Seriously surprise when I saw my mother how she is dipolimatic play son n daughter difference n money matlab jo bacha jada piase ghar laye wohi acha n she destroy daughter"s life v badly

Yes Definitely. Relatives are Narcissistics. Thank you.

@PinkZindagi

2 күн бұрын

My pleasure 👍

Yes I suffered all that.Both parents were like that.My whole childhood was spent walking on egg shells and feeling guilty.I started liking other people's parents more. Fortunately left home at 16 due to studies and never returned.No relationship left with my only brother whom I used to protect as a child.

@PinkZindagi

11 күн бұрын

I can feel your pain. ❤

सही कहा है। मांओं को देवी से तुलना करना बंद कर देना चाहिए।

@tacobellxo2996

7 күн бұрын

My mother in law is narcissistic mother. I understood it long back after a lot of suffering but my husband is still struggling to make her happy.. How can i make him understand this. Pls guide.

@aapkaashish6439

Күн бұрын

@@tacobellxo2996 maine to apni wife ko hi kho diya...tab ja k meri aankhe khuli

@melisha4236

19 сағат бұрын

Right

Outstanding....👌👌👌...ek gandi machhli poori talaab ko ganda banati hai.... according to me narcissism is still underrated...it is dangerously increasing nowadays....

Reminds me of my narcissistic aunt!. Had a traumatic childhood due to living in a joint family with this narcissistic personality. Thanks for this insightful video❤️🙏🏼

Aisi mother-in-law do bahu ke beech mein bhi fights kara deti hai.. Ek bahu kee tareef karegi aur dusri ko neecha dikhayegi...

@deepadhania5921

14 күн бұрын

Yes mna apni family n dekha h asa hote hue

@shobhisweety3709

3 күн бұрын

Mam mene apni mother ki galat bat ka virodh kiya to mujhe family se alag kr diya.

@rekhabisholiya4769

Күн бұрын

Right mere sath bhi aisa hi h

@kUkUcHaNdA_555

11 сағат бұрын

Hoti hai aisi mom... As mother in law... Jo apne hi bete(son) ki happy married lyf chahati hi nahi.. Islye... Any how.. Dispute create kara deti hai

1000% correct..my mother is extremely manipulating and almost destroyed my life on other side give wings to his son!

Narcissist mother ko dar hota h control khone ka dusro par 😅 Isliye vo Aisa behave karti hain

@PinkZindagi

18 күн бұрын

Absolutely👍

Since childhood, i felt something was wrong with my family. There was no conversationsin the house, only silence. We were not allowed to make noise while playing as ordered by mother. Noise should not go outside the room. Glass had to be kept on the table the exact way and position told. Whereas my mother had zero table manners. We were beated up mercilesssly on small things like keeping the bottle on the left side. We were not allowed to sing. Or dance or express oirselves. To this day, i do not have the skills to argue in office or silence my colleagues if they talk shit about me. I freeze. Iam a mother of three and i still dont know how to talk on phone or how to talk to people for the first time. Every single day, multiple times ,i was told how dare you, who the hell do u think u r. N abuses in hindi. Ultimately my father died of cancer. Who woudnt, living with a mentally maladjusted wife for all yor life takes a toll.

@PinkZindagi

Күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing this. 👍

Achcha hai Koi to hai jo Aise videos k Zariye sach Saamne laa rhe hai . .. .. Bahot jaruri hai Aise videos Aisi chije sabke Saamne Lana.

@poonamray2737

3 күн бұрын

Mere sath bhi yhi huaa hmesa

@HaniShekhawat

3 күн бұрын

@@poonamray2737 Bahot logo k sath hota hai . .. Leave it . .. n just Move on . ..

@poonamray2737

3 күн бұрын

@@HaniShekhawat pr kese

@poonamray2737

3 күн бұрын

Mem ne jitni bat btyi wo sb sach btayi he pr ab to bhut der ho gyi apne sare amoshan glt insan pr khrch kr diy

@HaniShekhawat

3 күн бұрын

@@poonamray2737 Ho sake to kahi door Jake akele ek new life start Karo . ...

Narcissistic mother loves male child and hates female child 😢

@PinkZindagi

2 күн бұрын

Agree! 👍

Meri mummy ka behaviour mere liye bahut kharab hai but mere siblings ke liye achha hai ..its like she always complete with me ,she doy see me as a child ..i hate her ..is lady ne maa word se nafrat karwa di ..meri sare khushiyan le li ,saare relation le lite is aurat ne ..i wish is aurat ko karma mile ..and meri nazron ke saamne mile

@PinkZindagi

2 күн бұрын

I can feel your pain.

