Nessa Barrett "lovebomb" Official Lyrics & Meaning | Verified

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For TikTok star-turned-singer-songwriter Nessa Barrett, her latest hit “lovebomb” is a way to spread awareness about borderline personality disorder-something she herself struggles with. “I wanted to share another light to the word ‘lovebombing,’ because it has such a negative connotation to it,” Nessa Barrett tells Genius. “But I feel like people with borderline, specifically, use lovebombing as a way to say ‘sorry’ because they really feel bad.”
Produced by Evan Blair, “lovebomb” appears on Barrett’s debut 2022 studio album, 'young forever.' Since its release, the song has racked up over 7 million streams on Spotify alone.
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  • @AidenWatsonn
    @AidenWatsonn Жыл бұрын

    this is my favorite song she’s ever made. she’s SO incredible and makes me feel so much less alone ( especially with BPD ) i love her so much. she means everything to me.

  • @ello3110
    @ello3110 Жыл бұрын

    she’s so sincere and transparent. I wish people could see this side of her more :’)

  • @Novelette22
    @Novelette22 Жыл бұрын

    Hey i have BPD too! It's a real struggle. Got diagnosed six years ago RIGHT after I left for college. It's nice to hear someone else with the same issues verbalize their own experience with the symptoms. "Splitting" is so painful, not only for the people around you, but it hurts so much physically to go through an episode.

  • @Winternagato

    @Winternagato

    Жыл бұрын

    thats crazy bro. i did not ask you though

  • @andreaayala8417

    @andreaayala8417

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Winternagatobro just shut up

  • @sheapila

    @sheapila

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Winternagato she didn't say she did.

  • @peacewrlddd

    @peacewrlddd

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Winternagato that’s crazy bro. we did not ask you though

  • @Bxby_nyny

    @Bxby_nyny

    Жыл бұрын

    what is bpd? if u dont mind explaining

  • @everydaysomethingnew918
    @everydaysomethingnew918 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Genius for inviting her for this song. It really has a huge meaning and impact on me. I even started crying now when she describes the episodes, sings and tells the meaning behind it all.

  • @itme453
    @itme453 Жыл бұрын

    This song honestly helped me so much. She worded it so beautifully. She has a great voice too. I know she’s gonna be big one day

  • @chargingyellow
    @chargingyellow11 ай бұрын

    by far my favourite song on the album. even from the first line “don’t even remember how it started” and “i can’t drop the gun” the blackout/rage and knowing that once it starts you can’t stop.

  • @gabivalente2721
    @gabivalente2721 Жыл бұрын

    This song specifically helped me piece together my behaviour and I got diagnosed with BPD too. My love for Nessa only grew

  • @kaitlynvasquez7042
    @kaitlynvasquez7042 Жыл бұрын

    This song really helps me realize I’m not alone. I struggle a lot with relationships because of this, and I thought I was crazy and alone. But Nessa and her music really makes me feel heard

  • @ElectricPansies
    @ElectricPansies Жыл бұрын

    There’s not a single song of hers that I don’t like, and that’s rare. Her lyrics are too relatable and her voice is enchanting.

  • @cccmusic
    @cccmusic Жыл бұрын

    I love her lyrics. She's so honest and vulnerable when she writes.

  • @emmyweee
    @emmyweee Жыл бұрын

    shes created such a safe place for those of us with bpd. she makes me feel less alone.

  • @cynniebynnie
    @cynniebynnie Жыл бұрын

    Her voice just gives me chills. Every time I listen to this song, I end up crying one way or another. I don’t exactly relate to it in the way Nessa wrote it because I know she has BPD and I don’t but I’ve found my own interpretation in a way whilst also appreciating hers. I’m glad she’s comfortable sharing her experiences with us. It’s very important to break the stigma around mental illness, especially ones like BPD. Like I said before, I don’t have BPD but I have struggled with severe anxiety basically my entire life, it’s gotten in the way of not only my social life but my entire life; the way I interact with people, the way I carry myself. A lot of the time, I feel like I’m constantly hurting people and doing a disservice to everyone around me. When she talks about lovebombing, it makes me think of all of those times I’ve done things for people so they would forgive me even though they were never mad at me in the first place. It’s a never-ending feeling of intense guilt. Whenever my moods get out of hand, I can’t blame anyone but myself so that part really resonated with me. I wanted to thank Nessa for making such a meaningful song that can reach and hit many people everywhere. I may not know exactly what she’s going through but I’m proud of her and appreciate her for providing those songs for people who will see themselves in them, also for expanding my knowledge on it. I can’t wait to see her on March 22 and to hear this beautiful song live. 🤍

  • @kati6085

    @kati6085

    Жыл бұрын

    march 13th it’s going to be so relieving and beautiful 🥺 i relate to what you just said so much. that’s why i love this song so much.

