I hate how they claim to love their husband but in reality, they love the stability, they love how useful they are...

@garethbryant2183

6 ай бұрын

Yep loved intill useless.

@raphaelgreer6259

6 ай бұрын

trill

@alexia3552

6 ай бұрын

fax

@Catherine.Dorian.

6 ай бұрын

Yeah it’s not him, they just don’t want to lose the lifestyle they have. I’d be willing to be most men who pursue married women don’t ever want to actually be with a cheater, it’s just sex

@Lonaticus

6 ай бұрын

She loved him for what he could provide, not for who he was.

Your commentary text should be in a different color than the story text, to avoid confusion.

@joeldykman7591

6 ай бұрын

Yeah, it takes me out of the story. Mainly because there's not a significant pause between story and aside to differentiate easily what's story and what's commentary.

@WilliamBrowning

6 ай бұрын

Use a different voice too. It's impossible to keep track if you aren't watching.

@LazyartistLast

6 ай бұрын

I watch these on mute (since I watch these at work when we're not busy) and it was very confusing when he would switch to commentary.

@agent004skin

6 ай бұрын

I’d prefer if there just wasn’t any commentary.

@CosmicAeon

6 ай бұрын

@@agent004skin Exactly. I dont really need random opinions creeping into the timeline of events for no apparent reason. KZreadr is overestimating the importance of his opinions tbh.

So... you let another man enter you but your surprised your husband doesn't wanna touch you? The entitlement is real.

@alitur1712

26 күн бұрын

no it is basically her husband doesn't want to enter her, i mean who knows she might have the clap 🙄

@angeloliver7613

22 күн бұрын

What I don't get from the person who had been cheated on, why they don't divorce or get separated and rather stay "roommates" with the cheater.

@stevendeen4391

22 күн бұрын

They love his stability, money, and title of being a wife.

@maxdubos5325

13 күн бұрын

​@@angeloliver7613probably love + the kids

@rezarfar

2 күн бұрын

​​@@angeloliver7613 being courts favour women, especially if kids are under 18, why would I give you the satisfaction of taking half my stuff and get custody of kids after YOU cheated. Yeah that isn't gonna happen, deal with it, I'll leave you when they're 18 and I'll see call girls instead of touching you..

"listen lady, i wouldnt even touch you with a hazmat suit" GOT ME ROLLING ON THE FLOOR LMAO but hey true asf...filth is filth

@penextrexe4380

6 ай бұрын

the whole extra dialogues are st*l3n from another youtube channel

@hershade

6 ай бұрын

@@penextrexe4380 happens all the time in the world of reddit stories 💀💀💀💀

@senatornokia4071

5 ай бұрын

​@@penextrexe4380 bro, just say stolen

@christhensaid

3 ай бұрын

I think it's called find your alpha

The Only reason why the husband did accept the offer is because of the kid. 100%, He complete his duty for his kid and not for her.

@JBTFan124

2 ай бұрын

No dude. He has to live in the same house with her for 2 and a half years to keep all of his assets vs. giving her half of everything he's earned. It's a pretty easy financial choice on his part.

@GreyMasker

Ай бұрын

He has to accept this bizarre and unnatural serfdom crap because otherwise the cheating 304 along with the state gets to take half his stuff, because you know justice and whatnot.

@talhaansari62

Ай бұрын

Yeah I i think he's just waiting for 30 months to end so he can seek divorce.

@Z020852

Ай бұрын

Or maybe deep down he's a simp.

@ikram1572

20 күн бұрын

​@@Z020852 Not wanting to lose half you stuff doesn't sound like what a simp would do. You're just throwing that word around.

Jim was smart to accept that post-nuptial agreement, all you need to do is remain married to her for 30 months, which is 2 1/2 years. You have an OPEN MARRIAGE ON YOUR SIDE ALONE WRITTEN IN CONTRACT. Build up, stock up, and when it comes time, execute a full on salted thermonuclear strike, and have your next relationship ready to go as soon as the divorce finalizes.

