“My wife invited her friends to the house to beat me; despite 21 miscarriages” -Oritsefemi-
Oritsefemi has a lot to get off his chest. He says his career has taken a hit because of several people he trusted and loved who hated on him, betrayed him and turned their backs on him.
He responds for the first time in detail to his wife, Nabila who came onto the media to accuse him of cheating on her in their home and having children behind her back.
He says he elevated her from ‘a kiosk’ and changed her life including with a multi-million Naira business but she rewarded him by bringing her friends to beat him up, disrespecting him in public, abusing his children, and colluding with his friends despite standing behind her during her ‘21 miscarriages’.
He has choice words for his former manager Danny and the man they say sponsored his wedding, Otunba Cash. He says the story of the ghastly accident that ‘almost killed him’ was a lie and he shares another version of the events.
From the car he sold to D’banj, to the time he housed Burna Boy in his Lekki home, from his first wife who disappeared on him after he sponsored her abroad to the lawyer Bayo who he accused of scamming him with a wicked contract, he tells a spellbinding tale of going from the streets of Ajegunle to the heights of Afrobeats fame, and slowly seeing his fortunes turn.
This one was heavy.
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Where I come from, oritsefemi is regarded as a legend , big ups big bro
People bashing him for not speaking good english chill abeg...Men go through a lot, if he was fluent he would have exposed so many things...But kudos to him for not exposing too many things, thats how real men do..
@adeyinkasotunde6870
13 күн бұрын
Only if your spiritual eyes can open while this man is narrating al this story then you will know that this guy is under spell while all these are happening. A lot of Nigerians are already dead spiritually. They're like walking corpses that can only boast of worldly intelligence only, and they will never see beyond this.
@giftedchild9490
12 күн бұрын
He was the terror from what I remember
@360Parenting
12 күн бұрын
A lot of people don't understand that being good at communication has nothing to do with speaking good English
@lucasbrasi4625
12 күн бұрын
@@360Parenting ..True That!!
@lucasbrasi4625
12 күн бұрын
@@360Parenting ..True That!!
I was born in Nigeria Lagos ajegunle. This guy was a blessing too ma life. Some of you might not understand what I'm trying to say, but when you were born in that part of Lagos for those of us it was a blessing. Kingman that's you are brother 🤝🤝🤝
Is only in Nigeria, you will be shaming people English as if English is your language. Well educated people abroad here, request for interpreter to speak English for them
@LooksnBeauty_Nesters.Magazine
13 күн бұрын
I tire for them o, but them nor de shame the bad English for his or others music
@adeyinkasotunde6870
13 күн бұрын
Only if your spiritual eyes can open while this man is narrating al this story then you will know that this guy is under spell while all these are happening. A lot of Nigerians are already dead spiritually. They're like walking corpses that can only boast of worldly intelligence only, and they will never see beyond this.
@KingSHK-he1tw
13 күн бұрын
God go bless you bro
@chyke_moni
12 күн бұрын
He has many things to say but doesn’t know how to story tell, his story lacks context…
@kehindeladeji4429
10 күн бұрын
Shows how uneducated people are.
I don't know how else someone can be expressive more than this oo. English or no english his words and the messages it carries were very clear, my pray is God to just heal him physically, psychologically and emotionally bcs he clearly needs the help.
He has so many things to say but doesn’t know how to construct
@chyke_moni
12 күн бұрын
Exactly
@lucasbrasi4625
12 күн бұрын
He would have gone with pidgin, english isnt our forte...I could feel his pain, he also showed restraint by not exposing so many things...It shows that he still loves nabila, i pray he heals..
@user-tm3qm3cm3t
11 күн бұрын
Ogar he tried....so una no understand Wetin dey talk
@olusoweto2156
11 күн бұрын
Construct what Na road project
@tolubrownie
10 күн бұрын
You're so right. Chude was confused as hell trying to catch up with all he has to say cos he just kept jumping from one unfinished scenario to another . I really feel that he had so much to say but didnt know how to put it together properly truly.