  • @cynniebynnie

    @cynniebynnie

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kati6085 Aw love that for us

  • @char6271
    @char6271 Жыл бұрын

    no auto tune just pure talent

  • @nijahjammer
    @nijahjammer Жыл бұрын

    this video brings me so much joy. nessa has saved me & I’m so grateful. this album was the most relatable album I’ve ever listened to. she just gets me & she’s one of the people that convinced me to stay here. her journey is so inspiring & music is so impactful. a true princess angel baby. I love you ness🤍

  • @deosantinomd4093
    @deosantinomd4093 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome interview! Lovebomb is such a great song not only for people having manic episodes and has trouble communicating it afterwards but also helps explain these events to the loved ones on the receiving end which at times leaves us clueless and frustrated. Proper Communication and Understanding each other is definitely key and this song will help heal a lot of similar relationships.

  • @DanielOliverio
    @DanielOliverio Жыл бұрын

    That’s my favorite song you’ve created so far. I was listening to it in the car the other day and your voice was so beautiful and angelic. I don’t know what came over me but I was overcome with a wave of emotion and just started thinking about family, friends, dead loved ones and past lovers and started to tear up. So thank you for that.

  • @ela536
    @ela536 Жыл бұрын

    Honestly something about this song rlly sticks out in the album. It’s just so beautiful and meaningful

  • @jeremybryant3894
    @jeremybryant3894 Жыл бұрын

    This is heartbreaking. I have been through this, and tried for almost 2 decades. I loved her. I know these struggles, and I hope this girl finds peace

  • @luvninq
    @luvninq Жыл бұрын

    her music has saved me and put me in a better mood, she's so pretty and adorable, i love her with my whole life 🤍💌

  • @Madsgta01
    @Madsgta01 Жыл бұрын

    Nessa is such a sweet and adorable angel that I seriously adore with all of my heart, even her voice is so calming and beautiful. Lovebomb is such a beautiful song too. She deserves the whole world and she’s the sweetest ever 🥺❤️

  • @cccmusic
    @cccmusic Жыл бұрын

    She's definitely one of my fav singers. I'm so so proud of her.

  • @kumbielenor1473
    @kumbielenor1473 Жыл бұрын

    It’s so crazy how relatable you are to me Nessa, thank you for opening up more about your mental health and helping us all through our struggles including yourself. I love you and I love your angelic voice and that you’re an authentic artist.🖤🎵🎶🎼🎤🎧🌹😘💋

  • @plane222paris
    @plane222paris Жыл бұрын

    i relate to this song because i struggle with bpd as well, it genuinely means so much to me, ily for making this song nessa

  • @clarice8693
    @clarice8693 Жыл бұрын

    I love nessa and lovebomb is one of my favorites on the album.

  • @everydaysomethingnew918
    @everydaysomethingnew918 Жыл бұрын

    This song always makes me cry. It really hits me like no other song.

  • @tr0ubledl0ve
    @tr0ubledl0ve Жыл бұрын

    I love her singing but even her talking voice is so calming and I love her so much and how much she advocates for mental health because I think I struggle with a lot of things she does and it makes me feel like im not so alone and you dont see a lot of people take accountability for their outbursts, like I know a lot of people say she plays victim a lot and maybe she does, but she also is very open and honest about not being perfect.

  • @sophiehethersay3071
    @sophiehethersay3071 Жыл бұрын

    Love how she’s being more open now and feeling more comfortable. Obsessed with her music

  • @tylerGplays
    @tylerGplays Жыл бұрын

    These lyrics are amazing, I already loved Nessa and was a fan but this song makes me adore her even more! I struggle with BPD as well and it's living hell, this song has been helping me out a lot recently

  • @emilyjackson1733
    @emilyjackson1733 Жыл бұрын

    Soooo many people can relate to this song! She’s so amazing honestly. Keep being you Nessa 🤍

  • @nj2301
    @nj2301 Жыл бұрын

    This song is heart wrenching and real for me. It really touches my soul and makes me pour all my emotions. I have never experienced something like that with any other song. Everytime I listen to it my eyes are in tears. I am waiting for the day when I will be able to listen to it without being that impacted and relating so hard to it.

