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My Unplanned Pregnancy Story *EMOTIONAL* | Episode 1

Hi guys! I shared my story briefly last year of my unplanned pregnancy, but wanted to share more in detail of everything I went through, my struggles and lessons I learned along the way. I'm also not saying what anyone should or shouldn't do if they were in my situation- this is simply my story being retold.
If you had a similar situation or are going through it right now, I would love to know in the comments. I found it helpful knowing I wasn't alone by hearing others' stories and hoping my story can do the same for you.
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  • @brittanyxavier
    @brittanyxavier3 жыл бұрын

    If you liked this video, make sure to check out the 2nd episode in the series - kzread.info/dash/bejne/rId-3JiQna7RZbA.html

  • @rebekah3483

    @rebekah3483

    2 жыл бұрын

    This was so hard for you to tell obviously, I'm sorry for this! I know your story will/or has impact(ed) many though! Thank you for being brave and doing this!

  • @katietafolla3341
    @katietafolla33413 жыл бұрын

    as a teenager (14 yrd girl) this really did open up my eyes to never settle for less. and have a good support team to rely on.

  • @brittanyxavier

    @brittanyxavier

    3 жыл бұрын

    aww I love this!! Yes never settle 💞

  • @sushilsharma4202

    @sushilsharma4202

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@brittanyxavier I don't want to sound cynical, but consider yourself lucky that you met your husband. Majority of the guys won't date single mothers tbh.

  • @Lilly-hh9es

    @Lilly-hh9es

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sushilsharma4202 l wouldn’t to

  • @j.e.3470

    @j.e.3470

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sushilsharma4202 If you listen to the video carefully, you'll see that she mentions having guy friends, going to parties quite a lot while being with her boyfriend, and places where guys go. 11:11 "there was a pool party and I was gonna go" :) It's a matter of probability. The more you're surrounded by men, the more chances you'll have to find someone. The more time you spend with them, the more you learn how to behave and attract them. Experience. :) Practice makes perfect. Lots of single moms just focus on their kids and work and then complain about why they cannot find someone. They don't do the work. They are blessed though with spending every free sec with their kid, which is in my opinion, the best time spent. No man in the world can compete with that. :)

  • @yaneli6049

    @yaneli6049

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sushilsharma4202 that’s rude

  • @Sazan
    @Sazan3 жыл бұрын

    I’ll never forget the day you shared this story with me. 😭 So many young girls look up to you and I know your truth is going to inspire so many. Jadyn is blessed to have a strong, courageous and loving mama like you! You’re the best. Love you britt!

  • @brittanyxavier

    @brittanyxavier

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aww thank you so much, love you Sazan! 😘

  • @mary_baylie_playss2613

    @mary_baylie_playss2613

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg tht is so sweet of you

  • @mary_baylie_playss2613

    @mary_baylie_playss2613

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@brittanyxavier omg u are the best mom even u never gave up I’m so happy for u u find your love of the life

  • @jordinmeredith
    @jordinmeredith3 жыл бұрын

    Wow, your story is really a testimony. You booking that shoot was such a clear message from God. I’m so glad to see your success and you’re such a beautiful mommy!!

  • @brittanyxavier

    @brittanyxavier

    3 жыл бұрын

    💞💞💞

  • @simonex8665

    @simonex8665

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes very clear sign from God!!

  • @laurenjohnson3600

    @laurenjohnson3600

    3 жыл бұрын

    Couldn’t have said it any better. You’re a hero for sharing your story. ❤️

  • @ruthe.6975

    @ruthe.6975

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree! God aligned all the signs for her.

  • @Lyndamariee
    @Lyndamariee3 жыл бұрын

    I can relate in so many ways. I had my son when I was 15 years old. He's now 20 and in college. It wasn't easy and I don't recommend being a teen parent. But, I can proudly say he's one of my greatest accomplishments.

  • @yesthat9194

    @yesthat9194

    3 жыл бұрын

    lots of love and power

  • @tuathadesidhe1530

    @tuathadesidhe1530

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yep, I was 17 and my son is now 26 - so proud of the young man he is today, I wish the nasty midwives could see how he turned out.

  • @ishootbishez6974

    @ishootbishez6974

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg y’all are bosses

  • @potato1084

    @potato1084

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m 20 and expecting 🥳😭

  • @Vero2yu

    @Vero2yu

    Жыл бұрын

    Protection is the key to avoid pregnancy.

