I think they care about their image more than him!

@Sabrewood13

5 ай бұрын

You see it right

@dijaworldworld3895

5 ай бұрын

The stepmothers body language was telling she wants to be seen as a ‘good person’ instead of ‘good to’ the stepson. That’s why they gaslight

@NaNa-ed7sn

Ай бұрын

Facts

@Futurotropi

Ай бұрын

.

@victoriahollister6875

Ай бұрын

Nah, the son is telling some lies. He making small things seem big. While not taking accountability, just a gay man

They’re gaslighting this young man.. making him look crazy on camera. Class A manipulation

@TruckFishin

5 ай бұрын

Nah that's just sifting through the BS... there are always multiple sides to an story.

@mkultraviolenc3

5 ай бұрын

They're probably both narcissistic and feed off of each other when they're both in the same room. I feel bad for this guy. He seems like a reasonable and well-rounded young man despite feeling rejected by his father. Very sad.

@Unknown-lc8cy

5 ай бұрын

U lot siding wid the kid actually need to mature mentally cus dat kids perception of reality is wayyyyyy off. To think ppl here actually think the parents r gas lighting baffles me. The kid is just attention seeking whilst not facing his insecurities face on. R u even watching the same video???

@amandabarrett2472

4 ай бұрын

It's always gaslighting when kids can't just do whatever

@The-Man-Right-Chea

3 ай бұрын

The doctor understood the kid because he to is gay 😊

The stepmom saying "thats all you got?" definitely just showed me what kind of person she truly is. If i was the son, I definitely wouldnt want to talk to her again.

@michaelamitchell1603

5 ай бұрын

​@@mimimag6793 girl what ??

@ketsiakat

5 ай бұрын

@@mimimag6793bro huh?🤨

@goodgirl170

5 ай бұрын

​@@mimimag6793exactly. He a drama queen

@PotentiallyAFlamingo

5 ай бұрын

@@goodgirl170That don’t take away from the fact that his step-mom emotionally abused him.

@allmyclothesaretaylored

5 ай бұрын

@@mimimag6793 u must be a professional yapper

When the stepmom first spoke I took her as genuine. However when she gets upset and has the father to back her up, she got nasty. She started snapping back devaluing what the son was expressing. The son started getting flustered and had difficulty trying to get his thoughts together. Nobody corrected her, including her husband. I can see how that would make the son feel tag teamed. She needs to work on that. That’s not ok and it’s probably much worse away from the cameras.

@melaninbeauty2000

6 ай бұрын

This is exactly how I saw the step mom. She was genuine in the beginning then she got nasty

@sshence9108

6 ай бұрын

🎯 I agree 1000%!

@sonyahall5080

6 ай бұрын

I saw exactly what you saw.. and I can imagine how he feels with his real mother being away as well.. Maybe a support group will help him . Because we all feel need to feel that we are valued at some point in time in our lives and we need to know that we’re Enough!

@aic0809

6 ай бұрын

You hit the nail right on the head!!

@RemindMe268

5 ай бұрын

Or was it because she thought their relationship was being genuine. Only to come on the show to feel like she was being used all along.

Neither adult gave him any physical acknowledgment when they walked in. TELL TELL‼️

Locked out after five minutes is unreasonable.

@sylviahkinyangi9892

6 ай бұрын

Locking him out especially during cafew is wicked

@jaydee4646

6 ай бұрын

NO it is NOT. People need to LEARN how to follow rules. PERIOD!!!!

@Sabrewood13

5 ай бұрын

@@jaydee4646but he did folkrhe rules the dad said 11:30 he was there 11:05 but you lock him out ? Now if he ended up missing they would be boohooing on tv trying to save face

@amandabarrett2472

4 ай бұрын

Anything is unreasonable when a kid has an excuse huh? That's what's wrong with the world.

@djbillybass

4 ай бұрын

He should have communicated that the movie ended at 11 and ask permission to make it 1130

The dad has sassy secrets lmfao!!

@RainbowKidd

19 күн бұрын

lol Not sassy secrets! 😂

@Tc696464

19 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@jemicawalker9430

18 күн бұрын

Exactly

@michelleharris9178

15 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

@Only1QueenOfEverything

12 күн бұрын

I didn’t want to say anything but I thought the same immediately!

Honestly, I think it was his father responsibility and as head of household to correct his wife's behavior towards his son. The real issue is the son needing love from his father (hence son feeling of rejection), but the father cowardly allows his wife to mishandle.

@Acadia26

5 ай бұрын

Agreed (except for that 'head of household' rubbish of yesteryears). When one or both parents bring children from other relationships with them, they must make sure that those children do not feel left out, discriminated against or not respected by everyone else. Blended families can work but both adults need to consciously see that all family members feel included and respected.

@citizentrials8346

5 ай бұрын

His wife comes before the son.

@citizentrials8346

5 ай бұрын

@@Acadia26 The only rubbish is nonsense about men being the head of household being rubbish. The modern marriages fail and exponentially high rates became the men are not heads of households.

