My daughter is about it to be 4 and is still in pull ups. She is blind in her right eye and has sensory difficulties. When kids are ready, they’re ready. Don’t let anyone shame you for doing your absolute best! You are an amazing mother and Paxton is so lucky to have you

@celia-ov6rm

3 ай бұрын

My boy stopped using diapers during the day before his 3rd birthday and we just took the night diapers a couple of months ago (he's 3,5 yrs old now). I am so glad to be diaper free! I have 2 older boys, each 3 yrs between them. So I had been changing diapers for basically a decade uninterrupted 😅 But like you said: each kid is different

@celia-ov6rm

3 ай бұрын

Ps: in my opinion, kids with pull-ups take longer because they have that safety net. When you both decide that is is enough, just stop with the diapers at once.

@TheAnimeAlchemistt

3 ай бұрын

@@celia-ov6rm my daughter decided she was done with pull ups finally and hasn’t had an accident once. She was finally ready

@TheAnimeAlchemistt

3 ай бұрын

No need for night diapers at all

Every kid develops differently. Get your f***ing opinions out of parents’ comments. Brittney, your answer was a lot more polite than mine. You’re a great mom! Keep it up!

@adddieeeess

2 ай бұрын

Girl, I’m with you! i wouldn’t have been able to hold back! your response speaks volumes 🙌🏻

@tantrika.exotica

2 ай бұрын

Her gracious responses are always sooo better than mine would have been. This is why she's an outstanding teacher. Salud ❤

Wtf kind of comment is that. Your a brilliant momma, you responded to that with class.

@KyMars

6 ай бұрын

I know right. People are so weird

Sadly some people think that every child is the same. Most children aren't potty train until they are 4 or 5 years old.you are an amazing mom and it shows.

Proud mom standing up! And you were so polite! Keep your head held high!!❤

Your family is so blessed to have a Mama Bear like you!

Beautiful response. God bless you and your family!!!❤

Ugh. My third kid wasn’t medically complex (unless you count speech delayed because she didn’t speak until she was 3), but she was in diapers until 4.5. Kids are ready when they are ready. You keep doing you, mama!!!!

Your kid is hitting their milestones, even within range! Keep it up, momma

You are an amazing mom!!

You’re doing amazing! Keep it up. I purposely don’t potty train my kids until the week after they turn 3 and mine don’t have medical challenges. I found I am a better mom at potty training and can commit to consistency a lot better when their communication is more developed, the concept of obedience is understood, and theirs body is more mature cuz they are such deep sleepers-they gotta be able to hold it longer. 😂

@Khunai.

6 ай бұрын

Honestly I think this is TOTALLY valid and I don't understand why so many people frown upon just waiting a little longer if that's what works for you and your family. So long as they're potty trained before they enter school I don't see why it matters when you start. (Ofc, for kids without any medical limitations, some kids take longer) I tried to start potty training with my first at 1, as is common and what I was told to do in Sweden. It didn't work.. AT ALL. The communication wasn't there and all it did was lead to two YEARS of frustration. He turned 3, picked it up really fast and never looked back. I started just before 3 with my youngest and he's just turned 4 now and still just... will NOT use the potty. Despite asking to and then sitting on the potty and making pooping noises for ten minutes. Several times a day. -_- I haven't gotten him to actually pee or poo in it no matter how long we sit there or what I try to bribe him with. But knowing him, as soon as we finally get one success and I freak out in excitement, he's gonna cling on to that and it'll be smooth sailing from there xD

I was in diapers till I was 3 and I had major open heart surgery, they said I probably wouldn't be normal like other kids and here I am 32 and almost living on my own and getting a job . But I'm too weak or I get sick easily 😢

@joanneriley3899

5 ай бұрын

Can I just please correct your comment. You ARE ‘Normal’, you’re certainly not abnormal. You may not of done or do things at the age of the “Average” child/teen/adult, but let me remind you of something…. Being average is boring! 😊

@koalasrcute7533

5 ай бұрын

@@joanneriley3899 thank you so much I appreciate you saying that ur beautiful

That was an amazing response.