  • @teobateo9535
    @teobateo95353 жыл бұрын

    You are so brave for sharing and I feel like this will help a lot of young moms :)

  • @brittanyxavier

    @brittanyxavier

    3 жыл бұрын

    💞💞

  • @ciaradunne2737

    @ciaradunne2737

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are so brave for sharing you are a true inspiration :)

  • @BelekKarma
    @BelekKarma3 жыл бұрын

    I had my baby when I was 21, I'm turning 23 next month and I know exactly how you felt:( I cried my eyes out watching this. I also started dating my first boyfriend at 19, he was very abusive and toxic to me. Luckily now we've separated and I have my little baby girl

  • @Kimberlooo

    @Kimberlooo

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow me and you have the exact same situation. Love my baby girl to death💓 I'm 24 now & she will be 2 this month🥺

  • @claudiaespinosanchez2321

    @claudiaespinosanchez2321

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙏❤️❤️❤️🙌🙌🙌😍😍😍

  • @brittanyxavier

    @brittanyxavier

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amazing! So happy that you were able to separate yourself from that relationship and realize that wasn't the best situation for you and your baby ❤️

  • @sariahjayd738
    @sariahjayd7383 жыл бұрын

    I’m 4 months pregnant, and I went through a very similar experience. I’m also 19... so your story inspires me so much. I look up to you so much. Thank you for this 💙 I love you! Thank you.

  • @sariahjayd738

    @sariahjayd738

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m also having a daughter. So this feels so personal to me.

  • @user-mm7se7ei3y

    @user-mm7se7ei3y

    3 жыл бұрын

    i’m sure your going to be a great mom 🥰

  • @Lilbit0912

    @Lilbit0912

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m 22w5d so 5.5 months, I’m also having a daughter and I decided to keep my baby, I honestly didn’t even really consider an abortion. My ex was also controlling, narcissistic, and extremely emotionally manipulative, so I ended things. I plan to file for sole custody.

  • @victoriaobermann3811

    @victoriaobermann3811

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kira Dunlap praying for you and your baby! You’re going to be a great momma!!! 💗

  • @Lilbit0912

    @Lilbit0912

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@victoriaobermann3811 thank you so much :)

  • @emmawiener5068
    @emmawiener50683 жыл бұрын

    She looks so much like Dua Lipa

  • @tehilamistriel7705

    @tehilamistriel7705

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ya

  • @Riosvera

    @Riosvera

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dua looks like her*

  • @_moesha_xx

    @_moesha_xx

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have always thought this

  • @angelasanginito3219

    @angelasanginito3219

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been looking comments like these and finally someone else noticed too

  • @israelleskinner8819

    @israelleskinner8819

    3 жыл бұрын

    She looks like a mix of Dua and J-Lo

  • @marypasi
    @marypasi3 жыл бұрын

    i’m really proud of u for opening this up with us!!

  • @saraalkharashi3228

    @saraalkharashi3228

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me to ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @ashleye.7438
    @ashleye.74383 жыл бұрын

    I was in an extremely abusive relationship back in high school (16-18 years old). I couldn’t help but choke up when you mentioned he locked you in his room, because my ex would lock me in his bathroom and take my phone and keys so I couldn’t leave or call anyone for help. Hearing how you felt embarrassed and ashamed because you always deemed yourself a strong independent person resonates with me so much. Even now 10 years later I still carry the shame of that relationship and the things I would do out of fear, and his threats. It’s something that still affects me, and I finally decided to seek therapy for. However seeing I’m not alone, and someone like you share this is very impactful specially as an influencer. I find most influencers seem or come off as having this “perfect life” and I know everyone has issues, I get that but that’s not the IG portrayal right? Who wants to share their struggles right? It takes a completely different level of courage to share those things, but thank you for doing so. It helps to know and see that public figures are more relatable than we think, and in a way helps me be less ashamed of my story if you can share it with millions of people. Sometimes the toughest life lessons, although we don’t see it then can bring the biggest rewards down the line for you Jayden and Anthony.

  • @kirstenmagdalena9310
    @kirstenmagdalena93103 жыл бұрын

    Wow thank you so much for being so courageous and opening up. Being a 19 year old and thinking 'I don't want my kid to grow up with a guy like him' and knowing you should get away is such a sign of strength.