@chrisblom121

6 ай бұрын

The problem was she cheated and you think the solution includes cheating till your divorce finalized bro your dumb and just as bad as the wife if you think that helps😂😂

@mazthebear

6 ай бұрын

A woman that truly loves her man wouldn’t even offer an open relationship. That shows how little she cares about him. Not only that its a horrible idea for any guy to take this offer up because then she can use it against you. Since its a contract, she screwed her self over if he did take her up on that offer. But heres the thing, they have 2 kids. If he took her up on that offer the girl is gonna poison the well while her previous actions are unnoticed

@Spartan536

6 ай бұрын

@@BlissGeometryDash Correct will edit the typo

@benstandard

6 ай бұрын

​@@mazthebearwould a woman who truly loved her husband even cheat on him?

@mazthebear

6 ай бұрын

@@benstandard nope

Hahahahahaha. I’ve just read the title and now I’m laughing. She cheated and now wants her husband back. Mf he got his heart completely broke and she’s now feeling sorry for herself. This woman is utterly disgusting. I feel so sorry for the husband.

@christianbenn316

2 ай бұрын

I would tell her it's too late & you're not welcome back in my life i'm sorry it was her decision to cheat & it comes wirh a heavy price.

@_--Reaper--_

Ай бұрын

Your profile pic together with your comment is hilarious...

@Jetpackguyy

6 күн бұрын

Bruh where can i find the story without his stupid comments

Jim is playing chess while she is playing checkers. 30months vs half his assets. Not a bad trade.

@joshuafranklin7488

5 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same thing. Plus with the no touching rule, the if she cheats she gets nothing clause (which she came up with), she has to get a job, and the monthly STD tests. Good call.

@sliqyplayz8072

Ай бұрын

That’s so real tho

@JohnSmith-bs9ym

Ай бұрын

His lawyer probably advised him to do all that.

@blaedus5318

Ай бұрын

The funny thing is that he couldn't even make it 30 months before he just asked for the divorce.

@kevinj1855

10 күн бұрын

​bblaedus5318personally, had it been me, I would have brought up her moving out, as SHE abandoned the marriage

I have zero sympathy for her or anyone who cheats (man or woman). I hate the whole "i love you" nonsense a cheater says. If that's love, I'd hate to see what their version of hate looks like. Cut ties and move on. I'll never understand the couple that stay togther "for the kids". Both parents are miserable and setting a horrible example for their kid(s).

@christianbenn316

2 ай бұрын

I also have no sympathy for her either

@TheEldritchGod

Ай бұрын

Because it is objectively worse to get divorced for the children. Statistically. So, being a man, he's willing to suffer for his children. If you don't understand sacrificing for your children, please don't have any.

@frantheman1287

Ай бұрын

@TheEldritchGod spoken like someone who would willingly traumatized their own kids. Kids are a lot smarter than you think and will take everything they see into their own relationships in the future. Most people I've met whose parents stayed together for the sake of the kids have serious issues. They're spoiled, entitled, and throw tantrums like 3 year olds. They lack empathy and are master manipulators due to the fact that they could pin their parents against each other to get what they want. So yeah, you do you and create weak individuals.

@TheEldritchGod

Ай бұрын

@@frantheman1287 - And yet getting divorced would traumatize them more. In The US, the mother gets the kids, regardless of what happened and single mothers are statistically quite abusive. So you would have the kids become the whipping posts for a psychopathic woman where the husband is looted for all his money left to live in a cardboard box, unable to protect his children as his ex-gaslights them, making it seem like it is their father's fault while destroying their self-esteem. You see, I did SUICIDE PREVENTION and I bet I've talked way more people out of killing themselves than you. From both the statistics and from personal experience, getting a divorce is always worst FOR THE CHILDREN. You can go with your FEELINGS. But if all else is equal, the children are usually better off if the parents stick it out until they leave the home. For all your stories of how bad children in that situation are, It is FAR WORSE if the parents broke up and the mothers did what they usually do and abused the divorce courts.

