My First Sex Party... (Personal Story) - Sex Upgraded Podcast

This is the story of the first sex party I've ever attended. It happened over 10 years ago in Asheville, NC, USA, and it blew my mind. (I was actually paid to go). To hear about the SECOND time I went to a sex party, check this out: • Sex Party + MDMA = Lif...
People often ask me to share personal stories from the past, and this is one I've thought about sharing for a while. It's more of an edutainment episode, because there's not a big lesson or takeaway from this episode other than pure fascination and entertainment... which is definitely a worthy reason to listen to a podcast. :)
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VIDEO TIMES & TOPICS:
0:00 Intro
02:15 The Story Begins (+ Backstory)
04:19 Intro to Tablas
05:00 Intro to Classical Indian Music
07:50 Invitation to the Sex Party
12:26 The Sex Party Begins
19:28 Reflections... (And the 2nd Sex Party!)
INTRO SONG CREDITS:
"Pink Dolphins" (Numatic Remix)
Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David Brown
Remixed by: Numatik
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  • @jinosfitnessjourney6593
    @jinosfitnessjourney6593 Жыл бұрын

    loved this podcast and it's great to actually see you talk about these core memories and i appreciate your work so much. 💯

  • @taylorclarkjohnson

    @taylorclarkjohnson

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you brother! Awesome to hear you liked it. Thanks for taking the time to say so. I'm going to start uploading podcast videos to youtube. I think it adds another nice dimension to things... and I too enjoy seeing some people talk (instead of just hearing voices).

  • @davidfryer9359
    @davidfryer9359 Жыл бұрын

    Being offended by everything is a toxic way for me to live. No one is powerful enough to offend me. I give no one permission to do so. It is liberating.

  • @alejandroguerrero5425
    @alejandroguerrero5425 Жыл бұрын

    Very cool to hear your experience!

  • @taylorclarkjohnson

    @taylorclarkjohnson

    11 ай бұрын

    Happy to hear. Thanks for taking the time to say so.

  • @amlp04
    @amlp04 Жыл бұрын

    An orgasm can be a spiritual experience. It is said that in group, a collective orgasm can be a much intense spiritual experience where doesn't matter if it is hetero or gay, or both.

  • @taylorclarkjohnson

    @taylorclarkjohnson

    Жыл бұрын

    You're absolutely right. An orgasm can definitely be a spiritual experience. So can a group or collective orgasm - regardless of gender, body type, or sexual orientation. Almost everything can be a spiritual practice - depending on the level of intentionality and awareness we bring. :)

  • @JujuBerry
    @JujuBerry Жыл бұрын

    I love these stories. Thank you for sharing!

  • @taylorclarkjohnson

    @taylorclarkjohnson

    Жыл бұрын

    Awesome! Happy to hear you liked it. It was one hell of an experience... :D And if you liked this episode, you'll probably really like next week's episode too. It'll be about the SECOND sex party I ever went to... and I actually participated in the second one.

  • @gulliverplus8912
    @gulliverplus89128 ай бұрын

    We need more reports like this to break down the unnecessary taboos and ignorance in our society. 👍👍👍Thank you, Taylor Johnson & Friends, so much for sharing! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤

  • @markusbrieden865
    @markusbrieden865 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing all of this, Taylor. It's actually very fun, listening to all of that. Persoanally, I never experienced a sex party in my life and have no idea if I ever want to or will do. However, it's interesting, listening to your thoughts and feelings to all of that. Do you do sex parties nowadays? How do you feel about participating in sex parties - like the people you were talking about?

  • @taylorclarkjohnson

    @taylorclarkjohnson

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the questions & reflections. I appreciate you taking the time to share. I did go through a period of time where I was very interested in going to parties like this, but I’m not in that phase anymore. I’m much more interested in just one on one sex or threesome scenarios. There’s just a lot more depth and less chaos in those scenarios. I’ve actually only had penetrative sex once at a party out of all the sex parties I’ve been to. Usually there’s so much going on that it’s overwhelming to my system and full on penetrative sex isn’t as exciting for me. I’m open to that changing at some point, but that’s where I am now. I do think that these parties can be great and meaningful ways for people to connect and experience pleasure. And with that in mind, I’m all for people exploring whatever sexual & intimate things they want to - as long as there’s consent & communication. 🕺

  • @markusbrieden865

    @markusbrieden865

    Жыл бұрын

    @@taylorclarkjohnson Thanks for being so open with me. It is very interesting reading all that from you cause it goes so much against some of the expectations that come up when listening to you, man and I love that! Just listened to the second sex party episode and I get what you mean. Don't know if it's something for me, but it sounds marvelous and I am so happy for you that it helped you in the way it did.

