It took my mother 31 hours to give birth to me. Mothers are warriors.

@AlexandrasGirlyTalk

7 жыл бұрын

+Solann Lis-Amboyan oh my gosh! Give her a big hug for it ❤❤❤

@Solann_zla

7 жыл бұрын

AlexandrasGirlyTalk trust me, I try to thank her every day. Congratulation, your baby is adorable and looks full of character !^^

@cianajames55

7 жыл бұрын

Solann Lis-Amboyan wow I thought 21 hrs for me was bad. Congrats to your mom

@EvaLetitia

7 жыл бұрын

Solann Lis-Amboyan my labour was 38 hours 😅

@evealexandra7255

7 жыл бұрын

Solann Lis-Amboyan my mom took 56hours aha

Omg... I’ve watched your channel for like a year and didnt know you were a mom Edit: this comment is my biggest flex

@muskanverma8536

5 жыл бұрын

True 😂❤️

@preetkharoud8470

4 жыл бұрын

Me tooooooo

@kirstantaylor6046

4 жыл бұрын

Caislee Erica ME EITHERRRRR

@thyiacolt5335

4 жыл бұрын

It was a pleasant surprise

@mynameisanafer4361

4 жыл бұрын

Same I’m literally in shook

I can not tell you how stressed I was while you were pregnant and told us about you're decision on no ultra sound and a home birth I was in constant anxiety about it because of what happened to my baby when I chose to go that route, because of my choice to do no ultra sounds and a natural home birth, doctors weren't aware of the severe issue going on inside of me, I ended up having a placental abruption which could have 100000% been avoided if I had gone to the hospital and had more ultra sounds. I was of an inch of my life, they were able to save me but they could not save my baby. I was full term, 10 months of pregnancy what I thought was a perfectly healthy pregnancy turned out to be the most traumatic awful thing of my life because I lost my baby ONLY due to wanting a natural pregnancy and birth. I was freaking out when you shared you were doing the exact same thing I did and you seems very naive to the fact that nothing could go wrong. I am so so so so so proud of you for making the decision to go to the hospital and possibly saving your baby by going against your beliefs of natural birth. I am so proud of you and filled with relief that you have a beautiful healthy baby boy. So happy for you.

@BonniePeter

6 жыл бұрын

Katarina Borghoff I'm so sorry for your loss. xx

@dacruzinha82

6 жыл бұрын

I, too, am sorry for your loss Katarina. I also had the same fears for her. But hearing from someone who knows the dangers firsthand such as yourself is invaluable! I hope you can somehow repeat in the future, what you did here...educating others from the perspective of genuine personal experience, tragic as it was. You can truly improve or even save the lives of so many. Thank you for sharing your story, and I whole-heartedly wish all the best to you and yours 😊

@dacruzinha82

6 жыл бұрын

And Bonnie Peter, good for you to be the first to even acknowledge her loss. Frankly I am shocked that only 2 people in 1 year said anything at all!

@sarahsoriano09

6 жыл бұрын

This is so sad. I am so sorry for your loss. I experienced not the same but my first child was sick when she was born. She had gastroschisis, however I had a full scan and monthly check with ctg scan and ultrasound, doctors still missed out that my baby was sick, so when I was giving almost birth, they realized to check one last ultrasound to look how the baby was laying. It was destiny that it happened if it wasn’t. I could imagine the pain of your loss. I almost lost my girl. She was fighting 4 months in the clinic and was 2 weeks in coma after birth. I hope you are doing great. ❤️❤️❤️🍀🍀🍀 I wish you all the best and luck ❤️❤️❤️

@butterpecanrican_

6 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss! Just a few posts up from yours are women patting themselves on the back for going through natural birth, pain and everything. Women giving birth is an amazing thing regardless of the circumstances. Why can't we just recognize that instead of having pissing contests about how much stronger some women are than others? It's childish and it doesn't help anyone. Women are warriors, end of. I cannot imagine what you went through, and I thank you for taking the time to share your story.

"Alonzo I know that this is a personal story for you and I just wanted to know if you were comfortable with me filming this?" Alonzo: *shakes head no* Alexandra: "are you comfortable with filming this?" Alonzo: *complete straight face and shakes head no* 😂😂😂😂 lmaoooo Alonzo didn't want his business out there 😭 he's too cute

@shinjinichakraborty9658

5 жыл бұрын

.

@thisisnerdi

4 жыл бұрын

.

@fadalerabrasool3563

4 жыл бұрын

i love how direct and straightforwars he was even tho he was a newborn

Thank you all for supporting my family! I'm so excited to share more with you as I go through this journey as a first time mom.

@honeybait

7 жыл бұрын

AlexandrasGirlyTalk congratulations you and your little family are so adorable, thanks for sharing 💖

@michaella9880

7 жыл бұрын

AlexandrasGirlyTalk Congrats! Wishing you all the best!