  • @MissGourmandefr

    @MissGourmandefr

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @love74music
    @love74music3 жыл бұрын

    Can I just say how refreshing and amazing it is to hear you admit that you were ‘naive’ and admit things like ‘you thought it was below you for this to happen’ - wow. You’re inspiring xx sending love

  • @meghangossett3091
    @meghangossett30913 жыл бұрын

    I had a five year relationship like this when I was 20. He forced me to get an abortion and was the most horrible experience. These relationships are so traumatizing. I'm so glad that you were able to move past this and had your family/friends support

  • @lisahinze6629
    @lisahinze66293 жыл бұрын

    You are such a strong woman and so brave for sharing this on here! :) You can be so proud of the family you have now and Anthony being the man that you deserved in the first place. Wish you guys all the love in this world and looking forward for part 2!

  • @brittanyxavier

    @brittanyxavier

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aw thank you so much!

  • @yuukiasame
    @yuukiasame3 жыл бұрын

    It’s hard getting away from someone who has such a strong emotional hold on you. I applaud you for having the strength to move on past it.

  • @andygarcia9311
    @andygarcia93113 жыл бұрын

    I just left a terribly toxic relationship where this also happened (without the pregnancy). Thank you so much for sharing your story. I feel less lonely

  • @WeEducateAndTutor
    @WeEducateAndTutor3 жыл бұрын

    I can feel how difficult it is for you to speak about this😔I really pray for your healing from these dark times♥️ you’re wonderful and strong for sharing this and for raising a beautiful child x

  • @lemonita347
    @lemonita3473 жыл бұрын

    I am SO sorry you were abused like this let alone at all. I am so sorry. You are so strong and resilient and a real inspiration of strength for SO many women. Thank you for sharing your story

  • @alicecullenator22
    @alicecullenator223 жыл бұрын

    hearing you talk about your dating situation was really scary. I had a VERY similar situation back when I was 19 and dated a narcissist who was 26. he turned me away from my friends and family, was super controlling, and a whole lot of other things that I'm still coming to terms with today. So glad you were able to get out and find love

  • @miywws

    @miywws

    3 жыл бұрын

    Girl glad you're fine! I feel like guys older than 24 dating 18-19yos are often red flags. Similar experiences ....

  • @alicecullenator22

    @alicecullenator22

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@miywws thank you! After getting into a healthy relationship there was a lot of inner work to undo all the things that I "thought" was the way relationships were supposed to be like. I'm actually in a really healthy 3 year relationship now!

  • @skyadams3258
    @skyadams32583 жыл бұрын

    Your gender reveal and other pregnancy videos I just watched makes me feel so much more emotional now because you had the control this time to tell your parents exactly the way you wanted, that is so powerful. I never realized how powerful that is until hearing that was taken away from you. For you to have wanted so badly this time to be pregnant with the love of your life, and you receiving, just wow girl🥺💕✨💕✨💕 hearing this story and then reflecting on the those other moments for you I just watched really has me thinking just wow ✨

  • @huluuluoo4431
    @huluuluoo44313 жыл бұрын

    So brave that you are accepting yourself who’d been through all the things that you didn’t and couldn’t even imagine. acceping unimaginable myself is so brave

  • @vpang6317
    @vpang63173 жыл бұрын

    Brittany your emotion and honesty and detail, although so heartbreaking to see you re-live was so beautiful. I have never seen this side of you from following you/your videos for so long. You’ve clearly come so far and it’s amazing to see the life you created for yourself after hitting such a scary low. I admire/respect you SO MUCH more after watching this. THANK YOU!!!!

  • @AlmaMejia95
    @AlmaMejia953 жыл бұрын

    This is just an example that God makes NO mistakes and will eventually lead you to the right path🙏 You're so brave and thank you for sharing this❤

  • @watermelonsavannah

    @watermelonsavannah

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen x

  • @_ilovekpop_thanku5125

    @_ilovekpop_thanku5125

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @VictoriaHuiTheLustListt
    @VictoriaHuiTheLustListt3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for having the strength to share your story so publicly. I'm confident that you're helping so many others by knowing that they aren't alone and that you rose up from this and reclaimed your life to build such a beautiful and loving family

  • @kelseywalker5728
    @kelseywalker57283 жыл бұрын

    What a strong, badass momma bear!!! You and Jayden were truly made for each other, God and the stars aligned for the two of you!!!💗💞

  • @kerrimarie
    @kerrimarie3 жыл бұрын

    girl i know how you feel youre so strong! i was raped freshman year and never told my parents until my sister brought it up the following year at the beach and i was so scared and sad but youre strong and beautiful and young and you are inspiring young woman!