Another case of a gal not being physically attracted to her partner, but marrying him for "resources". She's thinking "This is a husband for me and my future family." Her blaming her loneliness on being a SAHM is ridiculous. She's UNHAPPY with her LIFE decision of marrying JIM. There's nothing Jim could have done to make her happy. Her unhappiness is of her own doing, and anything he does to try to make her happy will result in her just getting more unhappy. Her begging and telling him she'll be the best wife and never do this again is ONLY because she realizes she's now at risk of losing her "provider", and will need to start looking for another potential partner. Her AP has no interest in being with her, either. Jim is brilliant! He's divorcing her and keeping the majority of assets. He'll be FREE of her, and be able to move on.

@changbinstreadmill

5 ай бұрын

Also her explaining the affair as if it’s something “animalistic” and “can’t control it” and it happened because she’s a SAHM then lets see what would’ve happened if he cheated and used the excuse of there’s a lot of gorgeous women around me at work and at the gym and I couldn’t control myself

@LH-lv4zs

5 ай бұрын

@@changbinstreadmill, Agreed. Women compartmentalize and view ONE man as the husband and another as the LOVER. This makes her life complete. When it comes to their view of men; though, they'll expect their husband to only be available to THEM. They ACT on instinct and emotion, but want their man to UNDERSTAND that when they get caught cheating. Most of them would NEVER accept their man cheating... unless he's providing her with the life she's always dreamed of- wealth, etc.. Of course, she'll keep the truth from all her friends, unless they're going through the same with THEIR husbands.

@changbinstreadmill

5 ай бұрын

@@LH-lv4zs not all women have that sick view of their husbands, cheaters are cheaters and don’t represent the majority, wether they’re men or women. Some girls think that just like how some guys could see their wives or gfs as “disposable” and both are wrong for it of course

@joschmo4497

2 ай бұрын

@@changbinstreadmill Yeah but the accuse doesn't even make it any better, no matter how you spin it. It's actually just an extra insult. Yeah Jim, you just don't turn me on like he does, even tho I've known him for 3 minutes.

@frankconley6321

Ай бұрын

This nails it. All women who cheat view their husband as 'Father and provider' only. Never as lover. They feel NO regret for cheating, only worry about losing the gravy train. After all, they 'deserve' to be happy. Never marry in a 'No Fault' state. Always a prenup. Always seperate finances. It's in a woman's nature to be selfish. (This from 6 decades of observations, my own family included)

cheating on a marriage should be a criminal offense, 5 years jailtime and immediate one sided divorce, half the cheater's assets are granted to the victim.

@alexsyn2531

4 ай бұрын

Also Child custody

@tedkaczynskiamericanhero3916

3 ай бұрын

An affair is low risk for a vast majority of women. The husband leaves? She's keeping half his shit, if she managed to trap a good one, she also get alimony! If anything women are rewarded for degenerate behavior at this point.

@psier11

2 ай бұрын

As cheating destroys marriages, 5 yrs for every one. If you destroy 2, yr own and the APs, 10 yrs. That would avoid homicides related to infidelity.

@Shunaiko

2 ай бұрын

Jailtime seems excessive. It is and should be the most prime of grounds for ruling heavily in favor of the cheated-on when it comes to dividing assets, though.

@RandomGuy-ej9gr

2 ай бұрын

Yeah and then imagine the men getting framed and sentenced to prison nah fuck that

I would never take a cheating woman back, even if it meant losing shit ton of money. My self respect is worth to me more than any amount of money ever will be. And once woman goes and cheats on a man, it signals to the man that she didn't respect you and only way to deal with that is to get rid of disrespecting person. Some women view cheating differently, as long as strong feelings of love and care wasn't involved, its all good in their eyes.

@Mcdonaldsbag

6 ай бұрын

All I will say is this- No matter what you call it or who told you what or how you view it CHEATING IS FUCKING CHEATING.

@DarkHeartTheEmo

5 ай бұрын

The women that kind of her side on the comments are women that already cheat and their husband are cuckolds, they have to be, because no man with self worth would take a woman like that.

