Thank you Monica for hosting this girl. I glad to see her after many years. Glad to hear her sad story. She's a Kahuhia Girl like me. Monica this platform is a great voice.

Mrs Kirubi, taught me leadership and drama in church. She is a gem and a great Mum. She held the youths of our time with such open arms and motherly love. Love you Mum❤️❤️

Family members have become the very toxic people in life yaani when u prosper it's a problem when u become poor wanasena huna akili na ww ni burden aki nowdays relatives aren't the same again

@simonpeter2594

Жыл бұрын

Very true am almost going through the same

@Cate861

Жыл бұрын

Me too

@susangitau715

Жыл бұрын

me too

@bethwambui7978

Жыл бұрын

Wee siku hizi hakuna mambo na relative....ua own relative wanakuendea ndio wachukue bwanako na kushikana na inlaws Hadi unapangiwa kifo juu umeolewa na Mungu anakuinua

@nancy3734

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Kwanza when poor... you have to walk around with bells on the leg like the lepers in the bible for people to flee. As you've stated you become a burden to be avoided... weeh wacha tu

Wuui I thought I'm the only one who has gone through hell, I had my two sisters in law who used to call me a witch, one of them lost her son and claimed I'm the one who had bewitched her son. If they wash their clothes and put them on the line and they want to go somewhere she had to call someone and stay there watching the clothes because I might cut a piece and take it to the witch doctor. But I thanks God for standing with me for He knew my heart was clean and never involved myself with witchcraft. God promoted me to another level whereby I don't see them often, I remember one time I went for a visit and this sister in law told one of my tenants that I have brought bee's from US to harm them but I didn't care since God had given me assurance that He will never leave me alone and no weapons formed against me shall prosper.

@melisamburu1215

Жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🙏🥰

@Njeri-Healthy-Meals-Recipes

Жыл бұрын

Waaaah pole sana aki🌺🤗🙏

@catherineedward4675

Жыл бұрын

I also have the same problem....... imagine a big church praying for your death over force arrogation......a whole family calling you an telling you you have killed there children in front of seven year old daughter.......I don't know whether I will ever recover

@florencewilson4821

Жыл бұрын

Don't worry God is on your side

@florencewilson4821

Жыл бұрын

@@catherineedward4675 Forgive them and try to keep off.. God is on your side

The way she sounds so mature, i just love her, hugs mamaa, she has a good and big heart, aandu anyu me bata

WOW great show,Florence pole,ur family members are toxic,avoid them for ur healing,but respect them from a far,since their family,God bless u Florence,u hv a generous heart.

I can relate, my mum suffered depression because of same toxic stories. I hate families

Relatives have become something else. Most people are suffering in silence

To my life experience , God does give a great family who are not blood related so when siblings segregate you , be at peace , forgive them , start a life without them and you’ll be stress free . Pray for them just as you would pray for a loved one and life will be beautiful .

@mercykimani9741

Жыл бұрын

Am happy to hear how those children think of Africa🤣🤣🤣

That's my aunt and she's talking the whole truth but God is merciful.

We're many in such states. You're lucky Florence that your husband supports you. If both families would collude, it would be he'll on earth

Mrs Kirubi taught me English in std 5 and made me develop such a respect for the language. She went to acting and I really admired her. A woman who knows what she wants and goes for it. Maximum respect mwalimu.

@maishascoop

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Thanks a lot Shiru. Na ukashika kitu. Niku twathomaga nawe turoranite? Nikumbushe please. Hehehe.

Pole sana Mama Gicaja, never knew you went through all that. May you heal in Jesus Name.

I can feel your pain MUM! Most families in Muranga likes fighting one another prosperity, surprisingly enough such families love gospel! I decided to stay alone in my life.

No matter the hard difficult story, you're still a positive vibe ❤️💕🌹🙏 Ngai akurathime muno mum🤗🌺🇰🇪

She is just a mom I would like to here more of her advice she looks intelligent and understanding I have admired her sooo much she seems to be hardworking more Soo In her youthful life ❤️❤️

Kunguni akulaye yu nguo-ni mwako! However, sometimes it's a blessing to be set apart from family. Father Abraham had to be set aside, completely, to be blessed. Thank you for sharing your story.

