A 5 years old kid tried to kill a newborn baby with a pillow and the family treated it as a funny story to tell later?? What's wrong with these people??

@roowyrm9576

Ай бұрын

Many years ago I walked into a room in a friend's house, where my partner's 3 month old baby was sleeping. In there I found our host's 6 year old daughter pushing a cushion onto the baby's face. I took the cushion from her, and checked the baby, but didn't tell anyone...I just couldn't face being told I was lying.

@michellealinateague9892

Ай бұрын

Because when you find out how often it happens you wont believe it either

@MadMage1993

Ай бұрын

These people? Yes, something is wrong. Though I have no room to talk. I tried to kill my sister, too, but not for any malicious reason. Long story short? Was a SUPER religious child who took the Bible LITERALLY. Mom walked in on me putting a pillow on my sister's face, and she ripped me off her. Then, she asked me what I thought I was doing. My response? "We're trying to see the angels." Mom had a LONG talk with me that day. Had another instance where another of my sisters did the same to the next, but this one was malicious. Baby took a toy from her, and she retaliated. Luckily, Mom also walked in on this at the right time and ripped her off. Long talks were had. We do laugh about it today as adult sisters (the four of us) but we are now aware if any of them has children how we need to be very vigilant and make sure children understand the consequences to such actions. I really do think SOME kids just don't have the full understanding of the finality of death and that once it happens, there is no coming back. Mom had to explain to us that if our sister died, there was no coming back, and I very clearly remember the feeling of dread, fear, guilt, and sadness once I realized how severe it could have been. These people in this video? Absolutely not.

@michellealinateague9892

Ай бұрын

@@MadMage1993 this is why i cant be a parent.

@MadMage1993

Ай бұрын

​@@michellealinateague9892Same. I refuse.

Confirm: in Italy wedding guests DO NOT PAY FOR ANYTHING , they only bring a wedding gift. In fact, it is incredibly RUDE to make your GUESTS pay. 'Guest' means everything is on the host of the event. That lie was strange.

@syeneingram1218

Ай бұрын

I'm an American and I never knew people make their guests pay for their own attendance! Then again, I had a Covid wedding and cost and Guest list was very minimum as far as weddings go. I didn't even have to pay for the venue🤭

@kmander1656

Ай бұрын

Only grifters expect payment from guests.

@user-lb1ne6kj5t

Ай бұрын

Same in New Zealand we don't pay to reserve our seats, or eat food. But drinks and dresses will be our own cost and we will give a koha(money) for their wedding fees as a gift 🫶🏼.

@k_8655.

Ай бұрын

Even in India ... Guests do not pay... A gift, also can be some money as a gift and sometimes I have seen invitations where they strictly say "no gifts and only presence and blessings to the couple"...

@NessieNice

Ай бұрын

​@@k_8655. just like India, in Indonesia guests don't pay either. Both countries culturally known to have an average 200++ guests in a wedding, still neither make the guests pay.

Your own sister tried to kill you and your family treated it as a joke that’s mega messed up

@Grouchbox

2 ай бұрын

That's because sister is the golden child and they literally don't care about OP at all

@soxpeewee

Ай бұрын

Yeah wonder where those bad genes came from

@baraka629

Ай бұрын

There's a whole ass sitcom in here. Some writers should sit down and take notes.

@abbasturd

Ай бұрын

The OP mentioned later on in the video that they did take it seriously. The parents never let the older sister near OP without their supervision. And, the sister went to therapy but “said all the right things”.

@izzycurer1260

29 күн бұрын

Did you watch the whole video, or just read the click-baity title? The family took it very seriously. Op believed her sister's lie that it was a joke once, because she lived with a psycho and didn't know what to believe.

I just want to say, “not having attention” for 4 months as a kid is not an excuse for how the sister was.

@thehoerscorral8565

23 күн бұрын

It’s insane that she or their parents or her fiancé think that’s an okay excuse. She makes it sound like she was abandoned by her entire family for decades, not “mom was sick and gone for four months and then had another baby and I wasn’t the center of her attention anymore”

@amateurcrastinator9523

3 күн бұрын

I came here to say this. That is absurd.