@alisonvasquez2004

7 жыл бұрын

AlexandrasGirlyTalk congrats 🎉ILYSM your baby is so handsome ❤💜💙

@incognito2182

7 жыл бұрын

AlexandrasGirlyTalk OMG I'VE BEEN WAITING !!👏😙💙

@paulatahiraj6276

7 жыл бұрын

AlexandrasGirlyTalk CONTGRATS I know your an amazing mum and hope your child is bliss LOVE YOU💋

lollll she went shopping and got her hair done while her water was breaking 😂😂

@salmareda7073

7 жыл бұрын

MoveOn i went to macdonalds

@Startwithhello

7 жыл бұрын

MoveOn I went to a fancy Italian restaurant while I was in Labor 😂 I was trying to eat but contractions and baby made that a lol hard

@clockworktangerine9891

7 жыл бұрын

Sammie Lee You have a new fan here 😂

@Tortnado1

7 жыл бұрын

When my water broke in the hospital I called my husband to bring me nailpolish remover. Why? I wanted him to hold my hand after delivering and see my nails looking pretty. ))

@user-ex3ey9tk5j

7 жыл бұрын

MoveOn lolll

"Let's cut the zen thing" me when people test me at school lmao

In Middle East they call labor the forgotten pain because once you see your baby you suddenly forget all the pain you’ve been through ❤️

@lemonycatapult7300

5 жыл бұрын

Nonti Oii that’s so beautiful!

@Elena-gv5wi

5 жыл бұрын

forget the pain HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH no you don't HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

@liljinxy14

5 жыл бұрын

Lol .. my baby is just over 4 months now and I had a natural birth with no pain medication.... I still remember every second of that terrible pain ... I think it's just that moment when you're baby becomes more important than everything else that makes you not think about the pain ... 🤔😁

@Tata-iu3fy

5 жыл бұрын

Lily Durandt right!

@lyynaldawoud5844

4 жыл бұрын

@@liljinxy14 i'm middle eastern, and i can tell you that we mean the moment that you see your baby, you fall in love with him/her to a level that you forget the pain to the amount of love♥️

"You're looking really handsome today" "yeeah" ... Cutest thing ever omg

@holzveena6267

7 жыл бұрын

Alesha Hussain img I heard that toooooo 😂🤘🏼

@shania6823

7 жыл бұрын

Alesha Rahman when

@julissamartinez9521

7 жыл бұрын

+: : 0:57

@freyaburton2584

7 жыл бұрын

he's always looking handsome

"yeah... but it's fine. Just keep doin my hair" THIS WOULD DO BE ME 😂😂

Girl he CLEARLY shook his head no to filming the video. This is a privacy violation.

@fivesix3868

5 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@pockeythepug7258

4 жыл бұрын

I’m deceased right now

@neeshespieces

3 жыл бұрын

I guess thats why she put it at the end 😂😂

I HAVE NOOOOT. CLOSED MY MOUTH SINCE I SAW THE TITLE OF THIS VIDEO. WAS IT JUST MEEE THAT DIDNT KNOW SHE WAS A MOM?!!!! 😱😱. LOOKING GREAT MOM!!!

@hellenakinyi4750

5 жыл бұрын

Haha me too... I'm a new subscriber and I was so shocked

@coconoot3972

5 жыл бұрын

@@hellenakinyi4750 I've been watching her videos for so long I'm so embarrassed i didn't realize 😂

OMG - the ending when he shakes his head!! He's beautiful :) congratulations to you and your family

@meliijvelasquez3715

7 жыл бұрын

kat v yyyeeesssssssssssssssssssss

@sunshineseli

7 жыл бұрын

BeautyyBird yessssss your turn now♡

@evecosmic

7 жыл бұрын

BeautyyBird I know! So adorable 😍

I always said their baby will be a model😂❤Congratulations such beautiful parents

@sophiemay3007

7 жыл бұрын

D. A.R.M.Y ❤

@neogotmyback3544

7 жыл бұрын

D. ARMYYYY

@allyg.3812

7 жыл бұрын

D. AYEEE ❤❤

@ladylopez3112

7 жыл бұрын

D. Army❤❤ You're so kind fellow Army!!!

@egas2220

7 жыл бұрын

ayeeee

0:56 She said: "You Looking Very Handsome Today" The Baby Boy said: "Yeah" Is it only me who heard him say. "Yeah"🤣🤣 P.S. He is so cute💙

@asthamishra5347

5 жыл бұрын

Omg sameee

@HopeElayne

5 жыл бұрын

Thought I heard it too lol

@gurlainthappeningmsp6746

4 жыл бұрын

Roselyn Garcia15 i heard “You are”

Me: I'm not gonna watch a 15 minute birth story tf Me, 15 minutes later: oh

Am I the only one with Baby Fever now?! Ugh lol Congrats my love xoxo

@AlexandrasGirlyTalk

7 жыл бұрын

+Christine Di'Amore 👼🏻😘😘😘

@madamecochon-swinia-varken6773

6 жыл бұрын

OMG CHRISTINE YOU WATCH ALEXANDRA??