A story of courage and resilience,I have gone through the same pain,I know how it feels, eventually God brings vindication,I agree that writing the story down is a very potent method of healing

May God heal people who have been hurt by people they call relatives

@susangititia3067

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Amen and Amen

Thanks Flo for sharing, you have encouraged many.

You come to this world alone and I shall left alone what matters most is your relationship with God

@catherinenjoki9378

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Family who are church goes and call others witches Sunday Christians can you repent in Jesus name such issues killed someone who was very dear to me

Pastor Githika was a wonderful pastor, I too was a st polycarp member & he welcomed me back to holy communion, wherever he's may God bless him abundantly

@nancykiberu5965

Жыл бұрын

Githaka not Githika

Frorence kirubi is my Aunt but is going through many challenges due to missileding by her sister and brothers am talking about my mum my auncle my Aunt are the one who prayed a big role to tread (muchene) ,. But i usually talk to my Aunt and tell him forgiveness is a key to success..... Prov 9:10 The fear of the lord is beginning of wisdom

@lizznjeri9231

Жыл бұрын

That is so kind of you.keep showing your aunt love

@wanjiku28

Жыл бұрын

God bless you for standing in the Gap for your family, keep doing it, Prayers moves mountains. It will be well in Jesus Almighty Name 🙏

@stankirubi1182

Жыл бұрын

Frorence kirubi is name sake to my elder sister

@catekariuki3567

Жыл бұрын

Great of you for standing with truth

@gathumbison9025

Жыл бұрын

@@catekariuki3567 🙏🙏🙏

I must forward this to mom asap, she has gone through this with family

Micii nì ndogo maa....many families these cases are going on there and that's how i came to realize that even family members can be most toxic. Hata kwetu hatuongeangi...kila mtu na maisha yake....but mimi personally sitakubali kutumiwa vibaya .

@melisamburu1215

Жыл бұрын

You are not alone dear ...same to my family

@tmw9376

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Mara nyingi ni wivu.Familia wakiona hauteseki vile wanataka wanakuzingizia mambo mambaya....

@stellahnjagi5190

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@@melisamburu1215haki tuko wengi my dear...its 😔

@stellahnjagi5190

Жыл бұрын

@@tmw9376 exactly it's out of jealousy. Mungo atusaindie tu.

@lenaosore6710

Жыл бұрын

Same what app group but who's God 19 years down the line in America I can't complain

I don't know why but I have observed that family members tend to 'hate" or should I say isolate those who love and help them most.

@nancy3734

Жыл бұрын

Ongeza volume... weeh

@wanjiramwihia2455

Жыл бұрын

Yeah exactly 💯🤭

@monicahwambui3395

Жыл бұрын

You said it well

@winnieasha8094

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

Lesson learned thanks Kagoni for airing this so many families are going through this Thanks again n again Our home was my bro in law who came to pray

@esthernduta4325

Жыл бұрын

À

You are not alone i sail in the same boat from my siblings

Ukiskia mtu akikuita mchawi yeye diye mchawi don't worry take ❤️

It's a sad story indeed. We celebrate you because you are phenomenal woman. In this world when you are arising you will have opposition from people close to you but be courageous you are victorious. Even God faced opposition from creature He created. Spirit of jealousy has been there since the beginning of time. Let's fight it and we shall see the hand of God .

Mummy you are right prophecies have contributed too much in the enemies and even deaths in the family so sad..

representing team strong from Dubai, monical kagoni always serving it hot! God always bless you monicah kwa kazi mzuri

@joycekungu1957

Жыл бұрын

Team strong,, dubai ndani

I like this mama, she's a vibe😘

It’s a blessing in disguise,‘I hv experienced but decided I shall move on despite of anything..,’In this world only God is a trustworthy friend

Loving too much genuinely and giving to a fault ends up having the same people hate you, judge you and belittle you so much. This world... earth is hard

Beautiful informative piece

Wow am encouraged my mum have been blamed for Soo long for my relatives misfortunes just because she is hardworking in whatever she do she excel,dear God grant her peace of mind

Lots of hugs 🤗🤗 ma'am,,may God heal you completely

Pole mum, I listened to someone in Lynn Ngugis show.. Who said same thing about churches... It separated them from their mum..sad sad.... God is not an author of confusion... People should pray for spirit of discernment..

Thank God for their behaviour otherwise wangekua wanakuambia ma shida mpaka uwalipie school fees za watoto then wananbaki wakikucheka

Waiting from Ruiru onjei.