Dude, whatever works for you is good. Nobody else lives with this little cutie, keep up the good attitude!

I have Cerebral Palsy and the doctor said I would NEVER walk, I proved the doctor wrong!!! I walked but not until I was 5!!! My mom told the doctor that "You don't EVER tell my kid that she "can't" do something. I am almost 44yrs old so I was 5 in 1985. Thank GOODNESS there was no social media because I am pretty sure that my mom would get those judgemental comments too. You do what's best for your children not what everyone else wants you to do!!!!

@ashleydeavers1210

5 ай бұрын

I know plenty of 3 yr olds still in diapers without any conditions ❤ you go mama!

Good mama! Kids will be ready when they're ready.

Well put mama. Sending love from Los Angeles 💛💜

You are a phenomenal mother ❤ thank you for sharing your journey with your sweet boy, Pax man❤

Keep Going Paxtyn!!!! Your journey is beautiful no matter how it looks to others 🫂 Good job Mom

Good reply, you are a great hardworking mom❤

Ohhh wow that comment is disgusting . I also have a medically challenged child and she is delayed in many areas . People who have no clue what it mean to be a medical mom or a child like this should just not speak .

No hurry on anything he is a amazing boy .f uck what people say you are a amazing mother

Your response to that comment is a hell of a lot nicer than I would have been.

I am a foster parent. All but two of the 9 children I have fostered are either medically complex or had some kind of developmental delay coming to me. This comment burned me up. My son who I am in the process of adopting is 3 and he is not potty trained. He has a whole list of specialists and also had brain surgery in July. You never know what a child has been through and since you don’t live in someone else’s house you also don’t know what they do all day because KZread is a very small snippet of time.

You're doing great momma! Don't listen to the haters much love❤

My son wasnt fully porty trained until he was 4 due to sensory issues he had involving the toilet. He was actively in therapy and i was doing everything they suggested. They told me that forcing thwm to go can make it worse or make them afraid of the toilet. He is now 7 and fully potty trained and a very smart, wonderful little boy. Some kids meet milestones faster and some meet them slower. Some never fully meet those milestones as a young child and that is fine too! You should love your child through it all

Kids eat, sleep, shit, laugh, and be loved and they will be fine. We are humans not a science experiment 😅 it makes me laugh first they want you to grow as fast as you can and then they want to slow you down to stop getting older the rest of your life.😂😂. I have a nine-year-old son not one problem and then my daughter was a NICU baby. They said the same thing about her but it was not true. She is walking and talking and a beautiful little girl. Your a great mom please just keep your love and keep doing what you're doing. I'm 33 and you are teaching me sign language 😊 god bless thank you so much.

You're a Great mother don't pay attention to what other say!🖤

As a twos teacher who potty trains for a living-- forcing it is the worst thing that you can do. Kids want the power that they deserve over their own bodies, if you try to force them they often double down in an effort to enforce their autonomy. People are forgetting that he is his own person who can make choices? You're an amazing mom

Beautifully said.

Well said Mom!!! Tell them, " Bite Me!!!!"

Your doing a GREAT and AWESOME job, your a very good Mom. If you haven't heard it today or this week, I'm proud of you and again your doing great ❤

My son was almost 4 before he was ready to be potty trained and he did it himself. They will do it when they are good and ready.

@I_like2rubikscube

6 ай бұрын

My daughter was also 4 when she was potty trained. I got a lot of judgemental comments about that, especially from my MOM!!!

I love what you do! ❤

My 3 kids weren't ready to be potty-trained until they were 3 years old. There's nothing wrong with that. You're doing good momma!