Who the hell makes a wedding guest pay to reserve their seat?

@marcussantiago374

2 ай бұрын

Ppl who wants no one 2 come

@southernflight5078

2 ай бұрын

Imagine the meltdown when hardly anyone from her side shows up. The MIL was surprised when she heard about it. It's safe to say that the fiancé wasn't having his family pay.

@luxwitch4200

Ай бұрын

I'm italian and I can confirm no one here does that. It would be so so rude, guests would boycott the wedding

@HollyGaming994

Ай бұрын

No one if their head is on properly...but then again this bride has quite a few screws loose I'm surprised hers hasn't fallen off

@jakerocinante1133

Ай бұрын

Gold diggers that often like a distant cousin of mine end up having no one not even her folks attend the wedding. The marriage only lasted 5 months by the way

A 5 year old being evil is something society turns a blind eye to. Society does not believe underage people can be evil

@trashotaku

Ай бұрын

Fr, just because the "evil child" is a popular trope in the media, doesn't mean it can't happen in real life

@janainatemis2298

26 күн бұрын

Fr. I would take care of my kid away from me if they ever do something to hurt animals or people

@voutsider190

17 күн бұрын

Ted Bundy

@kat8753

9 күн бұрын

Mary Bell, she turned murderer at 11 years old.

No, from the story it doesn't sound like the sister was neglected. The mother was ill, so she had to be away and that, of course, threw the family into chaos for some time. The father had to continue to work so he got a nanny, which is more than most people would do. The aunt was there to help too. He made time to drive his sons to their sports AND for two daddy-daughter outings each week for a 5-year-old. That's not neglect. That's more than most families with 4 children get done when both parents are present. And it was only for a relatively short period after which mom was back. It's not something that would bring a "normal" child to try to smoother their baby sibling. They put her in therapy for 3-4 years, so they did get her help and she didn't improve. Something seems to be very wrong with that sister and it's not just "I didn't have my mommy for a few weeks when I was 5".

@PROTOHYPE.0088

Ай бұрын

If she does that to seek attention. Imagine what she would do to her own baby if she didn't get attention.

@lisagill4139

19 күн бұрын

Agreed the sister is likely psychotic

This is not a bride. This is insanity. Tell your sister to get married by herself because I don't know any sane person would put up with this. The amount of money she's demanding is highway robbery.

Sister is actually insane. Manipulating your mother like that to get 100k for a wedding (Which is ENTIRELY too much money for a fucking wedding) and then making your bridesmaid pay 2.6k+ just on "Bridal responsibilities", making them lose weight and maintain their hair like a control freak, and then the nerve to charge your guest $150 to attend the wedding (not to mention this is probably going to be a destination wedding where they gotta pay for plane tickets, hotels, rental cars, etc.) This woman is insane and that fiance hearing all this and not stopping it means he has no backbone. She will walk all over him for YEARS to come

@LunaP1

2 ай бұрын

Yeah. That dude is beyond screwed if he has kids with her. She might "accidently" drown them or leave them in a burning hot car, and then blame him when he was at work at the time she had them.

@Olimar92

2 ай бұрын

Not to mention she only had her family pay for everything, her husband's family didn't pay for shit.

@allisonreed3420

2 ай бұрын

Years later her husband will be complaining that women are crazy and how he's a victim that was complete manipulated and didn't see it coming.

@notevenlistening6072

Ай бұрын

His heart will give out in a few years

@angelfirenze

16 күн бұрын

Your question is bringing something to mind. If a lesbian couple getting married asked their bridal party to dye their hair each color of the rainbow, is that cool and fun or controlling? Honestly wondering as an aroAce.

Don't blame the age gap for not being close. I am the youngest of 7, only girl and my closest in age brother is 8 years older and we are all super close. Your sister is just evil.

@Laced_With_Acid

27 күн бұрын

this!! my younger brother is 17 years younger than me but by god we're gonna be close

The sister is insane. There were so many red flags. It seems like the fiancé and his family are just as scummy. I feel so bad for that baby…

This family is just a train wreck.