@LaylaAlexander-cw7dg

5 ай бұрын

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@citizentrials8346Clearly that’s his logic which is rooted in selfishness . He didn’t ask his farther to choose him over his wife . There’s people in prison for putting their spouse first aswell. 😂

@u.s.lawyer8542

5 ай бұрын

@@LaylaAlexander-cw7dg This obligation to put his wife first is rooted in the bible. He sought to put a wedge between him and his wife. No one is obligated to accept a homosexual child or person. What does people being in prison for putting spouses first have to with anything?

Dad is undercover 😂. Plus, them being only 15 years apart, it's more like brother than father and son.

@jbjb9586

Ай бұрын

Girl shut up.. his wife is gorgeous and she looks 100 times better than you 😂

@sheilamcgee7101

Ай бұрын

Right I said same thang too

@TheDDLHShow

Ай бұрын

Yeah I see it too. The first dead give away....look at the wife. She's a beautiful Barbie doll type. Most men who are in the closet seem to hide behind these types of women.

@ursulatroxler7428

Ай бұрын

Child Daddy ain’t under cover nothing 😂😂😂🥷🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🧚🧚🧚🧚🧚🧚 The Daddy is OUT for the world to see.

@marylee19941994

Ай бұрын

Right lol he jealous his son his true self

He’s literally telling everyone not to be fooled by the glamour. They are wolves in sheep clothing…

To the son, my best advice is to go live your life independently from them and do things for you. Adults can be very hard to change so the only ones happiness you are responsible is your own. Much love 💕

@centaviodehernandez

5 ай бұрын

❤

@tonistevenson9143

3 ай бұрын

Definitely, there is not one day I have made my parents proud. I'm 62

@kinguponarrival8237

3 ай бұрын

Well said. ❤

@leichaurellelux7547

3 ай бұрын

Exactly once you are and adult you must move like one first and stop expecting them to fix your child hood trauma that cannot be undone at this point.

@mindfulnus

Ай бұрын

Yup!

you can tell that the son just wants to be valued and validated. the step mother seemed genuine until the father came out and put a battery in her back by trying to confirm what she was saying and allowing her to step outside of her boundaries as a step mother.

@SuperShepard1

5 ай бұрын

Get there on-time!

@anndeecosita3586

Ай бұрын

The dad is the one who put him out of the house and went off on him. Everyone on the panel should take accountability for their own actions including the son.

@chrisharris2367

18 күн бұрын

She’s controlling She may help but she has an ax to grind against him She probably is jealous of him because he’s a product of his real mom She may be truly jealous of the real mom

The step mother is the perfect example of a devil in disguise. She’s beautiful but deeply sinister for getting in-between a father and his son.

@tkluvtravel

6 ай бұрын

Honestly, I think it was his father responsibility and as head of household to correct his wife's behavior towards his son. The real issue is the son needing love from his father. (Hence son feeling of rejection) but the father cowardly allows his wife to mishandle.

@OdachiRain

6 ай бұрын

@@tkluvtravel the father does this because it distracts from his own failings. the son will focus on the stepmum instead of his father, the father wont stand up for his son against the stepmum because he doesnt want to make her mad. they both know the son doesnt have the resources to move out so he has to stay and deal with them. the father and stepmum probably dont even like each other, their dynamic is off

@fatimeseye7880

6 ай бұрын

You so right both of them 😢

@LaylaAlexander-cw7dg

5 ай бұрын

Given that the son claimed to hardly speak with his father, could you please explain how she came to be in the way of their relationship? He also said he was closer to his stepmom than his actual farther. which was probably because he was a gay man. The son, who claimed to have a slick mouth, is also not an angel.

@LaylaAlexander-cw7dg

5 ай бұрын

@@tkluvtravel We have no idea how she handled him behind the scenes. He called her a b*tch on live, to which she equally disrespectfully responded. Whether the father did correct her is unknown. She even said she was sorry for sending that text, but I didn't see him say he was sorry for calling her the b word. Individuals should take responsibility for their actions if you want them to. She attempted to help him save money and even assisted him in finding employment. The farther disregarded him in the interim.

The parents need to take some accountability and stop playing the victim. Putting your child out for coming home 5 mins late is toxic and abusive. The stepmom with the “that’s all, just two things” let me know exactly what kind of person she is. I wish him all the best.

@universe-ie2mk

6 ай бұрын

No its not. Follow rules until you can make the rules. Be in the house by 11 doesnt mean 1105. It means 11. It aint toxic and abusive. Get ya ass in the house and dont disobey your parents orders. Now when he gets his own place, he doesnt have to have a curfew. But until then, do what your told and be respectful. Bottom line.