  • @chinusingh6890
    @chinusingh6890 Жыл бұрын

    good pod cast can you make something about celibacy as well because larger crowd choose to live a marriage life, and very few with celibacy, can you tell spiritually what the celibacy is and how to practice it, is it possible to be celibate.

  • @jerrimenard3092
    @jerrimenard3092 Жыл бұрын

    What a great show. I am in my 50's and I think I would have loved to attend such a party. Remember, there is no beginning to the beginning. Nobody technically is older or younger then anyone else in the spirit. At 20, your shelf was broken by a 60 year old having sex. At 52, I am amazed when I hear someone saying they can't or shouldn't do it if they want to.They are still themselves and are beautiful! Holy!

  • @Socks53
    @Socks539 ай бұрын

    This was a great podcast and truly enjoyed it. At the end of your episode, you said next podcast is when you actually participated. However, I was not able to find it. Would you be able to send me the link? I was invited to a sex party but I declined. However, I think I would like to attend one but not sure what to expect.... Thanks for sharing.

  • @londona9862
    @londona9862 Жыл бұрын

    I think the ppl being in their 50s speaks to how experienced and free they’ve become sexually over the years. They were probably the flower children of the 70s that simply believe in free expression of sexuality. They could have been nudist at some point in their lives so being naked wasn’t a shameful thing. As a gay man we tend to experience group sex a lot more than straight ppl so “sex parties” aren’t foreign to us. This was a great conversation. 👍🏾

  • @cooperwesley1536

    @cooperwesley1536

    7 ай бұрын

    As a gay man, I was thinking the same thing... sex parties are quite common for us, so if you want to participate in one, it's fairly easy to find one and join in. For straights, it's very different, I suspect.

  • @WoodenToy-tq8we

    @WoodenToy-tq8we

    6 ай бұрын

    You equate. Ppl in their 50s as flower child's of the 70s? As a gay man in his 50s, I'm thinking you are off by a couple decades. Though my sexual awakening didn't happen until I was almost 20, none of the nudity you referred to was common among my generation. Think of us as the ones that grew up dancing to Madonna's "Like a Virgin" and Aerosmith's "Love in an Elevator" when they first came out. Our 20s were in the 90s when Madonna and Michael Jackson both fondled themselves onstage during concerts. Can't imagine why we're so comfortable in our sexual bodies, lol. Definitely not flower children.

  • @cooperwesley1536

    @cooperwesley1536

    6 ай бұрын

    @@WoodenToy-tq8we Correct. I was born in 1963, and turned 18 until 1981. I'm 60 now, and I definitely wasn't a "flower child," lol. The hippies (flower children) of which he speaks were born in the late 40s and early 50s.

  • @londona9862

    @londona9862

    6 ай бұрын

    @@WoodenToy-tq8we Ugh

  • @anderlucifer

    @anderlucifer

    Сағат бұрын

    This is generalizing. Not every homosexual man is into sex parties. This is not a "homosexual thing" this is more your thing and men who are into this lifestyle. I notice straight males and flamboyant gay males are very alike. While masculine homosexual men, lesbian women and straight women are more different

  • @So.avant.garde1
    @So.avant.garde1 Жыл бұрын

    Interesting program… I’m not sure how I got here, but I’m glad I came…

  • @jeangenie1240
    @jeangenie1240 Жыл бұрын

    I wouldn't call this a fun watch, but it is interesting to hear your reaction to the experience, especially the notion of older people having sex.