  • @hannah-nv4jo
    @hannah-nv4jo Жыл бұрын

    love this song it makes me cry every time i listen to it bc i have BPD and relate to her and her music so much, shes such an icon i love her so much she changed my life and shes my favorite artist, RIP COOPER♥

  • @alysonhostetter8236
    @alysonhostetter8236 Жыл бұрын

    As someone who also has BPD i find this song so helpful in explaining to those who i love the most that when I’m in an episode the things i say are just me trying to explain how badly i hurt. I love how open Nessa is about the not so pretty sides of BPD because i feel like most people with it aren’t. Like Nessa when I’m in an episode I tend to throw things too just to get across how I’m feeling. It’s amazing to be able to relate to someone like Nessa because when you’re in these situations you feel so alone but in reality so many other people struggle very similarly and we’re in this fight together❤

  • @madisbae
    @madisbae Жыл бұрын

    literally one of my favourite songs. i am so proud of nessa and i cannot wait for her to drop more songs in the future:). i love the meaning behind the song as well. her voice is literally angelic.

  • @osydney_
    @osydney_ Жыл бұрын

    i am so glad that i found nessa's music. as a borderline, i feel the lyrics to this song and the meaning behind them SO deeply. it's really important for people to understand what bpd is actually like, she is describing her experience/bpd experience in general very well. i hope everyone who isn't educated on bpd learned a little something. love u nessa

  • @cccmusic
    @cccmusic Жыл бұрын

    We love u Ness, thank u sm for sharing your art with us. It makes us feel understood, loved and definitely not alone. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

  • @Danielle_0088
    @Danielle_0088 Жыл бұрын

    this song makes me cry EVERY TIME I listen to it ❤ love you nessa

  • @unknowntemptation251
    @unknowntemptation251 Жыл бұрын

    Nessa is honestly so underrated, her music has such deep meaning, and it got me through a lot. I mean A LOT

  • @mara-sh3fn
    @mara-sh3fn Жыл бұрын

    literally was just listening to young forever

  • @Leah.y4ev
    @Leah.y4ev Жыл бұрын

    Ness is such a kind soul and speaks straight out of my soul

  • @Leah.y4ev
    @Leah.y4ev Жыл бұрын

    her hair and outfit is just so slay!!

  • @krushamae
    @krushamae Жыл бұрын

    Probably my favoruite song of the album. It really describes BPD so well

  • @mckennascherer8991
    @mckennascherer8991 Жыл бұрын

    this was my favvv on the album for so so long. just hit me right in the chest

  • @NJB1920
    @NJB1920 Жыл бұрын

    I love how true and honest and self-aware she is. That's makes me love her even more. In nowadays its hard to find people or artists you can trust who are so honest about their mental health or just honest about them selfs. I love when people are true and honest and self-aware. She is amazing, an amazing person and singer

  • @kaylenconnors277
    @kaylenconnors277 Жыл бұрын

    this song articulates my thoughts better than i ever could have. i relate all the way down to him lifting the rug n me sweeping the glass. ur so special ness

  • @dehidaliesq6391
    @dehidaliesq6391 Жыл бұрын

    I literally got the name of the song tattooed in my arm, not only my favorite song but this helped me so much

  • @ddeztt7335
    @ddeztt7335 Жыл бұрын

    i love her so much. her whole album is amazing

  • @onsum.hiphop
    @onsum.hiphop Жыл бұрын

    That Genius notification hit different...

  • @gojiibeats3685

    @gojiibeats3685

    Жыл бұрын

    fr fr

  • @callieg.7267
    @callieg.7267 Жыл бұрын

    I can relate to her so much actually this song especially. It’s really like cool that she can tell us the meaning behind her song.😢

  • @andreagrace1233
    @andreagrace1233 Жыл бұрын

    i love her sm, such an amazing soul

  • @fyhebdbdudn3318
    @fyhebdbdudn3318 Жыл бұрын

    Such a calming voice 💝💐

  • @keniathecoolkid8071
    @keniathecoolkid8071 Жыл бұрын

    Love this song ❤

  • @missnykole3749
    @missnykole3749 Жыл бұрын

    The way I can finally relate to something so fully. I love this song. I love her. I needed this.

  • @macaronioli
    @macaronioli Жыл бұрын

    i adore ness sm. she’s such an inspiration to me and i truly love her sm. so talented and so sweet

  • @piapot2115
    @piapot2115 Жыл бұрын

    Can’t wait to see you Nessa 😭🙈 your songs really mean a lot to me..

