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@itenelhak

11 ай бұрын

Definitely agree on the childhood friends and the rivals to lovers dynamics. They are my absolute favourites. 🥰❤ Also, love seeing you and your mom's videos. They are always so cute and fun to watch. 😊

@Jedi-Ghosty

11 ай бұрын

Her takes are really funny and actually quite accurate 😂 Edit: maybe not all of them but a few I definitely think I agree with and are accurate. Just wanted to clarify that

@Daelyah

11 ай бұрын

Some, I definitely agree with. A few others, I have my reasons for appreciating them more than her. But rivals to lovers and childhood friends, DEFINITELY YES. 💗

@evihippogrief772

11 ай бұрын

I don't know... Some I agree with (like optimist x pessimist and good (but evil) x evil (but good)), but others I just totally disagree (like hero x villain or cop x criminal). And then there's also the ships I literally can't put in any bad tier (but your mom did) because I'm included in them (polyamory ships or exes that still have feelings)

@Elia1481

11 ай бұрын

Can you do a video talking about KOSA

Im proud of the energy we created in the studio today

@NAMEREDACTED-lg4bw

11 ай бұрын

Oh, absolutely!

@jujuoof174

11 ай бұрын

Bahaha, same!!!

@Luna_kuna08

11 ай бұрын

Yes

I could never do this with my mother, she would not understand me and would think im absolutely crazy. this is going to surprisingly wholesome to watch

@azr3ii

11 ай бұрын

sameee like my mom would lecture me abt _everything_ 😭😭

@jeezpotato

11 ай бұрын

@@azr3ii right my mom doesn’t think I’m capable of liking things to begin with lolol

@Hewowin

11 ай бұрын

Lmao same

@BishopShotgun

11 ай бұрын

One time my mom found out about my shipping tendencies, we watched an episode starring both characters in the ship (to preface, the episode where I went “I ship it!”). And when we get to that moment in specific, I kid you not, she blurts out with full confidence in the middle of a cute one-off scene: “HE ASSAULTS HIM???”

@Gonzora

11 ай бұрын

I mean... Considering all the trouble shippers bring to fandoms, maybe your mom would be right. 🤔

I think Coley should legally be proclaimed the fanfic queen

@spacedude5208

11 ай бұрын

The leaders of the fan fiction faction or the fff

@sientificpanda

11 ай бұрын

All in favour say g-cough-AY!

@liilaperhonen036

11 ай бұрын

​@@sientificpandaG-COUGH-AY!!!

@odetoclear

11 ай бұрын

*fanfic goddess

@miralang8149

11 ай бұрын

Would that make her mom the Fanfic queen mother?

Love how your mom understands the absolute magic that is ENEMIES TO LOVERS

@leek.3671

11 ай бұрын

YEESSSSS

@GooseBucket-hr1go

11 ай бұрын

I dare say people understood that delightful cauldron of chemistry all the way back when Mr Darcy initially had no intention of dancing with Elizabeth at a ball. ☺

@louzo5175

11 ай бұрын

the way she commented on angst is awesome n on point lmaoo

@faenene

11 ай бұрын

Yes, one of my fav tropes! :D

@M-m585

11 ай бұрын

The classic tropes are naturally the best

I love how in depth she gave her explanations

@Deflamed_Sphere

11 ай бұрын

same it is so intriguing

@stellamariefanboy.6768

11 ай бұрын

As someone who moved to America with a mom that doesn’t speak English all to well, it’s always interesting to me hearing what it’s like being able to have full blown conversations with them and them knowing what you’re talking about without having to simplify.

Legit got so hyped from this notification, Coley's mom slays tbh

@lunarlight3018

11 ай бұрын

Fellow bsd fan?

@freshcupofangst

11 ай бұрын

@@lunarlight3018 You know it! ╮(╯▽╰)╭

@sunlightlotus

11 ай бұрын

They’re so similar in how they explain things in so much detail! It’s adorable 😊💙

@bluespacecadet

11 ай бұрын

​​@@lunarlight3018boy does it suck to be a bsd fan rn 😭

@--Friend--

11 ай бұрын

@@bluespacecadet fr the newest chapter killed me.

Coley's mom is the parental figure I needed when I was younger-

@leek.3671

11 ай бұрын

Sameee

@warriorcatkitty

11 ай бұрын

same 😭

@normanteio5402

11 ай бұрын

same lol

Everyone else go home, Coley's mom has made the definitive tier list! I love how she loves angst, and contrasting couples, but has no tolerance for relationships dynamics that are just bad for one or both characters, I feel that in my soul, and agree so hard.