@SimonIsVeryHandsome

24 күн бұрын

*Thou shalt not commit Adultery* Even In the Bible It Says that It's immoral to do it

They don't ever realize...if you love your husband, you won't have sex with any other man outside your marriage, the moment you get touched, let another man have his release within you, there's absolutely no reason to touch you nor stay married, there's no love in that at all, then you end up sharing two men, and not staying faithful with your husband. Nothing can ever undo that.

@joschmo4497

2 ай бұрын

Bro if I caught so much as a dirty text she'd be out.

@darrellfincher2948

Ай бұрын

told my wife if...IF i ever found she was not true to me....i wouldn't be held responsible for my re-actions---she then asked me if it would involve a gun.....told her i'm not sure--i'm not in that position yet..... my wife and i have been happily married for 34 years now---i know we are supposed to be together--but i also know life changes-----i just hope we are still together when i die....... we both renew our commitment for each other daily----its hard to make up your mind to stay---when extremly difficult times come your way--buut God has helped us stay together and he will continue if we allow him.

@dooomlerno720

16 күн бұрын

@@darrellfincher2948no one asked 💀

Such audacity for this women have to claimed that she loved her husband despite clearly stating how her loyalty is easily shakeable and fragile

She cheated but now wants her husband

@tedkaczynskiamericanhero3916

3 ай бұрын

*wants his resources If she wanted her husband, she wouldn't have done this to him in the first place. She offered up "everything" to try and play him like she doesn't just want his resources in the hopes he would buy it.

@christianbenn316

2 ай бұрын

She dug her pit so she has to fall in it.

Never take a cheater back, no matter how much they claim they'll spend their life making it up to you. If not for your mental health, then at least for the sake of self-respect. Although, I do admit that Jim was pretty clever with the way he went about it to make her kinda regret the agreement. I don't get why people still can't understand that whether or not you're intimate with your partner, you can't be intimate with someone outside of your marriage.

@saint037

6 ай бұрын

even if it's not about self respect, there's still the fact that you can't trust the person anymore gonna spend the rest of your life babysitting a cheater because they can't control their urges?

@christianbenn316

2 ай бұрын

Taking a cheater back is a red flag & it's access denied.

As a woman we do not claim her, cheaters are disgusting and low, my father cheated on my mother and his mother tried to get her to go back to him, this is the same woman who my Mum went out of her way to help her, Mum stopped her from offing herself after her own family turned on her and a slooth of other things and on top of all that SHE encouraged Mum to leave her son since she saw the abuse he was putting us through and this witch did a full 180 AND had the actual audacity to tell Mum "the kids are too young to understand and they'll go with whatever you decide". I guess she wasn't wrong, we did go with Mum, several towns away, guess what "granny" I always understood, I never forgot Edit: damn, maybe I need therapy, or a new family

@nkznkz3800

Ай бұрын

Sorry but nobody gives a fuck what you claim, This is the standard of Women walking out there. I worked in an Industry where I had to rub shoulders with people from all walks of life 24/7. I've seen and heard it all. And the one thing all Women there have in common is that when a 'Bad Boy' crosses their paths they're practically willing to sacrifice anything for that Dick.

@AlexanderTheFarmer

Ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that, my dad cheated on my mum too when I was 7 years old and everything went to hell

It’s kinda annoying when the reader keeps interrupting

@CJ-BZ

2 ай бұрын

The audio is actually from a commentary channel from Find Your Alpha. This person took that audio into a text converter and posted it. thats why it has all the interjections(that are much more natural in the original video) and why it difficult to differentiate between 1st person in the story & the “reader”.

@Scyon13

11 күн бұрын

I think it's great, it's hilarious 😂😂😂

Poster, I often don’t like hearing the narrator’s opinions at least during the story but I swear you got me chuckling and agreeing lol. Love this channel man. Even my wife giggling and agreeing. Fun times lol

It's always the same with these stories from the cheater's POV, they're not sorry for what they done, they're only sorry they got caught. Like maybe one or two might be sorry for what they done.