@kayenat10

2 ай бұрын

The family seems quite healthy. The sister is a sociopath. No one is at fault here

@annem7806

Ай бұрын

Narcissists are created by people & circumstances. So, it is the parents fault. Narcissists are created in childhood.

@willdavis3802

13 күн бұрын

@@kayenat10No one in that family is sane, including OP. The brothers come out the best, but, but Dad clearly pushed the boys to do 3 sports at a time to get away from the bullshit, and ignored the daughters. OP is insane, for a wide variety of reasons. Mom was committed, enough said. Sis tried killing a sibling. The brothers probably just enlisted to get away from this shit show.

Bruh I can confirm that if we tried setting entrance fees to weddings literally nobody would attend. Coming from a person born and living in irl Italy, rather than her isekai version

Sounds like a hostage situation... Imagine making a combination or $250,000 & still wanting her siblings 100 grand?!?😮

a 5 year old trying to murder an infant is fucked up... put her in therapy and actually help her get her emotions in check. One time I was babysitting my 2 younger brothers. My youngest brother was 8 (I was 17), he grabbed a kitchen knife and tried to stab me because i wouldnt let him eat ice cream for dinner. I disarmed him, sat his ass down on the couch and didnt let him out of my sight for 3 hours. my parents took him to counseling, and we moved on. it was never a subject to make light of or throw it in his face... wtf

@LunaP1

2 ай бұрын

Sis doesn't need therapy, she needs a straight jacket. The parents let her mental illness get worse before they finally saw her, as an adult, became full blown unstable. Mom was more to blame for being easily manipulated by sister (golden child) and she refused to see OP was the victim. Dad was the only one with a working brain and common sense.

@almostidioticgirl

2 ай бұрын

She was put in therapy for years with multiple professionals, and she fooled them. What else they could do 😑

@Thaddius0

2 ай бұрын

yeah mb. i commented before i got to that point of the video

@I_Eat_Lemons

Ай бұрын

​@@LunaP1straitjacket.

@izzycurer1260

29 күн бұрын

They did put her in therapy. Did you actually watch the video, or just jump to conclusions based on the title?

The shit sister threatened OP with a good time by removing OP from the wedding and her life.

@MadamStrawberryrose

Ай бұрын

I would thank her if was the OP! That woman is a psycho!

10k for a Dress!? The damn thing made of gold?

@Queenfloofles

2 ай бұрын

My wedding dress cost £70.00 (approx $140 at 2007 exchange rates) because my mum and I made it by hand. It's extra special for that reason.

@Queenfloofles

2 ай бұрын

Yes I can't even imagine spending a fortune on a dress you wear once.

BPD is actually allowed to be diagnosed before 18 since it's best and easier to treat before secondary life issues develop that'd complicate treatment

@Laced_With_Acid

27 күн бұрын

either way this doesnt look like unregulated/untreated BPD, this looks more like unregulated/untreated NPD. same cluster group, but they are different.

Don't pay anything. Disappear three days before the wedding.

Wow, was not expecting a whole BPD stigma tirade in this. Just to be clear, what the commenter said about BPD was wrong. What they are describing is more like NPD aka narcissistic personality disorder. Can BPD people display these traits? Of course, they are part of the same personality disorder cluster, and in fact most people display one or two traits of narcissism and it's perfectly healthy. But you're more likely to see a borderline have a panic attack and threaten to hurt themselves to get a parent to stay than you would to see them try to suffocate the "competition". Narcissists manipulate with calculated, malicious intent, while borderlines manipulate out of fight-or-flight desperation. Neither are okay, but perpetuating the rumor that borderlines are manipulative and dangerous makes getting them help even harder to accomplish.

@amelialoyselle2123

Ай бұрын

Thank god this is in the comments. Hearing that entire BPD tirade really hurt.