  • @taylorclarkjohnson

    @taylorclarkjohnson

    11 ай бұрын

    Yeah... right? I'd call it interesting, but I wouldn't call the experience fun. It was... definitely one of those unique experiences that is just... unique... :D

  • @anti-lies2525
    @anti-lies2525 Жыл бұрын

    What do you think about weed and meditation combination??? For deepness

  • @taylorclarkjohnson

    @taylorclarkjohnson

    Жыл бұрын

    I think plant medicines, when used with intention, can be great ways to learn valuable lessons we wouldn't otherwise be able to learn. Weed and meditation can be a beautiful experience. I think plant medicine can help us go deeper into the experience of life... but I also believe that relying on plant medicines to experience the magic of life would be a problem. Lots of people do this, and I think they're actually creating problems for themselves.

  • @cooperwesley1536
    @cooperwesley15367 ай бұрын

    Here's a blindspot straight men have that I, as a gay man, don't understand: A lot of straight men love "open" relationships, group sex, threesomes with two women, etc, and a lot of them cheat without feeling much guilt... but very very few want a wife or partner who feels the same way. Can someone explain the hypocrisy behind that mindset?

  • @tochukwuifeanacho3843

    @tochukwuifeanacho3843

    5 ай бұрын

    Because of her getting pregnant and giving him a child that ain't his. Plus the commitment and investment they do put into such relationship

  • @janx8695

    @janx8695

    Ай бұрын

    As a female I was just thinking this to myself and then I read this comment. All my serious boyfriends have been very against any fantasy talk or possibility of a threesome with another man, but yet all are fine with the idea of another woman or lesbian fantasy talk(even though cautious at first in case I might be testing them)... I'm usually very selective about my partners and go for the stable nice guy types who are also monogamous and not up for any open relationship.. They have also been kinda insecure I guess. I used to wonder if they were just saying that because they thought I was testing them( some men tend to pussy foot around a females sometimes telling them what they want to here lol) but no matter how it was framed they were just very against it.

  • @janx8695

    @janx8695

    Ай бұрын

    @@tochukwuifeanacho3843 Apparently women are more jealous at the idea of their man having an emotional connection and intimacy with another woman and men tend to be more jealous of the idea of the girlfriend having physical intimacy like sex with another man. I also read that some gay men are more like women in this respect, even though they share many other sexual traits in common with straight men, such as interest in casual sex, arousal patterns and being more visually stimulated than emotionally. Gay men are female-typical in some traits and in others completely male-typical because some areas in their brains are similar to straight women, and lesbians have some similarities to straight men. Which makes them pretty diverse. It's like males and females brains are organised and developed differently by biological processes and evolution and different levels of exposure to prenatal hormones, but at certain times a gay male is exposed to less testosterone than a typical male so some brain circuits, structures and functions develop in a more female-typical direction and lesbians are exposed to higher levels of testosterone than a typical female and some of their brain circuits, structures and functions develop in a more male-typical direction.

  • @anderlucifer

    @anderlucifer

    53 минут бұрын

    ​@@janx8695 where did you heard this? This is false. Masculine homosexual men and feminine lesbian women exist. Also a flamboyant gay men and a feminine straight women are way different, they're femininity and their behavior is totally different. As a masculine homosexual man I notice this. Flamboyant gay males are still visual like men and their femininity is more like how a straight man will mock a woman - while straight women are more emotional, also visual but not as much and they're femininity is more "normal" can't find a word to explain it

  • @anderlucifer

    @anderlucifer

    50 минут бұрын

    The same reason straight males will date/marry bisexual women but are the same one who despise homosexual men and bi men and against same sex couples having equal rights. Straight males are known to be hypøcrites

  • @DRC85
    @DRC855 ай бұрын

    @17:30 that gave me quite a chuckle 🤣🤣🤣

  • @serinodiaz4140
    @serinodiaz4140 Жыл бұрын

    What is private intimate life with sex ? Is it just anything goes to show it all?

  • @roblouw3038
    @roblouw3038 Жыл бұрын

    thanks Taylor - yes, i think sex parties make us think about sex and love more deeply (scuze the pun) than would normally be the case and opens up many new paths of discovery or exploration - can be mindblowing, initially, but once the genie is out of the bottle....it's out -

  • @taylorclarkjohnson

    @taylorclarkjohnson

    Жыл бұрын

    Once the genie is out of the bottle, it is out indeed, but that doesn't mean it's not special anymore. Sex parties can definitely make us think more deeply about sex and love... and they can be a lot of fun too. And... they're not for everyone. Next week's episode is about the second sex party I went to... and I actually participated in the second one. I think you'll dig it.