The best interview so far because i see Chude interview someone from the Ajengule area. Sometimes i feel the people from the slumps will always want their formal person to be interview. Those of you complaining of this interview should go and hug electric pole. I'm not concluding he's telling the truth in all here but let's accept this Pidgin English and you all should know that English is not out language. I just 🏃♂️ to sub.
My best episode yet. Enjoy the raw honest conversations with Oritsefemi. Good job
@olatunjishowole100
13 күн бұрын
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Learn a lesson from this. I dated my husband for 7yrs.one the day of traditional wedding, I became scared & wanted out. But, I was told it was normal & they urged me on. And yes! I should have opted out. Whenever you feel this way, no matter how close d wedding is once, u feel that nudge to opt out, have a rethink.
@fatfarmers7360
14 күн бұрын
You dated for seven years and didn't opt out during the seven years until the day of the traditional marriage. Something must be wrong with you. All through the seven years you didn't see anything wrong with him, it was on the day of the traditional marriage you saw it? Okey. The problem is you and not the man.
@EverestEbuka
13 күн бұрын
It's will always be cool if women are the one opt-in out but if na men , haaaaa
@hustleempire6663
6 күн бұрын
@@EverestEbukaThat's spot on..That's because most women are selfish by default, its how they are wired! Most women even believe leaving a marriage in pursuit of exploring and having fun is female liberation and empowerment, but the moment a man even thinks that way, he is termed an irresponsible man who abandoned his family😂
@matthewonyeka6867
17 сағат бұрын
Confused woman
I’m not even Nigerian but this interview looks good. I’m so intrigued
@chyke_moni
12 күн бұрын
Yes but it lacks construct… he wasn’t fully open
English is not a measure of ones intelligence though.
@mayowaoyedokun9828
14 күн бұрын
The guy isn't speaking straight English but anyone that listens should understand what he's saying
This interview made me like this guy more is pure and genuine
Guys!!!!! Before you take a sacrifice or go out of your way to do something for a woman, make sure she is not an ingrate, make sure she is not something that you can't do for another person 10 times over, and make sure she is not taking the relationship as a means of survival, not only women including men also, before she go stand look you say what have you done for me.
Lmao I don't think Chude has ever been this confused about an interview
@kellzugor
14 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@bogblessblessed3828
12 күн бұрын
Best comment ever! 😊
@olajumokefaith2487
12 күн бұрын
😅😅😅
@timothyseyi1943
12 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@MusaMuhammad-ii4nf
12 күн бұрын
Na comment wey I dey find b this 😂
This one na street marriage God Abeg Oriste Femi Dey stressed. Life Dey stress am Eyah
@ayoolahalimat9944
14 күн бұрын
I swear he don change very sad
@michelleannie7734
13 күн бұрын
😞 so sad
Wetin dey happen oritse femi don dey on collos
True true wedding no be marriage. Dis their wedding was same day as BankyW/Adesua destination wedding. I remember people say dey go attend his own dat enjoyment go dey pass Banky own.
Some people should be interviewed in their fluent language. This was confusing to say the least, but its obvious the guest had something to say.
@nelsonamen1704
12 күн бұрын
Alright miss Britain
If you no fit update the complete video for KZread make we watch forget about it
@luckyomo6100
14 күн бұрын
He want us to subscribe and pay, it’s 4$ monthly.
@sandraharuna8405
14 күн бұрын
Na only 1 person go screen record am put am up nonsense 🙄
Kai, men going through stuffs but we not ready for that discussion yet 👐
@user-jp8jq3up7e
13 күн бұрын
So wen will u people be ready for the discussion wen u are dead or u have used ur past experiences to destroy the genuine people in ur lives. Weldon strong man
This man is pained
Half baked interview won't force or make people to subscribe to your channel. In fact, it will make people to angrily unsubscribe. It's only when you give out full interview and people get satisfied with it that's when they will want to subscribe in other to get more content. Why will i want to subscribe to a channel that doesn't give full interview or cunningly try to force people to subscribe with half gist? It doesn't work for me.