Okay, I'm almost over the video, possibly a hot take here, but what are those comments to the original post? Why are the women being so sympathetic to a cheater, that is most probably an unreliable narrator or at least have a bias towards herself, trying to make excues for her behavior? I may be spewing mistakes here, since I've never been on a romantic relationship, but she hurt a man that loved her a lot, and the agreement made both of them miserable! If the OP were a man, I am really sure the comments from the women would be very different...

@billbob2293

6 ай бұрын

Feminism ain't about equality and hasn't been for a long time.

@alexia3552

6 ай бұрын

You are 100% dead on. Anyone who views themselves as a feminist needs to equally hold women accountable for their hurtful actions.

@kinosaga21

6 ай бұрын

Simple, cheaters defend cheaters;

@JewelWildmoon

6 ай бұрын

​​@@alexia3552This is why I only really respect the opinions of the egalitarians who actually stick to the standard moral of the community. I feel like feminists tend to lean more into justifying bad behavior and call it "being the bigger person," but get mad if the same thing has to apply to the opposite side.

5 ай бұрын

The Sisterhood always back one of their own, not all but most. Flip the genders and they NEVER think the guy is in the right or offer the same excuses for it.

In these cases the only reason they will "do everything to win you back" isn't because they love you and have regret for what they did but because they are about to lose the life you provide them and they will give anything to keep living off of you and not have to provide for themselves. Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will - Socrates

It's infuriating that so many cheating stories begin with 'i have a great husband and life..' I'll tell you something. If their husbands were awful 99% wouldn't have cheated.

20:03 nah, distance will just make him see how much happier he is without her and confirm he made the right choice offering her everything to leave

@christianbenn316

2 ай бұрын

& he's better off without her in his life

I hate when people cheat , if you are going to do so please leave your relationship first.

@christianbenn316

2 ай бұрын

Anyone who is bitten once never look to be bitten again cause when the trust is gone it's impossible to regain it.

Just read the damn story, dude.

@user-mp8qg5tb5e

6 ай бұрын

Fr

@Future_Cat23

2 ай бұрын

No no his opinion and cut in are needed

@reginaldhobbs6202

2 ай бұрын

no they’re not lol

@that-one-guy4747

2 ай бұрын

​@@reginaldhobbs6202 they are, I need someone to talk while I laugh my ass off at her stupidity

@PreeSpunky

18 күн бұрын

He copied and pasted Find Your Alpha's video, including all of his comments. He plagiarized.

The fact that all the girls told her to keep trying while the guys told her to leave the man alone (which she did in the end finally) shows some signs of the toxic female bonding. Not all females do it but there are enough females supporting other females in the most heinous acts just cuz she's a female and it doesn't directly affect them that it's not unusual to see it 🤷‍♂️

Totally mentally, emotionally and physically satisfied? NO ONE who is completely satisfied & happy has a 5 month affair! NO ONE!

Another cheater trying to justify her actions to strangers on the internet, trying to gain sympathy when she doesn't get it at home. Wise man once said, 'She belongs to the streets'.

It's sad how some women can be. I blame the lack of role models. She's really going through life like an animal....and says as much. But she still thinks that's not a problem. She calls a year long affair a mistake. It's hundreds of deliberate and cruel decisions, completely sober and meditated.

I think I get what they try to say when “I was totally fulfilled, but still cheated” comes out. Like when you’re pleasantly full from dinner and then you see that pie, well aware it’ll be a bad idea but you don’t want to be full you want to eat.

@eddyalonsomoramorales6069

6 ай бұрын

Witch is Even worst🤣🤣🤦

@saint037

6 ай бұрын

okay, now I understand it😂 but I'd still get a stomach ache and regret the decision also, when it comes to cheating, it's not just the cheater who is fa ING the consequences of their own actions it's the rest of the family facing consequences for a pie they didnt even get to eat

5 ай бұрын

Yeah but at least the dinner isnt getting hurt if you cram a pie into your hole.

Jim: I'll give you everything to cut ties so I can rebuild my lost fortune on a leech. OP: Ill give you a massive amount if you can handle being roommates for 30 months Jim: Okay. I guess that works. OP: *Ive got him right where I want him*

Rainbows and fireworks while describing first partner. Dry bagel describing her husband

Woman loves her husband more than anything in the world that is why she abused him the worst possible way. Yes, cheating is abuse and it is insane that the courts will ignore this fact but will regard financial abuse.