@poohbear322

6 ай бұрын

Acting like that they not gonna wanna come home .. Be a loving parent so your child would want to go home and a few minutes late is too much he not in a damn shelter he's YOUR CHILD. I have two a boy and a girl and so idc what time it is I'm not locking the door on my children no matter how old they are . People like this are why it's so many old people now that needs others to take care of them , my mom takes care of one cus none of the children they caused trauma to wanna deal with them. Be careful karma comes in the old age for parents do right by your children@@universe-ie2mk

@daylovee

6 ай бұрын

@@universe-ie2mkwhew parents especially in the black community seem to love to be overlords of their children. Makes no logical sense to kick someone out for 5 mins not making room for real life things that can happen idk like traffic etc

@certified_dexter

6 ай бұрын

@@universe-ie2mkugh a hate people like u. It’s roads he’s gonna be a little late. 5 minutes isn’t shit. Yes I understand he needed to be there by 11. But sounds like he has his own car and was prolly 16-18) when this happened meaning he’s partially an adult and knows what he’s doing. Being 5 minutes late abs being locked out the house is evil. Stop over powering ur children just bc u “can”

@redlove8599

5 ай бұрын

@@universe-ie2mkwhy do yall treat yall kids like slaves? that’s how slaves were treated guess what shit happens you ain’t on time for work every single day but he can’t come in 5 minutes late …you know what 5 minutes prove ? That he had BEEN otw home not stayed out on purpose why when yall kids make mistakes they get slave treated like this master house wtf

I believe everything this young man said. I feel so bad for him. You can tell the dad and stepmom have a deep seated resentment and dislike for him. Shame on them!

@a426108

3 ай бұрын

I am still going through the same thing with my father and stepmother.

@ParisMiley

29 күн бұрын

@@a426108hope it works out for you

These kids are different now. They want an explanation, want to be raised right, and want to be loved correctly. The negligence will be put on blast.

@akur2941

16 күн бұрын

EXACTLY. BUT IT STARTED W THE 80S BABIES ON THIS ONE.

@vsmith113

16 күн бұрын

@@akur2941 80’s baby here. I went the no contact route because of my mental health. It’s been 10 years seeing my family in real life.

@invisiblegal

13 күн бұрын

These kids are entitled and disrespectful!

Living with ur step mom is hard. I’m 23 and left my dads house a a after I turned 18 because of my step mom. She was never fair and actually told my dad to hit me if I ever come disrespectful. So I truly understand where this young brother is coming from. My advice to him would be focus on ur future and move out of their house

@2intriguing1

6 ай бұрын

I wish I could be everybody step mom but not for the dads🤢 for the children, I always loved the idea of blended families but I never knew we as women were so trifling to step children. Im sorry this was your experience and I know you now know what signs to look for if you're ever in the same situation. Babies 1st. Idc💜 i hope you're on a healing journey sweetie.

@dawnlee866

6 ай бұрын

I think he been out their house since he hasn’t spoken to them in 3 years

@lavoniaholloway1245

5 ай бұрын

@@2intriguing1trifling stepmoms have been a recurring theme throughout the ages lol. Isn’t Snow White and Cinderella both some of the oldest stories we can think of

@floridazoe2494

2 ай бұрын

There are more trifling stepmoms than stepdads

@ariamason9324

Ай бұрын

I love my stepmother. Treat me like her own

The Step Mom need to know her place. SHES A STEP MOM. Not the actual mom. Every time he talk to his father. She haves something to say. Ugh

@sai7sai

6 ай бұрын

Well - the actual mom is in prison - the stepmom looks like she has more sense

@jetlirlajqi6977

6 ай бұрын

The step mother is the one who raised him while his mom was in prison. So she gets to speak as a mother.

@natashathompson8800

6 ай бұрын

​@@jetlirlajqi6977shut up she has no place

@hismercedess550

6 ай бұрын

That’s his mom she been in his life since 2 U don’t know what you talking about

@user-bk7iq3ne7n

6 ай бұрын

Uuummm who raised you? Apparently not good parents. Just because a father or a mother becomes a step mother doesn’t mean she should step down from a child because she or he is a step mother or father. She had no business saying what she said about him being less child they have to worry about but you are dead wrong and the people that like your sick comment.

Off topic but…Karamo is so handsome! And his style is impeccable. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@SDP5230

6 ай бұрын

Yes, he is a hottie!!

@marquisstrongchild7535

3 ай бұрын

😂

@gbrow3191

22 күн бұрын

Yes yes he is!! That's good looking!!!

Never EVER beg ANYONE to be in your life, blood or not! If they don't acknowledge your existence, don't waste your precious time convincing them to do so... People show you how they feel about you so if they give off the vibes they don't care for you, trust their vibes and carry on with your life!!☝

@Litupyup

16 күн бұрын

This is absolutely perfect 💜

The blonde wig tells me everything I needed to know about her!!!

@terrypross7638

6 ай бұрын

Right, 🐀 🐀 City. I always wonder who hire them or all of them self-employed.

@LeshaFBaby

6 ай бұрын

👀

@girlfriennn3645

6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@jeannesmith3841

6 ай бұрын

😅😅😅

@michaelamitchell1603

5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

You could dislike a parent and still have to talk to them and deal with them since you're dependent on them. These parents are wrong

@WerewolfofEpicness

6 ай бұрын

sure but this is different. he talked to the mom more than the dad because she was easier to talk to. he could've just talked equally otherwise. but she was the one who would listen more

@PrincessBaby305

6 ай бұрын

@@WerewolfofEpicness I understand he talked to the stepmother more because she was easier to talk to....but he can still dislike her.