  • @mozhangashteh639
    @mozhangashteh6393 жыл бұрын

    Im so stressed *drinks le croix* Mood 😂 Just wanted to put a boost comment❤️ love u britt

  • @brittanyxavier

    @brittanyxavier

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha 😹😹

  • @nicolassamaniego1118
    @nicolassamaniego11183 жыл бұрын

    I’ve a similar life to yours! I was so naive, and I’m the oldest of 5 siblings, thought I was invincible but the life happens, I wish I were brave enough to share my story but I feel so thankful to you for hearing this ❤️

  • @nicolecmoucheron
    @nicolecmoucheron3 жыл бұрын

    This is so heartbreaking yet so heartwarming, thank you for opening up. You’re very strong and thank you so much truly for being so raw and open. To anyone who’s in a similar situation, whatever you decide to do, is what’s right for you, no matter what others do or say. We need more kind people. Have a good day💛

  • @drydenmadi
    @drydenmadi3 жыл бұрын

    My gosh Brittany. This made me so emotional. You’re so brave, and such a wonderful human with a wonderful family. I love you, and thank you for telling your story. ❤️

  • @martinarossi5575
    @martinarossi55753 жыл бұрын

    I honestly got so emotional watching this video. I was surprised at how you told this first part of your story in such a raw and unfiltered way. You explained how the idea of pregnancy was not at all in your plans and yet the universe sent you a signal to make you realize that having your baby was instead the best choice you were ever going to make. It always happens like this. Maybe at first we don’t understand what the universe has in store for us and why it often makes us learn through such difficult experiences, but most of the time, in the end, everything becames clear to us when we then realize that it is precisely through these difficult experiences that we can reach the purest form of happiness and joy of living, and that is exactly what you now have with your family. Powerful story and even more powerful woman. 🤍 sending you lots of love from Italy x

  • @fayalasfour3444
    @fayalasfour34443 жыл бұрын

    THIS IS SO BRAVE OF YOU TO SHARE, strong woman

  • @JijiTheKat
    @JijiTheKat3 жыл бұрын

    I was in a mentally & emotionally abusive relationship for 4 years, back when I graduated college 2012, I ended the relationship in November 2015. I had all the red flags, all the signs that was telling me “‘no, you need to get out of this” but he would apologize for saying terrible things to me. He would say he’d try to change and make it up to me, but that never happened. He called me dumb & stupid, make fun of me, getting jealous, argue about what happened in the past, he was always starting the argument to a point where we were yelling at each other. Looking back, like you said, I was naive, I knew the red flags were there. I couldn’t end it because I felt that I had already put so much time and effort into the relationship, I didn’t want to start over. I also felt that he has accepted me for who I was (unfortunately it was all just his words) I didn’t think I’d find someone better. I watched your video on Tiktok, and was curious to hear your story, and I appreciate that you decided to share yours. I understand that you felt disgusted, I felt disgusted about myself after my friends and family telling me it’s not good for me, me ignoring the signs. I felt ashamed an all but I felt so relieved, and learned a lot through my experience as well.

  • @esa15
    @esa153 жыл бұрын

    i've been subscribed for a while, but now more than ever i realise how incredibly brave you are for sharing your story! i'm so glad i look up to such a strong woman 💙

  • @giuseppinastella9310
    @giuseppinastella93103 жыл бұрын

    I had an abortion at 19 and i don’t regret it but the emotional pain is so relatable and I’m so sorry you went through it ❣️

  • @Lilbit0912

    @Lilbit0912

    3 жыл бұрын

    She didn’t go through with it though.

  • @aboundinggrace7029

    @aboundinggrace7029

    3 жыл бұрын

    "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life" John 3:16 Jesus Loves you, REPENT

  • @m_7441

    @m_7441

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@aboundinggrace7029 be tolerant and remove your unwelcome judgment.