He's just biding his time until the 30 months are over and he can leave with all his money

So she's happy but a 304 is normal for her. No accountability

"I'm not a victim by any means" Processed to tell us how she's the victim

The AI trying to add relatable quips in the same generated tone and font reminds me so much of the "How do you do, fellow kids?" meme.

@alexia3552

6 ай бұрын

Oh is it AI? i thought it read some things strangely

@Maninawig

6 ай бұрын

@@alexia3552 it is a good AI, but the softwares really suck at homographs, so you'll catch him saying "tear" the exact same way every time. Also, inflection, typos, and spacing are all off. Granted, I don't mind AI voice, but at least do something to differentiate the personal quips from the story...

@purc498

6 ай бұрын

this is from another channel "find your alpha" its literally an AI rereading, if not just using the actual audio and using the minecraft background to not get striked by the previous channel. The other channel put this out 6 months ago and is 10 mins longer... if you like these kinds of stories check them out, but especially if you like these kind of stories go check out Strong Successful Male... he is really one of the best.

@rotocoach5397

4 ай бұрын

@@alexia3552 It's AI reading a reddit post. I'm guessing the commentary is written by the KZreadr.

And I'm sick of you saying you love Jim, you don't, if you did you wouldn't have cheated

"I loved him and the kids more than anything in the world." Nope. She loves herself more than anything in the world, and nothing will ever change that. If I was Jim I would have gotten some paternity tests done for sure.

Your passion for what you do shines through in every video-thanks!

If you have to “get caught” to stop cheating, it’s not regret for braking her vows if remorse for loosing her bang buddy. Plus, cheating is not an “accident” it’s intentional. NO SYMPATHY GIVEN!! This woman is literally the embodiment of trash.

It isn't that OP didn't love her husband, it's that she didn't RESPECT him. There are 2 kinds of love, passionate and companionate. Passionate is what OP chased, but it NEVER lasts. Companionate love is what married couples need to survive, but she never felt that love with him. She felt security and safety with him, but she didn't actually respect him as her partner, it took 24 hours for her to be in bed. Only now does she realize what she lost.

Your commitment to quality sets a high standard in the KZread community.

Your commentary is good because it helps reduce the amount of disgust I feel when she talks before I quit the video

The begging is not a 'ploy''. Women are very strongly attached to their husbands. And once the reality of her actions become manifest, and she loses him, the shock to her system is massive. It can even lead to suicide, especially when other key relations (like parents, children, job) also abandon her.

@MineQley

4 ай бұрын

Hey there, my current channel is going to be deleted soon due to some issues. But don't worry, I've started a new channel. kzread.info/dron/TPtQ3DPI8oJt4kAIL5NeGw.html

@GreyMasker

Ай бұрын

Women very rarely commit suicide. Lots of attention-grabbing "attempts" though.

@breadedagenda

Ай бұрын

There wouldn't be a video of this story at all if any of what you said was true. Damn near a half hr of evidence to the contrary in fact, and there are thousands of these kinds of situations that all of us have collectively either, heard, watched, witnessed IRL, or lived through.

@alexinfinite7142

Ай бұрын

It is a ploy don't make excuses. She's just in panic mode because historically a women abandoned to the streets is doomed to die in the wild. She doesn't care, her survival instinct is just triggered. Empty tears. That's all it is

She literally threw away everything over a thrill, thats it. She said her husband was better than the AP in every way including in bed yet only the "thrill" was enough for her to cheat and keep cheating. Women like this are beyond help. No one man will ever be enough

if you truly loved your husband you wouldn't have fallen for the second guy

Let the man go. You dissolved any respect or love had for you.

