My first baby was still born in 1986. It was a chord prolapse during her birth. Her name was Rebekah Grace. Back then there was no real internet or KZread. I would have given anything to have other mothers who had gone through this. 😔 All I wanted was someone else who I could connect with who had experienced such a devastating loss. Thank you for so many women who have or will have a stillbirth or miscarriage...sharing your own terrible loss will be more helpful to other moms than you can even imagine. I’m so so sorry for the loss of your precious son. 🌷🙏😔

@tinaelyse

9 ай бұрын

This comment was very touching. I’m sorry you felt alone and I’m sorry you went through such a devastating experience. It wasn’t until after my loss that I realized how common it is and it’s ok to talk about it. There are so many moms who feel alone. This is why I made this video. I chose to turn my pain into my passion. I

Im so very sorry for you loss. I sit here and look at my son who was born June 22nd, 2017 and think how lucky I am. I can't imagine the pain you are in. I wish people didn't have to go through things like this. Thank you for sharing your story.

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

It definitely makes you grateful for the children that you do have. Our babies will be 5 this year ❤️ thank you for your kind words.

I am so sorry for your loss. It's just heartbreaking. The way you honor your son Avery is simply beautiful. God bless you always!

Thank you for being so brave to tell your story. I know it could not have been easy. I'm extremely sorry for your devastating loss. He'll in no doubt always hold a special place in your heart, but also he's a gleaming, pure soul of love and goodness where he's abides now. God bless and much love.💞🙏🥰

Thanks for sharing your story. I know it must have been hard. I'm glad you're able to celebrate Avery's memory and that Rachel's Gift has been so helpful. They're an amazing organization. And congrats on your rainbow baby! I'm sure he brings you all the joy in the world. #TeamAvery

😇😇🥰 so proud of you for sharing your story and journey!! #teamavery

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story. It's folks like you and the other YT Stephanie n Cameron who are bridging a gap and bringing more awareness to Stillborn births. I commend you and pray for comfort during this time. Big hugs. I know people who have loss personally. I agree having a strong support is key to getting thru the grief. There is no time limit. Hugs and love to you.

Seeing the stuff for Avery broke my heart but the same time it's so cute at same time.im so glad you have a great support system and organization to help with Avery's memory in your heart. I'm bawling here. Ugh.

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

Thank you for sharing your Story. I wish no mama had to ever experience this pain. You’re a beautiful strong mama! Idk what’s right or wrong thing to say, you’ll be with him again (I’m sorry if that’s not appropriate to say, I just feel that would bring me comfort but I can’t speak I didn’t have your experience).

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

It’s ok ! I am definitely hoping to see him again one day. We celebrated his birthday on the 26th so it definitely brings comfort.

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I'm not sure if you did this but you can ask for a transcript of your birth, it will show everything nurses and doctors did in detail, all checks etc and it will tell you why you had to have an emergency cs.

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! I did receive my medical records of the time while I was there. Is that the same thing?

I'm so very sorry for the loss of your son.

@tinaelyse

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

Thanks for sharing your story. My condolences always.

So painful to watch 😪 I can't even imagine what you went through.

You have a beautiful soul and your son is with God in heaven! I can’t even imagine what you went through. Someday you will be reunited with your beautiful son :)

I don't think that being induced was the problem. I think that he was gone or in distress when they did your intake and that is why they chose to do that cesarian at that point. This was never your fault.

I don’t understand the reason for your loss. They should have given you more info for your closure. I am so sorry for your beautiful baby boy. I am so gjad that grief council gave you the help and support to get thru the loss. You wonderful angel Avery did not die in vane. You have carried his life on every year with all the people that come out for team Avery run. God bless you and I am so sorry you baby daddy and your family went thru such a terrible loss and then the miscarriage. You look Amazing and you are a wonderful mom, woman and amazing person for all you been thru and out there every year to honor your son. God bless you and your family and continue that legacy fir yourself and to help others that go thru this. Your beautiful is waiting for you in heaven with wide open wings and he would be so proud of what your do for him every single day and year. We learn to live with loss but we never forget or get over. We just deal with it. God bless you for all you do.