  • @sophiagranados2484

    @sophiagranados2484

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@aboundinggrace7029 do not go around judging women who have abortions you are in no place to tell her what’s wrong and what isn’t

  • @user-op5xz2jt3m

    @user-op5xz2jt3m

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@aboundinggrace7029 shut up

  • @solitairequeen420
    @solitairequeen4203 жыл бұрын

    i went through something similar in college. and i wanted to keep everything from my parents as well, but they ended up finding out through something i had no control over. i was so scared to disappoint them and i know they were a little disappointed but parents really love us more than anything and will do anything for us

  • @meridsle6765
    @meridsle67653 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry for the bad things that happened. Thank you for sharing the story with us. I’m really proud of you. We know it wasn’t easy for you to share this, but it’s gonna help many people. You are a wonderful mother to Jadyn. Love you, have a good day❤️ sending blessings i’m subscribed😽

  • @greenylee8227
    @greenylee82273 жыл бұрын

    Such a firm believer in everything happens for a reason! Thank you for sharing your story 💕

  • @lilykirby9503
    @lilykirby95033 жыл бұрын

    I’ve rewatched this again because of how inspiring you are such a strong independent women that you are!Jadyn is super lucky to have such a great mum!💕💞💓

  • @rachelallen6113
    @rachelallen61133 жыл бұрын

    Sharing your story is so brave I can’t even imagine, you are such a strong and positive women!

  • @Jadaabug
    @Jadaabug3 жыл бұрын

    You know what... I really wish I could see your ex right now! THE FACT THAT HE TRIED TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR AGAIN YOUR BODY IS NOT OK!!! I’m so happy that you got through this!! You are such an amazing and strong women! And Jayden is going to be just like you🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @I_am_Lace
    @I_am_Lace3 жыл бұрын

    Girl, I know your pain all too well & my heart breaks for what you went through. I met my husband of 19 years when I was 19 years old. Three months into our relationship, I had a surprise pregnancy following a round of antibiotics making my birth control fail. Now, here I am 4 daughters & 19 years later & as of two weeks ago, I finally worked up the courage to end my emotionally & psychologically abusive marriage. It's scary & overwhelming but the sense of peace I now have is greater than I could have ever anticipated. I appreciate you sharing your story & admire your courage. Thanks so much!! 💌 Much Love from Oklahoma 💌

  • @KarenGarcia-yb7yc
    @KarenGarcia-yb7yc3 жыл бұрын

    Wow, I have literal goosebumps! There is no doubt in my mind that photo shoot was God sent! You were destined to be Jadyn’s mom ❤️

  • @meliais8698
    @meliais86983 жыл бұрын

    I'm a random viewer and this is the best video I've watched in my entire life. I'm 28 years old and I think I share pretty traits as you (always trying to be independent, confident,etc) so when you say "you were so embrassed", I completely understand what you must have felt (although there's no way I could ever imagine when you had to go through). Thanks for sharing this video, you're so brave, so beautiful, and you are above and beyond of all these experiences you've had so far. You've done nothing wrong, nothing's your fault. You felt embrassed so much because you have really high sense of moral values 🥰 so much respect for you, all the way from Australia

  • @brittanyxavier

    @brittanyxavier

    3 жыл бұрын

    💞

  • @rye5867
    @rye58673 жыл бұрын

    That’s all GOD! Such a strong mama! Your daughter is so blessed to have you for LIFE 💗

  • @viensdutrys4524
    @viensdutrys45243 жыл бұрын

    Very interesting story! Its proud to look at such a strong and brave woman like you! Love you, Brittany! ❤️🥰

  • @evangelinarodriguez3792
    @evangelinarodriguez37923 жыл бұрын

    i'm so happy there are KZreadrs who r open to discussing sensitive things like this. my mom was in the exactly same situation when she had me- pregnant at 19 fourteen years ago. im now fourteen and my mom and i r SUPER close. I just love how relatable Brittany and Jadyn are to my life. luv u 🥰

  • @Polinaparvanova
    @Polinaparvanova3 жыл бұрын

    I was thinking throughout the whole video that it would be great if there was part 2.. I also never expected a video like this, thank you for choosing to share your story in much more detail.. I’ve always strongly believed in signs from the universe and your story confirms how powerful this is.. also idk if it’s not the right time to say this but your makeup is amazing in this video 😻

  • @brittanyxavier

    @brittanyxavier

    3 жыл бұрын

    💞💞

  • @kaitlinfrank9312
    @kaitlinfrank93122 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. Women, protect yourself ALWAYS! use protection. And if you choose to go forward with your pregnancy, then turn being that strong woman into a strong mother. Protect yourself.