@notareallifetiger4817

Ай бұрын

AND both disorders don’t automatically make people evil!! I’ve personally known people with these disorders who went to therapy and genuinely worked on themselves to become better people and resist their disorder’s tendencies!! People with personality disorders are only ever ‘evil’ if they choose to refuse help and perpetuate their toxic behaviour. (I’ve been personally abused and attacked by several people with NPD and it genuinely ruined me, and even though I don’t have any personality disorders I still don’t think people with these disorders are evil)

@gorypriest

Ай бұрын

THANM YOU!!!!! i have undiagnosed bpd that was severe from ages 11-14 (i was verbally and emotionally abusive, especially towards my romantic partners which i regret. The kickstarter was my physically and verbally abusive ex gf) and it's horrible to hear the stigma. I have 2 friends with BPD (one diagnosed, one prof. recognized) and they're thw highlights of my day. They're not abusive to me, or make me feel meek. They're my best friends and we get along really well. I just want mfs to realize ppl with personality disorders didn't want those disorders

@enasabdulkader501

Ай бұрын

Thank you, as a person diagnosed with BPD I felt horrible listening to this and thinking that's what people might think of me

@izzycurer1260

29 күн бұрын

The sister may have bpd-c type. That's one thing people don't realize. It comes in many flavors.

It would be interesting to read the older brothers' takes on the situation: did they both joint the military to GTFO of the house as soon as they turned 18?

The parents may have contributed to X’s horrific personality, but they were ultimately willing to own up and make up for their mistakes once the veil lifted. That’s already better than most parents of a controlling narcissist would attempt, even if the damage has already been done.

Happy Easter to everyone.

@bookwyrmofthenorth

2 ай бұрын

Happy Easter!!

@SaintOtter

2 ай бұрын

Jesus has risen from death, He has Risen indeed! Hallelujah!

@jackolantern147

2 ай бұрын

Happy Easter to you as well!

Not allowing you to be alone w crazy sis says it all. They knew how troubled she was if parents took these obvious steps. Ying-yang parenting.

she just talked a bunch of shit about BPD when her sister is clearly a narcissist

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it...

@peterwilliams6361

Ай бұрын

there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

@user-er9hv4pl2u

Ай бұрын

its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

@peterwilliams6361

Ай бұрын

this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.

@nelissaortiz5405

Ай бұрын

Didn't i see your comment in another reddit vid

@dest5218

Ай бұрын

Lol they are bots, they do this a lot😂​@@nelissaortiz5405

Dropping a BMW and 3 years rent on a single day is insane ngl

my sister did the money for the wedding thing my money became her money and her giant wedding. my brother tried to kill me 4 times before he tried to get me to end myself but so stupid me won’t let him win. my brother fed me caustic soda at 18months old should have killed me. BPD is borderline but she has NPD narcissistic personality disorder

Jokes and pranks are when both parties are laughing if not and it’s constantly a “joke” it’s just bullying.

@southernflight5078

2 ай бұрын

I would've been the one to ask, "If murder is a joke, then why was Ted Bundy arrested?" Shock learning tends to work well in these cases sometimes. Would ask in front of a boatload of people so it leaves a lasting impression.

Sister realised fiance might leave if he gets a moment to think, and baby trapped him.

In the same way you can demand things from me, the same way I can refuse them. Celebration should not be an obligation. If I got married, the only person’s looks I would care for is my own. Selfish people often care about things not just at others’ expense (emotionally/mentally/financially) but also for irrelevant and/or destructive reasons.

$5,000 for a dress? My entire wedding in 1999 cost that. Absolutely insane.

are we going to ignore the fact the OP’s sister stole her fiance from another woman???

26% ?!?! I'm going to go thank my parents tomorrow. Jesus.

@tatsuyahiiragi416

10 күн бұрын

I'm not American or Canadian, but that fucking shocked me too!

Mom and dad didn't cause this I usually blame the parents but the therapy part can only mean one thing the only people who can usually manipulate psychologists and psychiatrists are psychopaths and ASPD is just sth you're born with

Does this guy not carry any swords or meat to heal?

@NotAnIlluminatiSpy

2 ай бұрын

Right?