@KidDaGreat24

6 ай бұрын

@@WerewolfofEpicnessbecause the dad and son relationship is nonexistent

@nonameismypreference8542

6 ай бұрын

Dependent sounds like a nice way to say "a mtf your using".

@PrincessBaby305

6 ай бұрын

@nonameismypreference8542 Not really, that's the actual term. Like when you're filling out paperwork for a school loan and you need your parent pr guardian to cosign...because you're a dependent. Im honestly not here to argue or start anything with anyone. I can only speak from my own experiences as a scapegoat in an abusive family. I did dislike them but some were easier to talk to than others and so I imagine anyone else in that position would also take the path of least resistance. But as a child you are indeed dependent on your parent or guardian no matter how toxic or abusive.

Putting your son out for being 5mins late without any explanation is wild. I’m so glad my mom wasn’t like that. I never really had a curfew, but I always came in at a reasonable time… the only way I was locked out was if I forgot my key and she was sleep. And I still always got in.

@dawnlee866

6 ай бұрын

I agree I thought that was a bit much. It’s not like he was a hour or two late..5 minutes???

@tracey7093

5 ай бұрын

Dude my mom did that to me but took it further. Changed the locks and had a bag packed with a note saying "call me when you're ready to listen" and then reported me as a runaway, which I only found out when I was like 23 and got pulled over for a traffic violation and they said it was still flagged on my file

@dawnlee866

5 ай бұрын

@@tracey7093 wow. Sorry u went through that. Are u & ur mom at good terms now?

@tracey7093

5 ай бұрын

@dawnlee866 thanks for asking and for the kind thoughts! It happened when I was 17 and I'm 35 now. We still have a distant relationship but we are on speaking terms, every few months and on big holidays. She's getting close to 70 and has a ton of health issues so I'm basically humoring her and my family vs being difficult and holding true to my emotions. She's in absolute denial about how she effected me but we just keep it very superficial and cordial so I can sleep at night lol

@dawnlee866

5 ай бұрын

@@tracey7093 I hear u. My Dad & I are like that too. I call him once a week. He is in his 70’s & set in his ways. But he finally apologized to me for not being a good father🙏🏾

They don't listen to him.

I think both parents need to learn to listen. The step-mom has to learn boundaries while still loving him. What I mean by boundaries is, not everything he says or does to his father needs an immediate reaction from her. Let father and son figure it out first and then pull the child aside with your own conversation. Not both parents attacking just cause your married and it's your house. He'll never feel welcomed.

@beautyishername4392

6 ай бұрын

👏🏽🤎🙌🏽

@2intriguing1

6 ай бұрын

I agree but the son needs a reality check as well, I feel like he deals with his own personal issues and tends to take them out on who won't understand...the father.

@leticiaferreiravaz

6 ай бұрын

Well said

@maninedoow5895

6 ай бұрын

@@2intriguing1exactly! Folks wanna go in on the parents, but not the child

@Exclxsiveskye

6 ай бұрын

Yesss! The father was like “we married thats what we supposed to do” like no its not yall against your own kid(s)

As a bonus mother, my husband’s relationship with his children is their relationship! I am there to support and make sure my husband is being the best father he can be. Also body language speaks before you do, look how far she sat from him. One more thing when the father decides to come out, he will come to his son first!

The father is the same as the son 👀 thats why he is so quick to call names ...they did it to him..and the stepmom is all about an image ..lowkey devil in disguise..the son is very handsome..good skin ❤

@LBloggie

3 ай бұрын

HE GON TALK ABOUT IM VERY DIFFERENT FROM MY SON ... I SAID NO YA NAUT LOL U ARE JUST LIKE HIM

@LeshaFBaby

3 ай бұрын

@@LBloggie facts he the ring leader🤣🤣

@janjr165

3 ай бұрын

Bingo! 🎯

@teresaj.4103

Ай бұрын

Yep......FACTS!

@ElocSNS4

Ай бұрын

Hello! I’m like soooo no body see that the dad is still in the closet??

I wouldn’t be surprised if the father is hiding his sexuality as well. And when he looks at his son, he sees himself. His own father might be suppressing his sexuality as well as the mother let’s not leave women out.

@Jmallj

6 ай бұрын

No man wants a gay male child

@hazelboyce7230

6 ай бұрын

So because he is gay, his father must be as well? Ok!

@dismantlegangstalking1239

6 ай бұрын

wth.. sexuality is to be hidden.. its not some outlandish thing that you go out into the world to be identified by or as.. what a way to humiliate yourself smh

@dismantlegangstalking1239

6 ай бұрын

him and his wife bedroom secrets are just that... where are you all coming from mentally.. im afraid of the world, its one thing to be in the world but to be of it has a lot of of suffering from a ton of confusion

@george4u1960

6 ай бұрын

@@dismantlegangstalking1239 don’t be afraid is real, but people are afraid of anything they don’t understand

Am I the only one noticing that Karamo appears to be tired these last few episodes.. ? praying all is well..For peace and balance.