@fanirangideon.g2166
14 күн бұрын
lol why u dey vex
@Melissathebrand
14 күн бұрын
@@fanirangideon.g2166 I wonder too oooo😂😂😂😂
@teedbeatz
13 күн бұрын
I am certain that the number of subscribers will shock you. Since you think you know what works and what doesn’t. It is his sweat and he will distribute it anyhow he wants.
@chiinspires_Consult
11 күн бұрын
Tomorrow 5Pm
@freemangrace355
11 күн бұрын
If you don't like his channel, you can leave. Open your own channel and interview people, I will subscribe and watch you. Idiots everywhere writing nonsense.
Chude had to bring on all his expertise to hold this interview down. 😂😂😂😂😂 Excellent Interview skills even under chaotic circumstances @Chude.
Me wey Dey listen taya for the whole interview. It was stressful to watch. Chai!
We need the full interview
Love your wife,a command from God, she has her faults, just do ur own part,keep her away from too many people, u are so much admired by many, we love ur songs, don't forget devil may want to use her against u, But loving her will conquer it all. God bless you.
For those of you bashing this guy in this comment sections.....your elder brother,younger brother,your son will encounter what the guy face in thy mighty name of God](AMEEN]).
This Man seated here is a legend! Apamaaaa Sweege!
I never got finish one complete statement to comprehend
@rotimilalemi2206
12 күн бұрын
Its understandable based on what you typed 🤨
After subscription,you don’t put up the full interview,is it not better to unsubscribe?
Post full video werey
Omo 😪
Orisetfemi I like him even if he can't speak well.i love his music
The Eagle and the Crow" is a fable about a crow that sits on an eagle's back and bites its neck. The eagle doesn't fight back, but instead opens its wings and flies higher. The higher the eagle flies, the harder it is for the crow to breathe. Eventually, the crow runs out of energy and falls. The fable illustrates the idea that wit and wisdom can be more valuable than physical power.
Such a chaotic interview
@victoro_oladutemu8594
14 күн бұрын
very chaotic! 😂
@michaelchilaka3113
14 күн бұрын
Oga stop that, because he can't speak English doesn't make the interview chaotic. Everybody must not know English even in the public space
@victoro_oladutemu8594
14 күн бұрын
It's not even about his English 😅 His English was clear enough
@crossjoe1142
13 күн бұрын
Because are English is not good to you? Is English your language? Chude did well to also invite Ajengule guy to speak so it won't look like he loves only educated people. Let's appreciate pidgin too.
@giftedchild9490
12 күн бұрын
Lies too much 😂😂😂
Una Dey craze wey Dey bash this guy!! Okpa Dey una head!! Block heads
Nabila and Femi are a mismatch and should have never married. imagine saying she was driving a Honda Civic, whats wrong with that? Marriage should elevate you and not downgrade you. People can still be civil after a divorce. The mudslinging by both parties isnt necessary. He said he only wanted a son not marriage, if both parties want different things, they had no business getting married.
@adeyinkasotunde6870
13 күн бұрын
Only if your spiritual eyes can open while this man is narrating al this story then you will know that this guy is under spell while all these are happening. A lot of Nigerians are already dead spiritually. They're like walking corpses that can only boast of worldly intelligence only, and they will never see beyond this.
@marthaikio5023
13 күн бұрын
Word.
@olatunjiahmed5286
13 күн бұрын
Have you heard what she said in daddy freeze or fridge😅 live?
I understand all he said but there was a lot of pause coz he weighed it in his mind n decided against it ….. that’s why it felt confusing…. But listen before u get the urge to comment
You can tell his telling lot of truth is good to talk out people
Chai, wetin do oritsefemi like this. He use to be favourite those days.
Oga post full video if not we know go watch you again oo
He looks very different. Not looking good😢😮
@fatfarmers7360
14 күн бұрын
Drugs.