You’re amazing because probably at a young age like Paxtyn, it could be hard for kids to learn asl or any sign language because of how complicated it can be at times but you are teaching him how to literally speak to you at his age so I think that’s amazing and all the haters will hate but they probably can’t say that they thought their son at a very young age to sign to them. But yes other parents might use signs like “All done, thank you, sorry, please, more etc.” like the basic ones so they can tell you what they want but you are teaching him how to fully communicate with you guys!

Such a wise mother! I love it! Good for you! Your children are so fortunate! 💜🌞🩷

I didn’t even get out of night-time diapers until I was 5. I had a lot of interesting sleep-related stuff going on tho lol so it’s totally normal!

This made me cry. Thanks for being brave and putting up with the bs comments to educate and encourage others.❤

Thank you for talking about this as a teacher and now mama it was/is so annoying when other parents tried commenting or worse on other kids development and Mile stones I used to explain the popcorn method (all seeds are placed in the same pot,oil,and heat but pop at different times)some early some late some just on time .i really wish people would mind there business .i love your channel God bless !

Period girl I love to watch you and your son you’ve helped me learn sign language so much easier now❤❤❤❤❤🎉

Speak it momma!!!!

You're doing amazing with sign language!; He couldn't have been born into a better family. You kick ass Mama 🫶🫵

Yes ma’am… Don’t let the Trolls get to you! I had a leg removed when I was 3 and people told my mom things to bully her. Just let him be him he will be great!

VERY WELL SAID!!!❤❤❤

I was diagnosed at 2 with High Functioning Autism. Dr. Actually thought I might be non verbal. I only started speaking at the age of 4. Now I live by myself, in normal housing. It might take me longer sometimes to for to a certain point. But I do get to that point and I live completely autonomously and can do what everyone else can. Just at my own pace. Just because he is behind now does not mean anything for his future. He will get to the milestones when and if he is capable of getting to them. Only him and his body can decide that. Nothing can be forced. I know it might be hard and frustrating at times and stupid comments like this do not help. But I watch your videos all the time and you are doing amazing with him. He has gotten to where he has gotten to because of all your time and effort. You are an amazing mother and do not let others tell you otherwise.

I am infatuated with your videos. You're such a great momma!!!!

YASSS GIRL TELL THEM!! ❤😂

Girl dont worry about idiots like that. They just like saying hurtful things for fun while they sit on their ass doing absolutely nothing whike u r busy being a great mom ❤

Go Mama❤

You do not have to explain to nothing! Even if he didn’t have anything he is your child and you raise him how you want! Don’t worry, there is a lot of people that actually understand you and have your back! Good luck! 🍀

im a preschool/daycare teacher and i get PLENTY of three year old students wearing diapers. its not abnormal and every child goes at their own pace. its a very individual journey, and you know your child best!!! best of luck, you are doing WONDERFUL. hope you always give yourself the credit you deserve and have people around that remind you when you forget :)

Thats right! This world would be so much better if people didnt judge others smh youre doing fantastic youre a very young couple and your children are well cared for. You guys are doing awesome

I think that person's just trying to find any full in you because they're jealous that you're such an amazing perfect gorgeous mother who has their s*** together so good for a 25-year-old you are truly blessed ❤️

Hi I’m from India just saw your video and hats off to you they say you home school your kid the efforts you put everything is so good and I love to watch you my 3 year old is weak and faces so many complications I feel the same way and we as mothers are the one who can make them confident .❤

This needs to be said with every child and that if they are behind we need to be able to support them so they can work on it. I wasn't crawling because i couldn't see and so had to have glasses at 8 or so months. I was loosing my glasses in the toys because i was crawling so much after that. I was behind in kindergarten reading too because children with vision impairments need time to find a way for their eyes to work for them, i did fine in math,it was reading i needed help with. I figured out in first grade that i could only use one eye at a time to read and was in the advanced reading group in first grade, id switch between eyes when reading.

he will be just fine...with a mom line you( I was in same boat and my kid is a well rounded successful grown up! )