@Baguettes_The_Great

11 ай бұрын

I do like her list but I despise bully x bullied because it pushes the "he/she bullies you because he/she likes you" trope. Unless the bully isn't the one bullying the bullied, then it's fine

@lusinebaghyan8864

2 күн бұрын

​@@Baguettes_The_Greatthe only story with that trope that I like was "silent voice".

Dang, your mom would be great for storyboarding for charcters and development, she's fantastic 🤩

Coley's mom was so right to put rivals to lovers in god tier. It's devastatingly underrated imo Edit: OKAY OKAY I'M SORRY I SAID UNDERRATED!! It's just that ao3 has lumped rivals to lovers into the enemies to lovers tag when that's not what it is, and when people talk about liking rivals to lovers they usually describe what I see as enemies to lovers! So what I consider rivals to lovers is underrated! The way I see it, rivalries are not *inherently* malicious (though they *can* be if you want) and can quite often be lighthearted and all in good fun, it's a trope where the characters can be competitive and maybe a bit mean with eachother but still friendly, whereas enemies are...Enemies. Hostility towards eachother is inherent in the trope, it's what it's *built* around. TLDR; rivals to lovers and enemies to lovers can be very similar but rivals to lovers is often times more like enemies to lovers more easy going and flexible cousin.

@bluespacecadet

11 ай бұрын

I wonder how her mom would feel about skk considering they are both rivals to lovers and exes that still have feelings for each other lol

@dxrkwitch

11 ай бұрын

when did skk date????? they were ex-partners from the mafia but never actually dated😭💔 did i miss something????😭

@bluespacecadet

11 ай бұрын

@dxrkwitch It's a headcanon within the fandom that they dated while they were in the mafia together

@dxrkwitch

11 ай бұрын

@@bluespacecadet ohhhh we're talking headcanons😭😭 I was like DAMN I GOTTA FINISH SB😭💔

@bluespacecadet

11 ай бұрын

@dxrkwitch Oof, you're still in the "happier days" arc lol. It's rough in the current arc 😮‍💨

It’s nice to see that being a monsterf***** is hereditary.

@BlueDandilon

11 ай бұрын

I choked when I saw this

I see Coley's mom is the kinds person to tell stranger girls in the bathroom "Don't call your ex!!"

I get the feeling Coley's mum would love Good Omens😂 "different sides" "angel x demon". You could also argue the "good but evil, evil but good" im there😂 also "best friends with sus behavior"

@scrunkly_boy1

11 ай бұрын

That's exactly what I was thinking!I love Good Omens so much and season 2 broke my heart😭

@broblerone413

11 ай бұрын

i was thinking the same thing! ineffable husbands is like all the best shipping dynamics rolled into one

@scrunkly_boy1

11 ай бұрын

@@broblerone413 literally though!

@asthejayflies

11 ай бұрын

GOOD OMENS S2 SPOILERS shed be hit by the s2 ending tho, they broke up but clearly still love each other. i wonder if shed change her mind if she understood that sometimes circumstances can change (such as aziraphale coming to realize heaven cant be changed / crowley would never want to come back to heaven no matter how much was changed) that make it so that they really can work through the issue that tore them apart

@deeznutz2454

11 ай бұрын

I’ve been trying to escape the pain :,)

i love that your mum's looking out for the people in the dynamics it's so sweet

@warriorcatkitty

11 ай бұрын

ayyy collector pfp pics! :D

@Pinkywinkykinky

11 ай бұрын

Think she'd end up despising Catradora not liking the sweet one getting the bad side of things even with all the friends to enemies to lovers-ness

@scaramoucheshusband

11 ай бұрын

@@Pinkywinkykinky catradora is mid i'm not sorry

@blockgirlygamer7714

11 ай бұрын

@@scaramoucheshusbandur right and I just wish that we could get a GOOD actually healthy wlw enemies to lovers for once 😭

Ya know, your mum is very wise. She's allowed me to have a new perspective on some of the dynamics that apply to my previous relationship. Mainly "Exes that still have feeling for each other". My ex broke up with me because he wanted to work on himself a bit, and in the beginning I was fantasising, and even now I've been fantasising that he'll realise what he's missed out on and come asking to get back together with me. And part of me wants to take him back. But, she makes a good point - if we really cared about each other, we would find a way to work things out between us. And She's right. Our chapter is over. We need to start a new one with new people. Thank you, Coley's mum, for helping me confirm my decision of not chasing after him anymore. I need to find someone new who is willing to work through things with me there to support them. I was so willing to support my ex in any way, but he really wanted to break things off between us while he worked his own things out. Plus, he's currently ghosting me after he said we can still be friends. So yeah. SCREW HIM! I'M GONNA FIND SOMEONE ELSE! Again, thank you, Coley's mum. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! ❤❤❤