  • @kaylieswanger8916
    @kaylieswanger89163 жыл бұрын

    I’m not sure if you’re religious at all but the second I heard about your shoot being related to what you were going through at the time, and seeing that little girl there, I got teary eyed and thought to myself, “wow that was so a sign from the Lord to have Jadyn.” I’m so proud of how far you’ve come with all that you’ve been through, and I’m glad you’re posting this series❤️

  • @marlenasager3663
    @marlenasager36633 жыл бұрын

    you are such an amazing role model. I truly admire your relationship with your daughter and your family dynamic As a 19 year old girl, interested in a career in fashion, you are an inspiration. You are beautiful inside and out.

  • @ailiseizquierdo1229
    @ailiseizquierdo12293 жыл бұрын

    Such an inspiring and admirable woman... you're so brave for wanting to share this!!

  • @clarapisztora9145
    @clarapisztora91453 жыл бұрын

    She’s honestly such an amazing person mom wife and more 🤗 and I’m so happy she’s sharing her story for others that may be struggling.

  • @zelkulunk6323
    @zelkulunk63233 жыл бұрын

    you’re so strong and i’m so invested in your story, we all know the ending but life isn’t as simple as beginning and end, the inbetween is messy but it’s also the best part

  • @ashleythearies
    @ashleythearies2 жыл бұрын

    My story is similar to yours; I was 18. I’m now with the most wonderful person and we have a son. Huge age gap just like Jayden and poppy. I had to go through every single thing I did in order to have the life I have now. Not one detail could have been different. Life is as it’s meant to be!

  • @maeganreynolds6882
    @maeganreynolds68822 жыл бұрын

    I just came across your account, I have a VERY similar story… Pregnant at 18 in an abusive relationship, he told my parents behind my back immediately after I found out I was pregnant. So proud of how far you’ve come.

  • @Foreverfindsm
    @Foreverfindsm3 жыл бұрын

    10:52 I’m crying my mom was in the exact situation with her first born coming from a Mexican family, but she didn’t let that Asshole take control. You’re such a huge inspiration! Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @suknarehayel2234
    @suknarehayel22343 жыл бұрын

    I am a sobbing mess. I didn't expect it to end abruptly but you are possibly an actual superhero for young women. I am speechless by your grace, power and candour. Sending you a gigantic universe hug x

  • @brittanyxavier

    @brittanyxavier

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aww thank you 😊

  • @eviemason1203
    @eviemason12033 жыл бұрын

    I’m so proud of you for coming this far! You are so brave to be sharing this.

  • @AndreaMartinez-bx6fj
    @AndreaMartinez-bx6fj3 жыл бұрын

    I was in college, 20 years old, and also found out I was pregnant after I broke things off. I couldn’t get an abortion, just couldn’t do it and I kept the pregnancy a secret from my parents for 7 months. It was the hardest and saddest time in my life. My parents were so disappointed and I won’t ever forget it. I just graduated from college last month and I’m so proud of myself for that after going through all of that but life is hard and traumatic after being in that situation and in a bad relationship.

  • @brittanyxavier

    @brittanyxavier

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sending all the love to you ❤️ So proud of you for graduating and staying strong! Life will be tough at times and there will be dark moments, but put your baby first and be the best mom I know you'll be. YOU GOT THIS!!

  • @AndreaMartinez-bx6fj

    @AndreaMartinez-bx6fj

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@brittanyxavier thank you ❤️

  • @sarahfarrell8214
    @sarahfarrell82143 жыл бұрын

    I'm crying with you, wow, that is amazing how you went on that photo shoot, that was God helping you with your decision. Love you, and you're a very strong woman.

  • @brittanyxavier

    @brittanyxavier

    3 жыл бұрын

    💞

  • @hannahj8099
    @hannahj80993 жыл бұрын

    I started university at 22y/o, my best friend on my degree started when he was 37. It’s not too strange in general, some of us have had struggles or a previous career. He sounds so awful though, I’m so sorry you had to go through this 💙

  • @kaylabushong9299
    @kaylabushong92993 жыл бұрын

    My parents found out too without me being able to tell them first. I can relate so much with that part of your story and the pain. He called them and told them behind my back. I still haven’t gotten over that to this day.

  • @sugarkitti3051
    @sugarkitti30513 жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry you went through that nightmare. 😔 Respect.