  • @killgirl6743
    @killgirl6743 Жыл бұрын

    I love you Nessa, your voice is sweet, and when I want to express myself I just listen to any song that is yours, I wish I could take away all the pain and episodes, I hope you are happy forever my marip girl

  • @katieedgett5756
    @katieedgett5756 Жыл бұрын

    love her genius videos sm

  • @danasiaj2853
    @danasiaj2853 Жыл бұрын

    love this song! this is one of her best songs. ❤

  • @Al-rw7pl
    @Al-rw7pl Жыл бұрын

    Lovebomb was my first tattoo, like I love and relate this song so much

  • @AleinWonderland
    @AleinWonderland Жыл бұрын

    This put into words what I go through daily. I have borderline and bipolar, and I find myself love bombing all the time. The funny thing is, if you have one of these mental disorders you truly do mean every word you say in the lovebomb because you hate how much you hurt others when you’re in an episode. So many people are like you use the words i love you too much and I’m like no I genuinely mean it when I say it. I just say it a lot because I feel like I need to so the ones I love don’t think I do not love them. with borderline, you feel emotions at least three times more strongly than an average person so even sadness and love are over the top.

  • @adhamward
    @adhamward Жыл бұрын

    she's so real for this 🤍

  • @xxl550
    @xxl550 Жыл бұрын

    dude with all due respect she is beautiful

  • @RealLifeCarlitosFr
    @RealLifeCarlitosFr Жыл бұрын

    I'm so proud of her. It's such a beautiful song

  • @hi-vq9cq
    @hi-vq9cq Жыл бұрын

    every song on her album is a 10/10, im obsessed tbh

  • @hannahmarcus6736
    @hannahmarcus6736 Жыл бұрын

    This song is just so perfect. I love her so much.

  • @EmLaz
    @EmLaz Жыл бұрын

    she's so cuuuute! Her voice makes me giggle like an idiot omg. Also, she's so real with her mental health, and I also struggle with depression, social anxiety, anger management, relationships, and honesty. This is real; it happens to so many people. Nessa really gives people like me hope when dealing with these problems, because it's almost like a safe-space where you know you aren't alone, because even stars like Nessa (so many other obviously, as well) go thru this crap. Cheers to those who embrace their challenges and acknowledge their mistakes as well. XO

  • @sleazy182
    @sleazy182 Жыл бұрын

    I have BPD too & I really needed this song.

  • @bellabb13
    @bellabb13 Жыл бұрын

    My absolute favorite from the album. This song is gold.

  • @1painbed
    @1painbed Жыл бұрын

    her voice is so angelic

  • @sophiarose8420
    @sophiarose8420 Жыл бұрын

    love her she is so inspiring to me so proud

  • @roger_2250
    @roger_2250 Жыл бұрын

    i love u so much nessa ur music helped me thru so much

  • @clairebieniewicz4203
    @clairebieniewicz4203 Жыл бұрын

    I love nessa with everything in me. this song means so much to me.

  • @pililja676
    @pililja67611 ай бұрын

    Her music is literally so amazing

  • @flvred
    @flvred Жыл бұрын

    She’s just amazing i love her

  • @cassandralicalzi7375
    @cassandralicalzi7375 Жыл бұрын

    This song has my heart. ❤

  • @carolinaaccioly3814
    @carolinaaccioly3814 Жыл бұрын

    love this song, i relate sooo much... love you ness

  • @aisjjanajskjxj
    @aisjjanajskjxj Жыл бұрын

    I don't have bpd, but I do have bipolar, so a lot of what she's saying, her symptoms, are extremely similar to mine, which is in a sense awesome because her music and songs help me understand myself better.

  • @victoriasanchez6330
    @victoriasanchez6330 Жыл бұрын

    i love u so much nessa, thank u for this song. it means so much to us

  • @itsmecece
    @itsmecece Жыл бұрын

    I love this song so much! I don’t have bpd but I relate to this on certain level! I few understood in a way

  • @cccmusic
    @cccmusic Жыл бұрын

    I always love to know the meanings and the details behind her songs.