@ljackson24

6 ай бұрын

He was sick. Probably wasn’t back at 100% quite yet

@roxyj3182

6 ай бұрын

Def noticed!

@kaydee3349

6 ай бұрын

Someone else said what I was thinking in the comments that he was sick. I could hear it when he spoke. He sounded very congested, and he didn't look like he was feeling well.

@neziswamnune4618

6 ай бұрын

I was literally thinking the same thing yesterday. Love and light to him

@nik7498

6 ай бұрын

He seems to be under the weather.

Idk, the dad acts like he just doesn’t like his son. He doesn’t treat him like his own, it’s almost like the son is one of his enemies.

@c.johnson1789

3 ай бұрын

Don't think he's acting.

@Rae_Naeee

3 ай бұрын

He doesn’t like him because he can’t live his real life like he wants too! Be can’t be open like his son!

@DeeDiamond2981

Ай бұрын

Like many black dads.

@RainbowKidd

19 күн бұрын

@@Rae_Naeee He can be open like his son but he wanna keep up the fake image.

@chrisharris2367

18 күн бұрын

He hated his baby mom He is projecting his unconscious guilt due to that relationship breaking down on his son

Are they gonna say what the real problem is or not?! It’s very CLEAR. BFFR!

And people say it's a good idea to have children while young. They all look and interact like siblings. This was never going to work.

@hazelboyce7230

6 ай бұрын

Who ever said it was ok for a 15 year old to have children?

@onlyest3921

6 ай бұрын

I had a child at 15. My son is 21 & I am his mother & he respects me as just that.

@hazelboyce7230

6 ай бұрын

@@onlyest3921 Thank you for saying that. I don’t think any teenager goes looking to conceive a child. However, that does not mean that when the child is born that you cannot be a good parent with guidance and support and then eventually on your own.

His father on the down low👀👀

@caylangriffin2593

Ай бұрын

I literally said this

@tomekatrice6921

Ай бұрын

👀

The Daddy appears to be struggling with his sexuality as well👀👀It's more to this story trust me....it goes deeper & I pray for healing for this young man!!!

@milanC4659

6 ай бұрын

Yes he is big time !!!

@jaydee4646

6 ай бұрын

In the few minutes you surmised that? Wow

@chaysemilani

5 ай бұрын

yup he see himself in his son & hiding it 😂

@stephenleigh4571

4 ай бұрын

The father is jealous that his son is openly gay... he envies him.

@Terrel3000

3 ай бұрын

Who cares!? 🤷🏽‍♂️

The son is good at communicating and articulating ❤

Step mum should allow these too some space to bond.

This young man clearly don’t feel safe and the way they gaslighting this boy, I don’t blame him.

This platinum blonde wig tells me everything I need to know about the stepmom.

“Spiritual advisor” tsk tsk. If it takes having a sit down with a “spiritual advisor” to apologize to your child for wronging them, then something is seriously wrong with you.

@camilleespy7395

16 күн бұрын

Right and he probably only cried because he was in front of his “advisor”

Karomo is excellent at this psychological stuff. The son is fighting to win at feeling loved😢

This made me tear up. The worst feeling to feel rejection by your own blood 😢

The daddy sassy too girl !!!

So the dad resents the son for living in his truth when he won’t live on his cause clearly….👀💅🏾

Mmmm not feeling this one. That young man doesn’t have the verbiage to express what he endured and they know that. Nasty nice church ppl violate you in covert and passive ways to keep their image clean. His father barely took accountability. The hug was cringe. I hope the young man finds therapy and mentors. He’s need safe space to be able to show up as his FULL SELF. I don’t believe he truly wants to fix things with son but he’s wants a clean church image more so he knows how a Christian is SUPPOSED to govern themselves. Whether it’s authentic or not. 22 years of not being able to express your feelings in safe places and all of sudden I’m supposed to say the right things on tv? That’s not cool or fair.

@ericabell8570

6 ай бұрын

Ding ding ding ‼️‼️‼️‼️

@jaciannm4430

6 ай бұрын

Yup!

@YungNino90

6 ай бұрын

I'm so happy somebody seen passed the BS and actually see's it for what it is smh..

@iamnaygei

6 ай бұрын

This !!!!

@DJLisha

6 ай бұрын

This is exactly what it is!! The church is all about image smh

I felt the vibe all the way thru the tv.. Something’s not right . When he spoke about the parents not being genuine, I felt that..

I think the parents are incredibly manipulative

I could tell just by her walking out and not acknowledging or speaking to him spoke volumes! No matter what, you ain’t spoke in 3years but been around him since he was 2yo.

@gossip_girl_xoxo2003

Ай бұрын

EXACTLY THAT PART!!! 💯

@stephanie3978

17 күн бұрын

💯💯💯💯

The father seems like he has a secret as well

@Latenightfunnyllc

6 ай бұрын

Okayyyyyyy👀👀👀👀

@elleguamuertelove1849

6 ай бұрын

I said that

@milanC4659

6 ай бұрын

He do have a secret he gay taking it out on his son and the stepmom know it too !!!

@elleguamuertelove1849

6 ай бұрын

I was like ummmm he is the same

@trutone21

6 ай бұрын

🤣🤣

The Father n the Mother are on a power trip!