@max12grdn34

5 жыл бұрын

Love both of your channels😍😍😍

@sanabeauty2028

5 жыл бұрын

Christine Di'Amore has christibe

You made the best choice. Child birth should not feel like hell now a days. We should enjoy it, it's a special moment. Thank you modern medicine!!!

@fullyshimmer

7 жыл бұрын

Rebeca Garcia This is real talk

@fridasarahyx6066

6 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@bohnblue4153

5 жыл бұрын

Truth tea

@lisat9149

5 жыл бұрын

Ellie Daisy nooo 🤦🏼‍♀️ a child needs to grow in the womb to develop his organs to be able to survive. Along with this comes a certain hight, that’s just natural. And over all, pain during labor doesn’t prevent conception. In fact, biologically, every creature “wants” his own species to spread. As seen in the animal world, if there’s too much of one population, the number will decrease because there is not enough food e.g. 🤷🏼‍♀️

@samsoon6144

5 жыл бұрын

Everyone is different. For me personally, natural is important for various reasons. I've had 3 natural births. I think people underestimate themselves. They're stronger than they think.

Ultrasound technologist here, sorry we aren’t allowed to discuss our findings, we know you’re worried and anxious too and trust me it’s tough for us to not able to give you the reassurance you need as well :(

@helin4397

4 жыл бұрын

FleetingDreams But why are you not allowed to say anything?🤔

@sophiagrace6361

4 жыл бұрын

Why can't you say anything?

@iselazamora8406

4 жыл бұрын

Soph Gm because only doctors can give results. Sonographers are only allowed to suggest results to the doctor (:

@Aaishamohamed

4 жыл бұрын

I am also a sonographer and legally we are not allowed to discuss results because that would be a diagnosis and only doctor's can diagnose.

@breonawarren1507

4 жыл бұрын

Technically & literally Ultrasound tech’s aren’t doctors. So they may see something but they can’t say because they may not be 100% sure. I know it sounds terrible but it’s for legal reasons

It only took 2 hours for my mum to deliver me, I really wanted to get out 😂

@elieelias3024

5 жыл бұрын

Chanice Condrit it took me 30 minutes

@Layla.Whelly

5 жыл бұрын

It took me 2 seconds

@arianacabrera9443

4 жыл бұрын

I was perfectly fine with where i was took my mother 14 hours😂 i didnt wanna come out AT ALL

@riha4618

4 жыл бұрын

I just sped up the things and came out 2 months earlier 😂

@lucyroberts4041

4 жыл бұрын

I took over 4 and I was two weeks late

Who else think she's baby is so cute

This video really helps women understand that a "birth plan" can easily change, and that a woman should never feel "guilty" about birthing in a way that differs from that plan. No one knows what to expect, if you're a first time mum. Six out of seven births (my first six girls) were fast, natural births...my son, my last child, resulted in a 24 hour labor and Nubain (no epidural). Labor is WORK! In the end, a safe delivery and a healthy baby is all that matters ;). Congrats on your beautiful, little guy.

@MrEvldreamr

3 жыл бұрын

Women just shouldnt feel like they have sth to "prove" i know alot of mothers want to have kids like their grandma or mom but it may not be the best option.... its important to consider other options like epis, or forceps/suction if you dont want a C section (C sections may be best if you have more than one child for example twins or triplets)

I hollered at " cut the whole Zen thing"

Alexandra: “You’re looking really handsome today” Baby: “yeeea”

It makes me angry when some women think or believe that medical intervention is unnecessary!!! 😳 I believe people should be open to doctor's instructions. When they tell you your fluid is low go to the damn hospital. I am glad you made the right decision and went to the hospital. Congratulations and I am so happy that you and your adorable baby are healthy.

@BadW0lf_

7 жыл бұрын

farhiya kohi .

@Naty2Nasty

7 жыл бұрын

farhiya kohi doctors aren't trustworthy for crap anymore

@kimberlychiu5611

7 жыл бұрын

why would you say that? that's so insulting. I'm sure you're not smart enough to get PHD and don't ever visit a doctor when you're sick. Respect people's profession.

@KS-ec9ib

7 жыл бұрын

@free spirit every person who hasn't suffered/struggled to get through med school and everything after that has NO idea how much you have to study and know in order to earn that degree.. it's a lifelong learning profession....