Sare point resonate karte hai mujhse khud ko heal karne ki Koshish kar rahi hu 😌

@PinkZindagi

Күн бұрын

Best wishes🌺

Thank you for sharing all this important info. I can relate to all these points , my mother always has excuses ready, she hated all my hobbies, cut me off from all my friends, belittled any constructive or positive move I made, bullied my career choice ( I was a teacher abroad ) and still got ridiculed and mocked. Her toxicity n bullying made me quit all my hobbies and activities, today I have no friends, coz growing up she never allowed me to form a normal friendship with anyone. She wants to force me into an arranged marriage that too with the man of her choice, I don't have much say in selection. As a result, I'm mid 30s and still unmarried. Anyway, the worst part, my Dad is also a narcissist, a covert one. I have grown up in a broken dysfunctional family. My dad's issues are a whole new chapter. Belittling, bullying, cheating on my mother n me with other women, ghosting , abandonment of family , stopping economical support and so much more....pls cover an episode on growing up with narcissist parents, when both parents are narcissists, my mother is overt one, as she often gets hyper and aggressive. Dad is covert, evergreen victim., and passive aggressive.

@PinkZindagi

Күн бұрын

I can feel your pain and suffering.

Sahi baat 🎉🎉

Yes

100 percentage reasonated

Respected Mam, It's my till date life story but now I have learnt to live life skillfully and peacefully. Life matters, peace matters. Thank you very much.

@PinkZindagi

2 күн бұрын

Very well said👍

Real fact

Ye sirf hamari nhi hamare relatives aur Aaspaas K bahot logo ki story hai .

Meri mother narcissist h aur mujhe college complete krne k baad mujhe lgne lga ki ghar me kuch gadbad h..mere father bhi narcissist h..aapki sir ek ek line nhi ek ek word sach h...mujhe sach toh tb pta lga jb meri life k bohot saal nikal gye...

@veenarao1362

8 күн бұрын

Exactly same my parents. They made a gap between sisters and always my father used to feel happy about it😢

Thank God, meri maa sabki care karti hai, unke liye unke bachhon aur dusre bachho me koi fark nahi, unhone sabko support kiya hai, log unki burayi karte hain fir bhi kabhi kisika bura nahi sochti, she is pure soul, ❤ bhagwan kare narsistic personality disorder se koi bhi maa prabhavit ho vo thik ho jaye 🙏

All points

Hᴀ ɢ ᴀɪsɪ ᴍᴀᴀ ᴅᴜsʀᴏ ᴋᴇ ᴀᴀɢᴇ ᴅᴜᴋʜʀᴀ ʀᴏ ᴋᴇ ᴀᴘɴᴇ ʙᴀᴄʜᴄʜᴇ ᴋᴏ ʜɪ ʙᴜʀᴀ ʙᴀᴛᴀᴛɪ ʜᴀɪ , ᴀᴜʀ ᴅᴜsʀᴇ ɪs ʙᴀᴛ ᴋᴀ ᴋʜᴜʙ ғᴀʏᴅᴀ ᴜᴛʜᴀᴀᴛᴇ ʜᴀɪ , ᴊʙ ᴀᴘɴᴀ sɪᴋᴋᴀ ᴋʜᴏᴛᴀ ʜᴏ ᴛᴏ ᴋʏᴀ ᴋᴀʜᴇ😢

@PinkZindagi

2 күн бұрын

Agree! 👍

Ma'am..sare k sare points match karete h. Meri mother to itni badi Vali nark h ki vo ham bhai-bahano ki sadi b nhi karavana chahati thi yek marriageable age me pahuchne k bad ham sab ne bahut fight Kia h shadi k liye. to bhai log to well settled h apni life me pr me or meri bahen yek toxic family ko chhodi to dusri or b jyada bdi Vali toxic family me phas gaye.or sadi b isi ummeed me Kia tha ki yahan se to achha hi hoga.pr syad hom log unme se h,dukh jinka pichha hi nhi chodta 😢 Pr ab aapse kapi motivation milta h ham apne bachho k sath yesa vyavahar nhi karte..❤😘 Aapna margdarshan yese hi bnaye rakhe..🙏🙏🙏

@PinkZindagi

19 күн бұрын

Oh! My God.. Terrible. ❤

@blackwhite-mt5nj

16 күн бұрын

Meri saas bhi aise hi hai aur apni hi ek beti ko pagal kar chuki hai aur dusri ki shaadi ni hone de rahi hai