Well said❤

I absolutely love this and I'm 32 weeks today

You are a rockstar family and I love that you go at his pace. My grandson is autistic and is only 17mos older than his baby brother, so we decided that buggy would tell us when he was ready to bottle wean and potty train. He was almost 3 before he was off the bottle during the day, but so was bubby. He was 4 before he potty trained, and so is bubby mostly. We tried other peoples methods and it was a nightmare. So we stopped and started watching for his signs, and the tantrums stopped for the most part. When we stopped pushing, which was incredibly short term, he began talking. He is mildly autistic and doing much better. We also noticed that bubby had some signs of special needs as well and letting them tell us when they were ready also stopped his tantrums...mostly. So let em hate, but know you have truly created something very special with your babies. The love he has is incredible and it radiates off of him bc you guys let him shine just as he is. Thank you for letting us get a glimpse of pure love in our lives through your videos. Tell paxton good job big brother, you are awesome!

You’re doing seriously amazing from even the small amount of your lives you post online. I know that these are just dumb comments but sometimes it can be good to actually be told that people can see how hard you work and how good of a mother you clearly are.

that is such a weird comment. My daughter is not medically complex or delayed and she did not potty train till her third birthday. My son is medically complex and is currently 12 months developing at the 10 month age so we’ll see when he potty train. But like you said it will be nobody’s business. People are so weird

Do you Momma ..truly guard your heart and mind to all that type of feedback ❤

Good for you well said❤

My kid had a seizure disorder in infancy. He stopped growing at four months. 12 lbs at 12 months. Didn't walk until 18 months and then he would stop walking with breakthrough seizures. But ,he was saying 3-4 word sentences at 16 months! He would just fall with some of his seizures and was black and blue a lot. I was lucky that I had Doc's that that believed me. So.much could also be signs of abuse. Do what you have to,you know your kid the fight can be exhausting. You've got this❤

Yea girl ! Period! ❤

100% ❤ I have taught babies under 2 to potty train, but my youngest was 4 before she was fully potty trained. She just did NOT want to do it. We tried everything, including letting her pick out some underwear. Eventually I realized she had grown out of them before even being potty trained so I bought her new ones. One day she saw the new ones and asked to wear them and immediately was fully trained 😂 never had an accident and never put on another pull-up lol

I practiced my sign language while watching this. I have someone in my NGO that is deaf so im trying to learn a bit to better communicate

SLAY WUEEN ST THAT❤❤❤❤

My son didn't get out of diapers till he was five! I didn't rush him or make him! You're absolutely right when your son is ready he will get out of diapers! You're doing a great job!! 🩵

When you're both ready I 100% suggest naked potty training. It worked on my kids and on the 3 kids of friends that I potty trained. When they are aware of what's happening... Jump on it before they can prefer the diaper. Lol You're doing great mom!!!

My nonverbal autistic son is 6 and still not potty trained. Comments like this are horrible. Your an amazing mom dealing with some big challenges that some people just don't understand.

When i worked as a daycare assistant, we had plenty of children around three who couldnt talk full sentences or use the potty on their own, some of them being special needs, every child develops at their own rate and you can't force that kind of development to happen, you can only aim for improvement, not perfection, after time went on some eventually did learn talking and independent bathroom skills, and some are still learning but these kids did try every single day just like their parents were, you're doing great momma and don't ever believe for a second that you aren't doing what you think is best for your son

You go momma! First I wanna echo that when he's ready, he's ready. Second I want to add that my 14 mos old sees a urologist and we were told not to potty train until 2.5/3 years old, as potty training too early puts him at risk for more infections... sooooo, every baby is different.

PREACH MOMMA. What a kind way of saying. Nonnayabussness... Sorry you have to deal with others ignorance...