@raithigovender195

7 жыл бұрын

lol clara yeah back when woman would give birth without medical intervention would die shortly after birth due to internal bleeding, and lack of proper monitoring systems. There is nothing wrong with having a natural birth, but anything that puts the mother and child at risk needs to be dealt with, with the appropriate medication or there will for sure be loss of life.

"cut the whole zen thing" lmao

@katiebrowne5849

7 жыл бұрын

Julia Dillon x

@begentlebutdontallowshit2549

6 жыл бұрын

Julia Dillon

@darleysenat993

6 жыл бұрын

Julia Dillon I was dying when she said that 😂😂

@dacruzinha82

6 жыл бұрын

Darley Senat Omg, me too, and not in a vicious way! It's just that the sole purpose, (in retrospect), of me watching this video was maybe to somehow justify why I myself didn't think twice about the need for a hospital with my first son! That said, I fully expected to finish the video feeling guilty. Instead, I too was reminded how fortunate we are with modern medicine and am so glad that she did what felt right :)

@darleysenat993

6 жыл бұрын

M5Miss I'm glad you both made the right choice for yourselves! God bless ❤

So many similarities with my experience! The pain was unbearable, and the epidural made the world of difference. Your son is adorable. Thanks for sharing. 💜

"No like lets cut the zen mode, i need you to roll out the options here" LMAO

I'm so scared to give birth lol

@noellet62able

7 жыл бұрын

God me too !

@Cloudz4k_

7 жыл бұрын

Me too

@kirstia

7 жыл бұрын

it's honestly not that bad. i've had two natural drug free births and i'd do it again over lots of other things lol

@Themiamimommy

7 жыл бұрын

Zhara Doll my sister said getting her wisdom teeth out hurt more than giving birth 😂

@taniamejia5359

7 жыл бұрын

Dalila Ben Salah everyone has a different experience when it comes to childbirth. some experiences are easy some are not. But once you're pregnant you won't care about the pain, you will be more concerned in meeting your child. Don't be afraid of it luv.

I kept on wiping that smudge on your wall thinking it was on my phone lmao

@rabiah488

7 жыл бұрын

Laina R 😂😂😂💖

@user-ex3ey9tk5j

7 жыл бұрын

Laina R Sameeee

@emmasawyer5018

7 жыл бұрын

SAME!!!!

@supriyabk7568

7 жыл бұрын

Laina R same 😂😂😂😂😉

@delhawk8726

7 жыл бұрын

Laina R nooo! Why'd you point it out lmao

"Why don't we start wrapping this up..." 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@boysmomx3

4 жыл бұрын

Eva C Favorite part so far 😂 oh the confidence of youth and first time labors! “This isn’t gonna work for me” 😂

@breonawarren1507

4 жыл бұрын

I knew a guy whose girlfriend was in labor & he got mad at the doctor & nurses because they weren’t “speeding up or helping her” when in reality she had only been in labor for like 3 hours. He didn’t understand you can’t push right away.

He’s so cute ❤️❤️❤️ Congrats girl your gonna be an amazing mom.

Am i the only one who hears these stories and suddenly starts feeling something really really weird and cringy in my stomach ? 😂

@sissi12a14

7 жыл бұрын

Maira Imtiaz no , samee xD

@delhawk8726

7 жыл бұрын

Maira Imtiaz haha that's how I was ! Anything about pregnancy "grossed me out" it made me uncomfortable hearing/talking about it buuuut now I'm pregnant & it don't bother me no more lol

@dimplepascua3921

7 жыл бұрын

I felt "cramps" all throughout the video. 😄

@mizzyuk8697

7 жыл бұрын

Maira Imtiaz​ lol I guess not coz I was holding on to my waist and tummy pretty hard 🙈🙈

@TheGoldenwolf522

7 жыл бұрын

what the fuck me too

It's like she has a different type of smile on her face... The smile of PURE HAPPINESS

Oh my goodness! He looks JUST like you! God bless you and your family

A woman’s delivery is one of the most miraculous and beautiful things I’ve experienced. It’s amazing how strong a woman is at that moment.

I had four children, two with demeral and two completely natural. you talk about pain! I wanted to punch someone, i just couldn't deal with a needle in my back. I never knew how much pain I could tolerate, I don't know if I could do it again. 😂😂😂 enjoy being a mommy! my kids are big now, 26, 21, 19 and 14. Oh and I'm a new grandmother! 🤗❤

your baby is beautiful ❤❤❤ congrats. expecting my first baby in 3 weeks. so I'm pretty nervous.