  • @txbre8758
    @txbre8758 Жыл бұрын

    I’m here because I’m bipolar type 2 so I’ve never experienced the mania everyone talks about just hypomania and my best friend has bpd. I’m terrified I’m going to lose her. I almost lost her once and she won’t get help and I’m so scared but I’m trying so hard. Even when she leaves and goes off and splits, I’m always here. I haven’t left her. She’s my soul sister. She’s met all my past boyfriends and my friends And I can’t imagine life without her

  • @ir4txe

    @ir4txe

    Жыл бұрын

    you have such a beautiful soul I hope both of you can get better and leave peacefully

  • @txbre8758

    @txbre8758

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ir4txe she’s been my best friend for seven years, even if she says I’ll leave, I won’t, unless I die

  • @reyfun7869
    @reyfun7869 Жыл бұрын

    I am so proud of Nessa. She is so strong and talented

  • @anamarques9032
    @anamarques9032 Жыл бұрын

    She is so sweet, but so underrated, her songs are amazing ;-;

  • @n.e999
    @n.e999 Жыл бұрын

    she has gone through SO much, i hate when ppl call her a pick me or whatever shes incredible and so sweet and i love her with my whole heart ❤

  • @saoirsemaimcmahon10
    @saoirsemaimcmahon10 Жыл бұрын

    I love how open and honest she was

  • @fyhebdbdudn3318
    @fyhebdbdudn3318 Жыл бұрын

    Lovebombs and noose are my favorite!! 💝

  • @Kayla-cz3in
    @Kayla-cz3in Жыл бұрын

    I love this song with my whole heart

  • @destinymmarie
    @destinymmarie Жыл бұрын

    I struggle with all of this so much because I thought I was crazy and that no one could understand what it feels like being in a manic state Or episode but the way she wrote this song gave me so much hope and comfort knowing that someone else struggles with the same things when I have a episode I get super angry either go manic and throw stuff scream and be so rude have panic attack and cry uncontrollably it’s so hard to get control and calm down and then you regret eveything you have done after you snap out of the episode and all the guilt follows you of what you caused and the people you hurt you rush to love bomb and tell them how sorry you are and how much you hate the way you have episodes 😭

  • @annajevons1612
    @annajevons1612 Жыл бұрын

    ive related to this feeling today. love u nessa

  • @Blue-ek8kj
    @Blue-ek8kj Жыл бұрын

    This song is everything

  • @tb22k
    @tb22k27 күн бұрын

    Thank you ❤

  • @victoriamartin5577
    @victoriamartin5577 Жыл бұрын

    This made me cry 🥹

  • @A__K_-yj5iv
    @A__K_-yj5iv Жыл бұрын

    This is my favorite song by her. Seriously, I love it

  • @jameswells2826
    @jameswells2826 Жыл бұрын

    I Really Enjoyed Today's Video And I Think That This Girl Nessa Is Really Nice

  • @elina2310t
    @elina2310t Жыл бұрын

    Omggg I have BPD too!! I've always felt so connected to Nessa's songs because they're so honest, genuine and heartfelt but I had no idea fully why and I didn't know she has BPD too. This makes a lot more sense and it makes me feel so much better that I'm not the only one (especially to know that even celebrities have BPD, so we all struggle.) But it doesn't make us bad people. Yes, there are comments sometimes about us being "manipulative" and "toxic" and that we "should be avoided" and that hurts because we're really not doing this on purpose. It's just there is so much negativity and trauma sometimes people cause us and it's hard to cope with it and be strong and in control. I don't like when people say that we exaggerate emotions a lot more than other people because it sounds as people claim us as the biggest problems. It's not fair. We might be more sensitive but it doesn't mean we exaggerate. Us taking things more to heart shows that we do have that heart and that we're human and we cannot give out love if we receive hate or negligence. The things that make us angry and hurt and sad are the true reasons. It's just that people don't see them as reasons because society tends to minimize the important things. They disregard others' feelings because it's inconvenient to them, and sometimes the friends we think we have are true only support us in good times. Once bad times come they leave us, or ghost us. We dont dramatize, it's the society that's being ignorant. Thank you so much Nessa for making me feel understood and supported. You're not only a talented artist but an amazing, genuine-hearted person. The world needs more people like you. Thank you for what you do and I love u so much. 🤗❤🙏🎵🎶🎸🎹🎙️

  • @shainaalicbusan152
    @shainaalicbusan152 Жыл бұрын

    i love this track sm

  • @journeymanuel7069
    @journeymanuel7069 Жыл бұрын

    Was at her Chicago concert last night. This one left a mark on me

  • @obsessedstan
    @obsessedstan Жыл бұрын

    i love nessa so muchh

  • @lvsgrayson
    @lvsgrayson Жыл бұрын

    nessa i love you with my whole heart ❤️‍🩹

  • @marissaaryn
    @marissaaryn Жыл бұрын

    i love her so much man

  • @toknowher
    @toknowher Жыл бұрын

    super enlightening

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