@RameshKumarKumar-oz9te

11 күн бұрын

Me bhi is pareshaani ,se gunj rahi hu dear 😢😢😢

@SuperRockstar007

8 күн бұрын

Please make sure you don’t do this to ur kids , trauma usually gets passed on

@sonisk131

3 күн бұрын

Ab bachhe paida karke line mat lga dena kisi Asharam mein chali jao.ya anathayal wha anaath bacho ki sewa karo

Shandaar…

True hr vkt sirf ar sirf mughe dukhi krti rhti h nye nye kaante chubate rhti h

Point 1 ✓✓ Point 2 ✓✓ Point 3 ✓✓ Point 4 ✓✓ Point 5 ✓✓ Point 6 ✓✓ Point 7 ✓✓ Point 8 ✓✓ Point 9 ✓✓ Every point matched

1 se 1 bat 100%. Bat sahi he madam ,me isi life me gujar rahi hu 😢😢😢😢😮

Yes I lived in a fantasy world which was very painful !!!!

Yes Mam, fully resonate

We have same problem with narcissist father

Aapne km shabdo me,km time me ,baat ko idhar udhar na ghumate hue word to word bilkul cleary aasani se smjha dia h ..

@PinkZindagi

15 күн бұрын

Thank you. 🤗

@user-ef1lm5jv3z

8 күн бұрын

@@PinkZindagi please aap grandiose narcissistic father bhi video bnayiye.. baat smjhne me aasani hogi hum sbhi ko

yes all the traits are correct , and I am trying to coming out from this . thank you so much for expressing my life in just one video .God bless you :)

@KrishnaMusic-yz2ku

2 күн бұрын

one big trait is left ..... I explain ....my mother is a monster .she is not a human being . her brothres and sisters are very kind and loving nature . but she is using their love and empathy against her children to destroy their self worth and pure soul . when she came to know that you have started to notice what is she is doing with you she turned the table and played victim to make make her child isolated from everyone she loves and lest her alone . I am on my way to heal . thank you so much !

@PinkZindagi

Күн бұрын

You are so welcome

So truuuuu, Sorry to say everyone but mine one is not less than my enemy 😔

@PinkZindagi

2 күн бұрын

I can understand your emotions.

Me aj bhi sahi me apne trueself ko dhund rahihu

True...

I dont think anything can b more damaging than a narc mother.it completely destroys the child.there is no way out too.accepting and healing one's self takes almost an entire lifetime😢

@PinkZindagi

15 күн бұрын

Absolutely true! 👍

@veenarao1362

8 күн бұрын

I am suffering now after marriage

@poonamray2737

3 күн бұрын

Mene khbi nhi socha ki mere mn ki bat ap btaiygi me bhi bhut presan hu meri ma ne meri life brbad ki

Kudos to you to speak about this topic ❤

@PinkZindagi

13 күн бұрын

Thank you. 👍

Mere liye to sare apke points match kar rahe hai mam meri mother bilkul aisehi hai mere liye ha sab sibling ke sath hai ye mai nahi kah sakti par ye apka video apka channel bahut rahata deti hai thanks for everything mam 🙏🏻🙏🏻

@PinkZindagi

19 күн бұрын

It's my pleasure. ❤

Yes 💯💯 right!!

Mere parents bhi narc hai un logone meri shadi jabardasti ek gharib ke ghar me kardi di. Our fir kuchh mahino bad mere sasural walo ka majak udane lage . Shadi ke 2saal bad mere husband ko government job mil gayi to meri maa mujhe buri sala dene lagi . Aaj mai mere parents ke no contact mai hu our mai bahut khush hu. Magar wo bachpan ki ya do ko kabhi bhula nahi paungi, UN logone mere pura bachpan kharab kiya hai😢

My Mother in law have 2 Sons & 1 daughter...her daughter was born Premature..but she still treats her worst,she treats her Sons like kings & Daughter like maid..Her Daughter loves her so much & this breaks my heart...I feel very helpless because My husband is always abusive..he never take stand for her sister....

So relatable

Meri arrange marriage hui hai 2 saal pehle..unfortunately husband aur saas narcissist hai

Aap ka Video The Best and Real !

@PinkZindagi

7 күн бұрын

Thank you. 👍

Thank you ❤❤❤❤

@PinkZindagi

2 күн бұрын

You're welcome 😊

Mam aapki video bahut acchi hai aapki video mein batai gai har baat correct hai main khud aise situation ko face kar rahi hun😢😢😢😢

@PinkZindagi

Күн бұрын

I am glad that it is reaching the right people.