@biancast5324

7 жыл бұрын

chikita bonita good luck 😙

@Javry4real

7 жыл бұрын

chikita bonita me too! :)

@hotcoffee6911

7 жыл бұрын

chikita bonita good luck

@Isis_Ra

7 жыл бұрын

chikita bonita good luck hun wish u a healthy baby

@kristiin816

7 жыл бұрын

I'm expecting mine in 7 weeks and also nervous ❤ we can do this lol

This baby is soooooooo cute 😻

"Oh by the way, the reason I'm going to the bathroom so much is because my water is breaking" *oh my gosh your water is breaking? Are you okay?* IM DYING 😂😂😂😂

Wow i'm 38 weeks pregnant and I want a natural birth. This just helps me realize that not everything goes as plan and not feel ashamed if I don't get the natural birth I want! But congrats again ❤

@mandir3256

7 жыл бұрын

Julia Rosas you can do it! I did it twice and 2nd child was way bigger than my first. u can do it!

@lolingyou3298

7 жыл бұрын

Julia Rosas always have a plan B

@Minaas93

7 жыл бұрын

Just trust the nurses, midwifes and doctors. If something happens and they recommend you to take drugs to ease the pain - do it! I've not given birth myself, but I don't think anyone can even imagine the amount of pain you will be in. Don't feel like you need to prove anything. To be honest - I think our ancestors would slap us in the face if they knew we voluntary choose to have a natural birth when we don't need to, haha! I guess it's a cultural thing though. Here in Norway I can guarantee you 99 % of mothers-to-be will answer "hell no, I don't have anything to prove" if someone ask them if they're having a natural birth or not, haha! Good luck with your labor :) And congratulations on your pregnancy!

@8LuckyHearts

7 жыл бұрын

Julia Rosas good luck with labour and your baby!:) I want to let you know that you're right about the infinite possibilities about birth, from almost no pain (I'm serious) to very intense pain, and luckily there are always options for every individual's particular circumstance. There is no right or wrong way to give birth, just whatever's right for YOU. After having my baby, I would just like to say two things to you: 1) REST at EVERY moment that you can when labour starts- between every single contraction just focus on rest and nothing else. When a contractions comes, let it pass over you like a wave, but REST in between. IGNORE early labour for as long as possible, sleep as much as you can during the night and keep doing what you planned to do during the day (just like any other day). 2) no matter what happens, take some alone time (with your partner or support person who will keep your space safe) to take a moment to gather your strength before you make any decision you may need to make. Take a contraction to wait, take two. This will give you more confidence and sureness, which will help you make the best decision that you can in the moment. And I mean every decision, from whether you want to move to a different location, to any interventions, right down to cutting the cord once your baby is born. Follow your gut-feeling. Birthing is for YOU and YOUR BABY, nothing can ever take that away from you! Doctors, nurses, and midwives all have the best intentions, but at the end of the day, you make the call and you know better than anyone else what it is you are feeling on the inside. (What you feel is so important, I can't overstate it. Your confidence and safety are the BEST thing to keep labour going smoothly, the hormones in YOUR body control the show) Again, good luck and I hope you have the best birth for you!

@bouszaye

7 жыл бұрын

Julia Rosas Good on you. My experience from the birth of my first child taught me to have an open mind with my next pregnancy. I had to have an emergency c-section as my baby was distressed as my body would not progress with dilation. All you can do is do what's best for yourself and baby. aim for what you've planned but also expect the unexpected ❤

I gave birth to my boy 2 weeks ago, having him here is the best feeling in the world 😍 congratulations!

I have never love a KZread store as much as this and this will forever be my fave!!!! Congrats to you and your husband!!! And my God bless Alonzo !!!

What a sweet story... you will never forget it... not a moment... even when he’s 25!! 💙💙

Contractions are damn painful but seeing ur baby makes u want another baby. I just don't knw why

@AlexandrasGirlyTalk

7 жыл бұрын

+Nkem Linda I know 🙀 Alex already wants another 👼🏻

@nkemlinda4689

7 жыл бұрын

AlexandrasGirlyTalk my baby is 3 months old today & my husband is ready for another one. Love from Germany

@AlexandrasGirlyTalk

7 жыл бұрын

+Nkem Linda mine is 3 months today too!!! Have to come to Germany some day! We are obsessed with it in my house 😂😻

@nkemlinda4689

7 жыл бұрын

AlexandrasGirlyTalk wow we're waiting 😍

@Sara-dp5dg

7 жыл бұрын

lol be careful, my brother n law wanted another one and my sis ended up having twins. Lol the photos are so funny cause he's just cheesing and my sis is holding my nieces looking so pissed off. She was content with just my nephew lol 😂 😂

so happy you're a mother 😚

@user-ex3ey9tk5j

7 жыл бұрын

Rabiah Aziz Me too

OKAY BUT CAN WE TALK ABOUT HOW BEAUTIFUL THIS FAMILY IS LIKE WTH 😭😭💕

I loved the ending, he was just like no mama you can't film this it's way too personal! ❤️ Congratulations, he precious. I see both of you in his face.