I'm amazed by how long this person can write about lies ❤

Love how she says biggest mistake of my life then 20 seconds later explaining how she was doing it for 2 years

I love how the mum dealt with both of them😂😂😂

I am so sorry for the dude but also Proud of him that he thinks about his kids, He really takes a calculative decision and didn't get blank during that situation. I think either he really wants to give her a second chance or waiting for his kids to be adult when he will separate from her. However so much Power to you bro.

I like how they say "Mistake" like it wasn't willingly

I love how she thinks that moving to a different neighborhood will magically change everything

"Then I met my husband and it was just satisfactory."

I'm only half way through the video while writing this comment. I have to say, I initially didn't like the narrator commentary, but now it's grown on me and I find myself agreeing, even made a few "you tell 'em!" remarks out loud haha.

after all that she still cant take accountability for her actions. omg it was just a deep thing inside me like you dont have self control.

'He won't even let me touch him...' Good for him.

This video felt like a friend spilling tea 😭

So...their relationship was just physical...but they only had something physical four times. Yep. You were right lady, I don't trust you.

@cocoino2307

5 ай бұрын

After claiming her husband was better in bed...

The offer of an Open Marriage is a slap in the face. "He'd never do it" that doesn't matter, it reads like 'Now you can do it and we can be even'. Jim only took that agreement so he could come out on top. Probably thinking of how to get rid of her and keep the outcome.

I enjoy the commentary but use a different voice or colour text to avoid confusion

At the middle part where Jim agrees. I was like “let him cook” cuz I know what he boutta do

I hate it when cheaters say that they love the person they cheated on when if they actually loved their partners they wouldn’t cheat… being a married woman I could never cheat on my husband he is my world and if anyone wants me too bad for them I’m married and I’m not gonna bend over for anyone except my husband cuz he’s my husband my lover my best friend and my soulmate!

She only added the bit about him seeing other women because she feels bad and feels that if he sleeps with another woman, then they'd be "even." He's only agreed to the post nuptial agreement because of their kids and only their kids, so they aren't affected by a divorce. This woman got what she deserved and she's lucky that her husband agreed to the stay married only in name. She only wants the stability at this point. If sex was such an issue, even though her husband is a better lover, then maybe she should have communicated to him on her desires/fantasies and maybe even spiced things up in the bedroom. Poor man deserves better and I hope he realizes his self worth and just proceeds with a divorce.

Jim's masterclass

If my SO cheated and went to live in apartment on her own even for short period of time, I wouldn't believe she's not sleeping around there

17:45 smart guy, never eat anything a cheating spouse makes you, she might have poisoned it

@christianbenn316

2 ай бұрын

Agree so never eat with a cheater.

spot on with the red flags, a woman who is attracted to you will have an intimate relationship with you on the first or second date, more men should know this and not be afraid of being rejected, this would save many marriages, in these times you "win her heart" is bs

what a messed up sickening narcissistic manipulative woman, I really really like how he asked her to disappear

Cheating is never a mistake. The mistake is getting caught and suffering the consequences of her scumbag actions

She took the advice to move out but not the advice to not take all of his assets. Yep. Proves that she only "loves" him for what he can provide for her.

mother in law: violence isn't the answer, its the question, the answer is yes

Honestly, cheating is one of the absolute worst thing a partner can do to their SO. I listened to the whole video from start to end, and the reason for cheating was so F up. I do acknowledge that the wife knows she bombed up big time and accepted what happened. Unfortunately, it was only due to being found out and not because of wanting to come clean. What was said at the end was true, though. For anyone having thoughts of cheating with their loyal SOs, don't. I couldn't really understand why there are people out there who do this and expect their better halves to accept them back like nothing happened. Especially when there are also a lot of other people, wanting those kind of loyal partners to walk into their lives but never do meet anyone who can accept, cherish, and love them unconditionally like the cheaters. How sad 😢

They never love their husband they only love the stability and being taken for.

All this story did was make me think I was not the first choice. And the more I listened, the more it hurts. I don’t think I am anymore. I think I was the safer option at the time 😢

@MineQley

4 ай бұрын

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Cuz dead ass giving advice mid story got me dead 😭😭😭

Jim was actually pretty smart to accept that agreement, he got to keep most of whatever he has earned and he got to see her suffer by not receiving any love for 30 months straight from the man she claims to love. I would just be biding my time and the day the agreement was fulfilled I would file the divorce anyway, if she loved him she wouldn't have cheated.