@Daelyah

11 ай бұрын

The most recent nightmare I had was a "Life Is Strange"-esque one, in which I tried to repair broken friendships, including with the last ex. However, it led to losing my best friend and current nesting partner, as well as an alternate reality version of myself getting into severe trouble with the law. Coley's mom has some damn good wisdom that can certainly be applied to RL relationship dynamics. Just further confirming that former relations don't deserve any more of my headspace.

@Professor_Brie

11 ай бұрын

A family member of mine broke up with a serious girlfriend, and while he was in the midst of getting over his feelings for her and having a really hard time, I remember him explaining that even if she decided she wanted to get back together, he wouldn’t do it, because she had already broken his trust in her, and even if she fixed the issues she had that caused the situation (she never took initiative to get therapy for those problems), he would never be able to have that trust for her again. She may one day fix those problems and have a healthy long lived relationship with someone else, but the two of them could never go back after that break up (and no, it wasn’t a cheating situation, just that the break up was essentially her throwing him in the trash, as he described it)

@Doryzitter

11 ай бұрын

I had a scarily similar situation happen to me. A guy I dated broke things off barely a month after we went on a date that wasn't supposed to be a date. I had wanted a reason to escape my house for awhile because of personal reasons, and that "date" ended with me asking if we were dating. I realize it was a foolish question to ask, but I was wary of his intentions when he kissed me. Turns out, I had been right, cuz a year later, he confessed he had been using me as a distraction from his life. In all honesty, I couldn't blame him for that, since I was doing the same thing kind of. Anyway, he said he needed to work on some things, and I didn't try to talk him out of the relationship. I didn't want to seem clingy, and I thought it was wise of him to better himself so he could pursue the kind if relationship he wanted, preferably not with me. I agree with Coley's mom; once you're out, you're out. I didn't know how to feel about him anyway, especially after feeling pressured by a mutual friend between him and me to date each other since we _clearly_ had feelings for each other 😒

@applepatronum4934

11 ай бұрын

Ahw this is so nice to read. I support you in your decision!

I clicked onto this knowing immediately "this woman is gonna have Such great opinions"

Your mom’s opinions and explanations are literally so valid

Man I WISH I could have a family member rank shipping dynamics but the only one who even knows what shipping is is my brother and he doesn't really care about shipping even when its a canon relationship.

@cloudenvy47

11 ай бұрын

REAL

i should do this with my mom, who is literally a professional writer

@suavefrog5029

11 ай бұрын

Omg plssss 🙏🙏

@aurelius-sparks

11 ай бұрын

that would be interesting!

@Typicali

11 ай бұрын

@@aurelius-sparkstrue 🥹

@randompersontrying9700

11 ай бұрын

OMG YESS

@Beloveid

10 ай бұрын

YESSS

FINALLY! Someone GETS IT with bully x bullied. I don’t necessarily want them TOGETHER together. I WANT to see the dynamic play out. I want the psychological impacts. I want CONSEQUENCES. I want THINGS to HAPPEN for REASONS related to those psychological ISSUES. It’s not about the ship necessarily. It’s about the potential. It’s about the human psyche. It’s so much more than just ‘I wanna see em fck’. I could NEVER explain it before

@sentineluno

9 ай бұрын

Tldr: op needs therapy

I love that your mom is very invested in the character development in a ship. It shows she really looks at them like, "But is the story around them going to be good?" Which really makes ya think about "hm, I wonder why I like the ships that I like?"

I love how the Mom is all for healthy relationships

ok but your mum has some really based reasoning 👏

I like the distinction between "bully" and "villain" made here. The bully doesn't understand themselves fully, and might want to be changed but the villain is likely a better schemer, and could drag the hero down to their level.

@wiltingrosel7449

10 ай бұрын

Yes!!! I feel a lot people missed that part of the mom's explanation on why she likes bully X bullie!

I love how cerebral and deeply thought-out your mom gets with her choices and reasoning, super intriguing! She's definitely got the Elder Fandom mindset well in hand. If I asked my mom, she'd go purely based on vibes and not put nearly as much care into it. (No shame, we all love the vibes in this house!)