I don't like when people make it seem like medical intervention is not needed and natural birth is what everyone should do...... I had a 2 c-sections one was for my son and the other for my twins.... I could not give birth naturally because my vagina won't dilate! Is that my fault? Should I feel bad about that? No I don't because my children are all healthy and at the end of the day it's what matters! Besides my v is still the same size 🙊😊😂.... good luck on being a new mom!

@loveangelwings42

7 жыл бұрын

Marie Marin so true, no one can decide what kind of birth theyll get i always hear i want a natural birth i want it at home blahblah, you can never now waht will happen everybody every pregnancy is different, dont stress if you dont get a natural birth cause this totally does not matter, what matters is your children are healthy :)

@farm.on212th

7 жыл бұрын

Marie Marin I think what most people think is that medical Intervention is almost always not needed. ofcourse there are times when it is needed and when it is needed I'm pretty sure even the most natural mama's out there are grateful for it. I'm trying for an all natural birth too but hey if something goes wrong I won't hesitate to go to the hospital but I'd obviously prefer to have my baby naturally.

@iWasMadeInTheUsa

7 жыл бұрын

Marie Marin agreed. everyone is different and thank god for hospitals and doctors in case of an emergency, but you cant deny that a natural birth is recommended more because its it better for mommy and baby. Frankly i think her point of view was very biased bc you can tell she didnt even research both home and hospital labors howvever theyre both healthy so thats all that matters.

@ootdpluscoffee

7 жыл бұрын

Agree I was in labor for 3 days I was induced 2 weeks overdue, I was contracting for 2 full days, in sooo much pain and only dilated to two centimeters and they told me my pelvis or whatever was just too small, so I had to have a c-section! I went through all that pain , I'd be damned if someone told me I didn't give birth lol.

@miley5492

7 жыл бұрын

Marie Marin I've had 2 c-sections as well. I would have much rather had vaginal births but sometimes it's just not possible. That in no way makes us any less of a mother. I can't believe there are people out there who think that way.

My mom went into a coma after giving birth to my sister. Shes a true fighter.

@ramisa7354

5 жыл бұрын

Marley Gant SAme!!

@thyiacolt5335

4 жыл бұрын

How is she now if u don't mind me asking?

@lucyhuhta4274

4 жыл бұрын

How long was she is a coma?

@alondravalerio2847

4 жыл бұрын

My mom did also after having me for three days :((

@dariakonoplinko6150

4 жыл бұрын

Please imagine going through this AT HOME with no supervision of medical personnel. Homebirth is such a crazy concept.

This was actually one of the better explanations of birth i've ever received!! Thank you for sharing your story!!!

BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL baby! Omg... I have 3 kids. A 3 year old named Aria, a 1 and a half year old named Everly, and a newborn named Jude. Aria was diagnosed with Down syndrome the day after she was born and it was very hard for me at first because it was just so shocking, I think. She had to stay in NICU for 7 weeks and I didn't get to hold her for longer than 5 minutes a couple times a day because she had to stay in the incubator. 😭 I was really nervous when I got pregnant with Everly because I didn't want to have another scary experience, but everything went smoothly with her labor and Jude's, except for the fact that they were both born 6 weeks early. Luckily they were both totally okay. The contractions with Jude were 10000 times worse and I guess that's because they get worse with each baby? I don't know, but I'm done with being pregnant for awhile hahah. I'm sorry I'm basically writing an essay... I'm not even sure why I'm sharing all of this with everyone, but I think it's so cool that you shared your experience. Your baby truly is so precious and beautiful.

the whole idea of a needle going into your spine scares me so much

@katieperez2008

7 жыл бұрын

Felt the same way until I felt a contraction.

@saharajama1665

7 жыл бұрын

Katie Perez 😂

@luvpink26ify

7 жыл бұрын

same! I have a family friend who actually got paralized because she moved when they were giving it to her. She ended up having an emergency c section because of it

@Stephanie-nk9oh

7 жыл бұрын

luvpink26ify well they say don't move lol

@luvpink26ify

7 жыл бұрын

Stephanie no fucking shit Sherlock

I'll be damned if I ever let myself get pregnant.... hellllll nooo I could not grow a baby and definitely ain't giving birth any time soon 😂 I'm too scared

@Ayesha_5782

7 жыл бұрын

Bree Elise Same

@leah8857

7 жыл бұрын

B E every woman is scared of pregnancy, but in the end its ALWAYS worth it.

@Username-eq7fh

7 жыл бұрын

Lina Lina adoption is very expensive

@pilorin

7 жыл бұрын

B E I suggest you to read ONLY nice stories about childbirth and you'll see how your perception changes :) what is it with people only absorbing the negative part of life??? The pain is totally manageable! Just don't have any fixed ideas about how it will be. Be open to all options and you'll do fine (applicable for all aspects of life) x

@nicolecheyenne3270

7 жыл бұрын

You know, that's exactly what I thought but then I found out I'm pregnant and my attitude really took a 180.