Thanks Monica

I like this lady. She is so sincere.

Well waiting

Unfortunately, that is why some people are not able to help their relatives. We cannot blame them at all. Some villages are poor because they curse those who prosper.

@salomemueni100

Жыл бұрын

Very true...say that again..

Writing it was the beginning of healing ur blessed

Many ppl have suffered juu ya hii jina kuroga na hawajui inakaa aje ama hufanywa aje lakini ya dunia mtu atalipia hapa tu

Waiting

Wah some family 👪ni wabaya God help us.your strong mama❤❤

Very sad story.All the same we celebrate you Mama Nyambura.

Monica there was a story abt a month ago or so abt a lady who wanted to kill her kids tulilia we even forgot to go 4 break kindly we need the flow up plizzzzz

Na Sammy Irungu araina ruimbo ndanerio ndiremwega ngiya ngona kae itari mwega no ndigiaga kaundu kamwe karia gagatuma ndirikaruo you are blessed madam Florence let it go of the past 🙏👏

Lesson learned andu amwe anyu nomatume wimene kana wiyagire kieni maisha ini maku

Same situation in our family... My mother is the culprit but all in all mungu ni nani ....mungu anazidi kutubariki.

Relatives huenjoy downfall ya mtu..am a victim....mm sai I prefer strangers more than relatives

Interesting

It's like she telling my father story and the hate we (his children)got from family and village

Ooh 60s? Gracious!

Sorry for having gone through all that especially when it involves the family.

Wow Representatine team strong

Such astrong lady

mum it's so sad to be isolated by families members bcoz of a lie but God is there who sees everything and stand with the truth one day they will call u blessed

Haiya no wonder she looks so familiar, am also from kahuhia

Very painful story🤔 But Wira for me!!!!

Mum let me remind you something you cm alone and you wl leave alone dont stress yourself too much ukijipea stress ukufe ndifo wataselehekea sana wachana na wao so long as mungu anakupenda uko sawa

There was also Joseph in the bible.We read stories on others but one day the story becomes you alone. God is there for you,. Psalm 40 .With patience time heals.

Four years ago for it was like that because of inheritance but God fought for me

This happened to my mother too but in the hands of the inlaws.They would have meetings and plan how to throw her out of her house with the help of my father.She was such a hardworking woman(teacher and enterprenuer).None of them ever came close to her grateness.she was called a witch...It bothered her so much and now she is dead.2days after her funeral they had a goat eating ceremony.I wish my mother moved out before it was too late.

@betty541

Жыл бұрын

Oh my God..I am so sorry. And so very proud of your mum too. It is hard to bring down a strong, intelligent, hard-working person with a good heart.

@lindamuthoni1389

Жыл бұрын

Are you the Pauline Njoroge of Uhuru and assmio 😁😁

On a lighter note: I don't know what happened to the society/family structure because it is very true that the last people to celebrate one's success are your close relatives; It is said that family comes first but in the reality things/their actions in some cases turn left, west , east and so on.... Take Home' Uhoro wa gwigekenera ni mwega muno, Niwega kwiyethera gikeno ona gwi kuritu'. Thanks @Monica Kagoni for inspirational and life-building content; Your consistency is something else...Keep up the good work...

painful story. may healing be upon you.

@irenegithongo893

Жыл бұрын

I'm impressed and seeing my long time friend Florence Kirubi. I wish she had time to explain more on the book. Good programme. She is very good in leadership and has inspired many of us.

@maishascoop

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@@irenegithongo893 Lovely friend and sister. Baraka mingi

I have every reason to thank jehova for my siblings. Anyone who gets alot among my siblings becomes a blessin to the less fortunate in our family. Just forgive them and you will witness jehova moulding them once again, shalom.

I wish I can speak to her.....I have the same problem and it has made me follow into depression...... How do one overcame this

Irathimo citiganaine, ndukanaiguire mundu uiru, uiru uciaraga gikuu.

Mimi nimefurahi sana kuona huyu mama. Mama nyambura wimwega uriokuo

Pole Sana it happens but mostly due to jealousy n prophets of doom for self gain

Ngai😥

Please Florence u r not alone in this my family went through the same thing especially when 4 of us managed to come to USA but God is not a respect of pple he topped up by making my parents join us by winning green card lottery at their retired age.