Exactly: his time is not your or anyone else time. Does not matter if he learn in a similar pace as other learn, the point is that everything that he learn will be there in his future. Is about him…

Yess❤ my niece is gonna be 3 and isnr ready to let em go. She also didn’t walk until she was almost 1and a half. You don’t rush kids they will get on there own when it’s there time 😅

I have 6 kids , 5 of them potty trained by age 2 ( yes seriously 2) no diapers or accidents at night. My 6th child will be 3 in 2 weeks and is still on diapers. the struggle is so real. No judgment here momma.❤

From what I have been told by my mom I was three when I was potty trained and I was a normal baby, no surgery or disability. Sometimes it just be that way.

I know this is old BUT I FEEL YOU !!! My son has a rare genetic disorder (8q21.11 micro deletion syndrome) and he was very behind in his milestones, and hes 3 right now... and struggling with potty training! Every child is different!!!

Mine is 3 and hit all her milestones on time, if not early, and is STILL in pull-ups. The pediatrician says it happens when it happens. Forcing them into it just creates a whole new mess of issues in them.

I WAS the medically complex child 😅 girl you're doing great❤

@blackheartxcvii

6 ай бұрын

And just for reference, I wasn't supposed to survive childhood. I'm now gonna be 27

Mama you don't have to explain why your kid still in diapers, that is none of anyone business. That person is rude. I love your family and I am glad i came across your page, congratulations on your beautiful kids.❤ keep looking forward and love learning from your videos. ❤

All the amazing mums in this comment section, bless you all!! People making nasty comments like this need to go and touch some grass.

Preach !!!!

Telling a stay at home mom that she does “nothing all day” is the goofiest way to say “I don’t have kids and I don’t know anything about raising them at all.”

My mom to ❤😊

As a mom of a special needs child, I've learned you can't expect those with normal kids to understand the struggle of having a special needs child. My son is severely autistic, non verbal. We'd be good friends girly❤

I work in a montessori pre school which means we give all our kids lots of independence. But our two and three years olds no matter if they have hearing loss or not are still in diapers ! This is the age where we are offering and encouraging potty use, please never feel rushed. Your child will develop in his own time and there’s no shame about it! It’s also slightly harder with boys anyways !

I’m sorry nobody asked for a glass of their opinion! Don’t listen to them. You are the best mother I have seen on KZread and my brother is 3 and is still in diapers too! So girl it’s okay they just need to keep their opinions to themselves!!

My kiddo was in diapers at 3 despite my worrying about it, he turned out just fine. They won’t be in diapers forever. Ignoring the ignorant comments is hard, but think about it this way, God blessed you with Paxton because you are the perfect mom for him and vise versa :). That person has no idea what they are talking about.

my daughter was 4 when she got the potty thing and she had no disabilities❤btw shes 21 now and it didnt mess up her life at all

I heard something the other day. “What people think about me is none of my business” …. They can keep their opinions to themselves. There’s no place for negativity here.

people need to realize that pushing kids too quickly is the same as not encouraging them or nurturing them at all. both end up with them burnt out, discouraged, and behind. every child progresses differently, and those rates can change when they have different needs than what is viewed as normal.

Cheers🧚‍♂️

Atta girl! You tell ‘em. Medically complicated or not, every single child develops at their own speed and pace. And I hate mothers who compare their children to others’. Comparisons are odious.

Aside from that , shes not changing his diapers or buying them for the woman to comment dumb shit she doesn't know about . Truly sad for the nasty ignorance and your boys are precious 💕

All children are different. Dont let anyone make you feel any type of way about parenting your babies or if hes not ready for that next step yet! For the person who made that comment F*** OFF!!!! Its not right to be negative about a childs development especially when they are a special child and you dont know the whole situation and the things that child has to overcome that other children dont. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK MOM AND DAD!!!!

My son has autism and still wears a nappy when he had bad days at 5. Gosh people are awful. Youre doing great mumma, ignore the haters

My kids were potty trained pretty early but they had no disabilities and they were ready. Not all kids are the same. I’m sick of ppl judging parents as long as there is no abuse or neglect and the children r healthy and happy shut up. And if u have a concern there r ways to say those without offending someone. Just stop it ppl