"I was going to give you $25,000, but because you saved up money, yourself, I can give you less, later, and it will be FINE! NO PROBLEM! No favoritism here! And I'll just take the entire fund from my boys who are putting their lives on the line and may die before they even have a chance to be engaged. What else than a wedding would they EVER want to spend that money on? Investments for their future? PFAH! No way! I mean, what could they possibly even DO to invest $25,000? You won't get anything from a piddly little investment like THAT! It's NOTHING! It's no big deal to take that from them and give it to my daughter, who has always felt left out... Certainly THEY won't feel 'left out' or unloved, just because I took $25,000 from each of them. And my second daughter already worked hard to save up over half of that money, so she doesn't need the other half! I can just give her half, and it will be FINE!" Meanwhile, her oldest daughter is earning $100,000 a year, and COULD save up, herself, but won't, because, "She felt left out and unloved." That mother needs some SERIOUS CONSEQUENCES!

Some people are born bad. As a parent, this is hell. What can you do?

So 1 daughter already has issues from lack of attention, the dad only wants to focus attention on his sons and not his now two daughters, the mother had a breakdown after the OPs birth and then "time for another child" Sounds like the parents prefered having sons rather than raising children.

Blood of the covenant is thicker than water in the womb.

@notevenlistening6072

Ай бұрын

Thank you for using the whole quote 😅

Really, doesn't anyone accusing OP's parents watch the video until the end? The parents definitely didn't take her sister trying to kill her as a joke, that's why they never leave them alone together and put the sister in therapy for many years. They're not enabling her madness, just that the sister was good enough to even fool her therapist and psychologist. And there was no golden child there, just a mother who was mentally weak and unstable that made her prone to being manipulated. The parents having equal savings for all their children showed that. The mother went with the sister wishes only because she was guilt-tripped and manipulated, not out of favoritism. The way she didn't really defend what she did and immediately followed her husband's decision showed that she actually knew she was wrong and didn't really want to do that. And the father didn't even know anything and immediately tried to make it right when he knew the truth, how anyone could call that favoritism is beyond me 😮‍💨 the parents had their flaws, but they were nothing like many of you accused them.

@drdcl2075

2 ай бұрын

Right I was serving for favoritism the whole post couldn't find any

@shinepx7402

Ай бұрын

This is my elder sister

My mom would have put a stop to that kind of nonsense.

@LunaP1

2 ай бұрын

Same.

@almostidioticgirl

2 ай бұрын

Your mother is probably (and I wish so) a mentally healthy woman, while the mother in this story wasn't.

Its really screwed up that the parents talked about the "pillow incident" as a joke. They didn't treat is as a joke. They made sure the sister wasn't alone with OP. They knew it was a serious concern and basically gaslight OP.

If I'm in this situation, I'll back out.

I always laugh when it comes down to government paid healthcare.

@SaintOtter

2 ай бұрын

I always laugh at this strawman

I’ve heard this story before but this must’ve been mistranslated or something because the original post wasn’t this badly written.

Watching these videos makes me incredibly grateful for the family I have.

why does this start out as my sister but the story diverges to her sister

Wait, what?! I seriously don't understand American weddings, I don't expect to invite someone to my party and expect them to pay for anything other than the gas to get there. Jesus, I would have just told her to fuck off with the bridesmaid shit.

@islajadepierre9060

Ай бұрын

It’s not an “American” wedding. It’s a crazy spoiled brat’s wedding. We don’t do this in America on a normal basis. I have never heard of anyone having to pay for a seat at a wedding. This bridezilla is ridiculous.

@NightingaleAnim

Ай бұрын

OP is Canadian, but otherwise, I agree. I don't think it's the norm in the US to charge guests for attendance (it is, however, becoming more normal to ask wedding party members to help foot the bill for outfits, pre-wedding events, etc.) These Reddit stories would make you think this kind of thing happens all the time, but I think it's actually much more rare and is perceived as tacky by most people even within the same "culture"

The biggest take away for me is that the sisters husband is accustomed to nasty and controlling women so she fits in well. Bummer.

There is absolutely no reason why weddings should cost this much. My wife and I got married on a beach, reserved a venue and got catering for roughly $5,000 and everyone had a wonderful time.

I am sad BIL turned out to be awful too. Thank god that Sister wont be enabled anymore.