Your mom is actually on point with a lot of these tbh. She’s got the balance between the couple having enough differences to make it interesting but not wanting pointless fighting or drama. Also she could not be more right about rivals to lovers GOD TIER

She is no longer just your mother, Coley, she is now OUR mother! XD

@book_roblox

11 ай бұрын

She had trafficked us😨

I adore how concerned your mom is about the health of these notional relationships. It's very sweet.

HERE WE GO AGAIN! MY DOSE OF MRS. DOESTHINGS SPITTING FACTS.

when your mom went OFF about exes who still have feelings for each other? i felt that

coley on a posting spree we love to see it oh mother coley feed us with the fandom trash we crave for

I love how Coley’s mom knows some fandom slang XD

My mom listened to this as I was watching, and when she heard, “lovers to rivals” she laughed out loud and exclaimed, “I love it!”

COLEY’S MOM SAYING TO THE EXES THAT STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER “YOU’RE DONE GET OVER IT” HAS ME ON THE FLOOR LMAO

I love how your mom gave reasonable explanations to a lot of her choices. She really gave this some thought. I could literally never do this with my mom. 😅

Lmao Colley’s mom talking about monster x human Reason why they like it Mom: “I want to see how it works” Colley(what she thinks) “I want to see how “it” works😏”

@rxbelrubiez

11 ай бұрын

LMAO THATS LITERALLY WHAT I WAS THINKING TOO 😭

@book_roblox

11 ай бұрын

NAHHHHHHH BROTHA NAHHHHHHHHHHHH

Coley’s mom really giving out free romantic advice if you squint

living for all of the weird barbie creature cameos in the editing

My mom would be so confused if I tried to tell her about anything to do with ships T^T

the fact that she watches edits on Instagram is so cute 😭❤️

the fish from barbie mermaid tails set off the chaotic vibes from the start.

I love your mom caring for the sunshine person, even though it’s fictional she doesn’t want anyone hurt. What a queen. 😭💕

We need another tier ranking video from Coley and her mom but for Kdramas 👀💙💙

@donagorali5950

10 ай бұрын

YES EXACTLY!!! Such a good video idea!!!

Your mom is literally the best 😭

The GOAT mom is back at it again🔥🔥🔥

Coley’s mom just gets it about the exes trope. Like, you two broke up for a reason! What makes you think things are going to be any different the second time around? Pro tip for real life: if you ever find yourself tempted to get back with your ex, remind yourself of exactly why they’re your ex.

I wasn’t expecting a deep relationship and media analysis here, but I’m here for it now.

"Rivals to Lovers. I want to see the ANGST" I've never heard something more relatable in my life

I always loved this type of videos. "my mom ranks...." "my mom reacts to..." You know that it'll always be a banger everytime

Let’s be honest, we all want a mom like Mama Coley

This was great! I loved listening to your mother's reasons, and it was fun seeing how she went from "Let's go off of if they will work out or not IRL" to "Hmm.. But will this be Interesting?". Her and I have very similar tastes lol

A Love Between Fairy And Devil reference!!! Ironically that’s possibly my moms fave c-drama for the MC’s relationship 😂😂😂

3:20 your mom just validated my feelings so perfectly here. Having been broken up the only two times I dated by guys who left the country, yeah, I've witnessed people working that out, those two just didn'r want to. 😭

@book_roblox

11 ай бұрын

They do not deserve you, sis. As many have said, "there are plenty of fish in the sea"

The energy both of them have is great 😂🤌🏻

I'm tempted to do this with my mom now, she was one of the original star trek fan girlies 🤣🤣

Damn I love her! Even the ones I disagreed on, she was making points! Love seeing parents who are able to have fun like this, mine would not want to play along and/or be very concerned lmao

I guess the liking of "Monster x Human" is genetic. I've also got the thought that your mother might be into Lumity if you showed her it knowing her tastes.

@Frostfern94

11 ай бұрын

I was thinking that

@braindavidgilbert3147

11 ай бұрын

Some studies do show that kinks might be at least a little genetic.

@somegoodsoup7008

11 ай бұрын

​@@braindavidgilbert3147no flippin way you gotta be cappin, man! I need to see the proof on this.

@braindavidgilbert3147

10 ай бұрын

@@somegoodsoup7008 cant link on youtube, so look up “Are Kinks Hereditary? What Science Says About the Genetics of Desire” by Glamour.

i could never imagine explaining ANYTHING from fanfic culture to ANYONE i know irl, let alone my parents. but here Coley is, just sharing it all with her mom. you go girl. but i'll be over hear vaguely referencing my interests because i will actually die if someone irl know what i write.