If the curfew is 11:30am the movie over at 11am he get home at 11:05am that’s petty. In 2024 let’s stop locking the door on children it’s dangerous out here. Also if you have a child at 15 yrs old please don’t act like you got the parenting down.

Something about the stepmom I don’t like…. The father didn’t seem genuine at the end.

@genesisrodriguez621

Ай бұрын

He wanted it to turn into him being the victim again

She said "weRe ĥəRÈ f0ŕ 2 ThïNğS" Lady putting your child out and holding his money from him are big things to HIM whether or not it's big to YOU. No empathy bc he's not HER child even though she called him 'son' (condescending).

@kcol3747

5 ай бұрын

Clearly u only listen to react rather tgwb to understand... u sire u watch this episode ?

dont make excuses for your dad being mad angry and resentful of his own choices. you seem like a great leader

That father talking bout "you talk to her more than me, the lady that you don't like" he seems to forget that weather the kids like her or not they are the kids and have to go along with the parents decision so YES he's going to play nice wtf. My dad was married to his 2nd wife for 8 years, and the entire time, she was horrible to my sister and I behind the scenes. Because we were kids, we didn't feel like it was our place to say anything, and I completely understand where he is coming from.

@akur2941

16 күн бұрын

I had to do some reflecting before I completely went off on my mom for bringing that man in my life. He always took me somewhere to jus say he did to her to make her believed we bonded the whole time we were out he never talked to me or even tried to bond with me. All the shit he did was to get close to my mom to make her believe he cared about her child as soon as he got her where he wanted he started trying to isolate her from not only me but friends and family which is a sign of emotional abuse.

Definitely gaslighting him. I would leave them be and have boundaries with them. I know that stepmom has another side of him. His dad is a master manipulator

I'm a stepmother and I love my stepchildren and would go to war for all of them ❤️. If you don't have any respect for your husband's children then you don't need to be married. Stop Hating on there relationship and support The Relationship. The father needs to man up and show his son some Love ❤️.

He doesn’t feel heard or understood 💔💜🙏🏼💪🏼

He can’t even talk without both of them jumping at his throat

As a childhood trauma survivor, I can confidently say that one’s feelings versus intention and reality is a very real thing.

Sometimes as parents, we need to humble ourselves and try to understand what our children are feeling adn trying to express. Especially, in the black community we have a "it's my way or no way, or a "what I do/say is right" we have to come out of this slave. & Master mentality when raising out kids. Our children are people and they have feelings.

Him saying “I’m very, very different from my son” rubbed me raw because you aren’t. And it sounds a lot like he’s distancing his identity away from his child’s because it could alienate him in the church. Just a sad situation all around.

@RainbowKidd

19 күн бұрын

He tryna convince people that he's different from his son meaning not gay. We see him though. Just peep the comments lol 🧐

@stephanie3978

17 күн бұрын

I noticed that too. It's sickening and heartbreaking.

My mom passed on when I was 14 yrs and my dad remarried..The mistreatment was hell..I still shade tears when I think of that life

@vanessanessa7168

Ай бұрын

You're father is to blame. He allowed it!

He wants a relationship with his father and only his father without the step mom. He really wants a deep loving relationship with his dad. The kid is hurting for attention and love from his father.

@ariamason9324

Ай бұрын

She's been there since he was two.

Parents aren't perfect. To grow up is to know this and understand all the ways your parents communicated their love in imperfect ways. To grow up is to forgive, while setting boundaries.

@OdachiRain

6 ай бұрын

i feel bad for this son because its clear his father has been absent, hes allowed the stepmum to be manipulative because its easier. its not fair on the child who has trauma, if parents cant accept that their actions cause trauma, that their actions were wrong at the time then there cant be healing. forgiveness can only come with acknowledgement of the past, for alot of parents this is hard

@Zombina638

6 ай бұрын

No

@nonamenoidea9792

6 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@teresamarie7460

6 ай бұрын

This comment sounds like an abusive man trying to stop his woman from leaving him. Children KNOW their parents are imperfect. They just don't like why parents behave as if they know everything when their actions consistently prove otherwise. Parents need to stop ego tripping and actually learn empathy, wisdom, patience, and enthusiasm. Parenting is not a one hour per day or a few hours weekend job of just barking orders.

@muna7033

6 ай бұрын

Couldn't have said it better!❤

😔 sad but as a wise man said the one who doesn’t care will fall as the one who needs care will rise

I can relate to the young brother. I've had 2 stepfathers. The first one I absolutely hated. My Mom let him get away with a lot of mouthing off to me. I was like 12 years old then. The day came where he was restraining my Mom on the bed and I whooped his as•!! I had to do it again several years later. I was really defensive in my younger years into my adult years because of my Mom choosing her men over me.

Him calling the lady that’s been his step mom since he was a baby “Ms Tammy” is a red flag for me. She don’t know him for real and I can see right through her and the dad. I wish he was able to better articulate his feelings 😞. She was happy he could only come up with 2 reasons in that moment because she would’ve been exposed if he found his voice. Those 2 team up and he doesn’t stand a chance.