  • @daisye5592
    @daisye55923 жыл бұрын

    Your vulnerability and strength is truly felt in this video. It's true what they say; what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. You are such a brave good person & wonderful mom to Jadyn. Thank you for sharing your story Brittany 💕💕💕

  • @dominyquemondol1867
    @dominyquemondol18673 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being honest about this type of issues britt, coz ive never seen women open up about her "not so good" history. We all know that you're gonna be the best mother of your child

  • @pamelarontziokos151
    @pamelarontziokos1513 жыл бұрын

    So raw, so authentic, so heart breaking. You're strength to speak open heartedly is something I truely admire.

  • @sairathealchemist
    @sairathealchemist3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, breathe. You are so strong for sharing this story as vulnerable as it may be. 🤍

  • @mikesbad.imbad_whoareyou
    @mikesbad.imbad_whoareyou2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for telling this story on KZread to a bunch of people online! My mom got pregnant with me when she was only 18. You are so amazing!😊

  • @unda2147
    @unda21473 жыл бұрын

    This is the story that brought you Jadyn. It's amazing

  • @jessicahuh7958
    @jessicahuh79583 жыл бұрын

    I’m 22 and went through a very similar situation fairly recently. I feel your pain and I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. Thank you for sharing this. There are such terrible people like him but such a huge blessing came from such experiences❤️

  • @ThulisileKolweni
    @ThulisileKolweni3 жыл бұрын

    This was everything a testimony. I love the verse you shared cause I just shared the same verse a day ago Jeremiah.

  • @hulya2812
    @hulya28122 жыл бұрын

    This is so raw.. You might have kept this to yourself for so long and moved on because of life and raising a child. I appreciate you for sharing this, it seems like a significant part of your past healed for opening this up. Some of us may not be able to have a courage to speak about our past to people. So brave of Brittany ❤️

  • @yanasimons5590
    @yanasimons55903 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this! I know it is really hard but it is so important for other teen moms to hear stories like this. There is no shame and people need to realise that.

  • @sienaheidemann700
    @sienaheidemann7003 жыл бұрын

    Your story is inspiring and important and I think so many people will be touched by this. You are so brave and everything definitely happens for a reason. Seeing the joy you have now with Jadyn is a true testament of your strength! Thank you for letting us into your story.

  • @alladniws6399
    @alladniws63993 жыл бұрын

    You are so strong and such an amazing woman. You are so brave, I look up to you so much 💕

  • @brittanyxavier

    @brittanyxavier

    3 жыл бұрын

    💞💞

  • @luizachiste
    @luizachiste3 жыл бұрын

    I have never write a comment on a youtube video, but I had to do it here. I was crying in the first 30 seconds! Thank you for sharing it with all of us. You're so brave, God and the Universe bless you and your family ❤️🙏

  • @sofianeil790
    @sofianeil7903 жыл бұрын

    I'm so proud of you Brittany, this video would've been so so hard for you to film as would have been such a difficult time in your life! you are an amazing mum and I aspire to be just like you one day

  • @naosasaki9165
    @naosasaki91653 жыл бұрын

    You are so brave to share when you still tear up about it..!!! Hope this helps younger people who feel they can’t talk to their parents because of similar reasons. Btw love your other content too!

  • @nicholasclive2821
    @nicholasclive28213 жыл бұрын

    I have never been more honored to watch one of your videos. This was truly beautiful to watch. You’re beyond inspiring ❤️

  • @avaaa6076
    @avaaa60763 жыл бұрын

    You are literally so brave for putting this on the internet!! ❤️❤️

  • @jessicaroman5810
    @jessicaroman58103 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing ! Your so brave and strong! I love you and you family sm! Thank you for doing what you do.💗 ✨IM SUBSCRIBED✨

  • @brittanyxavier

    @brittanyxavier

    3 жыл бұрын

    💞💞

  • @yazirapietri919
    @yazirapietri9193 жыл бұрын

    Wow this took a lot of bravery thank you for tell your story it could definitely help tons of people who are going through what you went through ❤️👏🏽

  • @mopeyg
    @mopeyg3 жыл бұрын

    God was giving you all those signs! That's incredible. I cannot wait to hear more about your story. You are so brave to share it with all of us. I have also thought about the what ifs of having children and I don't know what I would do if I got pregnant. This is speaking from a 32 year old who is single. It is always a scary thought for me but I admire your journey. Thank you for that.