  • @philparisi9175
    @philparisi91753 ай бұрын

    Kirtan is awesome, very freeing. Miss that a lot...more of a karmic yogi, bhakti is my edge.

  • @peggymoncrief386
    @peggymoncrief3865 ай бұрын

    OMG…laughing out loud! I am a 77yr old married woman who is a swinger, with her 83 yr old husband! We love swinging ….it is a gift of love we give to each other. Swinging is nothing but good, fun sex with different people! No one is better or worse than another..just different! Every person makes love differently, so it’s fun experience. My husband and I are madly in love and have wonderful sex at least once, sometimes twice a day with each other! We have absolutely no secrets and are always aware of where and who the other is with! We prefer to entertain a couple in our home, where we can take our time with our swing partner for a more intimate experience, over big parties. Perhaps age brings the wisdom that sex can be fun and not necessarily a romantic encounter! Most of our partners are 60 and over!

  • @thatsilyasse1
    @thatsilyasse1 Жыл бұрын

    I was doing nofap for months now maybe i master just 1 or 2 in one month thank you bro 🙏❤️

  • @taylorclarkjohnson

    @taylorclarkjohnson

    Жыл бұрын

    1 or 2 what? I'm happy something here is helpful, but I'm not understanding your comment here?

  • @davidwoodford1814
    @davidwoodford18146 ай бұрын

    Interesting.

  • @wrdv49
    @wrdv49 Жыл бұрын

    I think these people were just regular swingers!!

  • @maximilianc9897
    @maximilianc98976 ай бұрын

    It’s strange how people could mix up tantric sessions by adding Indian music with proper tantric connections. Your experience sounds more like a swingers party.

  • @genocanabicea5779
    @genocanabicea5779 Жыл бұрын

    Your first?...that means there were more.

  • @taylorclarkjohnson

    @taylorclarkjohnson

    Жыл бұрын

    There have been more indeed! I didn't participate in this one... but in the episode coming out next week, you'll hear about how I participated when I went to my second sex party. :D

  • @richarddaniels8353
    @richarddaniels835310 ай бұрын

    2 doll2 dollars my ass

  • @michaelhaskins122
    @michaelhaskins1224 ай бұрын

    Don't want to be critical and I am hearing impaired, but to me it's very annoying to have the instruments playing while you are relaying your experience.

  • @DAMION888
    @DAMION888 Жыл бұрын

    You're so far out 😊

  • @taylorclarkjohnson

    @taylorclarkjohnson

    Жыл бұрын

    Ha! Life is far out... and I'm trying to live fully. :D

  • @brettedgar6733
    @brettedgar673310 ай бұрын

    THESE THINGS WILL BE A THING OF THE PAST. IT HELPS YOU MAKE IT TO THE DOCTORS OFFICE, OR E.R.

  • @alphotheone
    @alphotheone11 ай бұрын

    Please STOP calling sex, LOVE, it is all about pleasure. We are mammals, and copulation has to do with procreation only, check out the animal kingdom, for the most part. Yes, there are exceptions, but it is truly interesting only man has debased, an experience for the spirit, (because it is a thing, only MAN can perceive that innate ability to translate abstract emotion (how the I feels) for the spirit. NO hate! This is just my peculiar take on being alive.

  • @Jesiah59

    @Jesiah59

    5 ай бұрын

    Brev wtf u on about

  • @Daoistify
    @Daoistify8 ай бұрын

    Group sex is like a combination of playing a sport while taking a bad drug. It is one step below boring masturbation. Been there, done that😵‍💫😏🤢

  • @educo8120
    @educo81208 ай бұрын

    Words can put a title to everything for me is a pervertive spiritual level expirience. Anyone can use your temple

  • @andreasofchrist8777
    @andreasofchrist877711 ай бұрын

    i would love to speak to you personally through some kind of medium, like skype or discord, is that possible ? please my Friend.