I just cried watching this

John, I really enjoy your videos. You are down-to-earth and speak from experience, as opposed to just the clinical people that haven't actually experienced what we all have gone through. And, yes, I thoroughly agree that what all we've gone through definitely causes physical ailments, and I especially agree with the adrenal fatigue. Few mention that. Thanks for bringing it up!

Narc abuse is so hard to prove. It is not like domestic abuse or sexual abuse which can be proven . Narc abuse is done so covertly. It is often hard to prove.

Hi john. I wish i could just curl up in bed at home and forget about the world. Narcissistic abuse causes so many problems with health and trusting issues. If i couldnt trust my own family. Who can i trust?

Journaling and Self-affirmation books (Lisa Romano's are excellent) really, really help.

@RJ-hx5nb

5 жыл бұрын

Pfsif. I wish I had journaled from the first day he and I talked on the phone. I will tell you I would have seen the red flags more clearly had I journaled the situations.

@RJ-hx5nb

5 жыл бұрын

John, this video is so true. I also got physically sick after being around the Narc. I knew it was my body talking to me. Go with your gut. Want to be free --≥ be free. John, appreciate your videos ! Truly.

Great video! I can relate to what your saying!!

Hi John - you are such a strong person and awesome mentor. Congratulations with your awakening! And thank you for sharing. I too am a victim - survivor. What do you think about this. It's been my experience that Narcissists often have very poor health. The most severe end of the spectrum being autoimmune diseases...it's almost as if their own cells are trying to kill the evil out of their bodies (which ends up in self-destruction). It's because it's a disorder, a pathology. Narcissists are cut off from their Intuition, Instinct, the Universe, Nature, and Truth. They are project their inner disconnection on world around them in grandiose, fake, manipulative ways....they cannot "go deep" like we can. Instead, their need for supply is paramount over their health which really develops from being a lifelong learner. What's astounding here in America is how big of a business (Or how narcs see it: Busy- ness) MEDICINE is. The Narcissist Doctor, through a lifelong practice of trial and error, knows how to subdue their targets and get them hooked. "Your levels look a bit too high" or "have you thought about this medication?" or the grandiose "I graduated from this medical school here and therefore you should listen to me." Their "bedside manner" makes our brains feel good by releasing oxytocin and so it feels like there is a healing effect - but this is only an illusion. Turn the attention to us. They are like a virus to us. They get in and cut us off from true healing (following our instinct and staying close to our Light, soul, God, etc.). Isn't it incredible how exhausted it feels to be around them? This fact alone solely convinces me of their evil, low frequency, parasitic nature. Anyway, I just wanted to bring up this idea of the unhealthy Narcissist because it does feel like they sometimes are playing an endless game of cat and mouse with their health as they are distracted in their supply networks, to their own detriment. Just wanted to know what you think!

I've got psychotic disorder caused by deep depressed.. then I got medication, it's my last 4 month for 2 years medication and consult with psychologist. I'm 23y old..Now I now why I such a pleaser to anyone. My mom caused that I want to leave!

Hi John !!! I always love your excellent, honest and open common sense videos. Truly you are and have been a friend from afar. When involved for "any time" with these types of individuals or toxic places of work, envoirments etc, .... (or even neighbourhoods) Everything in your life and every aspect of your will start to go to shit !!! Your health, mental wellbeing, emotional wellbeing, psyical and fianical wellbeing will start to collapse slowly and steadly and will accelerate as you make plans to escape. All aspects of bad luck and weird unexplainable events may evenstart to occur. In my own experiences it becomes a deep profound spiritual battle of the highest levels and it doesnt become anybetter the more that battle intensifies. Escape becomes trully a matter life and death in some cases ..... One must seek to strenghten every single aspect of ones self if they can but particulary the mind and body as this is the core area we feel and experience it through !!!! Chronic Depression and extreme stress, isolation, fatigue and hopelessness will overtake you unless you take action and make a plan. " Herbal Gotu Cola health suppliments & CBd oil " is an essiential cheap safe pharmasutical free way to strengten and help combat the deep severe mental emotional stress and depression. Chronic stress, brain fog along with chronic fatigue & tiredness are a huge part of been involved or around such people. Believe and relearn to trust in yourself and look for the right honest validation in the right places/people who truly understand you and the envoirment, person(s) your involved with or upagainst. Be very cautious in dealing with others !!! Trust is an earned respect which must be always tested. Make a plan and work steadly towards escape - find support- protect your mind and guard every aspect of your own personal information as one can. Sharpen your intuition and trust in your gut instincts and red flags ... they never lie.

@JohnWRathwell

5 жыл бұрын

Tauruswinds37. It's good to see your positive wisdom. Your comment should be very helpful to many. If you watched my video on narcissistic doctors, you will understand that I quit that doctor. Referring to PTSD, I am now taking CBD and there's so many positive outcomes with it. Building the immune system up with supplements is something I've done for many years now. I have at least a dozen bottles of different supplements. It's very important for everyone recovering from abuse to know that supplements and diet are very important for recovery. Thanks for your comment.

I had big dreams and s**** parents (Narcs)

@elleeme9451

4 жыл бұрын

Yup. Same boat.

Even adult children,I am a believer ,late 60' s and moved by an atheist son, didn't know the computer was given a tablet and phone disquised as gifts ,both were connected to their desktop 🖥️,they stalked me ,wife and son , I was narcissisticly abused .I can relate ,thank you ,May God abundantly bless you,in Yashua Hamasiach name.

I get really bad itchy skin flare ups, just like you, when I'm under emotional stress. So bad that I have weeping wounds. I suffer from chronic fatigue from the emotional warefare that I can barely get up to go out and buy food or shower. Not because I don't want to, but because I feel so weak that I may fall over if I try to do too much. Yet physically, I'm well and a fit, capable person. It's emotionally that I'm injured and it literally drains me of any physical energy. It's almost spiritual, I would say. I feel like my vital, source energy has been drained.

@russellm7530

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I hear you. They're like Demonic vampires. God bless you and all of us.

thank you for your work John - you are honest and wise. I feel you are my friend and I am less isolated. All the best for You.:)

You are so right sir. I suffer Fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue. Im sure narcisstic abuse caused this.

When i was with my narc birthmom I had alot of chest pain and i stayed sick.I also had depression

I just want to say that I love you sir❤️❤️