😭💗😍 he’s so adorable oml y’all are the perfect family

You're story sounds just like mine ! Ugh the pain was so intense I wanted to die 😭 but my son is soooo worth it! Congrats ❤️❤️❤️

This video gave me tears, listening to you and watching you during labour is a reminder of how beautiful and amazing the woman body is, its truly is magical and incredible.

Alexandra, Alex, Alonzo How cute!

@mf2709

7 жыл бұрын

Hahaha the end!! SO CUTE

Omg!! Full head of hair just like his momma! ❤️😂😍

you seem so insanely happy and such a natural nurturing mommy. Continued blessings to you, Alex and you baby.

13:41 I would've never thought someone could describe pushing a baby out as fun. Lol. Much props to you girl and every mother out there! :)

OMG HE'S PERFECT!!!

@AlexandrasGirlyTalk

7 жыл бұрын

+sonjdradeluxe 😘❤ thanks beautiful!!!

Just seen your story about giving birth to your gorgeous little boy, congratulations. I could feel your struggle as you moved through shock, heart ache and surprise at each step of birth . Thank you for sharing. It's an incredible journey and personal that women should always be proud of as it sets you apart as it is so unique. Blessings to you and your family.

Congratulations! Alonso is adorable! Enjoy each and every second .Take plenty of pics. and videos. They grow up so fast! I am so happy for you!

Alexandra said that her anesthesiologist punctured too far into her spine -- rupturing her spinal fluid which affected her postpartum... She didn't speak about that in the video. What happens when the spinal fluid ruptures and how does that affect giving birth and after birth? I would really like to know.

@246lost

6 жыл бұрын

Mr. Chip Whitley that is why i had anatural birth with pain and everything . I would never take such a risk. Even the idea of a needle in my spine freaks me out. Ive heard stories of women left paralyzed from the epidural. Besides our body is built to endure the pain

@aFeverishFiend

6 жыл бұрын

star soul. Yup, same here. I had excruciating back labor and felt cramping in my hips during every contractions. It was difficult to focus on pushing with that kind of pain but I did it...by the grace of God I made it happen. And I kept telling everyone that I didn't think I could do it. It's unbelievable and miraculous what your body can withstand 💪

@jillianmoreno6674

6 жыл бұрын

A lot of things can happen. For me I had epidural headaches for a week afterwards which felt like someone was stabbing me from the top of my scull to the bottom of my neck constantly. So much worse than birth.

@alana7088

6 жыл бұрын

star soul So many women died from childbirth pre-modern medicine because it puts an enormous strain on the body (obviously). While our bodies are made to create and children, they are not so effective at surviving it.

@kakoliroy4880

6 жыл бұрын

Spinal fluid leak also happens when ppl get a csf analysis done. It stops on its own(human physiology). If it doesnt, measures are taken. Whenever these leaks occur after such procedures, person needs to lie down in a head down leg above position so the pain will be less.

AwwCongratulationsfor baby boy ... he is so cute man .... and looks like his dad :)

The ending of the video made me want to have that out of body connection with my baby. I still have 6 long months to wait

@theblondieandherbf

4 жыл бұрын

Awww! Do you know the gender yet? 💕

girl i get you. i had my first kid and is now 10 months. the pain was so scary. i asked for an epideral and it was the best decision ever. my son came 3 hours later. and i finally got rest. one of the most amazing moments ever holding him

This kind of reminded me of Rachel and Ross on Friends with the dilation

I know I definitely want a kid but I am scared shitless of child birth, and I'm 16.

@c.mr.d6008

6 жыл бұрын

Rachel Isawesome WAIT AT LEAST 4 YEARS

@waliyam3415

6 жыл бұрын

Rachel Isawesome girl don't do it

@alicia1467

6 жыл бұрын

Potentially adoption if you don’t mind the idea, otherwise surrogacy? But if you’re only 16 you still have plenty of time to decide on what you want! ❤️

@aFeverishFiend

6 жыл бұрын

Watch an uncensored, unmedicated delivery... best birth control ever lol you definitely do NOT want to go through that experience at 16 or even 21... I'm 28 and just had my 1st baby. I can't imagine being any younger and going through it. Kudos to all the young Moms out there because THIS IS TOUGH, rewarding but tough.

@sarahsoriano09

6 жыл бұрын

Honey enjoy your life. It will ruin your teenage years or even if think you’ll can have with 20 no! Wait till you are ready for a birth and being with a child. 😉❤️ I hope you are still living your life

OMG his little smile towards the end

What a precious baby!! I am a mother of 5 kidos. Your story brought tears to my eyes. Just remembering the moments when i gave birth to them. Alonzo is very precious. I wish you the best in life. Thanxx for sharing something very personal. Keep us posted!! :-)

@AlexandrasGirlyTalk

7 жыл бұрын

+Gladys Luna aw 😇 wow thank you for raising the future ❤

omg he's so adorable! wish you all the best for the future

congrates! omg been waiting for this moment!