@catherinemuthoni7526

Жыл бұрын

Eish this God is amazing

Flo that's not strange. Sisemi kitu. Sisemi. Am a victim

My family also think I have Jinii because my husband has tattoo and I was leaving in Mombasa..Relative are dangerous especially when you are not struggling the way they want you to suffer.

@annwambui6657

Жыл бұрын

Poor mind

@user-vk6tv7hh8o

11 ай бұрын

Jealousy us very high but they don't know kila mtu na neema yake

God

Wenye wivu hawatafanya Mungu to reverse His favor upon us.

Weee mimi huitwa malaya sijui devil worshiper after sacrificing working double shifts here in uk to educate my uncles and auntie kids. Micii nidogo saa hiii no one talks to me. Apart from my mother.

@simongitu7311

Жыл бұрын

Anne Mwangi nani alikwambia uwasaidie🤣🤣🤣

@gracewairimu937

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I have come to realize you only fear God . Silence is the best teacher

@shonkairu228

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Chapa kazi mrembo people will always not be happy when you succeed

@moniwawarikuo2253

Жыл бұрын

U did your part never ever be guilty,onanie nyonagio madharau ndaringia mundu handu what I get in reverse ni kilio,no Ngai ni mwihokeku

Manabii wa uongo ndio wamemaliza boma nyingi monicah you will host me i have a bitter story but am not in kenya nikija nitakutafuta

I love how she calls the British, colonizers. That's their appropriate title

I go through the same pain my siblings called a witch (ATI Nii ndimurogi) things gets worse when our dad passed now my brothers takes controls and Muchene saying I am not theirs biological sister but maybe someone asks them to pay him sperms donors

@moniwawarikuo2253

Жыл бұрын

UI wiyumirrie ndukemene na hoyaga hingo ciothe,wi wa fata

@faithchristine8051

Жыл бұрын

Woiye, pole sana. Just live your life and if possible keep off, they will look for you one time

@trizamaina5283

Жыл бұрын

Bora uhai matiri undu mahana

Allow me advice her to listen symoo K KZread channel asikie vile Bishop mankush talked about family members

Kuna kitu inaitwa house hold enemies

Bishop Charles Muturi arahunjirie arauga ithue tutiowe urogi ona tutire twawona uria uhana ona ashio maugaga matioe colour ya urogi.Andu nimahonoke

Painfully Woi this is what my mom was going through she was called a witch till pple can't visit our home just because someone came out with this rumours because of shamba (land) they said she bewitched my dad till dad died while she took care of dad till last minute

@lucyclement3605

Жыл бұрын

Pole 🙏

Those are the kind of behaviours in Kenya

This story hits differently.

Anabii acio nio mathukitie micii ona mami witu eraguo ni murogi😭😭

Family is toxic nowadays wivu na chuki

This a pain story coz even me nmepitia hayo on 2019 to my blood sister she told me I kill my mom which am so far for them coz am Dubai but still my heart hukua na alot of pain na yeye since that day sjawai ongea na yeye till today

Team dubai Abu Dhabi we'll represented

@janeirungu6697

Жыл бұрын

Nowadays family's are difficult Mimi hadi nauliza kaa kuna njia ya kutoka kwetu na nisiai itwa wa huko yenye nimepituia ni mengi

Mimi my own brother told me ati nimempeana kwa devil worshippers ndio nitajirike this was after nemekataa kumtumia pesa alipe bill kwa bar nakamuuliza kwani hao madevil hawapendi vitu mzuri🤣🤣🤣🤣 i dont have any hate for him only that i dont care where he is or what he does he is over 30 years

@annegitau2641

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😆😆 kwani anakaa aje.but aki family

@MONICAH30

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@@annegitau2641 si ati ni mbaya physically ako tu sawa but tabia zake vituko vingi yaani i meant kwani hawatakangi watu wazuri wametulia

@eunicenjeru215

Жыл бұрын

Addicts always want others to feel guilty for not helping them.

Family members are very jealous of your progress niliamua kukaa kado and alm happy

Wewe unasaidia ata ndio wanaonanga ubaya wako but for me now I don't care the more you help them the more they take advantage let them get out there and work.

Hizi nilikuwa na ona kama hizi sinakuaga story, until ikafika kwangu, ndio nilikuja kuja

Only God has the final say mimi my husband aliniita mchawi after mother in-law lost her sight