Karamo's suit is fly af omg

He must has his mothers look he has hmm a good skin care and a beautiful eyes

These folks that goes to church LOVE TO PUT ON A FRONT LIKE THEY'RE SSSOOOO PERFECT 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

@18missfly

6 ай бұрын

And u ppl who not Christians be so bitter

@wavveytae4181

6 ай бұрын

@@18missflysome y’all are bitter too. I know a lot of bitter Christians

@ronnie2699

Ай бұрын

People go to church because they know they need help.. let make that clear

@SONJASAVEDBYGRACE

Ай бұрын

Hell yeah

They argue like Brothers. They are just alike. They should go on a retreat and get N Sync.

@speakmymind247

6 ай бұрын

They definitely look and like brothers. They are only 15 years apart so it makes sense now. Praying they develop a new bond 🙏🏾

@LBloggie

3 ай бұрын

LMAO

Sexuality is a spectrum and it wouldn’t shock me if this father’s falls somewhere near the middle. He could be bi, bicurious, dl and struggling with his own sexuality. Who knows, maybe that’s the root issue that causes friction between them. When people are insecure in their sexuality they ironically target/discriminate against those who are. So if he is struggling while his child is openly gay that could be apart of himself he doesn’t like, that he sees in his son that’s triggering negative reactions towards him. And if he’s going hard to push the “wholesome Christian” image, that’s even more of an indicator. We’ve all seen that within the church. It’s no secret. Toxic is toxic regardless of blood. Family & friends can be toxic. So if not speaking to & denying those toxic people access to you is going to allow you peace then so be it. I hope the son finds healing.

@KidDaGreat24

6 ай бұрын

Same thing I said that why it was nonexistent and both felt rejected

@Thecurlynative

5 ай бұрын

@@KidDaGreat24 exactly. Looking at eachother is like looking at a mirror & they both know it, the stepmom too. Everything else is just petty miscommunication

@tray4393

5 ай бұрын

Definitely give zesty vibes!

@temitopejay4795

Ай бұрын

Oh my goodness.. how do we go assuming these things about people we don't know.. if they don't say nothing don't jump to conclusions that are probably not true..

This is more complicated than it seems. Karamo was excellent at identifying the rejection in the father and son but the wife/stepmom is struggling finding the right balance of her roles. I think she needs some additional support because she is ALSO feeling rejection and she is scared of being rejected by BOTH of them. Young man has some growing up to do, as most 22 yo’s do, but mom needs HELP!

@PagesbyPaige

4 ай бұрын

The mum needs help because she KNOWS her husband is GAY - and will one-day openly reject her - it's already started in the bedroom... She knows

Sweet son, I hope you are in counseling so that you can heal from some of the hurt in your past. You have a good head on your shoulders and are bearing a lot. It takes a lot of courage to confront parents to be held accountable and tell them how you need to be loved. Your feelings are valid and should be valued -- let no one tell you different. You are destined for great things!

This is one of those times when the truth is somewhere in the middle. The kid is a bit entitled, sensitive and feels victimized… but he is melodramatic and you can tell he exaggerates things. Parents may not be perfect but I think they have tried to be good parents.

He won’t even look at him. Awkward. As frustrating as a teenager and young adult can be, they’re still your child. The father does not interact with his son as if he likes and respect him. I can understand the disconnect.

aww this made me cry 😢 & im happy that they were able to resolve it & accept Daishawn because anyone who knows Daishawn knows he been this way since he was a kid . Happy for them😊

@ThaDopestNerd-mq9ff

19 күн бұрын

By no means, do they accept him. They were trying to play as good church folk on TV I don’t buy one single bit of it.

Son , they don't like you! GET OUT! Leave And don't look back! It's hard to say it but it's the truth!!! LEAVE, son, Go baby fly away make your own life..

I can see exactly how he feels. Him growing up as a young man, seemingly gay, I know he never felt safe or valued . Because in most religious black households we are treated less than, and looked down upon. I hope he finds healing.

@janjr165

3 ай бұрын

Agreed. 🙏🏾❤️

I wish the son could articulate himself better cause i have a feeling theres more to the story.

Karamo hit the nail on the head when he used the word "petty" stepmom been raising him for 20 years......boy bye

You can tell the step mom was lying about the relationship except the money.

That man needed to talk to his son alone... And the dad is Zesty himself

@trutone21

6 ай бұрын

Your man must be zesty too then lol

Why are step moms bitter asf, Rarely get that attitude from step fathers

@JordanZS33

3 ай бұрын

Check and check my first step dad was horrible 😭

Parents like this make me sick .

He's making stepmom pay for the strife he has with bio mom. Dad and stepmom didn't hear his cry. ❤❤❤

Dad came bopping out with the tight suit but has nerve to reject his son! Then blondie double teaming and acting like she's innocent when in reality you can see right thru what she's trying to pull!