THE EGGMAN AND STONE CLIP KILLED ME, COLEY LIKES ALL MY WEIRD SHIPS!!

Your mom speaks facts! Her voice is so pretty and she seems so sweet! You guys have such a close bond I hope we can see her in future videos

Your mom is such a wise person, love hearing her insights XD

I love it when Coley's mom is on the channel.

I like how deep her answers and thought processes are lol

Your mum is adorable and makes a lot of sense. I find myself agreeing most often. It was wonderful "meeting" her, and you're right, she explained herself well and it wasn't weird at all. Chin up Mama Coley, you were a joy to watch and hear your thoughts on. I'd love to see you on more one day.

1am over here! Can't wait to watch the video Edit: Personally I agree with your mom's tier list full heartedly!

Now I know what to write to capture your mother. It's all over for her. Rivals to lovers or childhood friends in a K-drama fandom. Hell, I'll write both in the same fic if I can get away with it.

I love your mom, she seems like a sweet lady :)

"monster x human... this is interesting" got me i just-😆

I’m curious now to see how Mama DoesThings would react to Raeda from The Owl House

Coley and her mum are so cute and wholesome together 🥺🥺🥺 this made my heart feel so full 🥺❤❤

I have never wanted to be friends with someone's mom so bad- she seems like an absolute sweetheart with taste!

Your mom is such a sweetheart. You guys are so cute 😊

Opposites attract is such a fun dynamic, I vibe with your mom’s god tier rankings 😍

This was so wholesome, especially the ad part where you ate the snacks with your mom! 💖

This was such a fun video, I love hearing your mom's opinions on this stuff

I really like the mature perspective!

mama coley is a woman of taste!!!!

her asking 'what's sus behavior' got me lmao

Coley's mom being an absolute badass is my temporary therapy while mine is having a baby 👍

6:16 I want to know why she likes this one in comparison to the 'anger problems x a literal sunshine', cause I see 'bully x bullied' as having the same issues as the other trope but worse cause it's even more likely to be handled po.orly and consequently send a bad message. 6:43 She even uses the word 'anger' XD

i love your mom and i want to see more of her on the channel!! her commentary is giving me life

Mama Coley is awesome! She has very interesting opinions and her explanations for why are good and really clear, she knows what she wants and that's awesome! That's goals as someone who's indecisive, LOL. Ahhh every ad you do for Sakura Co. and Tokyo Treat makes them sound so good! I gotta subscribe to them, seriously. Awesome video as always, Coley! Keep up the great, entertaining work! 😁

Your mom is great fun to watch doing this. She adapted to the game right away and had interesting reasoning for her choices. It’s sweet your mom could do this with you.

This was so sweet, I wish my mom would have the same perspective on doing stuff with me. I wish you two all the best!

YOUR MOM IS SO CUTE AND WISE 😭❤ I WAS SMILING FROM THE FIRST SECOND

Enjoyed myself greatly! The amount of editing that I imagine went into this video blows me out of the water - hats off to you Coley, you really knocked this one out of the park *_*

Your mom is an angel and hilarious. Also, I didn't expect to see Xiao Xingchen when I clicked on this, but I'm glad I did

I LIVE for Miss. Does Thing's ranking videos, she seems like such a sweet person.

Your relationship with your mom is so heartwarming. 🥰

I love her Mom! She explains her reasoning in a similar way I do and it’s very comforting to hear someone go so in-depth with ship dynamics. Love the new video!!☺️

The abrupt snapcube reference at 5:25 absolutely threw me-I thought I’d accidentally clicked onto another video lol

Love the wholesome insights in this video. As an author it’s always instructive to see audience reactions to ship dynamics! Thanks for enriching the wider author sphere! ❤

I literally just watched the video where you ranked shipping dynamics 😭

It's was great listening to your mom's reasoning! You two have a delightful dynamic. I would love to see her again on the channel!Please tell her she did a good job explaining (and I love the editing memes for emphasis 😂).

Love that your mom gave her input and her reasoning was so good and well thought out!

Omg y’all are so adorable together this was so much fun to watch.❤❤❤❤

I love hearing your mom's opinions about each, it's really insightfull. She's so right, let's promote healthy dynamics!! What a Queen! ❤

Your mom has great explanation and taste I really respect her choices! I love her sas!

Now I want to see Coley do this to see how it compares to her mom’s