Great video

@PinkZindagi

2 күн бұрын

Thanks!

Thank you

@PinkZindagi

7 күн бұрын

You're welcome

Mothers are also humans...Humans come in all forms... They can also be narcissistic and a negative person.. Our society and people should change their perception for Mothers..they too can be wrong and bad

@prashantyadav0910

4 күн бұрын

U r right 👍

This is sooo true

U have made awesome content…..

Yes, to be very honest, muze bhi isi type ki narssisist maa nasib huee ... jese upar bataye 85% points match hote he ... jisne muze mentally, emotionally, physically collapse kar diyaa ...

@PinkZindagi

15 күн бұрын

I can understand your pain.

Meri ex saas bilkul aisi hi h jo jo batein apne boli wo sab meri ex saas me h. Mera to divorce ho gaya mere husband se to me to apni saas ke trauma n control se bahar nikal ai but mere ex husband aj bhi apni NARCISSIST mother ke sath suffer ker rahe h.

@winnieamar9368

2 күн бұрын

Same story. Though I'm not divorced yet. Will be soon. Also,I think that my husband too is a covert narc.

Mujhe bahut dukh hai is baat ka... Meri dadi aisi thi... Ghar me ladai lagwati thi

Thanks you❤

@PinkZindagi

2 күн бұрын

My pleasure 👍

Sare points mere se milte hai 😢😢😢😢

Ma'am meri maa ki to mai bahut seva ki lekin meri maa meri bahan ko jyada dhyan deti hai

Agar zindagi main aise maa papa ho to nehi chahiye aisa maa papa nehi chahiye aise rishte akele raho khus raho ghut ghut k nehi jeena thank god mere maa papa aise nehi ha

100 percent true

Finally someone has made a vedio on hindi. Thanks a lot sister.

@PinkZindagi

2 күн бұрын

My pleasure 😊

Mere husband ki mother to unki life ki dushman hai, unko apne bash mein karne ke liye tantriko ke pass jaati hai. Aur unka sara future khrab karti hai. Main kuch nahi ker sakti.

Ye saari qualities meri mom mai h.......

😢

Mare saas susur h ase mam .unhone Hamra jeena haram kar diya

please make video on fearful & anxious attachment style (and their efforts) and permissive & ignoretive parenting style (and their efforts)

My mom is no more but she had all these traits...she spoiled life of all my siblings. All of us are settled in different cities and no one talks to each other. Things are slightly better after her death.

@PinkZindagi

15 күн бұрын

Oh!

@RameshKumarKumar-oz9te

11 күн бұрын

Same to me ,meri life se meri maa pareshan , meri khushi se vo bahut pareshan hai, khete he tum to aapni zindagi me bahut khush ho me bahut dukhi hun,😢😢😢

@melisha4236

19 сағат бұрын

Same

Yh sari cheez mere mumy k under me hai 😢

After marriage ye changes jyada Nazar aate h or admi confused hi rehta h ki kare to kya kare

Har eak shabd sahi aap bahot emotionally bahot strong ho sach me , our bahot mature bhi bahot hi sahi har paoint

@PinkZindagi

19 күн бұрын

Thank you for kind words. 🤗

Ma'am kya ye possible hai jiske parents narcissistic hai dheere dheere unke bache bhi waise ho jate hai

@minazkhan1440

4 күн бұрын

Yes absolutely

@PinkZindagi

2 күн бұрын

No...mostly Woh bacche zyada empathy waale hote hain

Good morning 🌞 mam. How are you? All topics are true. Thanks for this video 😊

@PinkZindagi

19 күн бұрын

My pleasure. 🤗

❤😢😢

I am suffering a lot 20:16

Zadatr esi bimari single mother me jada hoti he kyu ki unke bache hi sb kuch hote he

Aap ka kahna sara sahi hai....Aapke video ki Hame Talash thi . Ham to ishko ek Bimari samajh rahe the......N ....mom ne Apne pote ko Shadi ka Aashirvad Tak nahi Diya aur Duniya se Vida ho gayi...ishko kahten hai Dimag ke Soft ware ki kharabi...!

My mother hv same trets

Hamare khandaan me to generation to generation ye sab Toxicity hai . .. Sirf MAA nhi Sare familiars Aise hai . Koi kisike sath Happy nhi . Kisiko relationship ka meaning hi Nhi pata . Sirf fights . Dharmik hone ka dikhawa b Karte hai . .. Koi family member Puri tarah Sahi nhi .