@tinaelyse

5 ай бұрын

If I could love this comment a million times I would. Your words were so touching and I really appreciate this comment. My healing just took time and patience. I had to remind myself daily that this wasn't my fault and it was hard at times. But I also knew that I did everything I was suppose to do while I was pregnant. But getting through a loss is very hard when that one question can't be answered. WHY??? why isn't my son here? what happen to him? and even the ones who should have known didn't know.

Sorry for your lost🥺

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 💙

I am so sorry for your loss. I understand because I loss my baby girl the same way. I was young and scared and all alone. For some reason the nurse told me that the doctor could have done more. But because of me being so young I did not understand. After I loss my little girl I was not able to get pregnant again.

@tinaelyse

9 ай бұрын

Thank You so much! I'm sorry you had to go through that pain and not be able to get pregnant again. Losing my son made me want to be a mom even more, but of course I was terrified all through my pregnancy. Having a support system helps and sharing my story has helped too.

You should post the link for your KZread family to Register for the event In Avery’s name! I just found your channel as I like to hear stories about Babys born sleeping. I’ve never experienced a still born and honestly never knew that there wasn’t enough awareness about this topic so I’m trying to educate myself.

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

You actually have a good idea. Never thought to do that before. Thank you!!!! But this is a topic that isn’t talked about much at all and I never knew how popular it was until I went through it.

@justjessa7474

2 жыл бұрын

@@tinaelyse I’m glad to hear you like that idea! I just figured by doing that you would be spreading Avery’s name across the world! And he would have support from people in so many different places and that would be super cool!!

@steadfastinthefaith.

2 жыл бұрын

Same. I've never experienced a stillbirth, or pregnancy for that matter, but I have watched countless videos of woman sharing their stories. It's heartbreaking. I have a loved one that had a still birth years ago, and I always thought they were so rare. It wasn't until watching so many videos that I began to realize they are more common than not. I can only barely imagine the pain and grief one would feel to have to go through that.

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

@@steadfastinthefaith. I completely agree ! I didn’t know how common it was until I went through it. The amount of families that lose such an innocent child. I’m so sorry your loved one had to deal with such pain. I would never wish this pain on anyone.

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

@@justjessa7474 you’ve inspired me to post the link for the race. I’ll post it under the description of the video. Thanks again for watching and commenting. I really appreciate it. www.angeldash.org/

They asked if you wanted to see your son early because she saw something. It sounded like you were getting any meds yet?? They generally dont do that. If they did anything wrong they wont admit it.

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I had the same exact pregnancy. Perfect. No complications. Never even got sick. Then a few weeks before my daughter's due date... she was stillborn 😣

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s simply the worst pain ever. I’d never wish it on anyone.

@terryiontownseld6221

2 жыл бұрын

Soo sorry for your loss same thing happen to me in yr 2013 and every thing was perfect untill 🥺

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

@@terryiontownseld6221 it’s the worst feeling ever, and I’m so sorry you had to go through this. 💙

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

I really hate that this happens, I’m so sorry you had to deal with this pain 💙

@LADYVIKING05

Жыл бұрын

Me too! No morning sickness! BP always perfect! No swelling. Active baby, then boom! No heart beat @ almost 30 weeks gestation. I’M BEYOND DEVASTATED 💔 my heart is broken & shattered 💔

So sorry. At that appointment she saw something and didn’t tell you. Something was wrong to have to have a emergency c section. Shame on them for keeping you in the dark.

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

A lot of people have this opinion but all we heard was the heartbeat at the appointment. We didn’t see him so she couldn’t have seen anything and not tell me. Everything at the hospital happened so fast. I remember a lot but it’s also all a blur with the worst possible outcome and no answers. Thank you for watching my video and commenting 😊

Sorry for the many comments! I was wondering if you had an Avery License plate from Hawaii?

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

OMG I sure don’t!!!!! I’ve been to Hawaii once when I was 4. Definitely want to visit again though.

@justjessa7474

2 жыл бұрын

@@tinaelyse well I will definitely look into our one and only Walmart here on the East side of the Big Island 😉☺️

I would want to know more. Why would they say u need a emergency c section for no reason suddenly? When he wasnt crying did they say what was going on?