@ekwevie
11 күн бұрын
It's Nabila oooo
Man dey go through alot but man nor be story teller
Nawa o I pity English for Oritse Femi's mouth. But I don't know why I'm feeling like something is wrong with him, he's lean and not talking straight as if.... May God help you and heal you bro. One love❤
@akwaraomamuyovwi2565
13 күн бұрын
The way some of you just come online and write nonsense When is it written that you must speak english to survive abeg leave him alone.🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@laiclove8596
13 күн бұрын
Nothing bad interview understood
@qudusayoola8326
12 күн бұрын
I don't even find it difficult to understand at all... Ur type are just fund of forming class..
I can't wait my best Artiste and mentor is here
Subscription is quite difficult,I don't know if it's the card I'm using
Nawa ooo so this marriage didn't last as supposed. No be me talk am that time oooo
God of mercy this is deep!
Can 2 walk together except they agree? The incompatibilty in orientation, the purpose of the marriage destroyed the foundation.
Drugs is dangerous
@beautifultiana6578
14 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 y r u lai this?
@user-we7gn6bl1x
13 күн бұрын
Stop this na but his is making sense!
@qudusayoola8326
12 күн бұрын
Until life hit u.. We self go dey here
@kehindeajayi5228
4 күн бұрын
What's your problem sir/ma?
A lot is going on. Peace be unto you both
Why can't u put the full episodes here, at least KZread would pay u., not everyone has the ability to pay...
This Nabila looks to classy for this guy… see Oritsefemi hyping himself oooh… lmao.. this guy is just contradicting himself…. He first said she was an Uber driver?? then later said she was working in multichoice… I thought I had also heard that she was his music manager abi producer?? Caroline don receive receive stray bullet, I didn’t even know she marriage Tagbo.. really? Oritsefemi claims Caroline called him a diamond in the rough.. Pls how did these women get entangled with this kind of razzoid?? This interview is so chaotic.. See Oritsefemi dey claim he made someone, as if he’s made himself…These two do not fit each other… Everyone, especially women need to be more intentional about who they marry…What a rubbish!
@akwaraomamuyovwi2565
13 күн бұрын
Foolish statements Who the fuck is caroline and Nabila,didnt Danjuma caroline ex divorced her....stop this childish statement coz oritsefemi is richer than you and doesn't knw if u exist sef....Good riddance to bad rubbish
@qudusayoola8326
12 күн бұрын
In are typing rubbish 😂🤣... Nobody even took u serious, abeg delete am
@dhandy4359
11 күн бұрын
Money bro. Women don't care about your class, especially when they're trying to milk you of your money to make way for themselves. They'll even kiss frog. Dey play o.
Oga STOP it! Did I hear u say daddy freeze no get money that u have more money than DF??? They play...Abeg DF na dangerous millionaire! DF get money pass u...
This is incomplete
Me i understood everything that he said and some he couldn't say because he was trying to protect the image of the woman.peace
Abeg wehtin do Oritse femi? I barely recognized him...God pls come thru for him🙏
@qudusayoola8326
12 күн бұрын
Na marriage oo.. I see reason why majority of those musician always opt for baby mama's... Na d result be this oo
Poor Nabila, what's happening here? Men were chilling with your wife and your arrested them????
This guy has so many things to say hnmmmmmm life!😢😢😢
Where’s the complete video
@WithChude
14 күн бұрын
Please visit watch.withchude.com for the full episode
I hear i dipscover 😂😂😂 abi wetin i hear
Miscarriagement 😢😢😮😮
@gbeduweydeykillvirus
13 күн бұрын
You are a full 🤣🤣
@olajumokefaith2487
12 күн бұрын
😊😮😅😅😅
The Vidio is not complete
Omo this interview confuse me oh
Matter plenty. Talk plenty to talk
Make we no lie this our former celeb is high on ice aje 😢
@samayaafrica2137
11 күн бұрын
You are the one high on ice not him
@kehindeajayi5228
4 күн бұрын
Rubbish talk, toyin!
Please how do I watch the complete video, that is Elewo crooner right there..
@WithChude
14 күн бұрын
Please visit watch.withchude.com or listen.withchude.com for the full podcast.
21 miscarriages wtf
Femo Lala ti fe slay mama !!!