  • @nbabombshell
    @nbabombshell3 жыл бұрын

    I love that you share this . I am going through a hard time too. Seeing you shine so bright , makes me want to keep pushing ❤️

  • @tarasigona9265
    @tarasigona92653 жыл бұрын

    God was all over your life. Each time you say “what are the chances?” “What a coincidence” “how lucky...” It was not by chance that your boyfriend told your parents. It was not by chance that you were at that shoot. I had an unplanned pregnancy as well. My boyfriend and I had only been dating 3 months. It was the hardest thing to tell my parents (also very conservative), but they were very supportive of our decision to get married ASAP and have the baby. In contrast to you, I’d always wanted to be a mom and knew immediately that I’d have the baby... just was very scared to tell everyone around me. Now we have 2 beautiful baby boys:) We had nothing, no money, no house, but by the grace of God, He provided everything we need and our boys are well taken care of by our generous friends and family.

  • @briannavlopez

    @briannavlopez

    3 жыл бұрын

    God is great and wonderful, Amen to you and your family, God Bless your two sons and you're Husband ❤

  • @taylorinctrl

    @taylorinctrl

    3 жыл бұрын

    beautiful story! God definitely had a plan for the both of you!🤍

  • @ronnie140333
    @ronnie1403333 жыл бұрын

    Really lovely of you to share this! Hope you and your family is well xx

  • @sarahspencer7814
    @sarahspencer78143 жыл бұрын

    your skin is absolutley glowing!! you should film a skincare routine

  • @lin_zp
    @lin_zp3 жыл бұрын

    I’ve followed you for years. I can’t even express how proud I am to follow and support you. You’re such a strong incredible woman and role model. Thank you for being so open about this. You’re a rockstar ❤️

  • @SeniaBae101
    @SeniaBae1013 жыл бұрын

    Sending you all the love, sharing something so personal, and in a way having to relive those moments again by just speaking out loud about it is very strong of you❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mashashcherba6752
    @mashashcherba67523 жыл бұрын

    Wow! I'm so proud of you! God and Universe sent you signs ! You are so brave to share this! Without this whole experience you wouldn't be who you are

  • @beccavry
    @beccavry Жыл бұрын

    Brittany, I'm crying while watching this. The amount of control ripped from your decision making and manipulations by this horrible man makes this hard to watch, yet look at the unexpected blessings that happened as a result of the speed-bumps in your history - look at your beautiful life now!

  • @onigiribun
    @onigiribun3 жыл бұрын

    Even though this is none of my business, I was always curious about your backstory during your pregnancy. Thank you so much for your vulnerability and sharing your experience with us, and I’m so sorry to hear about the toxic parts of your first relationship. Fast forward years later, you’ve definitely come out stronger and are an inspiration! Looking forward to part 2~ also, I’ve subscribed! ☺️

  • @Tettitas
    @Tettitas3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing!Definetly sharing this with all my younger family members, you’re a great example for Jayden and all young viewers 💖

  • @naohms
    @naohms3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this story Brittany! I also went through an emotionally abusive relationship for 7 years and it’s bringing back so many emotions hearing your story. I believe everything happens for a reason, and you are now being a light to others who are going thru similar situations. You have become a much stronger woman and Jadyn is blessed to have a mom like you 🙏🏽

  • @sayhiitskaitlin45
    @sayhiitskaitlin453 жыл бұрын

    You had me tearing up, you are such a strong woman ❤️

  • @gyallington
    @gyallington3 жыл бұрын

    I've never watched your channel in my life, came up on my feed! This was such a HUMBLE and HONEST video. I had to comment and say kudos to you for being so vulnerable and opening eyes of others. My mom had me at 16 and says often she would never ever change a thing, because she would have been walking around this world like a little naive girl in a woman's body and I forever changed her.

  • @eviozyra6300

    @eviozyra6300

    3 жыл бұрын

    she would have grown up either way. But great that it worked out for her and you

  • @lindsaystorm1359
    @lindsaystorm13593 жыл бұрын

    I have an almost identical story! My baby is turning 20 and he saved my life! God sent him to me to save me from a road of destruction I was on. I was an invincible 19yr old also who never had to worry about much.

  • @jadhurshanashangar
    @jadhurshanashangar3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for making this video for the young adults and teenagers can understand and acknowledge how these types of pregnancy can be happened unplanned ❤️👶🍼. You such a great role for all the young mothers out there to help out.