@tinaelyse

Жыл бұрын

No, there was silence. They had my mom leave the room which was suspicious but there was no explanation.

@Valentina-Steinway

3 ай бұрын

@@tinaelyseawful 😢

That somehow doesn't add up. Why would you need to have an emergency CS if you were totally ok at your last appointment? And if, by some very unlikely chance, your doctor did mess up that information, you would want to find out why this happend, wouldn't you? As it could be a cause of the baby passing away, so that would need to be investigated and legally issued. Can you clarify?

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

All I know is at my app, there was a heartbeat because I heard it. Hours later, there was none. Doctors and nurses had to answers for me, neither did an autopsy.

@heartforthehome8831

6 ай бұрын

You need closure the best you can get it. Request the results to EVERY SINGLE BLOOD TEST , especially the last few visits . i bet you it would be telling if you look. I also had a bit of medical malpractice incolved in my loss but it didn't smell as fishy as this !!! Your window of opening a lawsuit may close after 2 years, but i could be wrong if the circumstances come to light after you see you may have had an infection or something . ​@tinaelyse

@1976mcfarlane

5 ай бұрын

I agree. very fishy situation here .

That doctor and midwife should be fired for all their bumbling "I don't have good news for you" - they are supposed to be professionals. It's also not right that you still haven't been told the reason for the "omg you need a C-section"....why? What was the reason? Not saying it would have changed the outcome but the power they take from patients is irritating. I'm so incredibly sorry for what you've been through, it's horrendous. I think your boy would be super proud of his Mummy. (i think your smoke detector might need a new battery!)

@tinaelyse

Жыл бұрын

It definitely sucks not having any answers. They weren’t even on the same page with what happen to our son so we refuse to go back for any future pregnancies. That last comment was HILARIOUS!!!😂 thanks for the reminder lol

@Valentina-Steinway

3 ай бұрын

@@tinaelyse- is there anyway to get copies of your medical records?!? I think by law you are entitled to those. Sending you love 💕

@tinaelyse

3 ай бұрын

@@Valentina-Steinway I did get the medical records but according to attorneys say there was no malpractice

@Valentina-Steinway

3 ай бұрын

@@tinaelyse awwww…. did you get a second opinion? I’m sure you did everything 🌹 Sending you hugs 🤗

@tinaelyse

2 ай бұрын

@@Valentina-Steinway no we didn't it just became exhausting telling the story over and over so once we were told we really didn't have a case we just left it alone. its emotionally exhausting...

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So what went wrong, was it the hospitals fault?

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

we were never given a reason for his death...

@lindaberg9161

2 жыл бұрын

Shame this is so heartbreaking....the autopsy had to show something and they did not say......God be with you and your family.....I am so sad for you guys....Rest now little one....

@tinaelyse

2 жыл бұрын

@@lindaberg9161 thank you so much 💙

@sanjuan651

2 жыл бұрын

@@lindaberg9161 you’re right. Out of all these videos, noone mentioned that they were offered an early delivery when everything was ok. Seems suspicious. They knew something then.

@Valentina-Steinway

3 ай бұрын

@@tinaelyse💔💔💔💔

None of this makes sense

@tinaelyse

9 ай бұрын

What exactly doesn’t make sense ?

@tinaelyse

9 ай бұрын

Either way, I didn’t post my video for it to make sense to other people, I posted it to share MY story.

I am so very sorry for you loss. In many ways, it sounds like your healthcare team dropped the ball multiple times. If you havent already, please request your medical records from your office you received prenatal care, and the hospital you delivered at. The fact that you werent provided more information as to what happened/why is highly suspicious, and deserves to be investigated further. Again, i am truly sorry for your loss. 🩷

@tinaelyse

3 ай бұрын

I really appreciate this comment. I did get both sets of medical records and read through them and we even spoke with an attorney but they said they don't see any form of malpractice so we didn't have a case.

@Valentina-Steinway

3 ай бұрын

@@tinaelyse- did they monitor his heartbeat before or during the surgery ? At what point was the last time they recorded his heartbeat? So many questions…. so few answers. ❤