@LooksnBeauty_Nesters.Magazine
13 күн бұрын
Hahahahaha please leave me alone
Say No to drugs!
@victoriaossai5
13 күн бұрын
Stop it .let people be free to voice out without u guys placing it as drugs stop it
@user-we7gn6bl1x
13 күн бұрын
U sound like you are too
From what I remember this man was the one oppressing his wife .. bringing different women home...hmmn who is lying now? He is a talented artist though...he dropped nice tracks. His English is not that bad why are people complaining?
The pregnant fell aaaahhh😂
Ki 😮
Belle fall how ?😅
Hmmm ! I want to believe dat Oritsefemi endured a lot in dat marriage o ! It's not easy @ all
Are you sure she did not purposefully Dey take pills to commot am… Hmmmm
him grammar gimme joy
"When you are in a healthy and fulfilling relationship, negativity will no longer have a hold on you."
FIRST he said she was an Uber driver, then later she was working in multichoice earning peanuts a distinction holder? ...fawlch
@DvineExploration
13 күн бұрын
I tire na Ice deh make I talk rubbish
@BB-wd4ly
13 күн бұрын
You re not following the storyline properly . He said she was driving Uber ,technically at the same time working at multichoice. People do 2 jobs in nigeria . Femi ain't on ice ...
@damilarebalogun5798
13 күн бұрын
She Dey drive Uber car meaning she was driving a small car , not big car - he didn’t say she was doing Uber ..
@WilledWest
13 күн бұрын
@@DvineExploration 😂
@WilledWest
13 күн бұрын
@@BB-wd4ly Nah Nah Nah
Say NO to DRUGS. Orisefemi don turn to Mr SHALAYEHHH😊😊😊😊
THEY BEAT ME UP 😂
Who is a social woman sir ???
Whats the essence of subscribing when its all half backed.. oga go and sleep
We can't subscribe because your videos no dey complete bro
From the few things we heard so far, it seems Nabila na like Wunmi (Mohbad's case). But his friends no try ooo, the least they could have done was to tell him the history of the girl he wanted to settle down with. Complete street girl. Again, the 21 miscarriages na suspect, they are probably self-induced. Maybe she get eyes for street or don get another offer elsewhere. Things dey happen sha!
Drop d full video na
@WithChude
14 күн бұрын
Please visit watch.withchude.com or listen.withchude.com for the full podcast.
Egede won gbaga
How do I subscribe ooooo. I don't have ATM card
@WithChude
13 күн бұрын
We apologize. For now, we do not have an alternative to ATM card
Lenged run for your life ooo
Tagbo married Caroline? When? ahh I've never been so confused by an interview in my lifeee
@user-we7gn6bl1x
13 күн бұрын
Watch again to understand dear
2:40 I just wan gbaga! I don laugh tire 😁😁😁😁
English na our language abeg make una go drink ogogoro joor his speaking our nigerian language ❤
God have mercy hmm
But why dont you like to put up complete videos,some of us are outside Nigeria ,we want to follow but this is a half baked cake...so what do we do? Unsubscribe?
@reginaj.a.m9492
14 күн бұрын
He wants people to pay to watch it on his personal platform. Mtcheeew
@soniaberry8132
14 күн бұрын
U have to pay to watch the full video
@brafyking2924
14 күн бұрын
He wants to make double portion 😅😅 Dstv subscription + Chude subscription + Netflix monthly
@preciousokereke5656
14 күн бұрын
I just tire
@Reyblinkx_vmt
14 күн бұрын
On Netflix???
Anything you do, don't do dr. Ugs
We wlll not subscribe...Nedu go run better interview for us...chop your half video
Social person means a person who knows a lot of people 😅😅😅😅😅😅I like such people I come from the ghetto so I understand 😂
I fear who never still fear women 🤦🤦🤦
He just has a lot of stuff to divulge.
The comment section tho….all them talks….and y’all can’t even stand in front of a camera….make we hear word….the ones wey Dey complain say baba nor sabi speak English….una papa nah English man???