Nice 👍👍👍👍👍👍 Good suggestion nice 👍 namaste 🙏

@PinkZindagi

7 күн бұрын

Namaste🙏🏻

Mere mother father dono mujhe dukhi karte h m bahut presaan hoo

I am in London and your each words are true❤ specially settling in abroad

@PinkZindagi

2 күн бұрын

Thank you

Narsistic mother ke ye lakshan maine apne ak friend ki maa me dekha usne apne bete bahu ki life barbad kar di

My mom is even worst

Meri mother ने भी मेरी life खराब कर दी 😭

My mother is severely narcissistic mom. She hates me I’m 50but she still hates me I avoid her now but she thinks I’m already پاگل

Mam sari points mujhse match krte h ..aapk videos se bahut help milti h mujhe.. thanku mam ❤ Mam ghr ki badi beti k liye specially 1 video bnaiye mam please..

@PinkZindagi

19 күн бұрын

Very soon.. 👍

My MIL is a narcissist ....she ruined my life

अब जब जिंदगी की शाम ढलने लगी है अब ऐसी वीडियो देख कर akal आ रही है but अब पछताए होत्त क्या जब चिड़िया चुग गई खेत😢😂

pota ne Fin ki bhasha ka prayog kiya ki wo kishi ko bhi nahi chhode ga kyon ki wo jawan hai.bachpan ki baat dun na hi nahi chahta ....koi tulna nahi sunbni kushi ki ....kaha mere me Dimag hai me CS hun ,!

Aisa kaise ho skta hai ki nhi chahti ki bcccha aage bde sarm aani chahiye aisa bolne m

नमस्कार Madam, आपने तो जैसे पूरी ज़िंदगी ही जैसे सामने रख दी, आत्मग्लानि से निकालने के लिए, आपका कोटि कोटि धन्यवाद, आपने इस विषय को जैसे पूरा पूरा रख दिया, कोई भी बात ऐसी नहीँ है जो ना हुई हो, शायद जिस वक्त इस समझ और सीख की ज़रूरत थी, उस वक़्त कोई बता देता तो ज़िन्दगी और बेहतर हो सकती थी, खैर Madam आपने बहुत research करी है लोगों के भविष्य को बचाने की, सादर धन्यवाद

@PinkZindagi

11 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for your kind words. 🤗

Aapki baat bilkul sahi hai 100% meri Maa bhi aisi hai aur meri adhi life sirf unko khush karne me beet gayi bahot der me samajh aya ki wo kabhi khush nahi ho sakti wo mujhe meri behen se bhi dur kar di hai usko bhi wo narcissist bana chuki hai meri Maa mujhse nafrat karti hai 😢 abhi mai stable hun mai unse bikul boundaries bana chuki hun .

@vandanasharma5334

6 күн бұрын

Same here 😭

pagal hote h aise log , itna bura bolte ki khud pr hi doubt hone lgta h ..kvi wpis reply de diya to hungama mcha dete .. mere to bde mama the aur 4 sal se unka sun sunkr m depressed ho chuki thi , khud ko har chiz m galat smjhti bt mahadeo ki kripa se sab smjhne lgi aur thk v ho gye .. ab bilkul unko disturb nh krne deti aur is wjh se wo khilaf v ho gye h aur bki ko v mere khilaf kr diya h bt ab dar nh h mujhe mahadeo mere sath h ..

Hats off to you Ma'am. Nice to see a woman talking on this topic...! For me it is tick in all the boxes... and i thank God for being with me all throughout! He guides me! These NPD so called biological mothers are a real nuisance... its better people educate and learn of these traits and make others aware too. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and helping people ❤

@PinkZindagi

7 күн бұрын

My pleasure. 🤗

मेरी मां मेरी life की सबसे बड़ी दुश्मन निकली सारी अपनी मनमानी की मेरी शादी भी narrcissit आदमी से करवाई जो मुझे मारपीट करता है शक्की है घर से बाहर नहीं निकलने दिया आज तक जिंदगी नरक बना दी मां और husband ने upper से ससुराल वाले भी इन्हीं की मानते हैं 😭😭

Narcissistic mother beats also forcing to do sibling work even if he now big

@PinkZindagi

15 күн бұрын

Agree!

Mam thank you for this video i was suffering with this question from my childhood only.... Today still they are doing the same thing today i found closure. I hope this confusion will end today only. Because I am not wrong i am not bad I want to live my life. i am crying while writing this. I just wanted my mother's empathy towards me. But i am all alone. and surely I am not wrong.

@PinkZindagi

2 күн бұрын

I can feel your pain. 👍

I can help in this type of case …