Its not her parents fault lol. Her sister is sociopath. They didnt abuse here and etc

Is turning into an adult and realizing your family is messed up like a rite of passage now? Siblings trying to kill each other is so common my therapist literally just shrugs and says"yeah sister's are like that sometimes" opon hearing these stories

Not parkour just gameplay…I love it 😮

The issue with putting people in therapy is that if the person in question doesn't want to and don't see a problem with their actions, therapy will be completely useless. You don't need to be a "master manipulator" to say the 'right' things in therapy and it's not like the therapist can control if they're being lied to.

I believe dad is the real villian in the story. Gave his wife ppd, don't care what children are going through. Think his work is only make money.

I hate the fact that BPD is being demonized here as someone with BPD I would never do any of these things I have struggled a lot with the over the years and there is so much misinformation spread about this disorder having BPD does not make you a monster and her having BPD did not make her the person since she was so just keep that in mind if you're listening

I attended a wedding where I was a bridesmaid. I didn't have to do or pay anything, just attend. Even on the wedding day, everything was taken care of by the coordinator's team. Hearing these stories of bridesmaids being busy with important wedding details actually makes me guilty 😅.

Guests having to pay to attend your wedding? You should be thankful that people are even willing to go to a wedding of someone like that

FTR, people with BPD are not a bunch of master manipulators. Some have those traits,but definitely not the majority.

Sister caught trying to smother the baby Family "awww isn't that a cute game" Me" that's not cute that's messed up"

trying to put the BPD diagnosis on the sister is crazy. this is straight up narcissistic personality disorder, not borderline personality disorder. whoever made the comment at 21:16 is confusing the two.

I just wouldn’t go, sounds like a wack sister

I feel so bad for that baby, if anything op went through said anything. That kid is going to go through hell

Ive never heard of guests paying for anything at weddings, MAYBE aside from bar tabs being something that each person takes on their own. This sounds like a shakedown to me

I really disagree with the comments on BPD. Full disclosure , I was diagnosed with the personality disorder about 15 years ago and I've done individual and group DBT therapy. None of us would be described as manipulators. And BPD is not usually diagnosed until the person is around 12 or 13 at the earliest. It's only been in the last couple of years professionals diagnose someone under 18 with it. BPD usually has roots in ab;se or negl?ct. There is a huge fear of abandonment, and usually a lot of self-loathing.

Sister doesn't have her family bully anymore so everything will be directed on her husband and his family. They shouldn't have paid for the wedding at all and they should definitely ignore jer going forward.

OP needs to GTFO tthat family ASAP. Edit: Well maybe not entirely, if she's set on protecting her little sister from all of that.

Didn't know PPD meant postpartum depression which is contracted after childbirth and is a gateway to great depression. Family always seems to be the noose that kills good people.

So many red flags. One of the biggest is say is having guests pay for their attendance. Who makes guests pay? Thats insane.

I remember Caroline of Monaco jokingly telling in an interview she had tried to smother her brother Albert when he was a baby and her mom or nanny stopping her... But I guess that happened in the 60s, rougher times...

Is five years considered too much of an age gap? My brother and I are just under five years apart and we bonded plenty. I even heard that it was a good amount of time between kids.

Screw every story that has a random flashback for boring backstory in the middle.

As someone with BPD I would never do this and this person is sick.

losing a sister, nah. gaining peace of mind. tell the brat not to let the door hit her on the way out.

If someone told me they were getting married then handed me this list of demands, I would laugh in their face. Sister or not.

Okay but the generalized and stigmatized description of BPD is rly gross

I NEED to speak out as italian. Here in italy the wedding gets paid by the couple itself, helped by their parents. You just need to dress on your own, make a gift and in case of being a bride maid partecipate at the bachelorett3 party. It can cost about 400 euro tops, but not 3000 dollars! In my case my family did not had much to offer for my aunt wedding, but she wanted her sister to be there, so she helped my parents as she could. Ok it's up the people, but we DON'T DO THIS in italy!

therapy. all sis will do is learn to say what everyone wants to hear.