Aaaaaahhhh He's perfect!!!! I am so happy!!!

i cried I'm so happy for u guys!! he's beautiful

Ali i am so proud of you for going through all of this!!! God bless you and your baby with so much happinness and health. I dont know in how much pain you were bc im not a mom but the fact that you are so strong makes me so happy. I LOVE YOU

thank you for being soooo descriptive! welcome to the World little man!

Omg!... Being watching and following your videos for over two years now, never knew you are a mum❤️❤️. Soo amazing. Love you.

When you're getting birth for your baby but you still wanna look good haha how cute 😍😍

Congrats!!! I'm so happy for you! Your baby is sooooo cute! Your story made me so emotional! ❤️❤️❤️

That was an AMAZING story!!! I was almost in tears!! It reminded me of my last birth. Congratulations!!!! Alonzo is beautiful!!

This was such an amazing story!! I have a little girl, had her really young when I was 16, now I'm almost 20, and the way you described birth was awesome! I can totally relate, breast fed till she was almost two! Thanks for sharing your story I'm subscribing just because you seem like an amazing person and I haven't watch any of your other vids! Lol keep up the good work!

When my mom was about to give birth of me , she expected that she would give a natural birth, but things went wrong and instead of that I turned upside down that means my legs would come out first . there wasn't enough time to do a surgery so i came out after six hours of pushing and i gave my mom the most painfully birth ever , she said " i saw death my eyes " , and she still loves me. i was the only child on my family that comes out completely healthy with a black hair , my other brothers and sisters were born with a blonde hair and by the age of 6 it turns to black , I don't know how to explain why in English because my English is so bad 🌚 and I'm sorry i know I killed english 🚶😢😂. R.I.P ENGLISH 💔

@jaden6525

6 жыл бұрын

Your English is actually very good هاء

@sarahsoriano09

6 жыл бұрын

It was actually a funny story... you are fine 😉😅🤣🤣🤣🤣

I haven't finished the video yet but this intro!! Alonzo is so so cute!! A big congratulation he's gorgeous!

Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ Your baby boy is absolutely adorable!! 💙

the end where he keeps shaking his head is the cutest thing ever!!!

IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS!!!!!!!!!!

@denisegarcia8169

6 жыл бұрын

Serrina Lee on mk

He's seriously so cute

I had no idea you’re a mum makes u that much cooler !

I just wanted to say that you are so awesome! I love your videos so much, they’re so helpful and personal and it’s so amazing what you do, I look up to you as the older sister who gives me tips or the mom who’s there to support me, I love your videos so much, keep on doing them, you’re helping a lot of people, including me :)

omg he's beyond handsome & adorable 😍😍😍 he looks just like you too!!! loved hearing your story & the end is super cute!!!

May God bless him and give him everything he'll dream of! !!! 😇😇😇 He's the cutest angel I've ever seen! !

13:20 awww u smiling when talking about your baby coming out sooo damn cute

Awww I loved hearing this story so much!! It was so beautiful!!!! God bless you and your family!

OMG! that's the best labour/delivery story I ever watched on youtube :) That's what it is .... epidural was the life saver for me (if i can say so) I was too afraid of labour pain and kind of already decided that I wanna take epidural and just after 15 min of pain I called for one but too bad for me as there were around 12 deliveries in the hospital that day and only one anesthesiologist so by the time he came to my room I was having the worst pain of my life ( I also used to have very painful periods before pregnancy) so all in all I endured the pain for around one and a half hour but thankfully just after 10 mins of taking epidural I was out of misery and i delivered after 8 hrs ( I did around 1 hr of pushing). My gynecologist was pleased too as she could give me stitches easily because i wasn't feeling any pain at all. I had my right leg numb for a little longer though (but no worries) Honestly I can't imagine giving birth in so much pain and forget about enjoying that precious moment when you are so tired and gone thru so much pain. But that's me :) Now I advocate everyone to take epidural ......seriously hats off to all who go thru all pain and deliver!

congrats! its the best feeling!! my water broke as well, no contraction, they had to induce me, I end up getting the epidural. I was in so much pain and only 2cm open! but epidural helped me open.. even tho I got the epidural I felt everything, I was able to move my legs, contraction! my baby girl was born 10.31.16!! your son is so cute😍😍

Oh my goodness!! I've remember watching the video where you announced that you were pregnant. Alonzo is sooooo cute!!!! And you and your boyfriend are the most adorable parents ever! I'm so happy for you two!

I found your channel a few months ago and have binged so many of your videos and had no clue you were a mom!!

I’m proud of you! You are a great mama