"i wouldn't even touch you with a hazmat suit" now that's how you get a viewer's attention XD

Dude this was wild. Great content. Subcribing.

Amy doesn't realize Jim's only worried about the kids at this point... Jim must be super good at work and everything else now

I get how he feels.

"The reality of what I'd done had set in" nah the reality of getting caught set in. She didn't feel the reality of what she'd done until there were consequences

If you can't stay loyal to your spouse/family, you simply don't love or deserve them.

I hope she has the decency to leave him before the 30 months is up so she can repay him for the hell she put him through for staying with her

Why do cheaters not understand, everyone wants to feel like the most important, chosen, special person for one other person so that they can safely feel the same towards that person. When you cheat on someone you destroy that feeling. You destroy the trust and make them feel less than and foolish. I understand the difference between lust and love. She felt only lust for the AP and she feels love, presumably, for Jim. She gave in to lust and flushed love like it was nothing. She wanted to eat, and have, cake. She's a fool. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I don't even want to date single women my age, at least not seriously because how would I know if she has cheated before. Divorced women will tell you that it was all his fault and how would I know otherwise? I know there are honest, loyal women out there but the liars act just like them. It's too risky.

@alexinfinite7142

Ай бұрын

Yep

10:00 - I smell the tell-tale scent of AI. The mother apologises to 'Steven' and the wife then asks 'Jim' what he's going to tell the kids. There's only one guy immediately present at that stage of the story, and Steve is the other cheater, so why would the Mother be apologising to him, given he's not present, and he's part of the problem. The AI story writer didn't understand that both 'Steven' and 'Jim' can't be active characters in that part of the story, and that Steve is an antagonist for the purposes of the narrative. As has already been mentioned, the commentary should be more clearly separated from the OP story, There are some points where it's not just distracting but actually can get mistaken for part of the original story, rather than you inserting your own thoughts.

As a child of a mother who had an affair, both these people are horrific. I'm 32 working through 17 years of gaslight and deflecting from a toxic drunks. Think of the kids man damn!!!

@gigaSLAYER66610

Ай бұрын

Wdym "both" of these people

The last part is what is wrong with society as a whole. Temptation? If you are married to the perso whom you wanted to spend your life with, why is there even a question of "Temptation"?

I am glad that it ended on a happy note and they worked it out and were looking to possibly start again.

Theirs alot in this story to unpack. But my biggest grievance is the fact she bought and or forced a second chance by holding his financial assets above his head. For someone to cliam to love someone that is super fucked up. Theirs also all the me shit. And just how delusional she is. Like telling yourself he still loves me after asking for a divorce and not touching you for 2 years. Then bragging he might finally pipe you after breaking him down. Just oderly disgusting behavior.

as much as i entirely agree with the narrator, hearing them butt in with their opinion every 5 seconds really got onto my nerves and I didn't make it past the 2 minute mark

Fun fact: it doesn't matter if you have a pre-nup or a post-nup that explicitly forbids child support. The courts will still compel child support from the father. And the courts will always grant the mother at least joint custody of the kids unless she is really out of whack and a danger to the kids. So, those agreements mean almost nothing...

@gregjerry4110

23 күн бұрын

This guy understands the game

that woman is glad to still be alive. i would have changed that if i were in his position.

@mermaidmaterial5735

17 күн бұрын

dude you can't just kill people

when OP first proposed the post-nuptial agreement I immediately thought ride out the 30 months and have the divorce paperwork delivered the day the post-nuptial agreement takes effect. A huge win for Jim, ride it out and walk away Scott free not owing her a single thing.

Child support is only bad when it’s used as a weapon I’m more than happy to take care of my kids

Damn, talk about paying a price that is completely not worth it.

Anyone who gets off on the idea that they're disrespecting and deceiving their s/o does not love them. Theres no room for feelings of love when you love how it feels to hurt them behind their back.