*lol women ALWAYS play the victim*

I highly doubt the then fiance knew exactly how "spicy" she was. She doesn't sound mentally stable enough to maintain a healthy relationship. Like I think he knows what she is but he doesn't know what he signed himself up for. I'll be surprised if that relationship lasts

This bish makin profit with the weddin😂😂😂

When dealing with people with BPD you have nothing to gai and everything to lose.

@RepellentJeff

2 ай бұрын

Seriously. It’s like “Evil: The mental illness.”

Not all BPD people are liars 😭

I'm amazed and honestly kind of mad how obviously this story is completely made up, since the POV often switches within the story.

Them not leaving you alone with her after she tried to kill you is proof enough they knew her ass was crazy

If one of my siblings try to unalive me and my fam try to down play it.. I'm calling CPS police the news everyone and shame them

So. I have a thing I'd like to mention. First of All, I have BPD. Or at least I did (I have since recovered! Yay!). What OP is saying about her Sister doesn't seem like BPD to me. It sounds like while OP's Sister may/not have BPD there is definitely something more happening & Considering that if you have 1 PD you're more than likely have Multiple, so (I think the Sister doesn't have BPD) OP's Sister probably has NPD &/or ASPD. And I am saying this as both someone whom has studied to be a Therapist & as someone with ALOT of Mental Health issues. If I were her Therapist I would've diagnosed her with NPD &/or ASPD.

Okay, so the family didn't brush it off as a joke, they took it seriously and did everything they were supposed to do. They put the sister in kid-therapy and kept her away from the child-op until she was old enough to defend herself. The only one calling it a joke was the narc sister once she got a little older, which implies that people were still talking about it years later as if it were a real concern. Op only assumed the sister was telling the truth for a bit, because she was still a kid at the time (I assume), and because she's been dealing with psychological abuse her whole life. Little click-baity there, SecretVoices. Also, I think the MOG was intentionally playing 'the bad guy' at the wedding because she's sussed out that the sister has a mental disorder. You hear all these horror stories about the MIL, but in this case it might actually be justified. She probably doesn't care if her son gets married (as is evidenced by the ex), she just doesn't want a dangerous psycho lady in the family.

Was this story originally written by AI or something because right in the middle all of the sudden all of the pronouns become garbled and don’t make sense?

@damienhanson2046

11 күн бұрын

It is AI

Only once? My sociopathic sister tried to kill me loads of times. But eventipually she got my parents to leave everything to her by lying. After that she seemed happy so long as my oldest sister and me stayed away, that is. She was a real cuckoo in our nest. More sinister is she's a nurse. My other sister and I used to try to calculate how many people she'd killed. You had to like her or she would get vengeful. But as she preferred to nurse the elderly, there's no proof.

That's not BPD, that Npd.

Where I come from, the guests are considered as honoring the bride and bridegroom by their attendance. All this talk of money is tacky.

The fact that even one bridesmaid actually stayed in the wedding with all the bullshit they were supposed to pay for astonishes me.

These are the types of stories that make people hate rich people I'm general.

Sister was not neglected. She had years of therapy. Her parents saw her issue and tried to get her help

Lol, this could never happen to me. I wouldn't pay anything over a cumulative 100€. The first request and i would be out. Also, there is no way I would attend a wedding with an attendance fee.

100,000 is some people’s 3 years salary combined. I’d be happy with a 5,000 or less wedding. The human I marry it’s important not a one time event.

12:56 who the fuck is talking here? Why is her sister suddenly the fiancé's sister? How does her grandson who isn't even born factor into this?? Is op illiterate?? Also, his sister?!

@avencree

Ай бұрын

I’m so glad I’m not the only one who noticed that part went absolutely sideways. Did the AI mess up lol?

@nicoleroth3127

Ай бұрын

I was looking through the comments, just to confirm that I haven't missed anything. 😅 And really, this weird change made me suspicious about the whole story. Changes like that easily happen when telling a made-up story; one, one really has no emotional or personal connection to because it either never happened, or at least not like this, or it happened to someone other than the storyteller. 🤷‍♀️ What also made me wonder about whether this might be a fake is, that at one point OP states that her sister's fiance is a good and stable guy, who's calm and down to earth, and then later writes, that he's always displayed some mildly concerning behaviour... 🤔