This is me making an empathic assumption. The dad may be attracted to guys too and he resents his son for being himself. Takes his anger out on him, and the cover up wife stuck in the middle. She don’t know where the tension from but taking up for the dad because that’s how he trained her. He need to get away from that toxic environment. The dad gotta help his self. Now that aside. The step mom need to know her place and STAY THERE. I feel for the son because that was me at 22. I’m not gonna be 29 next month and I have mourned the loss of my mom/dad because they will never heal from their trauma and I can’t help them do it. I can’t wait for my parents to heal for me to heal. You don’t have to cut them off but stop fighting for their love!!!! It will happen when they are healed. Until then. Keep your distance, focus on YOUR healing. For your mental health. And that’s just facts.

@longbranch11207

6 ай бұрын

Or it could be that the son is rude and disrespectful

@_BOUYE

6 ай бұрын

​@@longbranch11207The parents are also rude and disrespectful. This is not a one sided thing.

@FrankieB

6 ай бұрын

@@longbranch11207 he actually doesn’t seem disrespectful at all. He seems a bit angry from all of the rejection and the way him and his “wife” dismisses him. He gave them his money and all to hold voluntarily etc. plus the dad called him out of his name. I can’t stand a disrespectful PARENT. Especially one that can’t take accountability for their actions and how their actions can affect their children’s emotional responses to triggers. Then run around screaming that the child is angry and disrespectful. I wonder why.

@milanC4659

6 ай бұрын

​@@FrankieBBeautiful well said!!!

@trutone21

6 ай бұрын

Y’all are jokes out here 🤣

Crazy thing is that’s how I was able to fix my relationship with my dad but my mom still non existent in life

@soniatenorio4438

6 ай бұрын

As a mom who is estranged from my daughter. I wish u peace & love in 2024. Being a mother is difficult. Most of us just want our children to be happy & healthy.

Wow ,I literally cried ...thanks for the advice Karamo ..I felt the same rejection too at a point.

I saw this family perform at a church last month. it was amazing and a true blessing.

they don’t look alike, step mom need to stfu so they can work on they relationship

The parents don’t seem like bad ppl! being a young parent , you make mistakes and then as you get older and have more kids, you have grown and the second set of kids get the better version of you!! i wish this family healing!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

@doasisaynotasido7673

Ай бұрын

True, but the problem really sets when they fail to acknowledge this fact. When they act like they did no wrong with their first child. Had they acknowledged they were young, made mistakes, and worked with their son on changing then they most likely won't have a problem moving forward, but a lot of parents DONT acknowledge their mistakes and believe just because they are the parents they can do no wrong and if any wrong was done they are still the parent and could make that choice if they chose too

What heterosexual people don’t understand when a gay child goes out in the public and have to endure rejection and being treated like they are less of a human being. The child needs to know that they have complete 100% support by their parents even though deep down inside the parents don’t agree with that lifestyle the gay child knows that’s how they really feel so we escape people have to have a tough skin to just love people and create our own circle around us even though it means to cut off the family as you get older. And there’s always another gay person. That’s looking at you in your family and they are denying their sexuality. His dad looks a little soft to me I’m just saying.

@o0R3stless0o

6 ай бұрын

Thats my story!

@Roads2RichesRickkk

6 ай бұрын

Bruh ain’t nobody told him to be gay🤦🏾‍♂️🤣Ion know why y’all think that’s cool but be safe out here

@BB-gf3ut

6 ай бұрын

​@@Roads2RichesRickkkain't nobody tell you to be straight either. U be safe out there

@2intriguing1

6 ай бұрын

​@@BB-gf3utyou could've had a logical, intellectual response.🙄

@2intriguing1

6 ай бұрын

​@Roads2RichesRickkk some people don't choose the life. Please understand this. Since you or we cannot identify whose out here just to be out here we should refrain from feeling like a person who is gay deserves harsh treatment ❤

He is the VICTIM and can express how he feel because they are Gas lighting and manipulating him together ! His father is the aggressor and like he said the step MOM is fake and was not lying when she said one led child to worry about

Yikes that mother needs to know her place! And just bc ur in a marriage just not mean u get to side and support each other

Karamo handled this well by listening to both sides and then removing the blame factor. His parents did a good job and clearly care about him. Both he and his dad felt rejected and dealt with it differently. The key here is that both want to move forwards and the petty stuff needs to be put behind. They need to start communicating more and stop being reactive. When angry it’s best to step aside as things we say or do may not be nice. They all made mistakes they regretted. They have apologised. Now it’s time to move on one day at a time.

Dad seems zesty to me😂😂😂

@_BOUYE

6 ай бұрын

How?

@OntreaIngram

6 ай бұрын

very lol

@octaviadunbar7244

6 ай бұрын

@@_BOUYE a hit dog will holla

@_BOUYE

6 ай бұрын

@@octaviadunbar7244 What the heck are you saying?

@esi2952

6 ай бұрын

Very

Karamo, this was a good episode. Relatable and you really are in tune with everyone.

Dai’shawn just needs love and acceptance ❤. He looks like he always wanted his Dad to acknowledge him and be there for him. I still don’t get the fact that his parents locked him out after coming 5 mins late. It doesn’t make sense, they need to make it up for Dai’shawn❤.