😊💪🏼🕊️

Know thyself... that's what everyone should be striving for.

My SP is one with trauma from childhood. Because he did not have his father and his mother was overly narcissistic and not loving enough. Whereas he saw me as being narcissistic. When I'm so not because I craved attention from him. And he wasn't willing to give me all the attention. Because he taught me that the only attention I need is within myself. Having another person in a relationship, mirror things within yourself is one of the most beautiful, challenging things you can possibly go through. It's all a part of growing as an individual and remember. Whenever you're in separation from someone, you are healing. Healing alone is a beautiful aspect of being a soul experiencing this human form.❤😊 God bless everyone in good luck on your journey.💓💗🌌🙏

This reminded me of a relationship I had, this female would wait until we were in the bed to talk about problems, even after I asked her to stop she continued to do it, she was a nag, so glad In dodged that bullet, she was the worst.

She gives the best healthy dating advices!

Everything said is spot on

Wow, you are so beautiful and intelligent. I wish more women were like you, I appreciate your work